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Lurker9898/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:11 AM
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golden!
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 04:09 AM
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MGTOW have dolls, post-wall hags have dogs... hahaha!
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 04:08 AM
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Whatever floats your boat. Bargaining with girls is a slippery slope anyways. Better be sure than play the bitch expert part.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:41 AM
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Well, I guess the open relationship is meant to appeal to swinger couples or just willing men who actually fuck other people on the side but it usually just ends up in cuckoldry. Even if the guy gets another woman to sleep with in an open relationship she'll most likely call off the open-relationship and go back to cheating in the shadows because it's a scam. It's not supposed to hook the guy up. It's supposed to make her cheating official while staying in the money of her actual BF. Only cucks …
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:38 AM
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Sounds like a girl that changes men like clothes for the mildest inconveniences. You need to cut her loose. Also, she wasn't giving you sex before so why you putting up with her? The things she's done for you before is all you'll be getting. If you want a better deal I say next the bitch and keep shopping for a better girl. > Is there a second chance with this type of stuff? Maybe, depending on what's convenient for her based on when things don't go for her favor. That might not be anywhere soon…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:33 AM
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Also, being a dominant asshole 24/7 isn't always needed if you're in a successful long-term relationship. Sometimes she just bitches at you for no reason and you need to learn to defuse the situation. Maybe she had a bad day and wants to chill while you do all the housework or something. Anything, ask her. This is an opportunity to defuse the situation and say "what do you want?" And she might just stop with the thing that she was complaining about and maybe float around what needs to be done. Y…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:25 AM
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I can see it as a possibility. It can just be something women say in general to avoid responsibility or when they want to manipulate men. Say a guy wants to join his mates on a fishing trips and she gets pissed because she doesn't get to have him for 100% of the time. She only gets 80% which is still pretty fucking good, considering they live together. But then she activates her trap card to unload the blame game and say "you never do this and you always do this..." In order to make the guy feel…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:13 AM
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I'm not gonna go anywhere if I keep making excuses like that to myself. Dude, it's 4th of July, not your casual monday. I always felt I should be doing something else with my time. It's more like I was forcing myself. Okay, you didn't make this clear in your post. I understand. Cut ties with him.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:00 AM
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Sex doesn't make a man fulfilled. Passionate hobbies makes a man feeling fulfilled. Doing something important. For me, it's art. I feel fulfilled when I learn to do it. Find out what you like to do. Each man has to define that for themselves. This is what the MGTOW focus on when they walk away from the relationship game. They find out what they want to do in life and they go do it. Because this is the red-pill stuff we talking about.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:23 AM
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Hard to say. Friendship isn't always about being similar or being the same. Are you having fun together? Do you enjoy the company of each other? Those are the more important things. I find it hard to believe that the guy is somehow plotting to waste OP's time. Ask him why isn't he hanging out with other friends. Maybe his friends all have other plans. The only proper reason to not being his friend would be if you don't like him anymore. I mean, it's the 4th of July. It's just one day and you don…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:19 AM
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What is this even about? We only hung three times? Is she seeing other guys in a relationship or what? Because it looks like she's changing the topic into something hurtful the guy said. Either this is about cheating or the guy screwed up at negging :P
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:12 AM
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The innermost well of dominance comes from the internal wants, desires and values of the man himself. Basically act like how you would without a girl. Where do you want to go that day, what do you want to eat and where? What do you want to do? What needs to be taken care of? Shit like that. Now, introduce woman into that equation to challenge all of that. She wants to go eat at a place you can't afford. She wants to drag you to a clothes store for hours and make you listen to her daily bitching …
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:02 AM
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I think that I read from a red-pill source that feminism causes stress and anxiety on girls. It might also be their body-image or just the teenage period itself.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:42 AM
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Who's to say, really? It depends on what you value. If you just want to focus on, improving and enjoying your own life and don't value sex, there's not much cause to mess around with girls. If you hold pussy high on the pedestal of priorities and long-term goals, then eventually you will be hunting for sexy ladies. You should always keep in mind that they want you because you have that nice car, paycheck and all things that can potentially be theirs to enjoy. Once that well runs dry, they're hun…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:39 AM
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That's why I stated that any fights should be provoked by someone else so that he can claim self-defense. If you had read my comments in their entirety, you would know that and thus, not need to explain something that I already know.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:12 AM
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Interesting, assuming that it's true.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:07 PM
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Well a lot of MGTOW are actually OLDER men who survived nasty divorces or got burned in the process to learn that the family courts and the laws are completely against them. It's the younger men that learn the red-pill and MGTOW truth that really suffer and get branded as virgin incels once they know how dangerous the relationship game is. Big John (MGTOWisFreedom) is an ex-marine who lost the entire house he built to his ex-wife who didn't love him. Bob Lewis (DDJ) was a paralegal who got his c…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 02:01 AM
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Actually, some MGTOW channels are about self-improvement for your own sake, not for the sake of women. Which is why generally they advocate for healthier life choices and getting fit to produce more testosterone.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:46 PM
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The purpose of MGTOW is about finding your own purpose. Obsessing over relationships is an incel thing.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:44 PM
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Not really. MGTOW isn't necessarily about being a celibate. Plenty of MGTOW jack-off to porn, have one night tinder stands, fuck whores or sex dolls. MGTOW just avoids marriage and long-term relationships. It also varies from region to region based on the laws. Whatever it takes to get the rocks off. MGTOW monks, who have given up on sex with women is to counter the repercussions of the biased laws that could ruin men's lives from having sex with women. Incels don't want porn or whores or sex do…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:42 PM
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It's not really about what experiences you have with people that call themselves MGTOW. The thing is that at the end of the day, these communities have their own philosophies no matter how individual members act like. MGTOW is about survival, so they walk away. Incel is about some sort of pessimistic nihilism based on the sexual marketplace, so they talk about women all day and why they can't get laid. These two groups might have similarities but their beliefs and end-goals are different. Incels…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:38 PM
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It's a major break red flag. There's million reasons why this is a bad thing but the short answer is that she's a mess. Her life should be stable to have any relationships because whatever bullshit her parents or friends had to deal with, you now have to deal with. It might even be an excuse for her shitty behavior and to treat you like shit. You're shopping for a girlfriend in the sexual marketplace, you don't settle for damaged goods. Parents are the one people responsible into growing their c…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:23 PM
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Shit-testing isn't really for guys. Girls do this because they're hypergamous and they want to test the guy's character. That he's man enough for her. Even better than her. What guys do something akin to shit-testing is called "negging," which are low-grade insults wrapped up with positivity to catch the girl off-balance and make her doubt herself in order for her being open to guy's advances. "You're incredibly cute... for a short girl." Incredibly risky PUA tactic. The point of it is to stimul…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 09:16 PM
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lol you really wanna see it?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:35 PM
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Yeah, it's only downhill from there if I validate that sort of behavior. She even said that if I can be patient with her and manage her craziness then we can have something. That really sounds like a deal that thirsty cucks would sign up for. I'm just bummed that it had to be me who met the crazy.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:35 PM
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Hell no. I wasn't really giving her sympathy and really, there was no need for any of that. I was going like "what the fuck" but kept my cool with her. Even my dad told me to drop her so yeah. That's what I'll do.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:50 AM
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Maybe she desires that incest dick and wants to measure you up whether you're man enough for her. Maybe she's just a narcissist and does that to people around her because she doesn't have enough men in her life to pull her shit tests on. There could be million reasons under the sun. Maybe she just felt like it. The bottom line is: "Is she doing it right now?" Did you get her to stop? Did she stop eventually? Is she not doing that anymore? If the answer to all or any of these questions was "yes,"…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:48 AM
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Hopefully you'll get your situation sorted out. It's also good to improve on yourself, whether it's MMA or developing character to make friends. Both preferably. People should be able to fight, so long as the opponents are of their size :) I've heard some schools are very irrational, especially towards boys. So try not to get expelled. If you're going to fight in a school, make sure that he is the one provoking so that you can claim self-defense for the least. He should be the one getting expell…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:15 AM
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There is not magic bullet to keeping a girl. It's just the guy's turn to have her. She wants the complete package, the rich guy who is also attractive and has the chad dick. This kind of guy is rare so if she gets any of these qualities, she's just looking for a fling on the side to get what she isn't getting from her current boyfriend. Even if the guy is rich and everything, she'll still divorce or cry false rape to get their money. If Brad Pitt or James Deen couldn't keep their girls, nobody c…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:58 AM
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Q: How Should I Tell her that if that's her decision - I will not have anything with her to start with A: You don't, end of discussion. She would never understand. Now, what you should be thinking is how to proceed. What this sounds like might come off as incel talk but women aren't rational beings. They only care about themselves and she's telling you what's up. Bitches lie to trap men with child support and all that. If she's explicitly telling you that she wouldn't use a morning after pill th…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:43 AM
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It's not in english, tho.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:33 AM
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Must be a record since her chat feed has field-day material when taken into account how short our conversation was.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:30 AM
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You shouldn't have to be forced in a situation where you have to take your belongings back from anyone by force or worse, have your stuff broken. It seems that you're being put in a difficult position. But if you're being consistently picked on, not only do you need to confront him but you actually have to take it to a next level. But I'd avoid from being expelled so you're pretty much screwed in school. I'd inform on the school staff about that guy and make it clear that the case is serious. Ma…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:28 AM
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Oh yeah, also. Get this, she put herself down all the time in text and told me not to "waste time on her" and then told me that she said mean things to me to explicitly "make me lose interest" but then stated that she regrets that because I'm still a "nice guy," a title which I prefer not being but I didn't really act beta or clingy at all. Pretty much kept it cool but I could sense that she's cearly manipulating me. Worse still, explaining me what's up.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:50 AM
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Okay, then.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:46 AM
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At first she seemed so normal and nice but it had that shit written all over her, though she blamed the alcohol. I just don't know the game with detecting loons. I know that guys should avoid them.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:43 AM
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I haven't had much contact with women so this hasn't happened to me but the whole she needs to focus on herself and that you deserve more is bullshit if you ask me. The common wisdom goes that men don't deserve anything and that guys are lucky to have her while women deserve better. She's most likely coming up with something to get rid of you while looking for another guy. I don't know if you were too kind with her and tickled her hypergamy the wrong way or something. But if a girl really likes …
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:27 AM
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