| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Communicating you're looking for something serious? | ADVICE | LuckyCharms2424 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Guy Showing Ambivalence/Hesitation? | DATING ADVICE | LuckyCharms2424 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 06:55 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I’m 20, should I spend time getting straight As or looking for a husbandUmmm, glad you believe in censoring other people's ideas that are in no way disrespectful to others. If you believe there's a strong counterargument to my comment, then let others argue against it. I'm content with the decisions I've made in my life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I’m 20, should I spend time getting straight As or looking for a husbandPosts like this are downright scary. As others have pointed out, straight As aren't correlated with career success, but compromising your academics and extracurriculars to find a husband? Some women consider it a hard won blessing to have the freedom to pursue such educational and personal enrichment. These are what help you develop a strong sense of self to be able to make good decisions in relationships and the independence to walk away from bad relationships (you'd think from this sub that be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/18 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Guy Showing Ambivalence/Hesitation?Also men don't always know what they actually want just like women Yes, that's exactly how it feels. I could be wrong, but I don't get the sense that he's trying to string me along or just hook up with me. But I question whether real relationships ever develop from such a sluggish start... | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Guy Showing Ambivalence/Hesitation?What counts as showing interest without pursuing? I've always been of the belief that actions speak louder than words. If the guy is of the same belief, how do i let him know that I'm not just pretending to like him to get free meals, stroke my ego, pass time, etc? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Guy Showing Ambivalence/Hesitation?Understood. On some of the other dating related subs, there are men on there complaining about how women never show initiative, never text first, etc. I suggested the third date because he had already suggested the first two. Most of my texting has been because he texted me first. Then there have been a few cases where I tried to initiate text. Those are the ones he didn't respond to. But then he'd text me the next day and go back and forth. In the past, guys who've continued to pursue me withou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Guy Showing Ambivalence/Hesitation?That's usually the conclusion I draw when guys aggressively pursue me. The thing is that the second date wasn't anywhere near our apartments and he chose the location. I would assume that he would have picked somewhere closer to his place if he wanted us to end up there. I don't know, this feels different. The third date was at his place, but he didn't seem to expect sex. I spent the night, and more than anything, he seemed more worried that his apartment was clean enough for me and that he had … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Guy Showing Ambivalence/Hesitation?True. It's hard for me to say how I come off, but there have been cases where he straight up doesn't answer to my texts. For the third date, I had originally expressed interest in meeting up with him the week before. The date was supposed to be on a Sunday. He texted me first that Sunday, but when I tried to coordinate, he left me hanging. It wasn't until we talked on the phone a few days later that he mentioned that he'd been busy. He'd phrased it as him not wanting to meet up if he didn't have… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Guy Showing Ambivalence/Hesitation?Similar ages, similar finances as far as I know (both professionals with six-figure salaries). I haven't talked to him yet about building a family (as you can guess from my other post in this sub haha). I heard that there was a woman he was going to marry at some point but she ended things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Communicating you're looking for something serious?Yes, his past relationships and how he talks about them can give a lot of hints about his values. True. I think part of my hesitation to bring is that my never having been in a serious relationship could look like a giant red flag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Communicating you're looking for something serious?Most guys will run at the drop of a hat if you bring this up That was my original thought. At the same time, I've seen similar ideas on this sub about how guys will be willing to settle down as long as it's with the right woman and I don't fully buy it. There are guys in their 40s and 50s who are still trying to play the field. I know a guy who has cheated on every woman he's been in a relationship with including getting another woman pregnant. I think this guy would be better served visiting a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 09:46 PM |
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