Lucazzz14 Archive

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1	My gf says i'm too clingy and our relationship is too serious. (M17) (F17) overall i just want to know if you think I'm too clingy and or i am taking my relationship too serious? Possibly, possibly not. We haven't see any messages or seen how you act. Just take a step back and breath. This girl is with you for whatever reason. Just keep continuing what you're doing, take her out, do stuff together, rinse and repeat. Let her bring up the relationship talks. If you are possibly acting a little clingy, again take a step back and chill. She's with you. You being more relax…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 10:11 PM
1	A lot of girls text me first but idk how to keep them interested. By suggesting you should get together for a night out on X day at Y time if she's free. Reciprocate the texts and keep it fun with banter and some flirting. Keep the personal shit for in person. I assume you aren't looking for a texting buddy so don't be one.	/r/seduction	30/10/22 10:01 PM
1	Would it be weird to hang out with coworker who has a boyfriend? Look man, men and women can be friends. Believe it or not. Don't bother unless you remove all romantic attraction. Don't entertain it. Let's say you two got something going on, what's going to stop her from dropping you for the next guy? Hypothetically speaking let's say she did try something, at least be a man of dignity and push her away. It'd say a lot about the both of you.	/r/seduction	26/10/22 08:50 PM
1	Why would he flirt with me, next to other men ? Overthinking, unless he's saying it like a joke to mock you and the other dudes join in or laugh. It could be banter between the both of you and to come across as "hey I have the balls to say this infront of others". He may genuinely mean it.	/r/seduction	23/10/22 09:28 AM
9	Share your experiences reconnecting with a woman that said they only wanted to be friends I asked girls out, they wanted to be friends: Most of them I didn't talk to again and moved on. A handful of girls, we genuinely became friends and are chill. No drama. Removed all romantic interest and dated others. If you're expecting that kind of thing from the movies, it probably won't work. I only say this so you don't potentially waste time. The "friend" route is also disingenuous.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 09:36 PM
15	I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks. I don’t feel the need to be the center of attention or the life of the party, I’m totally content being my quiet self and not having to be that funny guy. You have to talk. You have to create banter, make the girl laugh and make her feel good around you. I'm not saying be the loudest, but be the guy everyone wants to talk to. Be the guy who can converse with anyone. Or go to quieter settings. I approach women with the intent of getting to know them, but I think in doing so, Ive disable myself fr…	/r/seduction	06/10/22 01:35 PM
5	What to do if you are left on read, have your messages not opened or are always the first one texting? I have a habit of texting long and replying fast. I don't see anything wrong with that personally IF they reciprocate the long messages back. Same with replying fast if you happen to have the phone in your hand, but if you literally put life on hold or stop whatever you're doing, stop. Reply when you've finished your task. I am never afraid to ask them to hang out but escalation has always been an issue for me. The few times I tried, I failed. I have been friendzoned a few times by girls who see…	/r/seduction	05/10/22 07:58 AM
12	What to do if you are left on read, have your messages not opened or are always the first one texting? If they like you, they'll make it obvious. That's the general rule. If they don't reply, either ask them out or message them once more and leave it to them to reply back. If they do, great. If they don't, who cares? You've moved on doing something else or someone. Don't fall for the mind games or justify her lack of effort as so, people who play games aren't long term partners. 9 out of 10 girls I chat with either end up leaving me on read, not opening the messages for a long time If this is the…	/r/seduction	05/10/22 07:26 AM
1	When should you ask someone out? 3 or 4 weeks? I'd as her this week before you run the risk of her assuming you just want to be friends. I get you don't want to rush things, but most of it is down to common sense. You wouldn't ask for her number after a 30 second conversation or you say you love her after one date right? As for dating ideas ... google stuff, ask on reddit, ask someone if you want, there's plenty of resources to help you. As long as you don't take her to the movies before the 5th date imo (how are you going to k…	/r/seduction	02/10/22 09:44 PM
1	Advice request on this encounter? What I said in the final paragraph.	/r/seduction	27/09/22 01:32 PM
2	Advice request on this encounter? Apart from apologizing for being too old, well done man. If she likes the look of you, she likes the look of you. No need to seek validation. I wouldn't had said good morning personally or set a time to call her too soon, from my experience would be at the weekend coming up, but everyone is different. I would had kept the messaging lighthearted with banter and building up a bit more rapport with her first. But you've sent the message now and all you can do is wait for her reply, if she sends it.…	/r/seduction	27/09/22 10:35 AM
1	I envy all you lads who say women aren't difficult. Personally? I can think of 4 people I know. How many do I see in public? A lot. I'll do a head count next time.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 04:14 PM
5	I envy all you lads who say women aren't difficult. Actually yes. Until I started working out, going out more socially, creating new friendships and started talking to women and making them laugh and feel comfortable. As much as I wanted to have a relationship, I didn't go out there with the expectation. Play the victim card if you want but I know people personally and out in public who are shorter with women and their own kids. I'm not saying there aren't shallow women who will solely judge you on your height, but if it was the case for all wome…	/r/seduction	23/09/22 09:20 AM
6	I envy all you lads who say women aren't difficult. Get the defeatist mindset out of you man. You have to play with the cards you've been dealt with and it looks like you have. You're a lawyer who works out for god sake. Trust me man, even if you can hold a conversation and have positive body language, you'll get a date in no time. I won't lie to you man, being 5'7 and Indian may not be as preferable to some as say someone who is white and 6'1 like myself. But guess what? I'm not everyone's type. A chef may cook the most perfect meal going, but s…	/r/seduction	23/09/22 08:21 AM
6	This girl has been tryna keep me on her mind! Option A for me is to make a joke about it and make it funny This one. Take part in the banter, not ignore it or question it like you got offended. I’m out of her league Don't think that, it probably questioned her about you simping. Just have some banter, ask her when she's free to see you, rinse and repeat.	/r/seduction	21/09/22 07:41 AM
1	How long should I wait before asking this girl to be my girlfriend Way too soon man assuming it's 1 date per week. 90 - 120 days would be my ball park if everything goes well. You're telling me you know everything about this girl within 4 dates? Just keep doing what you've been doing and let her bring it up. Women are the ones who develop emotions, relationships and are naturally more caring because of their energy.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 02:42 PM
21	Has "one girl a day" approach worked for anyone here? The more people you talk to, the more relaxed you'll be and it'll improve your social skills. If you reserve yourself only to girls you like, you'll put too much pressure on this limited interaction and mess up.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 01:11 PM
1	What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothes I'd look more into the context of your messages and arrangements made.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 11:10 AM
1	I hate my brother because of his success Your decision man but holding grudges and having aggression will eventually leak into relationships. Seen it happen many times bro.	/r/seduction	30/08/22 11:16 AM
3	When you know she's into you but can't maintain eye contact Build some rapport with her. Make her feel comfortable in your space. Don't rush into getting her number if you see her often (of course don't drag it on for months). There's plenty of videos out there giving ideas for questions. Sometimes just repeating a few details can be turned into a question and she may expand on it.	/r/seduction	30/08/22 11:09 AM
1	I hate my brother because of his success Guess what? A lot of siblings give eachother shit growing up. I had it with mine and we just matured. I'd understand if he was assaulting you and mentally torturing you which resulted in action, but I doubt that was the case. Fuck the apps anyway man. Don't rely on them. I suppose there is a little bit of light if you're continuing to work on you. It's a start at least. The advice given is generally sound. The good looking people just have to work less for getting dates, that's all it is. Whatev…	/r/seduction	30/08/22 11:03 AM
1	I hate my brother because of his success I didn't read that but come on man, it's your brother. You're going to need eachother one day. I only read that he apologised for being mean to you growing up so put your shit to the side and build a relationship. Perhaps instead of being jealous like a lot of the "haters" out there. Why don't you talk to him and see how he manages whatever it is. You know how people get successful? By networking with other succesful people and being with likeminded people. If you have some sort of internal conf…	/r/seduction	30/08/22 10:50 AM
5	Hittin' on someone IRL You have to step out of your comfort zone man. There's no other way of putting it. If you want to change your circumstances, you're going to have to put in the effort or have the same complaints in 5 years. You might be nervous because you barely converse with girls and with the "limited" interactions, you put way too much pressure on yourself. I would get the ball rolling slowly, especially if she gives you eye contact as well. Start with a smile, a "hello" and eventually a small conversation. …	/r/seduction	30/08/22 10:42 AM
3	What’s the best way forward with a girl who seems to be interested in person but after a while she literally doesn’t respond to texts? You pretty much answered your own question ... reciprocate how she texts and leave the door open, you know know unless you burn bridges. You're welcome to try your luck and seeing that she sometimes goes MIA for a few weeks ... that could be your excuse to invite her out. But personally, and if it's a hobby you enjoy with a good group, I wouldn't try much unless she makes it obvious. You'll get over the tits when you date and see the next pair.	/r/seduction	29/08/22 08:18 PM
4	How to be commanding and bold whilst still coming across as chill and easy going? decisive That's about having a plan an executing it. I.e setting a date with a definite time and date. commanding I'd leave this for the bedroom but I know where you're getting at. It's more about calling her out on things if you find something unacceptable. Not getting into an argument because you will never win, but saying "hey that wasn't cool" or "don't day that". Or if you disagree with her on something or have a different opinion, say it. Don't be a doormat who always says "yes". Have some…	/r/seduction	29/08/22 04:09 PM
137	A girl who ghosted me reached out again At the most, I would just exchange a few messages, ask her if she's free to hang out and hook up and keep it casual. Let her do the work if she wants anything more serious. If she can't hang out, end the conversation and tell her to "reach out again soon because it's great to hear from you" and continue with your day. Repeat the process if she does message you again, she'll get the idea of what to expect when she reaches out. You don't want to invest too much with someone who ghosted you before.	/r/seduction	29/08/22 09:20 AM
2	Do you only initiate/show interest if it is obvious that the girl is into you? If I need to clarify ... yes, go for the girl that you are attracted to. But then after some time you need to have some self respect and move on if there's low effort.	/r/seduction	29/08/22 07:40 AM
7	Do you only initiate/show interest if it is obvious that the girl is into you? Ask yourself who you'd rather date ... Girl A who is excited to see you. Messages you regularly, asks questions, laughs at your crap jokes, looks in your eyes and smiles when you talk and so on. Whatever you do or plan is effortless and she doesn't flake on you unless an genuine conflict occurs and she reschedules. Or Girl B who isn't excited to see you, doesn't ask personal questions, takes days to reply, replies with one word answers or "lol". Agrees to go out with you but conveniently forgot …	/r/seduction	29/08/22 12:23 AM
5	How can I smile at a woman without coming off as a creep? You just smile and nod or smile and say "hello". If they lock eyes and reciprocate, great. Take it one step at a time and ask them "how are you?" next time. Then possibly what they are doing at the gym the next time, and then possibly their name since you see them regularly. Or if you happen to converse with them, carry on talking. If they don't reciprocate, leave it. That's where you'll be flirting with being a creep when you don't respect boundaries or acknowledge that they don't want to talk …	/r/seduction	29/08/22 12:15 AM
78	I had my heart broken and I want revenge. I'm asking for help on how to do that Didn't read. But the best "revenge" you can do is forget about this shit, continue with your life, date other women and be the best version if yourself. Even then all of that is for your benefit.	/r/seduction	23/08/22 03:46 PM
1	Tips on how to flirt and transition to sex themed conversation? No, not on a first date. I thought I wouldn't need to clarify.	/r/seduction	17/08/22 07:40 AM
3	Tips on how to flirt and transition to sex themed conversation? It's why you test the waters and make a light hearted comment. If she isn't reciprocating, that's when you pull back and maybe try again once more later when you've built more of a rapport. Girls want to put the blame on you for the conversation to be sexual. They don't want that burden.	/r/seduction	16/08/22 06:14 AM
47	Is approaching girls even worth it? Then you're going to have to talk to girls.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 06:29 PM
4	Does it mean no? She said she'll message you but hasn't. I wouldn't mention it again and try your luck with someone else man. Especially if you work with this person, it saves any awkward drama. Last thing you need at work.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 05:59 PM
16	Is approaching girls even worth it? Do you want to date?	/r/seduction	15/08/22 05:58 PM
5	8 ‘Nice Guy’ Texting Habits To Avoid AT ALL COSTS I wouldn't say all these are "nice guy" things. Some are just being a decent person. Ultimately, if she finds you good looking, you have more chances to fuck up. 1) Agree with the last part. Doesn't have to a love poem either. For me, I show a bit of enthusiasm over a hobby and ask about it. 2) Yeah don't change your opinion for the sake of her. It sparks as much conversation disagreeing (in a light hearted way obviously) 3) Depends on her reaction. I sometimes say "I'm joking" or I dig myself b…	/r/seduction	15/08/22 05:52 PM
33	Tips on how to flirt and transition to sex themed conversation? You don't want to go balls deep and talk about it straight away. Banter with her. Get her laughing. You know when girls try and challenge you with "I bet you say that to all the girls" or "If you play your cards right" or some other crap to see if the guy fumbles by trying to convince her that you are a good guy? Say shit like that back to her. Turn the tables. Get her to qualify herself for you. You want to throw some innuendos in. Basically something that sound innocent but has a sexual meanin…	/r/seduction	15/08/22 05:34 PM
1	Need some perspective on my 30M situation with this girl 23F Who gives a shit about instagram. One less thing to worry about. All you can do is try and organise a date when you're free. If she can't make it and reschedule, sweet. If she doesn't, personally I would only ask once more for the benefit of a doubt incase she did have stuff going on. Let her message you when she's ready and ask her when she's free after a few exchanges. She knows what you want and you aren't investing as much time into her. Date other girls who actually want to see you in the m…	/r/seduction	15/08/22 11:56 AM
1	Women ALWAYS want to split the bill Just focus on having a good date and at the bare minimum, cover yourself and her financially just incase you do pay. I've never fully paid for a meal. The girl always jumped in and offered to split. Some even paid for me. Some led to more dates, some didn't. Some girls will split, some believe the man should whilst having more traditional views, some girls just look for a free meal.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 11:47 AM
1	Is everyone here handsome? My mom said I am. But seriously man and I won't lie, not every girl will be interested in you regardless of what you look like or how tall you are. All this means is that you have to put in a bit more effort in yourself, whether it's finding a haircut that suits you, facial hair, your physique, clothing style or just straight up ask an extra amount of women out. Don't be discouraged man. You have to make do with what you've got and make use of it. I can make a bet that it's your confidence that …	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:33 PM
3	Family obligations causing me to feel trapped and hopeless I’m just waiting for my grandma and dog to die before I can move and try dating in a major city again. I get you're a bit frustrated and want to get dating but you'll regret saying that man. Guarantee it. Imagine saying that to a girl as well. They'd appreciate you looking after your relatives, would say a lot about you. For the time being you are going to have to make do with the circumstances. If it doesn't impact you financially, get some cover for those few days and take advantage of your da…	/r/seduction	08/08/22 09:56 AM
1	How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/ make you feel smaller in front a woman? Laugh it off and make a joke about yourself. Go with it. All he wants to do is belittle you to impress a girl ... a real gentleman. But since it's your boss. Endorce him a little, give the girl some rapport about him. I wouldn't get in the way incase he gets hurt and insecure and takes it out you, work wise. There's plenty of women everywhere. I'd pass on the co-workers this time. You're there to work, not to be involved in some high school drama.	/r/seduction	05/08/22 10:00 AM
5	Do you need the signal? Signals makes things easier and filters out those who aren't interested. Work smart, not hard.	/r/seduction	02/08/22 09:49 AM
6	What is the thought process of a girl that is doing this? Oh yeah, don't go for the person in the casket. Forgot to clarify.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 05:06 PM
9	What is the thought process of a girl that is doing this? I have the balls to approach her Probably. grab her by the waist Calm down there. I'm usually hesitant when a situation like this happens because sometimes it works out but other times she turns and gives me a weird look or pushes me away Just do what works for you. Doesn't matter if it's at a bar, a library, a bus station, a funeral ... you've got to take the initiative and talk to her. If she like you then great, if she doesn't then try your luck with the next one. Don't be discouraged.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:08 PM
11	Went to the farmers market alone (fail) Give him some advice then, Casanova.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 07:41 AM
1	i am mad at women, well 2 women in particular, but it is spilling over i thought the first one was a guarantee, Never think this, it will only make you complacent. two women i had been hanging with friendly for a while in a group, Probably because they saw you as a friend. . what do you do to keep motivation high Just crack on with life, make your intentions clear and try again with the next girl without expectations. The minute you redeem yourself "single forever" and not put in the effort, then you will be single forever and frustrated. That isn't the best cycle …	/r/seduction	27/07/22 07:39 AM
16	What has been your experience when you had to reject someone romantically? Let her do it in her echo chamber man, it says a lot more about her. It's why I suggets keeping your messages if you date those kind of girls, though I wouldn't recommend it. Luckily it's mostly ended amicably with me because of the girls I date or I'm honest and shut down any begging they do. Got ghosted a couple of times but it's not like I had expectations..	/r/seduction	27/07/22 07:31 AM
1	What do I do now? she told me "ok ok I'll let you know", matter fact she didn't let me know. There's your answer. She just wants the attention. everyone was on her, things like her telling me to grab her ass, touching, intense gazes, caressing slowly and talking in a provocative way and so on.. You should have sealed the deal here man. If she rejected your approach, you should have kept it as friends only. Date someone who actually wants you. So, I've bought her a gift for her birthday from an online shop, it's s…	/r/seduction	25/07/22 09:04 PM
47	Should I pursue women or focus on myself We do what we all do in our adult lives ... we manage our time. 100% focus on yourself. Your work, your ambitions, your health, whatever. No woman will be the answer if you are miserable with your current state. Also, if you want to pursue women, you have to put in the time and effort to put yourself in social situations. A girl won't fall infront of you if you "focus on yourself" or in reality "I'll ignore women and use that as an excuse". No other way of putting it. Just don't prioritise a wom…	/r/seduction	25/07/22 03:36 PM
5	TIPS FOR WHEN YOU DONT WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS WITH A WOMAN WITHOUT HURTING HER AT ALL If they ask what you're looking for or hint at anything serious, then say it. Just flirt and tease with them as normal. If they move on, who cares right? Not like you're too emotionally invested if it's casual. The "mystery" comes from you not telling your whole life story straight away and from the descriptive things you've said you'll do to them, if it gets to that point.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 10:06 AM
14	TIPS FOR WHEN YOU DONT WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS WITH A WOMAN WITHOUT HURTING HER AT ALL "I'm just looking to be casual and have fun right now" If need be, reinforce with "don't expect anything serious from me apart from a good night out" or something in a jokingly manner. The rest is on her. Honestly, a lot of girls prefer the honesty and if anything, want fun themselves. Why create bullshit drama by faking everything? And it makes you look like a coward. Those who stick around hoping to "change" you are only selling their dreams to themselves. As long as you keep the messages, you…	/r/seduction	21/07/22 09:40 AM
1	Is it a good thing if a woman says she trusts you? What do you think man?	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:32 AM
1	Use spirituality to make girls attracted to you! Or just have hobbie and interests, meet likeminded people and engage in conversation that shows her you have passion and interests. Woman like that you actually have other things going on and not solely relying on her for existing.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:29 AM
5	The number of incels in this sub is outstanding (you are the reason for your own failure) + common questions answered I agree that you have to be straightforward in order to help someone (that's if they want to help themselves and not make excuses for everything), but this is a subreddit for discussing such topics. You can't expect everyone to look up past questions. the loser incels Because using terms like this makes you superior. Calm down with that shit bro. Say what worked for you and if people want to make excuses, let them.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 08:20 AM
1	Do you consider guys around the age of 30(28-31)weirdos if they haven’t kissed a girl, lost their virginity or maybe never had a girlfriend? It is a key factor because it develops communication skills and identify other social cues. Will it guarentee dates? Course not. But it will give you a better chance since repetition is the mother of all skill. And dating is a numbers game. I don't know your average routine but if you don't give yourself opportunities to converse with people, you won't get anywhere. If you walk around with your head down and ignore the vast majority of people, you won't get anywhere.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 07:47 AM
1	Do you consider guys around the age of 30(28-31)weirdos if they haven’t kissed a girl, lost their virginity or maybe never had a girlfriend? You can't decide that someone else will say yes No ... obviously. But you can identify where you may be going wrong and make a change. Whether it's the way you act (being needy and love bombing) or your lifestyle (lack of socialising), for example.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 07:01 AM
14	Do you consider guys around the age of 30(28-31)weirdos if they haven’t kissed a girl, lost their virginity or maybe never had a girlfriend? If they were to act too emotional about it and started acting in a weird way, sure. The past is the past. As long as you accept that and decide to change your circumstance, it not a big deal.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 05:08 AM
24	Where the hell can I meet girls? Do hobbies that you enjoy. Avoid activities that you genuinely have no interest it (obvious but why volunteer if you have no interest?) Do things that get you interacting with groups of people. If you eat or have a coffee away from college, be open to converse with people. Make new friends and socialise with them. There are the dating apps but I wouldn't expect too much from them. If anything, it'd be casual stuff. Bottom line is if your current routine isn't fulfilling you, then you have to go …	/r/seduction	05/06/22 09:22 AM
1	How to respond to rejection well? Appreciate you being honest and it's no problem at all. If you change yoyr mind, you know where I am. All the best to you. If you see her in public, just smile and converse a little if she is also game. No need to create drama.	/r/seduction	31/05/22 08:53 AM
2	What does "I think we will see each other again" means? She's saying that the possibility of coming back to where you live is there. Will she actually do it? Probably not. You're in an ideal place to have fun and meet different girls. Keep doing that. If you want something more serious, keep it for someone who actually lives nearby.	/r/seduction	31/05/22 08:50 AM
1	Decent looking but cant get any Then how about you approach women?	/r/seduction	16/05/22 06:36 AM
1	Men's fascination with male genitalia makes me upset. Then find a guy who is obsessed about pussy or whatever you're complaining about ...	/r/seduction	16/05/22 06:26 AM
1	Should I send a follow up text? I would just message her as normal man. If she brings up this topic, just say everything is alright. Not sure if this is a long distance relationship but I would be more focused on dating her in person rather than texting. Or start calling/video calling her every so often.	/r/seduction	13/05/22 09:20 AM
1	Should I send a follow up text? What is this girl to you, is she someone you want to date? Or are you dating? Relationship? Sounds like you're just friends. No idea what your issue is about and she may be giving you time. But ultimately, she didn't follow up on what she said and I'm willing to bet she isn't that interested. If you're trying to date her, you may have to take the L if you're trying to get her out. Don't pour all your problems onto someone you've just met. Leave that stuff for your friends.	/r/seduction	13/05/22 08:03 AM
1	How do you flirt without coming across as a simp? Don't put her on a pedestal and be your reason of existence.	/r/seduction	12/05/22 04:30 PM
1	My boyfriend (23) recently followed a 13 year old girl with her age in her bio No idea how he can justify following a child from tiktok unless it's his relative (still would find it weird on tiktok personally). He also gets super defensive when I ask him about things and will basically twist it all back to Blame me. recently found out he cheated on his ex ( said he did it on purpose so she would break up with him because He didnt know how… And these points alone would make me very suspect of this guy.	/r/seduction	12/05/22 09:07 AM
1	Do I have to play the game to win? Never have, never will. Never thought of it as a game. I hate the uncertainty when I don’t know how a girl feels about me, and I hate doing that to girls myself giving vague answers and keeping a tight poker face You can't force anyone to like you, stop feeling entitled. Feelings process naturally and over time. It's a matter of life that some things work and some things won't work. If you can accept that, you've won half the battle. And if you interact with anyone who gives you vague, one word …	/r/seduction	08/05/22 10:22 AM
2	How do I approach Indian women? I have yeah, unfortunately it didn't work put because of the traditional parents thing but it is what it is. But Indian girls are just like any other girl ... if you fit their preference, it's on. I've met some that you've described, I met some who are less traditional and are less materialistic and I've met some who purposely rebelled the traditional stuff and wanted fun with white dudes. Just like the dating game in general, you'll meet some good people and you'll meet some shit people. It's a…	/r/seduction	08/05/22 09:57 AM
1	People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take? A coach? Levels? What? In that case, I'm an amateur in the eyes of your "coach". Dude it's about confidence in yourself. It's about having social and conversational skills. It's about having some witty banter. And of course, a lot of it is common sense. Talk to anyone and everyone you come across that gives you eye contact or greets you when you walk by. Don't bother if they don't look at you or barely speak. Why try and talk to everyone? Because not only it improves your interaction, it will gi…	/r/seduction	03/05/22 04:03 PM
1	Should I ask her out via text or in person? Why or why not? Ideally in person, it shows you have balls and if you get rejected, you take it well no drama. I only text if I haven't seen her around for a week or so.	/r/seduction	29/04/22 03:51 PM
6	I graduated from high school as a virgin. I never even kissed a girl. I have so much regret and bitterness over missing out on sex and romance as a teenager. is it any fun as a grown ass man? First thing to do is get rid of this negative mindset before you do anything. Don't be bitter man, there is literally no point other than giving yourself self validation and an excuse to not make a change. Sex and romance is exciting at any age, if both people reciprocate. I would say how it was as a teenager but guess what? I was in the same boat as you. Dating can be awkward and not every date will be like a house on fire but guess what? That's life. All you can do is work on yourself, work on…	/r/seduction	29/04/22 07:54 AM
1	To respond or not respond You could confirm a time you'll pick her up, if you wish, and end it with something smooth. I don't know what your texting habits are but after organising a date, I normally leave the texting until the day (unless she messages you or you message her something meaningful) and say something like "don't be too late when I pick you up later". End of the day, if she's interested she'll show up ... unless you purposely ignore her for a week because of a dating strategy. Keep the phones for setting dat…	/r/seduction	22/04/22 09:07 AM
2	To respond or not respond Don't mirror man, reply when you genuinely can. Apart form clarifying a time that you'll pick her up/you'll meet, there's no need to message her random bullshit for the sake of it.	/r/seduction	22/04/22 08:55 AM
2	I need a joke about looking like Jon Snow for dating apps! 29M (Genuine cry for help) Just post yourself having a good time and smiling, doing a hobby or out somewhere with a cool backdrop (except holding a fish). Get a picture of yourself decently dressed where women have a general idea of your body shape also. Personally, I just mention me doing dog walks, vague descriptions of the hobbies I do (which instigate questions), enjoy being around the family, seeing what the apps are about and seeing what happens. There's no need to publish a book and I've never had to use jokes, but…	/r/seduction	14/04/22 11:15 AM
14	Why are men so confusing Either he has misunderstood the whole push/pull bullshit way too much, you're either his first or one of his first partners (lack of experience), lack of confidence and esteem or there is something potentially more serious.There's spending time with you and there's having that time away so that thought of independence to do your own thing is there. You can either talk to him (not message) or walk away. Some of the points you've put does sound a bit off.	/r/seduction	14/04/22 11:00 AM
1	I think I need to stop trying to be "smooth" and just go for what I want, even if it goes against the conventional advice given around here. Maybe I am the possessive type, maybe I am the jealous type, maybe I am the rough around the edges straight shooter. Maybe I need to stop being so concerned about not being those things, and just start having the balls to pull the trigger. Mostly this, my guy. You claim to keeping it cool but then internally lose it when she talks to another guy. Then last thing you want to do is get jealous and then you will fuck up. You know what to have to do yourself based off this reflection. All you can do…	/r/seduction	11/04/22 09:52 AM
1	Isn’t it disheartening for women when they actually understand our intentions? They assume us like a devil thirsty for sex , Everyone likes sex. If you come across a girl who complains that men only want one thing, it's more than likely they've been lied to by an ex. Women aren't stupid. They get the idea if you approach them, ask them out and actually dating them. It's more about how you conduct yourself whilst with them. Would they behave like we betrayed them faking all this good friendship, talks moments together or its just normal? Don't fake anything man, all that is…	/r/seduction	11/04/22 09:37 AM
1	How do you guys that are introverted (like me) meet girls? By doing what I enjoy (solo or around people, I.e the gym) and keep myself open for conversation and smile at people. As much as I love doing stuff on my own or being on my own, you do have to go out there in order to meet people. Where can you go? It depends on your interests.	/r/seduction	11/04/22 09:31 AM
2	How To Approach This One Girl You won't be considered anything bad if you know when to stop and you don't keep persisting when the obvious signs are there that she doesn't want to talk (I.e answering in a monotonous manner, lack of eye contact). There's legitimate videos out there that women post these days so if you want an idea, check a few out for research purposes. But just strike up a conversation man. Talking about anything or ideally about what's around you, a situation you can both relate to ... in this case the libr…	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:39 AM
2	might've fucked up - we'll see 7 hours later I say "you're right why would I think we'd be sleeping" Don't submit, unless she specifically says stop it. Should had replied with a joke. Who cares if you saw her at a distance or not at all. I get it if you out right ignored her when you walked past her. before, I see a chick out while I don't have a date set with her yet and we're texting or between dates. I never know how to handle that situation Handle it by organising a definite date. Anyway, that second text I sent was a co…	/r/seduction	08/04/22 06:20 AM
9	How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a loner Don't do anything differently man. Whatever you've been doing so far has been working so continue dating. Creating doubts with yourself will lead to self sabotage I.e. you will start acting differently (probably jealous) and that will turn her away. I can guarantee you that her previous dates were either too jealous, too controlling, or tried to tie her down too quickly. She's obviously hot or very good looking so think of it as "Hey ... I'm dating that girl" and give yourself a pat on the back.…	/r/seduction	03/04/22 06:33 PM
17	is it possible to hookup with women you don't have common interest with? If you don't mind the club scene then take a girl on a night out. Same about grabbing food or having drinks. Or do other things in a fun atmosphere depending on the girl. Just don't go for obvious date activities like grabbing coffee, walking somewhere, going to a museum (unless it's her idea and or it leads to other stuff). Have fun, flirt, banter, break the touch barrier, get the sexual attraction going and don't have expectations. Why act serious when there's nothing to be serious about? If y…	/r/seduction	03/04/22 06:22 PM
2	I’ve made whatever mistake in the past. Thought so because that's childish bullshit man. All you can do is try and reflect as best as you can on how you behaved with this girl and be hard on yourself. My assumptions that you were either too needy, too push, too jealous, expressed your love after the first date or told a secret about yourself and she abused that trust. If it's anything more serious, well I'm afraid you're a bit stuck (highly doubtful or you wouldn't be at college but I had include it). Imo from what you've said, 1) ign…	/r/seduction	03/04/22 06:08 PM
28	is it possible to hookup with women you don't have common interest with? Are you looking to date or actually hook up? Grabbing coffee or a stroll on the beach sounds like a date. Either have a good time and don't drink, which is entirely possibly, or don't go for the party girls	/r/seduction	03/04/22 05:59 PM
1	I’ve made whatever mistake in the past. Are you at school/college?	/r/seduction	03/04/22 05:58 PM
13	What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating? So when this NBA guy organised hook up with girls, that's alpha shit. But when I organise to hook up with a women on the corner, that's prostitution.	/r/seduction	30/03/22 11:13 AM
7	What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating? I roll my eyes a little also because we don't have to hunt or kill the neighbour for a bit of grass but people forget we are mammals also.	/r/seduction	30/03/22 11:03 AM
17	What is your opinion on fresh and fit\Kevin samuel's take on cheating? At the end of the day, fucking another person whilst being in an exclusive relationship that you both wanted is cheating. Any person with self respect and values would walk away (not straight away but think of how it would effect you and work around that - I.e financial, a place to live). If you tolerate it, you are either a fool, only looking for external benefits (lack of self worth) or have attachment issues (or get extremely lucky and work past it but that's rare). "Exercising options" is no…	/r/seduction	30/03/22 10:57 AM
0	How has the rise of political correctness, toxic masculinity, fourth wave feminism etc actually impacted pick up for you? It makes barely any difference man. Obviously don't cross the red line and be abusive or send unsolicited pics then you'll be fine. If the signs that's she isn't interested, move on. No means no, and so on. The same applies today as it did 20/30/40/50 years ago. Otherwise dating would cease to exist. If anything, being masculine is more at demand because of men being afraid of PC. Just continue being confident and assertive and if she is attracted to you, you're onto a winner. The only girls I a…	/r/seduction	23/03/22 09:49 AM
2	Where do you go to find girls to date? If your place is the gym then you really have to focus more on the signs given and build more of a rapport. There's nothing wrong with talking and getting to know someone at the gym, but you don't want to hit on every pretty girl you see and be known as that guy. Ultimately, like anything else in life, you have to go out of your way and make time and opportunities to socialise and talk to people. Sorry for the following clichés, but do more activities with friends, try other things you actually …	/r/seduction	23/03/22 09:35 AM
1	How to reapproach after cancelling plans on this girl? To your credit, it was the right call. But mostly because it was in another city and it'd cost more. If you really want to try again, ask her out one more time and keep it relatively local. If it's anything but a yes, leave it. But by giving the excuse you gave, I wouldn't expect anything. I also imagine it's how you acted or what you've said that's made her "back away". You should had kept it fun, flirtatious and messaged a few times a week.	/r/seduction	23/03/22 09:27 AM
1	When are TikTok DMs appropriate? I'd just ask for her number bro. Never on social media, especially tiktok. Facebook is probably the only exception.	/r/seduction	23/03/22 09:17 AM
4	Is this teasing or just being an ass/jerk? I wouldn't make comments that can be perceived as negative, especially on a public platform. If that's the kind of banter you BOTH have, best to leave it for when you interact with eachother. All you can do is see how she responds to you in future and apologise. Absolutely roast yourself as well and make it up to her. Don't get argumentative. And with regards to validation on social media ... less is more	/r/seduction	23/03/22 09:12 AM
27	Is someone's girlfriend teasing me? Bottom line is that she has a boyfriend. Doesn't matter what stage it is. Don't go there.	/r/seduction	11/03/22 03:22 PM
3	What’s a good come back when the woman says I have a boyfriend? Assume that she does and move on. Doesn't matter if it's a lie, she isn't interested in you. Don't take it personal. A reply? "Oh I'm sorry, I wasn't aware" or in a jokingly way "Lucky guy. But no problem at all". Even if it is some bullshit shit test, fuck that. You want someone who's into you without the games. Why create drama?	/r/seduction	23/02/22 09:22 PM
1	[deleted by user] She's doing this in her late 20's? If you want to ask her out, I wouldn't look for anything serious. Who says she wouldn't do this to you?	/r/seduction	21/02/22 11:02 PM
2	How should I start involving sex into conversations to make it normal when trying to escalate? Unless you want to have sex in the middle of the street, take it back to yours or hers if the opportunity is there. And it depends on the girl you're dealing with, how intense it is and how comfortable she is around you. Some may go back after the first day, some may not and "preview" in your car or something. Some may leave it for the second or third. Just don't constantly press her. With regards to hook ups, I'm honest and tell them that I'm not looking to be serious at this time. It's a 50/50…	/r/seduction	21/02/22 10:51 PM
2	How to PASS the Vibe Check with a girl? I don't want to sound boring Talk about random shit then. Or Plan B is to listen to what she says and take something she said and turn it into a question. Have some banter, flirt, make some jokes. I don't want to make her feel like I'm desperate or needy Don't do that then. Hit her up a few times sure but don't constantly message her and being available 24/7. You have a life too. I don't want to make her feel like I'm creeping her out Don't act like one then. If she isn't reciprocating, respect …	/r/seduction	21/02/22 10:37 PM
77	If you ask someone out , they say yes, but…. I always ask "what would you do or say if someone you didn't like wanted to talk or take you out?" You'd either tell them "no" or try to avoid it.	/r/seduction	21/02/22 04:11 PM
1	How should I start involving sex into conversations to make it normal when trying to escalate? For me, the obvious things to avoid is being too heavy right away like what desperate men do (you hear stories of guys messaging them and then immediately talk about sex) or being forceful. If she isn't feeling it early in the date, take a step back and try again later ... take 2 steps forward, 1 step back you could say. If she outright rejects the advancements, obviously stop doing it. You want her to feel safe and relaxed to express herself. Women are just as, if not, more sexual than men but …	/r/seduction	21/02/22 04:06 PM
1	Explain this. If you constantly ask them out 5 times or something when they keep saying no or if they don't reply then yes you would be considered needy. Read the room. It's not needy to ask them when you've just met because men should persue in the early stages. Then over time, the balance should switch to her chasing and initiating. My general rule is to ask them twice (special occasions three times). The first time they say no may be because of a genuine reason and stuff is happening personally (probably n…	/r/seduction	21/02/22 10:00 AM
5	How should I start involving sex into conversations to make it normal when trying to escalate? Innuendos. Light hearted jokes. Unless she asks what you would do to her, don't make direct references about sex like a desperate guy. Let it be fun. Of she doesn't reciprocate, leave it and move on. If you want to be direct about being a hookup/fwb, then you have to be honest and say this to save confusion (and for those who pretend to be friends or a boyfriend only to fuck them once - you'd be surprised that being honest works). Don't be direct about being a boyfriend, that shit naturally prog…	/r/seduction	20/02/22 09:26 PM
2	Is moving to a tourist resort a good idea The main question is do you want more money and more time away from work or do you want progress with the job you have now? Women shouldn't be a factor here, put yourself first ... women are a supplement.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 09:19 PM
1	Is she ghosting or what? I wouldn't had messaged 6 hours later bro. Leave it for a few days and ask her out once more. If it's the same lack of response or anything but a yes, leave it in her court and move on. Saves wasting time and hope.If she makes an excuse of the lack of response again, play it cool and tell her to let you know. Let her make the effort.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 09:16 PM
5	Explain this. Don't act entitled, they aren't interested. Leave them alone, you've asked them out multiple times. Would you act this way if you were interested in someone? I wouldn't message them either, move on. If they somewhat message you, have a few exchanges and then ask them out. If they say no, say you have to go and hope to hear from them soon. Invest minimal time in them. Don't have expectations of them.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 07:37 PM
0	gym attraction, girls with headphones on. Fair enough man. I wouldn't say everything but at a lot of things if it's genuinely funny, stupid or a witty comeback. No idea why you've been down voted. Just take it easy with her or you'll be that weird dude at the gym like what the other guy said.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 04:10 PM
1	How to know if she sees me as a friend or a potential partner? Obviously don't harass her, force anything or continue after she says "no". But I would still do what I said above and separate what a friend would do and what somebody who is trying to date her would do. That's only way you'll know if she reciprocates the romantic interest or not.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 02:56 PM
1	Does anyone under 30 actually go on “dates” anymore? If you want to date, ask her out. If you want to hook up, tell her that to save any confusion and set rules. Dates do happen. How do you expect to find out if the other person is compatible and if both parties are interested? Its meant to be fun and exciting, not high pressure and putting expectations on someone. Feelings take time and come naturally.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 01:48 PM
1	How to know if she sees me as a friend or a potential partner? Are you asking her out on a date or to hang out? Are you talking to her like you haven't seen a friend in years or are you trying to flirt, banter and seduce her? In person, have you tried to make moves, look into her eyes, break the touch barrier, get closer and all that? You don't need to speak to do all that. The "barriers" here are that she isn't interested or cultural differences. Your gut is trying to tell you something man. Listen to it. All you can do is actually ask her out on a date an…	/r/seduction	17/02/22 01:44 PM
4	[deleted by user] Probably tested to see how you'd react. You've got her number so just hit her up and see if she responds. All you can do man. I wouldn't expect anything though.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 01:35 PM
2	Is there a term, or better yet, a reason why... A feminist. Jokes asides, he's delusional and needs to evaluate himself for his own future sake. But if he's content with his life, that's his choice man.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 01:16 PM
52	gym attraction, girls with headphones on. I wouldn't let that be your first joke. Maybe once you get to know her. Since you've both seen eachother, just say hello and take it from there. Any girl would take the headphones off if they want to talk.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 01:05 PM
1	[deleted by user] I don't think asking her nationality is an issue but I would had asked a bit later and you could had expanded on her answer and ask where's she's from, how's she's finding the place and could had used it to make was to ask her out. She didn't ask what your name was so it's a lack of interest in my opinion. It was best to end it there.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 11:49 AM
8	What makes women want to fuck with a guy? At least you accept that looks get you more opportunities. At the end of the day, play with the cards you've been dealt with and be comfortable in your own skin. Sure you may have to put in more work, but it's better that sitting at home sulking. All of what you said helps as well as being funny. But when talking to her and the interest is there, throw in an innuendo and see how she reacts. Don't be afraid to push the boat out. They may see you as a friend because you talk and act like a friend,…	/r/seduction	17/02/22 11:45 AM
1	She constantly tests me [26M] or she is just a bad insecure person [26F] Fuck that bullshit. There's nothing wrong with calling her out (it's probably what she wants imo), but don't be over emotional about it or she can easily spin it. Personally, I would treat her nothing as a fuck buddy at this point. Several months of dating and no signs of a relationship and she's doing this? Nah man.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 11:09 AM
2	Advice that night she ended it with me with excuses like she needs time to herself 4 days later she went on a date with another guy an Why would you still try man? Move on and find another girl and step out of your comfort zone then. If she comes back to you then sure, but don't expect it.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 11:04 AM
1	Why bad guys attract more Women? Didn't see the reply till now, sorry man. For me, it's mostly innuendos, a simple joke that mocks them lightly or yourself or you challenge what they said in a jokingly fashion. I'd leave the innuendos until you built a bit of a rapport and the vibe is there. And the jokes depending on the kind. Sounds silly but I'm better at being spontaneous at a reply so give me a scenario. But I see this girl at a gym I go to (conversing naturally of course, not forcing anything) and I joke about how she doe…	/r/seduction	16/02/22 08:31 PM
2	How to deal with rejection? We aren't robots and there's no shame in feeling down but basically yes. Believing that you will meet and date more women will only make you move on. Eventually you'll reach a point where you may meet a perfect 10 and get rejected, but there are more perfect 10's out there. The unicorn doesn't exist. There's the usual "living your life" and doing hobbies ... you existed before meeting this girl remember. The last thing you want to do is develop a scarcity mindset which will only lead you down a …	/r/seduction	15/02/22 06:23 PM
4	How to deal with rejection? Reject hits people because it's either their first or second rejection or they put so much pressure and stress on themsleves because they don't meet women. You got to develop the attitude of "not a deal, there's always another one" and continue with life. If you don't meet many women, that's where you have to go out of your own way and make an effort. We make an effort in all aspects of life and dating is no different. All you can do with your friend is accept this and act like it didn't bother …	/r/seduction	15/02/22 09:31 AM
2	Why can't I build the confidence to approach a woman i find attractive. This. No idea what you are like socially or if you talk to a lot of women in general, but do this. Talk and treat all women the same so when you do meet that one you fancy, it will just be another fun conversation.	/r/seduction	15/02/22 09:24 AM
10	Why bad guys attract more Women? I agree in general. Not an expert whatsoever but people criticise the "bad guys" because they assume they are 100% assholes or abusive and that's not the case. Yes those type of guys are successful to a degree, but that's where you can question the woman's attitude of "I can fix him". That is a grey area people need to tread carefully imo. Some may mistake controlling behaviour to the masculine trait of taking the lead. At the same time, even if you are genuinely a good guy (which should be bare…	/r/seduction	15/02/22 09:20 AM
1	[deleted by user] You're welcome to flirt and have banter and see what happens but respect her boundaries. You can either tell there that it's not a problem and actually be a friend (none of that fake bullshit to "convince" her you're boyfriend material) or stick to your guns and say that you're not looking to just be friends and move on. I want to potentially be in a relationship with her. You need to remove this thought and move on with life. Meet other women. Otherwise you'll be fixated on this one girl and yo…	/r/seduction	14/02/22 08:02 PM
1	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid You would get more socially confident/charismatic through sheer practice alone. This is the only benefit from going out and talking to people. People need to stop selling this dream that simply going out results in numbers and sex. But being more confident in yourself, developing conversational skills and having banter will make things easier with regards to talking to women. At least the likelihood of being nervous or choking up will fall because you're just talking to another person right? But…	/r/seduction	10/01/22 07:23 PM
2	What is Natural Game referred to as now? Is it the ability to hold a conversation with a smile, banter, positive attitude/body language whilst being yourself and not being afraid to say what you think whilst treating all women the same so you develop these skills and don't choke up when you do actually talk to a girl you like? Yeah ... I would say so. Beats saying cringe that she probably heard 100 times before.	/r/seduction	16/12/21 11:15 PM
2	I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through texting This is why I only bother with those who viewed or messaged me first. Had way more dates set up with a less amount of girls I've interacted with. You can't go wrong if they are the ones chasing you.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 07:20 PM
2	Game MadagASSkar	/r/seduction	14/11/21 09:11 PM
5	Some interesting conversation starters while approaching. General Keno-	/r/seduction	08/11/21 12:53 AM
1	Boys…give me some funny pick up lines/openers Trip yourself over and try and pick up as much cocain as you can onto your credit card	/r/seduction	04/11/21 07:59 PM
2	Girls with daddy issues I'd push them into the direction of therapy, personally.	/r/seduction	31/10/21 01:13 AM
5	How to I tell if a girl is interested No offense but fuck that bullshit. Take a No as a No. If she is trying to be "hard to get", that's immature. If that's your thing then sure. If you keep trying after she says no, then you will be going down the "creep" route and that's probably the last thing you want.	/r/seduction	27/10/21 07:52 PM
4	Why is that nowadays I don’t having any concern for women. This should be the attitude. I'm not saying be low effort or be cold for the fun of it, but it saves a lot of time and energy when she gives you the "I don't know" or rescheduling comment without a day/time, when you don't put any expectations on her.	/r/seduction	21/10/21 08:04 AM
1	Not being active in social media turns things really difficult Social media is bullshit. It's full of models who are mostly fake and full of "normal" people who only post their highlights and looking for validation. Don't fall for the trap of comparing yourself to them. The only good use for social media is for online business. Unless you do look like a model or some ripped dude at a gym with 1000's of followers, I wouldn't bother DM'ing anyone. I'm not saying it's impossible to get anywhere, but the chances are very low. Plus, if she's good looking, she'll…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 12:40 AM
14	Cute cashier slipped me her snap This guy living in 2023	/r/seduction	13/10/21 10:28 PM
1	\|USING PUSH-PULL TO ESTABLISH INTEREST AND INTENT\| I suppose game technically does get you more attention because simply approaching a girl is considered "game", so yes. It's basically being a man and having confidence but whatever, tag it as "game". And having game may keep the attention of girls who are more physically attractive and gets attention left, right and centre. I just go off the general rules of passing the physical attraction (or the initial eye contact), hold a conversation, push the boat out and flirt, make her laughing have good…	/r/seduction	10/10/21 09:06 AM
2	\|USING PUSH-PULL TO ESTABLISH INTEREST AND INTENT\| Guys on average will get more rejections than dates regardless of how nice/decent/charming he is. If the girl doesn't like the look of you in the initial few seconds that she registers you, leave it. We do it ourselves, it's life. Yes, I've used "tactics" and "game" (hate those terms but for the sake of understanding what I'm saying) to get dates and some short term flings. Also, not being boring/negative, content with my life, positive, honest and being a decent person also got me some. It most…	/r/seduction	10/10/21 01:08 AM
1	Massive potential deal-breaker with prospective LTR Both sexual. I just took it easy like with any other girl. If they mentioned religion then I'd make a corny joke but if they didn't buy it, you just drop the teasing for that conversation. Yes pursue and flirt but you do have to take their stance (which is 9 times out of 10 feeling guilt after) into consideration and make them feel good. Yeah it took me a couple of months but I was talking to other girls was busy in general, so I wasn't bothered. If it was one girl I as dating, then I'd probably…	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/21 07:57 PM
6	Massive potential deal-breaker with prospective LTR Some of my favourite relationships were with a devoted Catholic who wanted to wait for sex before marriage, a Muslim who thought the same, and an Indian girl who wanted to be with an Indian guy. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are genuine girls who are saving their virginity for marriage and kudos to them, but the vast majority are bullshitting. Only take that excuse at face value. I'm glad you mentioned what you did in the last paragraph and I believe that's why many men emphasise on a woman…	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/21 02:50 PM
16	Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday? When guys say things and act entitled: incel When women say things and act entitled: either queen or delusional This is probably incel talk now dammit.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 09:58 AM
4	Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday? Personally, I would only act amicable towards her and keep it small talk, especially at the workplace. It saves any potential drama and hassle at work, which I'm sure you don't want, and it projects to her that what she did didn't knock you off your stride. If you show anything that can be perceived as aggressive, then it all be flipped against you. If she brings it up and apologises about flaking then sure talk about it in a light-hearted manner. But I wouldn't bother giving her a second go wit…	/r/seduction	03/10/21 09:52 AM
4	What kind of “Game” have you got? Was staying in a hotel for a couple of days, noticed a cute girl was being more friendly than what was required for her job and I wrote my number down on a receipt when I left. She messaged me a few days later. I hate the "game" and all the potential petty high school behaviour that can come with it. I just thought "fuck it" and had a shot.	/r/seduction	23/09/21 05:43 PM
1	Is 3-4 seconds of eye contact enough to signal a male stranger that you are interested? Nice	/r/seduction	13/09/21 08:09 AM
1	Do you enjoy the game itself? The whole "game" thing is bullshit. There's always exceptions but all of these manipulation tactics only work on girls with low esteem or confidence that they hide. Try doing this to a woman who has her shit together, mentally stable and knows what she wants (admittedly if your handsome you can "play" for a bit longer and admittedly not many girls are 100% confident, they put on an act and expect the world). If guys want to live that life, then go for it. I get the appeal and the excitement of i…	/r/seduction	13/09/21 06:38 AM
1	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? In dating, you will get more rejections than likes. The vast majority of girls won't be interested in you romantically but guess what? That's reality. It's all a numbers game and you just have to accept it. I do agree with some points such as online dating, but to me, it sounds like you are just justifying your actions and continuing this habit. If you are comfortable with how your life is, then I'm happy for you. If not, then you really have to change your perception. How do you get numbers? Ta…	/r/seduction	03/09/21 10:31 AM
7	What are some good social activities or hobbies to meet new people? Something that you have a genuine interest in trying out.	/r/seduction	01/09/21 07:02 PM
2	Should I bring my fourth friend to a meet up with my crush and her friend? I have no idea what's going on but next time, just ask this R2D2 person to a date where it's you and her, no one else. You would had known when you first asked her where you stand with her but I believe in second swings. This sounds like a friends day out if anything. And I'm sure that's not your intentions with her. Nothing wrong with going out with friends but that's the thing ... friends. Leave that stuff for when you're in a relationship. Not saying it's a given but there's the potential of …	/r/seduction	01/09/21 01:30 PM
5	How do you avoid the 'friendzone' when playing the long game? By not playing the long game. You're bullshitting yourself man, even you know it yourself by saying she not available. Just keep it amicable with her but focus on other people. She may come around, she probably won't but at least you won't screen potential dates out because "you never know with that girl who is unavailable at the moment".	/r/seduction	01/09/21 07:28 AM
27	Need a smooth answer for when she asks the question "Who do you think you are?" The language from you ... OK then bro, "who do you think you are?" is usually a shit test right? To see if the guy takes the bait and takes what the girl says seriously in that moment. Usually the dude apologises for simply existing or for "offending" her in some way which makes him look like a bitch. Someone who the girl can't banter with well ... we've all done it in our early days. Now, if you know that the girl said it in a playful manner like OP, then you can reply in a playful and non seri…	/r/seduction	24/08/21 08:31 PM
22	Need a smooth answer for when she asks the question "Who do you think you are?" Jokes on you because that worked since the girl liked Gladiator and other Roman era shows and history. Gg git gud	/r/seduction	24/08/21 08:19 PM
30	Need a smooth answer for when she asks the question "Who do you think you are?" I see you're a man of culture also	/r/seduction	24/08/21 08:02 PM
483	Need a smooth answer for when she asks the question "Who do you think you are?" My name is Maximus Decimus Meridius, commander of the Armies of the North, General of the Felix Legions and loyal servant to the true emperor, Marcus Aurelius. Father to a murdered son. Husband to a murdered wife. And I will have my vengeance, in this life or the next.	/r/seduction	24/08/21 03:56 PM
2	how to flake on a girl in a nice easy way? Personally, I would go ahead with the date, set a time and all that BUT arrive an hour early and take pictures. Then when the time of the date happens and you're chilling with the boys on Fortnite since Saturdays are for the boys, you can say to her "where are you?" and then deflect that shit right back to her. Or just tell her straight up like a man with integrity that you aren't feeling it. Sure it's the truth, but just look around on this subreddit alone and you'll see people much prefer the …	/r/seduction	24/08/21 11:23 AM
2	Working out is easier than not working out (a breakdown) I get this is from your prospective but a disclaimer should had been noted. I can't say what it's like being on an "unhealthy binge" for 10 days and if those effects happened to you, then so be it. But I don't think the vast majority of people will suffer the same physical consequences as you experienced. If anything, a rest period for that long is probably just as beneficial (depending on your routine and how long of a period you've gone without sufficient rest). But like every gym post ever to…	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/21 10:21 PM
4	Every girls is rejecting me for no reason Soyjak fans vs Chad fans	/r/seduction	13/08/21 09:15 AM
74	Every girls is rejecting me for no reason You have to reflect and be honest with yourself about why you got rejected that many times. Your tone may had been too much for them, your body language might had been off, your timing also, was she alone or with friends?, was she already occupied and you barged into her space?, did you acknowledge any signs of interest?, you may had asked in a way that wasn't perceived as confident, so on and so forth. Off topic but the only analogy I can think of is top level sports professionals. Doesn't matt…	/r/seduction	13/08/21 09:11 AM
1	Approaching women is fun af! It is brutal but you just have to take it on the chin and move on to the next girl. There's no secret formula. You can moan how girls operate or you can accept reality (granted not all but they all have the potential to do that if they wish). And if they stand you up or insult you in any way, then it says more about their character and you've dodged a bullet. Or you could waste potentially a lot of time taking the friend route, stressing yourself out asking "does she like me? Does she not?", mak…	/r/seduction	12/08/21 07:17 AM
1	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? Thought it was a joke for a second lmao	/r/seduction	11/08/21 07:25 AM
3	Easiest way to get HER NUMBER !!!!!!!!!!!! Probably to ask her in English	/r/seduction	09/08/21 11:14 PM
8	Not sure what I did wrong Well never let a woman stress you out man, especially during the dating stage. At least she asked how you are so that's something. But still, who the fuck knows. I play dumb just incase it is all true but don't be surprised if it isn't. Just stay calm and don't take it personally. It is up to you what you want to do. Ask her over the coming days and leave the ball in her court. Disconnect from her emotionally. Remember, you had a life before meeting her. Or ... keep holding on and invest all you…	/r/seduction	06/08/21 05:14 PM
10	Not sure what I did wrong It is what it is man. Sometimes you may have a great date, the signs are there and all of a sudden poof she does a 180. Or it may had been a shit one in her eyes, a guy came back, she met another guy, she doesn't feel it anymore, who knows. All I can think of is did you set a definite date and time? If she just said "yeah" or didn't offer some sort of input or reschedule then there it is. Had a similar situation myself. All I did after a week or whatever was send a message like "Hey just seeing …	/r/seduction	06/08/21 04:53 PM
2	Liking this girl at the gym. Any advice?? Didn't read it all because it's too fucking long, sorry lol. But take it one step at a time but don't drag the interactions for weeks/months because you could be potentially wasting your time for whatever reason (likely boyfriend, her just being friendly, whatever). You both acknowledge each other, you had the balls to talk to her and break the ice, she comes into your orbit and you know her name (not the end of the world but not telling her your name and inviting her to ask does give an indicat…	/r/seduction	06/08/21 06:52 AM
3	Girls seems to be less interested ? She may be busy getting ready to go home and doing shit. At the end of the day she still replied to you. I personally never take their reason literally but out of respect, I keep it in mind. Are you exclusive? I highly doubt so let her do her thing, you do your thing and so on. Women are like cats, man. Just keep doing what you've been doing that attracted her. The last thing you need to do is get worked up, get fearful, act needy, constantly expect a response from her from pointless texts that …	/r/seduction	20/06/21 04:28 PM
5	Just did my first cold approach in my regular gym of all places Agreed. I don't hit on all of them but I get smiles, a "hello" or small conversations from the girls at the gym who are "stuck up", "rude", "quiet" or are simply getting on with their workout. How? because I get on well with a female PT and we have a laugh. People think you can't be friends with women. But having female friends (of course legitimately) isn't a bad thing because of this reason.	/r/seduction	10/06/21 10:18 PM
2	How to quickly obtain Fuck It energy? Get a few rejections under your belt. Understand that women are human beings and are not these mystical creatures. Understand that you are (probably) one of a bunch of dudes she's talking to. IMO, you should be talking to multiple women as well. Abundance mindset. Not a big deal if she leaves because of the last point. And/Or my personal favourite: create a life for yourself and have a busy schedule. Then if a date doesn't happen, you'll have something better to do that benefits YOU.	/r/seduction	31/03/20 01:28 AM
2	What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning? "Hello there"	/r/seduction	16/03/20 12:31 PM
1	Tired of my blue pilled idiot friends I tried to help an old friend out (met at high school), didn't end well. I'll try to be brief ... met a girl through a mutual friend. I said no to her when she advanced and then she moved on to my school friend literally the day after (who she only known for a couple of weeks, if that). I knew something was up but I left it to them. A few weeks later, my mutual friend said what I suspected which was that she was trying it on with my school friend to get back on me. What did I do for my friend? I…	/r/MGTOW	09/11/19 02:37 AM