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Wasn't expecting Elder Scrolls but thanks for the bit of levity.lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/24 01:08 AM
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The fact that people, men or otherwise, feel the need to navigate the minefield by explicitly stating "I'm not agreeing/condoning actual misogyny" makes it clear just how far behind we are in navigating gender issues and men's specific gender issues. It makes me cringe everytime I hear someone preface a statement like that. No offence to you, of course. It's just that, of course I'm not condoning misogyny. If you aren't! Why would anyone assumed that other than some twisted form of motivated rea…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/24 10:35 PM
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Moralising without the moral principles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/23 06:29 AM
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I'm more so left wondering why you would test an alcoholic beverage on anyone. Is that a thing? Beverage recipes tested by the FDA? This commercial just left me just as confused as disturbed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/23 06:07 AM
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I would say that now that a lot of the internet is galvanized to support their viewpoints, misguided or otherwise, that trickle is maybe more of somewhat of a steady stream these days, now that I think about it. But idk.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/23 09:05 AM
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It genuinely doesn't seem that enough has been done to advance the discourse on pornography, it's effects on the brain, sex addiction, and the like. So people only understand it in a narrow sense. Scientific inquiry has a trickle down effect in popular discourse. So it takes time for these ideas to seep through. Nonetheless, it would be interesting to understand more about how childhood exposure ties into certain, harmful behavior patterns in adolescence and adulthood, but although there's some …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/23 02:29 AM
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I had the thought that one of the biggest failings of the internet-age was not coming to a consensus on how to keep pornography out of the wrong hands. Much of the harm from porn is from or are gonna come from people consuming it who are not mentally or emotionally prepared to distinguish between fantasy or reality in that way. Couple that with a refusal of many parents to engage in sex education and you have the current state of affairs where these kids are now grown and are still trying to pla…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/23 09:59 PM
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If you can't do it at their job and you can't do it on public transit, and you can't do it at your job, and it all dating apps suck now, where are you supposed to do it? Lol God forbid you don't like the bar/club scene because you really have nowhere to find someone.lol Plenty of women and men get picked up for something casual or otherwise in a variety of places. It's more of an idiosyncratic thing when it comes to where any one person wants that kind of attention and it also depends on who's g…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/23 09:49 AM
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Poor guy probably just wanted to diffuse the situation to continue his previously quiet ride.lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/23 09:43 AM
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Mind if I get a source on this. That's quite the claim.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/23 06:26 PM
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That second one hurt to read, goddamn. I'm sorry that happened to your son.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/23 05:08 AM
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It is pretty amazing how many double standards there are for men that are compatible with well known ones for women when you "adjust the lens" a little bit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/23 07:10 AM
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I'm talking talking points, subjects of interest and their application. Those are ideals. Everyone has ideals. How are those ideals applied? How do we get there? Where will it come from? By what means do we achieve this?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/23 03:35 PM
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Feminism started as theory and thought. And though we don't want to emulate the trappings of popular feminism, it's a good place to start. If you don't have an organized set of ideas that can be repeated as nauseum and with consistent meaning and intent, then you can't expect any of those ideas to catch on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/23 12:23 PM
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To your last point: Yep Every time someone uses this as an insult rather than a genuine descriptor, they unintentionally hold up a mirror in front of themselves. It's the most blatant means by which its communicated to men that "You aren't shit nor worth shit, unless a woman wants to have sex with you. I specify "woman" because often, hetero-normalcy is assumed; also ironic given that this seems to be he exclusive move of people on the left who confront others who don't agree with their position…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/23 02:00 AM
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I generally agree, but I've personally seen stuff like this pop up several times. In and of itself, it's disconcerting to read. Then you remember the several times you've seen the same message, the dozens/hundreds of likes it got, and then you realize it's part of long string of similar thoughts that reflect the Empathy Gap between men and women. It's one opinion reflecting a pattern of behavior, unfortunately.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/23 11:13 PM
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Even just on a fundamental level, you can 't say "all" and expect me to assume you mean "some," or that you're speaking to anyone individually. That's not how words work. Young men read these tweets, boys see these posts. How are they supposed to look at themselves confronting that stuff?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 08:51 AM
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That's an interesting take. A lot of the domination of the discussion of gender issues is partly because of clearly defined understandings of what terms like sexual harrasment are and manifest as for women. Being called an incel, by definition, is sexual harassment, but it's not understood as such. Being called a virgin, for whatever reason, is sexual harassment. But it's not understood as such. There, I feel, are a lot of common experiences on the part of men, that, if you look through that sam…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/23 10:08 PM
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That shouldn't even matter. Violent intent is violent intent and it's just as much of a betrayal of trust and intimacy in domestic situations. That should be the response, full-stop. It just sounds like a justification to not only ignore FOM violence but to even condone it in some weird way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/23 11:19 PM
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Same here. I remember reading tweets and such about women not being obligated to bare the emotional burden of men they're in a relationship with. I mean...you're in a relationship with them. And everybody has baggage. Just say you personally don't care about men as human beings. It'd be a lot more direct.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/23 10:47 PM
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The only thing that should qualify you as a (biological) man is a set of twig and berries between your legs. At other arbitrary and made up qualifications are asinine and uphold gender stereotypes. I feel like this is the sentiment that should spread. That and more vehemently calling out and questioning the hypocrisies. You can't have your cake and eat it and some people need to be reminded of that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/23 11:40 AM
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No one is saying that. There's always been a healthy and unhealthy way of conveying ones sexuality. There's a big difference between being attracted to women and basing your whole sense of self-worth on whether they give you attention.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 08:23 PM
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I'm familiar with MGOTW I didn't post this hoping for some grand movement. Everything starts with the individual. This is about helping men's mental health, and if you wanna do anything good ,eventually you gotta stop caring about what other people think about it. If you know it's good for you then you do it. People see how it's helping you and they latch on. It's a slow process, but it's proven. Otherwise, shrug.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 08:03 PM
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Terry Crews got plenty of press from my perspective. Though the accusee was also male, so you know.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 09:24 AM
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Or Mariah Carey.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 09:16 AM
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Does anyone even remember that there were a handful of women accused of things during that stretch of time? Lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 04:41 AM
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How you can't be racist if you're black.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 03:00 AM
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MeToo started as a meaningful demonstration of how those in power abuse that power and have for a long time. It ended up a means to an end for abusive women to gain and emboldened by inordinate power in their relationships. An unfortunate consequence of what was a necessary thing. The only thing is, we've yet to fully address that consequence, and plenty outright deny it exists because this ironic benevolent sexism that seems to permeate discourse where women are implied to be inherently less ca…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 09:41 PM
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It may not be intended in theory, but in practice, I've seen far too many who comment on gender issues imply or explicitly state that men are inherently more criminal, that women need persistent special protections, and so on. As for benevolent sexism in more of a concrete practice, you can perhaps say that it is a tenant for how alimony and current child support practices are justified despite a desire for 'gender equality'.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 05:34 AM
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Hinge is one of the few apps I've never used, so I couldn't say. It's geared more toward actual dating though, so maybe it's one of the few that's still somewhat viable out there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/23 01:08 AM
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It seems like dating apps aside from the super popular ones like Tinder and Grindr (if you consider it a dating app) are falling to the wayside these days. I remember when OkCupid was extremely active and now it's a ghost town. Men and women seem to be getting exhausted of genuinely trying to find love like this. Dating apps have basically turned into hookup apps, it seems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/23 12:48 AM
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That last point feels especially poignant. I haven't quite placed my finger on why, but it feels like it definitely is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/23 02:25 AM
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The idea has its place, but a very limited place. Like you said, we all have those inner drives. And they are very powerful, but conscious choice and individual differences still exist. How much you consider one more than the other will probably change from person to person. Or in this case, woman to woman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/23 11:52 PM
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Confrontation and uncomfortable conversations are the starting point of progress. If she somehow ends up not liking you over it, it's no one's loss. It is what it is. Though if she considers herself any sort of academic with any sense of critical thinking, as long as you present your arguments in good faith and with adequate support, I don't think you should fear that at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/23 12:15 PM
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So, basically "Keep protecting me, but let me do my own thing too," is the overarching position that feminism is derived from? Having the cake and eating it too?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/22 02:58 PM
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If that were the case, I don't think there would be much of a need for a subreddit like this one. Being insular doesn't help just to vent doesn't help very much, I'd say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/22 05:57 PM
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I can understand that, but I personally think it's very much so worth pointing out the hypocrisy of self-professed feminists who are supposedly out for said "gender equality."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/22 05:39 PM
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I thought something similar, but it's worth arguing that intersectionality, something championed-by feminist circles, is the topic here. One's race and gender interact according to common thought in left-leaning circles. There's also the illusion of a desire for gender equality from these same circles. Where men go, women do too. Though this can often be acknowledged only in cherry-picked circumstances.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/22 05:35 PM
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I think you pinpointed the solution to the underlying problem in your explanation of pre-industrial, western society. The definition of a man shouldn't nor can reliably be anything other than a human with a cock and balls. That's it. Defining men and masculinity beyond those minimal prerequisites, aside from that which involves trans men and the trans masculine, is a disservice to men as a whole.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/22 11:36 AM
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I would say it happens the moment puberty takes hold and its effects become noticeable. They're no longer vulnerable children, they're now potential predators and and violent offenders according to mainstream western society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/22 01:54 AM
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The ole' have your cake and eat it model. Classic. All the benefits of "equality" with all the benefits of being woman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/22 11:58 PM
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SPOILER: I agree with you mostly. Though, to be honest, the whole "princess who doesn't wanna get married and have kids and is openly rebellious against the idea" is becoming a very common trope that's quickly approaching cliche territory. Though, with Rheneayra, she at aleast does it differently because its basically that versus becoming queen and having a seat on the iron throne. So she's literally fighting against this aspect of her society designated for a woman for the sake of a higher purp…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/22 05:57 PM
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Understandable. Thanks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/22 12:11 AM
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Is there a clip to be shared? I'd like to judge for myself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/22 11:20 PM
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In relation to this post, how do ya'll feel about Rheanyra Targaryan of House of the Dragon? .
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/22 11:13 PM
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That's a thing?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/22 11:09 PM
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Fax, no printer. The way men and women are socialized in regards to sex is so distinct and so potent that I've seen literally no difference between how trans girls approach sex, whom are biologically male and wete raised as such despite their gender orientation and dysphoria, and cis men. You see and hear it in everyday language too. For women, sex is often.a transaction and is judged as such with participants judged on that basis. For men, its just what it is. Sex.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/22 08:49 AM
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Speaking as a bi man, the best way I've found to have a fulfilling sex-lifebis is to get with other men. Casual sex and other interactions feel genuinely casual and I feel less judged or compared to other men overall. Best thing I've done for my sex life to date. It feels like men and women approach sex differently, if not just by nature of the dynamics and possible consequences of the sex itself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/22 05:51 AM
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Those are also all elected officials. At least here in the states. Somebody had to vote for them and last I checked, women could cast their ballots just as well as men can.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 12:50 PM
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Had to at least glance to see who wrote this, and low and behold, a woman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/22 01:30 PM
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I'm sorry you've experienced that first hand. Please don't let yourself bottle all that up to avoid. Find people, male or female, partner or friend, you can talk to comfortably. Or a therapist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/22 01:38 AM
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When you have women having legitimate visceral reactions to men being open and honest about their feelings because its not what they expect from him, yet complain about toxic masculinity, framing it as if its all men's fault and that they aren't at all complicit, this is what you get.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/22 11:46 AM
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Its a circular argument, just as you mentioned. As fallacious as it is destructive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 05:51 PM
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I respect his immensely. You can't fall for the same trappings as the people you complain about or deride.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 03:25 PM
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Haven't listened in but I'm familiar with the topic. If you're interested, you might want to check out the book 'Women, Race, and Class' by Angela Davis, which spells out the myth of the Black rapist and does a thorough job of detailing the problems with the history of feminism and intersectionality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/22 12:36 PM
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You saw that post too? Yeah. Pretty fucked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/22 10:59 PM
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I don't know if game lobbies, with its anonymity is a good 1 to 1 comparison to a sport that's played out in the open and with fans who attend the games.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 07:42 PM
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Assuming that their point is that woman are bullied online for playing the game simply because they are women, then they probably have a point. I'm not one Twitter like that, so I wouldn't know. Though, nobetheless, the use of the phrase "priviledge of being male" seems so tone deaf. Even if they intend for it to be specific to the culture surrounding football. Its so easy to take that as a general statement of the world we live in. And if anything, that's the most egregious part about his comme…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 02:03 PM
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Classic "rules for thee, not for me." Alot of the problems with the moralizing and virtue signaling surrounding feminism and alot of other social justice initiatives with online bases is that they missed the whole part about principles. So aslong as you disagree with the subject of your vitriol, you can call them you want, do whatever want with them, threaten them, doxx them, incite violence towards them. All as long as they have difference of political opinion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/22 09:43 AM
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I think thats why he's asking for that here. This is meant to be a safe space for such discourse. That's the point. Hopefully, at least more trans men can offer their insights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 08:21 AM
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You gotta keep these infographics up. This is quality information and in such an easily digestible package. You fucking rule.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/22 07:54 PM
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Sorry, u/funnystor. I kind of swooped in at the end there with a post I put admittedly little thought into.lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/22 09:03 AM
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I agree with just about everything entirely. Though I want to point out that even amid the 'bad' or 'evil', I would argue that they too are products of an environment and society that has failed them. No one, after all, exists in a vacuum. They needed the most help and didn't get it, and how they think and act are a result of that all the same, regardless of how much we disagree or are repulsed by them. I feel its important to keep that in mind. Though this goes without knowing exactly what you …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/22 05:30 AM
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Could you elaborate on the latter?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/22 03:59 AM
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But that can't be all there is. He literally validates the whole argument in support of the belief of being trans not simply being a social construction. Seems they just didn't understand what he was presenting and somehow construed his advances as combative and immediately went on the defensive without a willingness or desire to comprehend what was offered.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/22 04:20 PM
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Previous offending has its roots in other risk factors mentioned, namely poverty. Its just about common knowledge that plenty of the misery and societal ill's can be traced back to a lack of assets/resources.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/22 09:50 PM
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And nobody's making call out posts about women actively staring at men's junk when they're just trying to be comfortable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/22 02:43 PM
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To each their own, but you're definitely in the minority there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/22 02:04 PM
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I second the second paragraph. It would be a small sample size relatively, but I've been wondering what those figures look like. Of course you have to take it with a grain of salt due to how often rapes go unreported.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/22 11:46 AM
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I can only speak for myself but prostitutes not synthetic vagina will be hard-pressed to replace the physical and emotional intimacy that a real human brings. Unless AI makes another huge leap, of course, but then we're opening up a whole other can of SkynetDetroitBrcomeHuman worms.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/22 03:18 PM
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Dhows a lack of personal responsibility for the roles that woman play in the upholding of those disadvantages. It goes both ways.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/22 11:42 AM
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I feel like it has to start from within. Ideas like this a perpetuated in both directions. And of course, you shoukd try and control what you yourself can control. When men stop limiting eachother then the power in women doing it is drained. The only qualification for being a bonifide, out of the womb, man should be too have a penis and a set of testes dangling between your legs. Point blank period.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/22 12:58 AM
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Keeping up the "be a man" or "man up and stop crying about it" rhetoric.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/22 02:20 AM
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I'll consider it. Would need to gather my thoughts on the subject.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/22 01:07 PM
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The attention seeking and ego-driven validation-seeking is a thing that doesn't get talked about enough. Its maladaptive behavior in general, but when other people get caught up in it to their detriment, then its downright toxic and untenable. You can say men aren't allowed to start these conversations for whatever reason but somebody's gotta bring it up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/22 09:05 AM
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I never understood posts on certain subreddits of conversations women will have with "creepy" dudes who don't know how to take a no for an answer. There's blocking features on every form of social media and dating site. If a guy is coming at you the wrong way, you have that option. And there's virtually no risk as long as you're mot posting address and phone number on the same account, which no one does. So I'm personally in the camp of saying that ghosting, as your more often see it, is insensi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/22 05:42 AM
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I was thinking not long ago how that's perception, which is everywhere, directly undermines a lot of feminist rhetoric.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/22 02:46 AM
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For the sake of not generalizing women in the way that men are generalized for the sake of sensationalist, unfounded, and unsupported social media (twitter) posts, I would actually say it isn't so much a contempt for men as it is a repulse response to something that goes so far against their own socialization. Perhaps as well, its easy to see something like that as a chore, because, otherwise, it hasn't been something they habitually practice because its not expected of them. Once again, because…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/22 06:04 PM
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Wow. Imagine not exercising critical thinking ending badly. Who would have thought?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/22 01:41 AM
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