Lucciainca Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Making a shift?		Lucciainca	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/25 12:56 AM

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2	Making a shift? Love the last part of your comment!! You’re so right. I think it’s easy to lose sight of we made it this far … and managed to find partners while we were doing it. Also agree with the first part - I think it makes sense to wait until he’s properly settled in post residency life to figure out what the dynamic is … meanwhile I will continue to save $. I am looking st buying some real estate when the interest rates wane and also my father has indicated that he well happily contribute the down payme…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/25 04:32 PM
1	Making a shift? Yes. Huge part of my identity too. It’s almost like it would be great if these jobs could be split in half for working moms but I appreciate that is not at all realistic with how the business is actually run. I’m sure your superiors will be super happy for you! Agree that they won’t know what to do but for the most part I’d rather deal with older men who will likely be more empathetic (and likely astounded that you’re still there if their wives didn’t work). I am worried about stressing him out …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/25 06:32 AM
2	Making a shift? Haha we should be friends. You’re also so right. My industry is only 1% women. I thought that I’d eventually age out of the strange sexual innuendo but now they’re somewhat fascinated by my boyfriend “the doctor” (we get invited to dinners together constantly … it is not the culture of my office to have dinner with couples) and probing around for my long term plans. They recently have started to incentivize me with bonuses etc wanting to to “align interests” … I am committed to prioritizing the …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/25 05:52 AM
2	Making a shift? Even my life now isn’t how I “planned” but I’m happy… there really is beauty in the unknown.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/25 03:44 AM
1	Making a shift? Ok thank you thank you thank you for this honest and compelling response! And great to meet someone who met their person in their 30s and congratulations on your baby. Agree that $100k while it’s a lot of money the trade off is you’d basically be paying a nanny netting nothing if you worked (at least this is the common discourse at my work and I’ve had a few cousins working in sub $100k jobs who have dropped out for this reason) … I do think that it is impossible to quantify time spent with your…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/25 03:43 AM
2	Making a shift? Thank you for the thoughtful and comprehensive response!!! I think your acknowledgement of change is key … and I have really maintained to him that I don’t necessarily know what I I want until I have the data of being there … for example I want children maybe I will be satisfied with one or maybe we will be blessed to have a larger family. We could relocate but wouldn’t leave coastal California (that being said living in parts of San Diego is a fraction of the Bay Area) - our families are here -…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/25 03:32 AM
2	Making a shift? Nice to meet a fellow ally! Mine doesn’t always drive because he’s sometimes very tired from his work. But he still walks around to get my door which I find adorable.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/25 02:18 AM