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You are in control of how much you work and earn so be grateful that women can start to notice you in your 30s when you get more established.
/r/MensRights08/08/26 08:55 PM
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💯
/r/MensRights04/08/26 07:41 AM
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🙄
/r/MensRights01/08/26 04:37 AM
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Now now, be civil. Pretend we’ve just debated at the Oxford Union. Move on.
/r/MensRights01/08/26 04:34 AM
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Good luck with your future endeavours championing what you believe is best for boys and men. We’d probably agree on a lot of other topics. On this topic, I believe we’ll simply have to agree to disagree. Good day to you sir.
/r/MensRights01/08/26 04:28 AM
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I’m saying a significant proportion of men out there are horny beasts to varying levels and that most will take it from women if it is offered gratuitously.
/r/MensRights01/08/26 04:25 AM
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Well, I’m questioning your interpretation of the situation with your friend because he was your friend and you’re admittedly very involved in this situation, so you may be too emotionally invested to be able to step back and objectively assess the situation. Like if someone killed my friend for example, then I’m not going to have the same clarity when assessing the facts of what happened because my emotions are clouding my judgement. I wasn’t going to say that because I didn’t want to hurt your …
/r/MensRights01/08/26 04:00 AM
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A handful of those studies were interesting as they looked at specifically women having sex with underage boys. Those are the relevant ones here to this arguement. (I said a man having sex with a boy would be very traumatising already.) So those studies where it was specifically boys and women had very small samples of boys interviewed (single digits). I’d bet that there’d be 10x that number of boys who it’s happened to just the same way as the study participants, but those majority of boys (pro…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 03:49 AM
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You are attacking my character or traits by saying I am a ‘sick man’ or whatever for having a different opinion to you. Saying I’m a sick person doesn’t address the argument constructively at all. It just makes you feel morally superior.
/r/MensRights01/08/26 03:45 AM
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Yeah, I heard of the PNG thing and that feels morally wrong to me. If the rite of passage was that the boy had to fuck one of the female villagers though, I don’t think many people would feel anywhere near the same level of disgust. Sad for your friend. Again, why you saying I’m like his father? You don’t even know me and I’m pretty sure you don’t know the full details of what living with his father was like. The dad may have been abusive in other ways. And who knows what mental demons your frie…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 03:40 AM
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No study that hypothesised that boys who were sexually intimate with an adult woman when they were 12 years old would get funded or approved by an ethics board. You’re not going to see that data. And people who experienced it and didn’t have a problem with it, are probably not even going to report it. So you’re looking at a small sample of boys who (sadly) couldn’t cope with the rite of passage at that age. Maybe those boys needed more time to mature before they were ready. Maybe for some, they’…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 03:25 AM
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Again, the ad hominens are a waste of time and pure mental masturbation and virtue signalling to get upvotes. I’m trying to have a debate with you. When a man is involved in any sort of rape or molestation of a child or woman or other man, I see that as bad and criminal. Similarly, if a woman molested a little girl, that’s also bad and should be criminally punished. All of that I agree with you. Now we’re getting somewhere. The only part I disagree on is that a 12 year old boy being able to fuck…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 03:09 AM
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Why go at me with ad hominems like ‘clearly there’s something wrong with you’ — just debate rationally like a man would, A boy is different to a man, but the difference between a 12 year old boy and a man is less significant than the difference between a 12 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. If a boy was raped by a man, then yes, that’s bad and the man should be in prison for a long time, same as if he raped a girl child. The argument I’ve been making this entire threat is that a woman can’t r…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 03:03 AM
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Because i see women as the weaker sex and men as the stronger sex, especially when it comes to physical prowess and sexual intimacy. Like I said, even as an adult, I don’t think a woman could ‘rape’ me. What would that even look like? She ties me to a chair and forces me to be a human dildo? Yeah, that’s not gonna really traumatise me, and that’s like worst case scenario. On the hand, if a woman was tied up and raped, that’s awful and shocking. Edit: as a man, when you were a boy, did you not wa…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 02:55 AM
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Well, are you a woman? Because if you are, I’ll just assume you have never lived with male hormones and a male brain and I’ll stop arguing with you because you’re not gonna understand. If you are a man, then I’ll keep this going because I’m genuinely curious about what you’re misunderstanding about my point. Edit: yes if my daughter was bragging about an older boyfriend I’d have issues with that. If my son had an older girlfriend, I’d prob say “just don’t get her pregnant” because that could gen…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 02:44 AM
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I think probably because I see the act of men putting their penis into a woman as less invasive than a man putting his penis into a woman. By your logic, I was ‘raped’ when I was 23 and I has fooling around with a lady and she grabbed my penis and put it in raw. Did I feel a bit weird about that? Kind of — I was worried about STDs. But once I was clean I just tell it as a funny story that happened to me amongst my friends. If a man sticks his penis into a woman unannounced, then that’s much more…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 02:42 AM
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Of course it has to do with my lived experience because I remember what it’s like to be a 12 year old boy and I’m pretty sure I could have handled it mentally if an adult woman seduced me and had sex with me at that age. I’m pretty confident it wouldn’t have messed me up. At the very least, nowhere near as damaging as if a man raped a 12 year old girl. I really feel like I’m speaking to a woman here or at least a low-testosterone male.
/r/MensRights01/08/26 02:28 AM
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I didn’t delete any posts of mine from this thread. Good example you have: so my first instinct with my 11 or 12 year old son would be to talk to him and ask him about why he’s sad and crying about this situation. I doubt he’s going to say, “I just felt so violated!” He’s prob crying because everyone told him he did something bad and the hysteria over it. Of course the woman who did it, should lose her job, because it crossed the professional boundary. But I don’t think she’d deserve doing hard …
/r/MensRights01/08/26 02:26 AM
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8 years old is too young. I’m thinking back to when I was a male child, and probably around 11 or 12 is when I started being attracted to the women teachers at my school. That obviously accelerated when I was 13-14 in high school. Strangely enough, I was more attracted to the adult women teachers at school than the girls my age. The adult staff had more mature personalities and more fully developed bodies. I’m basing this purely on my lived experience as a 12 year old boy and the lived experienc…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 02:20 AM
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The physical power imbalance between a little girl and an adult man is completely different to a 12 year old boy and an average adult woman. So I don’t see it as being nearly as bad.
/r/MensRights01/08/26 02:01 AM
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If you have a problem with people raping children, come at the Muslim community before you come at me. I’m saying that if a man raped a child (eg Mohammed and Aaisha) that would be far worse than if a woman had sex with a 12 year old boy. Do you think those things are equally as bad or one is worse than the other? Put it this way: if a woman raped my 12 year old son by letting him fuck her, I’d think it was weird and gonna lead to more headaches than it’s worth. So I would discourage my son from…
/r/MensRights01/08/26 01:59 AM
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Why tf would one of those boys grow up believing they’re entitled to sex any more than any one else? They got lucky once with their teacher —> I don’t see the pipeline to those boys becoming full grown male rapists.
/r/MensRights01/08/26 12:37 AM
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wtf is sacred golden vagina sentiments? Every woman has one, so why would it be sacred vagina energy or whatever you’re talking about
/r/MensRights01/08/26 12:36 AM
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I’m just trying to be honest and not virtue signal. If you go outside and talk to people not on reddit, you will get different responses to the echo chamber in this thread.
/r/MensRights01/08/26 12:34 AM
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No need to spoon feed me. I’m just a regular citizen, voter and man who feels compassion for the modern Man, and I’m having a hard time genuinely agreeing with the arguments about woman/boy rape. I’m about as far along as to believe that it would be harmful to some boys. But absolutely not all.
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:57 PM
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Sound arguments about what’s the law. What I mainly disagree with is that it’s desperate men or whatever who are the ones that need that validation or whatever. I can tell you now, as a man with an eclectic friendship group/s, if this happened to one of the male friends sitting around at a table for lunch as adults, the guy telling the story about how he fucked his female teacher would make him popular and admired by many of his male friends. And he’d prob feel pretty proud of it too. I genuinel…
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:54 PM
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What if you’re not a gooner or whatever, but you believe the moral comparison of a woman ‘raping’ a by a boy being as bad as a man raping a girl as absurd? I think if you asked a lot of men out there in the world, you’d have at least 1 in 3 say they wished it had happened to them when they were in school. It’s just another example of how men and women are different. Just like men don’t really care if a cute girl is poor or doesn’t have a career, but for alot of women that would be a deal breaker…
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:33 PM
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In your linked articles does it distinguish between boys being sexually abused by men or women? I’m sorry, I agree it would be traumatic for a boy to be raped by a man — totally agree with that. But if an adult woman allows a boy to thrust his penis inside her repeatedly, I don’t think that’s going to be damaging for the majority of boys who’ve had that experience with an older woman. Maybe a handful. But certainly not the norm I believe.
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:27 PM
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So I’m a moral monster even if I’m a man who cares more about men’s issues than women’s issues (they have their own supporters), but I don’t think that those boys will be traumatised from the experience and they’ll probably be fine? All I can say is I’m sorry that you feel that way.
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:23 PM
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Sensible words based in reality.
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:19 PM
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Victims of what thought?
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:18 PM
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Internalised misandry — you reckon? If anything, I get criticised more in real life for misogynistic comments occasionally.
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:14 PM
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That would be far worse.
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:13 PM
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I just don’t think it would be as damaging for a boy to be ‘raped’ by an adult woman as much as it would traumatise a woman having the same done by a man. Most other things I say that if a man did it and it would be considered bad, then if a woman does it, then it’s also equally as bad. But on this specific topic, I don’t think it’s the same big deal as if a male teacher was grooming female students. The woman will ‘let the boy fuck her’; it’s not the same as a man violently putting something in…
/r/MensRights31/07/26 01:12 PM
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What on earth are you talking about? My whole point is that I don’t believe this was one of the awful things that a woman could do.
/r/MensRights31/07/26 10:42 AM
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/r/MensRights31/07/26 10:36 AM
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They made their beds, now lay in it. The feminists wanted to work, now they have to work.
/r/MensRights29/07/26 08:09 AM
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Yeah, go where you’re appreciated. If you got your western education and $$$ or €€€ then get out there and go to whichever place (country) you do well in. Just be mindful of the vultures eyeing off your money. But the western women do that too.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 08:05 AM
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She’s been triggered by something another man has done to her in her life which she associates the with the sound of men shouting.
/r/MensRights09/06/26 06:08 AM
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The price of pussy has gone up beyond wages and men are opting out from the product.
/r/MensRights23/05/26 04:19 PM
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I like the idea of that. And it sounds like utopia. But in my experience being a bouncer in the past, there’s 1% or so of people can’t help but be a nuisance, be aggressive to others or make women feel uncomfortable. So even if no wars or anything like that, you still a level of warrior class of people who can’t keep that 1% of psychos in line. Then if you extrapolate that in a group of only like 100 people, you can see how it quickly becomes an human ego driven thing who wants to be top dog and…
/r/MensRights22/05/26 10:03 PM
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About the point re: creating a society where men aren’t the load-bearing stoic warriors. I don’t think you will ever change that because our biology is just too much wired that way. If there was a war or contest to determine who are the most badass warriors in society who have the ability to wipe the other tribes out, i think it’ll always be the tribes where men play those stoic warrior roles. And if a society doesn’t have men to play those roles, then the other societies where the men are stoic…
/r/MensRights22/05/26 07:53 AM
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Where has it ever existed and worked beyond the situation where there’s a female matriarch by birth who is thrust into power and basically groomed for the role by other men her whole life? Yeah, like Queen Elizabeth II and even Queen Victoria both ran the place pretty well, but these are lone figures in a sea of male leaders throughout history. So I suppose it could be possible, but highly unlikely a matriarchal society thrives and even survives long term (maybe like 100+ years). Men would just …
/r/MensRights22/05/26 07:44 AM
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This lady should ask what some of the new immigrants think about the role of the woman in dating and marriage. Just ask the Islamist and Hindus what they generally believe about dating.
/r/MensRights21/05/26 07:31 AM
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Honestly dude, the divorce sucked. Not gonna lie. You open yourself up to someone and they’re meant to be the person you plan your whole future with, but then it’s just gone and you gotta restart the game. You can take it one of two ways though: 1 = be depressed about it and feel like she was the only woman in the world, or 2 = accept that it was a nice experience while it lasted but nothing is forever and just get back to doing the things that make you happy, and then when you’re ready, go back…
/r/MensRights20/05/26 02:30 PM
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I feel similar to you bloke. Aussie too and looking outward for the next frontier and trying out something new. Was thinking of going to live in Cambodia for a bit and just earn less by transitioning to online work. But should be fine in such a low COL country. Just sick of the bs in Melbourne these days!
/r/MensRights20/05/26 02:09 PM
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Play a team sport with other men (it’s more rewarding for monkey brain than you’d expect) or if you want a female companion, then find a gf and go play tennis with her or some shit. She’ll be happy to do those sorts of bonding activities with you. You really gotta act like a parent with a lot of women: take them out and give them attention and do activities with them. They love that shit.
/r/MensRights20/05/26 02:05 PM
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Just make it for yourself even, dude! Document the creative process you go through. I agree with you that being the average young man in the 21st century is peasant life when you start out, but you can at least get to a point where you’re more interesting in your niche than most guys. And if you do that you’ll be able to have enough money to get some good girls, nice food, bit of recreational drugs / alcohol or travel. That’s what I’ve tried to do at least. I’m 35 now and been married, divorced,…
/r/MensRights20/05/26 01:57 PM
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What do you enjoy in life? Surely there must be some things.
/r/MensRights20/05/26 10:05 AM
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I see what you’re saying, and it MIGHT work out. But I also see several women in my (female dominated) workplace where they were very attractive and desirable in their 20s but just left it too long waiting for Mr Perfect to come along and before they knew it they were mid 30s and looking at freezing their eggs without any sign of a boyfriend let alone husband yet.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/26 03:15 PM
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Taking no action is an action itself when time continues to tick by. If you’re worried, you need to do something to change your situation.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/26 03:12 PM
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All in vain because everyone knows men are seen as the oppressors in Australia. Especially white men.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 03:42 AM
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That was the beginning of the end so to speak
/r/MensRights03/05/26 06:20 AM
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It’s already starting. Millenial women are first to experience this en masse. I think prob comes down to social media and modern feminism.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 03:06 AM
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Will it apply to the grooming gangs though?
/r/MensRights02/05/26 01:00 PM
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I think it’s natural, but some cultures and societies are trying to actively unteach it which appears to me unnatural and a bad thing
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/26 02:27 PM
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Very hard for a man to be in a long distance relationship and not watch porn; he’s basically still in the mode of being open to sex (with OP) but then has to completely turn it off when she’s not around. So he 90% still probably watches but is trying to make you feel better by saying he doesn’t. But the bigger issue is that you and him just don’t seem very compatible. You don’t like doing the sexual things he does (which is fair enough) but because he already likes that stuff, he may find being …
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/26 12:08 AM
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Yep. So for me, I’m like “do I stay in the game and keep fighting the good fight or do I just walk away from all the bs and leave the toxic world of public education? 🤔 feels like I’ve done my time in a way, but also feel like I’m Doing a good thing
/r/MensRights11/03/26 05:46 AM
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Absolutely agree. It feels like we’re going through something like a 2nd Industrial Revolution and no one knows what the job market will look like in 10-20 years which is what my current students will be faced with.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 08:00 PM
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I teach primary school, so it’s a little easier for me as I tell the kids I’m just teaching them basic reading writing and maths skills. If I was in high school and kids came to me with that concern, I would 100% empathise with them. I’d probably tell them to just try to do well to keep their options open and to try to enjoy the learning process. For some boys, I’d try to tap into their competitive side and get them to treat it like a game and try to have the bragging rights of getting a top sco…
/r/MensRights10/03/26 04:09 PM
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Ok, so I’m a male primary school teacher who went to university and completed 3 degrees. I’ll tell you what I believe is the reason for boys ‘falling behind’ in the education system: A lot of boys find that it is difficult to follow the process and structure of school compared to girls. The girls I teach are often much more compliant and willing to try to please the teacher, whereas the boys generally want to get their work done, do well but then get it out of the way. School doesn’t really oper…
/r/MensRights10/03/26 02:20 PM
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What percent of the population do you believe are actually trans kids? Do you accept that more people are treated as being trans kids (like you claim OP was) vs the number who actually are trans kids?
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/26 01:34 AM
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I’m really happy to hear your perspective. I’m a 34 year old male and I take testosterone now for (let’s be honest) athletic performance and the confidence it gives me. And that was SO hard to get legitimately from a doctor, and I have to go through a TRT clinic where I pay full (inflated) price for my shit. Still, I figure it’s cheaper than Ozempic and I like the muscle gains and energy. I’m still aware that it’s probably doing something bad for my health even though my blood work is good, but …
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 11:37 PM
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Yeah, they might exist, but it’s like giving a depressed kid opioids because they will kill themselves without it. The damage it could do (life long dependence on medication) vs trying to counsel them out of their dysphoria is a much more kind approach long term. Just look at what OP is now having to go through, and she was already 15 when she started. So at least wasn’t a child in the sense of some people who want to start puberty blockers and the like from age 8 or 9.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 11:30 PM
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Crazy they allowed you to get on testosterone at 15 but men wanting it for muscle gains struggle to get even TRT. If I were you, I’d focus on being a gym girl. Heaps of guys find that attractive and you prob will find a husband who thinks you being muscular is hot. And have long hair of course.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 07:51 AM
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We’ve always figured it out and made the best of bad situations. We’re already bouncing back against feminism itself; the ideology which embodies disliking men. Most reasonable men AND WOMEN now say “No” when asked if they’re a feminist.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 11:45 AM
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Man, they were handed fucking STAR WARS and somehow managed to make that not must-see viewing.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 10:30 AM
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When will all this shit end? It’s so tiresome 😩 I hope the west can make it
/r/MensRights03/01/26 07:45 PM
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Hope you gave a scathing review of the unit on the end of semester feedback form
/r/MensRights03/01/26 07:43 PM
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Wow, this is the most important thing to target in schools now, is it? Well, they better make sure they go after those who are actually most misogynistic: adherents of ‘the religion of peace’.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 08:20 PM
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Equal rights, equal lefts!! 💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♂️
/r/MensRights16/11/25 01:16 PM
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Why not date an average guy in his 30s? There’s many of them in America.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 10:26 AM
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Don’t over think this: he noticed something about you that he liked. He didn’t force you to say the thing that made his face light up; you were already OK with that. Also, a marriage that is convenient for both people I believe has more chance of working out than one just based on pure passion and desire. You can have passion and desire when dating, but once living together EVERY DAY you need someone you’re compatible (ie convenient person to live with) with so that you don’t want to escape from…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 10:13 AM
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Mentally ill folks (sadly) living in echo chambers online. What an awful situation. I hope they can come through it and have a happy life in the end.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/25 03:14 PM
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So he’s being a ‘gentleman’ and not putting any moves on you which might make you feel uncomfortable, yet he’s still willing to keep seeing you? He sounds like a very genuine guy; don’t blow this!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/25 12:29 AM
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You were unemployed for 4 months and then started picking fights about silly things. That was possibly the beginning of the end. From my perspective, I believe he’s distancing himself with you and wants to break up. He probably has some residual feelings for you which makes it so he can’t let go completely as easily, so he proposed the break. I would say that if he finds that he feels ok not contacting you for the week, then yep, he’ll be gone. But if over the course of the week he misses you an…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 12:26 AM
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Why do you care? It sounded like you weren’t that in to him anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 12:10 AM
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A lot of mainstream people aren’t ready for Gen Z boys to become men. They’ve grown up being told that they’re bad just because they’re men, masculinity is toxic etc etc. Add to that the lack of well paying jobs, the struggle to enter the housing market and limited dating options and it’s a recipe for unrest as these young men will feel like “I have nothing therefore I have nothing to lose so let’s burn it all down.” I’m a Millenial (33) so I was a bit luckier in terms of being able to buy a pro…
/r/MensRights06/09/25 10:02 PM
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Basically same concept of going for the girls who are more interested in you than you are interested in them: those girls usually treat you better than the ones who think you are lucky to have them.
/r/MensRights31/08/25 08:53 PM
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Unless you find someone who it actually feels like you want to have a child and family with, then it’s too higher risk for limited reward for men.
/r/MensRights06/08/25 08:45 PM
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It probably happened to your dad too. Crazy how this is still a thing in 2025 though for real.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 11:37 AM
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Cart before the horse: the girls already did that and instead of boys aiming for and reaching the lofty demands, many just decided to check out from Dating all together.
/r/MensRights12/07/25 02:06 AM
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Absolutely right. And I think 30-ish is the turning point where the perpetual hunters (average dudes) start to become the hunted as the 30+ girls start wanting to settle down and have babies. Feels like it happened to me almost exactly this way.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 07:23 AM
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Shit yeah! This is the sort of cause I would want to actually get behind!
/r/MensRights03/07/25 09:09 PM
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💯 Say anything that’s true but doesn’t fit the narrative and you’ll be down voted to hell.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 12:52 PM
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All he needs to do is go for a walk around Melbourne CBD after midnight if he wants to see some men being assaulted.
/r/MensRights02/06/25 04:25 AM
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What would be top 3 euro countries for more fair laws for men and fathers ?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:36 AM
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DV in Australia can mean from a man beating his partner to death to him saying bad words to her in an argument. Both of these are called DV. There should be more nuance on what warrants the legal system getting involved.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 10:31 AM
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It’s certainly not easy mode! But I’ve never been a woman, so maybe the alternative is even worse 😬
/r/MensRights16/05/25 09:25 AM
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Men 100% carry a bigger mental load at all times. No one cares about men’s mental health, poverty, suicide rates, etc. If a man falls off the edge, there’s way less support for him compared to if a woman does
/r/MensRights15/05/25 12:46 AM
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It’s like the thought process is: “Hey, what are they doing in there? What are we missing out on??” Instead of making their own group or club or whatever where they can do their thing. Pretty sure women don’t want their spaces invaded by men (eg women’s gyms) but men have to allow women into every single one of their spaces which might be considered a private retreat.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 04:00 AM
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It’s not as simple as that but I can see where people may have given that impression. I think the core of saying ‘women hit the wall at 30’ means that she’s no longer in her prime after 30. This is somewhat true in terms of attractiveness and fertility. Also, it’s pointed out as a turning point as at about 30 a significant number of men start to come into their prime. So the point that when men and women both turn 30 is like a point where their peak attractiveness converges. So this essentially …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 07:50 AM
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Interesting. Thanks for explaining. So it’s similar to when a woman ‘ices you out’ and just gives you no emotion either positive or negative?
/r/MensRights03/05/25 07:43 AM
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What does ‘grey rock’ mean?
/r/MensRights02/05/25 02:56 PM
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OP, here’s the relationship status tier list: Being in a relationship with someone you want to date (top tier and almost euphoric in some cases). Being happily single (also very good and can be better than option 1 for some people). Being single and lonely (most of the time it’ll be good but sometimes you wish you had someone). Being in a relationship where you feel trapped (worst KMS feeling tier you could be in). Based on that, don’t force it with these fat girls if you’re not interested in th…
/r/MensRights28/04/25 07:59 PM
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Crazy how circumcision is still allowed to happen in the developed world 😞
/r/MensRights28/04/25 05:03 AM
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Haha well, time to find a new hang out 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/MensRights26/04/25 03:23 AM
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You’re doing good stuff and contributing positively to the discourse! Ideally, men & women are best when we’re working together for a more prosperous future for our children.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 12:03 AM
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Nah nah, your post didn’t sound like you were blaming men for a lack of communication. I think your post was right on the money and a well needed insight. I think I was just drawing the contrast between typically men’s subs vs typical women’s subs when it comes to having open dialogue. But what you’ve posted here is both introspective and very helpful!
/r/MensRights24/04/25 07:00 PM
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Hopefully this is just a rare slip up from you and not a pattern of behavior OP and you’ve learned your lesson. Good luck in your relationship 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/25 04:36 PM
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Couldn’t agree more! 👏 Only thing I would ask is that if you posted your same post to TwoXChromo or AskWomen, what would the response be? You’d absolutely be shot down. So I think the main issue is the feminists and man haters not wanting to work together with us men.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 04:27 PM
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I can see more and more men banding together to fight against the misandry before feminists have the introspection to realise they could do something about it. As a millenial, working in schools, I can see that Gen Z men are coming and they’re not happy. Especially if the economy continues to not give them much of a shot. They’ll feel they have nothing to lose and things don’t remain peaceful when young men feel like they have nothing to lose.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 03:18 PM
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Yes, the west in general is messed up in that way. I’m looking more like Asia and beyond.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 02:07 PM
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Having boundaries
/r/MensRights23/04/25 09:34 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that bro. Please try to find some things you enjoy doing and prioritise that in your life. DM if you want to chat.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 02:18 AM
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No, you’ll have more disposable income if you don’t chase women or get married. Honestly, my life would be less complicated if I didn’t still have the need for feminine energy in my life in the form of a partner. I admire the MGTOW guys in many ways. You can just focus on doing what makes YOU happy 🙂
/r/MensRights23/04/25 01:46 AM
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The good thing is you’re free to do that! And you’ll prob have more disposable income and freedom than the rest of us here holding onto a dream of one day finding a woman to have a family with. 🥲
/r/MensRights23/04/25 01:31 AM
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If you want a good woman, you need to be out of an environment (ie the US) which incentivises women’s bad behavior. Of course they’ll divorce you and take your assets if they’re able to do so with no downside. Imagine you’re some women who is lazy and has a below average IQ — what could be an easier way of making $500k other than dating a guy for a few years, have a kid (which she wanted anyway) and then divorcing the father within 3 years?? It’s the perfect scam. And the US court system enables…
/r/MensRights23/04/25 01:15 AM
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The feminists have been sheltered from real conflict and oppression for so long they came up with a fake bogeyman called the Patriarchy. Watch them abandon those feminist views when things become more competitive and dog eat dog, like during a war or significant economic downturn. The only reason the whole feminist narrative hasn’t collapsed or at least been ignored entirely is that there hasn’t been a genuine threat of oppression towards the western feminists in their life time.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 01:12 AM
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Seems less bad if Dems aren’t voted for as I got the sense that their rhetoric was more openly anti-men.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 01:09 AM
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I’m convinced that women aren’t on average as successful as men because other women tell each other comforting lies instead of uncomfortable truths.
/r/MensRights22/04/25 02:39 PM
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They won’t care regardless my friend. Just do what you want to do and what’s important to you (eg helping out your family). In my experience, women who are interested in you won’t care if you’re lazy or not. Unless they like you, you’re invisible to them anyway.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 03:31 AM
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Who cares bro. Just do what you want to do. If you’re blamed for being lazy and not wanting to work then so be it!!
/r/MensRights21/04/25 02:48 AM
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Probably better dating overseas where the divorce laws / laws in general aren’t so skewed against men.
/r/MensRights20/04/25 08:48 AM
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Totally true. And same with race politics as well. Most of polite society in the 90s and early 2000s had largely put racism and sexism behind them. But making boys or whites out to be ‘oppressors’ based on immutable characteristics regardless of whether the individual themselves has done anything wrong will of course lead to pushback. Then some of those pushing back will of course embrace it all too hard and push back too far (to the point of hating all women or hating all those from different b…
/r/MensRights20/04/25 06:59 AM
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Wow! Thanks for your honesty. Why do you think the cousin marriage thing is common there?
/r/MensRights19/04/25 08:00 AM
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What’s the deal with the claims I hear about inbreeding within the Pakistani Muslim community? You hear about this and then I’ve seen footage of parents with disabled children because allegedly the the parents were first cousins.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 01:45 AM
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Turn away from that lifestyle and hopefully the men you want to meet in future don’t ask too much about your past / aren’t too interested in your past. If it really was a mistake and you want to put it behind you, then do exactly that and don’t act or think like that person you were before.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 06:10 AM
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I would say MGTOW is a broad church and there are some men who avoid women entirely but there are also MGTOW men who just see it as not committing to or cohabitating with a woman. Either works depending on the person.
/r/MensRights12/04/25 04:49 AM
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More just removing themselves from the dating scene. Some MGTOW guys will still see pros and might even engage in hook ups, but they definitely won’t seriously date. Some MGTOW choose to just avoid women in every situation they can, even beyond dating.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 10:17 AM
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The only work these men should be doing is creating their own start ups or working for themselves where they feel they’re invested and not likely to get told they’re harassing or mansplaining to women.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 07:49 AM
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I think you’re not an incel because you’re not involuntarily celibate. Maybe you’re a volcel because you’re voluntarily avoiding women / going MGTOW. All of the above are totally reasonable positions to be in. I do suggest though that you reflect and hopefully come to not hate women generally. There are a lot of women out there who are good and decent and that I would consider friends. Yes, some of them might have messed up and annoying views, but equally you’ll see there are some men like that …
/r/MensRights11/04/25 07:10 AM
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I strived to be a better man. I was a feminist. * It’s all a process of maturing, sir. You can’t ignore reality in the face of ideological beliefs. Despite it being an uncomfortable realisation, I think you’ll be happier now having accepted what is.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 06:16 PM
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I would say a lot of left wing people ‘accept you’ because you’re on their ‘team’. But if you disagree with them on something, they’ll prob disown you and consider you a traitor. Alternatively, if you have just regular moderate or conservative male friends, they prob aren’t that interested in what you do in your private life. I have gay friends as a more moderate/conservative guy and I don’t really care what they do privately. I’m more interested in knowing if they’re a chill dude who I can trus…
/r/MensRights08/04/25 03:46 AM
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Male teacher here: school has become a left-wing echo chamber. Only some of the oldies (50+) are moderate or conservative in my experience
/r/MensRights08/04/25 03:42 AM
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She chose to leave. Either that’s better for her and you need to work on yourself. Or she left and she’s gonna be miserable that she did leave you, in which case you’re not here to save these girls (they don’t want to be saved).
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 08:44 AM
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Social calibration, specifically in relation to initiating sexual behaviour from women is a tool you really do need to keep sharp.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 08:41 AM
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These sort of men need to realise that they are actually objectively in the top 25% of men or whatever and there are other more fucked up dudes who do have girlfriends. I think for this dude, once he gets one, then the flood gates could open. Your mindset shifts and you go from thinking you can’t pull it off to feeling like you can’t miss. I remember in like 2018 I was feeling like I was gonna never be able to pull decent women despite having several quality female friends around me. One trip I …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 08:39 AM
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