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| – | If everyone could KNOW in advance about (potential) partners' relationship and sexual past, what impact would that have on the SMP/RMP and society?I don’t think it would have much of an impact. Maybe in conservative/religious circles it would have some influence but it wouldn’t change anything for the rest of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Anyone think following men/women who aren’t interested in you/out of your league on IG isn’t mentally healthy?Don’t people just do that to see pictures of pretty people? Who cares if you’re ‘feeding their need for attention’ or whether they’re thinking of you. Just look at the hot pic and move on with your day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy bathroom mirror is the only place I actually don’t mind looking at myself. In pictures I look like an ogre. Even mirrors and reflections outside my bathroom I look like shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Women’s interests and Hobbies.I still wouldn’t really care. What I mean is that if I already like her I’ll probably be at least somewhat interested in her interests and hobbies, regardless of what those are. If I don’t really like her, her hobbies or interests aren’t going to change that. I dunno, I like people based on their personality and mindset, and I’m attracted to people based on looks and general vibes. Hobbies and interests come afterwards and how much I care about those will depend on how much I like/am attracted t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOnly accent I have any kind of opinion on is English with a Dutch accent. Like nails on a chalkboard to me, probably because I dislike the fact that I can’t speak English without it. Outside of that I don’t give a fuck about people’s accents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 04:45 AM |
| -3 | Women’s interests and Hobbies.As a man, I don’t really care about a woman’s hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you think military-style programs from adolescence through late teens could have improved the lives of many manospherians?It provides avenues for socialization, structure, and concrete goals so sure it could’ve helped. Those are generally good things. Lots of other things provide those too though and I don’t think the military is any better than the other options. Probably worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people confuse "tall dark and handsome" with "asshole"I always confused it with handsome black men. Took me a while before I figured out white people like describing themselves as 'dark'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the Kardashian look?Some men do. That Kylie seems pretty popular, I saw lots of men talk about her appearance in the WAP video even though Meg was right there. Personally, only Kim was ever really all that attractive to me and even then, not that much. They don’t do much for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 06:26 AM |
| 7 | Do you think you happiness can come from other people?While I’m sure there are people who could be happy all by themselves, we’re a social species and generally need others to be happy and healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 06:22 AM |
| 1 | An enthusiastic make-out sesh within the first few link ups is a good litmus for sexual interest.No shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 03:36 PM |
| 17 | Are some men truly content with never finding love?Just leave him be, jesus christ. Single people don’t need saving, not even the perpetually single ones. My uncle is turning 61 this year and he’s never been in a longterm relationship. Don’t know about his sex life but he’s always been a happy bachelor. Hell, I’m not sure I’ll ever get into a relationship again and I’m pretty okay with the prospect. I feel worse about denying my parents grandchildren than never having another relationship lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do men date when they claim they don’t know what they want?“I don’t know what I want” is code for “I’m still hoping we can fuck/continue to fuck but I’m not interested in making this too serious/exclusive”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou think being picky or rude to your husband is worse than divorcing him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Is much of how men experience the "Women are Wonderful" effect internally sparked, "societal," or both?I think there's two things going on here. The first is a cultural narrative about womanhood with which we're all raised and that we thus internalize. I hesitate to call this a 'women are wonderful' narrative, it's more complicated than that, but it does dehumanize women and turn them into objects to be treasured, protected, owned. It's an inherently patriarchal narrative. The second thing is a fixation with female approval had by straight men on account of their sexual interest in women. This is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 07:02 AM |
| 8 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?Delighted at the better treatment and end to harassment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Are truly platonic friendships between women and men common?Not as common as same-sex friends but not too uncommon either. Few people would be surprised by two opposite-gender people being friends. As for that stuff about testosterone, who gives a shit about having sexual thoughts about someone? Is that supposed to mean something? Is a platonic friendship invalidated by sexual thoughts? IMO, it doesn’t mean anything. It’s no big deal, just something that can happen. Doesn’t have any bearing on a friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 12:06 PM |
| 2 | “Chemistry”... what is it?Mutual sexual attraction that's apparent to both people without it having to be explicitely expressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Women in one breath will say: “ I see average looking dudes with beautiful women all the time “ then right after say :”men shouldn’t complain about being single if they are chasing more attractive women “ HUH ?This is actually indicative of how important looks are wrt the assessement of a woman's value. It is so culturally ingrained that even a lot of women have internalized it. That's why whenever someone talks about average or below average men dating they mention that the women those men found were attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 11:30 AM |
| 10 | Q4W Your boyfriend used to willingly go down on his, but doesn't do it anymore on you. What do you do?Y’all know that you can break up because you’re not receiving oral regardless of whether she’s done it in the past right? It’s like you want to break up but also feel ‘morally’ justified and victimized while doing it. Her past is completely irrelevant, just asses whether you’re enjoying your sex life in the here and now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 06:38 AM |
| 11 | What is your preference for the physical types of men a woman dated in the past relative to you?It would have zero impact on my decision. Why should I care? How would I even know? This kinda shit’s so baffling. Care about how you’re treated in the here and now. Are you having a lot of sex and are y’all sexually compatible? Does she seem attracted to you? If so, why would you ever care about her exes or past experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Are "good girls" really what men want?Straight men just want hot women. Bad… good… none of that really matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 4 | The 80/20 rule is true, one should accept it and move on (CMV)I was never told that appearances didn’t matter. They matter to me so it makes sense that they’d matter to others as well. And I was always aware that everybody’s fucking but that those who are hotter, more assertive, more extroverted, more successful, richer, etc. had an easier time fucking than others. There was never anything I had to accept, nothing I had to move on from. Extreme shit like 80/20 just seems like nonsense to me. Sure, some fuck more than others but I’m surrounded by average pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Is celibacy a red flag?I can’t imagine ever caring about something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you still be happy fucking a woman who "wants to put a paper bag over your head", i.e. is repulsed by you but fucks you out of horniness anyway?I’ve got a bit of a masochistic side so this is sounding kinda hot to me, not gonna lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 05:47 AM |
| 6 | Talking about character development and how it is totally fine to have had multiple sexual partners and wild sex in the past... Regret is the keywordRegret like that is for losers. Regret is for when you’ve hurt other people, not for once having a different lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 05:43 AM |
| -2 | Is pumping and dumping girls immoral?It’s undoubtedly asshole behaviour but it’s not that big a deal IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 12:24 PM |
| 3 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?Yes. It is very important that both at least feel like they’re on the same side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 12:19 PM |
| 4 | Question for men: Do you take the time to prioritize your partners orgasm, even if that means continuing to work on them after you’ve already finished?When I was in a relationship I was on anti-depressants and couldn’t finish so the sex was mostly about her. I quite enjoyed that dynamic. So the only way I’m a selfish lover is if you think it’s selfish to not cum for your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 08:49 AM |
| 4 | Even within an LTR non-horny sex isn’t enjoyable for many women and usually leads to bad feelings even if she doesn’t mean for it to — how do we mend this?I do not understand why you’d ever have sex when not in the mood. I wouldn’t get anything out of sex if my partner isn’t enjoying themselves so they wouldn’t even be doing me a favor. I guess I got lucky in the past cause my ex was always the one who initiated sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Just go to the gym broWorking out is fun. I don’t look muscular at all but that pump after a good workout still feels heavenly. Besides, staying active, being healthy, and making (slow) progress all help you feel better on the mid- to longterm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho doesn’t love kids? They’re awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 09:02 PM |
| 3 | What is your advice for a girl that have been pumped and dumped?Wait longer before having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Hard truth: The reason you're single is not because you're ugly it's because you're mentally ill and shitty at hiding it.I think it more often comes down to lack of trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Just go to the gym broBet all those guys are still incredibly happy with what they've achieved and get a lot of fulfillment out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 11:47 AM |
| 1 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?Nothing. We're not different species for fuck's sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | How miserable is your life from 1-10 and whyMy life’s pretty sweet, no complaints there. I, on the other hand, really fucking suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Do males know how unattractive they are?Pretty wack to come in pretending to be a savage and then reaching for the nice nothing of 'fine' when someone asks you to rate them to their face. Like, I think the dude looks fine too but I'm not someone who'd ever call someone a 'generous 2'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Do males know how unattractive they are?Generally, straight men tend to overestimate their attractiveness to women. Not a bad thing mind you, men are still expected to approach so overconfidence is better than being insecure. I especially notice men having really skewed views on how overweight or muscular they are. A girl once showed me texts by this pretty fat guy who was complaining that his friends didn't let him know that they all thought he was fat while he went around thinking he was a 'bit big', as if he didn't have eyes and a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Girl on the left cooks, cleans, loves and respects you and is loyal...girl on right fucks your brains out daily but can't cook or clean and is a huge cheating risk, who you choosing?Just be fuckbuddies with girl on the right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 11:55 AM |
| -1 | FaxThis fucking obsession with compliments completely baffles me. Y'all don't have moms? Siblings, friends, nephews, coworkers, etc.? Partners have never complimented you ever? Like, what are y'all crying about. That no one has ever stopped you in the middle of the street to tell you the colour of your eyes reminds them of a late summer sunset? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 10:23 AM |
| 4 | When all men take a week long holiday, the world will be like:Nothing more pathetic than some sad sack white collar office worker trying to take credit for the labour of other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:33 PM |
| 1 | how realistic is it for a woman to have kids with you out of wedlock?Most people I know have kids before they get married... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:50 PM |
| 23 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightUnless you've been dating for months/over a year and are actually close, getting ghosted by someone should just lead to this response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:39 PM |
| 28 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:Everybody always tells incels they look fine, if a little unkempt. It's incels who always go on about how ugly they are. In actuality, the "I'm an ugly subhuman" schtick is just a defense mechanism because incels feel resentful about being just average and having to work to date instead of having beautiful women fall into their laps like they think happens with the hottest of hot men they can't stop comparing themselves to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 0 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenDon't blame others for your insecurities. It's pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:36 AM |
| 7 | Do any of you actually like the opposite gender?IME, women are usually kind and show genuine interest in your wellbeing and your life in general. I vibe more with male-style bonding but I can still appreciate how nice a lot of women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:16 AM |
| 3 | "Creepy" has no meaning any moreLittle to no social awareness, inability to read non-verbal language and no regard for stated boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 8 | Modern women have unrealistic expectations of modern men.Isn’t the whole reason for a lot of the anger on this sub the perception that women are doing fine in the modern dating world while men aren’t. If that’s the case women’s standards must be perfectly okay cause they’re still finding dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:05 AM |
| 4 | narcissistersPretty sure that’s not actually from FDS. Reads like a troll post written by a dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | how do blue pill men justify and accept their dating failure?That last one. We just blame the person actually responsible: ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 06:39 PM |
| 5 | Notice how this sub almost never has women asking what men want or how to attract menThe men here would like to know how to sleep with women, including the types of women on this sub. No woman on this sub would ever want to sleep with the types of guys she thinks frequent it so it wouldn't make sense for one to ask for advice here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Keep dropping memes slutsDo women even get all that mad about those sorta comments? I see a lot more guys getting angry at women commenting about their own standards than I see women get angry at men's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 06:35 PM |
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