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| 526 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross. | RANT | LunaAmory | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on polyamoury? | DISCUSSION | LunaAmory | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:43 PM |
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| 9 | When they lie about their ages on dating apps and think we won't notice 😂Bless this man's poor soul 😆😆😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 03:53 AM |
| 7 | Celibacy is POWERFUL ❤️✨Ohhhh, yes!!! I know that all too well!! Trust me!! But honestly, this guy is literally the complete opposite of who I was dating last in every way. And more often than not, I'm the one he listens to more than he listens to himself. He's humble, kind, and is able to take constructive criticism super well. But I still make sure to set boundaries and make sure he respects them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:40 PM |
| 63 | Celibacy is POWERFUL ❤️✨This. I've learned and affirmed this in my head recently with my new(ish) boyfriend. The fact that he respects my body autonomy and boundaries makes such a world of a difference. It's amazing how good a basic thing like consent can feel after being in a relationship where I quite literally wasn't allowed the choice to do anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 09:16 AM |
| 5 | Beware!I'm lucky I found myself a HVM then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Beware!I would say it depends on the situation and the character of the man. Some men use women. Some men want to serve them. I know my boyfriend strives to serve me the best he can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 04:26 AM |
| 19 | Beware!Honest question: is this how you guys see marriage? Is there truth behind this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else look young for their age / have a baby face? How has this affected how men view you?I was approached by my ex when I was 17 (he knew I was 17 before talking to me) and he still chose to have sex with me soooo there's that! Im also 20 y/o now. But thankfully I've changed the environment i surround myself in so men usually don't flirt with me unless they are my peers. So in thankful for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:24 AM |
| 6 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.My psychiatrist thought I had bipolar disorder. Turns put, I was just acting out because of all the anxiety my ex was causing me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:39 PM |
| 10 | Bought myself some cute flowers 💖 I love themLove the scripture! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross.And thats on GOD lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 03:43 AM |
| 10 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross.Go ahead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:09 AM |
| 11 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross.Me too!! Us queens gotta stick together! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:55 AM |
| 11 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross.You're welcome! Feel free to DM me anytime if you ever need help. I'm here! Not to toot my own horn or anything, but I've learned a lot recently about this sort of thing. I have a crazy story myself with a LVM that I ditched. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:51 AM |
| 12 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross.FAAAACCCTTTSSSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:47 AM |
| 39 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross.Girl, NEVER loosen up!!! Stay firm in your principals and in your standards. If something makes you uncomfortable, communicate that to him and keep your foot down on that. If he doesn't take constructive criticism with humility or doesn't apply it to your relationship in daily life, then he's not worth your time, sweetie. I hope this helps! Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:46 AM |
| 9 | Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target.Sounds like BDSM in a nutshell 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:08 PM |
| 15 | Have you noticed this?This is what my ex boyfriend said he was going to do to me and any other women he found remotely attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:59 AM |
| 3 | BDSM grosses me out so much. To any women reading this, don't allow anyone to pressure you into doing that. It's misogynistic as hell.My fucktard of an ex boyfriend used BDSM as a way to degrade and humiliate me all the time. He would punish me for the most stupid of things and for a while, he had me believing I actually deserved that shit. He was one hell of a good brainwashing scumbag. At the end of the day, I know my worth and I know for damn sure I'm worth more than having to drink my own piss and shove ice up my vagina so my sick and twisted boyfriend can get off on my mystery and discomfort. Fuck ANYONE who thinks that s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 05:28 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩My ex boyfriend would get pissed at me for even curling my hair without his permission. He claimed to hate curly hair because it reminded him of his Hispanic family who all had curly hair. Even HE had curly hair. He wanted me to keep mh hair straight all the time. I couldn't even do simple beach waves. He definitely was a control freak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:12 PM |
| 20 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!My recent ex boyfriend of three years (on and off) had mostly female friends that he was openly attracted to because in his own words he "doesn't associate with unattractive people". He was also openly polyamorous and wanted to have sex with as many girls as possible. Thank God he didn't have sex with any girls while we were together though, as I actively shut that shir down whenever there was a new girl he was pursuing. I honestly dont know why I didn't run from the very beginning when he decla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:33 AM |
| 8 | Rape by ManipulationOkay so.... I just got out of a toxic relationship about a month ago and holy moly.... reading this made me realize just how unconsentual the sex we were having really was... i mean, this man warped my entire mind and told me he did things to me during sex AFTER the fact. I feel so... used, stupid, and overall just manipulated. I can't believe I let this man slip through the cracks and into my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:03 AM |
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