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| 1 | "Giving Value" Vs "Taking Value" a la RSD JulienBecause you WANT to not NEED to. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there any advice on approaching that girl who's "out of my league"?If you keep thinking of things in terms of "leagues", then you will never going to get the girls you want or "think" are above you. Assuming you want these girls to begin with. The way your asking this question makes me get the feeling you feel inferior to this girl, your placing her above you. What you should be feeling is being equal to her. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 05:56 PM |
| 2 | "Giving Value" Vs "Taking Value" a la RSD JulienLook I'm not an expert I'm struggling with that as much as the next guy, but here is the thing, you can't keep thinking what can I "do to appear I'm giving value". Your still needy if you keep thinking like that, your still stuck in the doing paradigm :) You need to really be non-needy in order to be in the "being" paradigm, you have to come from a place of being or non-needy or like Mark says, sharing yourself without conditions regardless of what people think or will think about you. And I thi… | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 05:48 PM |
| 2 | "Giving Value" Vs "Taking Value" a la RSD JulienIt all comes down to your intentions. You can say the same thing, but what differentiates between the two is the intentions behind them. For example, if your intention is to express yourself and share your opinion for example, then your non-needy and attractive. But if your saying something so people will like you or "find you cool" or "high status" then it won't be as such. I am into Mark Manson's stuff and this is what he means with non-neediness and being vulnerable. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How can I get & keep a hot girlfriend?Let's be honest with ourselves, we are working on ourselves and going through all this in order to get the girls to like us. If that is your goal, why delude yourself into thinking you are doing this for yourself when in reality and in the back of your mind your doing it for the girl(s)? I understand you should do it for yourself and all, but really we are actually doing it to get a girlfriend or whatever relationship we want from the girls we like/attracted to. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Pimp vs NaturalPimp is the basics actually. If you are starting out get pimp so that you won't get too overwhelmed with info. I was guilty of this, and got info overload, keep things simple and you'll see results. I'd say get The Natural when you got more grasp on things, because its really huge and goes more in-depth. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 02:09 PM |
| 3 | How can I get & keep a hot girlfriend?Self-improvment. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 01:59 PM |
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