Lunaisse Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020) I'm so grateful for finding FDS. It has opened my eyes. I just realized it today. I saw some screenshots of an old conversation. My lowest point: apologizing to a guy who was ignoring ME for maybe saying something to hurt HIS feelings. He ignored me several times, actually said something negative about my appearance once, never cared or acknowledged MY feelings, a true LVM overall who loved to play the victim card. And I was apologizing to him because he was being a prick and ignoring me? What w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 03:32 PM
3	Coping with imbalance of HVM to HVW Because most men are sex obsessed. And since they don't need to make an effort nowadays to get it, they don't. LVM never learn to really talk to women, get to know them, care for them since they have an endless supply of porn, casual sex available and even pickmeishas for their emotional needs from time to time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/20 10:41 AM
14	I realized I'm a low value woman and I'm feeling a bit down Are you unkind or rude? Selfish? Insensitive to other's people feelings? Do you usually try to take advantage of people? If not, then you are not a low value woman. Yes, you might not be where you want to be right now and you may have lots of things you still want to achieve. But you, as a person, are still high value. LVM are so, not only because of external factors, but because of the way they treat others, especially women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/20 07:36 AM
17	Stop listing off what he did. You are not his dating coach, therapist or ettiquette teacher. I feel you. I stumbled across an old message I wrote. I tried to read it but I couln't make it til the end....I was tempted to delete it but I decided to keep it, just so if I ever want to write something similar, I can always go back to "that" and stop myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 10:57 AM
52	Stop listing off what he did. You are not his dating coach, therapist or ettiquette teacher. I need to bookmark this. I feel I do this out of fear of loneliness. Instead of leaving, it’s like you’re trying to teach them how not to cross the line so they’re just decent enough to keep them around. You know you should leave but instead you’re just putting a patch, thinking that if you list everything they do wrong you’re somehow holding your ground, when you’re just actually reminding them of how much you are capable of putting up with. The sooner you realize this, the better, so you can u…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 10:38 AM
11	I REALLY like him, so much that I feel myself falling into the trap of acting like a "pick me". How do I play it cool? You laid all your cards on the table by sharing your feelings and intentions that early on. If you change your mind now about not wanting to see him, he will see it as weakness and he could try to manipulate and toy with you. Of course, he might not, but the power dynamic in this relationship is already favouring him. It's best that you focus on yourself for a while and, as others have said, date other men. This guy shouldn't think that he won you with so little effort. From my experience, if he…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/20 08:41 PM
33	Men always call their women crazy when she wouldn't put up with his shit Neurotic, illogical, overly emotional, crazy,... All words used by men when they want to invalidate women's opinions and emotions. It's an attempt to silence a person.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/20 02:10 AM
56	Translations for Common Red-Flag Phrases? "I would never hurt you" Why would they even bring something like that up unless it's a possibility? The men who said that to me always ended up being jerks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/20 01:28 AM