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ConversationLow-Investigator2953/r/seduction09/02/26 06:32 PM
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ConversationLow-Investigator2953/r/seduction18/10/25 07:04 PM
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LifestyleLow-Investigator2953/r/seduction07/11/25 04:50 PM
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ConversationLow-Investigator2953/r/seduction31/01/26 03:22 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationLow-Investigator2953/r/seduction29/01/26 01:50 PM
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So true , i am dating a girl who is totally different from this so called social media stigmas of what a woman is like . Having these prejudices can ruin your chances with a right woman , trust me
/r/seduction28/04/26 05:42 PM
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Can you please give tips for how to have a solid inner game
/r/seduction23/04/26 03:59 PM
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Would you elaborate on what you mean by considerate
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:17 AM
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Finally someone said what I feel , saying things like these are just ways to escape and not actually figuring out why you need to do that in the first place .
/r/seduction10/03/26 06:33 AM
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Positivity is all good and ofc the right girl will do that but still you need to know where you are lacking .
/r/seduction06/03/26 04:41 PM
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Have you ever asked your friends or somebody else what are the things that you can improve about your physical appearance ?
/r/seduction06/03/26 04:20 PM
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Most of the time it's your face cause it's the first thing people notice . Second comes your physique and posture . Hair , dress sense , how you present yourself follows. It's not difficult to figure it out where you are lacking. You can ask others but all you need to do is first accept your flaws, only then you can work on them.
/r/seduction06/03/26 03:47 PM
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Tbh for me , attracting was never a problem , it was keeping them hooked or attracted to me . So all i needed was some confidence, self belief and self love . If no one likes you then there is definitely something which isn't your favour , if you people don't find you attractive in the first place , you have to work on your looks . So you have to figure it out by yourself. Confidence and self acceptance doesn't mean that you shouldn't grow or improve yourself. You should be comfortable in your s…
/r/seduction06/03/26 03:37 PM
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Hope for the best , prepare for the worst 🙏🏻
/r/seduction06/03/26 01:34 PM
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Don't care , luck favours the brave . But what i realised is , just do what you can do and the rest will work out . You can't control other things except your actions
/r/seduction06/03/26 10:41 AM
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Nothing much , I confessed this girl and asked her out , she said she needed time to first know each other. I cleared my intentions since the start and it's been a month only and now we are in a relationship. Now I sometimes tell her to take things slow 😂
/r/seduction06/03/26 10:21 AM
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For me it wasn't the abundance mindset rather it was that i am good enough and i am what i am and should indulge with someone who likes me as i am resulting in killing desperation, neediness , trying to impress. I got successful with my first try and i am still surprised lol . Though it's been a month only but I think this helped me a lot
/r/seduction06/03/26 06:34 AM
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I personally benefited from being honest so idk man , the right person won't be like this
/r/seduction04/03/26 02:11 PM
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I think the idea behind is to not care about what they would think of you but it's a horrible way to look at it
/r/seduction02/03/26 04:08 PM
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Dm me , I'll send you ss
/r/seduction02/03/26 03:39 PM
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It includes affirmations . What i did as part of self love is skincare , exercising regularly , a clean and healthy diet , taking care of myself, taking stand for myself, prioritising myself, doing things for myself which i do for others and more . Doing all the things i do for someone i love .
/r/seduction02/03/26 09:04 AM
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Do you even want to date people who get turned off just because you used certain songs , it would be a pain in the ass as you would always have to walk on the eggshells around them .
/r/seduction02/03/26 05:19 AM
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Yes so true, it's been a month since I've been doing this and the effects are already there . I was suffering from nice guy syndrome and doing much better now . People like me more now which is weird lol
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:51 PM
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Affirmation, meditation, journaling , self love , prioritising myself. Helped a lot
/r/seduction01/03/26 01:44 PM
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Love yourself and your mental peace, why even date this kind of girl ?
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:20 AM
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Is she crazy , what kind of test is that ?
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:09 AM
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How would you be able to seduce her or attract her when there isn't any comfort ? The best way to seduce and build attraction is physical touch and for that you need to build comfort. Just don't play too safe and you'll dodge the Friendzone
/r/seduction14/02/26 05:54 AM
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Impress her by using chopsticks. Haha jokes apart , show interest in her culture, ask her to teach you how to use chopsticks , go to a good chinese restaurant. Ask her how she is feeling there . Open her up
/r/seduction14/02/26 05:12 AM
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I don't think you can figure this thing out without any risks involved, you have to take risks
/r/seduction13/02/26 10:23 AM
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It's alright, you are a good man and you are totally right . Experience builds a man and knowledge is only useful if applied. I wish the same for you too
/r/seduction12/02/26 02:11 AM
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I never tried to learn about Casanova so i don't care how much you know or how wrong i am here but having that many partners doesn't make him a loverboy for sure
/r/seduction11/02/26 03:51 PM
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And your example of Casanova is so absurd , he seduced and been with a lot of women and you think he found them the one lol what
/r/seduction11/02/26 01:22 PM
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That pua does work for the short term but even I don't do it as i don't wanna be that guy . We are talking about the long term so let's stay on that only. When you are choosing for the long term , you have to be honest and present your best foot , not manipulation or any of that stuff . It takes a lot of time to actually check whether you guys are compatible or not. I personally over showered my attention and efforts in my first long term relationship resulting in one sided kind of relationship …
/r/seduction11/02/26 01:22 PM
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Bruh , be a little realistic. It's not healthy for my mental health to invest in someone who's not even committed to me right now . Everything has a right time , she only deserves to be my centre of attention when she is the one until then it's self sabotaging to put a woman on a pedestal in the early stage , been there done that . And Casanova is not a good example to compare with , he is exceptional
/r/seduction11/02/26 12:28 PM
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True man , right now i am trying to date a woman who is ambitious, never been in a relationship, innocent sweet , beautiful. If she senses that i am dating multiple women or keeping her as an option i might lose her . So that's why i am avoiding it , i am also keeping myself busy so that she won't be in my mind all the time .
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:38 AM
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Sure man I'll give it a watch . I'll just try to be honest with her , be myself and spend time with her to see how it goes.
/r/seduction11/02/26 01:48 AM
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Let's see man , unless we try we'll never know . I'll take the L or W doesn't matter
/r/seduction11/02/26 01:46 AM
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Yeah i am a little naive so there are still a lot of mistakes i am yet to make
/r/seduction11/02/26 01:45 AM
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Oh man , sad to hear that . What went wrong in your case so that i won't make that mistake
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:33 PM
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Yeah that's exactly what i am gonna do , thank you
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:00 PM
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Yeah she is south asian and so am i :)
/r/seduction10/02/26 01:32 PM
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As per her words , she never had a relationship and she wants one relationship only and that's why she wants to take things slow . What she would've told me if she liked me .
/r/seduction10/02/26 09:26 AM
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Solid advice Thank you, I'll see what i can do
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:59 AM
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Apart from telling her my intentions , i did treat her a little differently and showed some care too . But she told me that she didn't feel like i liked her 🙏🏻😭, istg these girls act so dumb and innocent that i hate it
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:19 AM
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That's what she suggested as well , let's meet and know each other . But she wants to be friends first and take things very slowly which I think would be a pain in the ass but she is one man woman girl . It's so hard to decide whether to invest my efforts and time in her as the ROI is very slow and uncertain but she's a catch as it's hard to find a girl like her
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:17 AM
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I was doing that and she still said she didn't feel that I liked her this whole time . She's naive and immature. I know i took a crazy risk but this was the only way to take things forward
/r/seduction10/02/26 03:10 AM
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I couldn't phrase this sentence better sorry , i meant to say i cleared things in the early stage that i am only talking to her because i have interest in her and i like her so that she doesn't think of me as a friend.
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:07 AM
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So what is the right thing to do after all this ?
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:06 AM
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Well the thing is , right now we won't be able to meet until march and the conversations and all the interactions felt like a friend to friend conversation , so i confessed to her that i like her and don't think of her as a friend or something else other than a potential girlfriend. I didn't ask her out , i just cleared my intentions in the early stage in order to avoid being friendzoned So now , should i wait for her texts and efforts in order to take things forward ?
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:05 AM
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I just confessed to her that i like her and don't think of us as friends .
/r/seduction09/02/26 06:58 PM
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What if she also said she never felt that i liked her
/r/seduction09/02/26 06:57 PM
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Haha cheesy one , i like it but the perfect time to say this is gone sadly
/r/seduction09/02/26 06:56 PM
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That's really a good opinion , let's see . I would want her to reciprocate some efforts in order to keep my interest in her and i am pretty sure i didn't over flirt or even flirted tbh .
/r/seduction09/02/26 06:56 PM
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So many interesting pieces of advice in the comments , i love it
/r/seduction06/02/26 01:59 PM
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You are right , it's a very bad habit that i am working on . Currently I am working in a village kinda area so it's hard to find a girl and even if i find one , the language gap makes it difficult so I'll try to have options but it's tough. I am mostly working on myself and pursuing some interests and i still find to invest in this girl 😔
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:44 PM
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No i meant if she replies to my stories and sometimes she even makes some excuses to talk to me only then I'll talk to her . And i won't force a conversation . I'll make sure that i won't make any mistakes as you told me . It would be huge if you would tell me some more in general mistakes that i shouldn't do in this time frame as i am a little inexperienced. Thank you
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:33 PM
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Yes that's exactly what i am trying to do and keep the balance . I am thinking about chatting once or twice a week and not forcefully but naturally, maintaining my frame and non neediness. I just have a doubt, should i send some messages or reply to her stories if we haven't talked in a while or let the silence continue.
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:15 PM
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I am going to but right now we are in a long distance due to work but we have the same field office so I'll wait till i get back to the office , gonna take 2 months though
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:56 PM
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I mean if she wanted us to talk but initiative is the issue, i can fix that
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:50 PM
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I am thinking maybe it's the hesitation or trying not to look desperate so it might get better with time
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:49 PM
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You are so right , it makes a lot of sense . I will maintain this silence but i am not sure when to break it or do i even need to break it or let her break it first ? And I'll practice this self control , thank you
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:40 PM
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I understand it , thank you for your words .
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:38 PM
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Not comfortable ngl but i am getting signals from her side so that doesn't mean anything ?
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:23 PM
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That kind of feeling doesn't come from within so do i have to fake it till i make it ?
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:22 PM
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You are right about it . Yes i am needy that's why I don't want to act needy . I tend to overthink these small things which is also a part of neediness . How can i be better and be non needy .
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:05 PM
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In those 10 days, we had many moments together and it's not total waste and both of us aren't that forward to make a move as It's kind of our workplace
/r/seduction29/01/26 02:44 PM
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Thank you for your comment , can you please elaborate what you mean by getting in touch with my masculinity
/r/seduction28/01/26 08:40 AM
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Were your instincts always like this or you grew them with time or experience ?
/r/seduction28/01/26 08:03 AM
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I feel you my friend , i also suffer from this . What i observed about myself is when I meet someone, i start fantasizing about them , create a personality in my mind and start falling for it , It doesn't matter how they really are in reality. As someone said , it is because of the lack of options and desperation build up over time . The only way to overcome this habit is by not doing it . What i mean by that is , whenever you find yourself doing this thing , try not to do it and focus on why yo…
/r/seduction27/01/26 04:02 PM
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For whatever reason she hates men , don't take her seriously
/r/seduction27/01/26 12:01 PM
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It's probably your first time so i won't be hard on you but take care , don't get involved in this . This is not an ideal situation
/r/seduction24/01/26 08:16 PM
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And chances are very high that she'll find someone else near to her and would break up with her current one so ya
/r/seduction24/01/26 08:14 PM
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Find someone else or wait for her to be single .
/r/seduction24/01/26 08:13 PM
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You didn't fall for her , you fell for the idea of that girl in your mind . Both are diff and coming to your dilemma , it's never worth it to try on committed girl
/r/seduction24/01/26 08:11 PM
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He is 5 years old , it's hard to do it now . He is now what he is .
/r/seduction22/10/25 08:29 AM
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Sure
/r/seduction19/10/25 07:21 PM
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I shouldn't think about trying to have a conversation with them ?
/r/seduction19/10/25 03:04 AM
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Not really if I'll be honest
/r/seduction18/10/25 07:51 PM
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Yeah man , idk how to do that
/r/seduction18/10/25 07:51 PM
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I am pretty much in the same boat, to improve myself I am reading books , getting better and what i realised is to really know all of these things you wrote , you need to start doing things . No amount of guides and books or anything will give you the answers more than the experience. So like me , start having conversations with people especially women , don't hesitate,try your best and keep your expectations low.
/r/seduction15/10/25 07:42 PM
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Me too
/r/seduction15/10/25 07:39 PM
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Yeah that's a good approach
/r/seduction12/10/25 03:42 PM
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Man I don't wanna get labelled as a creep , the place where I live is very regressive so the cold approach culture is quite risky here .
/r/seduction12/10/25 03:35 PM
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How can I be better at reading the room and knowing when it's genuine or when she is just looking with no intentions
/r/seduction12/10/25 03:26 PM
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Wow that's so confusing, will think twice before assuming that a girl who is looking at me likes me
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:11 PM
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Can you send it to me as well please
/r/seduction28/09/25 03:21 PM
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Saale 12th class pass nhi kri aur baatien aise kar rha hai , bhai thamm ja Masturbate or do something else Ye predator mentality will make you end up in jail
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:23 AM
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The one I know and is a friend of mine is bisexual . Forget about women , his game is so good that he fucks hot girls as well as hot guys , would you believe that . The crazy part about this is the guys he fucks are straight , he convince them to sleep with me , doesn't matter top or bottom . He is getting what he wants . He is mad about doing things and very disciplined in every aspect . Always aces his exams , school , colleges and even at work . He is just 24 and earning well , comes in top 1…
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:35 PM
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I know it's out of context but what went wrong with your gf , 8 years is a big deal man
/r/seduction13/09/25 06:38 PM
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What the heck , does every girl around you wear an apple watch
/r/seduction06/09/25 04:10 AM
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I wish I would be able to say this after my 30s 😭
/r/seduction12/07/25 08:19 AM
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