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I could see why the mods slow-rolled this. But the sub’s reaction certainly suits my narrative 😆, so I don’t blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:06 PM
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“Romance” is something that men create and women consume. Crickets 🦗 24 hours after this went up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:33 AM
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Baste answer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:36 AM
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Not wrong. But said cutie cannot sodomize us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:35 AM
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God I love this 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:02 AM
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Never thought Id see eye-to-eye with Lillith, but here we are. Really impressed that she recognizes ‘Fat Acceptance’ for what it is 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:58 AM
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A lot of the misandrist rage on here comes from the fact that when ostensibly male voices enunciate exactly which male behaviors get rewarded by hetero women with sex, female Redditors realize how their peers (and likely themselves) foster the same sociopathic behavior that Fourth Wave feminism was supposed to root out. And I get it - I don’t want to acknowledge that gooning to pr0n makes me part of the simp economy, rewarding certain women for doing things they will ultimately regret and hide f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:20 AM
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Have done it at conferences. It did get me inbound attention, which I fumbled due to inexperience and inebriation. 10/10 would recommend, especially if you’re a non-white and/or dweeby guy that women generally ignore in social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:12 PM
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Lovely truth bomb to start my Small Business Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:04 AM
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It’s not an uncommon situation so I’m not sure why OP is making this sound like breaking news. I know you meant to diminish OP, but it’s hilarious that A) you’re not contradicting his thesis and B) you ARE contradicting u/lemon_gecko, who thinks that women are incapable of enforcing racial preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:32 PM
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so two women rejected you. One probably in a shitty way. So I’m only half Asian (‘hapa’ in 🇺🇸 slang) and I recognize OP’s situation - it was far more than two women for me, and most definitely for him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:43 AM
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Hetero women rarely acknowledge that market dynamics affect them in the sexual marketplace 😂 Socialism in the org chart, austere capitalism in the bedroom. Typical female PPD commentor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:10 AM
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We'd dutifully eagerly settle down with and eagerly dutifully fuck these doting, faithful, attentive men because we'd know from experience we couldn't do better. Come on now, we know we’re the NY strip and Chad’s the filet mignon. Nobody’s asking you to pretend like you haven’t had better 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:53 AM
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Body positivity is a concerted effort to make men court pre-diabetic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:14 AM
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Thirst is undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:43 AM
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To be clear, I’m very proud of my mother’s family - particularly the sacrifices they made to get to the US as boat people. I was alluding to the fact that in the US, men with Asian phenotypes are viewed as less physically-attractive relative to men without them. WoC, particularly those with African phenotypes, face a similar bias. Both cohorts have suffered significantly from the widespread of adoption of dating apps. And Whiteness is a construct - “white” people in the US usually come from an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:56 PM
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Of course! Asian dad bagging a round eye would be a generational source of pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:15 PM
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Ironically, we can talk about paternity fraud and weaponized DV allegations all day. Just not from a first-person perspective 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:19 PM
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I love OP’s optimism that the men on here have a chance at getting dumped, which would mean that a woman had agreed to try a relationship with us 🤣 In general, when PPD guys complain about women “not giving us a chance,” the ‘chance’ is “choosing to respond to my social overtures as a prelude to starting a conversation.” Crawl before you can walk and whatnot 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:19 PM
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And you like to read my prose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:52 PM
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I trust you can tie it together, even if you feign confusion. We’ve had exchanges like this before, and you’re still here 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:51 PM
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a man has no way to determine with any certainty who "theoretically" would or wouldn't hook up with him Fat women in their 40s (and beyond) love me because not only am I fit and almost 6 ft tall, but also I’m physically unattractive enough (half Asian) that they assume sex is too scarce for me to pump ‘n dump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:48 PM
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Respectfully disagree. I knew what kind of women liked me before apps were a thing, and now that I can see where my inbound likes come from, I’m even more dialed in. My biggest challenge is developing reciprocal interest in the women who put out for me without subjecting me to any shit tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:26 PM
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The disparity between the appearances of the women in a guy’s IG feed and the women who will actually consider fucking him is worth noting. You’re right that better-looking women tend to be high maintenance because a) men are more likely to indulge them in if instead of walking away b) femininity takes hard work (diet, exercise, shaving, make-up).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:02 PM
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Dude I was being tongue-in-cheek. Typically, single moms are willing to give us non-Chads a chance. The most physically-attractive women willing to accept a date with you will have kids, because that hampers her bargaining power in the SMP. However, the memory of Thundercock looms large, and there will be times when you lose out to her nostalgia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:40 PM
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Don’t discount yourself. Depending on where you live, you can offer an opportunity to emigrate. And of course, many single moms would be thrilled to co-parent with a guy who is gainfully-employed, detailed oriented, and boasts a nice, clean slate for a romantic past. In either of these scenarios, physical intimacy would only occur as an incentive/reward instead of a mutually-enjoyed activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:30 PM
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their bitterness and anger You mean “baggage”? Plenty of that to go around for all genders and orientations. You’re projecting an incel caricature upon every male voice on PPD that acknowledges his dearth of romantic experience. Specific to straight women, I see/hear/read: resentment towards men who left them for younger/better-looking partners resentment towards men who used them for sex So here’s what all individuals offer one another: - shared resources - complementary strengths - shared hobb…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:19 PM
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That’s why those attributes aren’t worth prioritizing if you’re a bottom-80% guy trying to partner up in the global West.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:09 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with a guy helping women recognize what a catch he really is. Does it suck that he had to pick up a second job as a barista so women were forced to talk to him? Absolutely. But like the Marines, us bottom 80% guys have to improvise, adapt, and overcum 🤘🏾 just go out with your buddies Oh, he did. And he actually cold-approached, including women who were actually his looksmatch. They all about-faced or just laughed at him instead of engaging in the conversation. His wife is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:13 PM
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Black women and South/East/Southeast Asian men are over-represented at the ones I’ve attended in the DC area. We suck at getting dates through the apps 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:07 PM
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If you weren't born in the top 20% as a man lookswise, you need to be in environments with long-time exposure and low volume. That's when women start taking other qualities into consideration in terms of attractiveness. Based. One of my buddies from grad school embodies the ‘balding Indian janitor’ trope that we all use to describe a conventionally unattractive man. He met his wife in his late 30s while working a second job as a barista (he’s a cybersecurity engineer and wfh, so no social intera…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:46 PM
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41M from the DC ‘burbs. I’ve had some great conversations at these events, and even recruited a new teammate to my running club at one. Yes, all these conversations were with other dudes who were striking out. Your observations about the social dynamics prevalent in dating apps playing out IRL align with my lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:39 PM
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Username mathpilled AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:54 PM
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They are willing to copulate with women across the attractiveness spectrum. Obviously they invest most of their time and resources with the most attractive [to them] partners, but if a nice but homely lady needs a ride to poundtown, they’ll oblige her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:51 PM
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Dude where’s your catchphrase at the end of your comments? Was a huge fan because I knew it triggered the foidz
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:17 PM
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It’s not defeat that I fear. It’s getting featured on someone’s IG reel as a guy who “doEsn’T uNderStaND boUndaRieS.” Pre #MeToo, I was escorted out of a bar for introducing myself to a woman. She looked me up and down wordlessly, and then about-faced. Turns out she went to the bouncer with a tale about me “harassing” her. No body contact, suggestive language, or really anything remotely offensive was visited upon her. But DC gonna DC 🏛️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:45 PM
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She goes on to say that she appreciates guys being respectful and how the gym is now a safe space, but if the girl is making eyes at you that say "come talk to me... literally approach. It's not that hard. If you're cute you're probably not creepy". The issue is the mis-calibration of leagues fostered by hetero women’s experiences on the apps (i.e. tons of attention, if not 🍆, from men would ignore them IRL). The women who do that prolonged eye-contact shit to me in the gym either outweigh me (5…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:15 PM
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🇺🇸 hapa and 💩 talker
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:48 AM
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lol you’re not Muslim
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:28 AM
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Did self improving help you? Are you on your deen now? Do you think your male friends and family members should embark upon the “self-improvement to Islam pipeline”? I’m responding to one bad faith question by posing another 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:17 AM
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Does your Islamophobia mean you’re part of BJP?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:09 AM
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40+ yo ugly fat single mom kindergarten teacher hit on me too when I was younger (24-25) This archetype broke every one of my dry spells until my mid 30s. Now, I can only get with one if I wine and dine her. I guess my karmic burden is getting lifted 💪🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:07 AM
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Love this - no coddling, no sympathy, just straight to ban. u/rpd371 will have to own this too and I’m here for it!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/25 09:31 PM
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I should’ve specified “the enlightened ones.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:26 PM
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They’re uglier and heavier than we are 🤣 As an AFC, your value props are your appearance and your resources. As a woman, your value prop is a 🍑 instead his right hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:25 PM
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maybe dudes should start making fun dates We do - saving our $$ for retirement, and splurging a little on a used motorcycle and an annual pilgrimage to the Bunny Ranch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:20 PM
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So broaden your horizons and be less shallow, the bottom 20% of women need love too fellas. They do, but won’t entertain their looksmatches because attraction cannot be negotiated* *by women. With enough thirst, guys can fuck anything. My SF buddies regularly plow women who outweigh them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:47 PM
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the poor guy the balding many [sic] who might check 7-10 box's [sic] How do you know that these men are angry and antisocial already?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:21 PM
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Happy to generate more rage bait for yall 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:28 PM
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No matter what we do as lonely men we are bad. If we decide to vent about dating we are told to endlessly self improve. If we are tired and decide to go “woman sober” we are told be a real man and impress women. Dude nobody here is making a moral judgement on you. I spent a lot of time being resentful and angry in response to the situation you’re in, and I wasted those years. Regardless of your relationship status, life in your 20s should be awesome for a healthy, intelligent guy. Travel. Go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:54 PM
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41M so a bit older than you. Did the exact same thing in my 20s, with the exact same results. You do need to find something to do that makes you happy and challenges you. If that happens to be a job, rock on 🤘 A lot of us bottom 80% guys spend our 20s alone. You can still land a Stacy or a Becky after Chad(s) are through with her. Whether or not you want to live through her shit tests is up to you. I can tell you that I tried in my early 30s and it sucked. My recommendation: - really get into fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:25 PM
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lol my Azn Wolfpack suits the bill: - nobody over 5’8 - nobody over 175 lbs - nobody overdue on their bills - nobody under $120K/year - nobody under 40 - nobody under indictment for, well, anything Oh, you specified handsome and moral [and single]. Best of luck 🤞🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:56 PM
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Facts! This is why short men got married at higher rates in the 50s than now - Maude didn’t have IG so she couldn’t get FOMO from looking at Betty’s new beau towering over her and making her feel “safe.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:34 PM
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Here’s a fun aside related to braincels tweeting about our local dating marketplace: Our results extend the insight that economic and demographic circumstances alter behavior via mating-market dynamics and extend them to the realm of online activity and specifically to the incel phenomenon.…These links between local demographic and economic factors and online incel activity are consistent with some themes and ideas popular on incel and manosphere forums, such as blaming the relative scarcity of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:04 PM
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The big difference is that non-Chad average guys factor in likelihood of competition when allocating time and resources for pursuing a potential gf. Like we intentionally avoid pursuing the most desirable woman because we’d alienate more attainable candidates. consider the Nash Equilibrium Women shoot for the 🌙 and end up on AWDTSG
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:23 AM
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Exactly. Taking care of yourself while the other person packs on solipsism contentment weight makes “I’m not feeling this anymore” much easier to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:13 AM
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Agreed - and no different than wanting a gf who’s more conventionally attractive than your buddies’ SOs. The gendered distinction is that most guys embrace settling, since that’s how we get reliable, frequent, and less -expensive access to cheeks 🍑. Women will monkey branch for more “protection” until their RMV declines enough to motivate a different strategy: staying put and holding on to what they’ve got.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:10 PM
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They want their bf to be taller than everyone else’s bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:19 PM
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Enemas are great for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:46 PM
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Jimmy the friendly neighborhood gangbanger who is secretly a "family man" and has a "heart of gold" So pr0nmaxxed I thought you meant Jimmy did MMMMMF scenes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:16 PM
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Great response!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:19 AM
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Sometimes all it takes is being a Caucasian American man in the Philippines. +5 pts for having a healthy BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:47 AM
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Average guys who are good in bed are mostly going to be treated the same as average men who are disgusting. Yes, this probably doesn’t resonate with your lived experiences as an overwhelmed millennial (cis?) female. After all, you don’t fuck ‘ugly’ men. Who comprise the bottom three quartiles of the attractiveness distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:50 PM
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💯- gotta diversify the income stream
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:31 PM
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The sheer existence of AWDTSG groups on FB is proof of heterosexual women’s converging tastes in men. Obviously women have to take other considerations into account before settling for a long term partner (income stream, political views, compatibility with her family/social circle, etc), but dating apps have made it clear who they want to fuck. The dysfunction in the Western sexual marketplace is, by and large, because each side knows the other’s base motives and resents them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:53 PM
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The original comment was something to the effect of “I want to be the abusive shit show of a boyfriend that her subsequent partner(s) hear about.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:20 PM
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That’s the spirit 💪🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:59 PM
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God I love this sub sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:04 PM
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You do not need it, there is no right to it, and there should never be any control over it. Agreed. And if people want to provide it to others in exchange for payment or bartered services, we should not prevent them from doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:03 PM
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There a yuuuuuge (🍊🤡) difference between “sharing” and “pursuing.” Obviously the handful of women on an app open to exclusively sexual relationships is vastly outnumbered by the cohort of male users willing (and eager) to engage with them. But this thirsty horde (including yours truly) isn’t “sharing” woman among its constituents: 95% of us will send our right swipe out into the ether, and of the 5% who get a match, 95% of them will watch the ensuing convo fail to start at or just wither away. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:01 PM
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Sexual thirst of men is quite useful to extract resources out of them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:17 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:50 PM
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build-a-bitch You gotta TM that. Props
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:02 PM
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Practicing not popping whilst fapping makes it even more depressing. Like I wrote earlier, the easiest way for me to last longer is banging women towards whom I am not very attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:33 PM
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In the US at least, there are plenty of South/East/Southeast Asian men who hit bullets #1-6 of your list and still end up alone. The Asian male phenotype is perceived as ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:18 PM
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reverse Kegels I do that start/stop thing when I pee for practice. But I rarely get a shot at using my skillz IRL - averaging 2 nights/year since my last breakup in 2015 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:13 PM
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Short finisher reporting for duty. 🫡 It’s ruined the handful of promising proto-relationships I’ve been in. I can last forever with slump-busters because I’m not particularly attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:09 AM
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Fuckgirls who aspire to deflower virginal men would be revolutionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:00 PM
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I'm the girl guy that's pretty alpha enough to sleep with but not pretty handsome enough to brag about to his her friends Where do I sign up? As a hetero guy, plenty of women accept my company, but very few accept my 🍆. The opposite situation (taking all the 🍆, but hiding me from her friends) sounds amazing. And even if she unceremoniously dumps me in favor of an upgrade, had sex don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:43 PM
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Because being a ‘horror story’ implies we had SOs to terrorize. The men on here spend a lot of time on the bench, fruitlessly swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:58 PM
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A lot of the average men on here aren’t horror stories or success stories - we were safety nets, expected to wait patiently for the carousel to toss off yet another rider 🎠
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:39 PM
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M41. Have been dumped by several 80% women who were seeking “something else.” To date, none of them have gotten married. The handful of women who have expressed sustained interest in me have a few things in common: - biological women with female gonads 😊 - at least one child already 😔 - BMI in the obese range (I’m at 24.3 - 5’11 and 174 lbs) 😔 - willing to perform fellatio 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:18 PM
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The first time I shared it was with the very girl I lost my virginity to, and only because she asked. Luckily she didn't judge me, but she could have. Story time! Despite playing club lax at an ACC school in the mid aughts (huge pussy magnet if you happened to be un-Asian) I didn’t lose my v-card until after I started by my first post-collegiate job. The woman who took it was a colleague of a teammate who had graduated ahead of me, and blissfully unaware of my relative beta-hood. She kicked me o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:02 PM
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Does anyone know where I can find virgin men that aren't virgins for religious reasons? Sign up for a dating app, and set up filters as follows: - height filter to MAX out at 5’7 (ie nobody taller gets through) - Max age at 24 yrs - minimum education requirement at undergraduate degree Then swipe right exclusively on South/Southeast/East Asian men. Virgins for days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:14 PM
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Manosphere participants (i.e. the thought consumers as opposed to the Andrew Tates or Jordan Petersons) are acquiring their cynical outlook second-hand. Combine that with the lived reality that for most young men, their participation in the SMP will be delayed until their female counterparts have gotten tossed off the carousel matured. The result is ‘Chad’ becoming part of the middle school lexicon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:12 PM
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Plz don’t do that. I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:30 PM
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I got featured in one a few years back because of how unfortunate my profile looked 🤣 My female friends who participate in the local one say most of the guys are attractive, which is why they can pull this off in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:58 PM
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unless you can name the objective ways of becoming interesting, handsome, and cool A brief review of the posts in any North American city’s “Are We Dating the Dame Guy?” Facebook group will show you which phenotypes are considered interesting, handsome, and cool. Specifically, the shared characteristics of the named “offenders.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:52 PM
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Congrats on attaining wizard status! Have you contemplated working with a surrogate therapist, if not a Nevada-based SW?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:49 PM
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What a concise and pragmatic response - and on your cake day, no less. Cheers 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:14 PM
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If you're bored, you could try skydiving, or 100 guys for a stunt. 🤣🤣 Bonnie Blue is living, for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:11 PM
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A former friend accused me of being “pornsick” when I politely declined a date with an overweight colleague of hers. I didn’t have the guts to explain to her that it’s perfectly normal for guys to lack attraction to women who outweigh us. Just cut her out of my life (who know’s if she misses me 🤣).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:03 AM
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Love to travel! Been to 35 countries and counting. ✈️ Classiest way to filter out the poors. That said, if you’re handsome enough, you can just watch some No Reservation reruns and paraphrase Bourdain. People believe what they want to. If she wants to see your IG and verify, just say you traveled with your ex and deleted all photos because you needed a clean break. 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:00 PM
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I’ve never had the balls to admit to women I banged once, just to break a dry spell dated briefly that I found them unattractive. So I respect anyone who answers the question honestly. Even if it takes them a while to own up to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:08 PM
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mannn you just need some new pussy Apps and the knowledge economy are the great equalizers. Now women can afford to hold out for the best 🍆, and source it too! To paraphrase OP, nature is healing!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:06 AM
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When it happened to me, it was in a city (DC) where sensitivity towards SA victims is encouraged (“believe her”). The bouncer who escorted me out was obviously incredulous about the accusation against me, but he’d have gotten absolutely steamrolled had he questioned her account. 11 years later, I’d absolutely demand to be shown digitally-recorded footage (because in my case, I would have been exonerated since I was in her proximity for 10 seconds - long enough for me to ask her how her night was…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:55 PM
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One woman once told me I had no business asking women out because of how ugly I was and it wasn't fair to put them in that position to reject me because of how I looked. Good on her for putting it out there instead of virtue signaling. But they convinced me into believing "Looks don't matter" and that we had a connection and got along so well. So eventually, I would break down and show them my picture. Two of them ghosted me, and one got distant and rarely responded anymore until she eventually …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:50 PM
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The disrespectful part was drawing assumptions about his character due to apparent cues about his sexual history [or lack thereof]. When you do this to a sexually-prolific woman, it’s called “slut-shaming” and universally reviled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:47 PM
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lol It’s funny how both inkwells and femcels punctuate their rejoinders with this. You haven’t cracked a smile, let alone laughed, all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:12 AM
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your you’re Chad FIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:49 AM
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As others have pointed out already, exceptions can always be made for Chad 🤠
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:16 AM
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a perfect first date I sit quietly while my date delivers a monologue on Fourth-wave Feminism and its alleged heir, the 4B Movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:45 PM
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Predictably nurturing men are a turn-off because our kindness gets taken for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:18 PM
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This sub can still surprise me. There are some based female Redditors on here - I hope they weigh in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:29 PM
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Actions, not words. OP knows the answer already.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:13 PM
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I see the same phenomenon in SaaS sales (I get pitched a lot on account of my title). 5-10 years ago, I might’ve gotten curious if a rep ended a cold email with “looking forward to our next chat” when we’ve never interacted before. Now I just smirk and mark their domain as spam. The triumph of RP is that it created an exhaustive playbook of behaviors characteristic among sexually-successful men. Ironically, the widespread awareness of the playbook makes it easy for women to recognize when an ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:38 PM
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Very true. For most men, we can only get consistent sex by entering a formal relationship. As such, making concessions for a partner’s shortcomings (e.g. “settling”) comes naturally to us. The mere act of sitting down at the table and considering a deal endears a woman to us, since most of y’all will not. In a Western SMP, women don’t really have to start making concessions on partner choice unless they want to start a stable partnership. And as we well know from this sub, stable partnerships ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:56 AM
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I’m sick of commenting “based” on based statements, so I’m switching to a homophone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:34 PM
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Baste brought to you by Voice to Text
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:17 PM
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a true scholar
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:50 AM
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your anecdotal evidence is opposite to most peoples experience I’ve lived through a lot of dry spells. Throughout my 20s, my slumpbusters were all early 30s women who were getting antsy about getting into an LTR (my innate immaturity always drove them away). 2 decades later, most of the inbound likes I get on the apps are from women in the mid-to-late 40s (I’m 41).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:48 AM
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Based. Also +1 for equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:24 AM
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before 20085 FIFY. Even though the term ‘red pill’ entered popular lexicon in 1999 from The Matrix, Neal Strauss’ The Game (which codified PUA culture) was published in 2005. systemic misogyny Red pill strategies only work in sexually-liberated societies where hetero women can choose partners and divide their love lives into 2 distinct eras: Eros: sexual experimentation with men who would make for poor long-term partners Agape: formal partnership with one man, trading sexual favors for companion…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:23 AM
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As a borderline misogynist, I feel seen by this observation. Great metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:00 PM
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this imaginary person Saw your ninja edit. Yes, boogeymen like Patrick Crusius or Dylann Roof….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:45 PM
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Racist and homophobic - absolutely. That’s why Asian guys and bisexual guys rarely get cheeks on the [straight] apps. Progressive in the streets and KKK in the sheets!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:37 PM
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Nah, I’m good on their bullshit, at least the US version of it. Was a DoD contractor, volunteer with my local VFD, and shoot guns. I’m around conservatives all the time. I’m sorry if my observation triggered you 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:15 PM
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For some reason, I match with a disproportionate number of them despite being only half Caucasian. Might be because I advertise my Catholicism. Conservative women throw up pretty straightforward shit tests (emasculating you as a liberal guy). Holding frame with them is as simple as telling them to get back into the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:58 PM
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For some reason, I match with a disproportionate number of them despite being only half Caucasian. Conservative women throw up pretty straightforward shit tests (emasculating you as a liberal guy). Holding frame with them is as simple as telling them to get back into the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:58 PM
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I was in a situationship with a Heritage Foundation staffer during the first months of the Biden administration. We met on Hinge. We bonded over a shared enthusiasm for history and using our biracial ethnicities as a free pass to indulge in racist humor. Aside from her trying to convert me to her nonsensical agenda, it was pretty awesome. She was already red-pilled and self-aware, which was refreshing. Generous with head, dressed femininely, and allowed me to lead. She dumped me because I got at…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:51 PM
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real life lore Do you mean “sharing their lived experiences because they’re friends of ours”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:10 PM
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We aren’t worthy of him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:01 PM
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My wolfpack of short kings, rice-cels, and our token curry-cel fit this description.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:03 PM
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Oh yeah that’s part of it. I recognize his situation (on a similar cadence, myself) and get similar feedback 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:03 PM
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And I know that because I have a friend in this situation (6ft4, good looking, social), we go out 3x a week, and he gets laid like once a month, or once every 2 months. And he *tries* every time we go out. If he’s only getting laid on a monthly or bi-monthly basis, it sounds like he’s building his body count through pump ‘n dumps. When was the last time he banged someone towards whom he was even modestly attracted?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:07 PM
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Fat acceptance movement. We ask men to rationalize attraction to obese women every day. What’s good for the gander is good for the goose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:18 PM
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It was meant to resonate with the Mountain Dew/Doritos eaters, and from the upvotes it looks like they got it. I was satirizing how hetero women rationalize chasing Chad as opposed to Billy Betabucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:13 PM
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I love how you think this [admittedly] valid critique undermines my message in any way, shape, or form 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:10 PM
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I prefer cake to spinach because spinach is actually a close relative to nightshade, which as you know is very poisonous. Everyone says that spinach has lots of fiber and antioxidants, but I’d rather not take that chance and cake tastes better anyway. <flips hair>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:41 AM
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I’m a 5 on a good day but yes, she got to indulge her hypergamous tendencies. She got quite a bit - trips and dinners that I planned and paid for. And great 🍆 whenever she needed it. It ended because she wanted a formal relationship, whereas I remained on the search for a looksmatch, especially as venues started re-opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:27 PM
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how did the "abundance" you brought benefit her as much as the abundance she brought benefited you? What did she get out of it? I’m a great guy - any woman would be lucky to be part of my harem. Obviously women who find me unattractive (I’m hapa with very obvious Asiatic features) think I’m delusional, but that’s uggo confidence for ya 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:33 PM
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41M - The most functional relationship I’ve experienced to date 📆 was a pandemic situationship where we both understood that I had more abundance than she did. As such, she put me on the pedestal, simped, and made herself sexually available whenever possible. For my part, I remained objective and disengaged enough to keep her hamster wheel spinning. Since we didn’t go out much, I wasn’t tempted by “better case scenarios” I might’ve run into at a coworking space or HH.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:41 PM
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I want to got to concerts with someone whom I can hug from behind and enjoy music we both like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:41 PM
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For sure, that’s incredibly vulgar. Which is why it’s great fun for a guy 3x their age to invoke it on Reddit 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:41 PM
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Some things never grow old, even if the boy does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:01 PM
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Even better, try this with him ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:08 PM
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and work on ourselves so that we can move up to date the people we want that’s exactly why your male equivalents aren’t dating you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:10 PM
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God damn that was a good rebuttal. Hope you stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:59 AM
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Your flair 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:07 PM
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He wants to be someone’s adventure, not just her apology tour. He wants to be the guy she ran toward, not the one she settled for when the running stopped. I keep coming back here for gems like this - so clearly enunciated that the top-voted comment comes from a hetero female voice grudgingly acknowledging how true it rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:48 PM
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…or switch to working with escorts as a simulacrum of a romantic relationship The ability to have an established, emotionally- supportive, and sexually-active relationship with a woman towards whom one is physically attracted is incredibly rare among men. For most of recorded history, we had to cajole women to pair off with us through a combination of socio-economic subjugation, religious fanaticism, and/or coercive violence. Now that those of us living in the global West have been blessed with …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:43 PM
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Everyone goes autistically hard on the cold approach, extremely hard sell, zero banter. Like men are being taught that it's a numbers game, and you have to approach a high volume of women to get results, and so that throws all nuance and specificity out the window. It’s the male side of apex fallacy. Setting aside the myth of the gregarious Indian janitor slaying, the only men we see succeeding with cold approach are traditionally attractive ones. And of course, they can throw shit at the wall, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:10 PM
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If a woman perceives you to be beyond of her league, you can be as honest and candid with her as you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:41 PM
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No, you’re attractive. Out of my league, even. Props.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:14 PM
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Pics or nah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:49 PM
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heifer Love your candor
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:49 PM
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I believe men women have been trained and almost bullied into believing that women men are a requirement in their lives and are incomplete without them. Paste that into r/ForeverAloneWomen and see what happens. The need for companionship is universal. since men are refusing to accept any other form of validation in their emotional health apart from sexual validation, straight men believe they must be validated by women Having sex feels great, and having it with a partner to whom we are attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:06 PM
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