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Girls talk about their sexual history and exes unprompted A LOT. Every girl I’ve dated has done this, maybe because they were curious about my history (I don’t like talking about the past), or maybe a girl is insecure and thinks it makes them hotter and likeable but it does the exact opposite imo. As far as the bad experiences thing goes, women literally do this all the time, and I’m not talking in a relationship context. I’ve seen women say a dude violently raped them and still continue to see …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:49 AM
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Good questions, I’m in a relationship right now but if this issue ever arises again, I’ll be sure to give these questions a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:45 AM
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I think more often than not it is a reflection on the other person. It’s a way of saying you aren’t good enough with out saying it. What kinds of questions do you recommended asking? Of course life is complex, but I’m not going to marry a girl who treats me like a steerage class partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:23 AM
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Bad reason still, a girl will have a bad experience with a guy and keep seeing him, or they will hear about another girls bad experience and still see the same guy and make that bad experience her own. If I’m dating girl and she isn’t giving me sexually what she gave other guys with enthusiastic consent, she’s not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:04 AM
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People are desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:58 AM
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Yeah, your idea of a hoe phase is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:05 PM
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Her husband is one of the biggest simps of our generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:17 PM
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All excellent points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:07 PM
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Not seriously, onlyfans is the least of those imo but our values just wouldn’t align if she thinks people seeing her body is worth 5.99 a month and I’d be a little grossed out by an ex-pornstar. But sex workers do deserve respect, they are humans with real circumstances that lead them to that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:06 PM
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Do you not understand nuance? Obviously just because you are a girl who parties at frats doesn’t mean you’ll consent to anything, but girls who go to frats got their reputations for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:18 PM
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No need to get so worked up lol. It’s okay to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:28 PM
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Not a myth, my first serious gf was this girl. She and her friends wanted to impress the guys with their sexuality; they gave each other head, then got a train ran on them by 4 guys, it’s all on video too. They enthusiastically consented to this, but I do feel bad for the women in those other situations you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:20 PM
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I edited the comment, forgot the (s) at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:34 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:48 PM
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You really take these topics personally, but there were literally marches to free Andrew Tate, a ton of podcasts, TikTok street interviews, etc… all proving it’s not just online, a lot of women aren’t happy with 3rd Wave feminism, Hookup Culture, or Porn either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:36 PM
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I agree, we’re just telling it like it is, we’re not hurt lol at least the vast majority of guys here aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:27 PM
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Yes and no, I think the closer you are to being first for a guy is what matters. It’s part of the male competitive nature. This stuff used to to be life or death for humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:25 PM
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You really think it only exists online? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:21 PM
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This, I literally brought up in r/askfeminists how it would be ideal for two virgins to get together, because of how they wouldn’t be comparing each other and how they could experiment with each-other and learn what they like and don’t like; someone replied and said that’s boring lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:12 PM
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This, so much evidence on Reddit and other places if this. The guy usually leaves the woman thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:10 PM
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Girls at a frat party will literally do anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:08 PM
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Just for fun guy can get anything he wants, I’ve heard so many girls talk about how FWBs and Hookups abuse, rape, and traumatize them (their own words) but they still keep going back to them. The guy that married or dates them gets a duty bj once a month. No enthusiastic consent. No sense of adventure. All because she abused her oxytocin and dopamine, self-control can go a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:08 PM
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Women also make up 70% of the national debt. You can hate it, you can run from it, but the past will always matter. You can even have a BF who’s the most liberal blue pilled worm you can find, he might say he doesn’t care and act all cool, but start talking about how you enthusiastically let a guy give you facials once a week, while he gets duty sex. Tell him how much you loved a guy, but he doesn’t get gifts. Tell him you got gang banged and see how he reacts then. I guarantee you he’ll become …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:48 AM
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Men control commitment, the guys committing to these women are usually inexperienced and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:45 AM
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I’ll half agree with you, red pill is a growing representation of men today, but women are the ones losing in my opinion. Red Pill says “old school romance is dead, here’s hook up culture and this is how you can be successful in it”. Feminism says “Hookup culture and Sexual Liberation is great. Your choice, but we strongly encourage you to let as many guys as you can, use your body to masturbate until you’re ready to settle down, totally fun and safe”. In reality, women who participate in hookup…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:39 AM
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No it doesn’t represent all women, but it represents the mindset of many. The guy gets the worst of their gf/wife (hook up trauma, less adventurous, less experimental, less sexual version of themselves), while random guys get to straight up abuse your future gf or wife for the cost of a few drinks, dinner, or just in the name of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:27 AM
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Lol the point is you don’t want to date someone who gained trauma from hooking up with a bunch of people, but if you think you are winning don’t let RP/BP/PP steal your joy. Also your GF could have other issues like BPD where they use hyper sexuality to draw you in just to offload you later, or could be hyper sexual from trauma “to regain her sexuality”, or she could have sexual imprinting from a previous bf or hookup and certain concepts are now a part of her core sexuality. Regardless I hope s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:14 AM
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For all the reasons in your original post, yes being boyfriend material, nice guy, is sucker shit. The ultimate sucker move is getting married in todays world. AF/BB is definitely real, men and women have to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:03 AM
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Men generally speaking don’t care about an “experienced” girl for a partner. It would more than likely be a turn off due to how difficult it is for a man to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:00 AM
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This is the only take that’s acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:19 PM
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Guys just don’t want to marry promiscuous women, there’s a visceral disgust to promiscuity when it comes to your potential spouse; it makes you see them differently. Like women will let random hookups do things to them that they won’t let their own husbands or boyfriends who would die for them do, only for the man to be cucked and stuck nursing her trauma from a bad FWBs, or hookups, and a sexless marriage.It’s really a bad deal for men. 99% of the girls who talk about their hoe-phase” never hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:15 PM
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I’m in a loving LTR too and wouldn’t change anything you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:36 PM
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Disagree, women aren’t good at choosing male partners though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:02 AM
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I agree as a guy, how accessible you are is where the real value comes in, fucking everything you can shows a lack of self control and is validation seeking behavior (hoe phase behavior).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:34 PM
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If it’s no shit, then your original comment has no meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:26 PM
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Yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:47 PM
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Atheist tik tok would like a word with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:40 PM
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This 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:39 PM
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Sounds like you got a dose of redpill. That’s just how the world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:30 PM
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Lol, testosterone really makes people do crazy things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:28 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:20 PM
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Couldn’t be me, but a lot of guys will “fuck-zone” a girl though. You don’t have to be attractive to a guy for him to have sex with you, for a guy to commit to you he has to think you are something special.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:18 PM
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Yeah you are welcome for the red pill, if you watch married at first sight s12 on Netflix it’s a major plot line. One of the grooms doesn’t find his new wife attractive and he fucks here twice, tells her she’s unattractive, makes her chase harder, then he has a baby on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:36 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:28 PM
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Honestly romance and relationships are effectively dead due to modern dating culture. When you date or marry a girl these days you’re taking on her casual-sex trauma for a relationship that is statistically likely to be sexless, less exploratory, and depressing. While I don’t support promiscuity for men or women, the third wave won so do what you have to but don’t hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:28 PM
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“But people aren’t cars bro” jk. I get what you’re saying and that is a valid line of thought. I’ll have to think of a better way of conveying my point further but I’ll concede for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:19 PM
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I would say women like preselected men not men who necessarily sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:15 PM
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Firstly, the term hoe phase was coined by and is purported by women. Secondly I don’t know too many women who have these phases with high self esteem. At the root of a “Hoe Phase” is insecurity and validation seeking not pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:14 PM
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Girls called it a hoe phase first, and once again men and women aren’t the same, attraction is not equal it’s equitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:08 PM
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Girls will literally fuck a guy with opinions counter cultural to theirs. IE girls fucking Trump supporters when they are super liberal, there was a post on some Reddit begging girls to stop fucking conservatives after Roe V. Wade was overturned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:06 PM
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It’s called fuck-zoning, guys fuck zone girls, girls friend zone guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:46 PM
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This is actually a huge plot line on Married at First Sight on Netflix. One of the grooms doesn’t find his new wife attractive but still has sex with her twice, tells her she’s unattractive to him, then has a baby on her lol. It’s fucked up but that’s just how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:46 PM
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I don’t support promiscuity for men or women, but it’s not the sleeping with a bunch of women that makes the guy attractive to women it’s the pre-selection or the fact that he could. But yes, the things that make a woman attractive/unattractive to a man isn’t the same thing that makes a man attractive/unattractive to a woman. Attraction isn’t equal and never will be it’s equitable and balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:30 PM
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Couldn’t agree more
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:18 PM
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I think this is true from an evo-psych or biological imperative perspective. Me personally, I used to be the romantic type, was saving myself for marriage, wanted to grow with one person and all that, until I got love bombed, manipulated, and cucked by a more experienced girl, my fault for not seeing the signs and paying attention to what was really going on but that lead me to seek validation from women through some really bad sex, if I could go back in time and do it over I would. But for now …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:29 PM
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What attracts men to women isn’t what attracts women to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:25 PM
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I agree it’s bad for both men and women, I think more than one partner is okay, but context matters, I do think hook ups affect men and women differently though. Also science disagrees with you on NSA sex, there really isn’t such a thing. When you have sex with someone oxytocin is released which bonds you and that person a little more each time, even if it’s a one time thing, you think about that person differently than you would if you hadn’t had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:22 PM
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Yes I’m very aware of that site, it’s fucked up honestly, but that’s the internet. Like I said earlier, if my current relationship doesn’t work out then there is very little chance I will date anyone else. The Red Pill is truly sobering. Gen Z seems to be changing the cultural perspective on hookup culture, so maybe there is hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:55 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. I’ve seen enough posts about girls worried about their partners finding out they did crazy shit (Sex work, gang bangs, trains, anal, cream pies, recording sex, bdsm) is almost enough to deter me from marriage or commitment entirely. Not only did they do these things with strangers who don’t give shit about them, but they won’t do them with the partner that is supposed to protect and care for them. Sex Positive feminism ruined dating and killed romance entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:09 PM
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“It has often been presumed that men use religiosity to control women’s sexuality. But then why is it that women are much more likely to embrace religious beliefs than are men? This becomes less puzzling when one considers that, because of their intrinsically higher initial investment in offspring, women are less likely to benefit from a sexually unrestricted strategy, and more likely to benefit if men’s unrestricted inclinations are kept in check. On this view, women may be actively choosing re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:52 PM
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Psychology today has a couple articles showing people aren’t anti-promiscuity because of religion but religion re-asserts their beliefs. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-murder-and-the-meaning-life/201912/is-nothing-sacred-religion-and-sex?amp https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-apes/201906/new-research-why-religions-promote-sexual-conservatism?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:38 PM
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Leave her
/r/askMRP07/11/22 06:56 PM
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On paper, but when it comes to redpill men, they don’t hate ot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:08 AM
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I don’t think anyone against red pill really understands what it’s about. OP here is acting like a blue piller who just got laid and because of that red pill is stupid. Let me ask you this, if red pill methodology or mentality is stupid or false, then why does it literally get men what they want from women way more and easier than blue pill methodology or mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:46 AM
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I would say 100% of the time they are shunned. But guys do pass girls around. Frat boys, Gang Members, Cousins, Brothers, Fathers and Sons (P Diddy, his son, and Lori Harvey) are literally running trains on girls passing them around the social circle. The women in these situations self-esteem is so low that they don’t see what’s happening, they think they are just popular and attractive when in reality she’s just easy to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:27 PM
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I’m just interested in the sociology of it all, I like to try and understand people and how modern day culture affects people. I honestly feel validated when women here acknowledge the issues men face it comes to dating and societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:59 AM
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Lol @ this whole comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:44 PM
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I’m not trolling I’m asking a genuine question. My point was that each sex has unfair expectations when it comes to dating. It’s just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:39 AM
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I don’t know if you meant to reply to my comment with that lol, also read the second edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:23 AM
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You make a lot of assumptions. Who said she tried it once? Who said she hated it? Girls love saying they didn’t like something but they did it multiple times for someone they consider a “bad person” not under threat or coercion, while telling you you’re the best and making you beg to try to same things. Just look on Reddit multiple stories of this scenario usually leading to divorce, breakup, or a dead bedroom. Women are people and they don’t have to do anything they don’t want to do, but when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:41 AM
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Yeah, not getting the same treatment makes you feel inadequate and ultimately makes you want to check out. Refreshing to see a woman understand this perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:19 AM
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She doesn’t have to do anything, but it looks bad especially when he finds out about what she did with other guys when she brags about it (this is very common, women love talking about the past and exes), or when some other guy tries to humiliate you because she was socially irresponsible and got fucked by someone you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:13 AM
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I feel the same exact way about my number, I kinda regret that part of my life. I think the context of it all matters more importantly than the number though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:25 PM
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