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100%. You're absolutely right.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:25 AM
2

A more concise structured reply would be: Externally: Drawing confidence from right action knowing that right action will lead one to the desired result more often than not. This provides someone who is self-conscious about their position in life with something tangible to draw upon. I know that by doing X I will eventually get to Y so I give myself permission to carry and behave like someone who is already there. While simultaneously... Internally: Learning to draw one's sense of self from with…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:18 AM
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Maybe she works at her family's business. I knew a couple of guys who worked for the family business earning mid 6 figures in their early 20s. Mid 6 figures LOL. Even doctors don't make that much where I'm from. Men usually correlate good job with high income. That said my comment is speculation.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:18 AM
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Some resources: Science of well-being course Power of your subconscious mind Six pillars of self esteem Psychocybernetics Tldr; self-image
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:39 PM
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You draw confidence from the process of becoming a better man, putting in the work, and improving each day. Striving towards your own ideal. Did I get better today? If yes, give yourself a pat on the back and smile. There will always be another goal to reach. Your desires will keep shifting. Of course there will be milestones you reach, first lay, 10 lays, first 100k first million, and your sense of self will get a temporary boost, but the goalposts will shift and results aren't guaranteed, the …
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:25 PM
3

Wealthy family.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:02 PM
1

She's showing you she's in demand and has options because she likes you, that she is preselected. In a weird roundabout way she's seeking your validation. It sounds fucked up but in a girls brain she thinks that you'll like her more if other guys are hitting her up which paradoxically makes men actually like them less. More male partners = less value in the eyes of men from a biological/evolutionary perspective. Preselection works for men. Preselection doesn't work for women because they're born…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:56 AM
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You mean legacy, orienting yourself in a manner that what you do is both meaningful and is of service to others. Also there is no contradiction between spirituality and being successful in the world. There is nothing spiritual about not living up to your potential financially, physically, etc., and anyone who claims otherwise is using spiritual bypassing as a coping mechanism for not putting oneself to the grindstone. Ones worldly goals don't necessarily change, more so the orientation and frame…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:23 AM
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You build sexual tension by body language, be relaxed and laid back, voice - don't be seeking validation, eye contact - really important, and physical escalation, a light touch here and there, hand on the thigh, light tap on arm when teasing, start with brief 1-2 second touches, kiss is easy, if she hasn't been repulsed by your presence you put your hands around the lower back of her head and just lean in and do it, if she resists it'll be obvious, move away and relax. You also don't need to esc…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:17 AM
7

Girls talk. Once they know you sling good dick and shawtys out of town, a girl who's bored and horny will hit up the guy who's already been vetted and keep it on the downlow.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 06:07 AM
33

Go to the concert, once she's gone you can smash her friends.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:46 PM
1

Yes, go do something else with your time. She has no vendetta against you.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:32 PM
1

Be more calm and objective when dealing with reality.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:28 PM
1

Relax man. Go for a run, lift some weights, practice mindfulness. There's nothing wrong with having principles and standards for who you want to date that isn't the issue. The main takeaway from this experience is that your state is easily unbalanced and that is something you should work on moving forward. Become more grounded as a man.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:23 PM
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You do realize that you could have just chilled with her, talked shit, and not escalated right? Considering your a man of such high principles. Next time just chill the fuck out and play it cool. Remaining neutral prevents negative emotional reactions. That said you have nothing to worry about aside from your overreaction, she has 1000 other dudes hitting her up on tinder already. Her oberstimulated brain won't remember you in a days time.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:15 PM
33

Meanwhile back when I was in highschool 16 year old girls were dating 23 year olds lol. You're tripping OP and you definitely overreacted.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:09 PM
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This. Free attention after a certain point is ROI negative, you have to offer some value upfront. That's just the nature of the game. But after a certain point shit or get off the pot. Go for the close. You'll save so much time getting rejected vs keeping up the chatter. Time and attention are a precious commodity.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:59 AM
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Chill. Let it breathe. If she messages you back. Cool. If she doesn't. Cool. Get more girls.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:24 AM
16

Go be social and talk to everyone. Hell you might even be able to meet new girls or some cool guys and network. Just be cool bro.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:42 AM
7

Fuuuuuaaaaaarrrrkk
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:01 PM
1

Indeed, 23 is borderline. 22 would absolutely be a no go for me. Just go with 24 and you can always reset it again if you choose too. -1 year is the safe play. Once you start hitting upper mid twenties the difference in maturity and relatability between you and college kids is striking.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:07 PM
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Yup, you get filtered out as you get older which is unfortunate. Go down a year. The difference between a 25 year old man and a 23/24 year old man isn't much in terms of maturity.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:40 PM
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He's not wrong. The problem is that what he wrote isn't helpful. We all know mission is important. OP is asking what does it take to spin multiple plates long-term, not that he phrased it in that manner.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:23 PM
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I've had many situations where a girl hits me up but I'm not feeling it, out of town etc. and they move on. Their clit swelled up in the moment and they had the desire to hit you up. You can experiment and see what happens, nothing to lose really.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:48 PM
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Yeah man, that's fine. It depends on your priorities. How much you value this particular girl, sex, etc. By sticking to your guns you will filter out people naturally. But there is a cost associated with it and you have to weigh that out yourself.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:39 PM
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She invited you over to smash and you played hard ball. She invited next dude to smash, he came over and smashed. Who do you think she'll invite over next? Who do you think takes priority in her life. You had an opportunity and didn't take it. Strike while the iron is hot. You have to be dynamic. Getting the W is what's important. The opportunity has passed and now you're chasing. Find a new girl. Hot girls aren't going to sit around waiting for one guy when they have 10 other guys hitting them …
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:23 PM
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No, men do it all the time.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:16 PM
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I want to slap you in the face and shake you awake. You're a good looking dude. Get a head shot and visit a modeling agency. Your issue is confidence. Read six pillars of self esteem, psychocybernetics, power of subconscious mind and the sidebar. Fuck man. There's no excuse for you not to be slaying. Your challenge isn't anything physical it's all mental. Your self-image isn't in alignment with your external shell and your results reflect that.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:54 AM
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This. First they hump your dick. Then they start humping your leg when you're sleeping. You need to tie her up and give her religion. It's the only way to save her.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:26 PM
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Sounds like a weirdo. Enjoy your night out with your friends.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 02:38 AM
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If you're feeling anxious, day before might put you at ease. If she's interested in you she won't flake and if she can't make it she'll reschedule. If she's not interested or on the fence, there's not really any text you can realistically send that'll change her mind. Bring your A game is a feeler flirty/challenging text to gauge where she's at. If she's interested she's asking the same questions you are, wondering if this date is happening.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:19 PM
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Of course I confirm dates before or day of. Why wouldn't you? You'd rather show up and be waiting for someone who isn't coming, waste of time. Can send her something like, bring your A game today/tomorrow, and I'm going to be x minutes late, prior to date. If she says can't make it, say okay and move on with your life, who cares.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 07:51 PM
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Being insecure isn't the issue. That's fine. What's not fine is not doing what you can to cultivate self-esteem, that's on the person and no one can do it for them.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 10:17 PM
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It's biological. That's what they're made for.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:43 AM
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Does fucking sluts count?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:00 PM
1

Sapiens by Yuval
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:30 PM
2

This. It's called abundance mentality. We don't know OPs intentions. Maybe he wants to fuck Chad. It's 2021 for god's sake, shaming is so last year.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:28 PM
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Be more meticulous in your screening process. Also be clear in your intentions when establishing the dynamics of the relationship. Girls are cool with casual sex. If your track record is full of crazies it's your fault for not screening them out. Refine your process and find higher quality woman whom you'd like to plate. How many girls have gone crazy on me? A grand total of zero.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:25 AM
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Can you save and repost content to make transitioning between banned accounts easier? Not too familiar with tiktok but ideally you'd funnel them from your tiktok to your Instagram page/website/YouTube/Patreon. Social media is essentially a funnel that helps redirect traffic to a different location of which you have more control over. It's unfortunate you keep getting banned as popular accounts self perpetuate. Make another one but remember to redirect to other platforms so you can retain some vi…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:49 AM
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Experiment and see what happens. You don't have enough reference points to draw conclusions of what works and what doesn't.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:50 AM
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Go for the experience. Coffee and walk around the park.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:23 AM
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Chainsaw, spade, safety goggles, bleach
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:02 PM
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What's your sex life like? Dating and sleeping with a woman are two different things. You don't need to be a top 20% man to get laid, you just need to have decent game. Being in the top 20% certainly helps you get laid but it isn't a substitute for game.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:50 PM
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I wouldn't say it's socially acceptable, quite frankly alot of behaviors in that list would be deemed disrespectful and would lead to automatic disqualification. Other points are just downright stupid. Get a hobby? Yeah the girl you're dating should have her own interests. Duh. She should have her own shit going on so that she leaves you alone to focus on your own shit. If your girl is doing something and you're sitting around wiggling your thumbs waiting for attention, that's more so a reflecti…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:14 AM
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Real time case studies? The majority of men will never accumulate a big enough sample size from which to draw conclusions from. Kevin Samuels provides a platform where men can observe female nature in realtime.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:50 PM
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They value community (the tribe). Rather than putting the emphasis on the individual, they emphasize the community thus everyone rises together. This leads to them looking out for one another. 2. They value education and learning, they might be predisposited to a high IQ due to genetics. Genetics aside, this leads them to pursuing and flourishing in various domains, from science to film to meditation. Most of the popular meditation teachers are Jewish because if you're born a Jew you'll always b…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:17 AM
1

It took me two years to get over my ex of 4 years. Get over as in the thought of her rarely popped into my mind and if it did pop up there was no emotional charge attached to it. As long as you recognize that it'll take time and are committed to putting one foot in front of the other you'll be okay. Even if you just sit around doing nothing, time will take care of it and the memory of her will soon be a dream.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 03:45 PM
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There's still some attachment to your exLTR, understandably so, overtime this attachment will fade and your actions and drive will no longer come from a place of revenge/spite/reaction. Those negative emotions you are experiencing are simply energy that you're using to fuel the fire. At least you are using it constructively. At some point you'll stop caring about her validation/approval and you'll act based on inspiration, curiousity, and a desire to growth for your own sake. You're on the right…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:04 AM
5

Make her wear a collar and have her pay 60%. Fair is fair.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:45 PM
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Steven bought GME and has diamond hands. She only fucks with real apes. Case closed.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:13 AM
99

She bulking. Oompa loompa doompety doo
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:25 AM
2

One day covid will end. You might be able to scope out a cheaper place to rent in the meantime given the fact that landlords still have mortgages to pay or you can choose to keep on stacking and save for the future. You're your own man. Move towards the vision you have for yourself. At the end of the day you need to recognize that your life is yours. No one actually cares what you do.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:47 PM
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No one cares. People have different reasons for still living at home. It depends on the context. Might be harder for you to pull but that's still something that can be worked around. Frame is everything. Especially last year with the pandemic and the lockdowns. Paying 2k to live in a shoebox in the city. Can't go outside cause everything is closed. In such a context living at home is the smart thing to do. Imagine living alone in a shoebox for a year, at least in an asylum they feed you. I've se…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:58 PM
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The eskimo's have been surviving off whale blubber for hundreds of years. If the eskimo's can tolerate it you too can develop your palate and man the harpoons. Feast my brother. Savor the hundred inch waist line of a kween.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 07:01 AM
1

It's not a big deal unless you make it a big deal. It's like taking off a jacket you didn't know you were wearing, next day you feel a little bit lighter. Nothing has really changed, but something has. You move through the world with a little bit more ease because that which was unknown has now become known. Like earning your first dollar, it's pretty hype, but in the grand scheme it's not a big deal, but it is a crucial step on the path. Go get laid man. It's fun. Why wouldn't you? Maybe you're…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:18 AM
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She's special man. She's different. We just don't understand. She only took it up the ass and swallowed behind a dumpster one time but it didn't count because he was wearing a condom and he called her pretty. But that doesn't matter anymore baby, that was in the past. We're in love right now aren't we? What we have is special, it's different, it's magical. Sure, I only hooked up with him a few more times after but he was an asshole anyways so it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:12 PM
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This. A girl just doesn't wake up and get spit roasted by two dudes. Her entire past is filled with debauchery and she's hiding it behind didn't counts and I forgot. Never underestimate a girls ability for mental gymnastics.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:59 PM
2

You're on point.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:00 PM
7

Watch Seinfeld. It'll teach you how to banter. Banter meaning communicating for the purpose of exchanging positive emotions. One episode a day.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:40 AM
3

This. Philosophy is for the boys. I can't say I've ever had a girl contribute any mind blowing insight and trust me I've tried. I love talking about deep shit. Some tolerate it because they find me attractive but most are simply out of their depths. Girls just want to have fun. The best interactions I had were when the interaction was based on fun.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:23 AM
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1.Quit doing drugs including porn+fapping. Drug use destabilizes your brain chemistry. People with depression already have unstable chemistry and drug use exacerbates it. Higher highs, lower lows. Seek to find balance. 2. Exercise, any kind, walking, running lifting naturally boosts endorphins in your body, the feel good chemicals. 3. Sleep, maintain a sleep schedule, consistently get the amount you need to function properly 3.1 diet/nutrition - what you eat affects your mood, eat garbage feel l…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:44 AM
1

You have nothing to compare it to. You don't know what being sober means. A sober headspace has a certain consistency to it that using drugs distorts. Try going sober for a month, 3 is better so you can get a taste of what being sober actually means then from there make a decision on whether you want it to be something you use daily, casually, or not at all. You simply don't have enough data to make a comparison. That said, there are a lot of high functioning drug users, it depends on how you wa…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:24 AM
1

Your dopamine receptors are messed up. Drinking boosts your dopamine enough to allow you to cross the threshold needed to be motivated and take action. Either this is the result of long-term down regulation due to substance abuse or you naturally have low dopamine levels thus must either get on medication or improve your lifestyle, diet, exercise, stress management, sleep etc and boost dopamine naturally.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:22 AM
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Raw desire. A girl fucks you because in that moment you're the man, her biology tingles for you. Whatever you have going for you was enough for her to open her legs for you. Nature deemed you worthy enough for reproduction. A hooker on the other hand fucks you because you're paying her. If you weren't paying her, you wouldn't even be in the same room with her because you don't make her pussy tingle. Meanwhile there is some man out there whom the hooker chases and fucks for free out of raw desire…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:33 AM
1

"The only thing we'll be getting into is bible studies." It's a thirst trap, maneuver around it, while moving the interaction forward.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:17 AM
0

Read the fountainhead. You have to walk your own path man, move towards your own ideal. People come and go. You're trying to impose your own values onto your friends and they don't care because it's not something they desire for themselves at this point in their life/time. The fire has to come from within. Keep doing your own thing, and maybe one day they'll reach out to you out of curiosity and inspiration when they see you doing well. You have to set the example of what's possible and give bir…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 11:32 PM
3

Does nutting at the gates count? If yes then 0.5
/r/askTRP10/03/21 09:26 PM
3

Go run. Stop overthinking it.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:30 AM
3

Even Moses had to cross the red sea.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:39 PM
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Same goes the opposite way. The problem with casual sex is that both parties are disposable. When you treat someone else as disposable, you infer that you yourself are disposable. You're both using each other for pleasure, that's the nature of the interaction. The relationship is purely sexual, biology doing it's thing, totally impersonal. It's all in the game baby. You contribute to it by participating.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:35 PM
1

Keep it. Competition anxiety keeps a woman on her best behavior. They call it "passion". They want to feel like they won you over. I get it man, you like her and want to treat her right. Men are simple creatures. As soon as you remove the competition, she'll begin saying shit like, "you're different, things have changed, there used to be so much more passion." I'm not quite sure in what reality people equate being treated like shit, spinning psychological thrillers in their minds that leave them…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:44 AM
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I am who I am, that's it. This is incorrect. This is your conditioning. Somewhere along the line your pysche registered that being nice, kind, and respectful were the keys to survival, and this mode of being has worked successfully up this point.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:46 PM
1

Context is everything.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 12:51 AM
0

Recently she has been pushing me to wear a condom and today when we was about to have sex she was like ‘wear a condom’ I said ‘no’ whilst I was grinning then I proceeded to fuck her as hard as possible
/r/askTRP27/02/21 11:12 PM
4

Solid.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:05 AM
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Patrice O'Neal said it himself. A hunchback mofo with some swagger in his step will still get some girls thinking what's this man got. It's behavioral cues.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:59 AM
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Imagine you're the girl, you're 5'10 and you finally think you found a guy who's as tall if not taller than you. You go back to his place, he takes off his shoes and shrinks 5 inches. Mind=blown. WTF? Shorter guys score taller girls all the time. Why? Because they own who they are 100%. OP needs to work on his self-esteem. Girls get wet for confidence. A guy could be a bridge troll, but if he has some swagger girls will still be intrigued.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 11:44 PM
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Shoe lifts lol? Bruh. 5'8 ain't short. If height is your insecurity there's over a billion women who are shorter than you. Get your head on straight. Neither lifting nor wearing stilettos will fix your weak mindset.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 11:20 PM
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Drink more water. A little cocaine throughout the day also helps but try drinking 2L+ of water first before you try skiing.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:01 AM
13

You're insecure. Women don't care if you're quiet, not traveled, and not adverturous. They care about confidence. Being confident means that you believe in your own product and are capable of leading yourself. You have to be fully bought into yourself. At some point in the interaction you start asking for girls validation and want them to approve of you. To pat you on the head and tell you you're a good boy. Wanting validation is a feminine trait, the masculine is driven and concentrated on its …
/r/askTRP25/01/21 04:55 AM
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I opted for a conservative amount right in the middle. Traditional folklore would recommend 500 calorie surpluses which is way too much imo. OP is 6'3, 165, he could use a little cushion. Plus he's young so he has a higher metabolism.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:06 AM
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250-300 calories over maintenance. Lean bulk till your satisfied, could be 6 months, could be 5 years, your in this for the long haul, enjoy the journey. Aim for 200lbs, 200lbs+ if you really want to start looking juicy.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 01:49 AM
2

It takes time man. In a month you'll see a touch of change. In a year's worth of time it'll be noticable. In 5 years you'll be a completely different person. Look up brain scans of monks and stress response. It's been documented. Once you start you're in this for life. Enjoy the journey.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:32 AM
8

You don't like eating a sandwich still in a ziploc bag?
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:11 PM
5

Women need competition anxiety in order to be at their best. They call it "passion". They want to fight and win you over. Whenever I've decided to pullback and focus my attention exclusively on a girl I'm dating is when it would always fizzle out. She wants to want you more than the reality of actually having you exclusively. She wants to tame the tiger. Be a challenge.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:06 PM
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You have to meditate. Power of now is the how to, actually sitting down and developing a meditation practice is where the results come from. Your fuse is short because you're on edge. You need to learn to chill out and relax a little bit. Books may deepen your understanding, but if you want results you need to make the time to sit. Eventually you'll be able to cultivate pockets of mindfulness throughout the day and become less reactionary more equanimous with reality
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:56 PM
3

A girl who wants to sleep with you will sleep with you regardless of who pays the bill.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:49 PM
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It depends on the place it's coming from. Paying for people's shit because you enjoy giving and it's part of who you are is different from paying as a covert contract in hopes of getting sex, validation or something from them. One perspective comes from a place of sharing and abundance, the other is transactional and based in scarcity. You are only entitled to the act but not the fruits of your action - Bhagavad Gita.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:38 PM
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Lol.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:34 PM
2

You evidently have a good sense of where you're at. Now the only thing left is getting better. Consider picking up meditation to work on your inner game, alot of top athletes make use of it. Also read this book: The Inner Game of Tennis by Timothy Gallwey. It's not football, but sport is sport. Peace and good luck.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 09:43 AM
2

You'd have a higher chance in defense simply because there are more roster spots open. That said you'd also have a higher chance of ending up in the ICU due to the nature of the position. It's much harder to be a good QB than it is to be defense. Of course both positions have their own challenges but the quarter back is responsible for running the whole show. You can practice on both positions of the ball but at some point sooner than later you have to specialize to really refine your craft. Run…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 09:31 AM
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You justify their behavior as an excuse to act like them. Men using female nature as an excuse to act like females. Pathetic. And then guys on here wonder why a girl isn't texting them back. She's fake but at least she can rationalize it to herself, but unfortunately she can't rationalize away your lack of integrity. You're fakeness simply acts as a mirror to reflect what she is and she's nauseated by what she sees. A match made in heaven.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:49 AM
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You can tell pretty well if the dynamic has shit the bed by how it felt as you two were seperating. From the sound of it, it sounds like she just wasn't feeling it and wanted to call the date early. You may have over escalated too fast too soon. With younger women, in public be patient and laid back, let her come into your bubble instead of imposing yourself on hers. Be attractive like a magnet. If you want to ping her just to see where you stand that's fine, if it works out great, if not onto t…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:39 AM
5

OP read some redpill material and is trying to be alpha. He hides behind the comfort of his relationship because he is incapable of spinning plates as a single man.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:16 AM
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1) You want to cheat on someone whom you committed to. If you don't want to be exclusive, negotiate that into the terms of the relationship before entering it or renegotiate it now. You lack integrity. "But they're just hoes bro". Sure thing, why on Earth would I trust you as a business partner or even as a friend if you're a back stabbing scumbag. You're someone who can't be trusted. In the long-term I'd want to have nothing to do with you or people like you. You're ROI negative. 2) You want to…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:14 AM
7

Women ping off your behavioral cues. If you think you're the shit, act, and speak like you're the shit, you'll be able to hook girls left and right. There's a reason why deadbeats can hook hot women, it's because they know how to activate a girls feels. Being able to stimulate her feelings is chick crack. A deadbeat might not be able to keep a girl around forever, but he can definitely have an abundant sex life and be the guy girls seek outside of their marriages because he knows how to hit her …
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:25 AM
4

She's blowing Chad Thundercock from 530 to 6. If you were a real man you would show up at 530 with a bouquet of flowers for her and a bottle of whiskey for Chad. If you're lucky he might even let you hold her hand as he blows her back out. Happy New Year!
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:48 PM
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Stop crying. The average height of a girl is 5'4. Your height isn't a problem, your insecurities are. She didn't reject you because you're 5'8, she rejected you because you're insecure.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:40 PM
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It's a question of values. Do you want to be friends with someone who sleeps with your exes? She's obviously using him to get back at you. But for him to take her up on the offer without consulting you goes to show that in that moment he put his pleasure above any consequences it would have on your friendship. That said he did acknowledge he fucked up, that's why he feels guilty, so you can appreciate that at least, he has a conscience. Some people abide by a higher set of values, they honor uns…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:33 PM
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Try it yourself. As the saying goes, experience is king. Just like the sidebar, till you walk the path and experience it for yourself, it's all just theory. That said, after orgasm it takes the brain about two weeks to return to homeostasis. https://www.mrtao.com/newpics/dopamineBIGa.jpg In this time you can experience a wide variety of symptoms such as mood fluctuations, fatigue, craving for more orgasms (aka dopamine hits). Ejaculation leads to loss in nutrients thus resources are redirected t…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 09:07 PM
1

Rather than adhereing to a strict set of rules focus on themes. Rules exist to provide you with a baseline for your behavior, but life is dynamic. Situations have similarities but are unique. Why do texting rules such as wait x days exist? To prevent you from overtexting and becoming needy. What about "if a girl likes you she'll make it easy for you"? To prevent you from over investing, becoming an orbiter and wasting your time. That said acknowledge that people are still meeting up / dating dur…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:21 PM
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The way I see it. OP is posting here as a last resort. He has zero understanding of gender dynamics. If his own girlfriend isn't fucking him, ain't no other girl fucking him period. He's not attractive. If he broke up with her, he would have trouble getting laid with any girl. The work he needs to do on himself to save the relationship is the same work he'd need to do to get laid as a single man. The relationship is salvageable but OP needs to do the work. What OP has going for him is that right…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 01:36 AM
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A lot of people in here will say that the relationship is done. Which is probably true. A girl invests in a man through sex. Make peace with the relationship being over. That said, this a perfect opportunity to experiment and see what happens. Start living for yourself. Double down on your hobbies. Start working out. Quit jacking off and watching porn. Start chatting with other girls and read way of the superior man. There's no polarity in your relationship. You two are buddies. Through habituat…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:16 PM
1

It's okay to catch oneitis. It's part of the learning curve. Just recognize that if you catch oneitis, you're observing reality through a filter. Mentally you've put her on a pedestal and thus are no longer able to relate naturally. You've made her your purpose, the focus of your attention rather than focusing on yourself and your mission. In that moment you've lost your masculine essence. The part of you that attracts. Remember, a girl who's into you will make it easy for you. https://archive.i…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 10:43 PM
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There's this saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder or that that which is scarce is perceived to be more valuable but these are based on the assumption that there is investment and desire from the individual. Based on your post, which reads to me, "hey asktrp, how do I get this one girl?", you have oneitis. This is a serious illness which is treated by taking a visit to the side bar and by interacting with more girls. Odds are you're just the orbiter and she's fucking this other dude. Y…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 09:38 PM
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You don't even have to dig that deep, just look up Jeremy Meeks, a convict who went viral because of his mugshot and ended up with modeling contracts and eventually dating and knocking up a billionaires daughter.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:45 AM
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Yes dude! A ship with holes in its hull sinks eventually, that is its nature, to sink. No matter how enjoyable the initial sail, eventually you find yourself standing in water, or worse floating in the middle of the open sea. Your attachment will drown you, that is a guarantee.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:27 AM
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You have all the pieces to live a good life. All that's needed is a shift in perspective and you're golden. You already acknowledged that you two were incompatible. That alone provides you with a starting point to let go of attachment. Go monk mode for 3 months. Work on your mindset. Clear up your headspace. Cultivate more mindfulness because the thought of her makes you miserable and is ruining your happiness. Don't you value your own happiness? Also quit porn/masturbation, that stuff is cancer…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:02 AM
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One day it'll click for him. And if it doesn't, that's okay too. In the end it's all good.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:23 AM
1

But what if you do? Odds are 50/50 and by your reply you're already skewing towards the negative and therefore setting yourself up for failure. This isn't even a question about meeting another girl anymore, if you did, chances are that the relationship would probably fail. Why? Because there is a problem with how you think. The way you relate with the world is skewed. You should be focused on doing deep inner work, not chasing tail. Why do you think the way you do? Why do you default to a scarci…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:19 AM
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Of course you do. How often do you meet someone you deeply click with? Not very often. Appreciate the relationship and connection you had for what it was, "life thank you for giving me the opportunity to experience that, it was amazing, and for that I am grateful" but then also acknowledge that there are other girls like her out there with whom you can have the same if not a stronger connection with, which your oneitis for this girl is preventing you from experiencing because you're closing your…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:30 AM
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Take this with a grain of salt. I heard a popular pick up coach say that if you went out 3 nights a week you'd meet 2-3 girls you really click with assuming you're taking action and approaching. If you went out 52 weeks, that's about 156 girls out of which you'd really only have a super strong connection with only a handful maybe 5. Odds are you're simply not meeting enough women. Getting a one night stand and finding someone to have a long term relationship with are on total opposite ends of th…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:18 AM
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Masculinity. Calm amidst the trials of life. Ability to whither the storm. Leadership and vision. Being grounded. Femininity is often associated with being light hearted, easy going, scattered, flowimg, ungrounded. You are the oak with roots deep in the earth, she is the squirrel that runs to and fro. This is the polarity which causes attraction between the sexes. Read way of the superior man.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 11:45 PM
1

The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem Book by Nathaniel Branden
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:30 AM
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She's a low vibration girl, this becomes evident when she becomes more attracted to you when you are in your partying cycle. Her energy is attuned to the instable emotional highs and lows of chaos. Her support for you is transactional, it doesn't come from a place of love. Someone like this isn't a suitable long term partner by any means.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:27 AM
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Frequent where successful people frequent. If you have nothing of value to offer them, at least offer them positive emotions. Become a happy, positive, cheerful person and you won't be short for friends.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:00 AM
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She's going to hit him with the book and he's going to be sponsoring her for the rest of her life at this point. God forbid she's smart enough to take him to court, the precedent is there. Why should the state support her when this sucker is doing it for free?
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:54 AM
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Mainstream according to whom? A western mind? Eastern traditions have a lot to offer. Paradoxically if you delve deep into an eastern tradition or something more secular, you'll be able to view western traditions with a fresh set of eyes thus leading to a deeper understanding. They all originate from the same source anyways. If you're going to aim for anything, seek the source out of which all traditions originate. The deeper you go, the more you'll see that all traditions speak of the same thin…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:37 AM
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I've started to purposely not escalate on first dates so that I can screen the girl and get a better sense of who she is and whether she would be a positive addition to my life. I've found that girls get even more attracted as a result of it. But I don't do it as a technique or strategy to get in her pants, I honestly just want to date girls I vibe with. I've found that many guys once they get intimate with a girl begin to lose their centre, stop being objective, and begin rationalizing her beha…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:59 AM
1

What would you tell OP?
/r/askTRP15/11/20 10:09 PM
1

Vipassana - experiencing reality as it is
/r/askTRP15/11/20 10:08 PM
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What lemonsiete said is correct. For you to pull back a person has to be invested in you; you've had a few dates, you've slept with her etc. If you're going to pretend to be busy, take a few hours to respond to a text. Some days you text each other alot, others not so much. Pulling back early in an interaction, especially online is a sign of disinterest from you. It's better to send one or two texts over the course of the day than just ghosting out right. You're swinging on opposite ends of the …
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:46 AM
1

Why did you ignore her?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:03 AM
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One day you will be dead. Everything eventually comes to an end. Live in the present. Savor what's in front of you. The only constant in life is change. Become familiar and comfortable with change and you'll become comfortable and familiar with death itself. And through becoming familiar with death you'll become familiar with life. When you become attached to that which changes you are bound to the wheel of suffering. When you observe change and accept reality as it is, you are free. I'm sorry f…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:00 AM
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It depends on the girl and her level of interest in you. Some will lose interest and flake if you don't keep the iron hot or at least lukewarm through re-engagement. Others might get more interested through your disengagement. It all depends on her level of interest and the strength of your impression on her. If the interaction is going well, there's a positive momentum, and you're having fun, I see no reason to cut it off. If the interaction has lost momentum and become kind of stale, shutting …
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:13 AM
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There is no need to be overt in your gestures. Your attention already signifies your interest to some extent. Focus on being fun, cool, flirty, and social. If she is interested, she will be receptive to your attention, and proactively seek it naturally. Establish a positive dynamic between you two. You two might not even get along in that manner, but if she thinks you're a cool guy who brings value to her life (positive emotions) she will be more willing to include you in her social circle. Girl…
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:51 PM
1

Honestly, my advice to you is twofold. One, be social in general, talk to everyone, form a study group (you can invite her to be part of it as well), and just expand your social network, so that when you do meet these people in a few months you'll already have a social circle that you can build off of. Two, when interacting with her, keep your interactions positive, lighthearted, and flirty on occasion, don't overdue it. Sure you could potentially get nudes or cyber with her, but the chance of y…
/r/seduction26/10/20 04:16 AM
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1) We are all constantly being bombarded by ever increasing stimuli more than ever before. Unless you make a significant impression on someone, odds are that your efforts will simply get lost in the noise. You can stand out by adding value (positive emotions) into their life. While the majority of people in the modern age are capable of getting their survival needs met, they are incapable of generating positive emotions within themselves. The whole entertainment industry is founded on this need.…
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:56 AM
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Society is rooted in a series of myths that create a narrative. The more people that believe in the myth, the stronger the narrative. In reality these myths only exist in the imagination. Society values celebrities, athletes, etc. If all these people died tomorrow, your heart wouldn't skip a beat. Look what happened with the covid pandemic, all these people fell into obscurity, they are all nonessential. When times are good, people are bored, so these entertainers are rewarded. When times are ba…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:24 AM
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Ayn Rand - The Fountainhead, this is the perfect book for you. There are groups of people who are part of "high society" that are good people; they have integrity, are humble, generous, warm hearted, etc. Being nice does not mean having no boundaries. The nicest people I know have the strongest boundaries. They have integrity, have strong values and are virtuous people through and through. The type of people you describe wouldn't even be able to enter their inner circles. A turd wrapped in a bou…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:46 AM
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I Hate You - Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality; Jerold J. Kreisman Stop Walking on Eggshells : Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care about Has Borderline Personality Disorder; Kreger, Randi.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:18 AM
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After you pass a certain threshold, your value in her eyes begins to decrease from over pursuing. Your attention and time is your value. If you're handing out your attention freely, pursuing a girl for months on end and she keeps postponing making concrete plans, you're her orbiter and the only thing she likes about you is the free attention. Think about it. Someone who constantly pursues a woman suffers from a lack of options and has nothing more important going on in his life. His actions show…
/r/seduction26/09/20 07:20 AM
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Indeed, the external does not determine one's self worth unless one allows it to do so. That said, after displaying who one is to the girl, and she's still not receptive, she simply isn't that interested. Why is that? Assuming she's in dating mode. Maybe what you offer isn't what she personally desires at this point in time. Maybe she only dates guys with muscles and six figure incomes. We dont know her criteria. But we know from her actions that she's not that interested in what you offer at th…
/r/seduction24/09/20 12:46 AM
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I tend to have lots of first dates that are fun but the spark isn’t there. I guess it cannot be manufactured, and often when they’re not feeling it it’s because I’ve already decided they’re not for me. Find and date women that you're into. This is what your post reads like to me; "hey reddit, I go on dates with girls that I'm not into. How do I escalate with a women that I'm not into". You don't. You find girls you're into and you'll be compelled to make a move. Your biology will do all the work…
/r/seduction24/09/20 12:45 AM
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A girl who wants to see you will make it easy for you. If she puts priority to other plans it means that you are not a priority for her and she is not that interested in you. A girl who is interested in you will be proactive about setting a date. Find a new girl. Odds are she has a man or multiple of them in her current orbit that are better than you. Become a better man, not just for women, but for yourself. A girl who wants you will make it happen. That doesn't mean that you're repulsive or an…
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:02 PM
1

The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem Book by Nathaniel Branden
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:11 PM
4

Write. Every single day you must write to perfect and hone your craft. You can publish your work on Amazon self-publishing which will make it accessible to those with kindles. You can also start a blog. Some examples of writers who started a blog and eventually became published authors; Mark Manson and James Clear. A book I'd recommend to you is The War of Art by Steven Pressfield. Consider that you might not actually want to become a writer, rather you value what writing brings you, the ability…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:07 PM
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Consider a library card for this exact reason, depending on where you live, libraries are a gold mine. Checking out books from the library also provides some incentive for you to read as you'll have to return the books. A lot of books you'll only really read once in your life, those you really enjoy or can't find at the library you can purchase for your personal collection. While they aren't the worst investment, books just end up being really expensive wallpaper.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 07:29 PM
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A meditation practice would serve you well. As you cultivate the ability to simply observe what arises in your field of experience and not get entangled with it you'll present yourself with an opportunity to determine who you are in relation to said phenomena and respond accordingly. Wherever you go there you are by Jon Kabat-Zinn is a popular one. That said there are thousands of books on the topic of mindfulness and meditation, you need to seek out one that resonates with you. There are also a…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 09:43 AM
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Evidently you live in Alberta, tech jobs are plenty in Calgary and well pretty much everywhere. Have you considered pivoting into software engineering? You're still building albeit non-physically. I know many unemployed engineers who have pivoted into software, and later into AI, machine learning depending on their interests. An MEng. degree will at least help you get your foot in the door.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 06:15 PM
1

You're asking the wrong question. The question is what kind of work do I want to engage in that will provide me with a source of income that will support the lifestyle I want to live. Work that is at least tolerable, but ideally something you're interested in and gives you some fulfillment. Reverse engineer your life. A college degree in this day and age shows that you have a base level of competence and the ability to finish something. Lots of employers won't even look at you if you don't have …
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:01 PM
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Biology. Humans are meant to reproduce. Life wants to continue. In the heat of the moment, the prefrontal cortex (responsible for decision making) takes a back seat as biology takes over. This is the reason girls ask you to cum in them, this is why in the heat of the moment men take off condoms and nut in girls despite knowing the risks of stds and pregnancies, they're simply overcome by the biological processes. 9 months later, congratulations, babynamesdotcom. Now you're stuck raising a child …
/r/askTRP04/07/20 09:52 PM
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Life is long. Comparison is the death of progress. You need to learn to live life to the beat of your own drum. Your focus should be on finding work that challenges you, fulfills you, and contributes to your own happiness. Growth as an individual should be your number one priority. You're stumbling because your current context doesn't match the narrative that's been engrained into you by society since birth. Hint: the narrative of early success is only applicable to a small minority of individua…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:31 AM
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It boils down to one word: freedom. Assuming a man has been living correctly up until this point, he is literally in the prime of his life and has complete and utter autonomy over it. Most people at that age are either tied down, have children, have mortgages and other loans, are in poor health and shape due to poor nutrition and lack of exercise, and are stunted by inertia. A man at that age is proven, his life shows it, and his dating options reflect it accordingly. At the snap of a finger he …
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:03 AM
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You are young and your prefrontal cortex isn't fully developed. The prefrontal cortex which is responsible for executive functioning fully develops in your mid to late twenties early thirties. It is the part of your brain which is geared towards long-term thinking and deferment of short term pleasure.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:04 PM
1

I agree, everyone is responsible for their own actions. But I also acknowledge that 99% of people are running their lives on autopilot due to how they were conditioned growing up. Most people are just a bundle of thoughts and emotions that react off each other ad infinitum with zero self awareness and discernment, thus are incapable of changing their own life. They're asleep and they don't know that they're asleep. Personally I would like to think that most parents would like to have a decent re…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:21 PM
2

Howard Roark, Ayn Rand - the fountainhead Themes include: living up to one's own ideal, blazing one's own path, deriving ones sense of self-worth from within, staying true to your own values despite everyone being against you. The opposite of these themes are also embodied in a different character in the book.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:41 AM
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First it's important to recognize that people (excluding psychopaths) who abuse you do so unconsciously. They were abused in their past most likely by their own parents and are acting out the same patterns with you. Due to their lack of awareness and their inability to develop/cultivate it, they were unable to break the pattern, thus passing it onto you. This is called generational trauma. People who abuse others don't know how to handle their emotions, if their emotions cross a certain threshol…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:30 AM
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You create sexual tension as a woman just by existing. But to answer your question relaxed eye contact (bedroom eyes) would be at the top, maybe sprinkle in some subtle lip licking/biting along with the eye contact, followed by touching, anywhere from a light but prolonged hand on the thigh/shoulder, to sitting down too close, where your bodies are touching. Men can rationalize away any female indicator of interest to being just an accident. If you're hoping to create sexual tension in order for…
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:47 PM
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Stranger = potential carrier of covid. Catching covid could potentially lead to illness and death. It makes sense that people aren't as sociable and open as they were prior to lockdown. When they come across another human, they experience anxiety because their fight or flight response is being activated. It's going to take a while for things to return back to pre-lockdown. It's an unprecedented event for our generation and has deeply shocked everyone's psyche. That said, some people might be mor…
/r/seduction23/05/20 10:29 PM
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Rejection does not mean that you're worthless. It simply means at this moment in time you two are not compatible for whatever reason. Maybe she's busy, maybe she read it, intended to respond later and just forgot. I've had girls reach out to me weeks, months later responding to a text. That's why it's important to have a life outside of women, build an ecosystem that generates positive emotions and leaves you feeling happy and fulfilled; fitness, diet, work, friends, purpose etc. You also need t…
/r/seduction23/05/20 05:36 AM
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We need to acknowledge a girls reality. At some point or another a girl said no to a guy and he freaked the fuck out. If this happens a few times, i'd be more inclined myself to just ghost as its easier than going through the fallout again and again. Being called a bitch, a slut, etc. Why bother? Is the risk of courtesy worth it? Unfortunately with that method a lot of good guys get burnt but the end result is the same; guy no longer in her reality.
/r/seduction23/05/20 05:23 AM
1

Tyler was always saying that he would transition to teaching self-help. He said that at some point he would no longer be teaching pick-up 6,7,8 years ago. The company moving from being pick-up to more self-help oriented was always on the cards. For anyone who was consuming their content way back it was stated out in the open so it doesn't come as a surprise. The current social PC climate just expedited that process. Once the Julien scandal hit, he saw the writing on the wall and adjusted accordi…
/r/seduction23/05/20 05:09 AM
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Meet more girls who you find attractive.
/r/seduction21/05/20 05:20 PM
2

What are you studying? vs. You seem to be the kind of a person who would study X.
/r/seduction05/05/20 08:11 PM
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This. Emotions. Adventure is a feeling. Adventure is a state of being.
/r/seduction22/03/20 02:46 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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