Lovin_data Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Girl asked me for my number While I kind of agree about the man’s role initiating, I don’t see any reason not to just shoot her a text. Sure, she might be a flake, but maybe she just forgot, got sidetracked, got nervous, etc. Good opportunity to take on the man’s role. Text her and see what happens.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 01:11 AM
2	Hittin' on someone IRL Well, that’s pretty selfish of you, thinking of pointless crap like that. She’s probably hoping she meets someone just like you, but you’re too busy keeping your guard up against people who barely give you a passing thought. I came from the same mindset until I realized this. Confidence is simply being vulnerable, nothing else. If it doesn’t go your way, I assure you that you can take the damage. You’ll live, and you might have a story to tell. Just try. I can’t explain till I’m blue in the face…	/r/seduction	30/08/22 01:24 PM
1	How can I smile at a woman without coming off as a creep? This is something you can totally practice in the mirror. Just keep trying until you get an expression that feels pretty cool or hot to you. You should probably tell yourself that you're hot while you're at it; I suspect a slight lack of confidence reading your entire post. And remember, if you lock eyes with her three times, you'd better get out of your head and just talk to her.	/r/seduction	29/08/22 08:53 AM
1	Advice for Single Guys Who Are Struggling You're really speaking the truth here. What I've found is that people often talk about confidence because they don't have to actually define it. Things worked in their favor, must've been because they were more confident than the next guy. Got the job, they must be confident as fuck. It makes the advisor feel good about giving almost useless advice. In reality, this "confidence" mentality goes from being numbers game bullshit to sheer laziness with your lady. Paying attention to your lady and kn…	/r/seduction	23/08/22 08:51 AM
2	How do men like to have sex initiated? I met a fine girl in my neighborhood once. Seemed DTF and the conversation was good, but way too good, like a literal brazzers scene (girl ditched by bf, I pull up to her, flirting is butter-smooth, and all of a sudden, she's ready to go anywhere with me). I was pretty sure that if I fucked her, I was gonna get robbed, as crime happens in my neighborhood and I knew she was in with the wrong crowd. It almost worked on me, though, so it's still not a bad strategy for a woman.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 01:57 AM
2	This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why? 👊 right back at ya! Thanks a ton for the advice. I'll be sure to remember it. I personally learned way more from psychology and social engineering than from super-macho pickup artists. Still not always morally upright, but I can still be myself and women seem to enjoy my company more, which I agree is way better than sex. For multiple reasons including safety, I recommend others learn SE.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 11:01 PM
2	This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why? Could you further explain what you mean by boundaries? Because I was raised to respect when a woman says no. In reality, sometimes I feel that I have to actively go against that or women won't respect me. Still, if I push and a woman I'm with seems hesitant, I'll definitely chill. Does that mean I fold easily? Or is it something else entirely?	/r/seduction	11/08/22 09:20 AM
2	How to say you're only looking for sex? I think he's saying he wishes he had your problem. Probably on a dry spell. He's in the right place at least!	/r/seduction	10/08/22 01:32 AM
0	How to say you're only looking for sex? Wow, sorry to hear that, dude. I think it's unusual to run into a total b- like that, though. I assume she was super "feminist". Try to brush it off, because it's common for them to find themselves in those situations with the very guys they hate so much. Just try to be respectful and know who you're dealing with. I personally don't go straight to sex-talk until a good while of talking, but I know it works plenty well for some guys as soon as they meet a girl.	/r/seduction	10/08/22 01:27 AM
6	Is it a bad thing for girls to see me approach other girls after closing with them ? That's when you play it like Splinter Cell. If you can be subtle or stay out of eyeshot (say you're at a bar with multiple rooms... next room!), then get another number. Make sure her friends who saw the interaction don't happen to see your next interaction, either. And I'm sure you already rank the girls you want to talk to most, so be most careful with the ones you really don't want to blow it with (but I imagine you'll spend a lot of time with them anyway). If all else fails, it's time to bar…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:55 AM
1	Fear of rejection and abandonment has ruined my mindset over the years I really wish you hadn't deleted this. (It showed up in my email, though). To start, I can relate to that to this day. And yes, the short answer is simply to just do it. There isn't much of a mental trick to get past that hurdle. Just talk to the girl(s). In my case, I follow some rules, but these are secondary. I say "Hi" to random people sometimes. It's the only pickup line you really need. You can figure the rest out. Eye contact is king. If you lock eyes with a woman three times, you have ab…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:26 AM