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| 3 | Old school veteran of the seduction community. I attribute the seduction community to my huge gain in social skills and my ability to travel the world and make friends and meet beautiful women all over. Any guys here around my age? Mid 30s.Seriously we haven't got a new post in like a week now | /r/seduction | 07/11/22 12:07 PM |
| 3 | any advice to raise my self confidence and approach girlsYeah I thought people just stopped posting or something | /r/seduction | 04/11/22 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Some women on TikTok are now thinking pickup artists are sex traffickersLol | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | [M34] Was rejected badly a few days ago and having a hard time getting over it.This is some of the worst logic I ever seen on this topic | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any tips for overcoming a feeling of inadequacy due to not being physically attractive?None of you guys are even trying to help him lol | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:07 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I use to listen to the old pickup rule. That you should wait X amount of time. Yeah that was stupid lost a few girls that way | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 02:24 PM |
| 7 | People here complain about the low success rate, but for women is the same.Honestly I'm generally tired of the complaining just coming from guys. I lose more sympathy every year. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Online dating is pretty brutal and insaneWomen also have higher standards here as well and regularly get approach more than any other place in the rest of country I would say actually. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Play into your archetypeIn general I would say there's only 3 or 4 stereotypes. The Thug/Rapper Urkel/ Hipster/ Anime fan basketball player/athlete/ generally fit muscler dude I'm going for the last one basically trying to aim for Michael B Jordan, Kevin Hart, ) Also YouTubers like Austin Dunham and Tay social. This is about it there's no out of shape or anything types unfortunately lol. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Play into your archetypeMaybe it's the location because you look like one of my friends who does pretty good with them | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 12:47 AM |
| 4 | Play into your archetypeMichael B Jordan also. Dude is considered one the most attractive man alive | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Play into your archetypeThe funny part about this is I'm actually black Lmao. I know exactly what you are talking about it's actually why I just found this out and took me so long. But honestly if it wasn't for more positive stereotypes coming out in the last decade or so I would be a lot and I mean a lot more limited because I'm no where near the thug type and been call urkel at least 3 times in my life. Which probably also why 99% of the time go outside my race. Lucky tho more positive stereotypes or just overall exa… | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 06:04 PM |
| 7 | Play into your archetypeSame. All the guys I know that kill it fit some type type. As a black guy this took me a surprisingly long time to get | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Play into your archetypeMan you would kill it with hipster girls. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:29 PM |
| 82 | Play into your archetypeI actually wanted to make a post about this. Everyone has a "type" and everyone has a "look". Movies and Tv have all influence us especially women the type of person they want to date or sexually into, shit for example how many guys into goth girls? This also why I seen tall skinny dudes that look like they never been in the sun or a rip off Kurt Cobain do pretty well. I seen a few top pickup coaches also touch on this. Find your stereotype and lean into it style wise and it would definitely ben… | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Anybody still actively cold approaching? Got a questionLife. Really. Working 2 jobs don't have that much time. Also need to lose weight. While you definitely can game fat you need good endurance also it messes with my confidence because I know when I'm slimmer I'm pretty good looking | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Wow. That's different... | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Anybody still actively cold approaching? Got a questionHaven't in awhile | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Her boyfriend never did? | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Direct or indirect opener?This is actually one of the best lines I heard of | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being jealous when it comes to a girl you really like?I was actually having this problem recently. Here's a few things you can do but some are very toxic... Drop her. Seriously if she's not giving you attention just drop her and maybe she'll come back around. Call her out. This one is risky because If you doing it wrong you look butt hurt. Do the same thing to her. Call another girl. Or call one of your boys while you are with her could make her jealous. Make fun them/her for it. This one is the hardest because it's base on your personality more th… | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]That's actually interesting. Usually it's the opposite My friend is 5'11 while I'm 5'7 he is. But he is in much better shape. And he usually doing better despite worse social skills. Solo game will be better because you need more experience and confidence. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Is your friend taller or in better shape? | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Solo game | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 06:04 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Happens to me also. This why you gotta do solo game | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 7 | Just saw a friend pull a girl home and I'm dumbfoundedLast dick standing | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 01:53 PM |
| 4 | What actually classifies as “simp behavior”?If you get a girls number and start endlessly daydream about how one day you hope to get married - simp If you text her and she doesn't respond in half a hour and you been checking your phone every 2 mins and wondering what she could be doing and you guys just met- simp If you non- stop agree with a girl even tho you dislike something -simp I could keep going but basically you are overreacting and putting to much into a person you just met and barely know. Some say it’s giving a girl chocolates … | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 07:30 AM |
| 5 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?You are looking in the wrong environment. Most people especially in the 20s want to just have fun. Go to entrepreneur clubs, job fairs, and seminars although hands up these will still be mostly guys. Also if you can try gaming at a college that's for law or business. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:56 PM |
| 36 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themProbably cause he cared less. I know this annoying but happens a lot | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Do we even need r/seduction?I feel like all this seduction shit is a bit much and can be bad for your mentality. The more I read about seduction the more I feel like I don't have the skills to do it Paralysis by analysis. A lot of coaches talk about reading to much pickup and it fucking up guys game. | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 03:50 PM |
| 8 | What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do?From what I seen. Social Circle Appearance | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 07:17 AM |
| 3 | I’ve never seen this happen before or am I just naiveThis why you have to move fast during night game. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 08:38 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Lmao at the fact you getting downvoted. I'm like 5'6 and height has never been my problem. Seen even shorter guys do better | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah that's the problem. Girls see online as just attention points. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Online or in person dating? | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You are waiting to long | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Most of you have way too much shit to work on before you can even think about pursuing "seduction"Yeah basically | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:04 PM |
| 9 | Most of you have way too much shit to work on before you can even think about pursuing "seduction"If you are reading this post right now, chances are that your life is better than at least that of 95% of people on this planet. You have good wifi and the free time to engage in a conversation with screen names on reddit. If one of your biggest struggles in life is that you cannot get women to sleep with you, then chances are your life is actually pretty good for the most part compared to that of the average person. I agree with a lot of what you are saying and currently am taking a break from … | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 09:37 PM |
| 18 | [deleted by user]I thought women like long hair | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Remember, the most important trait to work on is your weakest.It takes ages until you lose weight, it can not happen overnight. In less you are like 150lbs over weight. It takes like a year to 6 months. Gaining muscle takes much longer but newbie gains are also a thing. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Getting girls is easyLmao I'm happy someone pointed this out. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | L.A vs Miami vs NYC are my optionsMiami or LA. NYC is to much money actually shit so is LA. Also what's with the tech boom in Miami? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 05:53 PM |
| 64 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?Ignore / cut Social Media out | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?Lmao 🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Does living at home in the suburbs kill my dating life?Honestly I like day gaming in the suburbs more than the city | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:41 PM |
| 10 | is being short a huge turnoff?"5'6' Yeah you be fine, just don't turn into a fat fuck like. As a short dude we gotta be more on point | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 07:12 AM |
| 4 | How do you isolate from the fatty friend / not so good looking friend?Seriously what are these guys talking about the fat friend will fuck up your chances just because she didn't get approached | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:51 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]You have any examples from when you wasn't a kid | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Is the PUA community basically dead?A what | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Yeah I don't feel like explaining this have fun. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 09:28 PM |
| -2 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Look under my other replies | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Is the PUA community basically dead?I would think mass cancelling over hysteria of mass murderers would would be more important | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:28 PM |
| 6 | Is the PUA community basically dead?They definitely are legit but part of the PUA community did not know about there wife's. Also this wasn't a big part for people leaving literally everything else I name is more important. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Most of the community didn't know at the time. I was on some of the forums and Facebook groups and people seem very surprised | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Is the PUA community basically dead?I follow 3/4 guys. But one of them doesn't post that much anymore. I'll DM you them | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:58 PM |
| 5 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Np. If you have questions just ask I been following it for awhile. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 52 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Ok most these comments are wrong.on why it died. I answered it before but I'll do it again here. The guys that made PUA go mainstream broke up( Simple Pickup) One of the founders of RSD got exposed for having a wife and the news stations got some videos of being a little to pushy with women. Raise of incels Covid One of the founders killed himself After the raise of the incels YouTube started deleting pickup videos and a lot of people left. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Do these distractions do that to you too?Porn. Not just girls but it throws me off in general | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Clubbing advice (making out)Also a higher chance of getting into a fight. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What Happened To NYC?Thank you! I thought I was the only one that felt that way. But NYC has fallen off. Brooklyn has been much better for me. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah this the funny thing there's some WM that love BM but you gotta approach a lot because they don't always stand out. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Las Vegas is nutsI have heard Vegas is amazing for game | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:08 PM |
| 3 | I finally understand why being nice is such a turn-offWhich is sad because this post wasn't even controversial everyone hates fake people. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | I finally understand why being nice is such a turn-offPeople really missed what you was saying in this post lol | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | NYC WingingYeah I usually do Street Game near like Washington Square park. Haven't tried bar game in awhile street game in Williamsburg tho was better people more friendly | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ok | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | NYC WingingWhen you do NG is it just at Bars? | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 04:09 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Losing weight will drastically improve your chances | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 04:03 AM |
| 9 | Constant rejection is a sign of bad demographicsThey don't wanna accept location or looks matter because they think everyone just uses it as a excuse. Which to be fair a lot do but it really does matter. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Constant rejection is a sign of bad demographicsLol come NYC I think you do fine | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:27 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:22 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah it's one of the most diverse places in America but not in a liberal way. Like I met a half Asian/half Hispanic girl that uses more slang than me. And has a high Hispanic population in general. Best of luck man | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah I feel you. If I wear a flannel I come off to nerdy I had to find a balance because I like white girls lol. I think you would have luck iin Queens tho | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:48 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Lmao. I'm black and way closer to being nerdy I think probably why it's been easier for me with white and some Hispanic women . | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:37 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Ah idk all the girls that brought me stuff was white | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:27 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I think this may change base on what race you are. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:22 PM |
| 43 | [deleted by user]If I'm being 100% honest. Black and Hispanic don't care about being slut shame as much as whites and generally care less about being PC. So they are more upfront | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsPreach my brother 💯 | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Using social circle as main way to find dates feels like a fucking prison !Sounds like you are in the same position I was | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | What do girls want or expect out of men ?Like 80% of the time being stoic only works when the girl already likes you | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | What do girls want or expect out of men ?Lmao | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] I stole her from her sugar daddy and then made out with her best friend.How did you find out what ethnicity she was into | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 02:01 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]What workouts/diet you do | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah that's better. Williamsburg is my favorite | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 02:33 AM |
| 5 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?Which makes you better off lol | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?It has nothing to do with abstract concepts it's literally just answering the question without a half ass answer. Like people come here to learn lol "Why isn't she answering"? Oh because she doesn't like you and you lost move on Well no shit | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Most valueable youtubers for game?A.G Hayden Evolution Daily TaySocial | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?If you haven't slept with a girl you unfortunately don't have much value to her. If she is your friend and doing this she is just a terrible friend | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?I know you don't care that's why you post a low to no value comment. You basically said nothing | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 09:19 PM |
| 11 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?This isn't answering he's question | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 08:51 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Yup where girls get approached nonstop and bums are everywhere | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]As some who has game in NYC for over a year. I tired of it Brooklyn and New Jersey are better | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 06:12 AM |
| 2 | How do you ask girls to kiss/etc?I have actually seen some guys tell girls to kiss them on the cheek to test it out | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 02:51 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Where you live? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] First time pulling from a day clubI remember I think like 2 weeks or something ago. A guy was venting on how it's hard finding time meet woman and most replies telling him to suck it up , tough up, etc. Also as a New Yorker it's terrible gaming in the winter and really only good in the Summer | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Why does Pete Davidson date so MANY more Hollywood A-listers than his peers?I guess the faking works because majority of people see it as him not caring. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 10:47 AM |
| 3 | Why does Pete Davidson date so MANY more Hollywood A-listers than his peers?100% not caring dude even makes jokes about he's dead dad. Not saying you have to go that far but instead keep the same energy. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 11:53 PM |
| 28 | Why does Pete Davidson date so MANY more Hollywood A-listers than his peers?Because he's a young successful comedian that has a " I don't take anything serious" attitude. Plus good word of mouth from at one time the biggest female celebrity in the world. That's about it I don't think he'd physically attractive outside of being 6'3 He has some traits that guys can mirror that would help them in the dating world. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | PUA Forums, What happened to them?I think it does to a degree but it hasn't really effected me. When comes to Onlyfans I agree but and this is a big but women have grown much higher expectations from what I heard in other groups girls are always sending there Onlyfans to guys they match on tinder instead of going out with them. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:28 AM |
| 3 | PUA Forums, What happened to them?If you want my 100% honest answer. Dating apps use to be easier like a lot easier. You needed good pictures but not high quality or model level. Meeting in real life is your best bet and but it's gonna take a lot of work(which I rarely honestly have time for). Also some public places that used to be good for daygame are terrible now like malls. That's about it off the top of my head. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:13 AM |
| 3 | PUA Forums, What happened to them?All the above plus Onlyfans and false assault charges. Incels are basically so mainstream at this point that we are unfazed about the shootings that happens. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:01 AM |
| 6 | PUA Forums, What happened to them?You know how people say "Looks matter"? Well the black pill takes that to million. To the point if you aren't good looking, certain race, height, wealthy, etc you are completely doomed in society | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 01:54 PM |
| 9 | PUA Forums, What happened to them?A few things actually happened I think like over a year ago. The internet cracked down hard on PUA stuff a lot of YouTubes pulled out and removed videos and some just left. Also a big name in the PUA space died,Covid of course hurt the community, and the black pill is becoming more popular. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 03:42 AM |
| 31 | Man, if you don't pull that SAME night, you'll never see her again.Yeah it took me awhile to realize this because I believed in the old methods so much. Girls have a lot of options and life is always moving you really have to capitalize on the moment | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 06:42 AM |
| 9 | Dating in college as a dark skinned Indian guyLol no it doesn't | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Is it even possible to be good with women and have a 9-5 job?Did you forget sleep? | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 09:13 PM |
| 10 | You HAVE to strike while the iron is hot. A woman's attraction will plummet if you don't.I’d wait 2-3 days to text the girls I met because that was some sort of rule. Seriously who the hell started this it's so distinct from reality | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 08:18 PM |
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