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That seems too perfect. Are you flirty/playful, are you making jokes, are you nervous, what's your body language like, do you have anxiety (sweaty palms, deep breath), are you talking in a mundane and/or interview manner? Take a look at the infield videos from Honest Signalz on YT. They're gold for cold approaching.
/r/seduction14/08/26 10:38 PM
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If you want me to join, then I don't see a problem
/r/seduction28/05/26 09:33 AM
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And I think his question was on how to become the guy with those traits not to define the traits, but sure
/r/seduction14/02/26 01:42 PM
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You live with social anxiety. You can't overcome it. It is literally a fear. If you get familiar with things that scare you, you'll be scared much less. That's the only solution. Exposure therapy. How do you define confidence though? Do you expect to always act cool no matter the circumstance? That is not possible. Tell any confident person that they have to make a speech in front of 100 people with no preparation and they'll be scared. Committed action comes first, confidence comes second. Act …
/r/seduction27/12/25 02:29 PM
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That's the problem with dating in general. IT IS A SKILL. It is not a skill when you need it, but a skill that should be practiced. If you get nervous enough from clicking on a girl's story and don't know how to start a random conversation besides talking about the weather, what you're asking for is above your skill level. But to answer the question: No, don't talk about the weather. You can start the conversation referencing something from their story, stories, or profile, in a playful way. Eng…
/r/seduction26/12/25 12:35 AM
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For this not to seem like an ad, you can mention some details about what you did wrong and how you fixed it. Also, you should mention why you decided to get the coaching, and how cheap/expensive it is. Otherwise, this will look like a cheap marketing attempt.
/r/seduction25/12/25 01:31 AM
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Then look up Vadim from Honest Signalz. He's game is world-class.
/r/seduction24/12/25 12:37 AM
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Oh, wow, so if someone doesn't inform me upfront about it, I'm fucked.
/r/seduction23/12/25 07:57 PM
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Just curious, can you catch it even if you wear protection?
/r/seduction23/12/25 07:35 PM
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I really like Da Nang, Vietnam. It looks very touristy and affordable, but not sure about the dating scene and nightlife
/r/seduction23/12/25 06:22 PM
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Right, but there is nothing he can do now. Initial interaction should've made a better impression on her for him to be at the top of the list of candidates.
/r/seduction22/12/25 09:52 PM
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Watch Austen Summers and Honest Signalz on YouTube. They have just amazing social skills and charisma, top-tier wholesome game skills. Models is a good book as someone else recommended. I don't think I can recommend any other. They're either shady or not helpful. For technical nerdy breakdowns of social dynamics search for Sergio Sorokin's channel on YouTube. Be warned that videos feature PUA coach Todd V who has a robotic game, but good insight into social dynamics.
/r/seduction22/12/25 09:49 PM
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Watch some infields. You may see the next steps as out of the realm of possibility at the moment so watching infields of how it's done might help you. Besides fbst, keeping conversation going is something I struggle with too in general. But I think I found the solution and it is practicing free association. If you look at the clips from Austen Summers or Honest Signalz on YouTube, you'll see how easy it is to talk with girls, but you have to be able to free associate and make talking about nonse…
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:14 AM
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The proof can be either an audio/video of you approaching or a screenshot of follow-up texts to the very least, FYI. But good luck anyway, great idea and I'm glad you've decided to take action.
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:41 AM
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How will you prove it though?
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:30 AM
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It's okay. Soft close is a way to gradually escalate towards the desired outcome as opposed to the hard close. It leaves less room for outright rejection, gives you a way to gauge a potential outcome, and a chance to adjust and vibe some more before trying again. For example: - A hard close would be asking a girl if she wants to meet on Friday. A soft close is asking her if she likes wine, or drinks, and witty banter, and then asking her out. - A hard close is to kiss a girl right away. A soft c…
/r/seduction21/12/25 02:49 PM
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True, true. But that's why you need to be bold, flirty, teasing, to be proactive, move things forward, and then "soft close" and if she's not against it, you proceed further. You know, all the hard stuff, men have to do ✨
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:23 PM
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So do you want something with her or not lol
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:11 PM
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So you're getting inconsistent results. That is on one hand normal part of the game, but on the other maybe try to objectively analyze what you're doing right and what you're doing wrong.
/r/seduction21/12/25 09:31 AM
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To add, overall low confidence that exudes through mannerisms, a way of speaking, but also not being entirely comfortable with your own body or sex in general, just feeling a sense of shame around it, all seem to be some of my issues in this regard.
/r/seduction18/12/25 01:06 AM
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It is very hard. Social skills are a skill. You can't expect to use them perfectly only when you need them. If you make it a habit to get out of your comfort zone and talk to people you will get better at it. The other thing is that conversations can be awkward. That is completely fine. Confident people are not those with perfect lines, but those who know they'll be fine even if conversations get stuck and not everything goes according to plan. But since you asked, some ways to make conversation…
/r/seduction18/12/25 01:01 AM
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Obviously, there are many IoIs (you can Google it). But I would say mostly laughing, having a good time, not having a closed posture, leaning, touching or brushing on you, playing with her hair, and also talking about sexual topics comfortably with you.
/r/seduction18/12/25 12:55 AM
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Give her some space, sure. But eventually hit her up or move on. The latter saves your ego, the former might give you a new opportunity. People sometimes forget to respond, or don't care enough. That doesn't mean you won't be able to meet them some other time or that they won't start caring more when they get to know you more. So chasing is a more ego-preserving concept. One more message after some time might revive a conversation, but if she has no interest to begin with you didn't lose what yo…
/r/seduction17/12/25 12:38 AM
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That is not how the game works, but good luck anyway.
/r/seduction17/12/25 12:28 AM
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So you can't meet right now, right? If that is the case you can't push to meet. In that case, you should text her from time to time. Send her 'value offering texts' which are great for building rapport, since they offer value and don't expect anything in return. For example, when you see something interesting, do something interesting, or think of something funny. Then when you get an opportunity to meet, you should text again with an effort to meet up. Texting isn't the purpose, it's a tool for…
/r/seduction17/12/25 12:16 AM
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First step is to make bolder jokes, to tease a girl, to add a few push-pulls, to flirt. Then the girl might reciprocate, and you can get a sense of how she feels. And that is already a massive progress. The only thing left is to ask her out on a date, and there you can get touchy and with that, you resolved all concerns you had.
/r/seduction17/12/25 12:11 AM
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Porn addiction is a cancer for real. My issue too. I think the biggest problem with quitting it is that I don't have a good substitute for the pleasure it brings. But I think it can work for you. If you start going to the gym, if you reorganize as many things as possible towards bettering yourself, the addiction will not seem like a normal part of such an outline. I'm talking about the living environment, the content you consume on your phone, the time you dedicate to it, the way you spend your …
/r/seduction16/12/25 01:10 AM
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The height isn't something you can change. But also it can be as limiting as you want it to be. Obviously, many women will still disqualify you solely based on that but those won't be your matches to begin with. Online dating not working for you can be due to many factors, though. Your profile might not be optimized, so your matches might not be many or of the quality you want. You might live in an area with a low volume of women on dating apps etc. Becoming fit is a great goal. If you want to d…
/r/seduction16/12/25 12:59 AM
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Just don't fall into the trap of setting too many expectations too high. To seduce women you don't necessarily need to have everything in order. Furthermore, if your goals are casual relationships, you should actually start going on dates now, if not already to practice your skills.
/r/seduction16/12/25 12:44 AM
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Try online dating, but try not to give off the desperation.
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:22 PM
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The sad part of this is that, as a man, you are never allowed to be weak, to feel not ok, to be insecure and so on. You are, if you're confident about it.
/r/seduction11/07/25 06:43 PM
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lol
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:37 PM
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I don't have any friends who share the same interest
/r/seduction08/05/25 01:17 PM
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Congrats, dude. I struggle with the idea of going out only by myself. Do you usually go out by yourself? Do you prefer loud or quiet bar places in such situations? Do you have any other tips about going out solo?
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:15 PM
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How does one lEaRn body language?
/r/seduction27/02/25 06:22 AM
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Find Honest Signalz on Youtube. Dude is balding and not an issue. His game is off the charts.
/r/seduction16/12/24 08:56 AM
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Since he's a dating coach that is what he does. Not the worst way to spend a day but for an average working person it is not completely managable.
/r/seduction17/11/24 08:00 PM
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Okay, dude. It's all about looks.
/r/seduction31/10/24 08:24 PM
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I love how all comments suggest either gym or meditation. We just don't have the tools for a fast confidence boost. You'll have to work it out yourself. What gives you peace of mind? For me it is financial stability, being fit and as good-looking as possible, and being independent. So it is very hard for me to be in a confident state all the time.
/r/seduction31/10/24 01:08 PM
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They're not that much above average in looks, especially Julien. Still, I suggested the hot seat because it's really good and really motivates you. Tyler's hot seat is great too, although I have an older version. The best approach is to watch a few videos to get motivated and then go out and start approaching, rather than getting lost in an endless loop of content.
/r/seduction31/10/24 10:01 AM
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Search on Yandex RSD Max Hotseat. It's a treasure.
/r/seduction31/10/24 08:06 AM
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Bowling alley.
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:09 AM
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That is a difficult thing to determine about a person. You can check how caring she is when you're feeling sick or tell her that you earn minimum wage at the beginning of the relationship. Both are situations where she could demonstrate unconditional affection even though she doesn't have to do it.
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:07 AM
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Flip the script technique?
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:01 AM
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Yes, but calibrate. If it is an initial hug, it doesn't matter. Just hug her in the way you find the most comfortable. The hug itself is irrelevant. The important thing is that it conveys that you're a physical person and that she is open to hugging you. For it to not be out of the blue, you should flirt and keep things playful. Tease her. She has to be responsive to that first to get physical. Now physical evaluation should also be gradual, ie kino escalation (google it). You shouldn't have a w…
/r/seduction29/10/24 03:32 PM
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No. It seems easier to approach and socialize when someone like-minded is doing the same.
/r/seduction29/10/24 08:05 AM
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Ok
/r/seduction05/07/24 07:08 PM
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If you don't know her in person and you're not in the same circles then DMing her is your best bet but if it doesn't work out then that is how it is.
/r/seduction15/06/24 06:01 PM
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Do you leave close? Do you know same people? Try with that. Besides that try commentint on her stories or live a fun life and she might do it. But if that doesn't work move on.
/r/seduction15/06/24 04:41 PM
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No, I'm joking since he's trolling.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:24 PM
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No, is that even possible? But I've seen girls though. They do in fact exist, just like skinny guys.
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:54 PM
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Better we all go to the gym right now then.
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:50 PM
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You've never seen skinny guy having a girlfriend?
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:46 PM
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Do both.
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:41 PM
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I'm not a believer in tricking yourself but eventually, through success, you get a positive experience that reinforces the belief that you are good enough. Also, some herbs and drugs can get you less anxious, and by that more confident.
/r/seduction28/05/24 12:11 PM
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Faking it can come across as desperate and tryhard especially if you unconsciously emit the low confidence that you have internally.
/r/seduction28/05/24 10:47 AM
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This.
/r/seduction21/02/24 03:58 PM
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Watch Playing with Fire on YouTube and you'll get better instantly.
/r/seduction21/02/24 01:58 PM
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You should apologize only if you feel sorry and/or feel you did something wrong. So no need to apologize in this case. The other thing is that you're overthinking this. Try to get her on the phone or commit to some meetup. You can ping the value from time to time if you have something interesting to share; she should be investing in the conversation too; lastly, texting is just a tool to get a date, no need to try that hard to keep some arbitrary flow forever.
/r/seduction11/02/24 06:51 PM
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Then escalate, she'll say: What are you doing stepbrother?
/r/seduction10/02/24 05:17 PM
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Learn theory here. Don't become a robot, don't go into a rabbit hole without practicing by approaching girls, but learn the theory.
/r/seduction08/02/24 10:19 AM
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So, you doubt yourself and consciously sabotage your efforts when there's a chance to move things forward. I suggest introspection and perhaps talking to a therapist. I can't advise you on how to overcome walking away after telling a girl she's beautiful. You've already taken the hard step by stating your intent, and there's nothing to lose by asking for her number. If you experience cold feet, figuring out how to overcome it is crucial. Until you address the underlying issues, it's challenging …
/r/seduction03/02/24 01:30 PM
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Flipping the script also. She's the aggresor, she wants to seduce you.
/r/seduction14/01/24 06:46 PM
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No. They are interested in you if they're on a date with you. Women don't usually escalate, so you need to continuously do that. The reason they didn't like your advances is because of the frames you were setting before touching them. If you were flirty and sexual and teased them before trying to touch them, they wouldn't feel weirded out by that. There are things called 'provider-lover' frame and 'beta shaming'. Check that out.
/r/seduction09/01/24 04:33 PM
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