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I’m trying so hard to be kind to myself. One my moment I go from “WTF did she say” to beating myself that I let things get this way. I feel powerless and guilty all at the same time.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/21 05:45 PM
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I’m in Washington doing collaborative divorce. That has the least impact here.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/21 03:35 AM
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2-2-5-5 is what we are going to start with.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/21 01:34 AM
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I feel like that too. It’s awful. Especially when she’s kinda nonchalant about it. “It’s just a relationship.” suck to hear too.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/21 12:14 AM
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This is really helpful right now.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 06:36 PM
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This is resonating and I've been thinking about it since you wrote this. I don't know why I'm so negative towards myself, but I often am. There's definitely some awful deep-seeded needy inner child stuff going on and I'm just a really scared 44-year old man baby. I've been doing therapy trying to feel better about myself, but losing my wife's love this past year has just destroyed me. I've felt it coming, I've had many long and sleepless nights and I tried to save it, but I just couldn't. And I …
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 04:30 PM
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Well not feeling so bad now. If it can happen to Bezos and Gates and a million other celebs, well, shit, I just never had a chance.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/21 12:25 AM
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My gut told me a long time ago it was time but I tried to ignore it. Now she’s divorcing me instead. Regardless, my gut just knew.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/21 10:58 PM
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Yeahhhh... this is the voice in my head saying lawyer up, screw the cost, it’s worth doing right. And what my dad said too. At the same time she talks about how we are still going to be a family, probably do Christmas dinners and big holiday or family reunion BBQs. And I really want those things (only a couple time a year ) — I’m closer to her family than my own. I’m just really wrestling with whether my fear is what I was taught to do because as opposed to the honest thing to do. Anyways , that…
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/21 01:37 AM
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Oh my thanks for sharing this. Glad to hear that the distance provides clarity. I've been there with the "ready to leave myself" bit for a while, but struggling with attachments to commitments and outcomes. I really appreciate seeing "I'm legitimately shocked at what I put up with from my ex wife." because as I process mine, I keep wavering from "what the hell have we done" to "I can't believe what I've put up with for so long". Thanks for reassuring us that things do get better.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/21 03:51 PM
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This post is fucking gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 01:16 AM
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