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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Leave her better than you found herOh Captain | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupI wouldn’t go ahead with explaining who you are privately before meeting up. Otherwise the mystery fades quicker than you counting to Mississippi ten times! That is the point of a first date after all | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How to have more sex appeal?How I carry myself is what I need to most advice on. It is the only aspect of myself I need to change for the better, but I don’t know how to adapt myself | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Girls give me stares but when I approach they show no interestI am suffering from the same issue. | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Girl with BF super flirty with me, She seems like she wants to branch swing.Respect the relationship. Be the person to say no | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Invited Girl to Hang with me one on one and she wants to bring friendI like you! Give more advice! | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | When you know she is interested, how to just go straight up to her and say something. How to act?You’re actually so right. I have been friendly these past few days and it seems to have placed in me in the right position to ask her out. Or move topic, I like it | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 02:37 PM |
| 3 | When you know she is interested, how to just go straight up to her and say something. How to act?I feel so dumb ahaha | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | When a women shows clear interest and invites you with body language, but instead you stiff up and let the opportunity slide.I don’t have anyone to go out with to clubs, so from me, enjoy and get a win this time | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 04:04 PM |
| 2 | When a women shows clear interest and invites you with body language, but instead you stiff up and let the opportunity slide.I am still confused on the whole situation, it happens everyday to me and it’s frustrating when you just think. Oh she must think I am cute, but oh well. I understand completely | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 03:13 PM |
| 2 | When a women shows clear interest and invites you with body language, but instead you stiff up and let the opportunity slide.Don’t worry, you’re not. You just second guessed it and then the thoughts began to roll in. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 03:10 PM |
| 2 | When a women shows clear interest and invites you with body language, but instead you stiff up and let the opportunity slide.You should just start taking to women when this happens. Be upfront. That was very very clear | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | When a women shows clear interest and invites you with body language, but instead you stiff up and let the opportunity slide.Everyday. I just can’t get myself to go up to them and say something. As in invitations, body language, constant eye contact, smiling and eye contact, and all of the above. Probably 50 opportunities within the last 4 months | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | When a women shows clear interest and invites you with body language, but instead you stiff up and let the opportunity slide.I know. Why is that? It is best to just go over and ask anyway but it just doesn’t happen | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How to become someone worth being attracted to?I think I you need to look deeper into yourself and just take take the initiative to just randomly speak to anyone. I speak to anyone now, just saying hi to people then following on a conversation. The reason why women find slightly angry looking men appealing is due to who we are as a species. If a man smiles he looks weaker (even though he probably isn’t, it just makes you look vulnerable). If a man looks slightly more angry (Look at Jason Momoa - New Aquaman) he looks like a badass with that … | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 10:14 AM |
| 1 | How to become someone worth being attracted to?Disclaimer: I am being honest. I have realised many things in public. The speed of how you walk Your facial expressions Your posture Your maintenance (Hygiene etc) Walk like time is waiting for you (Like you have nowhere to hurry to, like you are taking in life) Keep your face happy/neutral and don’t look like you’re angry or upset. Calm and collected Stand up straight while you walk and compose yourself. To appear like you know who you are. Shows confidence Keep yourself clean, take care of you… | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach a woman with headphones onYou don’t. Unless she gives you a get-go. Then don’t. Actually, depending on the situation. Bring something relevant up | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Need help sexting, any takers?Whoever downvotesd, why? It’s a good question | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Failed kiss attempt.someone tell me how to do it like an alphaYou are no where near an alpha, the way you described this girl. “Fat girl”, and clearly you are desperate. Save her the trouble, get some fucking respect, grow the fuck up, and change some of your pathetic traits. You have no right | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How To Become The Attractive Man All Women WantI skipped go to the end. And, too black? Really? Ahaha | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 07:48 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Girl at the gymPrecisely! You can meet friends, potential partners and so and so. I talk to anyone I want to speak to, if those interactions escalate to a meeting outside of that setting then that’s all to it | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Women stare, glimpse, look, everything. Yet when I look, they act like nothing ever happened.I am probably overthinking it aren’t I | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Women stare, glimpse, look, everything. Yet when I look, they act like nothing ever happened.I noticed the other day when I was at the gym. This girl that I see a few times but rarely. She has always looked at me in the way you would when you find someone interesting. The constant looking, the hidden glances. And everything of the such. It was the yoga mat area where all of the people who like to stretch or do specific body work—workout, there are four machines, weights, and it is big enough to fit let’s say 9 people. Big enough I would say. The three spots on my left were taken, so wer… | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Gym, Advice and Experiences?I like this | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Gym, Advice and Experiences?I am an athlete and have been for years. My body is not big but it is strongly-athletic. I get looks frequently and actually stares. The reason I am asking is because I get these women who I am interested in and who show interest in me, hence the question | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Had my first kiss today. At 30 years old. Story inside:Well done! We all go at our own paces, so I am glad and I am sure many of us are too. Keep it up, stay confident, stay as positive as you are. And keep going. Practice makes perfect | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Really confused about this girl I am texting on Snapchat.Unfortunately that is our new day-and-age generations | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I am generally terrible at reading signs, as described in my recent post. So, what are signs that a women may be interested? Most simplestWow. Amazingly worded, I am going to take the rest of today to think things over. I appreciate you commenting | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I am generally terrible at reading signs, as described in my recent post. So, what are signs that a women may be interested? Most simplestI literally see signs but second guess; and my second guessing cancels out everything that verifies someone is into me. It may sound awkward, but if I get told, then I might not have to overthink every situation and confrontation I have. Plus, I am not very good with explaining my posts. Just to place that out there | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Tips on being more seductive and ‘trying’ to be sexy.I freeze. How can I stop that? | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Tips on being more seductive and ‘trying’ to be sexy.I have had a lot of time and I speak to women who I don’t know everyday. I just happen to need a little know how before I embark | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I can’t flirt for any fresh hellI realised I cannot flirt to save my title. I make eye contact to which they know what I intend, as well as speaking with a certain tone so they feel comfortably-interested and compliment them specially. To make up for the poor flirting | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I send another text message?2’ | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Any flirting tips? (Sry if this has alreadx been asked)Not necessarily. | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Freshly-Divorced, Looking for a Wingman (Seattle)I’ll upvote. Wish you luck! | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | When girl says that you cannot trust her fully nor does she want to hurt youThe first girl I fell in love with; warned me. We spoke for 5 straight months day in and day out, every minute and we loved speaking to each other. ... but, she got with a guy at a Christmas party. They were Private School kids so knowing who did it would be complicated, he may have gone to Eaton or Harrow, or what so ever. She apologised but I was warned. I would not trust her, as such. Just be prepared and don’t fall in too heavily in case you need a shovel t get back out. | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How many days do you have from meeting someone to asking them out too avoid the friendzone?I also think it depends on the girl. The top comments and many of these replies speak the bold truth and give better advice then nearly every video and article you could read. My experiences have made it obvious and widened but shortened if that makes any sense. One had a crush on me and I on her so even though I was pathetic she still waited two months, recently the somewhat same thing, I did not make my intentions crystal so she lost interest within the next day. I am currently trying to get o… | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Am I giving mixed signals/adviceI will have to do that more often. I think I come off to hostile in public, which is something I need to fix | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Am I giving mixed signals/adviceHow would I exactly ask her to come with me somewhere, any examples? | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Experiences with dating coaches?I am not a master at this. Seen as I have only been speaking to various women who n the space of two months. But as for the ”securing the pull”, I would speak about things that seem fun, adventurous ideas, anything that seems interesting. After realising and noticing if she is into you just a little bit. The best thing to do is just walk with her somewhere and see if she follows. Making a journey for you two. This girl who had been constantly looking at me and smiling, basically inviting me to t… | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Experiences with dating coaches?Waste of time. It really isn’t that hard once you get out there and just be confident. I researched how to talk to a girl so many times and gained nothing. Be confident, straight forward, dress well, have good hygiene, buy cologne, smile, go to the gym. Be desirable to yourself, then girls will follow | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Started gaming hoes. Will post fr every weekWhy did you have to label her black girl, isn’t girl enough | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Started gaming hoes. Will post fr every weekI was about to upvote you until I realised you used an even more derogatory term | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 06:43 AM |
| 1 | I've had success meeting girls in bookstores but need to widen the net, ideas?What’s a page? | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Girl makes eye contact with everyone, but me.I either do one of two things when I am interested in a girl (it goes both ways). I either look them straight in the eyes and give her my full confidence and attention. Or as I used to do. I would look at everyone but them and avoid them completely (which was a bad idea. Or. She has a passionate unliking for you | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Finally realised a big mistake i made.I am in the same position. I see how girls flaunt themselves around me and show me how much they would like to date me. But I never go up to them straight forward and say “Let’s go on a date, what day are you free” so I put myself in a position I need to get back from | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Im not a fan of bars and clubsI would love to do that challenge. But I live in a small town. Reputations grow quickly. Shame | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Girls with Boyfriends—I seem to attract moreUh, the thing is that all of them are separated in different classes, so they knowing each other is impossible | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Girls with Boyfriends—I seem to attract moreI speak to them with a normal attitude and noting unfamiliar. They speak to me the same but instead they blush and act I guess you can say, cute | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Girls with Boyfriends—I seem to attract moreI promise you, I don’t act any way. They just pay so much attention to me and I find it kind of confusing | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Girls with Boyfriends—I seem to attract moreThat could make valid sense. Except, every girl I know who is in a relationship always has the hots for me. Not aiming to come of arrogant, it just baffles me why. I am certain not all of their relationships can be exceedingly boring | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 08:30 AM |
| 1 | I notice women who are interested—but cannotShe wants a date | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I notice women who are interested—but cannotIt went more well then I’d thought it would | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up a girl who is with her parentsI am very confident, but the last part looks frightening to me | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up a girl who is with her parentsThe world has too many don’ts | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up a girl who is with her parentsWhy would that sanction me into a death sentence | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 12:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up a girl who is with her parentsI see your point now | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 03:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you pick up a girl who is with her parentsI’m with that | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up a girl who is with her parentsFinally!! A good answer | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up a girl who is with her parents17* I really should have added the age | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up a girl who is with her parentsNo no we are one year apart. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up a girl who is with her parentsI am 18 and she seems 17 | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Does Anyone have any good books / audio to read or listen to to encourage a positive change on your mind?I am not really a big person on recommendations for books, but if there is a book store near you I recommend going in and taking a look around. It’s like a wonderland in there, and you may find more than you were intending to look for. | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Where and how do you meet women exactlyI see your point, I am feeling more confident in near to every situation now so I can see myself doing this | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Where and how do you meet women exactlyI enjoyed reading this and makes me feel less anxious | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | So I Need Tips And Advice - For An Upcoming Beach Party [18 M]After that | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Picking Up Girls is MUCH EASIER if You're in the Right PlaceI agree with everyone else. I'm half Jamaican and mixed race with blue eyes tanned skin, athletic and a high class British accent. As far as guys over here get laid 6/10 I have a 9/10 chance of getting laid with anyone at any time in any situation. Besides that I'm half Jamaican my accent says British and everyone says it, because it's true | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Hooked up with a girl and caught feelings. Was pretty direct about it I think. What are your thoughts?Honestly I hate catching feelings there's nothing worse, easiest way to get depressed, broken hearted and fucked up all in a matter of a few minutes or hours | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | I Cannot Flirt If My Life Depended On It..Ok. How can I! Loosen up | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | My first number attemptYou prove a great point, I was nervous and in the midst of the situation I just came out saying what I thought on the spot and it didn't feel easy. I guess it is something I have to carry out multiple times to get better at | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 09:36 PM |
| 1 | My first number attemptYh I think a compliment would have helped me a little bit | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | My first number attemptI like this, I'll take this up! | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 12:22 AM |
| 1 | My first number attemptI don't know what to type, is it smiling, dressing? Just what else | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | My first number attemptI see why this makes sense. I was trying not to skip to the number part but I felt so nervous and my heart was pounding. But I do feel at ease about it | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | My first number attemptHow do you mean build comfort? | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | My first number attemptI actually do have that mindset but I am to afraid except now I fee more wise and comfortable | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | My first number attemptThats true that's true | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is intelligence irrelevant for teenagers?I'm sorry but it is for me | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Why is intelligence irrelevant for teenagers?I find it highly attractive in women, I'm 17 and a girl without intelligence or ambition to a certain aspect of life (+ Good grades) takes away 50% of attraction for me. It's kind of essential, every girl I have talked to in the past have all educational ambition including straight As and above, perfect GPAs and all around smart. Without that there's not really much for me to look at but a nice body and cute chats When a girl is intelligent and she's beautiful, that's like having, well for me an… | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Who is your favorite pickup artist?RSD Max | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | I don't see what's so special about him! Is there something I'm just not seeingI'll try AsWomen, it's a hard subject to post, thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/11/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Tips for getting customers numbers at work?Your the manager? Asking for numbers at work? Wondering why it's not working other than the fact that it's a retail store? See why it's not working! And I agree with the second comment, you won't just get fired, you might actually get your place of work having a harassment issue and a bad rep. Just stop! Do it out of work | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Just texted one of the most popular girls I know for a date 😬 scared!!!Our towns within the county are connected very closely with knowing each other and it's kind of small, I don't know what the reply is going to be | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | How to start conversations anywhere?When I had to meet new people I just smiled and kept my cool, tried not to act nervous. Obviously I was scared but I knew that if I gave of the shy impression my reputation would be "the shy guy" and I didn't want that. So looks a side I just faked my confidence, acted friendly, laughed at some things they said and had an optimistic side to show I'm fun. All you have to do is basically be happy but mature and be friendly, then you can ask anything (Nothing stupid) without them attacking you! The… | /r/seduction | 25/09/16 08:46 AM |
| 2 | How to start conversations anywhere?I said this before in a separate post and other comments above above give good points. Confidence, optimism, smiling and eye contact! Listen to them if they're speaking and expand. And just jump into a conversation you hear Just be calm, happy and direct. I had the same problem but now it's not hard at all | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Request for guidance to improve my daygameI have never been great with seduction or approach but since I have been on my /r/NoFap streak for a few weeks now, I have been trying to talk to girls and get somewhere. What I use besides looks are Confidence and Optimism! These three things gets me talking to girls without fear. Smile, laugh and look deeply into their eyes when you or they are talking! Just saying what I'm doing and it's working. | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 09:42 PM |
| 0 | What STOPS you from approaching someone?A girl that flirts with every guy in a 1cm radius gets turns me off the most, other than acting easy to get it's just there's no point in talking to you if your going to flirt every second of a conversation | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 09:33 PM |
| 48 | FYI: Eye contact is the one of the most important elements in seduction.I tried eye contact the other day and looked straight into these girls eyes especially one girl that I liked, not a creepy start but she was talking and I was listening. I saw she was looking at me directly too and felt something, after all of this if I walked alway she kept looking at me! I think Eye contact is essential! Without it, you can't get as far as you'd think | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I SUCK at taking to girls and giving off a good vibe!!!Umm I didn't mean flirting as such, I meant conversation an making them smile type of talking! | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like direct guys?Being honest and getting to the point - not sugar coating anything | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 06:32 AM |
| 0 | [FR] I'm challenging myself to approach at least two girls a day for 8 weeks - Day 1Ok, so you didn't get Girl 3's number after she invited you out? Umm | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?Do you mean good snapchat stories | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?I was going to her house and her parents where leaving but they didn't know I was going to come round so she had to cancel, sorry for not making it more specific. Would it be wise to send her a message asking her how her holiday is going because my friend is advising me as well Thanks for understanding and helping btw, | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 11:16 PM |
| 1 | How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?I was going to her house to see her, watch a movie and relax with her but she blew me off because her parents were going to leave and didn't know I was coming round which I then stupidly asked if it was intentional (Which it wasn't) and it sparked from there. So now I am trying to recover from that and thinking of ways to text her/her to text me but don't know any. | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 01:50 PM |
| 1 | How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?Thanks for the comment! I did make an impression in real life with her about 2 times and hearing her wanting to meet me again through her friends was happy to hear. But it took me a while to text her and when I did we talked for about 2 months until we had a small argument before she left and we haven't talked since. I just need to know how to pull her back, but I do see your point! | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 11:43 AM |
| 0 | How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?I didn't understand this, | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?That sounds like a dope idea | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?We had a little argument kinda need to pull her back | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:32 PM |
| 0 | How can you get a girl to want you more over text or snapchat?Problem, she's on holiday | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Texting an InterestThe answer is kind of clear: What did you read? X and How was your sleep? X. These texts are deep in themselves asking about how her book was and what it's about then if chemistry is there the conversation will flourish into something bigger even asking about her dreams can escalate into a joke | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Texting an InterestNothing really seems off, just level the texting; your texting more than she is so just make yours the same length as hers. She doesn't seem to be blowing you off either which is a good sign. She's just busy! I think you and I have the same problem here and I lost a girl I really like who I am trying to regain because of this. The problem you have is overthinking the situation. Be straight forward and add a bit of that sense of humor so you don't seem serious but just ask her and schedule a date… | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Texting an InterestYou like the word dope, that's dope! Your text game seems good as it is and she's sending emojis so her interest is defiantly there including the fact that she gave you her number. To have deep convos you should consider bringing up things you have done today and asking her the same thing but see if you can extend it into interests that you both share. (If you want it to be deep, be passionate) Meeting up with her: Just bring up, I want to see you or We should see each other/meet up soon. Just b… | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 01:20 AM |
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