...we have to get loud to get reasonable service...we have the fight of whether we tip the shitty service we got... Doing both is what perpetuates the stereotype. It's the same problem I have with traffic cops. Either give me a warning and a lecture or ticket me and let me be on my way. Do both and I'll start to hate you.
Dominant is an adjective, what does it describe? What do men have or do or I-don't-know-what that women don't? Is it a matter of does and doesn't or can and cannot? And why?
I see now that my question was ambiguous... I'm not questioning if men are superior workers, but why we are superior workers. Why are men willing to work longer hours? Why are men more aggressive and ambitious and motivated?
Looks matter, but they aren't everything. What are you going to do about the rest? Cold-hearted girlfriends, huh? I wonder how many dudes they shut down before meeting these guys..