LxftHand Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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28	Is grabbing her hand to check out her nails considered flirting? Yes brother, it can be. Decent move, imo too. It’s subtle and leaves some open questions, and it initiates contact in a harmless way. Downsides is that you really can’t use it as a point for escalation in most scenarios. The flirty part comes mostly from what you do WHILE holding her hand. Maybe something like eye contact, cheeky smile and drop a firm but thoughtful compliment and move on, that’s my best bet. It’s like earrings. They aren’t clothes but they can potentially improve the overall ap…	/r/seduction	27/01/26 02:20 AM
38	guys in their late 20's early 30's. How do you do with younger ladies? To be a touch less abrasive, especially considering the effectiveness of that tactic against your mental state, you have to love yourself before you try and connect with another person. The dating game is all about building deep connections and inviting someone into a deep connection without organizing your emotions is like tryna clap cheeks in a filthy room. Not impossible, but unlikely and definitely not a good start to any relationship. Take the advice above. Exercise, it truly clears your he…	/r/seduction	27/01/26 01:24 AM
1	what does it mean when a woman says " you are charming " It means your personality is charismatic and engaging. Idk wtf these other guys are even talking about.	/r/seduction	26/01/26 07:38 PM
14	F*CK Your Excuses OP said this abrasively, its absolutely correct. And if your natural inclination is to downvote or disagree, my suggestion would be to self-assess a bit more critically.	/r/seduction	26/01/26 07:16 PM
1	Turns out I'm a Coward. Help! Best of luck!	/r/seduction	25/01/26 04:23 AM
7	Turns out I'm a Coward. Help! A wise man one said to me “Just jump in, the water is cold” The fear doesn’t go away, but that’s a good thing because you can’t be brave without fear. Rip the bandaid and breathe. Whatever you decide, just be confident in it. You got this!	/r/seduction	25/01/26 04:04 AM
1	I also have 5 f×ck buddies. AMA! Groundbreaking	/r/seduction	02/01/26 07:56 PM
2	How do I deal with friends not answering? OP, listen to this guy. Anyone telling you that one missed texts is worthy of destroying a friendship is a bozo. As you get older, you will find that people respond to communication like texts less and less frequently. We all got shit to do. But if it’s important to you to remain in constant communication with your friends, make that a high priority when you search for friends. Not all of your friends may meet your bar and that’s OK. But having some friends that fulfill certain desires for you i…	/r/seduction	30/12/25 05:25 PM
6	There is a girl on my train. Tell me what to do or say to her. This guy fucks. Stealing this one.	/r/seduction	06/12/25 03:53 PM
15	struggling as 25 yo guy Eliminate the obstacles in your mind. General advice that will help you progress. You are no worse off than anyone else, but YOU have to believe that and silence the negative self talk. Seems like brute honesty can be helpful, but ultimately it just provides another opportunity for insecurity This sub will swear by all of the strategy and theory bullshit. Just be yourself. Keep asking questions. Laugh. Find a way to get her talking and laughing about herself. Make little jokes, be corny. Have fu…	/r/seduction	02/12/25 05:31 PM
5	How can you tell if older men find you attractive? Damn… am I easy¿	/r/seduction	02/12/25 03:53 PM
9	6 months of watching videos vs. 3 hours actually doing it. (Text from my student) I swear man. Reading this stuff is so weird. It’s like training robots.	/r/seduction	18/11/25 05:28 PM
-1	Been at this for 11 years These guys are bozos OP. Its ok to articulate frustration when you don’t like the results you see. TRUST ME, these keyboard warriors aren’t doing any better. When I feel myself in a rut generally, I try two methods. Find a problem and fix it. (it can be any problem. It just helps with moving forward.) Watch and mimic. (if I don’t know how to do something myself, I will mimic someone who does and see if any information sticks in my mind) Keep your head up, keep hope alive, keep digging!	/r/seduction	05/11/25 08:52 PM
2	Men, how do you want to get seduced by a woman? Everyone is different so I try not to look for specific things, but anything that shows she payed attention to me and used what she learned in her decision making around me.	/r/seduction	14/09/25 02:22 PM
3	Men, how do you want to get seduced by a woman? Support and intentionality fold me.	/r/seduction	13/09/25 11:16 PM
1	The girl at BK Take her a small care package one day. Nothing too expensive. Couple pieces of chocolate, mini bottled water, maybe a corny gimmick toy. Get in line, order, drop it off and say something like “you are always so busy” here’s a break on me. Get creative.	/r/seduction	23/08/25 09:12 PM