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You make the classic mistake of projecting your own male arousal mechanism onto women. Men need two things to become aroused (meaning to get an erection and be able to use it): A woman who is attractive enough (a pretty fluid criteria that changes depending on how long it has been since you had sex or how many beers you've had). A woman who APPEARS willing. That's all! That's the magical combination it takes a man to get sufficiently aroused to perform sex. A man can find a woman attractive, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:39 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:24 AM
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Showing disrespect for society's rules that teach you that the only way to get sex is to through hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:21 AM
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I mean if you not horny enough to go out and try to get laid, then I don't what to tell you. Maybe try dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:52 PM
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I mean you can come with excuses for pretty much everything even going out of your house to go to the grocery store. What if a piano falls on my head? What if a car runs into me? What if I get robbed? What if the store doesn't have the item I need? What if my credit card gets rejected? What if, what if, what if.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:33 PM
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My original point was that women, just like men, absolutely do want to have a lot of sex...with someone who turns them on. Sorry that this flew way over your big, dense head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:25 PM
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Name one nice thing about Nice Guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:38 PM
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I'm sorry my analogy offended you that much as to use the r word. I will play with you though. The simple fact that make up, hair products and cosmetics are a multibillion dollar industry, that plastic surgery procedures such as fake boobs, bbl, lipo, Botox, lip injections, fillers and others exist, the fact that any mall is made up of 90% clothing and lingerie stores catering exclusively to women should be enough to debunk the nonsense that women don't want to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:37 PM
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The analogy has nothing to do with leagues. The analogy has to do with what you are turned on or aroused by. The same way you are not aroused by other men, although it will be relatively easy for you to get sex from them, the same way women aren't just aroused by men although they can get sex from them easily. Female arousal works differently from male arousal, hence why it seems like men are way hornier, blah blah blah. It's just different. Men by and large are attracted by body parts. We don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:47 PM
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You can do a very simple experiment. Go outside your house preferably on a crowded street, subway car or bar and scream at the top of your lungs "I will sleep with anyone who will have me". And sure enough at least one, probably quite homely dude will come out of the shadows and take you up on your proposal. See, men assume that for women getting laid is as easy as that. And it is! It is also just as easy for men to get laid. But men don't want the homely dude. They want an attractive woman who …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:36 PM
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How the heck will you know who you want to marry unless you test drive a bunch of dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:47 AM
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Yes, for example I get the ick if a woman has dirty, chipped nails or basically doesn't take care of her nails. Same goes for hair. Unless her hair is nice and shiny and not greasy and full of dandruff, I'm good. Other things include wet fish handshake, not sucking dick, acting like she's doing me a favor, stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:43 AM
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You can't control men but you certainly want to control women and what they feel attracted to? That makes so much sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:39 AM
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What if I told you that I have ended up fucking and been in relationships with women from all your scenarios: work, park and bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:37 AM
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Make sure your father has enough goats to get you a new husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:35 AM
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Jesus Christ dude, get therapy, get help. Something! Anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:34 AM
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Go out of your apartment and shout "I will sleep with anyone who will have me".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:33 AM
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I mean just because you bought into some fantasy world and it didn't turn out to be what reality is actually like, doesn't mean that reality is to blame. So what are you so bitter about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:12 PM
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Sex is disgusting and sinful, so save it only for the people you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:09 PM
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That's a great point! Every woman is different and how she responds can differ depending on the time of the e month and her hormonal cycle and it can change within the sex session itself. One one may be so sensitive that just blowing on her clit can make her go wild. Another you need to take a belt sander to that thing to get a reaction out her. There isn't one sex technique that works on every woman, unless that technique is open communication. I'm also sure a lot of women are overconfident tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:39 PM
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I don't, what do you want? We can't solve your problems. You seem resigned and defeated like a doomer. What else do you want? Why should total strangers expend energy trying to show you your irrational thoughts are indeed irrational? None of you guys want any real help. Whatever help is offered is immediately shot down. So people stop trying to help you and start making fun of you and mocking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:09 PM
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I mean for me the only women that exist are between 19 and 19 1/2 years of age and above 9/10. I don't even know that any other women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:37 AM
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You do understand that the only interactions with women that 99% of males on PPD have is through TikTok, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:30 AM
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So you mean men put themselves in the Friendzone by the way they behave?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:26 AM
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The fact that humanity has existed for hundreds of thousands of years and at one point we may have numbered as few as just a few thousand total population and nowadays we are 8 billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:23 AM
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Sure let's find someone else to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:43 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:57 AM
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I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:47 PM
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So when a woman finds a man, do you think there is a man out there that also finds a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:43 PM
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I've seen very plain men score higher caliber women by having an edgy, badboy esthetic about them. But since most average men want to desperately fit in wjth everyone else, they avoid anything that would set them apart from the herd of similar looking, plain, dresses in shades of green, grey and brown, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:40 PM
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Matches does not equal sex or successful relationships. You need to get out of this dating app delusional world. If apps actually worked so well for women, they would be outnumbered 3:1 by men. There would be way more women on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:57 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:14 PM
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Sex is free unless you count the cost of rubbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:10 PM
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A smart man would say "fix your product then", but since you didn't add that, I assume you are not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:09 PM
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Sex costs nothing except the cost of rubbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:07 PM
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Put 20 random women off the street in a room full of guys and guys will only want to talk to 2-3 of them tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:07 PM
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Anxiety, fear and lack of self esteem. To a t all men who have trouble with women deal with it using one single strategy....AVOIDANCE. They avoid anything that gives them anxiety or fear. The issue is that no woman wants to procreate with a coward. She doesn't want to pass down a coward's genes to her children. I mean of course on a subconscious, biological level. Pretty much all men who are sexless tend to self-isolate, stay home too much, never put themselves out there, prefer solitary hobbies…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:04 PM
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I don't know any guys who are really content with getting average women. That's just a fantasy that virgins or sex deprived men have because to them an average woman is better than their hand. Most men want the hottest women just like women want the hottest men. It's a question of what you CAN get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:58 PM
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Women don't mind it. They do like to complain about all the guys who hit it and quit it and don't stick around, but they won't stop going after these men. It's like guys complaining about bitches and flaky women, yet they keep dating them and spending money on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:10 PM
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I mean if a woman is not turned on by 50 guys who are her ideal guy, then something must be wrong with her and should go see a doctor. Maybe one of the 50 guys is a doctor as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:54 PM
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Didn't know there were so many prudes in this sub. No wonder they all tell you to never approach them. They are terrified of dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:40 PM
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I take Sonny Barger's advice. He talks about owning a rat bike, a bike that's stripped of everything unnecessary including a rear view mirror. So, never look in the rear view mirror. Maybe look to the side here and there, but focus on going forward. It's all that matters. One more thing to add. The one that got away is usually the "key holding goddess" fantasy. The woman you believe holds the key to all your happiness, then one who sex is the best in the world and only if you were with her all y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:38 PM
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I believe in the 2 point limit. If you are a 5, the highway you can realistically go for is 7 and that's if you have other things going for you - super fun, funny, dresses well, muscular, has money, etc.
/r/seduction14/09/23 02:30 PM
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Men could be having all the sex they want as well. Just go on the street and scream "I will have sex with anyone who wants me" and sure enough at least one homely looking guy will take you up on your offer. Now, of course, you are probably not aroused by homely looking men, the same way women are not aroused by any guy they come in contact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:40 AM
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Bro you are weird. You can deny your nature all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:49 AM
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On the contrary, red and black pill philosophies reduce attraction to a logical - be this equals getting pussy. If anything, blue pill says just be who you are, take it or leave it and some people will find you attractive and some won't. Nothing you can do about it or control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:46 AM
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So why aren't women having sex 24/7 with all kinds of men? Why aren't women tripping on dick the second they come out of the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:40 AM
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And Earth was created 3,000 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:29 AM
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If only every second person on earth had a vagina!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:40 PM
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Genetically/evolutionary speaking it benefits the human race to put a lot of penises in a lot of vaginas. Genetic variety leads to better immune systems, health outcomes, etc. A limited genetic pool leads to mental and health problems aka inbreeding. It's in our nature to seek variety. Both men and women. As a matter of fact, one of the reasons that women may have a harder time getting to orgasm is because they were designed to be fucked by several men one after then other until they all deposit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:38 PM
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And it started!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:25 PM
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You told them they have to have a sense of self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:13 PM
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See, you already lost 80% of men with that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:52 PM
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Women don't find 80% of men ugly. They just think of them as NPCs. But that's not because of some inherent hypergamy or extremely high standards. It's because the majority of men do everything in their power to fit in and blend in with the environment. Women tend to find men who stand out and live life on their terms much sexier.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:11 PM
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Of course being yourself is the best advice. When men balk at it is when they feel deep down that they are inadequate and full of shit. So being themselves would mean exposing their inadequacies and showing the world they are full of shit. So the first step is to start liking who you are so you feel no shame or reservations about being yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:09 PM
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I've found that the longer I talk to a woman the better I start looking to her. And once she pictures having sex with me in her mind, it's game over. Sometimes that happens pretty fast. Sometimes it takes a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:35 PM
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You think my wife would enjoy videos of me fucking other women in the ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:49 AM
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I would go as far as to say that a real man should go out to meet women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:03 PM
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The thing that makes him feel inferior are his own thoughts. I can play it out for you why it doesn't make sense for him to give up believing he is inferior. When he feels inferior, he doesn't have nearly as high expectations of himself as if he were to feel amazing. Other people will have low expectations for him too, since he is so inferior and inadequate. Telling himself he is inferior saves him from putting in work and effort. He can just wallow in his inferiority and never really try. Becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:02 PM
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It's impossible dating to be super easy for women but super hard for men. Who are these woman dating? Aliens? Large farm animals? No! They are dating men. So if you put two and two together, dating for women must be as easy as is dating for men. For every average woman who gets attention from average men, there is an average guy that ends up with her. For him, it's not hard. If every woman is taken, then it must be easy for those guys who are in relationships with these women. Do you see the log…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:51 PM
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Have you tried hanging out with guys who are uglier and shorter than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:48 PM
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https://www.nature.com/articles/s41380-022-01661-0 https://www.ucl.ac.uk/news/2022/jul/analysis-depression-probably-not-caused-chemical-imbalance-brain-new-study https://feelinggood.com/2017/12/12/do-depression-and-anxiety-result-from-a-chemical-imbalance-in-the-brain/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:28 PM
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What exactly do you gain by calling it a mental illness other than stigmatizing yourself even more? What of depression is not a result of what's wrong with you, but of what's right with you? And also if you insist it's a mental illness, did you know that the chemical imbalance theory of depression has been thoroughly debunked?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:11 PM
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Can you point out where I deny that depression is a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:55 PM
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I've popped a few anal cherries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:53 PM
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And here we have it! A woman's value is reduced to her vagina. The most valuable asset! And of course, a woman is completely incapable of sleeping with a man just because she feels like it. No, she must have absolutely no self respect for her to....make up her own mind about who to have sex with. Somehow that doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:50 PM
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What causes depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:44 PM
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Not true and I can prove it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:47 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:46 AM
-1

We can't choose what happens to us but we can choose how we feel about ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:30 AM
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Stop victimizing and infantilizing women. They are perfectly capable of taking accountability for themselves although all of society teaches them they are not responsible for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:52 AM
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Men conflate chasing with initiating. Chasing someone is when you believe they have something you NEED so you put yourself below them and try your darnest to get them interested. You need them more than they need you. Initiating is simply expressing your interest in someone because you are, well, attracted to them. Initiating confidently has nothing to do with chasing. Most guys can't differentiate the two, because they so desperately need female approval and validation that they can't comprehen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:51 AM
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I believe that if you want to have a successful sex life you should give up dating all together. Dating signals the woman that you have serious intentions for her and that automatically means putting sex on hold for the foreseeable future, although she may want to get laid more than anything. See, when a woman senses that a man presents himself as serious boyfriend material, her conditioning kicks in, telling her "you must play hard to get in order for him to take you seriously, my mom told me n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:36 AM
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While I agree with you on the brainwashing part, which affects women as well, but differently, I don't necessarily agree on the solution. See, you are correct that society has figured out long ago that it can harness things like shame and the promise of happiness to control men to its ends. Tell a man that the only way to be happy is to earn, own things, scale new peaks, have some something society wants out of him, like movie star looks, muscles or height and imply that if he doesn't have those…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:32 AM
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It sure is a huge factor. Not needing women to be happy doesn't mean you can't still go out and meet them. If you were a shut in and self isolated, did you expect naked women to bust your door open and have their way with you? I mean you can't be that naive and disingenuous can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:17 AM
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No shit Sherlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:55 AM
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I find the extract opposite. The easiest way to get casual sex is to be upfront that that's all she can expect from you and that you are not emotionally available. The second a woman thinks a guy is "relationship material", she puts sex on hold. That's because they are brainwashed to believe that any man worth pursuing as a boyfriend will reject them if they give it up to easily, so they feel the need to play hard to get. A guy who is whatever and not relationship material, she can fuck and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:57 AM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:00 PM
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Nice doesn't work in the long term because women figure out they can walk all over you and you will sit there and take it because you are such a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:55 AM
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Welcome to PPD, where men are terrified of being rejected for things they don't know in events that haven't even happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:52 AM
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They were doing okay. I think most of them had girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:48 AM
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You said yourself you are outgoing and want to meet people, yet refuse to go anywhere where there are people. You have special needs I guess. Good luck waiting for the world to accommodate you. Anyday now Biden will start sending single women your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:54 AM
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It's not biological at all. Women have as much of a drive to go harvest spent at certain times of the month as men have to fuck anything that moves. The biggest issue is actually a social conditioning that happens to adversely affect men much more than women, although it affects both, just differently. That issue is neediness. Neediness stems from The belief that you NEED romantic love to be happy and fulfilled and that if you don't have it, you must be a loser, miserable, sad and lonely. Lonely…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:49 AM
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You basically have two choices. Wait for the world to change so it can accommodate your special needs or change yourself so you can try thrive in this world. You don't have to be a rocket surgeon to figure out which one is the only viable optionz
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:43 AM
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Lol, good luck with that. Men who are scared of their own shadow and are so neurotic they can't even hire an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:39 AM
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They need to pay for good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:36 AM
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I was at a party last night in a bar full of beautiful Asian women. There more women than men. There weren't enough guys for all of them. I saw two girls fighting for the attention of one guy. Both of them were pretty attractive. So I don't know about the whole ugly women getting a ton of attention. Certainly not from the desirable guys unless those guys were super desperate, which happens to the best of us. I don't know that women are the gatekeepers of sex either. What are they keeping men fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:35 AM
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So you don't actually know any people in real life who make fun of you, you just read some posts on social media and extrapolate that this is how things are in real life? Have you actually spoken to a female outside of Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:39 PM
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They are not comparing a nerd playing video games to a hot drug addict. They are comparing the nerd to the guy who plays sport, socializes and is popular with everyone, who does shit with his life instead of being a little kid inhabiting the body of an adult. Women are attracted to MEN not boys. Even the drug addicts and criminals are living more of an exciting life than a guy playing vidya all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:37 PM
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Never said they were. But the reality is it's mostly men who have trouble getting women, hence my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:34 PM
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The second men stop paying attention to you you will be screeching to the end of the world about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:02 PM
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Oh my god those fucking assholes who are trying to fuck you! Arrest them all and line them up for the firing squad!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:45 PM
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That's not what desirability means at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:43 PM
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They have no issues getting men. You have issues getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:42 PM
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Did you just threaten me with incel terrorism?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:19 PM
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If there was a true battle of the sexes at any point in history, humanity would literally have not survived. It's impossible that there is a battle of the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:14 PM
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Well, other than being smart and really interrogating the person you are getting into a relationship before you decide to take the step, the only other thing is to never be afraid of losing someone. Once you are afraid of losing the other person, they get all the power and they can abuse you and take advantage of you all they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:10 PM
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I get a free cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:08 PM
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The interesting theme I've been seeing in this thread is that: A. Most men are resigned, they have given up before even going to battle B. By and large they consider themselves losers or severally deficient and wonder why anyone would want them. Anyone NOT see the problem right there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:07 PM
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You have never been to a mall or a shopping center? What do you think women do with 90% of their time but try on make up, clothes, shoes, do their hair, get waxed, get Botox? Women are so fucking far ahead of the average guy in terms of improving their looks it's not even funny. And it shows, because by most guys' admission, they'd fuck a good 60-80% of chicks out there, which shows that whatever women are doing is working just fine. But what men are doing doesn't seem to be working at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:06 PM
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You do understand that the majority of men in this discussion know about and communicate with women only on Reddit forums, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:00 PM
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There are services for these homeless people, but they choose not to participate in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:47 PM
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Of course. But it seems the men who complain are an infinitely number.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:08 AM
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Like what? What safety nets do they have that you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:06 AM
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I think you are way overestimating how much sexual power an average woman yields.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:26 AM
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I think they do because I see normal looking women with normal looking men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:11 AM
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I don't understand what you are trying to say. You are saying women are lazy and put up 0 effort and it's all on men? Okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:23 AM
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Good for you. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:22 AM
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As I said, you compare yourself to rich men around the world. Salty because you can't compete. You can't offer women anything compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:22 AM
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There wasn't sex out of marriage in the last 2,000 years? I may not be as smart as you say I think I am, but this must be dumbest take Ive ever heard. Adultery is so rare and unheard of that they had to make it a mortal sin in most religions, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:21 PM
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I don't know society has ever really been monogamous. Most people don't stay with the person they lost their virginity to. It's also been proven that sperm from multiple men will fight for who is the winner within a woman's uterus and the winner gets to impregnate the egg. Why would that be if we are meant to be monogamous? As if women are made to have way more sex with way more men than we would like to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:15 PM
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The market doesn't care about your feelings or skepticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:13 PM
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I agree, but that's part of making yourself more competitive as opposed to sabotaging yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:01 PM
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Is that you in your profile photo?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:58 PM
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Your reading comprehension is off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:46 PM
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Being well dressed and stylish, not dressing like a dork. Standing out in a good way. Knowing what they want, being able to take the lead confidently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:46 PM
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Men can benefit from acting more like cavemen. I know a lot of women actually want a guy who is tougher and takes what he wants (consensually of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:34 PM
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I'm not talking about a market where you buy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:29 PM
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If men have to compete with everyone in the world, so do women. We have access to the same stupid apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:29 PM
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They seem to think that complaining will solve their problem. I've done this experiment numerous times on dating app subs like r/Bumble or r/Hingeapp. Guys post profile review requests usually wjth a tag line: "haven't had a match in months, please help". I review a guys pathetic profile and provide feedback on stuff they need to fix to become more competitive. Usually how they dress, how they present themselves, haircut, facial hair, how they compose their photos. Usually my advice is met wjth …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:13 PM
9

So a woman can change her face, her figure and her curves, but a man can't cha he anything about himself? Somehow even if I was high as a kite and dumb as a rock this wouldn't make any sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:12 PM
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Well, in previous generations a woman may have been under great pressure by her parents to find a "doctor or a lawyer who will take care" of her. But as women are now out earning men and getting more educated, they figured they can provide their own security just fine. So before a woman may have ended up with the lawyer, although she secretly wanted to fuck the pool boy or the biker who lives down the block. But she had to succumb to family and social pressure and end up with a man who could gua…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:11 PM
0

80% of men ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:05 PM
0

Those evil wimminz with their attitudes keeping us away from that sweet pussie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:23 PM
9

They will take an average woman as a consolation prize aka settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:15 PM
1

Well if something is so appalling in your personality that even you don't find it appealing, then change it. But most men stand to ask themselves why do their friends and family like them and are willing to forgive or overlook their flaws, but they are not willing to accept themselves and overlook their own flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:05 PM
4

Natural t optimization is for pussies who don't want to put a syringe in their ass. I have no such qualms and now feel 10 years younger (I'm 42) and I am the lowest bf % I've been in many years (13.3%), and my most muscular. My erections are rock solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:10 PM
2

Contrary to popular belief on PPD, if you take 20 random women off the street and 20 random men, there might be only 1-3 girls that all the men will want to talk to. And vice versa really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:06 PM
-2

This is not a black pill sub. You are welcome to fuck off to one that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:02 PM
1

You are actually not limited at all. All it takes is to turn your attention inwardly and start liking the person who wears your clothes and sleeps in your bed and stares at you from the mirror. I've never met men who genuinely like themselves and are not ashamed of anything about them that are having trouble getting girlfriends. They may not all date super models, but they are getting female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:56 PM
1

That's not the point. Women can easily be independent and not need men for mere survival. Which means that men have to come up with something different to offer than providing and commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:22 PM
5

Men are having a problem because for untold eons they were brainwashed into thinking that their sexual value equals the security they can provide a woman with. And women were told that they should only give their sex to men who will provide them with security (commitment, money, goods, favors) etc. Women never found these guys necessarily arousing, but they went along with it because that's what their parents and their parents parents and their parents parents and all of society tells them they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:53 PM
1

This video explains all you need to know: https://youtu.be/LB2_8Hx28UY?si=2Alrdx-mCfCtHMUN
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:44 PM
0

Now imagine that you meet a man who you can feel confident in. He knows how to talk to you, he knows how to make the next move, lead you on an adventure you would enjoy. You don't have to second guess him, you don't have to sit there and be like "jeez is he going to make a move", who knows how to put you at ease, etc. That's what confidence in a man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:23 PM
0

No, I mean have you ever felt confident in a person. That this person know what they are doing and you trust them to lead you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:15 PM
-2

I don't need to be friends with anyone. I come to this sub and 99.99999% of you have lower self esteem than the Mariana Trench.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:58 AM
4

My brother in Christ, you are violating rule #1: WHO CARES WHAT WOMEN SAY OR THINK
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:57 AM
0

Do you know what it means to feel confident in someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:54 AM
2

Absolutely not! People are inherently worthless!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:54 AM
2

No, and that's the entire point of the dual mating strategy. An alpha male has desirable DNA but he's not the sticking around, emotionally available kind. Hence why a woman may get preggers by an alpha and then find a beta to play house with to raise the baby. I'm sure alphas do get monogamous and they probably end up hating it because there is nothing that kills male libido like fucking the same woman. Sorry ladies, that's nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:53 AM
1

They go to male escorts to get the job done that their hubby couldn't do. Namely fuck their brains out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:51 AM
11

I've never met more miserable people than parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:41 AM
-4

Welcome to PPD!'must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:40 AM
0

Of course men don't hate make up or tastefully done plastic surgery. It's the same story with women who hate "bodybuilders" but when you ask them to show you what they mean they always point out roided out monsters and not guys who worked out for 5 years and lives on chicken and broccoli.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:39 AM
0

Absolutely not true. Most men I've met suffer under delusions of inadequacy, and that's way more common then suffering from delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:35 AM
1

You should spend more time liking and loving yourselves if you want anyone else to like you and love you. Despite your protestations against the contrary, you guys are okay. You are fine. There is nothing wrong with you. But when you believe something is wrong with you, then that make it real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:02 AM
2

I assume she is doing it for me and also gets off on being watched. So do I. I dress flashily and sexy and enjoy women eye fucking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:33 PM
-3

The woman in the 4 year relationship is worse because she's learned to get off one man. The girl with the 40 partners learned to successfully delight 40 men. Chances are she will better at see than the other one. Hopefully, she had a lot of returnees and lot guys who ran off after they hit it a couple of times. Same way that a man should never take pride in having a hunch of one night stands, because if no one returned for seconds, thirds and hundreds, they are likely really lousy in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:32 PM
1

Men need to learn how to feel good about themselves. That's the only thing in life that matters. If you want to waste your mental energies feeling jealous over something you never had any control over that's your business. Just remember that a woman has every right to give her vagina to another man, woman or large farm animal whenever she wants. You never owned that vagina so not sure what there is to be jealous about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:37 PM
0

I think they are so scared of women that even seeing an escort will give them anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:09 PM
1

Well, and herein lies your problem. If you let other people order you around like a lil bitch, then women will definitely not be interested on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:34 PM
1

So if they are unable to attract a man of enough stature to secure their future, then they are worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:32 PM
4

The young stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:03 AM
12

Maybe I'm reading into it but it sounds like OPs assumption is that those women should have gotten a man already and what's wrong with them that they haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:00 AM
8

That's the underlying assumption in this post. "She's nearly 40, why hasn't she snagged herself a man of proper stature and thick of wallet, what is wrong with her? She just be damaged goods, past her expiration date."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:58 AM
1

You are right women only meet men they have met before sleep with men they have slept with before and get into relationships with men they have been in relationships with before. No one that you know has ever been a stranger to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:54 AM
1

The advice not to approach coming from women is just about as valuable as the "don't have sex with more than 3 men if you want to be wife's up" advice coming from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:53 AM
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Hey, maybe I'm crazy and also old, but maybe it's time to stop reducing women's value down to their ability to catch a man who is willing to provide their security.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:50 AM
1

Initiating is not even remotely the same as chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:43 AM
1

I think the only relationships that work is where the woman initiated and pursued. It's also the only relationships I'm willing to have with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:57 PM
0

It's hard to get a man to understand something when his job depends on him not understanding it. Have you heard this quite? It applies to those 99%, because they hear what they want to hear. They want to hear that it's not their fault, they are not to blame, they can't do anything about it so might as well just complain and blame someone else (evil wimminz, Chad, etc.). Their comfort depends on them not understanding this concept. Once you truly grasp it, then dating becomes a whole another ball…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:35 PM
1

It goes both ways. The one who loves least is the one who has all the power. So typically in a relationship, one person loves more than the other. That person has less power and so it is preferable that this person is the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:10 PM
1

I don't think that's true. Women have a dual mating strategy. When they are in "estrus", which for human females is hidden, ie it's not advertised, like apes who get big bright buttocks for example, they will seek out the so called alpha male. A male who has the masculine traits she wants to be passed down to her children. Such as lack of fear, high testosterone, ability to lead, etc. This of course is subconscious and a woman doesn't need to consciously want to get pregnant to seek out men like…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:08 PM
0

Same. There is a lot of brainwashing bs on this list, but it is stuff men do BELIEVE to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:03 PM
2

It's pretty clear it's because he's shorter than she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:55 PM
2

Not my problem that you are not interested in how to be more interesting to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:46 PM
5

I wish those guys would read a romance novel or two. Literally all the plots are the same. Beautiful woman meets a scoundrel/savage/asshole type of a guy. They bump heads and hate each other almost instantly. Yet, she can't stop thinking about him for some reason and he pops up in her fantasies uninvited. Then they meet again and fall for each other. But just when we think it's all good and they will live happily ever after, something happens. He cheats on her, his ex comes back on the picture, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:08 AM
2

Why are you even trying? That commenter is one of the "I've tried everything and still couldn't get laid". "Well, what exactly did you try". "I made a dating app profile and it hasn't worked". "What else did you try?". "I tried making a profile on a different app". "Okay and what else?". "I made a profile on a third app". It's the same story over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:59 AM
1

I would go as far as saying that the concept of romantic love is completely made up and fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:17 AM
1

You are just giving too much value to female approval and pussy. Literally you are the one that decides they have so much power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:45 PM
1

He equates not being needy wjth checking out of the game, which is not at all what is meant by learning to not need women to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:25 PM
4

And that's your problem right there. You don't even see any purpose in living your life if it's not getting you closer to pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:48 PM
0

Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:44 PM
1

You are going to have to wait a very long time my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:44 PM
-1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:07 PM
3

That's exactly the point I've been trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:05 PM
-1

You equate not chasing with being passive/do nothing bitch. This couldn't be further from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:02 PM
2

Men always have this all or nothing thinking that gets them in trouble. They imagine that the opposite of desperately trying to get a woman to go out on a date with them translates to "sit at home and jerk off or if you do go out, sit in a dark corner clutching a beer to your chest and not talking to anyone".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:01 PM
-1

They found someone when they least expected it because they weren't sending out needy, desperate vibes to anyone who cares to listen. The ForeverAlone subs are like a gathering of fat people who encourage each other to never diet or lose weight ever by telling each other how impossible it is to be thin, as if no one has ever done it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:58 PM
0

That they do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:54 PM
-5

And it flew over your head like it does for 99% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:47 PM
2

You said you tried it and it didn't work for you. I assume that ing laid back and not chasing for you mean just stay home or hide on the corner clutching a beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:46 PM
2

Because a non-needy person who is confident in his desirability is inherently attractive to women. By chasing them, he is saying "You have something I need, I have no inherent value, take me, I can't even stand myself". Successful people rarely chase. They initiate, make moves, engage with others, but they do not chase because they do not need the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:29 PM
1

How many times has chasing worked for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:23 PM
0

Are you pulling this out of your ass or out of your pee hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:20 PM
-4

As I said it flew over your head like it does for 99% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:19 PM
0

It's astonishing to me that you think women are the prize and not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:18 PM
3

Lol true hahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:12 PM
2

Women already initiate and approach. They don't come up to guys and say "hey hot stuff let's get out of here", but they will look at you, smile, hover, make excuses to talk to you, dance in your line of sight, etc. The bigger problem here is that you are advocating for men abdicating from their duties. A man who is scared to make a move means that he has no balls. And therefore he is of no interest to any woman. Instead of finding excuses, embrace your duty to lead and make decisions and life wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:11 PM
1

There is a method to the madness and a philosophy behind this piece of advice but it goes over the head of 99% of men. Just like "just be yourself". Awesome advice, but needs to be unpacked. What everyone is telling you is to stop being so needy and chase after others like they have something that you need and that will make you happy and complete. Needy people who are constantly chasing never get anyone because their neediness pushes others away. It's as simple as that. The second you stop chas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:02 PM
2

The hardest woman to get is the one who is hot and knows it. The best are those who are hot and don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:45 PM
0

It's not the origin you need to figure out but the core assumption or self defeating belief that you need to get to. Then tackle that. All of these problems come from the exact same place. It's us misinterpreting something that happened to us on childhood and believing we caused it. The exact origin is unimportant. You just have to let go of blame because when you formed your self defeating belief, you were too young to know better and didn't have the tools to fight back. So you are absolved of …
/r/seduction06/09/23 10:39 AM
11

Do this exercise. It's called Meet Yourself. Imagine you meet a guy who looks exactly like you, dresses exactly like you, talks and behaves exactly like you. Has the exact same past as you. Just a different name. He's called Bob or whatever. Do you think you will be best friends? Do you like him? Is there anything about him that you find annoying? What if you guys hang out and he starts bashing your favorite band, would you continue to be friends? Now if you find his behavior annoying and inappr…
/r/seduction06/09/23 01:59 AM
1

Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:43 AM
0

In another thread men claimed that prisoners and ex cons get laid the most and gather the most children of all. I have yet to meet wealthy ex cons with high status and good social standing. You guys need to get your stories straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:15 AM
1

Most women are desperate for a masculine presence in their lives, whether a cis male or a masculine female, who will take on the leadership role and will make all decisions for the two of them. That is what it means to be a man, to make decisions decisively and confidently that the two of you will enjoy the outcome of your decision. Then it doesn't matter how much money the man makes or what kind of car he drives. Hell, the woman will hide the keys to her fancy car over to him just so he can tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:14 AM
1

So violent criminals are now considered top men? By whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:58 PM
1

So deadbeat criminals, drug addicts and club promoters are top tier? Okay buddy. Somethings really wrong with your value system.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:47 PM
2

So women aren't all that picky otherwise they'd all pick the 6'5" white billionaires to procreate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:29 PM
1

Yey, your uncle touched you as a kid. Ok. Great! You can't change that so what does it help knowing where it came from. You fix your problems now and grow. Don't dwell on where your problems originated from, etc.
/r/seduction05/09/23 06:24 PM
3

There are plenty handsome non losers. Many of those guys are guys like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:16 PM
1

They sure are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:15 PM
1

I don't understand what any of that has to do with analyzing your problems?
/r/seduction05/09/23 06:13 PM
-1

Self analysis is useless. You just discover that you have even more problems than you think you did.
/r/seduction05/09/23 05:21 PM
3

Just because women have high self esteem doesn't mean that they are taking away from your ability to have high self esteem. That's on you buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:57 PM
2

A man is a nobody only if he believes he is a nobody and acts like he's a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:11 PM
39

Isn't this great news for you guys who think you need to be Prince Handsome and be perfect in every way in order to get a woman interested? See, female pickiness is a myth. Women pick total scumbags and losers to have sex with. So there is hope even for guys like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:10 PM
2

That's a lot of mumbo jumbo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:25 AM
2

Self improvement is a misnomer. It's not clear that there is a self that needs to be improved in the first place. And also the phrase presupposes that you are not good enough as you are and your self needs improvement. It's much more helpful and accurate to say that you need to improve your dating skills, such as dressing and grooming in a more sexy and attractive way. Learning to flirt better or becoming more outgoing and less self conscious. Also learning how to play the game better and not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:58 AM
2

Bro, nobody can give you self esteem but you. Stop looking. Stop hoping. Just accept this truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:06 AM
2

Any why are the people who receive the most social confirmation still so fucking insecure? You can't even follow your own weird rules my dude. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:58 AM
1

Lay off the booze and pot my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:55 AM
2

Being needy for validation makes you not easy to manipulate? This is the dumbest shit I've hear on this sub. You take the prize for dumb comment of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:37 AM
1

Attention for women is like air for a drowning person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:54 PM
2

Dead bedrooms are caused because our biology's propels us to look for new genetic makeups to procreate with. That's what turns us on. A husband can be attracted to his beautiful wife and still not want to fuck her because he's been there, done that and if she would have gotten preggers, she would have by now. So time to move on. Study how bulls inseminate cows. They will go and fuck every single cow in the herd before going back to the first one and starting the cycle again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:54 PM
-2

Yes. It can probably help for a little bit but at the end of the day new ass is the best ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:49 PM
1

I have no problem going through the motions necessary to make a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:48 PM
3

Not only that, but men are so fucking desperate for validation and approval it's pathetic. You validate yourself through taking action. Doing shit. Wanting to hang around and be told you are pretty is the ultimate feminine trait. As someone else said. If they want validation so badly, just open a Grindr account.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:40 PM
3

Nobody can give you self esteem. Nobody can make you happy but you. If women really had such high self esteem they wouldn't need to parade half naked for attention. Once would be enough. But it never is. Because the high only lasts minutes, hours at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:03 PM
6

This sub seems to be full of men who secretly want to be women. Save your money and go to Thailand. I hear the surgeries are pretty cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:54 PM
2

The scariest thing that can happen to a woman is to get old. Women are hysterically afraid of aging. Older men getting together with young, vibrant sexy women is just another nail in the coffin for them. I don't say this to be mean or cruel. It's just the reality. Like it is the reality that women will mostly go for specific type of guy, who is powerful and respected. One guy gets many girls while the others starve or get by on scraps. These are just immutable truths. Sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:07 AM
1

My wife is an year older than me, but most of the woman who are constantly checking me out are about half my age. I'd have no problem dating them, even younger. Age gaps are not rare neither are women who find older men attractive. As a matter of fact, it is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:05 AM
0

That's sad to hear but you should probably communicate those things upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:41 AM
1

My point exactly. But they seem to be dead set on men just knowing what their body likes just by looking at them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:40 AM
0

Again, did the girl beat up his friend or did she mind control the roided out bouncer to beat him up? How exactly did she do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:15 AM
1

Have you told them you didn't orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:39 PM
0

Women have been taught that if they aren't getting off, they should just fake it. Which results in armies of men high fiving each other thinking they are sex gods. "You should have heard her scream and toss around last night. My dick game is on point bro. I mean, yeah, she hasn't responded to any of my messages, but that's probably because she's ashamed of sleeping with a guy so quickly".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:32 PM
2

Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:30 PM
2

Yet escorts exist. There are even subs dedicated to Johns. Nobody is stopping you from doing whatever the fuck you want wjth your money and time. Stop acting like a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:37 PM
2

It's always a mix of nature and nurture. Most people including women and men are followers. They need to be told what to find attractive. When I was a kid in the 80's, the hottest men wore big hair, had more make up then your mom and worked skin tight leopard print tights. Women with big hair and leg warmers were considered hot. In the 90s women with huge boobs and no ass were considered hot. In the 2000s, skinny, cocaine chic model types were considered hot. Nowadays it's the big ass tiny waist…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:34 PM
1

There are way too many mother fuckers already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:30 PM
1

Just because society is coddling women doesn't mean that their problems are all of a sudden solved. A dumb bitch is still a dumb bitch even is society tells her she's a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:29 PM
1

Telling her calmly and without anger not to do something you dislike again unless she doesn't want to ever see you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:27 PM
-3

Watch 99% of men here come up with any excuse possible to rationalize their fear of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:26 PM
-2

So your friend gets assaulted by a roided male bouncer but it's the woman who caused it? Does she mind control the male bouncer?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:25 PM
1

I've never seen someone who hates themselves or despises the other gender to have much success in dating. People absolutely do pick up on the hostility. Usually people who despise others really despise themselves first and foremost and that comes across in everything they do. They can't really hide it as well as they think they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:18 PM
1

They are. Nobody is stopping men from going there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:16 PM
1

Unfortunately, the orgasm gap is something women actively contribute to with their inability to communicate. Whenever a guy has sex with a girl and then goes to his friends and says "oh man, I gave her like 5 orgasms, she was screaming and tossing around on the bed, it was awesome. She hasn't responded to any of my messages for a week but I'm sure it's because she just felt like a slut and had buyer's remorse" what they fail to realize is that the woman almost certainly faked her five orgasms an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:11 PM
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This is actually a fantastic question and discussion. Here is my take on it. I got started in the approaching/pu scene in the very early 2000s when it was mostly guys on Internet forums exchanging pickup lines and simple strategies to talk to women and take them home. That's before all the weirdos started invading that scene and making it more complicated than it was. I found that although I had overcome my shyness, I was actually getting less interest from women then before I discovered that st…
/r/seduction01/09/23 01:26 PM
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Whenever men disagree with your statement, I tell them to go to one of the multiple dating advice subs on Reddit. Virtually every other post is a variation of: "Met this girl, talked to her for weeks, her texting has slowed down a lot, I asked her out three times, she blew me off twice and flaked the third time because her mom's sisters' cousin's friend got into a car crash just as she was leaving for our date. Now she's left me on read for a week. Guys, how do I get this girl back? Please pleas…
/r/seduction01/09/23 12:48 PM
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It's a very simple rule but it holds true in every situation like the laws of gravity: People never want this which they can get. And people always want this which they cannot get. If men really understood this rule, their dating lives would be transformed. But instead they come on subs like this or go to watch pick up videos and it's all about how to pursue the woman, how to get her to like you, how to get her to go home with you, pursue, pursue, pursue. No wonder all these men have so much tro…
/r/seduction01/09/23 12:45 PM
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I don't think simping means what you think it means.
/r/seduction31/08/23 12:44 AM
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Typically men tend to self isolate and that compounds whatever problems they have with socializing and dating. Self isolation is just another way to stay in the nursery...where it's nice and warm and safe and it doesn't spike your anxiety and fear. Unfortunately, that's what boys do. Not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:13 PM
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There is not enough 6'5" white billionaires who will survive so much sex and subsequent texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:57 PM
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There aren't enough 6'5" white billionaires for all the women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:36 PM
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Be my guest. More for me. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:03 PM
1

The fastest way to kill someone's libido is to get into an exclusive monogamous relationship. Humans were crated to crave variety of sexual partners. Lots of penises in lots of vaginas. New ass is the best ass. It's sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:03 AM
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Oh yeah, the famed Japanese dating culture, where people date and have sex so much they are worldwide known about it. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:48 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:03 AM
2

Looking for anything but taking action
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:50 PM
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People are unhappy over a lot of things and even end their lives over those things. Not all of them have to do with being lonely. As a matter of fact, suicide victims are often very loved and cherished by family and friends. I'm making the point that the suffering of loneliness is largely self inflicted and then passed off as an intrinsic need that is not being fulfilled. I'm not telling people to not pursue relationships and sex. But I've never met anyone who has needed love and been able to su…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:17 PM
1

So you want to get relationship advice from fellow virgins? Is your neighborhood cat your doctor? Or a homeless guy your car mechanic? Am I taking crazy pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:15 PM
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People are unhappy over a lot of things. Someone may be unhappy because their home remodeling job was botched. Someone might be unhappy that they can't find their size shoes on sale. People are unhappy over how Game of Thrones ended. Are any of those things intrinsic needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:10 PM
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You keep saying "intrinsic need" as if this is some sort of a scientific concept beyond reproach. I'm still waiting for you to prove how exactly is it a need. Do you die if you don't get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:05 PM
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Let's just agree do disagree. Trying to not appear needy is the same as putting cologne on a stinky diaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:03 PM
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So just because I lost my virginity early on, my advice is invalid? I see. Your aggressive and hostile attitude is certainly not winning you any friends or...surprise...girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:02 PM
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Okay, so if I told you that guys who feel lacking and unhappy and worthless because they don't have a partner, find it much harder to get interest from women, would that be motivation enough to change your belief? Can you prove people are authentically happy because they are in a relationship? Can you prove that people are never unhappy as long as they are loved? Do you know that for someone to get divorced they have to be married first or that most suicide victims are indeed very much loved and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:01 PM
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You are saying you cannot be fully happy alone and that you can only achieve Nirvana by being with someone. So why haven't all these married and divorced people achieved Nirvana?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:53 PM
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Okay. So do you want to do what actually works OR do you want to keep defending your existing beliefs that are 100% unhelpful and ineffective?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:52 PM
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Not being needy is exactly being happy alone. That's the point of not being needy. It's in the ducking name "NEEDy", meaning to need someone to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:52 PM
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So all coupled people are happy? You don't know any married or coupled people who are unhappy and lonely in their relationships? How exactly does the 60% divorce rate happen if people are so fulfilled in their relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:49 PM
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What's the use of giving you advice when all you do is shoot it down?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:48 PM
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So you are universal arbiter of what's cool and fulfilling? Oh my, I didn't know. Can I take a peek at your credentials?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:47 PM
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You've hit it right on the nail. Needy people always force others to reject them. Because they see others as a prize or a trophy to chase, they tend to put the objects of their pursuit in an uncomfortable position. The object knows that the needy person wants to get something out of them and therefore they reject the person, because no one wants to be taken from. Needy people often end up emotionally sucking their partners until there is little left.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:46 PM
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There may be nothing wrong with needing a romantic partner to be happy, but it is perhaps the least effective strategy for actually getting one. So the question is: do we do what works OR do we continue to mentally masturbate over semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:43 PM
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It sounds like you are a lonely guy. So has your intense neediness and desperation ever helped you get the loving relationship that you so desperately need?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:40 PM
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Serious question? Has your intense need for a partner actually gotten you a good partner? I mean if it did you probably wouldn't be making this post but rather would be enjoying her loving embrace, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:38 PM
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You are thinking in All or Nothing terms. Meaning you are thinking in extremes and absolutes. You are either happy being single so you never seek a woman ever again OR you are unhappy and needy and you spend all your free time pursuing a relationship. The idea behind learning to be happy single and not be afraid to be alone is that it makes you independent and non-needy. Needy and desperate people who feel worthless without a relationship are actually the last people to get into one. They put th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:21 PM
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Women have been trained to crave security the way men have been trained to crave approval. Commitment from a man is a form of security. So is a man who is willing to give her financial benefits, such as taking her to dinner, paying off her rent, hiring a babysitter for her kid, etc. There are men who offer neither commitment nor financial incentives and they happen to get laid more than all other combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:13 PM
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Bro, Croatian party island. What do you think girls go there for? To have long romantic walks on the beach?
/r/seduction29/08/23 01:21 PM
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I'm okay with everything as long as it is: Consensual Does not involve underage individuals or animals Your fetish/kink doesn't negatively involve or impact other people who are non-consenting to be a part of it. An example of this may be a guy who brings his slave girlfriend on a leash on all fours to a restaurant and feeds her under the table like a dog. Fine if you do it at home, but when in public, other people are affected by your kink and that's not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:43 AM
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The only time it is OK to "confess" to girls is when you are 13 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:40 AM
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If you look for problems you will find some. Even the best looking tallest guy in the world can look for flaws in himself and he will find some. Once he starts believing it it becomes truly real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:58 PM
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Yeah, that's certainly one of the biggest issues. But also general lack of attractive grooming. Most of their clothes are boring and in shades of green, brown and grey (colors of camouflage, blending in). They could fix a lot of some good haircuts, sexy clothes, changes to their grooming style (grooming facial hair, eyebrows, getting rid of unibrow, etc). Most men resist these things like the devil resists holy water.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:48 PM
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I have a homework exercise for anyone who is interested. Go to dating app subs such as r/Bumble or r/Hingeapp. They usually have a weekly profile review thread. The posters are 99% men. Look through their profiles and tell me what you see in common with all guys who struggle? You have to train your eye for this stuff, but it will eventually become pretty apparent. The saddest part of all is that most of these guys can be easily helped with some proper grooming, some changes to how they style the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:31 PM
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Sure, but you still get all those luxury things because you want them. But you do so on your terms instead of because you are afraid you will be unhappy and inadequate without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:29 PM
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Do you need an iPhone, do you need air conditioning, so you need new clothes every year? So you need TV, sports entertainment, going to to restaurants?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:04 PM
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The point of not being dependent on others for your happiness is that it is easier to be independent. It doesn't matter if you have a partner or not, you can be happy and fulfilled. People who are dependent on others for their happiness are also largely unhappy or their happiness is always under someone else's control. An independent person can do whatever they want and if a relationship is not working out for them, they choose to end it. Dependent people stay in bad relationships all the time b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:20 PM
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You don't need women for validation and if we have to be honest, you can also jerk off and be fine with it. The biggest trap both men and women fall into (although it affects men more), is the adopting the mistaken belief that they cannot be happy and fulfilled without a partner. They tell themselves things such as "Single and sexless people are worthless, all I want is to have a girlfriend and all my problems will go away, why bother doing anything enjoyable if I can't do it with someone who lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:07 PM
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I think this is very simply explained by the fact that any woman who is perceived as single is immediately branded unsuccessful in the eyes of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:54 AM
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There are two forces at hand here. Trust/comfort AND Excitement (novelty). To get a woman in bed you need her to trust you and feel comfortable with you. Much easier when she knows you through her social circle. At the same time, read any romance novel and they are all about a hot, steamy stranger that at first appals her with his brutish behavior, yet she can't stop thinking about him. Biologically, females are wired to seek out genes that are different than the familiar genes they have grown u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:39 AM
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Wow, it sounds like it works spectacularly! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:31 AM
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Thanks for your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:21 PM
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Exactly. Both are just theories. One is more useful than the other in my opinion. Considering sex and love a need has not helped me one bit in obtaining them. The less I care about those things, the easier they come to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:18 PM
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Humanity has existed for hundreds of thousands of years. Wealth accumulation was not really possible until about 10,000 years ago when we had the agricultural revolution. So for the biggest part of humanity's existence, women could simply choose from a guy who had a couple more furs or pieces of dry meat than the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:19 PM
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Because we have trained women since a young age to basically behave like pets - zero accountability, which necessitates that we tell them they have no agency over themselves. Yet, here is how it plays out. An 18 year old opens an OF account and posts videos of stuffing dildos up her twat. She's an EMPOWERED WOMAN. But an 18 year old dates a 40 year old man? Burn him, burn him at the stake, he's a child molester, the female brain doesn't even develop fully until she's is 62.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:16 PM
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Here is a good article on the subject: https://feelinggood.com/2018/04/01/whats-the-meaning-and-purpose-of-my-life/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:35 PM
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So sex is a primary need for you to feel happy and fulfilled. You could have used way less words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:15 PM
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Is there some kind of a scientific bearing? I mean it's one guys interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:07 PM
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Well, you need stuff like oxygen, food, water and shelter to live however long. Sex, you don't need to live. At best it's a nice to have, icing on the cake. I'm asking people who believe sex is like air, if it has ever actually helped them obtain it. Because from what I see, the needier the person is, the less likely it is for anyone to want them. Like, if you need love or sex to feel worthwhile, you are essentially saying "I'm worthless, I have no inherent value, I can't even stand self" and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:48 PM
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I asked if intensely desiring and needing love in order to not feel miserable has ever worked for you. It doesn't sound like it has. I've never seen someone who has needed other people's love to be happy actually successfully find love. They may find someone who is willing to use them, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:45 PM
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So do you tell yourself that unless you always have delicious food you are bound to be miserable and depressed that life is not worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:19 PM
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So not really an effective strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:19 PM
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I don't understand what that has to do with being needy and desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:18 PM
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Yes. But you are veering off. My question in the OP was whether neediness has worked to get you love and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:34 PM
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How would you describe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:05 PM
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I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:58 PM
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Ah, so it's really womens responsibility for men falling short?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:20 PM
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Hey baby, take it up with god or Mother Nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:54 PM
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Thankfully, I have no interest in learning what women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:54 PM
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Ahhh! So what do we do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:45 PM
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But that means that the woman doesn't really have all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:41 PM
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Ok, apologies, I assume you were playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:32 PM
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None of it makes sense. If women have all the power and choice with men they would never settle for an unattractive guy. I can't believe I have to actually explain this to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:15 PM
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Women simultaneously can get sex from the hottest Chad, never be in need or want for dick or a boyfriend, never have to do anything in order to be asked out by top 20% guys YET they settle with an unattractive guy, tolerate dead bedrooms and are forced to work for a living. These are just some of the "arguments" I've seen men make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:11 PM
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Have you seen Idiocracy? Just watch the intro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:02 AM
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Here is how you know that something matters when it comes to getting positive attention and attraction from women. Mention that thing to a bunch of sexually unsuccessful men and watch them resist it and bash it into the ground. That's how you know it actually works because let's face it, if sexually unsuccessful men actually tried any of the myriad suggestions they are given everywhere, they wouldn't be sexually unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:29 PM
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I agree! Khakis and anything on shades of grey, brown, green and beige should be avoided as these are the colors of camouflage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:24 PM
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They know where all the hot bars are that hot women go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:10 PM
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Well yeah, if you ever make the mistake and begin reading the Rational Male, their bible, you will find out behind all the bolster that Rollo Tomasi is nothing more than an angry, entitled nice guy who thought that being a good little, polite and well behaved provider should earn him the love of a great woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:10 PM
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I thought marriage benefited men mostly, otherwise they'd have to be out there in the cold hunting their own pussy to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:08 PM
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Do you know any other useless trivia?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:58 PM
0

Have you tried meeting them in their preferred method? Meaning, magically materializing naked in their bedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:56 PM
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Correct. In tribal cultures that survive to today, nobody cares who fucks whom. Kids are even raised in a communal way. Sex is also communal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:38 PM
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Even worse. If those men could put up the same n counts as easily as those girls, they would be doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:36 PM
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That is 100% the correct answer. Slut shaming is a female weapon of choice to force other women to only exchange their sex for something of value (preferably monetary), such as commitment, dinners, fixing her car, getting her a better job, putting a ring on her finger, etc. But going further back, it is when humanity moved from tribal societies to agricultural societies and all of a sudden land ownership became important. Then men would leave their land to their sons. In order for a man to ensur…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:36 PM
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Actually getting a woman to have sex with you is so incredibly hard that only three men in the entire history of mankind, spanning hundreds of thousands of years back have been able to achieve this impossible feat. True story. Where did the other 8 billion people on Earth come from you may ask? Duh, the same three Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:31 PM
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Men use desperate women for one thing or worse, they believe if a woman is ready to give up the pussy so easily, she must be giving it up to everyone and therefore it's not worth anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:24 PM
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Jaded? The opposite my friend. I'm free!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:44 PM
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Is this "respect" some kind of a sexual favor thing? Like "you eat my pussy, I will blow you" kind of thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:05 PM
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Women care A LOT about sex. You may want to get your vajayjay checked out by a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:57 AM
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Yes, but that wouldn't be the first step towards solving the problem. The real problem is that men believe they are no good. They believe the only way they can be happy is to have a woman and have lots of sex. And when they don't have that, they make themselves miserable and sad and lonely. They are in fact creating their own loneliness and neediness, so their instinct as a desperate guy is to keep lowering their standards to the point where they will say "I will take anyone, as long as she has …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:55 AM
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I think many men are essentially brainwashed to think they are entitled to female ownership. Why do men get upset a woman chose to give her pussy to another man, five men at the same time or a large farm animal? Because deep down they believe they are entitled to that pussy. Why do men get upset if a woman chooses not to have kids or to remain single? Again ownership of that pussy. They should be able to decide what a woman does with her vagina. If they just realized that a woman is the rightful…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:34 AM
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I just find it funny that so many of you guys take what women say or write seriously. You live 100% in their reality. It's all about what women want and what you can do to meet all these requirements so you can finally get some coochie. It's so fucking pathetic honestly. I don't blame the women because they definitely enjoy the power you are giving them. I am only concerned with what I want and the requirements I have for women. And every woman I've told my requirements and rules to has been hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:32 AM
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It's natural. People are not meant to be with the same person for years and years. New ass is the best ass. We are forcing monogamy on everyone. Brainwashing women into believing the most important thing in life is to get security and marriage is the ultimate security. And we shame men into needing approval. Approval of society that they were able to secure a wife and shaming them if they are a bachelor. It's insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:01 AM
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Men are even worse! They will chase women to the end of the world for the chance of smelling her pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:59 PM
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I've spent a considerable time learning to love and respect myself and not depend on others for those things. I am keenly aware of my flaws and issues and have done my best to change those things if I can or accept them if I can't. The rest is what it is. I love and cherish myself more than I do any one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:31 PM
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That's exactly what I have been harping on for a long time, especially to guys who claim they are miserable without pussy and love. The more needy and desperate you are, the easier you are to get. And nobody wants that. Women appreciate working hard to earn a man's attention and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:29 PM
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Well duh, when you go to hard you just pound their cervix so they need to pull back not to be in pain. Just pound them slightly gentler. Oh what? Different topic. Apologies, carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:27 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:25 PM
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What do you want me to respond with? It's just another excuse for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:07 PM
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Hahahahahhahahhahhabaha sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:07 PM
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If he's a virgin and complaining that he's never gotten laid then he can't be a chooser.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:55 PM
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It's nothing to do with low self esteem. It's human nature. We all want this which we can't get. Take any guy here who struggles with women. Never been laid. Virgin. Ask him if at least once in his life some woman who he wasn't interested in, expressed interest in him. If he's really honest, he will probably say yeah maybe it's even happened a few times to him. So he actually had opportunities to lose his virginity, but because the woman expressed interest in him, he didn't want her. He wants th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:44 PM
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He has described a normal woman. Stop with the straw man bs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:39 PM
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Dr David Burns
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:37 PM
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This is the Burns rule: people NEVER want this which they can have and ALWAYS want this which they can't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:57 PM
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That's not what a nice guy is at all. It has nothing to do with kindness or opening doors for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:52 PM
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Just jerk off my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:18 AM
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If you spent as much time talking to women as you are spending making excuses, you will have a harem by now. The reality is, many men avoid social situations where they can meet women because it gives them anxiety. The "best" way to manage anxiety is avoid the thing that raises it. So simply, tell yourself nightclubs suck and are loud, cafes and gyms are off limits, even looking at a woman is a #metoo worthy offense. Hey, better stay home on Friday night, okay some vidya and find that porn scene…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:16 AM
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It's a question of value systems. For someone chasing after money and power is the bait important thing. How can family and relationships be more important? For someone like Putin, chasing domination and genocide is the most important thing. What does money matter to them anymore anyway? And so on and so forth. There is nothing wrong with valuing sex, love and family. But anything that you make so important in your life that it's lack causes you undue distress means that that thing controls YOU.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:08 PM
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Everything but the last definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:37 PM
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Fantastic question. I think there are two sides to this: cognitive (how you think about things) and a practical side (practical changes you need to make in your life). On the cognitive side, Dr. David Burns has a simple tool he's developed called Pleasure Predicting Sheet. Basically, pick an activity that you may usually associate with a social activity or something you may do only with a date/gf. Then predicts how pleasureful you think you will find it in %. An example: -making a reservation fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:31 PM
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I don't think that's exactly right. Close but not quite. Psychologists describe loneliness as distress occurring from the PERCEIVED difference between the relationships we have and the relationships we THINK we should have. Someone can be lonely because they don't have any dates on Saturday nights and they believe they SHOULD have dates and that dating will make them happy and fulfilled. And because they perceive themselves as lacking that, they feel distressed. But a married person can also fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:02 PM
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So we outperform women in suicides, homelessness and murder rates? Your post is sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:25 AM
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Older guys have more experience, knowledge, maturity. We are like her dad she never had, except she can fuck us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:06 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:51 AM
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I like women who know how to fuck. And do a proper enema. Already those checks baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:29 AM
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Being the provider is the least sexy role a man can play. The reason women "like"'providers is that historically they have belonged to their fathers and after becoming of age, a father needs to find someone else to take care of the security of his daughter, aka a husband. Women need security, the way man need approval. A woman cannot be free until she overcomes her innermost need for security by simply learning to provide her own security.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:28 AM
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You are pushing the idea that you have to offer women dates, ego boosts, dinners and other things. In essence you are exchanging something of monetary value to her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:30 AM
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You have the same problem as every guy on this planet. You never focus on what you want and only focus on what women want/demand. You are trying to figure out how to do the things women supposedly demand so you can finally please them and get to the little moist hole in a 2X3" piece of pink flesh. Essentially you are saying that a man's job is to subjugate himself, out himself below the woman, so he can please her highness and get a whiff of her pussy. When you finally understand how ridiculous …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:24 AM
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Let me put it this way. If you keep asking yourself "what is wrong with me, why don't women like me", you will eventually find a whole bunch of reasons. Even if those reasons are not real. But once you believe them, they will become real. Every guy who struggles thinks there is something wrong with him, mainly because he has been looking for what's wrong for a long time. None of them look for what is right with them. None of them look for ways to get women naked. They only think about what's wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:14 AM
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You will notice a correlation in men between overthinking and having little to no relationship or sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:56 PM
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I agree with you but not for the reasons you stated. Sad, depressed, sexually starved guys keep themselves in a prison of their own making. A prison of neediness and desperation. See, when you tell yourself: "I need to be loved to be happy, I need sex and intimacy or otherwise I will be miserable and sad, it sucks to be single and it's the most horrible thing that can happen to a human being, oh look at all these happily coupled people", you are essentially creating your own misery. You give off…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:24 PM
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It's just what it is. I don't make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:19 PM
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The perfect woman for me is 3ft tall with a flat head.......so I can rest my beer on her head while she's giving me a bj. But the one you describe will do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:17 PM
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You know something interesting? Men can do the absolutely same thing as you! And they will get a bunch of smelly bums and homely looking guys as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:01 PM
2

As an older guy - a girl who has good taste!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:00 PM
1

Cause they have never been fucked good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:26 AM
2

The saddest thing I've read all week. Have you considered that perhaps you are addicted to validation/love and that's not a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:21 AM
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It's not the attraction that is forced, but the time from being fully clothed to naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:31 AM
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4F club?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:29 AM
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Guys are always so all or nothing when it comes to dating. You are either a desperate, needy incel to be motivated to try and meet women or you are a self satisfied Buddhist Monk who can live the rest of his life alone in a cave with no contact with another human being. No in between. There is a huge difference between NEED and WANT. Something is a NEED when not having it causes undue distress and is even life threatening. Food, shelter, healthcare, access to basic hygiene infrastructure, etc. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:28 AM
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The most profound thing I've learned is the less you need women, the more they want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:15 AM
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Good luck with your poorly thought out dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:04 PM
1

How will this change your sexlessness situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:13 PM
1

So what do you want us to about this!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:38 PM
1

What exactly are you complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:07 PM
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Why do I even try with you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:06 PM
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The problem is when a man tells himself he cannot be happy and fulfilled without love/sex. He walks around giving off a desperate and needy vibe that is an instant turn off to others. Folks who have shit going for them, who are pursuing their dreams/purpose and don't go out of their way to accommodate others, are infinitely more attractive. I've never met anyone who has needed love and who has been able to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:47 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:43 PM
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That's actually very incorrect. People always want this which they can't get. Being needy and desperate for a relationship is a huge turn off for most people, including other needy people. Actually needy people tend to chase even harder after those who are unavailable. So you are double screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:42 PM
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Nobody is getting laid yet the population of earth has never been higher and somehow all the woman are constantly having sex with a new guy every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:16 PM
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You must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:15 PM
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I think it is very important to elaborate why making women the main goal/focus in your life is not only not a great way to go through life, but it actually causes the rejection men are so desperately trying to avoid. Firstly, let's address the inevitable resistance you will receive by sharing these ideas. Men are quick to accuse you of wanting them to give up all hope, by telling them they should be happy to be incels and should just shut up. Or they will accuse you of telling them to ignore the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:03 PM
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Actually your way of thinking is what's keeping you from successfully finding relationships. The reason people are turned off by needy people is because needy people always want to get something out of the other person. And that forces others to reject the needy person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:43 PM
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I think you are just playing with semantics here. Men and women are not the same. Yes, women are more "passive", but that whole idea that men are the sole initiators and they have to take some woman who has zero interest in them and pursue her relentlessly until she becomes impressed by him is completely stupid and unrealistic. Women pursue men they want all the time. It's not in the same way men do but women absolutely pursue men. You just don't know many single women or women at all. Single wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:37 AM
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I don't think the....girl? in the video is in any danger of anyone wanting to rape her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:12 AM
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I'm already married. You asked that my ideal partner was. I'm just answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:01 AM
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Oh no! Dream girl for like 6 months. Then I get another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:33 PM
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Big assed Latina, who has lots of slutty friends. Barely speaks English but understands "blow job" and "anal" and "theeesome"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:07 PM
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The Millionaire Matchmaker used to call them Spinners. Because guys want to spin them on their d**k.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:06 PM
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Your post shows me you know nothing about women. Firstly, women make the first move all the time. Women constantly send signals to men they are interested in. Who goes and talks to whom first is really inconsequential. Second, that whole idea of women having men chase them being presented as some sort of panacea or proof that women have all the power is simply regarded. Why? Because of this very simple rule: People never want this which they can get. And people only want this which they can't ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:38 PM
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Funny girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:38 PM
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A woman needs to be good at one or two jobs like a glow job or a rim job. Everything else is icing on the cake. Edit: BLOW JOB NOT GLOW JOB
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:24 PM
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I think it's hard to find American women in NYC. And why would you? There is so much variety here! I've fucked Black, Mexican, Peruvian, Guatemalan, Eastern European, Chinese, Japanese, Indian, Bangladeshi and yes of course, some resident American white girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:22 AM
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I don't know who's exploiting whom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:17 AM
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I think chasing the role of provider thinking it will somehow get you laid is the lamest thing you can ever do. Being The Provider is literally the least sexy role you can play in dating and sex. It's also the biggest lie told to men by society that is designed solely to make you work harder so you can push society forward. It's the same idea as telling women that if they are modest, wear their hair in a net or pony tale, don't show skin and make it difficult for men to talk to them that they wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:13 AM
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He can pay a hooker and get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:50 AM
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Stop going to gay clubs my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:12 AM
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Probably. For example, I'm extremely good looking but women don't flock to me. I gotta go and get those women off the street and into my bedroom. But that's no more work than going to talk to my friends, planning a happy hour, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:50 PM
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Maybe stop going to gay clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:30 PM
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I mean, from what I gather around here, men are willing to do everything BUT actually go out and talk to women and try to get them in bed. They are willing to put in the effort to do hours of research to "prove" women only like tall men. They are willing to put in hours and hours of effort in Chadfishing to prove that women are indeed attracted to attractive looking men. They are willing to work hard and make money, but not actually go and talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:53 PM
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I think that's just your persecution complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:51 PM
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WHat exactly are you working so hard on? Let's talk specifics. List the exact things you are working hard on and what exact steps you are taking to work on those things. I need you to be very specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:51 PM
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I hear that it's only effective for at best 2 months. All the crazies I've dated usually reveal it within the two month mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:33 PM
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I don't know where you are this whole working hard for women. I honestly don't. I think dating and sex have never been easier. Women are starved for romance and excitement. And probably good sex. I don't see how any of you believe there is some sort of battle of the sexes where women are emerging victorious. Victorious about what? Eve if it were true that they are only fucking the same 5 guys on Tinder how is that exactly a victory on their part? It means more and more women would be lonely, sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:32 PM
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Women are every where. Go out to the club and hour before closing time and you will find someone to leave with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:18 PM
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Empowered woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:17 PM
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I tell them I can't get it up. They are in for quite the surprise when I take my pants off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:15 PM
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I've got news for you OP. Women are way more afraid of you than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:11 PM
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Sure. But I always hear "women don't have to do anything they just have to be born with a vagina blah blah blah" form men on PPD. And I'm saying that from what I see that's nowhere near the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:35 PM
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In that country he is, yes. He has power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:51 PM
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Basically the majority of women get Botox these days. It's not only pornstars and Insta models.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:28 PM
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I'm so good looking this is my anthem: https://youtu.be/JpyVMzaBqzQ
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:39 PM
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You know something. We should have offered them to give us all the Chinese baby girls that they would otherwise kill and put them on an island somewhere. Can you imagine? An island full of beautiful Asian chicks? That would be the dream. I personally don't care about their whole incel culture. Now they have surplus of 5 gazillion males who can't even get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:31 PM
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You are the one equating looks with alpha status. An alpha male is the guy who fucks a lot of women. And porn stars do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:29 PM
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This guy was voted sexiest man alive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:27 PM
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Idiocracy. The smart and intelligent people delay reproducing up into their late 30s and then have trouble conceiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:27 PM
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Like we need more a Chinese. There's like 2 billion of them or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:35 PM
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I read your post as "no one was shaving themselves" and it was actually true that no one was shaving themselves...for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:13 PM
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I came to age in the 90s in Eastern Europe but teens were fucking back then. I personally knew a couple of girls who lost their virginities at 13 and 14. My best friend lost his at 14. At 16 I was the last of my friends group to lose mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:08 PM
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They are literally watching an alpha have sex while they are jerking off to the side like a loser beta male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:05 PM
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Ahhh, now we come at crux of the issue. Anger and entitlement. Why should I change? Why should I do anything differently? The world should just work how I want it to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:50 AM
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I'm really, really ridiculously good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:24 AM
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Women approach all the time just not in the "hey baby wanna get out of here" way most guys would want to. But they will look at you, smile, hover around you, make some excuse to ask you something, dance in your line of sight, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:17 PM
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lol. Sure. Keep telling yourself that story.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:14 PM
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You'd be doing the same if you were them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:49 PM
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Exactly. That's why women dress in tight pants crunching up their butts to go to the gym and then act annoyed at the attention. That's why female "empowerment" is all about having sex with many guys. Surprisingly it's never about stuff like paying for your own drinks or dinner. Isn't that actually more empowering? But hey, who am I to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:38 PM
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Not exactly. Think of it this way, if you tell a man he is lazy and a burden to society and contributes nothing, it will crush his self esteem and self worth. Tell a woman nobody wants to fuck her or she is not attractive and you will crush her self esteem and self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:22 PM
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Why would someone be shamed to death for revealing some skin? Because you are telling them "your sex is the only valuable thing about you, so you better not flaunt it for others to see, otherwise no one will buy the cow". Sure men want to feel attractive too, but they don't put all of their change in their sex. Women get rejected all the time. When they signal a guy and he fails to take action, that's de facto rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:37 PM
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That typically explains why they are sexually unsuccessful. I've never met a man (or a woman) who has NEEDED love and been able to get it from others. Their neediness often forces people to reject them, because needy people always perceive others as having something they don't and therefore they all want to take, take, take. But they never offer anything of value in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:07 PM
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I was rated 9+ on photofeeler.com. But extremely untrustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:01 PM
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Not saying it's right or even acceptable. But it is what the reality is. I wish society at large and women themselves valued women for more than their sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:49 PM
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You have to understand something about women that nobody tells you. Because of the way women have been socialized and treated by society for the past few thousand years, they are basically brainwashed into thinking that their SEX is the most valuable thing about them. In essence, their sex contains all of their value as a human being. You can see this pattern everywhere in our culture. Need to sell a product? Put a sexually attractive woman on it. All clothes, all products for women are targeted…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:10 PM
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I'm 42 and I've never looked better in my life. I grow more facial hair, got on TRT, I'm at the most muscular I've ever been, my hair is amazing although getting a few grays here and there and my slight wrinkles makes me distinguished and interesting. My skincare regimen these days looks like something out of American Psycho. I take care of and take pride in my appearance and it shows. And women half my age notice, not to talk about the women who are my age. For the record, there is a teenage gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:04 PM
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You are right. Much better to keep posting on r/ForeverAlone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:59 PM
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And then later "why am I still a virgin?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:58 PM
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Yes, women have introduced me to their friends and we've banged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:57 PM
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You spend so much energy defending your distorted self image that if you had channeled that energy into working on your social skills, you'd be ahead of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:48 PM
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Saying you cannot improve your social skills is just as defeatist as saying don't improve your looks or style because there are uglier and frumpier people than you who are successfully dating. I just can't with you guys. Your problem is staring you right in the face. You are defeated before you even got out there on the battlefield. What woman would want a guy who already considers himself a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:19 PM
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So you are one of those "I've tried everything" guys. But when asked "what exactly have you tried?", the answer is always "everything, ok, I've tried everything" but weirdly lacking in any specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:40 PM
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You literally said no man should try to raise his number because he will not be successful anyway which is 1. Not true and 2. Just an ASSumption you are making that you haven't tested in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:35 PM
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That just some weird self defeating bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:33 PM
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I don't really think you are arguing in good faith. Your original question was not genuine. You are just trying to rationalize the incel/ForeverAlone story you've been telling yourself for your entire life. You actually have no interest in doing anything to change your situation for the better and would rather get confirmation that your hopelessness is justified. I've met hundreds of people like you since I've been on this sub and others. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:48 AM
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The OP forgot to tell you that his perfectly normal friend never goes out or interacts with women but is somehow hoping a naked one would magically materialize in his bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:43 AM
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So you have not tried actually dating and sleeping with women but somehow you are afraid you MAY get labeled as boring? Did I get this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:32 AM
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Here are some men who have been voted Sexiest Men Alive and some who have been with thousands of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:29 AM
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I loved it when I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:27 AM
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Firefighter, cop (at one point), military officer, bouncer. Basically anything with authority that other men are forced to respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:26 AM
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The same reason they are attracted to any other pop/rock star. Everybody wants them and they can't get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:25 AM
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Law of diminishing results. Do it until the results of improving no longer match the effort. For example, if you upgrade your wardrobe from Target/Walmart clothes to Ralph Lauren/BOSS, you may see a spike in interest from women because you look nicer and more stylish. But upgrading from RL/BOSS to high end Armani might not get you as much of a benefit although it costs exponentially more than upgrading from Target/Walmart to RL/BOSS. Also, if you are fat and lose weight and get toned this will p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:24 AM
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Him asking doesn't absolve him of the responsibility to be aware of whether the other person is uncomfortable or not. The girl says she was visibly uncomfortable and uninterested, which leads me to thing the guy in the TikTok sorry is either socially regarded or autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:19 AM
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I didn't say you can't make friend with women who are alone, but do you invite yourself to their table if they are standoffish and not very engaged? Exercise some social awareness. If you smile at them from another table and they smile back, sure. Go over and say hi. But do t hover and make them uncomfortable. You just have to have awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:46 PM
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Honestly, I see the opposite. Women injecting stuff in their lips, faces, rubber in their asses, silicone in their boobs, sucking fat out of their tummies. All just to be sexier and more appealing to men. Men just exist and live their lives enjoying them and women want to attach themselves to a guy like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:35 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:55 PM
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Why would you want women approaching you and asking you out? The one who approaches and asks out is the one who has the power, the one who chooses. Why would I want to woman to have the power and to be the chooser? Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:39 PM
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Maybe you need to try a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:34 PM
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That's not what I asked (rhetorically). I don't know the full story but from what OP wrote a guy approached the girl. She wasn't very receptive, yet he invited himself to sit at her table and eat lunch with her and forced a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:07 PM
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That's like saying "violent crime is entire white men's fault because they freed the slaves. If they never freed the slaves, violent crime would be lower".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:04 PM
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That's what I assume reformed means. All of a sudden she's a nun in the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:01 PM
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Why would I want to date a reformed hoe? I wanna date an active hoe because I want to have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:56 PM
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It's a complex issue. There is of course the selfish side of things, where the guy is just horny and wants a release. But there is another, darker side to it. Most men have very little practice having good sex. And women are also terrible at communicating what they enjoy and don't enjoy. Have you ever heard of a guy faking an orgasm so he doesn't upset his partner? Yet, women fake orgasms all the time. And there are many jokes about it. How is a man supposed to know his bedroom moves are terribl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:55 PM
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Here is a good explanation why height is perceived as important: https://www.reddit.com/r/moreplatesmoredates/comments/15tbzdu/experienced_being_too_short_for_the_first_time/jwjhdou/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:40 PM
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I mean what kind of weirdo just invite himself and has lunch at her table? That right there tells me the men is socially regarded.?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:41 PM
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Sure. It's someone else's responsibility to figure out why you are not getting laid. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:25 PM
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A coward dies a thousand deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:10 PM
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Lol exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:08 PM
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Aka trolling for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:07 PM
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While I know that you are not asking this in good faith, I will respond as if you were asking in good faith. There are no issues meeting women in any of these places. If you are constantly striking out, it's probably something about you that is turning women off, so you need to work on that. At the end of the day, women want to meet a guy they like just as much as men want to meet a woman they like. God made us to be attracted to each other and want to fuck each other's brains out. So if you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:03 PM
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Who would fuck Mike Pence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:58 PM
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When you text your friends to go to happy hour and pick a place do you consider this work? How time consuming exactly is it? See, there are certain burdens and certain advantages that come with being the man. Yes, you have to lead. Yes, you have to make decisions. Yes, that's not easy. But the advantages are that everything happens on your terms. You pick who you talk to, yo unlock who you ask out, you kick what to do and where to go. But sure. It's sooooo muuuuuch work womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:28 PM
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The cool thing about older women is that they realize that their tits aren't getting any perkier and their wrinkles are getting any smaller the longer they wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:07 PM
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The most promiscuous women's ages are teens to early 20's. Then women start getting baby fever and want to settle down up until early 30s. At that stage many have gone through the kids stage and they either cheat on or divorce their husbands and are back to promiscuous, ie having sex for fun and not to snag a husband. That's why you need to avoid mid to late 20s women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:16 AM
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What work are you doing exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:14 AM
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They do. But just like men, they want them with someone who is sexually arousing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:04 AM
2

So why aren't most women having sex 24/7?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:04 AM
2

That was actually a good sign brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:03 AM
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I don't I guess you have to watch them all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:23 AM
1

There is a thing called blood test?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:49 PM
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Interesting facts about testosterone. Levels can fluctuate up when you are around women you find sexually attractive. Testosterone levels raise when you haven't jerked off for several days. Testosterone levels are raised when you believe you are winning at a task or sport. So T levels are very much affected by social factors, including whether you are perceiving yourself as winning at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:19 PM
1

Glad neediness is working out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:37 PM
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Absolutely he will. The more a man values himself, the better he will do with women. Why should anyone but the dregs of the female folk want you if YOU can't even value your own self?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:07 PM
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All of this can be summed up in "nobody is forcing men to do this, they choose to".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:06 PM
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This sounds a bit like the "everyone calls me ugly". "Who exactly calls you ugly?" "Everyone" "I'm going to need some names" "it doesn't matter, it's everyone" "Is 'everyone' just a nickname for yourself?" My point is, I don't know where you find these "kill all men" posts and videos on the internet. They don't show up on my internet. I'm sure if I dug deep down enough I would find all kinds of disturbing stuff. So why are you inventing problems for yourself and believing they are real?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:04 PM
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Some of the people I see coupled and having kids, yes, I truly believe that. I think the general pessimism and resignation of guys when it comes to sexual success is what's causing most of their troubles. There are plenty of women for everyone. They keep making them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:55 AM
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For the same reason why a common Hollywood trope is the nerdy, shy guy who goes through the end of the world to finally score the hot cheerleader or whatever. It's something that's only in their imaginations and then guys on PPD start believing that being a nerdy shy guy entitles them to hot girls because they saw it in a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:53 AM
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It gives off a completely different vibe. You will get way more interest from women when you carry yourself like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:33 AM
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I had a girlfriend who would start yapping about this or that. I would put her hand down my pants and tell her "here, suck ok this it will make you feel better" and lo and behold a few minutes later she did feel much better. So did I.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:28 AM
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I mean sure, you can think of yourself as a loser who nobody wants, or you can think of yourself as desirable and cool. You may not be everyone's cup of tea, but the former attitude will get you no play and the latter will get you at least some play.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:54 PM
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Charisma is largely dependent on what you think and how you feel about yourself, how you treat yourself. Charismatic people tend to take interest in others, instead of focusing the attention on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:46 PM
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Only Chads are allowed to like themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:21 PM
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You are still not getting it. Nobody is telling to give up on women and relationships. Nobody is telling you not to have a family and just lock yourself in your apartment and play video games all day. I also never said that being lonely or needy makes you worthless. As a matter of fact, this is the problem with "lonely" men. They believe they ARE worthless if they don't secure a living partner. That's the crux of the problem. Give up the belief that you are worthless or can't be happy without a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:57 PM
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That sucks. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:41 PM
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Interesting fact about women. They keep making them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:32 PM
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You can't save society. I'm offering a solution that people can choose to take or not. You seem to be dead set on men being victims. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:20 PM
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I don't care about enmasse or social norms. I care about me. I'm telling you that you can either adopt a victim view of the world, just take what you are given you dirty beggar, or you can go out there and get the things you want in life. Choice is yours. Don't really care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:16 PM
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Again, your fatal assumption is that you NEED something. You need a wife, you need a relationship, you need this, you need that. The less you need, the more lower and choice you will have in life and with women. You don't have to believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:11 PM
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No. Having options is a low level solution. Sure, having lots of dating options will reduce desperation. But what happens when your gf breaks up with you? What happens when the 5 women you are dating want to find someone serious and they leave you one by one. What then? Back to being needy and desperate? And the other problems no one mentions. The more needy and desperate you are, the more women will avoid you. It's like taking a drug to make you feel better, although it's the drug itself that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:58 PM
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I got over my fear of being alone. I started liking myself so when I see a woman I find attractive, I do not need anything from her. I don't need her approval, I don't need her to like me, I don't really need her to be happy or fulfilled. But if she's easy to get along and my type, I may WANT her in my bed. So when I approach, I don't do it from a place of needing a date or a number or sex. I do it because I'm kind of doing her a favor. I'm giving her the opportunity to meet someone awesome like…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:37 PM
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The biggest obstacle guys have to dating is their neediness and desperation. Needy people tend to treat others like some sort of a trophy or prize to be won. You often see this attitude masked as niceness in the way men talk about women here. "Oh, I just want a non obese girl who likes". What do you mean just a girl? Like, you don't care about her personality, morals, values? No, because all they want is access to the vagina which they think will solve all of their problems. And while that attit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:10 PM
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What you are saying is true when you look at it from your referential system, which is: "men are no good, women are the choosers, a guy must be pretty desperate to go and talk to a woman because he has no other options." For guys like me, though, who have a completely different referential system, approaching a strange woman is one of the most powerful things we can do. See, only a truly powerful and confident man will ignore social rules, such as "don't talk to attractive women you don't know" …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:47 PM
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I don't quite understand what you are saying? When I say use it on them, I mean teasingly accuse women of only wanting you for one thing, if being sex obsessed nymphos, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:42 PM
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Use it first on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:16 PM
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Bro, I mean this is the only "game" women have. The whole "Omg, men are such pigs, all they want me is for sex, they treat me like a piece of meat, I can't go anywhere without some guy hitting on me, omg". Every time they play this game, guys turn into total wimps "oh no, that's not me, I'm not that kind of guy, I'm really interested in your dreams and aspirations, uhhhhjj". You have to see through the game and even steal their game. That they never see coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:49 PM
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You sound like a molester.
/r/seduction15/08/23 10:39 AM
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I don't think they do. As long as men equate their value with the monetary value they can offer women as opposed what they can offer them as a person and as a man, men will fall behind on their offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:24 PM
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BPD women are specifically attracted to low self esteem men. Ask me how I found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:28 PM
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You know when you tell guys to just go out with fat below average chicks and they call at that saying they would never be attracted to that? Well, women operate the same way when you keep insisting they should date undersocialized, low self esteem losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:27 PM
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There is a young girl in my building who seems to have a boyfriend. Lanky, skinny guy with a hitch of an emo esthetic. But she also clearly has a crush on me and has tried to talk to me several times. I'm the furthest from emo. Guess what, women can have different tastes. Maybe she has a type. Most women do t always stick to their type. That's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:02 PM
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No one is stopping you from learning how to socialize. I've found that most men wjth social problems tend to want to keep playing their games and jerkingnoff in their socks to anime rather than go out and talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:55 PM
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The biggest failure of the so called RedPill is the intrinsic assumption that there is a battle of the sexes. However, for humanity to have existed for hundreds of thousands (if not over a million years), there cannot possibly be any war of the sexes. It just cannot exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:21 PM
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