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44

I feel sick because I had a VERY similar situation to this happen. People really be out there enabling rapist because they “are trying to get someone laid”. Don’t try to hook people up without BOTH PARTIES CONSENT. Don’t ever leave a fellow female without an “escape” plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 11:57 PM
421

This poor girl. Abuse porn is incredibly tone deaf to the point of concern.(Not to mention a huge chicken/egg concept for predators. ) Her partner does not have any amount of legitimate empathy for her past trauma, because he has completely sexualized it. She can do better. Three strikes is more than enough. I hope leaves. Also- “Sleep sex” isn’t even a BDSM thing. It’s necrophiliacs & r*pe fantasy thing...but 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:43 PM
16

In that context; it sounds like he is downplaying YOUR past. Even more confusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:14 PM
25

My guess is that this is baggage he hasn’t fully processed. You’d be surprised the amount of men (some women too) who were sexually abused or taken advantage of in their youth and spin it as their fetish/ type/ prowess ; instead of acknowledging how sketchy the situation actually was. Sounds like he was prey to an older women predator, who might have micro managed his time? I have no clue what he thinks he could gain from telling this. Unless you have kids or something, and he’s trying to say he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:03 PM
5

“WAP doesn’t have souls in it. Male 🥜is far superior. “ -Aristotle. 😂 I find it uniquely hilarious and maddening that throughout time, to modern day; Scrotes continue to project their thoughts/behaviors/ amorality onto women...and proceed to use that hearsay as a means to hate or demean women. Women aren’t mutilated men. We aren’t born with penis envy. Our bodies are not flawed male prototypes. We aren’t amoral monsters. These jealous male humans need to chillllllll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:13 AM
25

Reasons some men are single 1: They refuse to give women any value or autonomy/ Women have eyes 2: They tell on themselves/ Women have noses 3: They are asexual, aromantic, and prefer to live alone/ They are devout widowers who remain single as a means to honor their lost lovers. Reasons why some women are single: 1: They are choosing to be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:12 PM
21

It’s not just the more messages they receive; the more they send. The LESS messages they receive; the MORE they send...with increasing threats of violence. 🙃 “Hi. I can’t help but notice you didn’t respond to the greeting I sent 30 seconds ago. I will now proceed to go 0-100 even tho you have yet to send any message back. “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:03 PM
59

I couldn’t read this without almost crying. Poor lady. “I don’t know how to bring this up without being overly emotional”. There is no “over”. I wouldn’t be able to speak to that man about the weather without yelling if I were in her situation. 😰wtfwtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:21 AM
17

The same except the 1/6 shelves of his books will be dustier than when she left them. 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:06 PM
53

Yeah that sounds like the one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:05 PM
349

It’s additionally concerning given the fact there was some study done that found women’s tears actually produces a chemical/pheromone that PREVENTS MALE SEXUAL AROUSAL. Literal boner kill. This leads me to believe that crying is one last lines of natural defense against non-consensual sexual advances. Good luck if you’re unfortunate enough to cross paths with someone who has devolved a crying or hearing “No!” fetish. Scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:54 PM
21

Terrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:51 PM
68

He could have saved himself some typing by just saying “I’m in love with some woman’s husband and misogynisticly belittling all females makes me feel slightly better. “. 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:48 PM
7

How can anyone disagree with these being undesirable things? Guess there’s a lot of guys with huge pee pees and religious aversion of hygiene... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:01 PM
10

Recently I got messaged by that “blessingforyourday” scam a-hole. I also got a group invite titled “Can I be your fuckdoll?” I’m not sure why the sudden increase in randos trying to talk to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:56 PM
13

It’s also exceedingly common for us to “white wash” our stories. Either because we can hardly stomach to say the actual details, Or because we know all too well the way people flinch when things “get too dark.”. It’s horrible that we need to censor our own stories or memories to sound “more believable” or not let others “know how damaged we are”. But that is the current reality. It’s not safe to talk about these things outside the comfort of people who can actually empathize because they have be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:02 PM
11

Not to mention that dead women can’t share their stories. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:48 PM
8

🤬 America is a hell-scape, wth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:07 PM
109

I have also heard of this! I think it’s disgusting and shows some serious lack of respect. Outside of being a cover for when he says the wrong name, or is texting someone he shouldn’t be... I have no clue why fathers would do this. I feel like this is another example of men secretly being the ones obsessed/in love with people they have slept with. That, or men who are so lazy and uncreative that they can not remember female names if it’s not someone he got off to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:03 PM
3

365 days a year, 3 meals a day. Men get the responsibility of one dinner and expect women to feel relieved and appreciative. Madness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:47 AM
15

But he’s getting cold feet because he is no longer attracted to her because he got her pregnant. He’s going to need more college age girls to convince him what his next clown action is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:22 AM
5

They key to his heart is humility? So he’s really doubling down on finding an insecure girl to abuse and gaslight. What they say: “I expect oral sex daily” What I hear: “I have a pornography problem and have been unable to make coitus enjoyable for any of my partners.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:13 AM
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🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:08 PM
3

“Less difficulty becoming aroused. Less orgasmic difficulty. Greater time to orgasm. “ I’m assuming a man wrote this... The opposite of that list would be : difficulty becoming aroused, difficulty achieving orgasm, and zero stroke game. Those are all problems of the porn sick who are somewhat aware their sexual outcomes are poor. I’ve never heard a woman complain about orgasming too quickly while pleasuring herself. (*With the acceptation of a few who have medical sensitivity problems and orgasm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:47 PM
1

😦 well, now that I am done blinking in disbelief... This is a super toxic example of “Why didn’t you say yes when he asked you out? Now it’s your fault he brought a gun to school. “ logic. Extreme victim blame. These rants from various involuntarily celibate nut jobs about how every man should be provided with a government issued wife, and how “nice guys finish last so I might as well sexually assault and murder.”...they are NOT joking. They have literally abstracted women to objects in their mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:50 AM
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Why people can’t logic out that 1: Pickmeshias lie & 2: Any pleasure from serving men has nothing to do with the man and everything to do with our pride and self confidence in our abilities. The amount of gymnastics needed is equivalent to “Women love the thrill of the risk of blood passed diseases. I can tell because they sometimes seem to derive some sort of pleasure from scratching their mosquito bites.“ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:50 PM
17

Similarly there are men who tell YOU to block their ex’s and to not talk to them at all. “For your own good”. If she wants to talk to me you better believe it’s because she still thinks she’s with you Or she is trying to warn another woman of danger. If she is such a violent danger why haven’t HE blocked her? Suspicious AF. Can’t get their stories straight at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:32 PM
34

Why is this worded like the bikinis are to blame?😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:28 PM
51

It almost sounds harmless “haha, all my exes were crazy. “, but beware. ALL of their exes? If every single relationship ended because “they were crazy/dramatic” that’s a big red flag. Think about all the legitimate reasons relationships end; cheaters,incompatibility,overly intrusive family,unemployment,distance,hygiene,dissimilar values...there are so many reasons. It’s simply too unlikely for them to date mentality unstable toxic people-with no other faults-, multiple times in a row. Don’t date…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:21 PM
2

Dudes think every man who isn’t actively raping and murdering women is the equivalent of a Male PickMe. Eyeroll. I’m personally not cool with a whole living breathing women being referred to as a “p#ssy”. Be less obvious about how you consider ladies to be nothing more than a hole. “P-whipped” .. “Mediocre P” ... 😒 Also the whole phenomenon of simp-shaming’s popularity on the web exposes more examples oh how men think the internet is for men by men. The amount of times people have assumed I am m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:29 AM
5

“Garden Club Guy” !? 🤢Ah yes he watched Beastars and likened his first experience with casual sex to an anime. Gross. I find it hard to believe a women who thinks her squeeze is “wonderful, wonderful” is going to feel the need to wear a push-up bra for 48 hours straight. That stuff is too uncomfortable. Also, are 27yr old sexually experienced women explaining “I picked an atypical bra that matched my undies”? “I enjoy tornado tongue.”? I suppose if it was wrote by male or female is moot because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:28 AM
13

😂 y’all. He moves the laundry from the drier to the bed. The laundry pile on the bed is literally the same items from the drier. 😒 There is no confirmation they were actually folded and put away correctly. The pile of stuffed toys is suspiciously localized like it was already in a bin together and he dumped it out. No confirmation there was ever anything in the sink or that the dishes he “washed” are clean enough to be used. The living room was already decorated and tidy. He picked up like 10 ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:17 PM
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Fantastic. Thank you. However- In before this gets reposted and people think the original was made “in response to” yours. 😓 Edit: Was thinking about “Good Guy” and was able to puzzle out what kind of boy the first box is. 😂 lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:30 PM
14

“What uncreative object are women being likened to today? 😒” Dudes need to get out of the store as if they can afford any of these theoretical options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:41 AM
51

Sometimes when people ask “is this weird/not okay?” they are really just asking for permission. Adults really dropped the ball there. I’m going to assume when she asked teachers about her “boyfriend” she did not include the fact that he was 20+. Also going to assume dude was anxious crying only because now he has someone who will rat him out in his pedo behavior, Assumes she would only break up if she was seeing someone else, And is mourning his penis’s loss of indulgence of his child/virginity …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:19 PM
15

For sure! Maybe He assumes his wanting you is all the compliment and confirmation you need? That his aspirations to own land via taco bell paychecks will seal the deal for you? I’m angry because I know some people would say “Take it as a compliment! It’s harmless!”. None of this is complimentary. Just a reminder the act of being a women is enough to invite unwelcome advances. It’s not harmless. This stuff is bad for our psyches; always thinking attracting attention is something we can control. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:43 PM
7

Married or 16. 😆👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:22 PM
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I would almost be willing to excuse a love letter, but there are 3 things about his note that are particularly red flag imo. (But let’s not pretend this letter is okay or normal in the least. 😬It’s unsettling in its own right. ) 1:Dude used lined paper and still didn’t stay in the lines. Looks like it was done in pencil. Dude has no pretense and no scruples about not showing his best work. 2: “ I trust my gut.” , “We are both shy people”, & “I’m not in the position to break hearts.” these things…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:18 PM
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Men: “ MY MOM TOLD ME NOT TO CRY ONCE AND THAT SHT IS NOOOOOT OKAY. FCKED ME UP. 😤” The same men: “You should moan like this and make this face while we have sex. Hey! Calm down! You’re more pretty when you smile! “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:50 AM
18

I couldn’t finish the video. The amount of times she says “but the reality is-“ and “The truth is-“ only to follow it with lies that aren’t even real is staggering. She says this video is for girls but 😂 it’s obviously not. If older men like to wed young girls so often , how are there even “old unmarried ladies” who will lose to pickmes like her? 🤔 That. Is not. How. You. Pronounce. “Chaste”. 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:41 PM
10

Nah. You don’t make sexual innuendos about your own day job. Especially when it a job where you are typically an authoritative figure for youth. This guy sounds like a real gem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:22 PM
5

Women be “needy” before and after sex because they didn’t get to have an orgasm. 🤭😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:56 PM
6

Wow! That’s one of the most disgusting&concerning lines I have heard from a scrote. Your anger was 100% justified. “BuT I MeAnT iT aS A COmpLeMeNT !” I wish the walls of the dumpster were as thick as the heads of these garbage human beings. That way we wouldn’t have to hear this trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:37 PM
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I cant be arsed to look up sources so I’ll use the term “cliche” as a title to for the following familiar situations in our collective zeitgeist. You know, those cliche’s where: •Conventionally attractive women are paid more? •Where straight men tip female servers more than male servers? •Where some bro-dude saves the day and a kiss or a phone number is “all the thanks he needs”? Those things are literally examples of OP’s point. Men are rarely altruistic. Their bravado exists only at trials to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:02 PM
2

🤮 There are so many red flags here, I just can’t. I hope he gets blocked from that group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:14 AM
13

Ah yes the good ole: “I deserve a free pass about everything in a relationship because I have good dick. “ argument. Sadly I’ve heard these kind of sentiments from men and women. Personally I find it bizarre this is even a thought that crosses anyone’s mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:08 AM
1

“Looking to connect with somebody” is a pretty roundabout way of saying he isn’t interested in talking extensively before trying to smash. SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:04 AM
260

“If it’s not bothering you anymore, and it’s not who you are anymore; There is no need to share it.” 💕 this is gold. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:51 PM
4

Sad. :( Be sure to block and delete him and any of his toxic ex’s/friends. Don’t be discouraged. Just learn and keep looking out for yourself. Never forget you are the #1. Stay safe. Hope things are on the up and up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:13 PM
6

Glad you now know you are not obligated to deal with this kinda crap just because of your gender! Welcome :) Out of curiosity how old is this no-value ex of yours? (Also thank you for reminding me what the app was called that people were calling “tinder for teenagers”. Yellow/Yubo. I don’t want to date myself or seem uppity- But I DO NOT envy youth growing up these days. There is an enormous pressure for instant gratification, nudes, and “keeping up with the Jones’ “ now that the technology is s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:08 PM
95

“It’s not worth it” Pretty sure this is a fire hazard. At the very least, if the apartment is a rental no one is going to be happy with the rank old meat smoke smelling cabinets and carpet. How did he go his whole life not seeing anyone else’s kitchen or someone use the oven? I just... 😧😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:45 AM
17

Some LVM in a cabin somewhere: “Wow. We gossiped about how she was unattractive. We told her she was un-datable. We created a situation where the looming threat was of HER being dumped. How and why would she dump HIM!? Women are supposed to grin and bare shame and embarrassment...I don’t understand...how could this happen?” I hope she sticks to her guns and stops being gaslighted into feeling guilty. She should tell him begging for her to take him back is making him seem really clingy :/ no than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:40 AM
3

This dude is guilty of something. He is panicking because he is imagining his girlfriend is similar to him, and not held to higher standards just because. The messed up thing is GF won’t even be able to help because he is inconsolable and avoiding her. Her love or faithfulness means nothing to him. He literally wants her to undo the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:19 AM
8

Dudebros love to pretend to purpose as a means of discouraging further conversation about wedlock. Then stay engaged forever because “it’s not that serious” to them but “obviously means a lot “ to her. So it’s an easy concession. Besides. Men “don’t wear / need engagement rings”, so they don’t need to go shopping. 🤔Kind Of fishy when you think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:28 AM
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Hmmm. Suspiciously ironic how all these forums of men who typically encourage ignoring women entirely, or claim they don’t hate women... Are just lurking around in female spaces? For what purpose? Looking for ammunition to kill themselves with? Searching for more inflammatory quotes so they can straw-man arguments to justify their hatred of all women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:37 AM
3

Exactly. I suppose men have the luxury of looking back on previous sexual encounters with...pride? For “spank bank” nostalgia? On the bad days I am triggered enough to recall an encounter with anyone other than my husband I am legitimately trying not to 🤮. There is no fondness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:25 AM
2

Sounds like scrote wants a virgin girlfriend who never dated before so he can impress her with the absolute minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:19 AM
3

Absolutely terrible. I can not believe for how long it goes on, and it’s not even the whole event I am sure. God, I hope she is okay. I shudder to think this is anyone’s norm. Sometimes I seriously LVM who are in relationships will not do ANYTHING to aid another woman because he can’t milk female attention or guilt sex out of the person he would be saving. But don’t worry because nice guys are out there, putting in work! That’s why women super hero’s are so unbelievable! 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:14 AM
3

“ You used to call me on my cell phone...“ 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:55 AM
2

“For my reputation” Boo hoo Sorry you value your lack of accountability over the safety of others. “Well you know, you can’t be too safe in this age of men finally getting their comeuppance for being rapists. “ ...Tell on yourself with less complaining next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:48 AM
7

Men: Gross! Female health related products. Have some shame, That goes near/in YOUR VAGOOTER. I only wanna put my peepee in there, I do not need to know anymore! You want me to think about how DIRTY you are? I will never be attracted to you if know the truth! The same men: No I don’t hide my toilet paper or underwear, why would I? I take the BIGGEST and MESSIEST poops, I tell you what. I have ‘sharted’ my pants multiple times because I can’t learn a lesson and my farts are natural and important.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:28 AM
5

You can even put the double standards and lack of logic under their noses and they will NEVER see it or admit to it. It’s part extreme egomania, Part “I’m grasping at straws for a reason to hate on women because I do not respect them as humans of equal value to myself.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:02 AM
8

I also got super suspicious vibes from this. I assumed he was trying to keep her busy so he can cheat more conveniently or something. I think you eagle eyes are on the nose about the divorce setup. Hope she gets out well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:55 AM
8

It might be helpful for you to just reaffirm to yourself that others will not give kindness/gifts that they are aren’t willing to give. That being a martyr impresses no one. And that your reflex behavior of feeling guilty, reciprocating, or excessively praising people for doing the bare minimum can leave you open to manipulation. WE DESERVE MALE KINDNESS 💕 WHAT I GIVE I AM ALLOWED TO GET BACK. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:38 AM
23

Yes I do feel guilty. And I hate it. Because the guilt is a conditioned response, not a natural one. So I assume you either ; A:Had someone lord their ‘kindness’ over you and expected you to reciprocate ‘with interest’ at some point in your life. Or just someone aggressively accused you of lacking gratitude. Or someone pulled a traumatic “You owe me!” situation. And/Or B:You grew up programmed to ask for less and to see excessive selfless action as virtuous or feminine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:29 AM
36

Yes too much. NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:14 AM
12

I can’t see the comments but I had a good cringe at the one dude trying to sue for “being discriminated against because he is a straight male.”. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:01 AM
5

I was also called jail bait more times than I should have. Urgh. Sorry. Specifically I think it’s stupid/unfair to call a young girl “jailbait”. Why are they the ones being labeled, as if it is their fault? Instead of calling me jailbait how about you just call yourself “a pedophile”, random gross dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:29 PM
5

He didn’t ask where you live or insist to pick you up. That’s refreshingly cognizant of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:48 PM
29

Man waits until the other party is dead so he can completely control the narrative... Classy. I hope the family finds out. They deserve the truth. They need to know if there is any other manipulative dirt happening or that happened in the past. Even if they husband and cousin were mutually in love and consensual. (Edit:Which I doubt, given how squeaky clean he was at manipulating the situation to leave no clues. Scrote seems like a pro. )OP has no obligation to care about his “broken heart”. If …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:42 PM
7

(Oh man, this makes me want to cry. I totally lived the “children too afraid of parents to ever go to them for help” situation. ) I hate the amount of terrible stories women have shared with me. But to try to have remotely positive spin on it... At least they are talking about it now? If we keep talking and sharing we could be offering some priceless advice. We could be offering succor to someone who needs it. It’s just insult to injury that we cant even tell men or ask for help publicly without…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:32 PM
9

“Explicit anatomical terms used, but intended for under 28”. The way that is written is a red flag on a red flag, for me. They are subverting the sites ‘adult content’ walls. They aren’t saying SCIENTIFIC ANATOMICAL TERMS. They aren’t saying it’s a reddit run by underage for underage. They are saying they don’t want to answer a potentially 30 yr old conservative virgins questions. They aren’t saying answers are given, or who is intended to provide the answers. Scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:22 PM
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Sorry you had that happen. I was also on the Internet too young and was shocked by the amount of men who asked my A/S/L and kept going after they knew (or got more aggressive). I knew enough to find it weird they weren’t interested in people their own age. And frankly I was startled. That little bit of fear (which at the time I was ashamed of) is the only thing that saved me from a number of sketchy situations. I’m going to be so so so transparent with any future children. The internet has sicko…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:13 PM
4

This is a FANTASTIC energy and mindset. Truth. Truth. Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:56 PM
59

Why did he ask? Because men have the audacity to have standards outside of their value. Similarly I’ve had a potential date ask me if “I worked out”. He did not workout and was like 50lbs overweight... The boldness is baffling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:52 PM
23

I swear LVM secretly love and support NVM just so they can get accolades for doing the bare minimum. Dude thinks he accomplished something by essentially saying “Sorry you got molested but I didn’t do it and the fact that it happened makes me look better, right?“🤡 Tbh I feel like men who say these sorts of things are the same ones who will try to weaponize or use that same energy against you. “You know, a worser man would have laid hands on you by now!” Translation: “Shut up and validate me whil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:45 PM
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Men know how to charm to get what they want. All of a sudden they have no clue how to be thoughtful or seductive after they have it? My heart hurts for her, because she’s obviously sentimental and cares they have been married all this time. My heart hurts for a lot of these comments, too. The awkward pain of asking a “partner” if they remember an important date or forgot to give you a gift. Urgh. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:34 PM
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It’s “extreme” for a women to value her time and safety. It’s like they can’t even hear themselves. They are literally just clinging to a status quo that seems to “fairly” give LVM the same chances as HVM. But it is in no way fair to the women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:52 PM
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Use that hotel to explore your sexuality solo! You do not need a stranger to be in control of your sexual gratification. You do not need to ‘lose your virginity’ to have a good time! Have yourself a nice vacation and do not feel guilty. You deserve connection and a partner who is interested in you-all aspects of your life- not just your body! 💕 Stay Safe. I’m Proud of You. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:45 PM
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I wouldn’t lock down the word entirely, But I do agree the most common use of it nowadays is pretty much on point with what OP is saying. It’s about receiving and not giving. For the most part when I hear people using carefully picked language like this I feel it is a thinly veiled admission that they don’t take feelings seriously. There is a difference between “connection” and “vibe” and they 100% know that. They aren’t looking for someone to match them equally, someone to be a partner. They ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:38 PM
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Wow. This level of blatant uneducated parroting of racist stereotypes makes me legitimately nauseous. If it was just excusable to beat people when they make you unhappy...these people wouldn’t healthy enough to make these sort of posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:25 AM
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If they complain that she’s a gold digger... They are actually just confessing they lured her in / trapped her via wealth. She’s a gold digger? She only wants you for your money? Well- what other redeeming qualities are you bringing to the relationship? The bit about dating broke eighteen year olds hit too hard. Men are frequently predatory and always find the audacity to complain anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:42 AM
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I like it, But just a reminder to you that this space is primarily anti anime. Edit: I was just preparing OP for potentially being flamed, the opinions are polar here. I have yet to out myself just to avoid conflict. I suppose I could have worded it better... But I am honestly not intelligent enough to think of a way of reminding without talking down either side. I even said I like it. Haha. I suppose I should have stayed out of it and let the chips fall where they may. I only chimed in to poten…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:24 PM
3

🤔 Both Scorpio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:43 PM
22

“Guess that’s a yes.” Telling. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:40 PM
4

Yes 💕 Anyone who thinks this is “crazy”, “above and beyond”, or “being p*%%# whipped” is SELFISH AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:42 PM
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I don’t care if it’s real or not but... 1: He was her first. He doesn’t get to determine when or where her virginity is. You can not lose your virginity in a nonconsensual situation. Not that virginity even matters to anyone but the owner! If she said he was her first, then that’s how she feels. If he thought her unslutty before literally nothing about her has changed. How the heck do you going to slut shame someone who was raped? How the heck do you gonna slut shame someone you are actively hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:37 PM
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“It makes me feel like I’m not even a person in her eyes anymore!” Dude was not treating his wife like a person. Didn’t talk to her. Blamed it on her. Continued to have sex with her during the affair. Then has the audacity to go on the Internet fishing for ways to prove he can be trusted-WHILE STILL PUTTING HER IN THE LIGHT OF VILLAN. He can’t be trusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:02 AM
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This is probably unhelpful and excessively sassy... But tell your mom to have her own baby to dote on. Tell her you’re tired of waiting for another sibling. You really are aching for a younger sibling to impart your sage sisterly advice on. She shouldn’t have had her kids so close together. She’s got a lot of good mothering miles in her that she’s just letting waste. Adopt. Get invitro. Just get the heck out of here trying to talk babies into have babies. Tell her the cat wants an emancipation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:39 AM
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I’m sorry to hear your story. You need to truly care about yourself, And know none of this is your fault. You have been doing free emotional labor for this guy and he’s flighty AF before your surgery...AND ghosts during/after. Please do not worry about him. Block him. Do something to get over him. You deserve better. I hope you can build/find a good group of friends who you can depend on in times of need. It’s not safe or healthy to depend on an uncommitted spouse for those sort of things. You d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:31 AM
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Dirty dick and too lazy to go the restroom? What is this some sort of elaborate Hobo themed role play? I didn’t sign up for that. Bye. Nasty is a choice. They want to live like single cretins let them be single. Hopefully these girls get out. I feel bad because these girls probably have zero sexual attraction to their boyfriend at that point in the relationship...they are forcing themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:18 AM
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I hope she got a badge/patch for that. Keep that energy forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:47 AM
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“Has to like a well balanced man”- and he gives 2.5 details about himself. Meanwhile expects a lady to hit like 15 criteria. Gtfo of here with that. 😆 Not only is this dude a mess of red flags but Urgh yuck 🤢 “I will snatch you all day” “I’m classy but all of a sudden I will grab you by the hair and throw you.” ⁉️ Enough to make my vagina make the windows shut down noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:43 AM
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Reading the second URL gave me quite a chuckle. There are plenty of fish in the sea so you are more than allowed to narrow it down however you like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:29 AM
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Why does it sound like he isn’t living in the same house as her? Military? Business? Or is he just being a super baby by emailing and refusing to talk in person? My guess is that husband was cheating with someone who was also in a relationship. The new boyfriend/girlfriend is freshly broken up and needs somewhere to stay. I also assume this is why he doesn’t want legal action. Infidelity in the courtroom not a good look. If he isn’t already hooking up with someone else...he might have an ex wife…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:21 AM
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😔 so sad ladies can never feel safe wth... Is it possible that you can put your vets phone number on the tag and have the veterinarians office be the middle man here? My understanding is that the microchips are normally a third party business situation where you can opt to give contact info to whoever found the dog, or keep your information anonymous and be alerted the pet the found. Listing the vet wouldn’t be that much different would it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:30 PM
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Males like this 💯% believe their opinion holds more weight than any womans. I don’t like the fact that some of you are saying “even the non violent ones”...Nah Sis. They violent too. Verbally violent. Emotionally violent. If they get off on the idea of punishing a grown adult for not “respecting their opinion” that violent imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:16 PM
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Just some things to think about: 1: Are these thoughts and events very recent and a possible response to a stressor?In example: Global Pandemic=Understandable exasperation of anxiety,depression, ect. Recently discovered something unsavory about your s/o? Be forgiving of yourself if you can truly tell your feeling are stemming from somewhere. Emotional responses are normal and valid. Bottled emotions can sometimes create a dam that feels like the burdens are worse than death. 2: What do you ~real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:59 PM
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Thank you for seeing a therapist and making progress. Unfortunately I have heard and experienced stories similar to yours. The number one thing you should do for yourself is continue healing and go no contact with this guy. He is not your friend. He can not hold what he has done to you over your head to lead you into a vulnerable state again. Please stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:58 PM
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John would tell the truth to his girlfriend then, right? People who go out of the way to say they “tell it like it is.” Really mean that they have difficulty understanding the difference between opinion and fact. They think every single thought they have is more important than anyone else’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:49 PM
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Scrote: I am dating a hot young woman and I’m not happy that she dresses like a young woman! I CONSTANTLY talk shit about girls online and when she’s not around...you know. The usual stuff; girls who wear shorts are only looking for sexual attention, only stupid unmarried feminist goth whales dye their hair unnatural colors, women don’t have opinions they just pretend so you gotta chad gate keep them to remind them their place...well my girl friend (I’m not going to call her my ex because SHE br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:43 PM
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“Better than what you do.” Wth do they mean here? Being a contributing member of society and not supporting violence, sex trafficking, revenge porn... Is less important than: “IF I DONT BEAT MUH MEAT I WILL DIE!”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:16 PM
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That’s terrible! I hope for the rest of your life you only have great sex with men who will “go all out” the first time and every time! You literally are legally entitled to it. 🗣 We have collectively decreed it! 👩‍⚖️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:39 PM
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Men should be able to change without us having to discipline all our poor pickmishas out there. Otherwise I agree with you. I think it’s a bloated male confidence thing. They have delusions of grandeur.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:25 PM
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As long as you acknowledge you have worth both before and after your first kiss And that your worth is unchanged before and after your first sexual experience. Finding a partner is not about taking the first person you are sexually attracted to. So I think it is mature of you to not want to cloud your judgment or sully the dating process with undo sexual tension. I personally kept the amount of kisses I shared when I was dating low because I have concerns about oral STI’s ect. I don’t think it’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:20 PM
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👑 This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:58 PM
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😣 “I want my first time to be with him” NO YOU DONT ESCAPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:54 PM
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Seconding dating in your age range and the unfortunate reality “you can never be sure”. But for advice: I am also quite petite and unfortunately have experienced people projecting their kinks onto me. If they ever make you uncomfortable about your age or size- 🚩red flag They will normally out themselves pretty early with dumb stuff like: 🚩”Oh wow. I thought you were much younger. You’re going to age great!” 🚩“Men LOVE small girls.” 🚩“I could totally throw you around /over power/rape you haha!” 🚩…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:50 PM
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If the age of consent were actually to be lowered then we should let the children who it would effect vote in. Ah. But “little girls aren’t smart enough to be allowed to vote!” 💁‍♀️ Then they aren’t smart enough to consent. Idk about anyone else but when I was a young girl I was actually deeply unsettled as I approached 18 and was no longer “jail bait”. It made me sick to imagine girls my age or younger getting into porn or getting married. I legitimately still told creepy men who asked my age t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:17 PM
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Nah. He only has the opportunity to ask her height as well. Get out. 🤡 👋 These scrubs would absolutely lose it if we asked for their 3 measurements, BMI, sperm count, penis size, scrotal volume. 😂 Perhaps we should though...if a women’s value lies only in her sexuality. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:55 PM
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🤔 Husband likely intimidated by foreplay or was up to no good while she was in the shower. Sounds like she will give him a “quickie” every time he gets wood but he isn’t willing to engage if he isn’t already hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:48 PM
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A lady who actively chooses to have no female friends is doing herself a disservice. It’s not worth it to be a “pick me” who hates women or has demeaned herself to the point she makes it impossible to relate to normal or HVW. I used to have way more faith in male friendships...but getting married was an eye opener. Most of my male “friends” scattered to the wind or actively started to show distain for me. It was actually really messed me up and hurt my feelings. But- considering the amount of ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:40 PM
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TL;DR HVM have a lot of “unpopular opinions” compared to LVM. He doesn’t need porn to masturbate. Pornography makes them more uncomfortable than aroused. They do not understand the appeal of Strip Clubs, Hooters, Orgies, etc. They won’t talk in detail about their sexual relationships to their friends. He does not sexualize every female he sees on the street. He legitimately desires to be a good husband/family man. In the heat of the moment he wants to give his women pleasure. He does not talk sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:17 PM
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Late but I have been thinking about this... I’m not 100% on what the “breath play community” recommends now a days but my understanding is that you NEED to have someone with eyes on the person the whole time. The fact that she said she was held “in a headlock” makes me wonder what her EX’s pervious profession was. The technique of restraining someone and subduing them with your elbow around their neck is a hand to hand combat technique. It’s literally for fighting for your life. Who would bring …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:18 PM
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💕😣💕 These wholesome pep talk videos of encouragement hit me so hard. I wish people had talked to me like this in real life while I was growing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:04 PM
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(LDR=Long Distance Relationship But I’m not familiar with “LT”...) If you are in a relationship with someone who you are scared will run when you ask about the nature of the relationship... You aren’t in a relationship. You’re in a time wasting delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:53 PM
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Just to be helpful: The FDS Handbook is linked under the “about” section, if you go to this subreddits main page. :) I’m still new to Reddit and had to get used to navigation my first few days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:55 PM
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THIS is the sort of YouTube personality people should Stan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:47 PM
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I hear that! Older women do have some deep secrets! They for the most part have been socially conditioned to stay quiet or just accept the situation. Or the trauma is so visceral that they literally can not process it until they feel safe. My grandmother confided to me that she was abused by a doctor for years when her family had to stay in a TB sanitarium. She stayed quiet because she thought she was supposed to trust the doctor. She was a child and was just glad he didn’t outright rape her wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:39 PM
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I’m sorry you had to go through that. I vividly remember the first time some stranger tried to get me into their car...it was so jarring to me because I thought kidnapping was some scary thing that happened on tv. That “Don’t take candy from strangers.” was a joke. That I would never have to use the numerous tips and tricks I was taught “to avoid being raped”, “to avoid being sold into sex trafficking.”, ect. Unfortunately I believe our similar experiences are very common. Almost every woman I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:09 PM
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...isn’t it weird he was like “this is so good. I want to have my family try it!”? As if he is trying to prove to his family his girlfriend has wife potential or something? But dude can’t even sympathize or buy her some food? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhheidnusensud I hate him so much. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:28 AM
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Story time: I grew up an ugly duckling and a “late bloomer” I’m talking not conventionally attractive at all. In no world would I look “old for my age” (this term is fictitious trash.) By time I was 15 I had already been sexually approached by multiple adult men. (Ages 18-45?) It is not about being “pre-wall” at all. It is 100% about the fact that they are pedophiles. Who do they think they are kidding? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:06 AM
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I had forgotten (willed myself to forget,more likely) that “Snuff Porn” exists. Now I feel sick and angry. There are terrible men out there who are distressingly proud/vocal of their flaws. On the bright side it makes it easy to vet or dodge them. But there’s really is like no bright side to this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:50 AM
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More like ladies are going to be reminded that they enjoy their own company and can provide their own sexual pleasure. So they aren’t going to be chomping at the bit to give some dude who hasn’t bathed since lockdown a chance. 🧐🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:25 PM
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I hope he isn’t a husband anymore. Sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:11 PM
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There are too many garbage posts from men about women “living fast and hard and then expecting to get wifed up too far down the line. ” for me to not believe there’s some amount of projection happening there. Men who have been repeatedly rejected will DEFINITELY try rush into marriage as soon as he thinks he has stuck gold. Men who unexpectedly “Hit The Wall” will also try to settle down in a fit of depression. Thankfully as far as I can tell most of these LVM just purpose or talk about marriage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:01 PM
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This boy must have been really upset to pay for dinner once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:45 PM
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Lmbo. For real. There is no punctuation out side of the ellipses. Trying to read it felt like I was having a stroke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:37 PM
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Painful on multiple levels. Boyfriend is wrong. Pick Me room mate failing. Also, I am sad to see another example of “Large” and/or “Well Endowed” women having their bodies seen as “indecent” “slutty” “extra sexual” just because it takes up more space? I can guarantee if OPs bust is natural she didn’t start growing them as a child and subject herself to pain and the male gaze for the rest of her life just to steal some scrote boyfriends attention away from his girlfriend. Boyfriend is trash anywa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:33 PM
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I’ve only seen clips but I felt so much indignant rage towards that dude that I don’t think I could sit and watch a whole show. iirc he slept with her and the next morning was like “That was great. But I find your body hair to be gross. Go shave right now. I’m serious.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:03 AM
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“Cool?” HECK NO Enjoy your single ass summer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:53 AM
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Changing “the norm” starts one woman at a time! I’m not sure how realistic or helpful it is but could you maybe talk to potential boyfriends about your desires or expectations? “I’m not content with local modern concepts of dating. I think it’s a stereotype. Me and all my girlfriends melt for chivalrous displays. “ Or “I like to dress to impress when I go out. I’d like a man who can match my style&energy” Things like that? I feel like making a bread trail of expectations for men is against the F…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:56 PM
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Don’t feel sorry for him! Stay Levelin’ up! You deserve more. Good job. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:39 PM
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If it’s about men’s issues... Wouldn’t men already know about these issues and not need to be made aware/informed via soft core porn? Are they selling them? Where do the funds go?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:34 PM
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I’m sure Kyle is mad af. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:18 PM
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You don’t have to forgive your abusers. Most men apologize because “I need to be forgiven. The guilt is bothering me.“ or “Because I feel like it’s bad blood in our relationship and I want a chance at friendship/romance with you again”. No way. That shit is selfish. You don’t have to forgive them. You don’t have to allow them access to you. NVM are aware they are using and abusing girls. They are aware they say they are in love just to get into someone’s pants. They think/know they are ruining l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:05 PM
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