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I don't really agree with this framework that "I'm not treating you as a human " if I'm only having sex with you because we're sexually compatible and not romantically matched. If I disclose "hey I'm not looking for anything long term" and she or he agrees then, then what am I doing wrong for only being interested in another human to have sex with them? Now of I lied and agreed to date them just to have sex with plans to dump them, or "suggested" id be up for dating cause I knew it would be the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:25 PM
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Men did this to themselves. They don't reward women who sleep with them on the first date with escalated treatment, better courtship, or more investment. But you're not entitled to these things just because a man sleeps with you? Don't get me wrong treating a previous hook up like they're beneath you is bad and toxic for everyone involved but not reciprocating whatever fantasy they were planning to live with you in their head is not "treating them like shit" nor is it a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:28 AM
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Prostitution is a form of sex work yes, but sex work is not exclusively prostitution, for example stripping or pole dancing can be sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:10 AM
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You literally just compared women getting attention and selling parasocial relationships to men on the internet to a drug dealer selling heroin 😑.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:18 AM
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I like this explanation, question tho if men are looking at a woman at the beach or in public and are "appreciating their appearance" and still see them as not simply an object but it makes the women uncomfortable so they tell the guys to stop. Did those men actually objectify those women? And if they did, before they were told to stop was it possible for them to have not done so cause it seems like whether those men are informed they are making others uncomfortable or not relies on the other pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:15 AM
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Yes? because I believe people can change and if they put in the effort to do so they should be treated with respect and not shamed down for the rest of their lives, otherwise what's the point in living or forming relations. Also not the same thing really, the above posters view women who were promiscuous in their youth and ignored "the actual good men" as essentially trash due to their behaviour and as literally damaged goods or "unclean". Men who used to be violent in the past but have been ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 03:26 PM
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So I'm not entirely disagreeing with you and understand your reasoning to not want to date people with such a past, more power to you and people are not entitled to you dating them. But it also comes off like you generally have no care or don't see it as a positive thing to acknowledge someone had to go through some stuff in their life to become what they are today, which is a ultimately better person? I'm not saying you have to date them or anything like that but it makes me think do you shame …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 12:45 PM
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Doesn't this line of thinking leads to victims of abuse to be responsible for ..being victims because "they should have seen this comming"? Isn't this quite literally victim blaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 10:58 PM
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I'm confused, can I not attack someone's character if I think they are doing something or supporting something for an irrational reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 10:41 AM
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I feel that is not the true source of Men’s aversion to emotional vulnerability. I believe that women want to feel protected and safe, and that they are searching for a man that will provide that. Men catch on pretty quick to this intuitively, and learn that there is nothing more disgusting to a woman than a crying, emotional, and vulnerable man. I don't like this meme here where seemingly every guy who posts about their reasons for not expressing their emotions, has somehow never had a father t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 01:11 AM
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Sexlessness is largely because people are getting married at later ages. A lot of the reason for this can be found in things like bad housing policy or more time spent in education. If could frame your issue as the externalities of marriage being good (higher lifespan, fewer sexlessness, etc) and making it easier for young people to get married and people then there would be an increase in the frequency of sex, but not sexual partners. It turns out, the answer is no. And of course, it isn’t! Ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:21 AM
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Sorry but what is "the hamster"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:31 AM
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Great write up, I usually don't agree with most things here but this is a fair assessment of people who avoid others with high n-counts and possible reasons for why they do. However, by definition: Not dating a high N-count person doesn't mean you're insecure in yourself, if means you're not confident in a relationship with that person based on that factor. This is an insecurity and it's not up for discussion. You would literally be a person who lacks self-assurance on their ability to maintain …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 12:41 AM
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Women love the shows because they really wish that they would pick Ross, the dreaming\pining dork I've literally never seen a man or woman say that ross deserved Rachel or that they're happy those two got together by the end partly because will they won't they is a literal tumour that will drain your life. In fact, in 2020 I'd say most people find him to be a upright creep, bad bf who says someone else name at the alter, bad ex-husband to his gay wife with homophobic remarks and just generally b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:12 AM
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I kinda agree, are you saying that the op is viewing this through their monogamous understanding of polyamory when they think "specialness" doesn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 03:27 AM
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a man married to a woman lives longer than a single man. Can i ask for this source, I'd be interested to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 02:46 AM
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I legit found out a lot of my male friends don't even do skin care, forget foundation or moisturizing or fuck even make up, fucking skin care which is the bare minimum. Yeah men are ugly and a large portion of that is due to many simply don't put in as much effort into their appearance ( read not referring to physical fitness just skin care) at all compared to women. Probably something to due with how people view makeup on men as making them effeminate or less manly cough cough entire hollywood …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:53 PM
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get her in a room with you and let her play her cards right, and you’ll be begging to marry her — that’s life, and your traditional good-boy upbringing simply has no chance against it. Aww this is actually really sweet, but yeah I generally agree that they would still be as mad if they weren't lied to because it mostly stems from not being the woman they want attention from, ideal man which can feel like an attack on your character or person to some extent. And yeah its probably more accurate to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 12:36 AM
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Yeah I kinda have to agree, i honestly can't relate to men who get insecure that their lover briefly mentions something about their past relationship in order for their current one to enact it /spice shit up, but then crumble at the thought that she has great sex with other people. Like legit op states telling me one thing someone else had done to her that REALLY knocked her socks off. Which i read as "she told me about a sexual activity that she found out she loves doing" which then my mind goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:22 PM
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But the op clearly showed that married men were unable to go against the status quo when it benefited them or made them feel better either. the men I spoke with held persistent double standards. They expected women to walk a fine line between enough and too much sexual experience. They admitted to running into conflicts with “strong-willed” women. Men also wanted to be taller, stronger, and more masculine than their partners. These men, who already in relationships, want to be seen as the tradit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:01 AM
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From what I've collected hypergamy exists in both genders but since more women can "act on it more than" there's no point in discussing how men can act on it cause only few can 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:50 AM
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Do you honestly believe I protect my family and loved ones because I think about it? The problem with this mindset is that not thinking about the ways you treat someone because "it's out of love" can lead to harmful acts like controlling another person behaviour/movement or restricting who they can and cannot hang around with "because I did it out of love" is often something super controlling and abusive parents or lovers would say to justify their actions. You SHOULD think about why you do the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:55 PM
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>why are people who don't look conventionally attractive attempting to enter the dating market Because they want to? The same would hold true for ugly monogamous people attempting to date and enter a monogamous relationship while putting no effort into improving their looks. TLDR: a persons willingness to do an activity is not as dependent on their appearance if they are a secure person that is Side note this sub and Reddit in general, has started to turned me off from discussing polyamory to ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:21 PM
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I'm saying it won't work out and their happiness won't last. It never does. Happiness isn't meant to be a permanent state humans remain in, it's designed to be temporary to give us incentives to seek it more often. Even in monogamous relationships, even when you're MGTOW so this is a weird argument to use against polyamory because "what if x bad thing happens". I mean you can use that for basically anything to avoid committing to life in general. No because human instinct plays a part. Since whe…
/r/MGTOW28/11/19 01:14 PM
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A lot of your points I'm noticing don't really address objectification, as mentioned above "wanting sex only from women" isn't the objectification part as long as you view them as ..human really, the objectification is "women are nothing more than sex object to please me" it tends to lead to people to see them as just one trait and as a result of that view, dehumanize them Are what is considered of forms of objectification, simply acknowledging women have lives but only ever really wanting sex f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:35 PM
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Yeah that’s my point. Nothing wrong with men not being in interested in your personality or who are you. The problem with objectifying someone is that it tends to lead to people to see them as just one trait and as a result of that view, dehumanize them and subsequently start manipulating, raping, assaulting, harassing them because why would you respect them when you think of them as less than the average human and have less to offer, and therefore more just/acceptable to treat like shit. Also b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 10:25 PM
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"Why can't she just abort" I'm not having a discussion with someone who thinks this is an easy thing for the average women to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 08:47 PM
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My understanding is that women who don't like the idea of being chased is it because it blurs the line of what "NO" means, because in the past "no means try harder so I know you're willing to commit" as a way to vet, and now men who still have that mindset that a woman likes being chased will interpret "sorry I have no interest in you" as "try again and show me how badly you want me". I think Henry Cavill had an issue similar to this where he stated how back in his day women liked to be chased (…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 11:48 PM
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why men have this inate ick factor? Actually it was referring to men in general and not himself so yeah that was the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 11:13 PM
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All of this ^, adding to that woman's N count and it's relation to future relationship stability is also tightly related to their mental health status being poor due to social upbringing, but that can be expressed in any number of ways besides sexual activity so just only paying attention to one is pointless if you really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 10:55 PM
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But would porn subs be similar in audience desires as porn sites? https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2018-year-in-review (sfw) even here the porn tastes are different so you can't really come to a conclusion from Reddit alone. Women are twice as likely to watch content featuring ‘Gangbang’ and ‘Double Penetration’ porn, but they’re also twice as likely to watch ‘Romantic’ themed videos. According to Dr. Laurie, this could be an indication that “women are looking for more story lines out of their p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 10:37 PM
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Here we go, There is no denying that men as a group are thirstier than women. I actually have argued this in the past and some of the women agreed on my reasoning as to why women don't express thirst to the extent that men do even tho they feel/experience it as much/often as men, and then the men shit on me for those reasons being "illogical" or stupid. Men made the majority of progress of our civilization until very recently in the grand scheme of things. There's reason for this you know? and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:27 PM
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Women fuck dirt bags, sometimes they get pregnant, the dirt bag leaves, Except u/YveisGrey 's point was that alot of women who are single mothers are mothers by non-dirt bag drugs dealing men, they're saying that it's usually average guys who cause this while you're trying to paint the picture that women are choosing low-quality men with an obviously bad rep and are getting their just deserts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:24 PM
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Not listening to their problems Sorry I might be misunderstanding you here, are you saying listening to your partners' woes or issues in life/a relationship is...a parenting task and not something a couple would do for each other ( or even friends for that matter)? I agree with the rest tho but not on the basis that it's a parenting type of task (besides the funding their lifestyle) I just view them as "fatherly roles expected of the father in a marriage" type of thing that's slowly dying out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 12:24 AM
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Why do you think male sexuality is viewed as predatory by people? Also what examples do you have to show that society or people, in general, are suppressing it? ​ Such as the general advice to men to 'man up', become 'responsible', get a good job and take care of a woman. And in 2019 this is starting to change because it's viewed as problematic advice that's essentially "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" mindset, in any lefty circle I've been in because that approach hasn't really worked and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 02:19 PM
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Is the link broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:47 AM
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I've come to the understanding that this meme is essentially women(or anyone) who had bad experience with men( or anyone tbh) during sex who feel a sense of regret ( whether that be because he other was a bad lay or because they feel like they were taken advantage of in a time of what they now perceive as a vulnerable state), is not meant to be read as a statement of "bad sex/regrettable sex = you raped me". Like if any of you people here has a SO and they want to talk to you about how they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:42 PM
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It's more we have x10 the number of material objects to entice us to act on short-term desires focused on what we think will please us. Even worse when you consider how brand recognition, brand loyalty and repetitive advertisement drill their way into you, where "self-control" isn't a thing anymore e.g people who buy new 1k iPhones even tho their current one is fine because they've been led to do so and it becomes a "need" or any child of this new generation who relies heavily on social media de…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:44 PM
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What do you think married men did before the internet? They often cheated on their wives with a mistress and the wives who knew kept shut about it to not lose social status? at least that's my general understanding of it. ​ You don’t actually need porn to masturbate You also really don't "need" a TV or access to the internet outside of work for entertainment, spending social time with your friends and family is enough. But this is an unrealistic expectation in 2019 where it's basically an oddity…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:45 PM
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When a man has a high n count it’s because he sees sex as a cheap form of validation and his life revolves around his penis. ​ Holy shit, I'm actually going to use this from now on it's very accurate to many self-admitted claims men on here have made about why they seek out women in "today's hard dating world" to fulfil some weird psyche validation and affirmation shit because they don;t know how else to measure "their worth".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:34 PM
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Yes you would. NO MEANS NO!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:25 PM
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It's not so much fetishism of white women that you'll see in "black man with white fever" but more them choosing white women over black ones even when due the above stimuli mentioned. Afaik the ones that don't do this at all are "African-American"(from Nigeria) who didn't grow up in a predominantly white country while in a culture that is promoted as a alternative to whatever is mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:24 AM
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To add to this I recently had a discussion with an American who told me about how seeing two gay people kiss in public or be intimate ( think hand-holding) made them uncomfortable to watch, because it's a sexual thing to them and they said it was the same with str8 people? I honestly don't see it, it's a sign of closeness but I don't think it's sexual to see two people lock lips?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:25 PM
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>the next week is going to be full of lower than average tier content and probably bigoted shit even for this subs standards. Ah ok, see you in a week guys o7. Actually, scratch that I might troll if im in the mood to attack dumbass users.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:17 PM
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It's been an hour 😂😂 holy shit you people have on control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:15 PM
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It's about women using a word that implies a certain vague feeling of threat As mentioned above why can't they use the word creepy if it illustrates their view on the topic, to them it's an accurate choice of words where you understand their take?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 01:22 PM
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>unironcally calling a child born outside of marriage a bastard child Ok grandpa calm your tits, this is 2019, not 1950. We don't call people born in a fashion you don't prefer derogatory insults anymore Y'all have abortions available and yeah it's not easy but single motherhood has more downsides. "Available" is very misleading because it's too broad since not all western countries legalise abortions ( my country only removed its ban in the past 3 yrs where you'd be sent to jail if you did it h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:34 PM
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..Because sex isn't everything and it comes off like that's the only thing an entire gender can provide in your life while reducing the women in your life down to objects. 🤔 Like I get that op is ace but do you not have any women in your life that you enjoy the presence of for platonic reasons? (mothers, sisters, long time friends).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:56 PM
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Why would men want sex with women? I think he means "why do you want sex from most women you interact with because it comes off as that's the only thing you view women for in your life".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:38 PM
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Have you been around young men recently? Sorry if I come off as rmabling I'm re-writing all of this I'm literally a 20 yr old college undergrad computer science student in a predominantly male course, I'm constantly around young mane 5/7 days a week. There are guys who talk about how badly they want a gf and to have kids and raise them right after college who are friends with guys who talk about how much they want to tap the ass of the latest hot woman they see on a weekly basis, both of these t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:03 PM
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These women become more bitter with age since this dynamic is toxic and degrading. What about all the reports that show women are more happier with life the older they get? if before men had viewed success as getting married and being family men, the focus has shifted towards sleeping with as many women as possible. Serious question, why do people keep saying this? I'm wondering where in the western world you're facing prejudice because you don't want to sleep around and looked down on. Also, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:32 AM
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Sorry but I'm lost, he's insecure because he found out he was chosen over the guy who could give her a more luxurious and possibly "happier" lifestyle because she liked him more, what caused the complex was finding out "she had options" which is essentially he others guys besides himself had a shot at going after her, and she still chose him in the end and he's upset because??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:53 AM
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This seems kinda nebulous no? "You have smt that allows you to be a head of me in this task, while I'm stuck at one behind you, therefore you have better chances of reaching the goal before me so I'm more disadvantaged even tho you're also stuck at the next step". Actually, men who are in a position where they can easily get women but can't get into LTR for some reason are also a step ahead of you, and unattractive women who can't even get noticed ( yes this does happen, when they're next to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:41 PM
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Sorry only seeing this now, as a guy the silence you feel when you try to seek affection and face nothing but constant rejection or simply are never acknowledged, is psychologically damning and will make you worse off than if you never looked for connections to begin with. You can end up being a person who forms resentment to new people simply based on past exp and this isn't limited to just the gender you're attracted to, because even if they don't owe you the time of day, repeatedly being told…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:29 AM
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Can you link it, would like to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:40 PM
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But these women weren't loved tho? The example u/katymarx gave was essentially a guy who slept with a girl but the guy was not only a bad lay for her, he didn't care that she enjoyed it, is both a risk to the woman being a single mother, getting an sti but also just never speaks to her again cause he got what he wanted. This isn't love by any measure because you're literally an object to be used and discarded once done with. (read: no I'm not saying that "the silence" that men go through when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:14 PM
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Not doing those jobs isnt an option But for some of blue collar jobs it is, we've already started to automate menial tasks in these industries to make them easier and I have no reason to believe it will simply stop, we even might have a demand for more engineers and managerial positions for these jobs. So my point still stands why would you advocate for more people to enter a health risking industry when there are better solutions such as improving those industries?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:37 AM
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If feminists really want to help men reform restrictive notions of masculinity, they’d be attempting to reform female behaviour and truly understand why men feel the need to hold onto traditional notions of masculinity . I actually agree with what you said here about how women do enable toxic masculinity in men when they choose to date them and reaffirm/reward said behaviour, but disagree on the need for traditional masculinity in men that i've mentioned before. But im confused on what you mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:51 PM
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Why aren't women campaigning to be garbage workers? Sewage workers? Work on top of skyscrapers? Off shore oil rigs? But neither men or women like these jobs? They're shit, often isolated, back breaking and carry major health risks. You're making the argument that women only want "cushy" jobs and not the hard ones and that it somehow contradicts their message for equality, but it's not like they're actually advocating for men to go into these roles to begin with or like that men work in these dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:16 PM
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Granted they won't actually love them You answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:07 AM
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did you have a Valentine’s day rose day that your school permitted ... where boys purchased roses for girls? Lol no, valentines day was known and you'd see an increase in chocolates, flowers all the works in store but it never seeped tat hard into my school or day to day life, at best you'd have a friend whos buying them for his gf or crush. There was like on girl who got shit for her bf i think. Did you have dances, where boys asked out girls to the dance? In my final year of secondary school b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 01:24 PM
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Sex is ugly, disgusting and immoral. This might be Disney but I doubt most people who are older than 13 have this view of sex, and even less with BP people. I'd agree they might view sex as special/sacred but I wouldn't say "they view men were meant to serve women" especially because BP in this sub are fine with promiscuity. I meant abusive in the way "you were born to serve women son, now help them get on this pedestal" and that men are meant to be happy with the BB treatment. Which isn't smt I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:43 AM
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Under BP, pure BP, true BP, men believe they’re born to serve women. Sex is ugly, disgusting and immoral. Man and woman should only “make love.” A man receiving the BB treatment from a woman is all that exists and he should be happy with that. A man giving the BB treatment to a woman is what should make him happy and fulfilled as a man. That’s BP in a nutshell. What makes you think this is BP? this sounds straight-up abusive which no BP person would advocate for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:27 AM
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Sorry I'm lost, when people here say "it's meaningless" they don't mean that in a literal sense as in "it has no meaning" they're just trying to say "they care less about it than other factors in a person" or that "yes it is information about that person but its information with no positive or negative value in my eyes"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 06:59 PM
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I say it means plenty. But this is reflective of you tho and not other people? Your question is like asking people to explain how certain food can taste great to them because to you it tastes awful i.e your looking for people to justify why they have different interests than you or why certain things don't cause them to react in the same way as you. Which u/reeearnakedchoke stated " These things just represent different takes on life" they don't mean more than that unless you personally add valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 06:47 PM
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to those who do not care about it, how do you come to the conclusion that it says NOTHING about a person, positive or negative? When I found out someone I'm acquainted with has a high n-count, at most I, in jest, say shit like "you dirty slut". Whenever I get together romantically forever how long that lasts or sexually all I would care about is if they were clean when with me but that would apply to a person who had a low n-count or someone who's n-count I wasn't aware of aswell. SO yeah it's k…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 06:40 PM
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I've never agreed with you much before but yeah this \<sup>,</sup> people have this weird understanding of others that if you have a good personality = you are a good/moral person, which is just...not true. Your actions are representative of other factors such as you're mental state/beliefs or environmental influences but it's not really related to your personality. It might be why many guys think "being a nice guy" is good enough, because they aren't a criminal and they are a moral person, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:24 AM
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I think that a person who willingly partook in sexual intercourse and knew the risks yet did it. Has no right to then remove a human from their body when they consented to that possibility by engaging in intercourse. You would literally have to apply the same thing to people "consenting to dying" in car crashes or that since people know the risk of living in certain high crime neighborhoods they accept the risk of being robbed or killed. It's more like you went into some weird ass experiment wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:55 PM
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But if she didn't like you and didn't want to date you, she'd have gone home with you the first night? That makes her liking you a burden, not an advantage. Is it not only a burden if your sole goal is to get in bed with her and not progress further than that? To me, it sounds like guys being mad they met the girl during a phase in her life when she wasn't as promiscuous so they don't benefit as much, but this is only an issue if you're a promiscuous person seeking a person who wants commitment.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:59 PM
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u/skystar86 ^ pretty much like that, there was once incident where I got harmed pretty young and bam, anti-social life for the next 19 yrs for my own good, and even when its been years since any harmful event happens in your life they still have this "feeling of danger" when you go outside or do anything that's not within their line of sight, which at this point is just paranoia and an obsession to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:08 PM
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Someone who considered me a friend confessed to me at some point after meeting, they seemed cool but i had no interest with being with them romantically nor sexually, they tried to continue being friends with me but i pretty much just ended it right there. The idea of being casual with someone who i know has strong feelings to me where i feel nothing in return, makes me uncomfortable af.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:36 PM
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.why did helicopter parenting become a thing? One could argue that due to the internet, people having access to more news allows for the misleading picture that the world is "more dangerous than we thought" which leads to over protection, my parents where like that after having a somewhat dangerous upbringing, protecting me from that as much as possible. They're doing the opposite with that tho with my sibling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:28 PM
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Wouldn't you view his "axe-grinding" behavior to be worthless to respond to then? If OP isn't here to actual find out an answer from the women they're asking then its 1) bait and 2) a waste of time for most users.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:23 PM
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So? If you don't want to be trashed don't come to a debate subreddit. This is like...the worst answer you could have given, you're essentially admitted you ok with the women on the sub getting shit on when they give their opinion, regardless if it's from a negative or positive light because that's what debating is to you? shaming someone when they give you a take based on factors not related to the point they make. jfc i hate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:16 PM
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Both manipulatively target children to buy their useless products Since when are children the ones buying bathwater of some internet celeb? I seriously can't imagine parents allowing that or being unaware. I assumed most of her audience were horny adults. However everyone praises Belle Delphines and says good on her. She's smart and should get rich. No one praises her for doing this, they just acknowledge it's a smart business plan and that she is wise for tapping into the market, she's not lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 11:07 AM
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Again you're not listening, this isn't a conversation about "but he didn't actually be violent with you" or "but he might not have been aware he came off as creepy". u/CreightonWAbrams comment is accurate as hell, the point is that a complete stranger coming up to you while you're intoxicated and (if she didn't have her family with her) asking where you live and if they can stay with you is not only shady as hell but a fucking big red flag for ones safety. But i guess if he didn't actually do an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:51 AM
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Where have I said it's not a threat? If you don't disagree that the stranger was a threat hen why did you bring up the fact that the man hadn't committed any violent acts as if it was a relevant point, that the OP never mentioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:21 AM
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I've been on the polyforms it’s much easier for women to find casual sex than men, so it's not a good deal for men. My issue is that you seem to only care about "the amount of sex i can get" as one of they highlights of being in a poly relationship. Which comes off as you thinking they are very sexed focus, and that men who aren't getting as much sex as one of their partner does are "loosing out" when in reality having as much sex might not be the thing they are after. This is less of an issue w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 12:08 PM
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i believe all private businesses, schools and associations should be able to discriminate on any basis they like, How do you expect society to function if this is allowed? hell what do you expect to do if every business in your area start to discriminate against you for having such views?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 09:30 AM
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This one is really interesting because they continuously put down traditionally masculinity in the class room and prop up the feminine man, Because it's seen as shitty and harmful, the things boys are taught to do as children that are normal are destroying their lives and those around them. It also only really benefited one group of men more than others. I've noticed their workaround is usually along the lines of ”your version of masculinity isn't toxic” but I'm a just normal bro, so I think wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 09:24 AM
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make his plate every night, wash his work clothes for him, make sure he’s up for work the next morning, always have a clean house for him to come home to, etc. Because they see it as infantilizing him, if she ever leaves him due to death, divorce or other reasons, he'll essentially be unable to function, and not in a heart broken way, i mean he'll literally be unable to wake up on his own to get to work or prepare his own meals or remember to clean his own clothes. Not saying what she's doing is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 09:46 AM
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We recently had a post here about how a man should be told and taught to wear a condom more, and that men are going around, going in raw because it feels better Really? cause i often see "women are the gate keepers of sex, so they should bear more responsibility when taking precautions with who they have sex with" .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:55 AM
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They criticize other men because society doesn't like it, and they don't want their friends to participate in something that is low value. "they're just re-enforcing societal norms, using social pressure, and stigmatizing behaviors they don't like , such as being gay or a SAHD (they as in society which includes said men) and shaming you for it, no this isn't bullying men?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 09:34 AM
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unless you have proof that the average woman wants to have sex at the same rate as the average man Wouldn't the risk of pregnancy, with the added fact for potential single motherhood, as well as the risk in meeting random men that could be dangerous be a major factor in women not pursuing sex at the same rate as men even though they are as horny as their counterparts?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 09:52 AM
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“rape culture” which diffuses responsibility for rape onto men in a form of collective guilt or guilt by association, I can agree with the first, but I don't think you get how a rape culture is promoted by both genders, i.e women who like "the chase" are as guilty as men who partake in it. What do you mean with your last point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 01:35 AM
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Even the girl knows it's not right, since the girl asks the guy if it bothers him. She asked because he has past experience with being cheated on, not because she views it as wrong herself but because she's worried how a guy with negative experiences might view this. By that logic women can almost never cheat because they are almost never the pursuer? You seem to be thinking about this more than is needed. Also what is defined as "cheating" is unique to each relationship, there are 100% cultures…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 11:04 AM
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"Give me more rights". What rights do women have more than men, and I'm not referring to biases in the court system or in the masses I mean legislative rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 12:00 PM
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Feminism isn't about men. That's men's rights Says who? Why can't it focus on liberating both men and women from certain gender roles and the reinforcement of stereotypes. The goal of feminism should be that each person be able to select that behavior and be judged as an individual, not as part of a group. So if a woman CHOOSES to be a house wife, that's fine. If she CHOOSES to be a single business woman, that's fine. If a man CHOOSES to be a bread winner, that's fine. If a man CHOOSES to be a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 11:08 AM
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I just answered you. Reactionaries are the result of feminism? I mean its not that far of a stretch but that doesn't mean we should abolish it because they don't like the results or lack an understanding of it because all they see is shit on twitter and tumblr, instead of anything in academia. Reactionary groups exist due to LGBT wanting acknowledgement and rights. Do we just cave and make an anti-LGBT group because of the "negative effects" of acknowledging queer people results in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:59 AM
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So the genders should live based off their individual strengths and weakness or the strengths and weakness of their gender group. But why should they should do this instead of live how they want? What are weaker non violent men who prefer to help at home meant to do in this world or women who struggle to be effective housewives and prefer to be a lone wolf or want dual participation cause it sounds like women exist to promote a mans actions/lifestyle in your scenario? What do we do with same gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:53 AM
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What does "natural order" mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 11:40 AM
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Men talk about the idea of not wanting a high N woman - yet if he was standing infront of her, they had a connection emotionally, physically and mentally and knew her as a person instead of only knowing her number; which is solely one aspect of a human beings character then I'm sure as hell he would not "next" her the minute he finds out. Everyone https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/88t3ch/update_recently_found_out_my_25m_fiance_26f_has/ usually i would agree but shit like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 01:44 PM
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You are describing decline, and then saying its not decline. It's change, which can occur in any society, this can be seen as a decline but also an increase in other areas such as a rise in cohabitation and more financially secured people getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:01 PM
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it's an elitist concept born of UMC white academic values that I think blames poor, working class and minority men for a lot of things outside their control. Hi o/, I'd be interested to learn what you meant by it's elitist? Like in the same way there are forms of feminism that don't help all groups of women and sacrifice the others to help a few? ( white middle class women over lgbt black women)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 06:43 PM
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Several women have proclaimed to despise TRP, then go on to describe their partners, who seem to be the very men that TRP aspire to become. "Plates" and seeking insecure women are what their boyfriends are?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 07:22 PM
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Isn't it a bit of a jump you assume they were lying to you and not something more believable like ... They don't know /have a great answer. Yes part of the fault is on them for giving you meaningless platitudes that don't do shit, but part of blame is on the guys who aren't observant enough to realise that it's not actual advice they can use it anyway and the people who gave it to you are just being friendly in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:19 PM
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I'm one of those people, only started recently after I reached my edge. Don't look at me, I'm ashamed🙈.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 11:10 AM
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Many can't even be arsed to suck dick. What do you think sexually active gay men are like?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:47 AM
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when you clearly are not taking care of yourself physically or mentally. But she was loosing wait though? And not any of that "i'll make plans or it BS, she lost 50lbs, before discovering this. " I’m currently down 50lbs since the end of January. " Would you stay with him if he became physically and emotionally abusive? The vows (as far as i've heard) only include, "in-sickness and in-health", sickness != being berated constantly or physical beaten, it means being sick I know this will be harsh,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 10:02 PM
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> Are you sexually dominant, submissive or neither? What if i'm both/either?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 11:47 AM
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You must live in an area densely populated by muslim people because christian folk aren't as prejudice? Also i don't know where people get this idea that only religious people would be against LGBTQ+, cause it's not really that true. All you have to do is raise a kid on the belief that homosexuality is wrong, but not based on religious reason, simply because its weird and only freaks weird people do that, and that they're choosing too and bam! you have yourself a bonafide religious-free homophob…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:37 PM
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Sorry I just based it off of this https://i.redd.it/s6vy8os91gwz.jpg.
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 03:07 AM
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It was because the literally incited violence, which is against Reddit's new T&C since the 7th of Nov. There are three posts captured in a screenshot somewhere that read something like this (can't remember them word for word): A) Roommate is suicide fuel, I can't deal with watching him interact normally with his family and bringing his girlfriend over and living a happy life. B) Castrate him, you'll need (list of a few supplies) and you can find instructional videos on the dark web. C) Do it, no…
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 02:15 AM
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There are three posts captured in a screenshot somewhere that read something like this (can't remember them word for word): A) Roommate is suicide fuel, I can't deal with watching him interact normally with his family and bringing his girlfriend over and living a happy life. B) Castrate him, you'll need (list of a few supplies) and you can find instructional videos on the dark web. C) Do it, nothing wrong with it, and give him meth so he doesn't pass out from the pain.
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 01:41 AM
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What is going to go through your head when this sub is banned and people applaud that? Because an unstable (suicidal) man was influenced and supported to try to castrate a man out of jealousy, was told a list of a few supplies that he'll need and where to find vids for them. Also to give him meth so he doesn't pass out from the pain.
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 01:37 AM
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Reddit has become nothing but a left-wing based circle jerk. Anything not within that rhetoric There are three posts captured in a screenshot somewhere that read something like this (can't remember them word for word): A) Roommate is suicide fuel, I can't deal with watching him interact normally with his family and bringing his girlfriend over and living a happy life. B) Castrate him, you'll need (list of a few supplies) and you can find instructional videos on the dark web. C) Do it, nothing wr…
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 01:31 AM
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It's not as detailed as people are making it sound. There are three posts captured in a screenshot somewhere that read something like this (can't remember them word for word): A) Roommate is suicide fuel, I can't deal with watching him interact normally with his family and bringing his girlfriend over and living a happy life. B) Castrate him, you'll need (list of a few supplies) and you can find instructional videos on the dark web. C) Do it, nothing wrong with it, and give him meth so he doesn'…
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 01:26 AM
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while she fucks around behind his back. That's the main reasoning, it comes off as incel like. i.e Insulting to most women as it assumes that most (since most desire marriage/ some form of long-term relationship) will cheat in their SO's.
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 12:27 AM
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