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I wear bland utilitarian clothing that has high mobility, breathability, and function because I get everywhere by bicycle every day of the year. It will never be attractive or eye-catching but it isn't unattractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:19 PM
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What's your libido like once you've settled into a long term relationship? One reason I refuse to wait for very long is because it's usually a good indicator that our values around physically intimacy and libido are different - which is an important match criteria for me. Just because I don't like to wait long doesn't mean I'm hooking up a bunch either. I usually connect pretty well with the people I end up sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:07 PM
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I'm in my early thirties and wouldn't wait more than 3-5 dates. Sex and physical intimacy are important to me and waiting longer than that is a sign that my values differ from the other person. I've had deep, meaningful, multi-year relationships with women I've slept with in the first hours of meeting. A willingness to have sex early does not always imply promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:49 PM
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Is there anything specific you're looking to talk about? I'm more purple pill oriented myself and enjoy dialogue on related topics.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 09:37 PM
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Thanks for this concise summary. I've been looking into visa investment for a few Caribbean and western European countries and the level of effort and expense is all over the place.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:44 AM
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Honest questions - do you have parents that are happily married? Do you have a desire to raise kids? Lately I've been trying to reconcile the past, present, and future of what it means to build a family.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:13 PM
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These are all important questions to think about when you start getting more comfortable spinning multiple plates for longer periods of time. This is also why I have had good success structuring my relationships over the past 5 years as 'open relationships'. I wouldn't recommend attempting it unless you have your shit together.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:27 AM
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I think you're probably right that most open relationships are opportunistic bullshit. I will say though - it has worked well as a strategy for me over the years to accomplish what I'm most interested in. Happy to chat more about it via DM if you like. It's a pretty advanced and nuanced topic that gets shit on here often.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:48 PM
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What's your relationship with your son's mother like?
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:51 PM
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Based on the attitude in your responses it sounds like you're probably too cocky or arrogant to be desirable enough for repeat encounters. It doesn't matter how good at sex you are or how awesome your body/car/house/job is if you don't have a sense of charm about you. Gaming for plates requires more comfort than a ONS might. A little affection and calculated vulnerability goes a long way to encouraging someone to come back.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 05:16 PM
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I got one at 24 and it was the best decision of my life. If you've got the savings I highly recommend cryogenically banking some sperm before the procedure. Doing that turned out to be the second best decision of my life.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:12 PM
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I was 25 and would have done it sooner if the sperm banking wasn't so fucking expensive. I paid for 10 years upfront and it cost nearly $3k. Here's a link to my local sperm banks pricing page for reference: http://www.fertile-future.com/services/pricing#semen Just as a warning, you'll read online of people that get a lot of pain and discomfort post vasectomy from epididymal obstruction. It's definitely a real thing that varies from person to person. For me its just means my nuts are more sensiti…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 08:37 PM
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I love my vasectomy. The peace of mind and control it gives me over my reproductive rights were absolutely worth it. I banked some sperm beforehand just in case. This fact helps keep plates that lean towards LTRs happier. It doesn't mess with testosterone at all. My last test results were above average for T.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 07:50 PM
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I love asking friends for examples of positive masculinity whenever the topic of 'toxic masculinity' comes up. Most of them blank and have clearly never considered how they stereotype a whole gender as toxic without acknowledging any positive traits.
/r/MensRights24/02/18 11:24 PM
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+1 Too many people here assume a poly or open relationship is being taken advantage of. It doesn't have to be if you have a decent SMV, solid frame, and a willingness to keep practicing game. I personally enjoy having a reliable GF that gets along with my family and friends while still being able to D/s tart college undergrads on the side. It can be extra fun if they click with the GF.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:00 PM
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Sounds like you aren't fulfilling her needs in bed and she's trying to fix the situation. Either put more effort into doing what she asks for or you can expect her to look elsewhere to get what she wants.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:48 PM
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Doxxing people isn't cool - you could have gotten the point across without including personal information.
/r/MGTOW09/08/17 03:45 PM
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Reading Models helped me change my attitude a lot. I recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:57 AM
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Fresh clean sheets once a week and drinking lots of water will go a long way.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 12:59 AM
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I like to hang out in cafes and read or work on a project on my laptop. It's a nice way to be productive by yourself but still have plenty of opportunities to meet cool people. If you do this often enough at the same place you can start to be more friendly with the staff and regulars.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 10:28 PM
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From a risk versus rewards perspective - what's your opinion about using a legally bound surrogate mother to start a family as a single male? Would you recommend this approach for someone who wants to continue their lineage?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 09:06 PM
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See if you can get in contact with the previous three gentleman who she slandered. It would be helpful to have their information when consulting the lawyer about the cease and desist.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:12 AM
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Yup. I meet all three of your criteria and poly works just fine for me. My plates are happier and spin for longer. You can definitely use it to your advantage for improved information gathering and managing plates in a more honest and fluid way. It also makes for some hilarious dread game and opens up opportunities for threesomes more easily. Besides, many of the poly women I date end up just seeing me most of the time because they are content sharing a high SMV man. I'd be happy to talk more ab…
/r/MGTOW08/10/16 03:08 AM
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If I get in a headspace where it will take me too long or I'm just not into it, I'll just pull them up for a kiss and tell them that felt great and that "I'm completely satisfied". When I find myself using this line it's usually a cue that I need to cut back on porn and/or masturbation.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 06:08 PM
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I use beard oil to keep my well trimmed beard in place.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 03:17 PM
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It depends. Some plates are already in various social circles so I have no problem with that mix. Typically though I won't mix for many months. It's a special treat for good behavior.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:32 AM
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It depends what you're looking for. I enjoy doing things with my plates besides sex so I will typically hang out closer to 5 hours. If she agreed to FWB she might be expecting some more friend oriented activities.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 02:59 PM
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This is the #1 mistake novices make. Getting stuck in your head anxious or stressed will kill the mood for both of you. Just relax and have fun.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 10:16 PM
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Cooking dinner together is my go-to second or third date for all the reasons you listed. It has a very high success rate for me.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:40 PM
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Who cares? What matters is you are getting your time and money's worth from the trainer and seeing progress. In the long run it will help with attracting attention outside the gym which is the end goal.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 03:27 AM
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"I stopped keeping track after my 10th birthday" This is great. I'm stealing this.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 12:17 AM
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One of the reasons I started enjoying barbell powerlifting was because of the constant positive reinforcement of setting personal records and then raising the goal for next time. If you start with stronglifts 5x5 you should get that kind of linear success for a month or two. Hopefully by the time you start failing you will be into it enough to be motivated to come back and try harder.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:01 AM
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I started riding my bike 4 miles to work every day to get there quicker and cheaper (I live in a city with mediocre public transit). After a few months of that I felt like I had the energy and motivation to try lifting and climbing. Start small if you really hate it that much. I've slowly increased my active lifestyle over the past 3 years from 1-2 hours per week to 15+. The results have been great too.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 11:57 PM
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I'm in a similar boat. I'm in the highest tax bracket and work is a second priority in life for me. I've been working a 35 hour work week for the past two years and continue to crush it at work.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 11:13 PM
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Every job that pays above 150k is generally going to demand that you prioritize work. I don't care if you're a McDonalds territory manager or a top %er salesman or a doctor or a engineer or an analyst - if you're making significant money as an employee, you're valuable enough that your company is not paying you to be a "clock in, clock out" 9-to-5 type of person. You're expected to do what it takes and get the job done, and the assumption is that yeah, you are ambitious and work-driven. I'm like…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 11:08 PM
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Start looking for a lawyer who specializes in this kind of law. A consultation with him sooner than later could give you a proactive advantage. Also - make sure to document everything and start writing down a history of events between you two.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 08:03 PM
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It's not broscience at all. The source from the quote you cherry-picked even concludes as such. Further research: Evidence that androstadienone, a putative human chemosignal, modulates women's attributions of men's attractiveness. Subthreshold amounts of social odorant affect mood, but not behavior, in heterosexual women when tested by a male, but not a female, experimenter. Subliminally perceived odours modulate female intrasexual competition: an eye movement study.
/r/seduction20/11/15 07:13 PM
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I personally prefer a clean, neutral, scent. I find anything that can mask pheromones is just a hindrance. It might be my imagination, but when an interaction is going well and escalating to arousal with a woman, there is a distinct scent to it. I assume that being able to excrete charged pheromones is more helpful than artificial scents. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pheromone#Humans
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:54 AM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted. Most of the content and conversation on 2x is pretty reasonable compared to SRS.
/r/MensRights08/11/15 02:42 PM
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Got any source for the cold showers? Seems like a worthwhile idea if the research is there.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:54 AM
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Coffee date to walk in the park is simple and effective. If you want more, you could bring a picnic lunch or some kind of field activity.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:20 AM
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Stronglifts 5x5 is a great beginner program with all the resources for understanding and performing the important compound lifts correctly.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:12 PM
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Sounds like the issue is nutrition. I'd keep lifting heavy with proper form and keep better track of your calories and macronutrients. Check out leangains for more info on nutrients. Note - If it hurts to do the movement the weights are either too heavy and/or the form is too poor. Try recording yourself and getting feedback online.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 08:40 PM
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I hate being aware of this, any suggestions on tuning other peoples posture out? If you figure this out, let me know. Posture is a huge attractiveness criteria for me. Mild anterior pelvic tilt will bring an otherwise good looking 8 down to a 6 in my mind.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 12:15 AM
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I wish it was that easy to let go of wasted time and energy.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 08:55 PM
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all of the times she rejected his sexual advances because she didn't feel special, comfortable, loved, emotionally intimate -- that was all bullshit excuses to cover the fact that she just plain didn't want sex with him at all. If she wants sex, she doesn't need any of that - she just fucks for fun. But she's not into him, so she uses those excuses - those lies he's believed his entire life - to hide her lack of attraction to him. Then, he feels used, exploited, tricked. This is exactly why I'm …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:32 PM
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I've always had great experiences with the YMCA as a gym. They usually have everything I need and are not shady at all.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:50 PM
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It's been two years since I got mine. Totally worth it. My recommendation would be to get it at a place that specializes in men's health.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:01 PM
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I don't get this attitude at all either. Perhaps I'm fortunate to be working with a bunch of bright, friendly dudes instead of the kind of deceptive people described by OP.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 12:45 AM
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This is pretty amusing. I can only imagine the varied reactions to this. I'll have to try it out sometime.
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:11 AM
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I got down to 9% bodyfat with Leangains. That shit works.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 07:30 PM
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If you'be been a housewife for 10 years and not been able to stay competitive in the job market, it can be very hard to live by yourself and help raise a child. That said, I believe re-marriage should nullify or mitigate child support obligations.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 05:58 AM
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I know many couples who cohabit just fine. Any relationship can end poorly, but you risk far less cohabiting than you do with marriage. For many, that risk is worth the gains.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 05:56 AM
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+1 Shameless plug for vasalgel. Birth control can help everyone avoid abortions/babies.
/r/MensRights10/11/13 03:41 AM
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Banking is a hell of a lot cheaper than a reversal for those who are interested.
/r/MensRights19/09/13 09:22 PM
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Iron Giant
/r/seduction19/07/13 03:24 AM
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That was nice of them to mention the successful marriage afterwords
/r/seduction04/12/12 06:50 AM
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I can really relate to the bullet points you listed here. I'm currently in a relationship that I've made clear I see an end to. To her it sounds absolute and pessimistic, but I just have greater things in life I want to do beyond my current significant other. I'm constantly keeping in mind the points you listed above. I'm really happy with my partner and am getting what I want and I believe providing enough that they want to continue as well, but its tough to think about a relationship as tempor…
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:18 AM
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sad story but its not really related to MR
/r/MensRights23/08/12 07:25 PM
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Starting over somewhere far away sounds like a much better solution than being dead. There is so much out there that you could live for that has nothing to do with Texas and your ex. Maybe you could even get in touch with your daughter later in life.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 08:33 PM
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When buying drinks comes up, something I've used with good luck is rock-paper-scissors: loser gets the first round, winner the second. This works well because it can give you an opportunity for light kino and more importantly you learn a lot about their integrity and if they are willing to buy whichever round they are responsible for.
/r/seduction30/04/12 10:18 PM
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Hooray Massachusetts for banning this kind of discrimination!
/r/MensRights16/03/12 04:38 PM
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Pretty sure RISUG lasts 10+ years. Regardless, I am super excited for the technology to come to market. A much cheaper and less 'fuck with your hormones' solution than the pill. I try and spread the word about it whenever possible because they (Vasalgel) are going to need serious money since pharm companies don't want to invest in a non-pill based option for birth control.
/r/MensRights10/03/12 11:17 PM
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If it ever makes it, probably not for another 2-3 years. They are doing animal trials currently and hoping to have human trials by the end of the year.
/r/MensRights29/02/12 04:10 PM
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Tell your friends and family about it. Creating buzz will help get it to market.
/r/MensRights29/02/12 12:09 AM
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People need to hype up Vasalgel (RISUG) to help it build mainstream momentum. It's looks like an exceptionally viable option for long term male birth control but its hard to get funding since its a one time thing instead of a recurring cost (such as the pill).
/r/MensRights28/02/12 10:41 PM
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I've made kids laugh on the T in Boston before with positive reactions from parents. Not everyone in the US hates men that can make a kid laugh in public.
/r/MensRights23/04/11 11:35 PM
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