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| 3 | Do you divorce if there's no attraction left because your spouse aged like milk?Marriage is spiritual first off..looks fade..when you love someone unconditionally that doesn't matter looks money short tall skinny fat you and your wife are ONE.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/24 11:38 PM |
| 8 | Couldn't she say it before?We all get red flags..but when you love someone you over look a lot of red flags..you just don't know a person..they're past trauma they're total mental make up..what really happened between her and her ex's..any diseases she or he may have there is never a full disclosure..it's all about I will tell you what deem beneficial for me at the time.. thoroughly vetting before marriage is a must..my wife had play brothers lots of male friends always smiling at guys conversations with guys while I'm wi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/24 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Finding potential evidence that..38 months in a sexless marriage was she cheating I don't know..my wife filed for divorce last month September 2024..gotta sort things out gonna take a year or more to finalize the divorce..I wish her the best.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Saved marriageWhen your wife becomes the provider it's over..the sex stops she will absolutely not help you..and most likely found someone else..I lost my job a year ago my wife wanted me out the house.. verbal and physical abuse..it was bad..she told me to go to the welfare office if I needed food or money and this my wife..move on..when a wife is done she done 💯 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Wife is finally moving forwardI lost my job in September 2023 my wife went scorched earth on me..verbal and physical abuse called me a loser telling me I'm not a man..she is the high earning spouse 105K a year..she told me if I needed any help I should go get welfare public assistance 😳..she completely cut me off btw no sex in the last 38 months..my wife filed for divorce last month September 25th..2024 it's over we gotta sort out the assets but she's not the same women I met in 2017.. 💯 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | What should I know?Lot verbal and physical abuse by my wife..a true narcissist.. just a totally different person now from the time we first met.. sometimes a divorce is inevitable 70% of divorces initiated by the wife especially if she can gain financially..they are savages when it comes to money | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | What should I know?Is your marriage sexless?.. I'm at month 38 without sex from my wife...and yes we are in the divorce process.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | My wife is begging me now to stopt the divorce process!Oh okay thanks most times lawyers want a retainer fee..a contested divorce costs anywhere from 5K-20K..my wife thinks she don't owe me anything..lied about the separation date..tricked me with the quitclaim and took out 350K when she refinanced the house..geesh | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 03:54 AM |
| 2 | My wife is begging me now to stopt the divorce process!On contingency?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 02:35 AM |
| 3 | My wife is begging me now to stopt the divorce process!Thing is I have no money I will ask the court to require my wife to pay my attorney fees | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 12:16 AM |
| 5 | My wife is begging me now to stopt the divorce process!In 2021 my wife had me and her mother sign as witnesses to a refinance of the house..I was hesitant on signing didn't know what I was signing the mortgage agent said no worries you're signing as a witness..my wife got angry at me I signed it 2 years later she tells her brother I signed over everything I'm like wait what?..I did my homework online looked up the title on the house bingo me and her mother signed quitclaim deeds..she wasn't fair at all..gave up my rights to the house...my wife and m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Wife wants me out of house by 11/1/24Can you get spousal support if you still live with your wife during a divorce or is it better to find a place to live we have no kids?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/24 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Where Do I Go From Here?Had sex with her best friend in the bedroom while you were on the couch.. people go to jail for something she pulled..even the best friend took a chance of being hurt severely depending on the person...you showed great restraint in that situation that's brutal..she's evil man | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Wife said she wants a divorce, but won’t make it fully realI made the mistake of signing paperwork my wife wanted to do a refinance of the house and told me that me and her mother were signing as signature witnesses..I was hesitant on signing because I didn't know what I was signing the wife and mortgage agent never told me I was signing a quitclaim deed..lot of trickery went on I found out years later that I did in fact signed a quitclaim deed..I over heard her telling her brother I signed over everything..wow..we are divorcing soon don't know if I can… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 12:39 AM |
| 2 | She wants me out but I do the majority of day to day care for our children, I work from home, and I have no one in the areaYes record everything she is planning something...maybe a domestic violence charge and getting a quick restraining order to force you to leave..and that could hurt you in divorce proceedings..could be someone else she's dealing with..another guy..my wife a teacher too..and she wants me out the house ASAP for at least the last 6 months..we decided in March 2024 to end the marriage..I'm unemployed she makes all the money..but she has put hands on me many times..so I gotta record her also.... event… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Jobless and soon to be divorcedJust work on yourself just cherish the good times and the positive energy in your marriage have no regrets.. marriage these days are superficial it's all about what I can get out of someone.. especially if they got tons of money..workout run lift weights get to know you again.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Jobless and soon to be divorcedWhat state are you in?..4 years is a short marriage..you may get Spousal support or you might have to pay it..some states will use a computerized way of imputing what your income would have been..I have been married 5 years 9 months separated in March 2024..I still live in the same house as my wife..I haven't worked for a year unemployed..my wife does help me at all..she told me to go to welfare and get help..she makes over 110K a year..and has a pension..she has ghosted me.. complete silence to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Rock bottomSo you lost everything..did you have to pay child support.. spousal support?..did you give up the house..sell the house?..lost your pension?..that's horrible for your ex to do that to you but we all get red flags shown to us in the marriage..and before the marriage..being homeless is horrible I've been they're.. depending on what state your in it could be worse the weather elements..get a paternity test but I don't think it will absolve you from paying child support immediately get a good lawyer… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Wife admitted to not loving meI was hesitant before signing | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Wife admitted to not loving meMy wife had me and her mother sign as witnesses to a refinance of the house .I wasn't hesitant at first didn't know what I was signing the mortgage agent assured me it's only as a signature witness..this was in April of 2021 2 years later I over hear her say I told my brother you signed over everything I'm like wait what in my head .so I did some research sure enough me and her mother signed a quit claim deed..giving up our rights to the house..she tricked me and wasn't honest about it..well she… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 08:53 PM |
| 2 | The real reason why women stop loving menOpen your eyes..I don't feel sorry for anybody who don't protect they're assets and don't understand marriage divorce laws..get a pre nup..get a pre nup..properly vet women and men..yes they're is red flags if you're in love you will over look them and chances are you won't get a pre nup cause you love her or him | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 11:01 PM |
| -1 | The real reason why women stop loving menWomen always dealing with somebody else most of them even the one's with boyfriends and husband..if your in a sexless relationship you don't think she got a side piece?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 10:48 PM |
| 6 | The real reason why women stop loving men💯 one foot in the marriage one foot in the streets | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 08:35 PM |
| 10 | The real reason why women stop loving men💯 and the sexless marriage starts soon after the wedding | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 08:31 PM |
| 3 | The real reason why women stop loving menShould've vetted better..you were shown red flags you ignored them .we all get shown red flags.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 08:30 PM |
| 4 | The real reason why women stop loving menYou gotta understand your state marriage laws..and if you have assets and a pension get that pre nup..women are in business men fall in love..same goes for women get a prenup if you have all the assets..I think it's fair if it's apart of divorce laws in your state..in California it's a community/separate property state..50/50 on everything unless it's a inheritance.. pension.. child support spousal support assets..$$$ | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants a divorceThx | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 01:11 AM |
| 10 | Wife wants a divorceDon't know if you have a pre nup..get a lawyer protect your assets.. depending on what state you live in...she will want custody and child support.. spousal support too..and 50% of pension and assets.. property etc . mediation may make these transition easier..but your wife wants a divorce..70% of women initiate a divorce.. women are in business men are in love..if your in a no fault divorce state a cheating spouse doesn't matter..I have been married 5 years 9 months no pre nup..my wife tricked … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 11:32 PM |
| 6 | Not even a month and she’s sending me stuff about couples that lasted longer than us.It's hard when you have a kid together and the mother is crazy..get a lawyer..talk to her via text..I would definitely record her if you're going to meet up with her..she is unpredictable.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 02:01 AM |
| 2 | For those of you who have been betrayed. When you're ready.My wife is a alcoholic and has MS too.. diagnosed in 2006..but she hasn't took her meds in at least 14+ years..been married 5 years 9 months..separated in March of this year..she blames me for everything..no sex in 35 months she loves bars..male attention validation..got male friends..it's been horrible I haven't worked in a year..she wants me out..she won't help me at all..she told to go get WELFARE if I needed to eat or get money..she is the bread winner divorce is coming.. geesh | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 11:01 PM |
| 2 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.Alimony...50% of pension.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 08:46 PM |
| 3 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.She even told me to go the welfare office.. 😂 our household makes over 110,000 a year..they will laugh at me at the welfare office | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 07:43 PM |
| 3 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.My wife is trying to kick me out..I have been unemployed for a year and I'm struggling to eat..she doesn't help me at all..we separated in March but still live together and we don't talk at all..brutal..she is the high earner..she thinks I will just agree to everything and leave..no way | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 07:41 PM |
| 5 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.You will never be her #1..she will always be looking to ride on the CC..most women have numerous sexual partners it's hard to settle down with one person..and not get sex elsewhere..try marrying a porn star..a retired one..you can just imagine how long that will last | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 07:38 PM |
| 3 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.Women who has been with many men sexually 15+ it's going to be hard to pair bond with one guy in a monogamous relationship.. marriage is spiritual..lot of people get married for financial reasons..it has nothing to do with the spiritual aspect of it..it's hard for a lot of people to be with one person for 5...10..20+ years..you have open marriages side pieces..it's nasty out here and your wife or husband having raw sex with other people.. 🤢 nasty | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 06:51 PM |
| 2 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.It hurts because you still care and love her..but the connection is gone after the cheating they're is no coming back from that..she has developed emotions and connections with another..to allow him to enter her sexually while married..now if the guy she's dealing with didn't know she was married that's another thing.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 06:45 PM |
| 1 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.That's horrible I would forgive her and move on.. hopefully she was using protection.. adultery is a severe sin..in Islamic countries if it was proven with witnesses she cheated or if she admits to cheating they dig a hole for her cover up in black and stone her to death..I don't know if my wife cheating we haven't had sex in 35 months can't accuse her and I don't have witnesses..it's brutal..don't take her back..forgive her | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 05:59 PM |
| 3 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.If there isn't a God first spiritual connection it's going to end..lots of wives only marry for security..and to secure the husband assets after a fixed amount of years..we are all shown red flags before during and in divorce proceedings..we tend to over look them in the name of love..if he or she doesn't have a God fearing first..and genuine burning desire for you it will end.. sexless marriages are everywhere including my marriage 35 months of zero intimacy..we decided in March our marriage is… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | First time meeting wife after moving outHeading to divorce but wife wants to remain friends I told her no way once it's over it's over no see no contact..34 months in a sexless marriage..she has ghosted me the last 3 months we live in the same house..my wife tricked me into signing a quitclaim deed..had me and her mother sign it..they told me I was signing as a witness only..I didn't want to sign the mortgage loan agent assured me I was signing as a witness..this was April of 2021 2 years later I over heard my wife saying I signed ove… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Where should I sleep tonightMy wife wants me to leave the house..every argument get out. Get out!!..back in 2021 she had me and her mom sign as witnesses to a refinance of the house..I didn't want to sign because I didn't know what I was signing..the mortgage loan agent assured me I was signing as a witness..my wife got angry at me for not signing then I signed..2 years later I over hear her say I told my brother you signed over everything..wait what..I did my research sure enough she tricked me me and her mom signed a qui… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Where should I sleep tonightThat's a tough situation..you gotta make sure your stable before allowing your son to stay with you..I have been where you are minus having a child..in LA it's so expensive so many people got good jobs but sleeping in there cars..got gym passes to shower workout go to work .it's sad .motels..hotels pricing are astronomical..you are not alone .pray..your blessed you have a son and a job ..and a car..blessings to you and your son | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/24 07:55 PM |
| 6 | Knew it was coming...34 months of no sex from my wife is she cheating I have no idea and I don't care at all | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 02:19 AM |
| 5 | ResentmentMy wife hates the fact that she's the breadwinner high earning spouse..so much anger resentment towards me...she wants me out her house ASAP..calling me a loser...not motivated..lazy...but I have worked our whole marriage minus one full year of unemployment...we decided in March our marriage is over...I told her I'm contesting the divorce she went ballistic...it's like she is a totally different person | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Should I attend daughter's birthday party if ex brings her new boyfriend, or just have a separate one?My wife wants to be friends after we divorce I don't want to be friends with her I wish her the best in life..I can't be around my soon to be ex .we basically hang in the same circle..of friends..I have to start anew..don't know anybody gotta start fresh..when you go to functions where your ex will be or show up kissing and making out with someone else..no way..not doing it....I say to myself wow things has changed so much since the beginning of my marriage years of no intimacy..brutal | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Alchoholic WifeMy wife is a alcoholic.. functioning one..I am too..I'm 120+ days sober..yes it's horrible she was honest about it..it runs in both our families..we are headed for a divorce soon..we weren't ready for marriage..verbal.. physical abuse on her end..lots of trauma..no accountability..she needs constant attention and validation from men..she always had one foot in the marriage and one foot in the single life .and years of a sexless marriage brutal man.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 09:02 PM |
| 5 | It’s doneA no sex marriage is the worst..no connection..a wife has to have genuine burning desire for you...if she doesn't you're not her first choice..34 months of no intimacy for me we decided last March it was over..our marriage the contempt and hatred is real she has for me..I have been struggling finding work..my wife doesn't give me anything and she makes all the money flip it around know matter how bad things got I'm going to support you .that's part of them marriage vows | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Wife thinks I’m being ridiculousMy wife has verbally and physically put her hands on me numerous times..I didn't call the police because she has a lot to lose if she gets arrested but myself being 6'9" they would've took me in regardless..my marriage has come to and end..34 months of no sex.. constant attacks verbally..get a job..get a job!!!..it's been quiet for weeks now..she has ghosted me.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Wife thinks I’m being ridiculousThat situation can explode at any moment..your wife will get you arrested it's not if it's only a matter of time and it can affect you down the road in divorce court .it sounds like you guys marriage is over..it's time to part ways she unpredictable | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Just Wondering - Were you warned about Divorce?You gotta understand that's not the same women you met and fell in love with.. divorce brings out the worst in them and you will see a side of them you thought didn't exist..they're is no playing fair she will look out for her best interests always..you gotta do the same... | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Don't ever take a cheater back!We all get red flags at the beginning..the honeymoon period of dating and courting our love one...our emotions sadly over look potential disasters down the road..it's hard for a female to pair bond with a man..after having numerous sexual partners..being monogamous with one person is damn near impossible..female nature..any women who has male friends is a obvious red flag..so called brothers..play brothers..my wife had many red flags I over looked many male friends loved bars drinking smiling in… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | She Walked the DealCalifornia is different divorce laws community property/separate property assets divided 50% inheritance is separate property pension 401K bank accounts 50% alimony is half the length of the marriage..10 years or more lifetime alimony..a pre nup is highly recommended when you have a lot of assets and money.. especially in California but pre nup get thrown out too..no guarantees | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | I won my parental alienation caseSorry you're going through that.. marriage and divorce can be brutal it's like your wife a totally different person from the honeymoon phrase..my marriage is over and for the last 34 months no bedroom action...and it's a quiet house for the last 3 months.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Finalized todayHow can you go 5..10..15...20 years without sex with your wife..crazy | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Finalized todaySexless marriages is the norm now.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 01:42 AM |
| 3 | It's officialTakes a minimum 6 month here in California uncontested divorce and everything is agreed upon..but a contested divorce no agreements..assets property pension gotta be divided could take 2 years and a lot of money$$$$$ | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | I hate her. She reminds me of my failuresMoney from the house | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I hate her. She reminds me of my failuresTo get spousal support I will have to leave the house...her pension..and money from the hose are in play..she wants me to leave without anything..I don't have money for a lawyer so I will request the court to have my wife pay a portion or all of my legal fees...I'm barely surviving she won't help me telling me to apply for WELFARE..crazy | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 04:09 PM |
| 3 | I don’t know brothersDuring a divorce your wife is another person she's not the same loving wife her whole energy changes.. during a divorce you gotta do what's best for your kids..she will try to drain you emotionally and financially..and if they're is another lover in her life that's more drama | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 09:55 PM |
| 3 | I hate her. She reminds me of my failuresSorry bro..hate won't make you feel better.. obviously you have loved her at some point..there was red flags most likely before and during the marriage they say when a divorce happens you will see your wife at the most savage period..my wife of 5 years and 7 months displaying pure hatred for me..I also saw the red flags..the drinking getting drunk a lot..loving male attention and validation..many male friends...then the sexless marriage..the violence on her part verbally and physical..last March… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/24 02:55 AM |
| 2 | She now feels indifferent towards meMe and my wife decided we are divorcing soon..the last 4 months just a lot of silence and ghosting from her..told her I will contest the divorce because we haven't had agreements on anything.. spousal support pensions assets..she thinks I will just walk away..we haven't had sex in 34 months..she told before the wedding maybe a year before the marriage that she wasn't going to take care of me..huge red flag but I loved her..and married her..she called me a bitch MF when I said I'm contesting the … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 08:43 PM |
| -3 | Dating during divorceDating during the divorce is adultery if you've had sex with that new person that's disgusting.. finalize the divorce first.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/24 12:17 AM |
| 3 | HelpYes my wife has thrown lap tops computer at my face scratched my chest up tried to slap me numerous times..throwing cups shoes at me verbally abusive geesh..I just wanted peace..I've never put my hands on a woman..crazy.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 05:46 PM |
| 2 | HelpTold my wife I was contesting the divorce because we haven't come to any agreement on alimony her pension and assets..in 2021 my wife had me and her mother sign as witnesses to a refinance of the house..I was apprehensive about signing didn't know what I was signing my wife got upset with the mortgage agent said I assure you you are just signing as witnesses so I signed it..in 2023 I over hear my wife saying I signed over everything I'm like what?..so I looked up our property and the deeds..and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 05:43 PM |
| 7 | Wife Cheated On Me While Dating, Hid It, And I Found Out Years Later. Already Tried Reconciliation - LeavingWhen your wife has many male friends that's a huge red flag..if she loves bars and alcohol another red flag..if she loves male attention and validation another red flag..we gotta do a better job vetting and doing background checks on these women..men also need to be checked too..any violence..loves social media is not good either..I was blinded by love for my wife..I saw so many red flags before marriage..now 5 years later divorce has arrived..the bait and switch is real!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/24 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Rant: alimonyThe wife of the bachelor on the bachelor TV show had to pay her ex spouse 13K a month in alimony I think for the next 3 years and she's a lawyer!!..so no pre nup from the start.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Rant: alimony40% of the net income of the high earning spouse then subtract 50% from the net income of the low earning spouse..in California.. alimony | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Rant: alimonyIn California it would be 2 years 6 months of alimony half the marriage length..then you gotta sort out the other assets property pension retirement debts..you can negotiate alimony into a lump sum and any retirement.. retirement pension is 50% during the time of the marriage..in your case it would be 4.5 years of pension benefits.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Rant: alimonyIn California the cost of living is so high..rent alone can range from 1500-4,000 a month not including utilities cable cell phone bills car/health insurance..car note.. groceries etc..all that you're looking at 3K-3500 a month in bills.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/24 11:34 PM |
| 2 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?No..it's adultery..but unfortunately many married people will have side action going on especially when the marriage is sexless no kisses hugs zero affection..but people forget sex is very important in a marriage..it's abandonment.. And really disrespectful of the marriage vows.. marriage is monogamy | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 05:06 PM |
| 3 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?Thx..my wife told me her mother never told her she loved her so I think that has played a part in her being non loving and scared of being attached to someone emotionally..she had just got out of a 6-7 year relationship when we first met..my wife love male attention and validation loves bars and loves drinking liquor..and has male friends all are red flags to begin with.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 02:01 AM |
| 2 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?Thank you..it's been a rough ride..but even in good times it was always 1 time a month..took us 3 months to consumate the marriage.. meaning have sex for the first time after the wedding..don't know if she's cheating or not..but we agreed it's over..5 years 7 months..of marriage thus far divorce is coming | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Ugh. So I guess my wife & her mom have been planning this divorce. I feel betrayed & setup.If your in California it's a no fault divorce state everything split down the middle..unless it's a inheritance and separate property..pension property CS..spousal support all in play..unless a pre nup or post nup was written..if your the high earning spouse yes you're going to pay dearly..70% of all divorces are started by the wife...and the women will go after the money by all means.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Do they have to make it as hard as possible?Possibly red flags through our relationship but the love will blind us..if a woman doesn't have real genuine burning desire for you it's going to end at some point I want respect more than love..how can someone love you if they don't respect you!!.. women want the wedding but not the marriage..my wife has many male friends and this one particular play brother wink wink..I confronted her years ago she started crying saying he's been there for her..she was getting drunk with him going to lunch wit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?I would stay in it if I were you purely for losses that you will incur through the divorce process..don't know the laws in Canada regarding divorce but here in California it's split 50/50..all assets..alimony child support property pension/retirement etc..im in a loveless marriage as well 34 months of no sex with my wife married 5+ years..good luck too you | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | LonelinessWomen have options..men too..they all got multiple people they're dating and having sex with..it's a nasty game out here..so many diseases out here too.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 07:29 PM |
| -1 | LonelinessDating isn't the way to go..if your not married your commiting fornication and your not obeying the most high.. they're is no commitment in dating and having girlfriends and boyfriends..having children out of wedlock etc..move on..get close to God..plan your life for the spiritual world.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 07:27 PM |
| 6 | Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorce34 months no sex from the wife..it's over..she wants a uncontested divorce I want a contested divorce..she went ballistic calling me a b#$th..she's the high earning spouse im unemployed at the moment.. alimony pension assets at stake..I'm sad but relieved it's over | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 11:46 PM |
| 1 | The fog of separation/ divorceI'm experiencing the ghosting phrase..my wife went into total silence mode like 3 months ago..she sleeps in another bedroom in the house..we both agreed the marriage was over months ago..she wanted to do a uncontested divorce I told her I wanted a contested divorce she went ballistic calling me the B word..in California in divorce I have certain rights..assets division..pension alimony she seems to think that's not in play..my wife is the bread winner and she absolutely hates I'm not working..sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I really need some help... I am rock bottom...***If he is making more money than her the judge can tell him to pay for her attorney and legal fees..if it's a no fault state cheating doesn't matter.. California is a no fault state..seems like she has all the leverage.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 03:02 AM |
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