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| – | Women love men far more than they admitWomen have always loved men. Manosphere men are the ones who bully and berate us for saying we aren’t as picky about height, looks, and money as you guys say we are. You guys have a massive temper tantrum and become verbally abusive whenever a woman expresses any kind of hopeful and loving message about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.It sounds like you live in Europe so your best bet is to go on European based meetup apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing.I have been in this sub and a lot of the so called playboys here are living proof that women aren’t picky. These playboys are unattractive losers yet they happen to be womanizers. They are a walking testimony that women’s standards are low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucksYou were trying to turn dating into a degrading activity for men (singing-dancing monkey). When I called you out for it, you switched to “well everyone has to be a singing dancing monkey”. This means that you believe women have to be singing dancing monkeys to please men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucksThis sounds more like an autistic analysis of breaking the touch barrier rather than being a singing and dancing monkey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:11 AM |
| 0 | The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucksYou are defensive. You describe being a nice and loving partner and waiting for sex as a “singing-dancing monkey act” which is bitter and toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:05 AM |
| 11 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?I don’t understand why men think they can’t be kind and friendly people and have good leadership skills and be responsible at the same time. I feel like a lot of men conflate abuse and cruelty with leadership and dominance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:49 AM |
| 3 | What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences?To men: Do not expect empathy when you resent women and say a bunch of disgusting things about women. We do not read bigoted things and say “oh my goodness this poor soul must be so lonely and desperate for love. We should show him empathy”. Nope. We say “wow! What an awful person who hates women. This guy is terrifying and sounds like a sociopathic monster. He makes men look bad and he seems to truly hate women. Being alone is better than being with this guy”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:34 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucksIt absolutely is bitter. I don’t understand why you guys get defensive about it. It’s bitter. Accept it and move on. Pick better women instead of going for women who you have to do a singing dancing monkey act for. Those women may not be hot to you though. Because men tend to prefer the top women and resent the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:27 AM |
| -4 | The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucksThis kind of bitter attitude deters women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Ok! I am done too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 02:16 PM |
| – | There is very little reason to believe unattractive guys will be good partnersUnattractive men are just as capable of cheating or being abusive. That’s what she is saying. And you got all emotional about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 02:10 PM |
| – | There is very little reason to believe unattractive guys will be good partnersShe didn’t say that. She said that an unattractive man is not going to be less likely to cheat. Even if he cant find someone to have intercourse with, the act of seeking out other partners or having a wandering eye is cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 02:09 PM |
| – | There is very little reason to believe unattractive guys will be good partnersWomen aren’t as superficial as men are. Men only want the top women (slim, 18-25, and conventionally attractive). Women can be attracted to a chubby short guy if he’s super affectionate and charismatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 02:07 PM |
| – | There is very little reason to believe unattractive guys will be good partnersThis is a horrible idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 02:04 PM |
| – | There is very little reason to believe unattractive guys will be good partnersWomen aren’t men. Men classify women within 30 seconds as: Too unattractive for anything Attractive enough for casual sex but nothing else Attractive enough to use as a placeholder but nothing else Attractive enough to have a relationship with but not marry Wifey material No matter what, once a woman has been classified as something, which usually happens within 30-60 seconds, there is no going back. No amount of affection and kindness changes anything. Women do not operate this way because wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 02:03 PM |
| – | There is very little reason to believe unattractive guys will be good partnersIt isn’t rage bait. It’s true. If a woman is mistreated, the man’s first instinct is to assume that the guy mistreating her was hot. The advice she gets is to pick less attractive men who will treat her better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Sure. You don’t need to announce it my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?But most of the time, men’s feelings that women “shoot down” are men saying foul stuff about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 08:33 AM |
| 3 | Beta Widowed, not AlphaOk. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Beta Widowed, not AlphaOk thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 04:52 AM |
| 5 | Beta Widowed, not AlphaThen both op and the guy I am responding to should say “a small minority of women” and not “women”. You also derail the conversation to make it about how women want casual sex. In the original post, op is saying women wanted to marry the guy but the husband material wants to fuck around. This means she doesn’t want casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Beta Widowed, not AlphaThen you should specify that. Op doesn’t say “a unique minority group of women”. He just says “girls”. Meaning women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Stop trying to derail the conversation and change the subject. You’re agreeing with me that men shouldn’t say disgusting stuff about women under the guise of “expressing feelings” and that women aren’t demanding numbness from men. Just respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Ah so simpler language is what you needed. Yah you did. You compared saying “women are superficial bitches” to the man versus bear phenomenon of 2024. Something that deeply triggered and upset men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?In simpler terms: You admitted that men shit on women under the guise of expressing emotions. You admitted that men are triggering and offensive. You admitted that women have a right to be upset by upsetting things and this is not them trying to silence you or make you numb. I. Was. Right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Beta Widowed, not Alpha“I don’t hate women. I just think women look at men as meal tickets. Average looking men who intentionally use and hurt women for casual sex are just establishing dominance and seeking justice for being used as meal tickets” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Because men are meaner. And you’re admitting that men show bigotry towards women under the guise of “expressing emotions”. Meaning that women aren’t asking men to be numb Women are asking men to not be bigots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Yeah because I won the debate and all that you have left to to salvage your ego is to brush it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?You don’t have any authority to say anything at all either, so your statement is pointless. You also are engaging in whataboutism. Stay on topic. The point of this thread is that when certain men (aka men of the manosphere and ppd) “ventilate their feelings”, they mean “say nasty shit about women, like that they and superficial bitches”. They don’t mean “be vulnerable about things I am insecure about”. Your response is to double down and make excuses. Your excuse for saying “women are superficia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Because it isn’t a tiny minority of women to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?I am talking to the men of PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 0 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?The only time the preface isn’t bigotry is when you say “a tiny minority of women”. Thats it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 0 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Nope. Even if one calls the vast majority of women or women in general superficial bitches, one is a bigot. You aren’t saying “an exceptional few women are superficial bitches”. You say “women are superficial bitches”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Kill all men was. But the number of men calling women superficial bitches is a thousand times the number of women saying kill all men. Also, this is whataboutism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 07:29 PM |
| -1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Calling women superificial bitches is bigotry, even if you think it’s true. Bigots always think they are right and telling the truth. If the shoe fits as a bigot, then one must wear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 06:56 PM |
| -1 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Then don’t claim women don’t like it when you express your emotions. If your emotions are bigotry then accept that people will not like bigotry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Then he should have married his financial equal instead of going for a hot woman. Everything he earns while we are married is 50/50. Men like to virtue signal about how they don’t care about a woman’s income, but then get resentful about sharing said income with their wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 06:18 PM |
| -5 | Why demand emotional numbness from men and then complain when we go cold?Men get criticized for not showing emotion. But men also get criticized when they do show emotion. Because a lot of the emotions you guys show is attacking women and calling them superficial bitches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Derailing the conversation is a sign of disrespect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:22 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Stop trolling and spamming. Go make your own comment about sports. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:05 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)I didn’t mention grooming at all. I discussed hypergamy. Your ex(?) most likely just thinks women who are 32 are disgusting and old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Bro if you’re married and both work then it’s half of everything you earned while together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Stop shitposting and trying to derail the conversation. It’s disrespectful. Go make a post about golf in a golfing subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/body-measurements.htm Women: Height in inches: 63.5 Weight in pounds: 171.8 Waist circumference in inches: 38.5 https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2025/06/metro-areas-median-age.html National median age: 39.1 I love it when men call me a liar for saying men don’t want to be approached by average women, but then admit that they don’t want the average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No I am stating what they stated. Why is their nature to be angry, believe all or most women are pining after an ex, and to identify with the second choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You’ve spent ample amounts of time speaking for women. Here is YOU SPEAKING FOR WOMEN: What I don't really get is why women in particular get so hung up on someone who clearly doesn't want them. I get even the slightest sense that a woman isn't fully into me and I lose interest immediately. It does seem men are right about husband material qualities actually not being the most important things to a sizable portion of the female population Then you have the audacity to get upset about me speaking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵See? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes they are. They are angry they aren’t Chad. Hyper fixation on appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No it isn’t. <image> This is a stock photo of what the average woman looks like. You guys do not want this lady approaching you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵<image> https://www.britannica.com/topic/What-does-black-pill-refer-to This is by definition blackpill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why are you asking me this? I don’t discuss anything at all about my love life. The lady in the example isn’t with her first choice because she is dumb. Not a single woman in her comments that I scrolled through voiced agreement. However she had a bunch of bitter blackpill men reply and talk about how women are chadsexual and don’t want their husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:43 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They don’t have to self identify as black pilled to be black pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lots of unattractive women also go to the gym 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That’s not the situation she’s describing either. Women aren’t into men who aren’t into them. Men are the ones who watch porn of women who have no idea who they are. Not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:21 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Pick chopped women 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is why you make small talk. You have a small conversation with her about something benign like parking, the weather, whatever is playing on the gym tv, etc. If she seems open to talking more, then initiate more communication later and then eventually ask her out. If she seems annoyed or uncomfortable then just leave her be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Men proving that the redpill and manosphere is mainstream amongst men and that it isn’t misandry to say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You’re looking at a rage baiting dating coach whose comments section is filled with a bunch of enraged blackpill men. And you guys have the audacity to say it’s misandrist to say that blackpill is mainstream amongst men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Because the man in this situation DID want them. Women aren’t regarded. We want a man who loves us back. She even describes the “one who got away” as declaring his love for her and being romantic and affectionate. It doesn’t work out for whatever reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:10 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It’s very rare because a) men don’t want to be approached by average women. The average woman is in her late 30’s and has an overweight to obese BMI. b) Most women don’t feel comfortable cold approaching strangers c) most women don’t feel attracted to random strangers unless the stranger shows interest first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:05 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)I saw your comment. Feminists are the biggest critics of age gap relationships. Your problem is that you degrade women in the way you speak. You literally have posts talking about how it’s women’s fault that Trump won because men are voting for Trump to take revenge on women for not dating with them and matching with them online. This is extremely degrading and describes men as sociopaths. Women are not disagreeing with you on age gap relationships. They are disagreeing with you for attacking wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:47 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)If this is how you describe women in age gap relationships, then you are wrong for saying feminists attack you for critiquing age gap relationships. Nope. You are describing women as children, which is a common red pill hot topic wolf whistle to put down and demean women. You also write as if most women are sitting around criticizing men their age and deeply desire to be with an old guy, but the reality is that most of these relationships happen because the guy pursues her and has the confidence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:44 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)I think it’s pretty obvious that men who date much younger women simply don’t find women their own age attractive. It puts all the outrage men express about how women don’t want their looksmatch into perspective. Old, aging, unattractive men cannot stand to date their looksmatch: old, aging, and unattractive women. Men complain that women are delusional about how good they look and overestimate how good looking they are, but then these men describe themselves as looking 21 and fit. Men just need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.No fault divorce is there so that people who don’t want to be married aren’t legally forced to be married. No one should be forced to stay with someone by law. And different men want different things. Men aren’t a monolith. Some men want a tradwife and believe that an equal partner is disgusting and masculine. Other men respect an equal partner and divide labor as fairly as they can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:24 PM |
| 3 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingMoving the goalposts I see to turn it into a personal attack. I am not discussing my love life. I am discussing male nature. And you’re proving that stringing someone along is a form of rejection and is much worse than turning someone down right away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:56 AM |
| 0 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Pick less attractive women instead of Stacie’s 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingEveryone is important to themselves. The key word is “INTENTIONALLY”. INTENTIONALLY using someone is rejection. You even admit that it’s rejection because you say that stringing along a woman indicates that she isn’t important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?I didn’t say you envy abusive men because they are abusive. I said you envy abusive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 11:33 PM |
| 3 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingIt’s very true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 11:33 PM |
| 5 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingIt absolutely is. Intentionally wasting months or years of a woman’s precious youth, beauty, and fertility is a fouler evil than simply saying no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 11:33 PM |
| 14 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationThis is a backhanded comment. It seems the you want to put her down and question her mental status for getting emotional over something that naturally illicits emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 08:56 PM |
| 0 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.No I didn’t. I explained how to talk to women in simple terms. For non neurodivergent people, what I described comes naturally. Talking to someone and scoping out if they would be receptive to being asked out on a date isn’t complicated like diffusing a bomb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Women are kings of not following their own advice they push to menMen and women are different and will have different advice. Men tend to pursue and women tend to accept. Women’s advice centers around: finding people to pursue you and strategies to avoid being used. Men’s advice centers around pursuing various women until you find a good fit. A lot of men hold the women who pursue them to great contempt. As a woman in her 30’s who isn’t very attractive and doesn’t have a stellar body, my male equals on reddit have made it very clear that if I were to pursue th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 03:29 PM |
| 4 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingThe general population of men resents unattractive women and treats them poorly, even if these men are unattractive themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:49 PM |
| 9 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingBeing used as a placeholder is a form of rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:47 PM |
| 19 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingUnattractive and introverted 45 year old women are invisible to men. The circlejerk of rage and bitterness in these forms is just men who cannot stand to be with unattractive and introverted women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Yes I was pointing out male delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.You don’t have to be Machiavellian to express bitterness and hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Except for you’re envying the abusive person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Nope. Stop twisting my words. You said you envy abusive men who happen to be in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Who happen to be abusive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?But it’s still envy at the end of the day. Of abusive men. The motive isn’t what I am discussing. I understand you don’t want to abuse the women. You still envy the abusive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.It’s not poisoning a well. You ask people out strategically. You go to hiking group a couple times and test the vibe of the women there. If anyone seems interested and you are also interested, you ask them out. If that isn’t the case you either keep going as a hobby or social outlet or find a new group to join. It’s not good taste to ask out every single woman in the group. You focus on one or maybe two. I went on the meetup app to see what’s out there and typed the word “singles” in. There were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Well there you go. You want a woman to not work and take care of your needs but you also dont want to financially support her. You’re looking for a wealthy unicorn who is willing to retire early and be a stay at home mom and who has her own wealth. That’s an anomaly and although those women exist, they are outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.First of all: I don’t care who you voted for, so calm down. You brought up Kamala Harris, but then fail to realize that the women who voted for her are the ones who will have their own money and not be tradwives. Second of all, if you didn’t have seething or negative feelings toward stay at home moms, you wouldn’t focus on them “taking your money”. You Would either explain that being a provider is too much pressure OR explain that you don’t trust anyone enough to financially support them. Third … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.First of all: I don’t care who you voted for, so calm down. You brought up Kamala Harris, but then fail to realize that the women who voted for her are the ones who will have their own money and not be tradwives. Second of all, if you didn’t have seething or negative feelings toward stay at home moms, you wouldn’t focus on them “taking your money”. You Would either explain that being a provider is too much pressure OR explain that you don’t trust anyone enough to financially support them. Third … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?No matter how much mental gymnastics you do to word it, you envy the abusers. You assume that an abuser is tall and rich. You envy that they can get sex despite being abusive. That is envy of abusive men. Even if you don’t partake in abuse, you are jealous of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.That’s why you get to know the women first and see if they seem to like you back and if you’re compatible. Talking to a woman in a meetup group isn’t the same thing as talking to a complete stranger on a hiking trail. You would get to know her a bit and if she’s interested or not. I typed the word “singles” into meetup and I found these activities: Singles game night Swing dancing event Speed dating for people of X ethnicity Line dancing Singles Christmas party Singles meet and greet Gay singles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.These aren’t paranoid delusions because it’s something a woman just needs to keep in mind. Simple actions like not letting a man move in with you unless you have a clearly outlined way to split expenses and housework, not lending a man money, and only dating men who are in a certain tax bracket and who aren’t unemployed are easy ways to prevent being financially abused/ used. This is common sense. Have a good day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.What does a guy with money need a career women for? she's just going to be busy and stressed out all the time and isn't going to play a support role in the mans life. Sharing wealth and expenses. If you have a scathing hatred of stay at home moms, then this is crucial. Op commenter disrespectfully expressed his views of women, but he clearly doesn’t want to be a provider. That mean that someone with their own money is crucial to alleviate that burden. You can’t have it both ways. You’re also wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?That is still envy of the abusive man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.You have a scathing resentment of Kamala Harris voters but then resent women who live in the Bible Belt and are conservative and make less money and defer to being homemakers and stay at home moms. You also have a scathing resentment of women with their own wealth because they have a nicely furnished house and go on a cruise once a year. It sounds to me like you just don’t like women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Imagine being anti feminist but then resenting the provider role lmfao. I gave you reasonable advice but you wrote an entire MLA format essay about how you don’t find your financial equal attractive. The advice I gave you- date a woman with her own wealth if you don’t want to be used for your money - isn’t democrat or Kamala Harris coded. It’s COMMON SENSE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Step 1: go on meetup the app Step 2: look for hiking groups, or excursion groups Step 3: go to one of these groups Step 4: assess if there are any women who you may be interested in Step 5: talk to these women and see if they are single and also interested in you and bare minimum compatible Step 6: ask them out. It’s best to not ask out a bunch of women from the same group at once, but to focus on one or two Step 7: if they say no, or the selection of women isn’t up to your standards,!search for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.It isn’t a good parallel because it isn’t financial support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 08:05 AM |
| -3 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?The average man resents them for being older. And yes I understand that is why men envy abusers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?No argument except for an ad hominem attack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?This is a disgusting way to view women too. As I said in my earlier comment, men envy abusers and think women find abuse hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Paying for a date isn’t paying for all of a woman’s bills. I am listening to men. I hear you very clearly. Here, you are making a parallel between paying for dinner and paying for a woman’s every expense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Not trying to cheat because you assume you will be unsuccessful is not loyalty either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.I am not the one downvoting you. You’re ending the conversation because you have nothing left to contribute. Being careful about gold digging men isn’t paranoia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:28 AM |
| – | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.I didn’t say it’s only two either. You’re derailing the conversation because you cannot stand that men can be gold diggers too and plenty are. You’re polluted by the “men are wonderful” effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:27 AM |
| -2 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Ok but you aren’t contradicting anything I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.It’s only beneficial if you have a high sex drive and high sexual hunger If you are machiavelian you would either become a pimp or be like rich families and treat it like a business decision or at the very least find benificial situations like women do They look up to us. We look down on them. Contempt Bitterness Hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.I didn’t say 2 billion men do this. Show me in quotes where I say this. I said plenty of men do it. Enough that women should be careful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.It isn’t a fantasy. It’s a common occurrence. Men just are discrete about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.This sort of contempt and hatred towards women seeps into relationships and dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Even men who aren’t desired don’t want women who are expired”. And being unable to cheat is not loyalty. Loyalty is when you’re able to cheat but choose not to. You proceed to describe envy for abusive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.If this was about risk mitigation and not shaming women, you would make it a point to also pursue and date women who have their own money and wealth that they have built up over the years and make it clear that you don’t want a stay at home mom or homemaker with a fair and clear division of household tasks and expenses. I see this with a lot of senior couples where both the man and woman have retirement funds and houses and kids and whatnot and don’t want to take a major risk. But those women wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:39 PM |
| 4 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.No he doesn’t. He said “why should I chase women just so I end up paying their bills?” He doesn’t say “I have a lot of money and am too afraid of being used to date women”. That wouldn’t be hateful. He’s saying women just want his money period and are all gold diggers. Which is shaming women. And you have the audacity to get defensive when someone matches his energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:34 PM |
| 7 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.No they don’t. Most women just consider it bad taste for you to go to a social event and ask out every woman there instead of focusing on the one or two you have a connection with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.They aren’t few and far between. There are a lot of them. They just are slick about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Plenty of men do. https://www.instagram.com/p/DRSoW4jD7GZ/ https://share.google/ArdF8tGEyTVBlD80C | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:21 PM |
| 9 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.You can approach women without cold approaching complete strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.See? Men openly write that they look down on women then have the audacity to ask women why women think men have it easier than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Because he’s shaming women and claiming they all want his money and are gold diggers. Why shouldn’t he be met with the same energy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Why do men think that the only way to approach women is to cold approach strangers? Whenever I tell men that they can meet women at social activities, like a hiking group or church, get to know these women, see if they are single and potentially interested, and ask them out, I am immediately shot down and told that this is too difficult and a straight path to the “friendzone”. A number of men insisted and insisted that the most efficient and best way to talk to women is to cold approach stranger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:36 PM |
| 28 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Women have an expiration date. You yourself claim women who want to date a man after 21 are settling and that women are less attractive after 21. Meaning any time we date a man after a certain age, he will resent us and believe that we aren’t giving him our “best self”. This resentment and bitterness can manifest itself in how the man treats us. Men are only as loyal as their options. Not cheating because you are unable to cheat is not a virtue or sign of loyalty. For most men, the moment an att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:22 PM |
| 10 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?So men automatically think that bad partner = hot man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:45 PM |
| 10 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?Ok so don’t have the audacity to post that women don’t have dating struggles because you only see us as worthy for a relationship up until we are 21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:45 PM |
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