Lyndell Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens? How do most feel about a solid 7?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 02:28 PM
1	Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enough Yep, this has always been my problem. Definitely too hot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 03:19 PM
-1	Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good? All of this crying and talk of fertility, when in the end you could adopt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 03:11 PM
2	Why Won’t You Pay For Sex? I mean pleasing women is my kink so I dunno.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 11:11 PM
2	What is your opinion on men who will not marry women whose parents are divorced? He might just not be that into you and is making excuses instead of telling you the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 03:27 PM
36	QFM: If your GF/Wife said you had to go through a birth pain simulator in order to have kids (for anywhere between 2-30 hours randomly picked) would you do it? OMG our first kid once they pulled him out it was followed by a waterfall of blood, I thought that’s just how they were until we had our second. She lost so much blood she nearly died, but still wanted to do it again. Braver than I could be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:30 PM
41	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women Stop telling little girls he hurts you because he likes you The thing is boys get told this too, it’s not an exclusive to one gender, the reason they say this is because the person is looking for an excuse to touch you. My mom always said “it’s not right they hit you, but they probably just like you.” And explained.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 01:19 PM
4	How to become the "bad boy" Everything after the first one really depends on the tattoo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 06:10 PM
4	How to become the "bad boy" They are more a sign of disposable income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:47 PM
1	What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub? It’s from the person I replied to’s link.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 06:26 PM
0	Do women want guys to be confident or what? Like I think a problem is for men with a penis, for sex you have be turned on, you can’t get turned on mid act really, like pushing rope for awhile until you start to feel it. Most of the time that won’t go over well. So like obviously the number one thing for men in a relationship is “can looking at this person get my dick hard” because for us a lot of times that’s how sex goes, you can start soft and get hard sensually, but I’ve been with a lot of women who don’t like that, they will just avoi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 04:12 PM
6	What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub? At the same time 28% have had 15 or more, which is a higher percentage than all the other groups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 02:00 PM
3	The notion that “women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of relationships”, is frankly untrue One if that’s you in the picture you’re gorgeous and far from the average the people are talking about. But I think what they are talking about is the next step, serious commitment. Marriage, living together. In my personal experience, once I’m with someone they want to get very serious quick. Where before we reach the point of intimacy it’s more of me chasing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 02:52 PM
1	Study: female sexlessness is also rising: My friends don’t get the poison out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 02:41 PM
1	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong What is nt?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 01:50 PM
1	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong If you should ever want to be loved by anyone It's not unusual, it happens every day, no matter what you say You'll find it happens all the time https://youtu.be/k-HdGnzYdFQ	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 01:36 PM
5	How big of a deal breaker is sharing your man? This, it’s great. But emotionally you have to be there in a big way for multiple people, and have to attempt to keep the them all on good terms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 01:34 PM
1	What’s it like being invisible as a man? Yes a lot, but that goes into why they aren’t gods of judgment. Most of them are shy. Like honestly I think this problem is why you see a lot of women say “I didn’t know men had feelings”, a lot rely on men confidently approaching them and trying to get them to date them. Who is the most likely to be best at approaching random people, mostly for their own benefit as the only known attraction is them to the women? Psychopaths who lack empathy. They don’t care they might be interrupting someone’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 03:03 PM
1	What’s it like being invisible as a man? bas?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 02:56 PM
8	What’s it like being invisible as a man? This is what scares me. When I was in school, god. If you didn’t have sex yet it was nothing but ridiculing you for being a virgin. But Incel has even more stigma to it. Women aren’t some kind of gods of judgement. One not sleeping with you isn’t a sign you’re a bad person. It’s probably a sign you’re shy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 01:53 PM
2	Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To Dating I don’t think it’s eboys, has much as they have a big personality. Personality is always key and if you’re a stereotype it’s easier to make a personality for you in their heads and then find you more attractive. As someone who went from 6’4” 150 to 210 I can tell you, there has been a measurable difference in the attention I get. If you can pull off a stereotype do it, personality will take you far. If not muscles are a good choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 12:16 PM
30	Dudes should start approaching more average girls for better results. They did say matches not likes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 11:12 PM
1	the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to be This is kind of a touch grass moment. Travel a bit, talk to someone from inner city Philadelphia and someone from a county of less than 2,000 people in this same state. They will differ wildly. You can see it even in things like voting, restaurants have to have slight menu changes if they are chains depending on the state and their tastes. It ain’t like the 1300s. But people still differ a ton depending on where they were born. You’re living in a world where languages and accents don’t exist. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 04:41 PM
1	the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to be I don’t live in the EU it was just a metaphor for using my owns states data first. I will say though culture does vary wildly state to state. So something as intimate as relationships looking at broad spectrum data, even at a state level might be kind of useless. You talk to people who move here from Cali and they say people act totally different, or even from the city to the sticks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 03:54 PM
1	the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to be Maybe, but that’s like saying to someone in Sweden why are you only using Sweden’s data. EDIT: I’ll say this I’m not close to Delaware but it does connect, and they are fucked compared to ten years ago, marriage rates halved, with divorce rates up by two points. It’s wild how different between states it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 03:42 PM
2	the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to be I only looked at data to be fair mainly from around my area, but PA 2008 14.3 Marriage Rate, 7.4 divorce rate, PA 2018 15.0 Marriage Rate, 6.1 Divorce Rate. Just open them yourself maybe around where you live is different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 03:31 PM
2	Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite that I’m blue pilled and in high-school I had what many would think of as the perfect example of the “friend zone”. I was clear I liked her, she turned me down, we were still best friends but every once and awhile she would lead me on. Acting like something was about to happen. I got caught up. She told one of her friends “I could see myself marrying him, but right now I just want to have fun.” Didn’t work out for her, and that stupid fucking meme happened, with the dollars and babies. Still she was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 02:58 PM
2	the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to be Divorce rates in comparison are slightly more down then 10 years ago, and marriage rates are slightly more up. https://www.census.gov/data/tables/time-series/demo/marriage-and-divorce/state-marriage-divorce-rates.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 02:23 PM
1	For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not? There isn't a time. They can stay bad or they can get better. You have to look stuff up, talk to your partner, be willing to try stuff and be bad at it for awhile. If anyone is just expecting to suddenly be really good at anything at all, without doing the research and practicing they are really just expecting to get lucky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 02:36 PM
3	Frustration with women and their sexual timing largely comes from men who refuse to accept women with a sociosexual orientation similar to theirs As a dad another problem seems to be they don’t want to date dudes with kids themselves… I’ve gone on a lot of dates with ladies with no kids, but even as a dude crossing 30 haven’t even matched with a single mom. A problem could be for myself in that arena is I’m picky when it comes to weight (and I fucking hate it, I would give anything to be attracted to big women like I am lady abs, you think I want to lift? In the modern world strength is nearly pointless, even in war where the majority of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 02:01 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material How often do you see that though? I see guys stick around and wait for sex, a lot more then I see them break it off early and accept they aren’t getting sex (in fact I haven’t seen this, I don’t date men though). It all seems to me like prolonging the inevitable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:59 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material Yeah but you’re just kinda prolonging and exacerbating the hurt, gettin yourself deeper before he shows the asshole he truly is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:35 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material I’m not sure what your comment is saying. The post is about sleeping with some guys on the first date and not ones you find “boyfriend material”. Then your comment talks about not wanting to get hurt by someone you liked so you wait, but I’m saying if you sleeping with him early on would cause him to ghost you he wasn’t even worth your time in the first place anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:31 PM
3	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material sex is not a "reward" I mean, it’s the best feeling thing outside of hard drugs, if that’s not a reward what is? For the second part, okay cool but this is where “the assholes get the girls comes from”. If you see your asshole friend get to smash with someone new each time you go out, and you’re having to take a few weeks to get to know someone before maybe having a chance… just by shear numbers you’ll think they do. Especially since you’ll probably rarely get the girls perspective that “they du…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:07 PM
2	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material If the dude is going to ghost you for being to open, then he probably wasn’t that great of a guy in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 06:57 PM
1	Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men? SES?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 03:03 PM
3	Statistics of age of first marriage are meaningless without knowing when the relationship actually began My wife I got together in high school, I was 17 she was 16. We just got married this year, I’m 30. We just never went down to the courthouse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 08:42 PM
1	Are women on dating apps truly the 30+, post-wall “leftovers” generally speaking when we’re in the middle of a covid resurgence? I have preferences as far as body type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 06:34 PM
1	What are the social benefits of being a man? Okay, but I’m brown…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 06:32 PM
1	Men complaining about women who complain about age gaps are just shifting the blame. I mean kinda, there were tons of religious and government organizations that did just that kind of stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 06:25 PM