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It’s not rhetoric it’s reality. Most women make it hard for avg men and make it super easy for chads. It perfectly fits into dynamics - avg man can have sex once a month(or even rarer) if he’s not in a relationship, and a chad can in many cases have sex with different women everyday, if he really prioritises such behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:05 AM
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I have always told that a woman who’s using a man for his attention/resources without giving him sex is exactly the same as a man using a woman for sex and not giving her attention/resources
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:51 PM
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Understood. I just feel like some people need to be judged to become better versions of themselves. Otherwise these people don’t stop participating in degrading behaviour exercising their free will. But neither of us can absolutely state which approach is the right one I guess your works on some people and mine works on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:44 AM
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You’re 50/50 right. It isn’t for our safety at the moment, but the principle of inevitability of punishment(at least they declare it) makes people commit crime way less often. Of course police station cannot and could not possibly protect you 100% of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:06 AM
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Man I don’t promote hate speech etc, but having your own opinion and declaring it even if it is judgmental i don’t feel it’s wrong. Like if a government has the ability to judge people why can’t I?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:56 AM
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Feel free to judge people - they’re free to do their shit you’re free to do your which includes having your opinion about others. The question is what alternative most men have instead of watching porn? They couldn’t get sex that easily and for many of them getting sex would be accompanied with having to simp etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:48 AM
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For me personally relaxed and wet vagina makes so much more sense. Even though I have somewhat death grip, there is this male orgasm when you cum not by your dick being under pressure, but by how fucking incredible and gentle and pleasurably it feels with every thrust. These orgasms are much better and last longer cause the tension builds up longer and you enjoy the whole process more than just cumming out of pressuring your d.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:45 AM
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It is better that your parents own you than the government cause the parents at least do care about your well being. Remember Ancient Greece when they were killing babies that they deemed to be weak. This is example of a society in which kids are owned by the state. And it is sad cause somebody has got to be taking care of you therefore having authority over you. Cause you are a kid and do not understand many things until later. And this somebody is better to be you parents
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:26 AM
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It’s not like something comes first. It all comes in complex. Both misandry and misogyny. Yet men are somewhat fine with sexism and many women talk about it too much. So this is why you hear that rhetoric about women’s hypocrisy - if you want to end misogyny stop being misandristic. A perfect example of women being anti-sexist yet also sexist is: my former head of department once said that for a woman to buy an apartment in our country is a huge achievement. To which I replied that for a man it …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:22 AM
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Oh I get it. No, the guy isn’t that religious or conservative. I’d say he does not have any strong beliefs. It is just about getting validation from women. He’s excited until he realises he got her. This is it. He literally said to me that he can’t be attracted to girls who approach him or who flirt with him. He’s attracted to inaccessible women. But then he says “why this b*tch don’t come to me and say hi, I won’t approach her, fuck it.” And it goes nowhere. Cause he is so used to get women’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:30 PM
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No it’s not. Idk how do you make it up to religion. It is unrelated to the topic. People do get lesser sentences because of their appearance. People do get perceived differently based on their appearance. A very attractive person can say total bullshit and many people would be fine with it. An ugly person can get judged even by stating facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:24 PM
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To them ugly guys will always be worse cause they’re ugly lol. Remember that attractive people get lesser sentences in jail. So probably a guy treats her bad but she’s coping with it cuz he’s hot. The same way as men are coping with a woman’s shot cuz she’s hot I have one friend who’s very attractive. He loses interest in a woman the moment he understands she’s ready to give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:57 AM
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You’re right. If one party is withholding something as essential as having sex in a monogamous relationship, there should be no moral barrier for the other party to withhold its effort. They start to understand you only when they are put in your shoes. When they start to lack something that made them happy. Only a tiny percentage of people are capable of resolving dead bedroom with the “communication” way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:53 AM
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I’d argue that insane amount of stress people are having in this day and age plays a big part. Women are in general harder to get aroused and need more boxes to check than men (in general). Earlier people worked not that much time, and even during feudalism in France people rested for almost half of the year. Imagine half of the year being non-work days lol. But still, if you live your significant other and you do prioritise truly important things, I think there’s no excuse to have a dead bedroo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:49 AM

Yeah this is quite accurate explanation. Like there almost none body odour in countries like japan, cause(as scientists theorise) their sex selection was directed against having strong odour. If average woman wants to be equal to a man then she should date men who are equal to her. Same income, same physical capabilities, same emotional behaviour, ideally everything the same. Yet most women still want to have benefits of a hypermasculine man around them and simultaneously him being a cuck only f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:14 PM
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Yeah I had one girl who got asked what would she do if she was born male. She instantly said “I would fuck around”. Little did she know 😂🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:36 PM
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Yeah like mid guy is something to be ashamed of lol. What a surprise that an average man could get at least some girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:48 AM
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My bro is 10% of looks. He gets approached all the time, by good women, bad women, all kinds. Guess what? He is turned off when a woman approaches him. He is turned off of women being easy. He wants to chase, so he is attracted only to women who happen to be out of reach. At the same time he complains “I know this bitch likes me, why doesn’t she approach”. And he really does struggle to find a woman he would fell in love with. Ah, problems of very attractive people… 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:45 AM
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Do women try to understand men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:20 AM
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When it comes to women, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:17 AM
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But honestly I think that op is right. Men should talk out their problems with other men. As much as men will never be able to understand what it is to be a woman(having periods, societal expectations), woman will never understand what it is to be a man. Remember there was a girl who has transitioned to male gender. She was so shocked about how people treat her when they really think she is a man. She ended up killing herself. I think, this woman could understand what men go through their lives,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:15 AM
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Problem exists, I agree. I’ve found for myself a good one I think 😂, not a bitch for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:07 AM
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With your first paragraph I completely agree. But it Is not my perception of showing vulnerability. As you said, it is confidence. If you’re not afraid to be rejected then it means you are not vulnerable in the moment of approaching. Cause the point of vulnerability is that you may be hurt and it depends on the other person, do they hurt you or not, it requires big level of trust. About showing inner thoughts. I also agree and I disagree that it is about being vulnerable. It works and attracts w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:55 AM
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Well then don’t be a bitch. It was his girlfriend/wife who posted this story. And the point of posting it was: is her friend(who told the man truth) an asshole or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:11 PM
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Not necessarily ugly. They say “height does not matter” cause they have married short king. A form of cope, they know height matters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:14 PM
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Man you do your homework and figure out what that means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:04 PM
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Well you can argue you can use no evidence to generalize as there are 8 billion people on earth so you gotta know at least half of them to make sense right. What do you expect from me? Literally to any bullshit you can say WELL YOU CANT GENERALIZE. Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:45 PM
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That was not an anecdote, there was a post, posted by a man’s gf, it was long and she blamed her friend for telling truth to husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:15 PM
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I don’t remember exactly, but probably grief or smth like that, valid reason so to say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:47 PM
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You know what coping is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:39 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:38 PM
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I tried. Many men tried. Either we did it wrong way or it just does not work. We men adapt to what works. And I’m kinda okay with that. Women want a strong reliable men, men want beautiful feminine women. I am okay with that model as long as both parties provide what is required. In regards to society. There is a sore problem for me - war in Ukraine. Guess what? Zero fucks given by Ukrainian state and whole world that these men don’t want to fight Russians and die. The same applies to Russian me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:55 PM
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It is common sense for me and for many other people as you might see. I can’t prove it and you can’t disprove it. It is pointless. It is how I feel. It is my experience and experience of many other men cause this rethoric only became more popular in recent years
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:14 PM
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That’s mostly women I guess. There was a post a long time ago. A man have cried once in front of his wife. Later, the wife complained to her friend “I wish he would have never cried in front of me” or smth like that. Guess what, he found out this shit and got heartbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:57 PM
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Sadly many women are attracted to this gender stereotype of a strong man. And a strong man cannot be vulnerable. The whole idea of being a strong man is that you’re never vulnerable. I would say be open about emotions but don’t show vulnerability. Anyways a woman is not likely to help you get over your problems unless it is something about mental health or that kind of a thing. If it is something that needs to be done and for example you lack discipline/motivation, showing this will create zero …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:54 PM
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Yeah virtue signalling is real. Also I do think this is the way for them to cope with their not so attractive partner. But I hope that there are women, who say it genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:18 AM
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You are right. If you u want to establish meaningful relationship do not start with sex. Get to know each other. But don’t withhold sex for too much long, if after 2-3 weeks of casual chatting/dating with this guy you feel it, go for it. Men want to see women they have as a prize, as something of value. We don’t value women who give sex right away even though we like it. We like it on a superficial level, but on a deeper level we instantly consider women like these non wife material. Logic is: i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:09 AM
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I’m not native English speaker, so I wonder if blessing in disguise is when your looks alone can’t bring you men anymore so you need to develop an actual personality to compete with others? Then they say men have it easier. Many women as op admitted start to care about personality only when looks start to fade, so does the male attention. This is why your 17yo gf would talk shit and a 34 yo woman will cook the best dish she can for you. You know what? Absolute majority of men don’t even have thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:03 PM
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I would say men need to go from getting validation from women to getting validation from other men. This is much more healthy way given the inequality of attraction that goes from men to women and vice versa. And the good thing is that when you are respected by many other men, suddenly women start liking you, this is a natural process.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:54 AM
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In fact, “I can change him” is much more cliche than the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:38 AM
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If there are hypothetically 0 people who you could date, you probably start negotiating instead of looking for the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:36 AM
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Age 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:21 AM
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People shouldn’t have relationships at all, because in relationships there are problems lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:18 AM
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It is not patriarchy lol dude, they just want attention and validation from you and they don’t get it, so they don’t see a point to be friends anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:38 PM
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Yeah, we are attracted instantly in 90% of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:56 PM

The problem is that many women end up exploring without getting commitment from a guy who they genuinely like. And then they either end up single for life or they settle for a quote nice guy anyways. The real problem here I guess is that social media has inflated our looks/wealth expectations for our partners, so many people including men are naturally attracted to people who are way above their league. This is not a healthy situation, this is why many women chase fboys, cause they can’t get wet…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:35 AM

There’s honestly no reason to enter a relationship with a person you do not like that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:28 AM
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You see, it is always men to do shit and fix everything 😂 As I said it’s likely just a pushback on injustice men feel (it does not make it right it just is what it is). And you say men need to realise there’s no injustice which is arguable but ok. When the opposite happens and women pushback on injustices they feel, for example this thing about choosing a bear, which is insanely stupid, people argue that no, women don’t need to do anything, it’s men need to do better in order for women not to ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:33 AM

Tell it is a fantasy for those who take it seriously and who expect this irl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:49 AM

Such an L take to say we are all humans that means we all do the same. Maybe women earn the same? Or women commit crimes the same? Or women do sports the same? We are different and raised different. Where I live men are taught to protect others, to get involved in dangerous situations to protect your loved ones. Women are taught to care about herself more, because in order to give birth to a healthy kids a woman needs to be healthy. All this makes perfect sense. This differentiation makes us dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:05 AM

Well it is my sacrifice that I chose to leave therefore my life got worse. Because I’m a man. But this is offtop. Ofc everyone does sacrifices, my point was women do less, from my experience. No women hate, just observation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:55 AM

Men die in war this is a fact. Idk where blaming women is here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:51 AM

I left Russia because of it and it ruins my life to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:49 AM

Yeah maybe he just needs to find a good one don’t u think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:03 AM

You are kinda stuck on this thought that we are not suited for relationships. I am in one, 3 years and it’s fine, dunno about op. I think the issue here is not like women ask, the issue is, like you said, that people give help and ask for help. And I think some women ask but do not reciprocate. Unfortunately, some women think and openly express that just their presence around a man is value in itself, some women even think that a man owes them something cause he gets sex. The real issue is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:45 PM

I don’t think it’s that he not suited for romantic relationships, I think that he is tired of women’s demands. This is actually very accurate what op said. After some time of dating, some women start to ask you for something or even demand. Like help to move to a new place or lend money, etc etc. This happens more often than you might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:33 PM

Well if you’re willing to neglect those men who dies protecting those who they love including women, which is not offtop, it only proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:10 PM

Ahhh all you can say is “DID YOU GO TO WAR YOURSELF?”. It’s not about me, millions of men died in Ukraine. Because of the draft and ongoing war, and because I don’t support Putin, I left Russia. It changed my life completely, it got worse. It got worse cause I’m a man and don’t wanna die in a stupid war for nothing. Meanwhile women are living their lives not giving a fuck about it. So yes, it affected me. And men do not ban women from serving, you can go if you want you stupid. Look at US milita…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:16 PM

Where I live you are expected to protect your woman from shit, and I think it’s worldwide common sense. Some men die in a process of it. It is not about war it’s not about something that’s abstract to you. Bodies - okay I get it women give birth but they claim they do it for themselves don’t they? So who they sacrifice for? Careers - in many countries you get paid leave and can easily return to workplace after 2-3 years. But under certain circumstances yeah it’s total career sacrifice I guess. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:07 PM

I agree with you on almost everything here. I did not start this topic, I comment on what is said above, and it is a discussion about generalities. My gf is also more open minded than most of women in my country. It does not mean I don’t care that majority of others are demanding too much while not reciprocating. And I get what you say but you can’t really play this card of “I don’t care about others”. In Russia we say, if you are not interested in politics, means that the politics are intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:59 PM

You’re not making a point. Women do sacrifices, just not as frequent as men. It is my experience. Relationship-wise, men do protect their female partners, and sometimes die, which is a ultimate sacrifice - your life. People just don’t want to give credit to men for this, like this is bare minimum lol. You are expected to earn more, you are expected to die protecting her, and also you are expected to do homestuff 50/50 lol. Also, you are expected to buy proposal ring, because wedding is about a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:44 PM
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As sad as it is, and as stupid as it is, I think it’s just a pushback on this injustice that many men feel nowadays in regards heterosexual relationships. For men divorce is like an end of a life - you get to pay alimony, sometimes permanently, you most likely do not get a custody, high probability that your exwife make your kids not like you. And all this can be done just because your wife wants a divorce. Imagine, she got bored, she is constantly unhappy which is most likely her internal probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:41 PM

Women on Reddit probably have their own reality😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:24 PM

Nope. It is you who are delusional. I never said that women don’t do that. For example, in Russian army there is 1 woman for every 1000 men. You cannot argue who pays on the first date more often. You cannot argue who takes initiative in male-female dynamic more often. Men are more likely to give up their life for a greater goal, whatever they think it is - protect family, country, wife, stranger. You can also watch all these videos where people get asked: if you could choose who to die - you or…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:20 PM

Of course they do. But from my perspective and experience, they do it less frequently. We can start from men dying in war all the way to who pays on the first date and who takes initiative. It is all sacrifices in one form or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:42 PM

So the problem is not that women aren’t willing to sacrifice anything most of the times, yet expect men to give anything, the problem apparently is this dude realising it. Okay Edit: I had here like 7 upvotes, somebody called their friends to downvote this comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:51 AM
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He’s not wrong though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:52 PM
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Because leftists are Marxists. For them men killing men is something like aristocrats killing other aristocrats, and they see themselves as peasantry which should at best not care about it. The issue comes when women are assaulted by men. Because now it’s between-group identity violence. This is a major issue with leftism in itself. They view people not like individuals, they view people by the groups they represent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:39 AM

Yea the main point of being not a gold digger is being attracted to a man’s personality/looks, and reciprocating his financial input by providing care etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:54 PM
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As my female friend once told: “No I’m not a sexist, I just believe that the one who invites is the one who pays. When I invite somebody, I pay for them. The thing is, I never invite guys on dates. giggling”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:03 AM

The thing is that the whole concept is designed in a way, that consent can be withdrawn afterwards. It is specifically designed this way for women to hold more power against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:17 PM

They care for looks more for hookup, they care more about status when it comes to something serious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:39 AM

If you look at societies where people are atomised the most, there is the highest rate of suicide. So, I guess it tells.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:48 PM

It may be, or it may be that it is real. Of course, we all would like to be these self-reliant independent humans, but science tells us that people are social and need social validation, in one form or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:44 PM

Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:41 PM

Women get compliments and male attention 100x of what an average man gets. Sex for us is that form of opposite sex attention that compensates lack of compliments and appreciation that women get. So, for men sex is more needed psychologically. Read about women who age and become unattractive, how much more depressed they become, cause people start to treat her like a normal human being lol. This is what male life looks like from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:35 PM
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Ah you’re right, many men nowadays don’t have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:06 PM
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Accountable for not meeting your hypothetical spouse’s standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:53 PM
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I think that it’s fine that women expect men to do some things as we also expect some things from women. The real problem here is that women don’t care about our feelings most of the times because we are men and we are ought to do things regardless of how we feel. Men by the way care about women’s feelings. Or at least culture tells us to do. So at the end of the day what makes men these “machines” is not that we are expected to do something functional, but the fact that women don’t care about o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:46 AM
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Be whoever you wanna be, just hold yourself accountable in case of ending up alone. Yes, you’re right, we should stop. Because the other party do not reciprocate, it’s a one goal game. I’m scared that it will just make us both more miserable and drown birthrate even lower. But I guess self respect matters more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:58 AM
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If you actually ask guys what they want or even read this subreddit, you would know guys want certain types of women, of course with some variety, but some traits are constant. Of course, you may be whatever the hell you wanna be, you are not bounded by men’s expectation, but just keep it real. Wanna be with men - try to be somebody a man wants to be with. By the way we, men, do this every fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:52 AM
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Nah not nurse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:46 AM
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Whaaaaat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:45 AM
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Agree 100% But nothings different with women. They want vulnerable but masculine. Well-earning but helping with chores and childcare. Understanding but domineering and in some sense guiding. Social but spends much time with her. List goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:39 AM
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I suppose we live in a different reality if you think that liberal women dress more femininely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:56 AM

It does not mean it has anything to do with your sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:03 AM
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It depends on how you define respect and kindness. Some women like badboys, we all know that. For them respect and kindness could be a “weakness”. Also there are men who, sadly, respect girls more than themselves. This is a bad thing to do. So nuances here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:22 PM
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This doesn’t mean tendencies don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:11 PM
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Sure it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:09 PM
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Exactly, because this guy probably treats women as humans, with all bad qualities they have. Think about it, if some guy humiliated you in a comparable way, at best you would not care that he got raped/robbed/etc. but bc it is a girl and a girl you liked once, you feel sorry and hope she is doing better. It is kinda contradicting and unintuitive but there’s absolutely nothing sexy about it. To women it tells that they can treat you like shit and you still will care about them if something happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:43 PM
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Tbf I’ve also seen many couples with very attractive girl and mid guy. But you can’t really tell is she really attracted to him, or is she traumatised from pursuing men she genuinely like so much that she chooses “safe option”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:26 PM
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Women are attracted to men who are not just violent, but who are able to be violent and can control it. For example when someone assaults you you need to stand up for yourself and probably your girlfriend. You need to enforce your boundaries on people if it gets violated. This is masculine in itself. The problem here is that you can easily tell if a man is capable of violence but to tel is he capable of controlling it is much harder, it takes time. I don’t think what’s redpill about it, but I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:23 PM
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Valid. But there’s a thing that men are raised from a young age to endure pain, it certainly has its ups and downs, we are more likely to defend ourselves, and we are more likely to neglect our health problems. But let’s be real, in our generation it’s not like every woman books every doctor. I’ve never had my girlfriend book my doctors. Kinda true, with our birth rate we don’t hope for good pensions. That does not annul that women still get retired 3 years earlier than men. You do overlook that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:29 PM
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Most men help, I would say on average chores are smth like 60-40/70-30. But given that men still outearn women and work more hours/more dangerous jobs/more stressful jobs, and as a result in every country men live less years, I don’t think it is unfair. For example men live in Russia 10 years less than women. And work more. Retiring age for us here is 65 and average expected lifespan is 66. Just imagine, work entire life and die. Women on the other hand retire at 62 and live to ~73. So 11x more …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:10 PM
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Well she does only half of it for her husband, the other half is hers. It’s not that hard to use a dishwasher, to use a washing machine and instead of packing it with 6 clothes you go 9 clothes. Cleaning floor etc would have been done either ways. Child caring I must admit yeah, it is consuming. But don’t act like everything they do they do for men only. And also, as another commenter said, I barely know families like this in our generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:50 PM
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I honestly think men attempt to cheat more because we do not get the same attention from women that women are getting from men. Women really do not need to cheat, they use men for attention, get ego boost and move on with good mood. Then repeat. Men on the other hand cannot do this, so men feel this attraction only the moment it comes down to having sex. So yeah, for many men I believe enjoying sex with women is first of all about psychological pleasure of getting attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:46 PM
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Haha, so you say women maintain themselves for men? What a discovery!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:43 PM
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Well it is your perspective as a woman, I can say as a man. You made a valid point about how more fabric can look better than less fabric. You’re right. But which way it can be better? I say you certainly can look more beautiful in general, some guys like more modest women. But from a guy’s standpoint I say we would be aroused and our mind would go crazy more often when certain parts of your body are revealed. This is how brain works. When we see curves under clothes we think oh she’s gorgeous. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:34 PM
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Yeah, women attacked men for multiple decades at this point, and we were supposed to just be silent about it, like in cases of domestic violence. Now it is time for men to stand up for ourselves, and bring true gender equality to a society. Women shall be conscripted to army and die in Middle East/Vietnam/Afghanistan/you name it for interests of a country. Also we need to get rid of pretty privilege and pussy-social-lift. Everything bases on meritocracy. And to do that, fellow men, we need to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:13 AM
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What hiring privileges? 😂 If employer could hire a woman to do the same work as a man for less money, all men would be broke fr
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:00 AM
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“Right” cannot be conditional to where you live in your country. If you have the right to vote you vote in any state, if you have the right to carry a gun, you carry it in every state, etc. So yes, while many states remain abortion, “right” was lost. And this right was something which the Supreme Court approved, now it all comes down to states, which can change far more easily. Imagine you settle in one state build your whole career and all of a sudden this state ban abortions. So you either liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:58 AM
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Women’s problems in dating all come down to one thing - which man to choose. While men’s problems in dating is - how to become worthy enough to be selected. Guess which is harder in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:51 AM

This comes from leftie who is himself against freedom of speech when he feels this way 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:23 AM
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No, there is a contradiction. You cannot say “where all the good men are” and “there are plenty of men who would like me” at the same time, it makes you look stupid. Or the men who would like to be with you are not “good men”. If you cannot find a good man you should say exactly it, not like there’s no good men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:34 PM
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It doesn’t have anything to do with me. I just pointed that contradiction of the commenter above.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:16 AM
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Sure, honey. 6 months past and even those crying women will forget about their virtue signalling. If a woman meets the guy of her dreams, she won’t let some political shit ruin possibility of long-term happiness with said guy. And this is a smart move. Stupid move is to ruin your own life because of some crazy chick on the internet. Many many men didn’t support trump. But what matters the most is that Biden Harris administration did nothing during those 4 years to make abortion a right on a fede…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:30 PM
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Well his wife got brainwashed by social media and somehow it is this guy’s fault. Seems like no matter what men are always at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:24 PM
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Fair enough 😂, but I’ve seen liberals who call her by first name too tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:19 PM
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It is about saying “man are shit” in a millions of forms. But don’t be sad, these women won’t stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:07 AM
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First of all, you really believe that much women will follow through this shit? I bet even those who are crying on social media won’t. And if they do, men in the us already withdrawn from having a relationships and are focused on self improving. Or they just gave up. And For those chads who have no problem having sex I don’t think they would recognise a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:06 AM
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There are plenty of TikToks idk have you seen it or not: 1. A woman gets to fly in an econom class airplane so she opens her camera and starts bitching on her boyfriend who paid for all of that. 2. The one who refused to go to cheesecake factory. Examples go on and on and you know what, we don’t see this type of shit in Eastern Europe/other parts of the world. And no man would like shit like this, neither trad, nor liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:00 AM
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“There are plenty of men who like American women well enough”. That’s why they cry on a tiktok “where all the good men are” 😂😂🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:52 AM
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So what about men who voted for Kamala? And how do you find it true that he voted for Kamala? The amount of inadequacy is astounding. Even those who behaved “well” get “punished” 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:51 PM
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In Russia there was a mass shooting in my city. A guy with a shotgun entered a university and started killing people. He end up killing some 20-30 people and was sentenced for life. The amount of women on social media who called him “my crush” was just crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:49 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:48 PM
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Exactly. It’s not like all men treat women poorly, it’s men they have sex with treat them poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:48 PM
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Bro idk what are you debating here, it was very much obvious that this is a form of “punishment”. Sadly they will punish only themselves, and men would get better dating pool :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:46 PM
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💯 My former head of department which happened to be female once said: in our country it is achievement for a woman to buy an apartment. I corrected her that it is an achievement no matter man you are or a woman. She claimed to be feminist. Also she used her body to get to her position. Idk what is in heads of these people sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:42 PM
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Is it equal though? The hypocrisy I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:51 AM
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Stupid point. Women encounter men on a daily basis. Probability that someone who you meet every day will hurt you is infinitely higher than a bear which 90% of women never saw. It does not mean that men are more aggressive than bears. Also, extrapolating your own experience on the whole population of men is stupid too. You know they say between all romantic relationships of a particular human the only common denominator is this particular human. If some women constantly get hurt by men who they …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:50 AM
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I don’t understand why choose a bear, honestly. The only one that comes to my mind is man-hating. And that is exactly misandry, which you call “their experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:27 AM
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I don’t see a way how choosing a bear is about yourself and your safety lol You say it was not about men, it was men who made it about themselves, but you are wrong. The whole thing was about “look how bad men are, that women would choose a wild bear over a man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:24 AM
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Exactly, they get ran over thinking 10/10 chad would marry her, and then all average men pay for this shit. And then they say bc does not matter 😂👌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:21 AM
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Ye man-hating is called “choosing yourself” nowadays. Wow. Like nobody says men are useless, we don’t need no man, men are shit… It’s all about choosing herself :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:19 AM
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You said it applies “equally”. How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:17 AM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:02 AM
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So it always comes down to… YOU KNOW BUT MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:00 AM
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I don’t say you should get less than equal. I say it is unfair to have everything equal AND men get drafted by force at the same time. You either have conscription of men and you don’t have equal rights, or you have equal rights and both sexes are conscripted/nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:35 PM
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Look bro it’s not like a small man like me can change something. I am from Russia and happily I left it. But people who I know were killed in battle. Because they are men. While women sit on a warm couch at home or at an office job. And somehow people say that men do not protect nor provide. It sickens me. I would repeat myself that moral side is another topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:05 AM
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Morality of Russia’s invasion is another topic I guess. You know it’s great women in Ukraine have their positions, I guess in Russia there are also women like 0,5% or something. It just doesn’t counter what I said. Men are conscripted by force. Women have choice. Look at how much Ukrainian women are rn on tinder in Europe. And men are dying, that’s sad. Somehow, during peacetime they had equal rights(men still served in military).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:49 AM
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You say obvious things. Reality is that only women can get pregnant therefore for some amount of time they gonna be out of workplace yup? Who provides for this amount of time which can be 1-5 years? But nvm, I don’t even know what country you are talking about. I live in a pretty conservative country where women expect men to earn more and provide, meanwhile they have the same rights if not more, because they don’t get drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:30 PM
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It is because men are raised to wish to be provider. And sometimes there’s nothing wrong with that you know every family is happy in its own way and unhappy in a similar way. The problem is women want both equal rights and men to be providers which is kinda contradictive don’t you think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:43 PM
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Say this to Russians and Ukrainians
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:03 PM
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It goes both ways. Many women see men as a provider defender kind of a figure who would take most of her responsibilities and let her just be happy. Is it dehumanising? I guess so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:50 AM
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You are right but there’s something to add. They are not wrong when they say he’s alone because of personality. It is that they understand that he cannot get relationships because he lacks 3 qualities you mentioned so the only way for him is personality. And let’s be fair some not very attractive men who are not millionaires and not presidents still get girls because of “the rizz”. I see them in the streets where a guy who’s a 5 is with a girl who’s an 7-8. Btw you should not focus on those thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:49 PM

Bro asking are you cold/hot is actually based. Nothing wrong with it. But it could be better if you could understand that without asking. But again nothing wrong. The girls’ point as far as I understand it is if you do it without asking that means you understand her on more deep level and you are caring and you are more focused on details idk. It is no hard thing to ask if she wants something and do it then. But to understand what she wants without asking is what makes them fall for us. It is 1.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:23 PM

Yeah and they want you to be “masculine” as they view it. And asking let’s kiss or would you like to kiss is the opposite of that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:41 PM

Bro they want to feel kinda that you got what you wanted. Like most girls actually want to be responsive. You do what you want and if she is grossed or offended hopefully she will let you understand. As long as she’s not saying no or pushing you back you push your way to what you want. They see it as a sexy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:00 PM
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Yeah like one date is 50-100$ and there’s no guarantee you will get laid. So you can easily spend thousands of dollars and get no result. But look more deep into what you have said. Not doing dishes or in most cases not doing something enough(it can be easily made up lol) translates into resentment which causes lack of sex. I think this is really how it is but it is so stupid. How about you have sex and then couple hours after ask your hb to be more responsible on his part of housework etc. Sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:55 PM
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Correlation equals not causation, what he talks about is that married men live longer are happier and earn more. It could be that women are just picking healthier wealthier overall happier men to be married to. But what he says is lsi true that a good marriage helps men to feel more connected etc. but honestly idk what woman would marry a man who is socially awkward or smth. Anyways I think that nowadays women tend to wait for the winners at the finish line and not to run with them and help to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:40 PM
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I bet there are plenty of average men who would satisfy you in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:18 PM
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So how can a man make your life better?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:42 PM
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Stop womansplaining. It is natural to compete against other women for better spouse. Men do the same thing. Not making marriage and having babies a priority is what causes below replacement birth rate. Kids are 100% mother’s and not 100% father’s. 1/3 of dna tests for men are negative. In court kids are given to mother not the father. It’s your babies more than “man’s” Women relying on a community is actually telling on why you earn less. And it’s not 21st century feature, it has always been lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:24 PM
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Your last two paragraphs. Reread it and my comment. You say it is men who are hyper individualistic. But it is not like this. A man wants to have a strong bond with his woman. In the meantime women are the ones who are constantly talking we don’t need no man etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:17 AM
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Lol you’re talking like women have advantage by “decentering men” then you say you aren’t fed up with individualism bs. What kind of nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:45 AM
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Give some more details about % thing plz. I bet women were the first to complain about cheating. Even now(I live in Russia and Kazakhstan), it is social acceptable for women to tell they want money from a man. And I’m like okay it’s fair, you want to give birth so you want to feel secure in terms of recourses. Sad part is that sometimes you think that without money nobody will love you just for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:01 AM
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Not sure where the info about 60% comes from. In this case women shouldn’t cry about cheating, as it’s biology
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:53 AM
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Some cry some not. Men want beauty, women want provider ability + beauty (to a less degree than men want)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:47 AM
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I literally said that being strong and capable of violence decreases your chances to be hurt = you’re more safe. I did not say anything about attraction level. However, for men being strong makes some sense if you want to attract more girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:45 PM
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You didn’t get it sis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:09 PM
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In your first comment you said there are more circumstances under which women can feel not safe. Yeah this is a problem. But approach can vary, we can teach them how not to be scared when you shouldn’t, or we make society less aggressive towards women. But nowadays society is fr the most safe for women, especially the western ones. So I think the core problem here is - we as a society care for women’s lives much more than for men’s lives. So we get situations when objectively women are more safe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:34 PM
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In case when you actually want to talk to a girl, let’s say you caught romantic feelings, it actually takes mental effort not to do that. In case with manspreading it actually takes physical effort not to do so. One way or another, you behave not how you personally would like to(and your hypothetical behavior is nothing criminal), but how women want you to behave in order for them to feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:34 PM
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Bro you’re the best
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:10 AM
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Throughout my life had 2 situations where like in the evening me and some woman are waiting for the lift. Then the lift comes and woman jumps into it straight away, clicks the button and the doors are closed. And I’m standing here like wtf, I’m a man in my 20s did nothing wrong didn’t stare/touch/assault. But for those women to feel safe I needed to wait another couple of minutes for lift. Then my gf explained to me that most likely these women have some trauma regarding lifts or men in general,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:09 AM
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Yeah like there’s absolutely no one expecting men not to stare, not to give “creepy” compliments, not to initiate any contact, things about personal space are getting absurd too sometimes. No one expects man not to “manspread” etc etc. Somehow when women need more public toilet seats that is justified by biology, but men spreading his legs in public transport is not justified like we have nothing between our legs 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:32 AM
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You do not need to feel/be safe to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:50 AM
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You say it like man’s looks doesn’t matter or matter less than character lol. It works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:42 AM
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Life is unfair. Being a good person does not make you safe, being strong and capable of violence does. Just like there are some men who cannot find a partner, there are women who are not strong enough to defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:34 AM
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Smh guy getting provoked to violence is not an assault, but stares at the gym are. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:31 AM
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Lol u are joking rn. Men are literally committing more suicides, men are getting robbed/killed/everything else besides rape more often than women. Here in Russia there’s even a stat that says that more men are killed in domestic violence cases. Like women are hit more often, but men are killed more often. So no, world is actually more dangerous for men, not women. The one and only exception is sexual assault. Due to some men not having capability to control their primal instincts. In Russia ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:23 AM
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Yo bro it’s like 50/50. Me personally, I like giving it but I don’t really like how some pussies smell/taste. Idk and there was never a problem in hygiene, some girls are just not tasty. It’s like when u kiss someone and you can tell, is it tasteful or not. Also I really don’t like giving to girls who are hairy down there. So yeah, as well as some men are not really into it, some are like me - need some requirements to be met to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:02 AM

Bro you really consider yourself red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:48 PM

Bro what are u talking about. What dangers of showing interest towards unattractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:35 PM

You said what you said under the comment in which I talk about u not matching her past. Then you say be chaddest version of yourself. It’s logical to assume that you mean “be chaddest so your woman don’t leave you”. Anyways there are some limits in terms of looksmaxing, like genetical lottery, some diseases etc. I wouldn’t recommend to date girls who were promiscuous at all. Especially those who fucked chads. Best case here is to date girl who fucked men who matched her looks. This means ok, she…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:25 PM

There definitely are limits to it. Also thought of getting better so your girl wouldn’t cheat on you is a massive L from the start. You should be getting better because you want it, not because of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:18 PM

Her standard might be caring, dedicated, man who looks in the future and has some plans. And it can be ugly men. Standards can be different, you need to figure out what it was. Of course if she fucked around a lot it makes little sense to question whom she fucked with. Problem with fucking chads in past means she’s likely “settling” with you. And you don’t match her past men. However, if she fucked “ugly” men means she’s maxing out her potential with you, which can lead to stable and respectful …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:43 PM

Yeah but if you are not “chad” then you don’t match her past men. It can cause huge problems in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:34 PM
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You’re right bro but. Very attractive guys surely are in high demand. But beautiful ladies even though there’s much more of them, are more in demand. How come? A huge portion of very attractive ladies “date” only very attractive guys. And huge portion of regular men end up in desperate situation. Because below average/average/attractive/very attractive ladies always can find a partner even from top tier men(see hypergamy - men date down). So we have situation in which even though highly attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:19 PM
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There’s no stats and idk many redpillers irl, some are attractive, some aren’t. Or you just talking shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:25 PM
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Any proof or another woman’s bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:22 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:36 AM
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What stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:06 AM
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Men aren’t attractive in women’s eyes, generally speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:59 AM
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Like women saying they are 10/10 haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:58 AM
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5’8 is short haha. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:57 AM
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Yeah missed that you’re a woman actually. Even though maybe u think u don’t get approached often, 70% of men don’t get approached even once in a lifetime. And the fact that you’re not approached doesn’t mean that men don’t like you. There is such thing when men find that girl is very attractive they don’t try, cause they don’t want to compete with all the other men. And yea, everything that I said is how it works in practice. Prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:40 PM
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Bro majority of men are finding majority of women as attractive. And women are attracted only to 20% of men. Why do you keep saying “not everyone is attracted everyone”?? It’s more like “majority of women is not attracted to you(regular men)”. And when you play this game, you accept their terms. You accept that they are the customers, and you are a product that needs to be sold. And the market is overflooded with products like you. And the customers are in demand. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:58 PM
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Tradition also says that women should earn less because they are not so work-oriented and employer takes risk of a woman getting pregnant at some point. So why is there draft for men but in the same time there is no-paygap legislation? As I said, men are traditional, women are not. Actually some women are traditional but it is their choice to be traditional. And men are forced to be traditional literally by law. Just total hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:14 AM
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I’m actually a man ahaha. Called you a sister cause I feel empathetic towards you since you understand men’s problems :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:09 AM
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Ok if that’s your point then ok. By the way you portray it like only unlogical men would hurt other men, it is obviously not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:51 PM
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I’m not butthurt at all, I’m just laughing at your point. And you now realise that u have nothing to say so you try to expose me like I’m emotional or hurt lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:46 PM
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Prove your points: 1. Men are not logical 2. Me being emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:41 PM
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Men are just not logical. Said by a woman. Ahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:13 PM
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Yeah it is so stupid to say that only men who are unattractive opt out of a dating market, like women(modern ahahaha) are so so so so so so valuable that men will always date when they have the chance. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:06 PM
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Sister there’s nothing to debate here. Most women are hypocrites. They want special treatment when it suits them, and when it doesn’t they do not. Let me give you an example. I lived in Russia, now I live in Kazakhstan (don’t wanna die in Putin’s war). In both countries the constitution prohibits gender discrimination. But in both countries only men are drafted to the army. And in both countries when a divorce happens kids stay with mom like 85%. Even when father objectively has better life cond…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:59 PM
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They either lie or you’re deluded. Or if you’re hairy it can be that you unconsciously choose partners who don’t care or those who care don’t choose you so you just don’t know. Men in general do care about hairy stuff. Especially armpits. 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:05 PM
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Most men have preference for women being shaved. While women actually do not have this same standard. Some of them like men’s hair and some don’t. About what gender equality you’re talking right now? It is preference-based situation. And no matter how feminists try men in general wouldn’t like hairy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:11 AM
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Your point gets destroyed by the fact that situation you described was always the same. Women were always in demand. But there was a time when there was no farts in a jars and no only fans. Ofc there were prostitutes earlier but this is not problem at all. Earlier women had morals, had actual standards. You describe situation like women just up their price because of high demand. It is not like this. They up their price for average men but for gigachads it’s always come over let’s “chill”. Dude …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:35 AM
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Idealistic view. Sadly, other decisions impact us. Like women deciding not to date 5/10 guy literally leaves him no hope. It’s not like he can pursue what he wants because what he wants doesn’t want him back :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:51 AM
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First. There’s not many girls like 3 and 4. Second. Damage and embarrassment of being rejected is significantly higher impact than “being approached by 3 and 4”. Also men who are like 3 and 4 don’t approach often so don’t exaggerate. Men being rejected happens 10 times higher and is 10 if not 100 times more embarrassing than being approached by somebody you don’t like. In most cases men try to play out of their league only a couple of times throughout life. Then it becomes painful. And men lower…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:22 AM
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Happy for you. You have healthy mindset, not like most women nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 01:49 PM
1

Don’t wanna be rude but do you keep virginity for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 08:03 PM
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When you’re dating someone and you have romantic relationships you should expect to have sex some day. Is it that awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:29 PM
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So men being attracted to 19yo girl is justified because men don’t choose their attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:34 PM
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U can’t be commited without marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:41 AM
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Didn’t answer the question. Can we say men don’t choose who they are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:38 AM
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In other words, you want us responsible when it fits you, but when it’s time to submit to your husband you turn on independent and strong bossbabe?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:37 AM
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Did I say anything in contradiction? Young lady you’re missing my point which is very basic. Exercising hookup culture for long period of time damages you in terms of creating a family. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:46 PM
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I didn’t said anything rocket science. Everything in this world has its consequences. Hookups are not the exception. Good for you you are happy. But there is a reason why fuckboys and sluts cannot create a functional family. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:28 PM
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It’s like drug addicts completely destroys theirs dopamine systems so that they literally cannot get dopamine other than taking dose. And they just cannot enjoy simple things like normal people. And I don’t think this can be recovered. Same with hookups. If you do it many times, there will be a line, after which you just couldn’t marry someone, cause you always would need someone new to feel that high “chemistry”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:17 PM
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I would not want my wife to be kind of girl you described. Who gets laid with guy the other day after approaching. That’s gross. Ofc it’s fun in the moment and so on. (And I had some situationships like this when you’re sleeping on second day but again not by cold approaching, by hangout circle.) But there are some longterm repercussions. In my opinion sex shouldn’t be something you have with strangers. It’s intimate. Exercising those practices destroys your view of sex as something sacred. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:13 PM
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How marriage connects with love?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:18 PM
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Whole concept of approaching women is bullshit. Approaching - putting yourself in weak position. As like you try to sell yourself like look look I’m the man of your dreams. For relationships to have healthy dynamics all should start naturally. Like u know each other through friend/hangout circle and u talk here and there and then you invite her. Cold approaches is so stupid it’s only for pickupers to train their skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:16 PM
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You’re more like I have no preferences lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:05 PM
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Nothing strange dude if you’re born with like 2/10 looks you go to gym you get max to 4-5/10. Then you get gf who’s like 3-4 at best. What’s good in that? People feel naturally that they have been disadvantaged since they were born. None of it is fair and some cases can’t be solved by being strong and “fixing yourself”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:41 PM
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God said everyone deserves to be loved. Op thinks different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:38 PM
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No one cares about what would you do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:35 PM
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No one cares but there are 346 comments on topic discussing it. Ok. Go back to echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:32 PM
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What exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:24 PM
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And you try to kind of shame those men who don’t pursue relationships. Stat says it’s 50% from 18-30 yo. You bet majority of those guys couldn’t find a couple if they tried? They are all incels? You’re wrong. Men just are raising their standards and it is what they should do. Cuz if there were no simps, no cuckolds, no saving tickets for single mothers. World would be better as it should be. Women would behave differently and more responsible in terms of choosing a partner. It is what we all nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:28 PM
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Bro u are deluded. A close friend of mine is a very attractive man who gets female attention as long as I know him. Like since early childhood. And he doesn’t approach any woman at all. Because he’s chasing his dreams and he, especially, know how women are promiscuous nowadays. He wants “real love” but for him all women are the same and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:13 PM
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It actually says that 30% of dna tests are not positive, not like 30% of men raising not their child
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:52 PM
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Such a vague answer. If I want sex everyday and my gf like 3 times a week, should we breakup?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:28 PM
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Nobody said stay just because. You can stay and purposely try to fix problems in your relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:21 PM
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Guy just asks for understanding, too much complicated thought isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:16 PM
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It will affect them. I personally heard from plenty of women that nowadays men are just not approaching them. And they were good looking women. So they are worried cause men can find happiness outside of marriage. And most women one way or another want to give birth/be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:07 PM
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Another thought. Can a need be delusional? If that is who’s responsible for not meeting this need?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:02 PM
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Yeah here comes question of exiting cost for a man. And also, maybe there is something more important than your needs? Like kids, family, future etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:01 PM
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Bruh what are you talkin go about. MEN MEN MEN MEN MEN ARE NOT THE SAME LOL. It is not men who feminism changed you know? There is a reason why women have more sex than men on average. There is a reason for “no slutshame” culture. There is a reason why women file divorces most of the times. I personally know a very hardworking man from my previous job. Not really handsome but neither is his wife. A guy provided for her and their daughter while she was caring about her. What you think? She divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:57 AM
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Literally no experience in vehicle ownership lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:46 AM
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Take antidelusion pill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:37 AM
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Take the antidelusioner pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:36 AM
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So you assume that men’s needs in relationships are met? Lol. Your reasoning to 80% divorces initiated by women is absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:18 AM
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And why do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:10 AM
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U just don’t understand how it is to be a man nowadays. And sadly nobody expects you to. There is a reason why on average women have more sex partners than men despite the stereotype saying men are horny pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:09 AM
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It seems like you are not able to read properly. Op didn’t said anything about “old men”, he said “older”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:53 AM
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Would shaming transpeople fit in the same category of “social cost” or “people reaction to your choices”? If they don’t choose how they feel about themselves, can we say that men don’t choose who they are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:04 AM
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So if a young woman with “plethora of choices” chooses to date older man who’s like 3-10 years older who are you to criticize? Also if a woman has “plethora of choices” that means that she’s choosing a man, not the other way. But even for women choices you hate men lol. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:01 AM
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And I doubt that biology is literally the same in different countries because folks could evolve different. Like African ppl have advantage in running compared to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:54 AM
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So you contradicted yourself right here. If they behave different that means dating isn’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:51 AM
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Bruh I lived in Russia and now I live in Kazakhstan. The countries were both in ussr like 30 years ago. And I already see the difference, how much more traditional women are here. And you say that USA and SEA are the same sea is just cheaper lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:43 AM
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Bro what is it “gross” about that? Also, why we shame men and not women who participate in those kinds of relationships? I bet we all know that 90% it’s woman who chooses a man not the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:35 AM
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