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I don't see it as morally correct to lie to someone to have a better chance of sleeping with them, But everyone who has the morals they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:10 AM
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With how sexually promiscuous today's society is, I'm surprised that you have given validity to anyone who says that attractiveness doesn't matter. At least cool enough to use it In a non-ironic way to answer something about why people might prefer to look for a partner who is sexually compatible with them. Pd: The dowvote is for believing that something as painfully obvious as knowing that it is better for someone to despise you to reject you romantically is bluepill, In this case it sounds lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:34 AM
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Ah no. It is normal for someone who cares about her sexual pleasure not to want to risk her enjoyment by going with someone inexperienced. Besides, it's dodging a bullet if someone who rejects you for something you are does it sooner instead of using it to humiliate you and make you feel less than them in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:58 AM
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they where crushes in a friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:59 PM
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Generally when we are in the same social circle and we talk for say a couple of hours a week Generally the topic of dating and relationships is discussed, so since I don't lie about it, they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:23 PM
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Generally when you talk to someone for more than 5 hours a week you talk about many topics, right? I never try to initiate talks related to sex or relationships but when you are the only one in a group of friends or classmates who spend a lot of time seeing each other regularly and your crush is part of it You can see why someone would ask why you never actively talk about it or better yet, they ask you. Literally a month ago I had a conversation like this at my office job because there was some…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:15 PM
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When you travel you are exotic in that area. When I travel abroad when I go to resorts those are the few moments where I feel that women are interested. In Mexico, if you are a gringo, you will be interesting because money + malinchism to a certain extent + being something uncommon here. Personally 1/6 of the reasons I want to travel as soon as I get money when I finish college is so I can at least see if I can find a someone who likes me to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:31 PM
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The conversation comes up sometimes and I didn't lie to them. Going out with someone without experience is putting at risk whether or not you feel pleasure in sex, so I understand why. In addition to the esteem in a country like Mexico of being a virgin at 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:26 PM
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What certain women say on reddit is dishonest. A couple should know about the other person for better or worse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:23 PM
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It's a similar difference to someone poor dating someone with money. Someone may appear who doesn't take advantage of that, but generally the most successful couples with those who are people That they are similar in experiences, monetarily and in opinions. I don't deny that there are women who don't mind dating someone with 0 experience, but between the fact that I'm almost 25 and having been rejected several times for being a virgin and not having had a partner There are really more chances of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:08 AM
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If you do not have experience and the other person does, that leaves you in a disadvantaged position to know if that person is toxic, takes advantage of you, etc, Not much different than a poor person dating someone upper middle class. It all depends on your experience being with someone who is a good person and partner. Which at least nowadays with such a high divorce rate... I would prefer to have at least the experience necessary to filter out women who are learning about dating an almost 24-…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:01 AM
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I've been rejected about 3 times for saying I'd never had a girlfriend after 2 or 3 weeks of talking to some crushes, so yeah. While lies can always come back to bite you in the ass, being honest about certain things is more self-harm than anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:53 AM
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Shitty people date shitty people. At school bullies or drug dealers were popular because to do such things you generally have to have a certain level of social skills and manipulation.Which is obviously better than being someone with somewhat bad social skill. In any case, no woman who goes out with men of that type (which is not the majority) deserves to be considered something serious or even wants to go out with them, or they are morally equal or worse morally than their partners or personal …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:50 AM
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That's really something that worries me being a virgin at 24.In my family we are told that unless we are the first of our first couple, we will never have anything so serious, much less marriage. It has almost always ended badly for both men or women of the family. The solution is to date a lot of women casually until you know how to look for red flags and have at least one or 3 times where you have had your heart broken before you get very serious with someone. I know there are good women out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:37 AM
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I'm happy for your son. I thought I would meet someone that way but there are no more possibilities both at university and at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:29 PM
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University doesn't work for me because I study engineering. The first years I studied with women but that was like until year 1. Then the pandemic came and when I returned to face-to-face classes and I don't had Classes with anyone from other degrees. The fact that our universities are not like the gringos ones in terms of clubs doesn't help either, so I resigned myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:18 PM
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I am from Mexico and only foreign women in hotels or when I was a tourist have had any interest in me. Apparently I'm not enough for the local women because being a virgin at 24 is a sin or something.Personally, at least 1/6 of my desire to move countries is to be able to flirt with women often because you know, being foreign or exotic is always good to attract people, both for the good or the bad. While it is a lot of work, getting a good job in my stem area has been infinitely easier in hours …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:10 PM
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If you hang out with certain types of people, you are either like those people or you have traumas that make you orbit those types of people and become your victim. I never felt sorry for women who dated school bullies or traffickers or local thieves and magically were treated badly by people who enjoy abusing others (it was just being cheated or called sluts not something worse as i know) or men who dated women with a reputation for being whores (they knew it) who later turned out to be unfaith…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:25 AM
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Look, if you go out with criminals, men who abuse others in some way or another, etc. Why should I feel sorry if it turns out that at some point he did the same thing to you and you rejected the help of others? People who date shitty people fall into 2 types for me: those who are as shit as them and those who are perfect victims for shitty people. The former obviously do not deserve any sympathy and the latter do. But they still have a responsibility to themselves to resolve the internal trauma …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:11 AM
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hate a group of ppl just for an sexual preference (legal one) or skin is a big red flag for anyonne who dont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:59 AM
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Did she say something about feeling sorry or something?📷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:51 AM
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In my comment I made reference to it being a gender thing? There are women and men who are both victims and perpetrators in these types of relationships. and yes, if a person repeatedly falls into relationships where they are abused they need to fix themselves with therapy to see what indirectly makes them orbit around people who are abusers. A cousin ended up with 2 girls who emotionally abused him and he did not know the cause until he received psychological help, the fact that his mother aban…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:16 PM
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It is the responsibility of those who participate in these types of relationships, the responsibility to go to therapy so that their problems do not affect others in the future or themselves if they are the victims. women or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:57 PM
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maybe if some ppl dont try to moralice dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:55 PM
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Women who date men like that are not worth it because 1-they are as shitty as their own boyfriends/exes or 2-they have internal problems that make them perfect victims for shitty people and if you go out with them you will have to be the one to try to fix them (like endure all the trauma) in case they haven't done it before
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:40 PM
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People are responsible for choosing their social group and, more importantly, their partners. A person who has dated a psychopath has the duty to go to therapy to repair the damage that the abuse left them and learn to choose better because not all abusers are this type of high-functioning psychopath and in case they collide with the same stone repeatedly says that at least if they have something that makes them seek that type of relationship, be it problems of abuse in childhood for example. Ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:27 PM
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As a 24 year old in college in Mexico Being the stereotypical masculinity of my country while at the same time striving to be as outgoing as possible Be someone who has a lot of previous success with women to be seen valid in the eyes of society. Earn significantly more than the woman I'm trying to court Have an educational level that is at least equal to hers. Not being a virgin because women my age in my country find it like a repellent, at least as far as I have personally experienced. I see …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:10 AM
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Relatable. In my case it was due to stress when I was a child due to bullying. I went to the gym at 16 but had to stop at 17 due to an injury and now because of university (Stem was horrible online) I finished In the same place where I started XD. I really don't recommend dating people who have bad stress coping. Whether it be food, alcohol or worse with drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:14 AM
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Most people are overweight in certain countries based on BMI and the majority are not gymbros who have 20lbs of muscle so yes. Generally, as long as your BMI is 25/30, you can compensate for most of the shift off by simply hanging out with people with a BMI similar to yours and having a good personality (not nice guys but being Sociable and fun) When you exceed 30 is when things start to be a huge turn off for men or women, even more so the younger you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:08 AM
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im in a 4k ppl college what is for ppl with much money or want a huge debt but i and all my friends are in stem so maybe is diferent for ppl with mixed degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:29 PM
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it do not sound like the normal college experience lol. almost all my classmates need ask the girl out not the inverse. and 1/2 of them are good locking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:32 PM
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how you know that someone is interesed in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:05 PM
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That doesn't help if you're not in mixed groups. 4 years at the university and nothing from there. and that number sounds like someone is thinking that womanizers and hot guys are the norm because having not 1 or 2 but 4 or 5 at a time is not the normal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:02 PM
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Many men end up with women like this out of desperation to have someone, they are dysfunctional themselves or have serious emotional problems that make them easy victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:29 PM
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Online dating is shit because the ratio of men to women is bad and the apps are made to get money from you so don't expect like-minded people to appear. All In order to make the desperate men and the few desperate women there pay a premium Obviously women will be more selective there if they have many options because there are more men than women on those apps/pages.Personally I would never enter one of those pages. I even prefer cold approach to wasting hours of dead effort on online dating aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:26 PM
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There are literally women who say that you shouldn't flirt in bars because women can go hang out with friends. What it means to be privileged with free online attention or to be chronically online
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:23 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-road-to-infidelity-passes-through-multiple-sexual-partners sorry i miss part of the link
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:15 AM
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Sorry sir
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:10 AM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-road-to-infidelity-passes-through-multiple-sexual-partne The bottom line is that it's just causality for now until they can study the issue further. But it's still a difference of like X3 times
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:08 AM
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ntes. Si no obtenemos nada por nuestro esfuerzo, entonces simplemente se están aprovechando de nos It is not my duty to self-victimize a woman and make myself an object of discrimination because a woman feels scared because I am walking down the same street just because I am not attractive, are big, tall and my skin color is socially frowned upon in crime rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:18 AM
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attractiveness has nothing to do with cheating XD ​ The only thing that does is past promiscuity in the marriage and that has not been proven as a direct cause yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:12 AM
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That's funny because infidelity is generally proportional to the more relationships someone has.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:11 AM
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Those people's opinions are worth shit. Being a virgin after 20 is a red flag for many people but everyone comes out praising when the opposite is said. The reality is that when you have had more than 20 partners, there are almost 40% of men or women who report having been unfaithful in their marriage, in addition to being more likely to have a divorce for men or women. ​ Normal people are not promiscuous because the average, even in liberal countries, does not exceed 10 partners in a lifetime. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:58 AM
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Is that based on a real study/analysis or is it just a random assumption you threw out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:28 AM
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That's strange considering that men find more of the female population attractive than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:20 AM
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As long as a man has casual sex, he does not receive criticism if he is single. Now someone who is a virgin after 20 without having had a partner is the sarcastic talk in groups of men, women or mixed groups. I would really be worried about what I see on the internet if not for real experiences because a simple view of twox in their comments would probably be something with more views than most videos making fun of women for being single. Both things have almost 0 weight irl if you are not chron…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:02 AM
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The standards are high when you yourself do not provide that. A guy who is not promiscuous, who maintains a healthy BMI or goes to the gym, without children and without college debt, has every right to look for a person similar to him and that does not make him picky. Come on, we have articles and studies on how women, depending on their educational level, look for people with at least the same as them. When women on Reddit complain that they want a man who does housework who earns the same as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:48 AM
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Personally, my job, hobbies like university classes make it impossible for me to meet anyone, it would be going to bars I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:47 PM
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which is good advice as long as your daily activities like hobbies are not masculinized lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:44 PM
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To receive feedback you must ask. I haven't asked even 10% of the women I've been interested in in my life. Generally one receives the memo with less than 10 times
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:43 AM
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your rant is about ppl asking not someone geting it without asking lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:20 AM
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idk, im not rp and i ask it 4 times when i was in HS without problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:18 AM
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she mean mens in general who ask that question not just mens who love and believe in rp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:06 AM
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Considering what I said - when the guy isn't a jerk - I guess you get the memo that it's no big deal to say it without insulting him unless you have the social skills of a teenager. about the second. Someone hurt you or a family member of yours op? cutting yourself because your 4 crushes reject you saying you're ugly is not normal and considering you jumped in with such childish hyperbole does it sound like a bit of projection or did you have an experience of hating yourself? If you have problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:43 AM
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When I was young I cared because I very wrongly held women on a moral pedestal. Now I know that any woman who dates a man who commits crimes or actively abuses others is either a woman with such a weak personality that she is manipulable with huge personal problems or she is as shitty as her own partner. That's one of the reasons why one of my biggest standards or filters is to not date anyone with a history of abuse or a partner who was a stalker or criminal. I don't want to be a psychologist a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:28 AM
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sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:17 AM
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this rant sound like someone hurt her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:14 AM
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knowing how to use honesty without insulting others, is a quality related to social skills lol. It's not anyone else's fault that some women are bad at expressing themselves assuming that the guy isn't a creep. I prefer a woman who is honest and says that she doesn't want anything for me because she isn't attracted to me before going around without being able to express herself, the former has almost always happened and it has really served a lot to remove women from the pedestal that they had w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:12 AM
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Most men realize the problem at some point. No one is obliged to be a stranger's personal therapist, to be their burden when they ask for help in public to carry things, they are not obliged to give up their seat to anyone, to help anyone in the event of a robbery because they do not charge money to be police officers. etc etc. It's funny that you talk so much about this, saying it in a gender myopic way when normal people ask for advice to improve and take it or leave it after analyzing it. I p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:07 AM
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You said it friends. I live in a Latin American country so many times I am expected to selflessly help random women regardless of courtesy issues whether I am in the mood or not to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:14 PM
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Because even ugly people have physical standards, so at least in my case, physicality has been very decisive in not having found anyone who wanted to go out with me. Not being more proactive in flirting and going for the slow game has been more important than the physical one for me in not finding anyone because the more people you know, the easier it is to find that low percentage that could go out with you. The physical only improves the percentage of receiving the yes. Most women I've seen do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:07 PM
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As someone who hasn't had anyone interested in him, even women I'm not attracted to because they objectively offer less than me it really feels like a sting to see that irl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:02 PM
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I treat women like men, hold the door in both cases and I can or if I feel like it but it is not my duty to do it always. I will never give up my seat to anyone who is healthy man or woman. Do give the seat to a women who are not carrying babies or are pregnant, etc. From time to time I have seen women who get offended when I treat them the same as a man. Not helping them carry objects, not giving them my seat on the bus when they do not comply with the rules.Morales that I have or bus legal etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:54 PM
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-mateiral: Married men continue to work more and earn more even for the same amount of time as married women, especially if they have children, if you want to buy a house alone you are within your rights. But As I see that you use statistics of weekly hours at home as valid in this, let's do the same with money since both are born from social concepts anyway. Emotional: Women to the extent that they take medication against depression in a very large way, being more common when they are single. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:31 PM
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I think it has already been shown that those who have personalities that are consistent with traits that make them abusive towards others are more successful in attracting male or female partners. Morality works to have a social circle without unreformed criminals or partners who are emotionally dependent or who are as bad as their own partner by default or actively. As someone who has not had a partner, it was really upsetting to think that I was not worthy of having a partner, unlike bullies, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:01 PM
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It depends on the context. A nerd who rejects a nerdy girl and only chases pretty girls has a high standard but he is free to aim as high as he can, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. As long as he don't generalize all women, everything is ok. ​ The same with a girl who cries because they only want her for sex when she aims to go out with the most attractive people she knows when objectively she is not at that level. The same applies to poor or middle class people who do or do look for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:49 PM
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I suppose the more options someone has, the more superficial and inflexible their standards will be. I generally consider them high when someone rejects people with a similar character, life position and physique as them left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:33 PM
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​ Oh yeah. zero pressure to go to the gym or be fit since I was 13 ​ zero pressure to have a couple of family members or classmates ​ zero pressure to work and earn money since I was 17 ​ reasonable expectations of relatives about having something better than an apartment paid for before the age of 30 when homes have doubled in price since 2018 compared to 2023 ​ I live in Latin America and the economic expectations are so insignificant compared to the dawn XD. Keeping a home in order as a singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:28 PM
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what are those standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:43 PM
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When I got my first work experience I realized that I don't need money, physical appearance or morals to have a partner. I saw colleagues with girlfriends texting with other women receiving messages asking them for sex and the dude dont have much physical appearance or much money. Although normal people say that personality refers to being fun and social, which are the only things that objectively work if the goal is to get a partner without seeing their quality (obviusly it matter in the chance…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:17 AM
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​ I don't know, as soon as I had work experience I realized that the only thing that matters is how confident and outgoing you are. I have coworkers who sometimes forget to shave their necks, deodorant, and wear objectively bad outfits on a regular basis and in a month they become more successful than me. ​ I will not deny that doing such things as a minimum of 2 baths a day, keeping my room dust-free, ironing all my clothes or wearing perfume always has something to do with meeting such a stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:10 PM
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Folding clothes that won't be seen outside is a waste of time. The only clothes that should be stored properly are the ones that others see and that is done by ironing them and hanging them on a hanger in a closet, not by folding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:49 PM
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