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| – | Men Confuse Women Wanting Confident Men With Wanting “Assholes”Yes, it is the side those type men show women. Dating back to middle school. We boys are essentially taught by girls that they like assholes. And when I say “assholes”, I mean the guys that very openly use women for sex, discard them, then move on to the next. This practice continues in high school, then college, early adulthood, etc. We see many a guy that used to be good, yet went “bad” because they learned via observation it was the best way to get women. It’s extremely common for a man to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingThe fact you believe they have no actual consequence is my point. I didn’t say to live your life according to someone else’s beliefs. What I said was people will make decisions and determinations about you based on how you’ve lived your life, and they should. You don’t believe a woman’s sexual past matters. You don’t believe it’s any business of potential suitors to know. Therefore, they’d be left to only go off what she decides to tell them, no? Someone who’s not held to their past can simply r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingI’d say it’s more evident the hurt feelings stem from the person wanting to hide their sexual past. Her views on men, her views on relationships, how her prior sexual/relational experiences with men have shaped/changed/affected her, her standards, how she chooses men, how she distinguishes between men she only has sex with and men she desires a relationship with, the type/caliber of men she’s chosen, how she reacts to or responds to men, how she conducts herself in sexual situations and relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingI’m aware that’s what you’d think. The past mattering encompasses sexual past. I’d say it’s convenient for some to believe it’s fine to arbitrarily declare aspects of their past that many would question “doesn’t matter.” That’s a game anyone could play to try and evade accountability or ramifications of their choices/actions. Seems a notion that’d be constructed in the mind of a child, IMO. The past is who we are. We are our choices. Whatever traits, qualities, viewpoints, moral compasses, etc.,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingThe implication could also be he’s asking about her sexual history for insight on how she views men, how she views relationships, her views and beliefs surrounding sex, her standards, the caliber/type of men she tends to involve herself with, the type people she surrounds herself with or chooses to have in her life, her decision making, her priorities, her sexual desires, etc. One could easily say mature, intelligent, grounded women would have the above reaction to a man caring about her sexual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingOnly a certain type of woman views a man that cares about sexual history as “immature.” I’m a man, and I care about a woman’s sexual past. I also know and have come across plenty women who feel the same, and we’d view people who label those that care about sexual pasts as immature, to be “immature.” I’d personally view a woman that believes “the past doesn’t matter” as one of limited cognition. We are our choices. We are our decisions. Your past choices and decisions tells the story of who you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 03:14 AM |
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