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sounds like a tremendous amount of effort. isn't the TRP/incel stuff all about how women can just simply exist and get wifed/fucked all they want but its the men who need to do a thousand things they wouldn't want to do to get a crumb of pussy? you're just saying the same rhetoric. if these guys just want to get laid the better advice would be to passport. then they dont have to pretend to read book or whatever. which gets roasted on tiktok anyway for being the "performative man."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:36 AM

a forever gf? you mean a wife? tf you talking about? and idk what trad with modern views means. do you? it's vague enough not to mean anything. but I'd bet it means he makes more money than her, she takes time off when they have kids because he earns enough, she can do soft girl shit if she wants, etc. This is the new "it" thing on social media so. tradwife is already dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:34 AM

what's unrealistic about this? way more likely than 6-6-6-6.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:29 AM

huh? my point is that oversharing about your sex life is more common in women than it is in men. It's relevant because your original post suggested men share all the same. And we're in a thread centered around women oversharing about their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:34 PM

some men? some women fuck dogs. who gives a shit. there are "some" of everything. dumbass take.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:30 PM

whatever u say. but as an adult man i guarantee ive have orders of magnitude more conversations with men about everything under the sun than you have. i imagine the same is true for you with women. and im saying it's very uncommon for men to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:26 PM

dudes never do. at most the conversation is "hooked up with X." rarely are there details. meanwhile women are yapping about dick size, how long he lasted, and everything else under the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:16 PM

nfl QB is feminine as fuck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:24 PM

well yeah i think generally people don't want to be shamed for their lifestyle. and we buy people's consent every day. that's called a transaction. a guy cooked my meal last night that i've never met, don't even know his name nor he mine. he wasn't doing it because he liked me lol. he did it because I paid him. I never even saw him!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:04 PM

but they do want it...because they're getting paid. the guy making my burger doesn't even know me, won't even see my face. is he not consenting either? lol clown ass take
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:53 PM

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:48 PM

it's literally all social media bullshit. social media is all about subtle displays of wealth. that's all it is. for a while traveling has been the go-to way to do that. trad wifing was another one for a minute. homesteading. vanlifing in outrageous 100k+ builds or with vintage VWs that cost 60k. now it's all about "being led," the "soft girl" Pilates princess lifestyle. Essentially, as less people want kids, or want them later, this is the new SAHM. The man works and earns enough that the woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:33 PM

well the paying part is what creates consent so idk wtf you're talking about..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:29 PM

Don't be obtuse. What obligation does society have to keep its constituents alive? The thing is we'd all agree there is one. In fact, we'd all agree that society ought to help its constituents flourish. I mean, a society feeding someone dog food and dirty water that constantly keeps them ill isn't a good society either, so on some level we agree that flourishing matters too. It's not just about "not dying." And so then where does sex and love stand here? In my opinion, some of the most important…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:26 PM

i was obese until like 30 never even kissed then lost the weight and got laid. the woman was actually kinda into it, but I think it might have been because my "issue" had been practically fixed. idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:34 PM

it's way harder to date as a single mom, come on. the red pill is dead wrong about OF chicks though. Most guys don't care especially when you're that caliber of hot. Caleb Williams just started dating an OF girl. What's more "high value" than a hot star QB on a playoff NFL team? And the girl is actually four years older than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:25 PM

meaningless post because whatever my response is you can just say "well they should have had better foresight and made better decisions."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:50 PM

yeah you're def. a woman. 32 y/o man here and my friends and I regularly see waitresses or bartenders that are extremely hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:44 PM

im a software engineer so im at wherever that guy is. but im a leftist precisely because most regularly intelligent (and the nearly 50% of people below that) don't have it easy. but i know it's like super lame to care about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:41 PM

Bare minimum. Doesn't make him "good." Are you going to add "hasn't murdered anyone" to his supposed list of virtues too? I only put he has a job because an example of a "bad" guy is usually a deadbeat. Jesus christ you're insufferable. That's an attempt to wihitewash the ideology's evils. It's a fringe viewpoint for a reason. It's ultimately an ideology of jealousy, and wrapping it up in altruistic marketing isn't any more benevolent than an alt-righter and extreme far-right corporatist who bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:58 PM

You specifically said "leftist." Liberal =/= leftist. Therefore, if he held mainstream left-of-center views, you would have said "liberal." He's not left of center. I would know because we have nearly the same politics. You don't know shit about politics is all lol. Most women seeking a life partner are looking for someone who is going to work alongside them in a market economy to build a better life together, not someone trying to overthrow "capitalism" and replace it with some shitty top-down …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:27 PM

Outside of Reddit, "leftist" politics are extremely fringe and unpopular. Most women don't want to raise children with someone who calls pedofiles "MAPs", wants to decriminalize everything short of actual murder, sees nothing wrong with drag queens reading stories about transitions to first graders, thinks everything should be free while not realizing that working and middle class families (like the one she might want to start with him) actually pay for the bulk of the supposedly "free" stuff, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:17 PM

You actually can move whenever you want, you don't need to wait for a handsome prince to take you. seriously wtf are u talking about? that's not how immigration works in just about every single country. i'm beginning to think you're like 12 years old. why actively seek out barriers? b/c american women have outrageous standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:13 PM

u cant just move to another country whenever u want... and idk what else to tell you. being in love matters more than a cultural barrier so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:33 AM

in short, I view LatAm as the West. It's so close culturally to the more directly European West. and families in different countries (and you're assuming someone will just up and move countries for your relationship)? well yeah. that's sort of the crux of passporting. you hope that the promise of a better life in America smooths over some of the issues. No different from immigration more broadly or historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:43 AM

passporting is such a cheat code. I think a lot of american guys not having success should highly consider it. you get to be chad if you want (or somewhat approximately Chad) and then eventually can marry a girl you like. bring her home. it's even kind of cute. like a lot of people try to hook up traveling as a part of the vacation (just ask every girl who goes to ibiza or Spring Break). you did the same thing and fell in love. that's kinda cute. and you can do all of this on like a 70k salary. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:05 AM

what makes someone good? i know a man. he is 32 and: Financially stable. he makes about 52k a year. Has his own apartment. He can afford things but he's not rich. prob could get a house on DINK income in our area. He has a job obviously Has artistic hobbies Has lots of friends, goes out, etc. He volunteers his time to teach adults how to read. Leftist politics. Like anti-capitalist levels. Extremely empathetic and compassionate. We all did those enneagram tests and he got the diplomat. Has a dev…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:42 AM

The truth is, mid-men wanted to partake in the sexual revolution but still enforce slut shaming. This is pretty obviously untrue. Mid men have been struggling to get girls for a while now. PUA shit sprang into popularity as hookup culture got bigger. PUA shit is all about mid men trying to get an invite to the party that hookup culture was having. What seems much more likely is that as that PUA stuff ran its course and hookup culture continued to ascend, mid men became even less desirable. Then …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:18 AM

for me it was because it was the only thing that made sense. you essentially try the blue pill stuff your whole life because it's the mainstream, standard view. You grow unhappy with your lack of success. Especially when you see how much success some guys have. And you notice things about those guys (the way they act, look etc.). Then you find something online that seems to explain what you're observing IRL on some basic level. And finito. id bet a lot of guys have a genesis experience where the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:48 PM

i would expect a woman who is sleeping with a guy to know him better than i would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:13 PM

if it was ten dollars for the surgery would u agree? realistically, hair transplants in turkey are way way cheaper than people think (like $4k incl. recovery in a hotel). as far as cosmetic surgery goes, I think most guys should keep it in their sights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:08 PM

nah because trad stuff is an obvious loser for incel men. not even joking i think the obvious solution politically is legalizing and regulating prostitution. it'd give incels a reason to get a job. now they can buy companionship without worry of it ruining their life. and i think them having regular (say, once a month) sexual contact with women will demystify women and make the guy way more confident when interacting with women, two things that will help end their inceldom. hell, id even say a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:25 AM

brother i saw guys in college bag 5 strangers a night. you're sheltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:13 AM

in other words, womenarenotintomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:13 PM

this cannot be true because a good looking woman would have no problem at all finding men via apps and social media no matter how shy she is. i dont think anybody seriously disputes this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:11 PM

My take is that most red pillers would be into this, but won't say it. Their actions betray them. A lot of women would be into this too. Anybody who talks about dating in such transactional terms or talks about "traditional" this and that are all people poisoned to the idea of loving somebody. Add one-sided open relationship and you'd have described A LOT of celebrity marriages, or marriages with very high SMV men, which TRP is focused on becoming. Simple as that imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:39 PM

what specifically are u disagreeing with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:11 AM

Fidelity and being a good partner are just as likely in a high SMV man as a low one, No, because the high SMV actually has the ability to enact it. their fidelity is something special they offer, it’s disappointing to learn that that very low bar is one they’re not even able to meet. idk this only matters in a state where the woman hasn't fucked her way through dozens of Chads. But that's unlikely in the context we're talking about. It's also only possible because there are so many women fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:03 AM

I dont think so because the husband-material guy literally can't fuck around like the hot stud in most cases. Though it does happen if for example the guy gets famous or very rich. e.g. Elon Musk's first wife. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:09 AM

It seems clear to me that new technology has destroyed the ability for about 30% or so of young people, both men and women, to fall in love. This results in the pill ideologies and gender wars. This is more pronounced in certain regions like NYC or LA. NYC in particular has been known for a "transient" dating population for decades. It's mostly missed where I live in Chicago where the majority of young people are still coupling up. You can almost draw a perfect line between "population of profes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:40 PM

what? or maybe girls just like big dicks on average. is this really in dispute still? esp. when they're just hooking up. ever hear of "boyfriend dick?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:27 PM

Schopenhauer is a well-known curmudgeon. His own mom didn't like him. He was very pessimistic. Besides, the red/black pills argue that looks get you women, not being a "good" man, so misogyny would have nothing to do with it. Because they don't get enough pussy. No, it's because they don't while some men do despite those men not being good men. The greatest force attracting young men to the pill ideologies is the stark realization, usually in high school, that "goodness" doesn't get you laid. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:44 PM

Give a few examples and I'll explain why you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:02 PM

worked for a car dealership and can name multiple women who were cheating on the guys they're now married to with other guys at the dealership. Same with the men. In general, people are way more promiscuous and prone to cheating than most people wanna admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:01 PM

the truth behind this is that women have no idea how to reckon with their own sexuality. they're incapable of not trying to fuck every man that turns them on. The difference is that far, far fewer men have that affect on women than the reverse. And so most men will learn, from a young age onward, how to reckon with their sexual urges. Women don't learn this. Hence, you have Don Juan types that can seduce all the married women in the village.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:58 PM

They ought to but the most high value men don't. e.g. most married rock stars and wealthy business men etc. etc. are in one-sided open relationships. It's a very dirty secret of the world. And until the sisterhood stops putting up with it by not fucking these men they know are married or partnered up (which won't happen because something in female brains makes that a more desirable scenario than less), then they'll keep doing it and less high value men will try to finagle themselves into similar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:55 PM

i literally just explained to you why "most people" aren't what people care about here. The average age in America is nearly 40 for example. Thinking about the average person is a complete mistake. I think where it may feel like it isn't the case is that, after a certain point, the effective dating market is the more promiscuous people. I would say last college and last like 27 or so. Bars and apps are your only options and those just naturally have the higher count women. But the reality is, mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:51 AM

it's definitely incomplete. a rock star doesn't have to do anything to have casual sex. Nor a very good looking guy. The idea that they're "earning" it in some capacity because there's a seduction obstacle is false. The highest body count guys don't have to seduce anybody. And in fact, PUA type of dudes, or dudes that consciously focus on "game," are actually made fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:48 AM

average partner count is a super old study. furthermore, i think most people on this subreddit are way more concerned with urbanite, usually college aged to 40 years old, and average or above attractiveness individuals. America is a very big country. I don't think the people here or on youtube and tiktok are really concerned with how rural people are having sex. I mean, load one of those "men aint shit" or "women are evil" compilations on youtube or tiktok and it's usually young good looking peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:44 AM

People can keep mincing your words all they want but at the end of the day it's women throwing themselves at criminals. That's rare though. More commonly, women love the guy abusing his power, like the CEO of a company fucking his underlings. Seriously. Every single corporation in America from Apple to your local small town call dealership has men successfully leveraging these dynamics to get pussy. Every. single. one. And it's ultimately the WOMEN that allowing it to be done to them. And if tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:43 AM

not true at all in my exp. in fact, the "smart quiet girl" is the first one to get cracked by chad. the taylor swift paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:29 AM

How is this different from the left canceling people, sometimes digging back 10-15 years on old twitter/x accounts for ammunition i dont get this. are you saying you're happy libs were canceling people for old tweets then? okay. at least you're consistent then. I'd argue they're not the same thing though. And part of the reason why is encapsulated in the following response: Also if they think ck had it coming bc of his words, I don't find this a common belief. People like you keep pretending CK …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:33 AM

okay and so by your logic the left base hurt a right leader, so it's all kosher. glad we got that one settled then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:30 AM

most of these answers are bullshit. Every guy knows women like attractive men. What surprises guys is how discriminating women are. Women are far, far more shallow than men. The experience of a man walking around your average city is one where he is constantly seeing attractive women. Literally, constantly. That's not true for women. The standard is much higher. Men are never taught this and so they assume women are as wide-ranging in their attraction as men are. In fact, the opposite if often t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:09 PM

decided to give up. thank u for the discussions over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:53 AM

are u fat tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:16 PM

most great art is created by men for a reason. it's men that are the far, far more romantic and loving sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:42 PM

I'm always shocked this idea is so controversial here. The central myth of modern society is that a person with a functioning moral compass can work hard, get a good job (i.e. "contribute" to society), be an upstanding citizen, be a part of his community, and in return he will have material goods bestowed upon him: a car, a house, a family. My dad growing up never ever assumed a future where he wouldn't have a home or a car. It wasn't like a question in his mind that maybe it'll happen one day. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:40 AM

okay countless studies be damned then ig. What is instinctual then? inb4 "liking a nice, loyal, kind guy who buys flowers."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:43 PM

oh so you're saying it's not instinctual for women to be hypergamous, to like higher quality men than them, to rate the majority of men as unattractive, etc? That might be even more bizarre then. So you think women choose to just disqualify most dudes? Idk. Do men not instinctually make the world better? Do we make it worse? Like wtf is this line of thinking. This is just "lol women". are you lost? recall your comment where you said men should control their instincts and its what separates us fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:34 PM

i can't connect what you just said to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:26 PM

now suggest women try to maintain their instinctual urges for the betterment of society. lmk how that goes lol. if anything the existence of this subreddit is the result of that not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:58 PM

Nazis and gangbangers are so interesting. I promise you the local drug dealer will blow your back out even though your autistic. maybe give him a call he's very interesting! also it's kinda sad you must think autistic people are like...the least interesting people alive then. yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:53 PM

lol i love that what you're actually saying is women just really love criminals and nazis and bad and shitty and evil men for their character / personality because you're desperate to cling to the notion that personality matters. Incredible stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:42 PM

They reject autistic men because personality and likability matter to women yet they don't reject criminals and nazis and the bad boys and "I always fall for assholes!". Agreeableness has nothing to do with this. Time and time again this has been proven. Therefore, your autism doesn't put women off because you're unlikeable and annoying. It's put them off because, the vast majority of the time, autistic men cannot ascend social hierarchies well. An autistic rockstar would still get laid like any…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:42 PM

real talk autism is like the biggest weakness to blue pill women's arguments. They essentially doom a significant percentage (and rising) of men to a loveless and sexless life. They refuse to reckon with the fact that maybe women's increasing standards and that they view men merely as a ranked hierarchy rather than as individual human beings. Meanwhile, autistic women have no issues finding love or sex because most men view women as individuals. There is something deeply sick in the way women pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:25 PM

no. i can only speak for myself but my feeling/reasoning (which may be false but this is just what I can consciously understand this whole thing by) is the following: First, if a girl has had sex in relationships, then I'm not bothered by it. What bothers me is when a girl gives sex up for nothing. I think men just value sex way more, or at least in a different way. The idea of a girl having sex with ONS or Tinder guys or guys who don't care about her is what "defiles" her in my eyes. She is def…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:56 AM

im very left. if capitalism gives her a hard on vs. just passively accepting it like most liberal women would then there's a 0% chance we share any important values or life experience. Genuinely haven't met an intelligent person that's on the right that has good values. The smart ones are necessarily sociopathic. The dumb ones are either practically apolitical, Christians, or also have shit values. So, all that to say, I wouldn't be into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:10 PM

as a man id say it's not so much that men ever were told looks dont matter. the impression i had growing up at least, and the guys ive talked to this about had as well, was that women care more about your being a "good man" than your looks or "rizz." That doesn't mean you can't be a fugly autist. But that your "goodness" closes the gap. So that's showing kindness, virtue, giving back to your community, charity, a strong moral center, having a job, etc. That working on those things is the equival…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:09 PM

semantics. she's overweight and very definitely a notch below most of the other girls. but she's a good hang. I didn't think anything of her when i met her first. That said, she's still a woman. i.e. she dresses well and puts on makeup and shit and is feminine. honestly think for most "ugly" girls if they just did that they'd be at least mid. And sydney sweeny would be the hottest chick in my entire building so...im not one of those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:40 PM

idk there's a mid girl at work who I like talking to and we have fun and I'm way more into her than the hotter girls. She's less attractive than them but I want to have sex with her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:28 PM

I don't think women could possibly understand. I think of my sister who is just as ugly and obese as I am if not more so. And yet she's been on dates, has had sex, has dated, and ultimately knows what it's like to be desired. Actually desired by another person. For someone to look at you and be struck by even the slightest sexual urge or thought. And I look in the mirror and I can't comprehend it. I don't think I'm that ugly. But I must be. My life experience tells me I am everyday. I just feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:54 AM

can a wizard become chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:48 PM

Why do y'all think the only reason to be kind or empathetic is to someone you have sex with? I don't think that's the point. I think the point is for incel men that they feel a lack of social connection to society and in return they refuse to offer empathy and goodness. Imagine there's a big party everyone is having and you were never invited to but desperately (by your very biology) wish to be at. You live next door. You can hear the laughter and cheering. Smell the good food. At times even fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:59 PM

First order of business is to fix my appearance. A lifelong project. Getting myself to something like a 12% body fat via calorie counting and lifting, sticking to a basic skin-care routine, and developing a deeper sense of personal style. I like jewelry. Always have. I'll start wearing some beyond my watches, even if it looks a little weird because as I said, gorilla-like. Meanwhile, internalizing what I wrote. If what I wrote initially wore its usual clothes, it would have said "having a strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:26 PM

thankee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:17 PM

Welp. Finally a Wizard. It's now or never. Starting a Red Pill journey. Will document my thoughts here, but am probably whispering into a void. That's okay. It'll be a fine record for myself. The pill analogy is a good one. I feel the veil has lifted. I have overheard a dirty, rotten secret of the world. It is disappointing. But, "Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth." Even if the truth hurts, and it sure does! Some things have shifted into place. I've always wondered about art…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:42 AM

you say it's not worth but i know guys in their late 20s with body counts in the deep hundreds. And a guy who's kind of famous or a streamer or influencer or something? Forget about it -- literally can be over 1k easy. sure sounds like women be loving casual sex. maybe you dont idk. i knew a guy an athlete in college that slept with five girls in ONE DAY. He was trying to get it as high as he could but that just shows how easy it is for some guys. but yeah girls not be liking casual sex rofl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:52 PM

honest question for you. Don't you think this theoretical guy would have a lot of choice between women he finds attractive? If so, then why do you think he'd settle for just one? You might say he's in love with her. But why would he fall in love with her if she's only attracted to superficial characteristics? In general, doesn't it seem like love has left the building in modern dating? And from that spirals most of the issues we see. and you're wrong about jane austen. pride and prejudice is a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:39 PM

the point is because you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:38 AM

alrdy did. but at the end of the day we're both posting on reddit on a friday night while that kid has a fivesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:13 AM

Though you didn't really say any reason why the guy who got off work was any bad? Being a bit boneheaded and being poor doesn't disqualify someone from being good, unless there's something about him you didn't share with the class. Or you're just stereotyping. Which it already seems you somewhat are regardless of your position on the one guy. idk anything about the guy although I overheard him speaking and he was barely doing more than grunting and the girls could barely contain themselves. My p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:05 AM

saw some high school chad get off work at a shitty retail store and go home with four girls. Dude could barely string a sentence together but was hot. Women are genuinely the most disgusting creatures walking this Earth. I used to compare looks to wealth but now I realize it's far worse because rich people don't require half the human race to "make" them rich. Women make the choice to create men like this, to create the massive disparity we see. Meanwhile, decent guys can't even start families a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:48 AM

people dont get married because women's hypergamy has grown to the point where the only guys they'd marry have non-stop access to casual sex. dating has transformed into a game of transactions. notions of love don't really exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:37 PM

not really but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:27 PM

no black pill rhetoric is by definition saying the guy will never have a wife, family, etc., not that it's just harder for him to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:01 PM

what could i read to understand this more?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:00 AM

Women are attracted to looks, confidence, charisma, assertiveness and competence. Roughly in that order (although there are variations). What are some variations? One, it shatters the idea of women being pure beings of light that are attracted by virtue. It showcases that they are as shallow as men, and that's not a good look. I wonder if part of this is that, especially in the modern world, a lot of guys don't feel like there's a good reason to be virtuous or ethical. Blue Pill says you'll at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:45 AM

I think a big part of the issue is that a lot of men are only viewing women as a means of sexual release. They jump straight from "girls have cooties" to endless hours of porn without ever engaging with women as fellow human beings. I don't disagree. I think porn is a great evil visited upon society and especially men. And by porn I mean everything from hardcore to girls showing their asses off on IG. They both turn women into objects, make men view women as objects, among a thousand other issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:48 PM

Thanks! I'll add one more controversial piece: dating apps and social media severely disadvantages the average man. It's impossible to communicate masculine virtues via photographs. The proof is in the pudding here: ask yourself (general "you" not you OP specifically) if a guy has a better shot meeting a girl through friends, a hobby group, or simply approaching at a cafe vs. matching her on Tinder. I think just about everyone will agree the former. Yet it's the same guy and same girl. We implic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:40 PM

i agree in a different way. i dont think your examples are very good. but i do think average and ugly men are now beginning to feel a shame for their sexuality as a result of non-stop rejection. I think this is a major reason for them becoming bitter incels. There's only so much rejection someone can take -- if you're an ugly guy spending months and months on a dating app to not get a single match, that feels like you're in a non-stop state of rejection. Rejection is a fine and and regular thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:42 PM

I call this Virtuegame. You have to be genuinely interested in the woman though or they'll see through it. Frankly, a lot of guys aren't. But it works well if you can still build attraction. You're trying to embody a more classical masculine appeal, like from medieval romances. A heroic aura. A kingly presence in the sense that you're a leader not just some hot fuckboy that can barely string a sentence together or is always uncouth, nor a gregarious rake with a silver tongue. I don't think you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:14 PM

culture. the same thing that has changed since the 90s and has led to those men having 0 women interested in the first place. if I was dictator for the day I'd start with banning porn and social media for anyone under 21, making propaganda that devalues casual sex and promotes serial monogamy and reenchants sex (i.e. suggests sex is more than just a physical act), and finally creating a whole set of incentives that takes young people outside of their homes and into the real world. idk if that'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:54 PM

yeah sure. men should be okay with a curt response. i agree with you there. men not being okay with that shows a lack of confidence and experience and is something they need to work on. so i think we agree. i personally think one of the problems a lot of young men have is they aren't facing rejection enough. they're afraid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:57 PM

idk what you're after here. i already said persistent weirdo dudes (esp. people hitting on kids) shouldn't be tolerated and they generally aren't. nobody is siding with pedofiles trying to harass little girls. so idk what you're getting at here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:43 PM

You've made the same reply like seven times now where all you say is "vagina isn't owed." without actually responding to any of my argument. You've been taking Ls this whole time. You slop them up. Prolific!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:36 PM

i think this one is above your pay grade. have a good one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:15 PM

Good! Then you agree that society DOES owe something to the people contributing to it. You even listed some ways in which society dispenses these entitlements. Next question: do you think someone is exploited if they don't receive some kind of entitlements from contributing to society? In your example, if somebody wasn't being paid by their employer. Or if their taxes didn't pay for infrastructure and protection? I'm going to assume your answer is yes since you listed those things first. I'm als…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:04 PM

crazy that men are coming to your door every day and hitting on you. maybe invest in a gate? idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:47 PM

Do you believe that somebody should be a "literally functioning adult" in society and receive nothing in return? I just want to establish that you believe society does in fact owe SOMETHING to the people that belong to it. If you don't believe that then there's no reason to keep going here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:30 PM

How does that jive with the statistics showing women attempt suicide more or that DV is equal among sexes? I think a better explanation is that men just commit more powerful kinds of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:28 PM

omen suffer and don’t “shoot up the place” or “murder their ex” the way sad or frustrated men tend to do. Maybe that means women aren't suffering anywhere near as much as men are? Here's one simple reason: even an ugly woman can find a man to date or at least know the feeling of being sexually desired. If anything that strengthens my argument. There's another angle too. Men are just better at violence. Maybe women would shoot more places up if they had the same propensity for violence that men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:10 PM

Bizarre response. You didn't even directly respond to a single thing I said and now you're saying you've actually been an elite debater this whole time. Odd.. Once again, have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:51 PM

You're not really even making an argument here. I don't think you understand this subreddit. It's not a platform for your tweets. If you aren't coming in good faith then why bother? 20% of men living celibate lives won't lead to a good, stable society. I guess we'll see who is more correct within the next 20 years. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:45 PM

What's the incentive to "literally function as adults" then? Why would a man want to work a job so his boss can get pussy, have a big house, and have a family? Why would a man give a shit about the well-being of his neighbor who has a family and a loving wife if society tells him everyday he doesn't get to have those things? A "literally functioning adult" is someone who, on some level, is contributing to society. They work, pay taxes, spend their money into the economy, are invested in protecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:35 PM

these people don't bother me one bit. if I say no and they persist then it does. but most guys know to bail if the girl is put off or rejects you immediately. i dont think most of us here would disagree with calling a persistent guy that wont take no for an answer as "creepy"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:49 PM

What incentive does a man have to pay taxes or participate in polite society then? We all accept a sort of social contract between each other that helps define our culture and society itself. A minority but significant percentage of men, as they age, lose hope in ever having regular sex, finding love, or starting a family. This results in them opting out of society in various ways: deaths of despair, crime, becoming a hermit, or violence among other things. We can argue rights or not. I don't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:45 PM

where'd u get started with the red pill? i find the subreddit difficult to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:50 AM

no it doesn't. name another animal that flew to the moon or wrote classical music. human culture has a tremendous weight on our lives and you can see it just by studying how vastly different these cultures are. Meanwhile, a polar bear acts pretty similar to a black bear all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:35 AM
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