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| 0 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.Girls talk about their sexual history and exes unprompted A LOT. Every girl I’ve dated has done this, maybe because they were curious about my history (I don’t like talking about the past), or maybe a girl is insecure and thinks it makes them hotter and likeable but it does the exact opposite imo. As far as the bad experiences thing goes, women literally do this all the time, and I’m not talking in a relationship context. I’ve seen women say a dude violently raped them and still continue to see … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.Good questions, I’m in a relationship right now but if this issue ever arises again, I’ll be sure to give these questions a try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 02:45 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.I think more often than not it is a reflection on the other person. It’s a way of saying you aren’t good enough with out saying it. What kinds of questions do you recommended asking? Of course life is complex, but I’m not going to marry a girl who treats me like a steerage class partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:23 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.Bad reason still, a girl will have a bad experience with a guy and keep seeing him, or they will hear about another girls bad experience and still see the same guy and make that bad experience her own. If I’m dating girl and she isn’t giving me sexually what she gave other guys with enthusiastic consent, she’s not it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:04 AM |
| 6 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?People are desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”Yeah, your idea of a hoe phase is incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?Her husband is one of the biggest simps of our generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:17 PM |
| 11 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?All excellent points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?Not seriously, onlyfans is the least of those imo but our values just wouldn’t align if she thinks people seeing her body is worth 5.99 a month and I’d be a little grossed out by an ex-pornstar. But sex workers do deserve respect, they are humans with real circumstances that lead them to that decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:06 PM |
| 4 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Do you not understand nuance? Obviously just because you are a girl who parties at frats doesn’t mean you’ll consent to anything, but girls who go to frats got their reputations for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 10:18 PM |
| 0 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?No need to get so worked up lol. It’s okay to be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Not a myth, my first serious gf was this girl. She and her friends wanted to impress the guys with their sexuality; they gave each other head, then got a train ran on them by 4 guys, it’s all on video too. They enthusiastically consented to this, but I do feel bad for the women in those other situations you mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?I edited the comment, forgot the (s) at the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?You really take these topics personally, but there were literally marches to free Andrew Tate, a ton of podcasts, TikTok street interviews, etc… all proving it’s not just online, a lot of women aren’t happy with 3rd Wave feminism, Hookup Culture, or Porn either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?I agree, we’re just telling it like it is, we’re not hurt lol at least the vast majority of guys here aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Yes and no, I think the closer you are to being first for a guy is what matters. It’s part of the male competitive nature. This stuff used to to be life or death for humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?You really think it only exists online? Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?This, I literally brought up in r/askfeminists how it would be ideal for two virgins to get together, because of how they wouldn’t be comparing each other and how they could experiment with each-other and learn what they like and don’t like; someone replied and said that’s boring lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:12 PM |
| 5 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?This, so much evidence on Reddit and other places if this. The guy usually leaves the woman thankfully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:10 PM |
| 8 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Girls at a frat party will literally do anything lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Just for fun guy can get anything he wants, I’ve heard so many girls talk about how FWBs and Hookups abuse, rape, and traumatize them (their own words) but they still keep going back to them. The guy that married or dates them gets a duty bj once a month. No enthusiastic consent. No sense of adventure. All because she abused her oxytocin and dopamine, self-control can go a long way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:08 PM |
| 13 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Women also make up 70% of the national debt. You can hate it, you can run from it, but the past will always matter. You can even have a BF who’s the most liberal blue pilled worm you can find, he might say he doesn’t care and act all cool, but start talking about how you enthusiastically let a guy give you facials once a week, while he gets duty sex. Tell him how much you loved a guy, but he doesn’t get gifts. Tell him you got gang banged and see how he reacts then. I guarantee you he’ll become … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Men control commitment, the guys committing to these women are usually inexperienced and desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:45 AM |
| 12 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?I’ll half agree with you, red pill is a growing representation of men today, but women are the ones losing in my opinion. Red Pill says “old school romance is dead, here’s hook up culture and this is how you can be successful in it”. Feminism says “Hookup culture and Sexual Liberation is great. Your choice, but we strongly encourage you to let as many guys as you can, use your body to masturbate until you’re ready to settle down, totally fun and safe”. In reality, women who participate in hookup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?No it doesn’t represent all women, but it represents the mindset of many. The guy gets the worst of their gf/wife (hook up trauma, less adventurous, less experimental, less sexual version of themselves), while random guys get to straight up abuse your future gf or wife for the cost of a few drinks, dinner, or just in the name of fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Lol the point is you don’t want to date someone who gained trauma from hooking up with a bunch of people, but if you think you are winning don’t let RP/BP/PP steal your joy. Also your GF could have other issues like BPD where they use hyper sexuality to draw you in just to offload you later, or could be hyper sexual from trauma “to regain her sexuality”, or she could have sexual imprinting from a previous bf or hookup and certain concepts are now a part of her core sexuality. Regardless I hope s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:14 AM |
| 6 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?For all the reasons in your original post, yes being boyfriend material, nice guy, is sucker shit. The ultimate sucker move is getting married in todays world. AF/BB is definitely real, men and women have to be better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:03 AM |
| 4 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?Men generally speaking don’t care about an “experienced” girl for a partner. It would more than likely be a turn off due to how difficult it is for a man to get sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Hookup culture is great for women but bad for menThis is the only take that’s acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men want women who have has less sexual experiences because they want to gatekeep pleasure and ecstasy.Guys just don’t want to marry promiscuous women, there’s a visceral disgust to promiscuity when it comes to your potential spouse; it makes you see them differently. Like women will let random hookups do things to them that they won’t let their own husbands or boyfriends who would die for them do, only for the man to be cucked and stuck nursing her trauma from a bad FWBs, or hookups, and a sexless marriage.It’s really a bad deal for men. 99% of the girls who talk about their hoe-phase” never hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | M/ in a LTR Essentially. Almost all Women Love Bad Behavior but Condemn it at the Same Time - And Literally Change Their Narrative From Week to WeekI’m in a loving LTR too and wouldn’t change anything you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Why can’t women be good judges of male attractiveness?Disagree, women aren’t good at choosing male partners though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Your value doesn't increase with the more women you sleep withI agree as a guy, how accessible you are is where the real value comes in, fucking everything you can shows a lack of self control and is validation seeking behavior (hoe phase behavior). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 02:34 PM |
| -1 | "The Hoe Phase"If it’s no shit, then your original comment has no meaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:26 PM |
| 11 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?Yeah I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Hookers customers are the equivalent of promiscuous womenAtheist tik tok would like a word with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:40 PM |
| 12 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?This 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:39 PM |
| 12 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?Sounds like you got a dose of redpill. That’s just how the world is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:30 PM |
| 10 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?Lol, testosterone really makes people do crazy things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:28 PM |
| 10 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:20 PM |
| 7 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?Couldn’t be me, but a lot of guys will “fuck-zone” a girl though. You don’t have to be attractive to a guy for him to have sex with you, for a guy to commit to you he has to think you are something special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:18 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"Yeah you are welcome for the red pill, if you watch married at first sight s12 on Netflix it’s a major plot line. One of the grooms doesn’t find his new wife attractive and he fucks here twice, tells her she’s unattractive, makes her chase harder, then he has a baby on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:36 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:28 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?Honestly romance and relationships are effectively dead due to modern dating culture. When you date or marry a girl these days you’re taking on her casual-sex trauma for a relationship that is statistically likely to be sexless, less exploratory, and depressing. While I don’t support promiscuity for men or women, the third wave won so do what you have to but don’t hurt people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:28 PM |
| 3 | "The Hoe Phase"“But people aren’t cars bro” jk. I get what you’re saying and that is a valid line of thought. I’ll have to think of a better way of conveying my point further but I’ll concede for now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:19 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"I would say women like preselected men not men who necessarily sleep around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:15 PM |
| 4 | "The Hoe Phase"Firstly, the term hoe phase was coined by and is purported by women. Secondly I don’t know too many women who have these phases with high self esteem. At the root of a “Hoe Phase” is insecurity and validation seeking not pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:14 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"Girls called it a hoe phase first, and once again men and women aren’t the same, attraction is not equal it’s equitable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:08 PM |
| 3 | "The Hoe Phase"Girls will literally fuck a guy with opinions counter cultural to theirs. IE girls fucking Trump supporters when they are super liberal, there was a post on some Reddit begging girls to stop fucking conservatives after Roe V. Wade was overturned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:06 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"It’s called fuck-zoning, guys fuck zone girls, girls friend zone guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"This is actually a huge plot line on Married at First Sight on Netflix. One of the grooms doesn’t find his new wife attractive but still has sex with her twice, tells her she’s unattractive to him, then has a baby on her lol. It’s fucked up but that’s just how it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"I don’t support promiscuity for men or women, but it’s not the sleeping with a bunch of women that makes the guy attractive to women it’s the pre-selection or the fact that he could. But yes, the things that make a woman attractive/unattractive to a man isn’t the same thing that makes a man attractive/unattractive to a woman. Attraction isn’t equal and never will be it’s equitable and balanced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:30 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"Couldn’t agree more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:18 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"I think this is true from an evo-psych or biological imperative perspective. Me personally, I used to be the romantic type, was saving myself for marriage, wanted to grow with one person and all that, until I got love bombed, manipulated, and cucked by a more experienced girl, my fault for not seeing the signs and paying attention to what was really going on but that lead me to seek validation from women through some really bad sex, if I could go back in time and do it over I would. But for now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:29 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"What attracts men to women isn’t what attracts women to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"I agree it’s bad for both men and women, I think more than one partner is okay, but context matters, I do think hook ups affect men and women differently though. Also science disagrees with you on NSA sex, there really isn’t such a thing. When you have sex with someone oxytocin is released which bonds you and that person a little more each time, even if it’s a one time thing, you think about that person differently than you would if you hadn’t had sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | "The Hoe Phase"Yes I’m very aware of that site, it’s fucked up honestly, but that’s the internet. Like I said earlier, if my current relationship doesn’t work out then there is very little chance I will date anyone else. The Red Pill is truly sobering. Gen Z seems to be changing the cultural perspective on hookup culture, so maybe there is hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:55 PM |
| 14 | "The Hoe Phase"You hit the nail on the head. I’ve seen enough posts about girls worried about their partners finding out they did crazy shit (Sex work, gang bangs, trains, anal, cream pies, recording sex, bdsm) is almost enough to deter me from marriage or commitment entirely. Not only did they do these things with strangers who don’t give shit about them, but they won’t do them with the partner that is supposed to protect and care for them. Sex Positive feminism ruined dating and killed romance entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:09 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women should never have casual sex“It has often been presumed that men use religiosity to control women’s sexuality. But then why is it that women are much more likely to embrace religious beliefs than are men? This becomes less puzzling when one considers that, because of their intrinsically higher initial investment in offspring, women are less likely to benefit from a sexually unrestricted strategy, and more likely to benefit if men’s unrestricted inclinations are kept in check. On this view, women may be actively choosing re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 03:52 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women should never have casual sexPsychology today has a couple articles showing people aren’t anti-promiscuity because of religion but religion re-asserts their beliefs. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-murder-and-the-meaning-life/201912/is-nothing-sacred-religion-and-sex?amp https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-apes/201906/new-research-why-religions-promote-sexual-conservatism?amp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 03:38 PM |
| 3 | GF deleted what she is doing on social media.Leave her | /r/askMRP | 07/11/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableOn paper, but when it comes to redpill men, they don’t hate ot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableI don’t think anyone against red pill really understands what it’s about. OP here is acting like a blue piller who just got laid and because of that red pill is stupid. Let me ask you this, if red pill methodology or mentality is stupid or false, then why does it literally get men what they want from women way more and easier than blue pill methodology or mentality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Chad is a low-value man whoreI would say 100% of the time they are shunned. But guys do pass girls around. Frat boys, Gang Members, Cousins, Brothers, Fathers and Sons (P Diddy, his son, and Lori Harvey) are literally running trains on girls passing them around the social circle. The women in these situations self-esteem is so low that they don’t see what’s happening, they think they are just popular and attractive when in reality she’s just easy to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Why Are You On PPD?I’m just interested in the sociology of it all, I like to try and understand people and how modern day culture affects people. I honestly feel validated when women here acknowledge the issues men face it comes to dating and societal expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithLol @ this whole comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How Much Is Too Much: N-Count Baseline Answer?I’m not trolling I’m asking a genuine question. My point was that each sex has unfair expectations when it comes to dating. It’s just the way it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | How Much Is Too Much: N-Count Baseline Answer?I don’t know if you meant to reply to my comment with that lol, also read the second edit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How Much Is Too Much: N-Count Baseline Answer?You make a lot of assumptions. Who said she tried it once? Who said she hated it? Girls love saying they didn’t like something but they did it multiple times for someone they consider a “bad person” not under threat or coercion, while telling you you’re the best and making you beg to try to same things. Just look on Reddit multiple stories of this scenario usually leading to divorce, breakup, or a dead bedroom. Women are people and they don’t have to do anything they don’t want to do, but when i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | How Much Is Too Much: N-Count Baseline Answer?Yeah, not getting the same treatment makes you feel inadequate and ultimately makes you want to check out. Refreshing to see a woman understand this perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | How Much Is Too Much: N-Count Baseline Answer?She doesn’t have to do anything, but it looks bad especially when he finds out about what she did with other guys when she brags about it (this is very common, women love talking about the past and exes), or when some other guy tries to humiliate you because she was socially irresponsible and got fucked by someone you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Are men with high body counts more attractive?I feel the same exact way about my number, I kinda regret that part of my life. I think the context of it all matters more importantly than the number though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 02:25 PM |
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