LovingOnOccasion Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women? Someone will always be more attractive than you. You're just creating a problem that cannot be resolved so you can justify your attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 09:04 AM
11	CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this sub Solipsism isn't a gendered concept. This is silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 09:30 AM
4	If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everyday Is this a bot? You say this every 5th or 6th comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 02:24 PM
2	Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire? Why don’t women just be honest with themselves I dunno. Why did you make up a story about your girlfriend bringing up facial traits and citing studies to broach this topic? Who knows? Maybe it's the same reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 09:05 AM
1	This message of constant improvement and "don't be boring" is just unrealistic standards from women in the Western world Yeah but they date "average men". This post sucks. It's literally the "men want a hot wife when they bring nothing to the table" meme but he's serious. Yes, you need to be valuable to attain a valuable partner. And yes, beauty is more valuable in women than men so you have to account for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 08:32 AM
7	Social circles are really not a good way to meet women Maybe stop inviting Bill lol. Take some accountability. And maybe accept that if Bill was hot and charismatic, his activities would be appreciated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/23 08:41 PM
8	Social circles are really not a good way to meet women That you think that was an oxymoron is the problem. They want to be responsible for introducing a couple that stays a couple. They don't get any value from you getting your dick wet once before you show off your clearly creepy side (if your comment is any indicator, that is).	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/23 08:39 PM
3	"If a guy likes masculine girls, he's gay." How often is that accusation true? You are the personification of every young man who is 3 classes deep into his first college psychology course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 10:35 AM
1	Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status. Why make sense when it gets in the way of your argument?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 12:27 PM
1	A growing number of women these days act like actual incels Wow, you missed my point by a mile. That's almost impressive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 09:27 PM
4	A growing number of women these days act like actual incels Do you get confused when you see food at the grocery store that you don't like to eat? Like, do you go up to a manager with "Why in the fuck are there pineapples over there?!? I hate pineapples!" I'm just really curious how people who seem to think they are the only type of person existing on earth manage to operate day-to-day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 09:59 AM
5	Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them. Yet I understand and let them be instead of starting countless discussions on the internet about it. You know where you're commenting right? You can block subreddits just fyi	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 09:15 AM
1	If it were more normalized for men and women to be friends, subs like this wouldn’t exist Add an "in my experience." to the end and we're good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 08:23 AM
6	If it were more normalized for men and women to be friends, subs like this wouldn’t exist Your arrogance in knowing what is normal or standard is either autistic or narcissistic. You are using your own personal experience as gospel and shitting on everyone else as they do the same. Link some sources for this wisdom of yours or stfu	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 01:16 PM
1	WGTOW Evidence? I don't think a bowl of shit means a bad person. I agree with you for the most part but c'mon this is ridiculous lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 01:08 PM
6	WGTOW Evidence? If you're forced to bike to work, you'll bitch about it. If you choose to bike to work, you'll consider the positives when you do so (health). Men bitch because they aren't choosing to ride the bike (be alone). Choice determines outlook.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 07:07 PM
-1	WGTOW Evidence? I’ve never heard of these extreme groups committing actual violence I do hope this particular deflection can eventually be ban worthy here some day. Such bad faith nonsense. "I dont know what you're talking about but DID YOU KNOW THAT SOME OF YOUR FELLOW PENIS-WIELDERS HAVE KILLED PEOPLE?!?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 07:03 PM
1	CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill light ...this is a really stupid reply. Youre CMV is such a bad faith post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 09:17 AM
2	CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill light There's one just a few replies down lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 09:15 AM
2	Do we underestimate the toll rejection takes on you? I always wanna ask these women how many hundreds of times were they rejected. The dudes who shoot up schools don't seem to talk to girls, much less ask hundreds of them out... Some folks are just broken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:58 AM
1	As a woman, does it matter to you if a guy is a loner or not? and why? that they struggle with commitment maintenance Can you expand on this? What does this struggle look like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 04:16 PM
3	Cardinal sin with women --am I wrong? If your wife does something stupid and you have to defend her, you are the cuck lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 07:22 AM
17	Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life? Not trying to shame you in particular but I really wish we, as a society, can get away from opening conversations about population statistics with "In my experience". No, the few hundred people you've gotten to know in your lifetime are not a representative sample size and do nothing outside of creating a strong bias you'll need to overcome. As to the question - The number of men with this issue is rising at a moderate pace and unfortunately young men tend to behave poorly when facing life circu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 08:57 AM
1	Are we in a Gender Cold War? So, you admit you were wrong and that mental abuse alone CAN and IS life threatening?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 02:49 PM
13	Am I the only one on r/PurplePillDebate that doesn't hate this sub? I think the posts that get fairly popular are reasonable for the most part but man, you dig just a bit below the surface and it's nothing but incels trying to justify their terrible attitudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 01:25 PM
7	No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractiveness ...do you not understand happy vs happier? One can be happy being single while understanding they would be happier in a great relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 07:15 PM
1	It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as them Neither are so much "needs" as "can attain". It's a self-regulating system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 12:01 PM
15	What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups? These are not gossip forums They should ban a lot of these women then lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 10:40 AM
3	Q4M: what should women know about sex? Did you like, forget the thread you were in and just wanted to complain about what's intentionally being discussed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 10:09 AM
1	Attractiveness doesn’t exist in a vacuum. So if most men are unattractive to most women then most men ARE below average Their lanes are usually a bit wider to be fair. Edit - whoops, that's not a fat joke. They just have a bit more marketplace opportunity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 09:27 AM
0	Attractiveness doesn’t exist in a vacuum. So if most men are unattractive to most women then most men ARE below average Most women are average to good looking because they put in effort and attempt to be appealing. Most people, men and women, are wildly unattractive. Difference is, you can completely ignore ugly women - but ugly men are a potential threat so you have to take note of them. Think that fucks up the internal counts. Imo anyhow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 04:45 PM
0	What do you define as flirting? Women have their own shit to deal with. I'll take risk of rejection over risk of rape every day of the week.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 05:52 PM
1	Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is bad Never said there wasn't a huge difference so please don't put words in my mouth and then argue against them. Hopefully you weren't doing that actively 😉	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 01:57 PM
1	Women suggest being platonic friends first because that’s what they usually do, but this never works for men You didn't answer my question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 07:42 PM
1	Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is bad Intent matters but it's not everything. You might not be actively malicious but you've got a whole ass other person interpreting the disparity in income and they may feel absolutely coerced. Anyone confidently saying they aren't passively manipulating their parter despite knowing there is a power dynamic differential is lying to themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 12:24 PM
2	People should be 100% transparent on the first date you're that fucked up, you shouldn't be dating. Again. Everyone is quite fucked up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 09:54 AM
2	Women suggest being platonic friends first because that’s what they usually do, but this never works for men Men can't relate to the female experience. So do you believe people raised in different countries cannot be close friends? How about a homemaker and an engineer? These are both far more polarizing to your lived experience than genitals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 09:52 AM
3	People should be 100% transparent on the first date We are all way too fucked up to be dumping the entirety of our shit on a first date. Eve if this were somehow fully adapted by the world, it would just provide benefit to narcissists and those without much self awareness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 05:26 PM
1	Women suggest being platonic friends first because that’s what they usually do, but this never works for men Could you please stop saying that you disagree and provide some details on why you believe this? Why quadruple down but not provide your reasoning? You sound very silly and unnecessarily argumentative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 12:00 AM
2	Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge this It's tough before you have that first truly shitty toxic fucking mess of a relationship. Only then can you weigh both scenarios a bit more realistically. The number of married men who are jealous of your freedom is a staggering amount.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 11:36 AM
2	Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge this Idk any grown man or woman like 40+ who are actually happy alone. Huh, I'd say the same about couples. Outside of their bimonthly Facebook smiley family posts, every couple Ive gotten to know well is nothing but two miserable people too scared to start over and too weighed down by kids and sunk cost fallacy. But truth is, that is my anecdotal experience so it means fuck all. Just like yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 11:34 AM
2	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time Fair enough, I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 09:24 AM
1	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time So then you believe his exhaustion has no legitimate maximum threshold but her's has an absolute ceiling that must be averted no matter how little she has done? If your principal doesn't have a breaking point, you're just wanting to argue for the sake of it. Might want to visit twoX or FDS If you just wanna talk about how men suck and don't do enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 09:51 PM
-1	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time Again, there are too many variables. Is the guy doing hard labor 80 hours a week? Is there just 1 kid? Is that kid in school all day? If these are all true, do you still believe he must help?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 06:35 PM
4	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time they think it’s normal Are you sayings it's abnormal? I sort of agree with you but the foundations of your reasoning seem poor. There is no normal, people have too many variables.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 02:15 PM
10	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? I agree with you but now I'm concerned I agree with a bot. after she made a human with her body Like wtf, no one talks like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 11:31 AM
0	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? More doesn't mean better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 11:29 AM
1	Casual dating is a self-harm and the culture surrounding it is poison. Change my mind. Willing to debate either gender from either side of the isle. i'M uPvOtED fOR a ReASoN	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 03:48 PM
16	The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signalling Ehh, we all do it I think. I don't find supermodels attractive at all. But who knows, maybe I've just subconsciously eliminated them to totally sidestep the inevitable desire/rejection cycle that would create.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 11:28 AM
2	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women You seem to be saying things in an objective way throughout this thread but why is that? Is this all based on your anecdotal experience or are you referencing something else?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 01:50 PM