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A woman in a position of power in a patriarchy has to follow the rules of the patriarchy to be in power. My god can women actually take responsibility for anything? Insanity. Strong independent boss babes until they fuk up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:48 PM
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The true value of dating apps is that you know everyone on them has romantic intentions Wrong. There was a survey for women, that showed 1/3 of women on dating apps had no intentions of meeting anyone. There are all sorts of reasons women use dating apps. Validation, attention, boredom, advertizing their Instagram/Social media or other services. Also alot of bots. Tinder has a 75 to 25% male/female ratio. You can easily substract another 10-15% from that 25% value if you are actually looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:23 PM
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Offline approach You gotta differentiate between warm and cold approach. Warm approach is how most people end up in a relationship. Cold approach is basically aquivalent to a dating app. If you dont have a social circle or are not in a social environment on the regular, warm approach is not possible. I think thats a problem most people have, especially once they hit a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:17 PM
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I was joking, but he did indeed get hundreds of mails from different women. Alot of these kind of criminals do. Its called hybristophilia (attraction to people who commit violent crimes). Its basically the steroid version of the "badboy". But looks go a far way too. Remember the story about that boy who got life in prison for killing a mother and her baby during a race?(Cameron Herrin). Women set up a petition to release him because they thought he was too pretty for jail. I dont think people mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:47 PM
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That’s not what friends do. Because he is not her friend and he doesnt want to be. Friendship is mutual, you cant decide on your own wether you have a friendship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:13 AM
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Being a serial rapist and murderer. Ted Bundy was getting lovebombed by tons of women in prison. They just didnt seem to notice that flaw in his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:05 AM
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What do you define as bias in this context? Every person has their own view and opinions on things. The host does too and he invites people to discuss and debate those topics. For me, the only thing that matters, is that the panels are authentic. That they truly believe the things they are saying and I think thats the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:56 AM
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like when they let notsoerudite on, but they platform people like andrew and rachel wilson, michael knowles, charlie kirk and candace owens So whats the issue with that? Im a big fan of andrew. I watched his 8 hour debate with erudite, he made her look like a fool. You dont have to agree with their worldviews but I dont see it as a bad thing to give them a platform to debate. they cast young, relatively uneducated women Like I said, they track their own numbers, they showed their statisitcs. Its…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:34 AM
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I only watch the debates, not the open tables anymore. But Ive watched them for atleast 5 years straight. The host has a stance but thats about it. They invite pretty much everyone. From very educated people to hoodrats, from young to middle aged. From lawyers to OF girls. they select the women they invite accordingly I think that the most ridicoulus personalities get the most attention by nature. I remember them getting accused that they only invite OF girls. Turned out their stats showed only …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:51 PM
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Because I also watched shows where they invited women and asked those questions. "Whatever" podcast did those questions every show for months. Must have been hundreds of different women by now answering those specific questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:03 PM
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Not just some women, most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:35 PM
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but there are women who aren't looking for confidence every women does, they just dont define confidence the same way. I think women are looking for competence the most, and competence requires confidence. No woman wants an incompetent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:25 PM
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I think charge in this context is also the wrong term. Lead is much more fitting. Most women expect men to lead and they desire that to a certain degree, some more some less. And leading as a men is not easy, not everyone men is also comfortable doing that, nobody teaches us that stuff anymore. It took me years to get to a point were I can lead to a degree that meets most womens standards. I would rather not lead and just lean back and take the passive ride but sadly thats not what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:27 PM
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Like the right to die in war? Because that was the potential consequence of having a vote. By the way, for most of history not all men could vote either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:23 PM
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"In some cases, slaveholders deliberately paired enslaved men and women to increase the number of enslaved children." Not gender specific tho, went both ways. Still fuked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:20 PM
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Yeah, women were denied bank accounts because of “survival” Women could open bank accounts. Just in marriage the men were in charge. The same rights should have extended to all humans. You can’t deny all rights to a group, give SOME, then pretend to be good. You can’t deny all rights to a group all? See this is like a prime example of learning history through a feminist filter. You act like we put women in cages and used them as breeding stock back in the day. Its just not what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:59 PM
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Did you know that women didnt even want the vote for the most part, because it meant that they had to sign up for the draft? Vote came with a sarcrifice. Again what you are doing is presentism, its not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:48 PM
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Dude this is a debate sub. You made a point, I disproved it. Try to counter it or take the L and let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:27 PM
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What is a basic human right in the first place? Human rights are a concept of the mind, they are an idea. They dont exist unless we make them up. Also judging the past from a present view is very naive. People tried to survive back then. The roles were established because it turned out to improve their chances of survival. You think throwing the woman in the coal mine and making the man stay home with the kids would have been a better idea? Im sure the woman would have not been happy about that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:26 PM
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Eh I disagree. Being in charge is quite the burden. Its alot of effort and you get punished for slacking once you set the expectation. Most men wouldnt even bother, if they still got what they want from a woman anways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:18 PM
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Second, do not pretend that most of y’all would be doing the EXACT same things your forefathers did if it was still socially acceptable. its just a counterpoint. You cant prove your claim and its not like there werent alot of men not doing what you are accusing them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:15 PM
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None of this “all men” shit exists irl. I just disproved your point. Bad for you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:14 PM
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Lmao, men gave women feminism. Everything that women have right now, was granted by men. And feminists cant even deny it because their whole argument is the evil partriarchy. There were alot of men in power out there who fought for womens rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:04 PM
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You’re only being “punished” if you constantly consume gender war content. None of this “all men” shit exists irl. Ever watched street interviews asking women wether they choose a man or a bear in the woods? Not cherry picked reactions either. Or asking women how many men are likely to rape or kill them and they answer with 50%+. Its bad enough they got brainwashed on the internet to the point that they would make such a illogical choices in a real life scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:59 PM
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Nothing wrong with mediocrity. Issue is that mediocre women dont want mediocre men and it doesnt end good for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:00 PM
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But most guys here are broke prove? so why are they thinking they deserve submission? prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:28 PM
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As long as they are enough men who arent frustrated enough. You gotta bank on those. If they become the minority, you are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:27 AM
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There are men that are not taller than you, and have the same strength as you. But you dont want them. You, as in women in general. They seek superiority but then demand equality from said desired man, its hypocricy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:25 AM
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LOL you don't think men shit on each other? Well thats my point, they do. They tell each other they are losers, they dont tell each other they are fine the way they are. Women on the other hand are the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:22 AM
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Mansplaining is usually an accusation that doesnt have the proof of sexism backing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:21 PM
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What you are basically saying is that men and women are different and they shouldnt be treated equal because it doesnt make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:18 PM
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Where is all the social propaganda for men that being fat is beautiful, accept yourself as who you are and dont let anyone tell you you are not enough etc. . This shit is all coming from women, not from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:08 PM
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but but...my anecdotal experiences trump statisitics!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:05 PM
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Sexless marriage is sure not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:59 PM
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I think it’s a very recent phenomena where men are starting to say “take me as I am.” Where is this even happening? They new trend I see going viral is the looksmaxxing community. literally taking extreme meassures to improve yourself, sometimes completely transforming your looks/appearance and its mostly men. Gym culture has exploded in the last decade. Men jumping on crypto to get rich. The whole menosphere is about muscles and money. Where is "take me as I am" happening??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:51 PM
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And lets not forget a lot of them also have this weird idea that women should be submissive to them. And they should be in control this weird idea that women also mirror, by prefering men that have more money than them, are taller than them, stronger, more confident, higher status. But they want to be treated as "equal" when it suits them. Its so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:40 PM
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It doesn't matter to us if men we do not want, stay unwanted. until they lash out and then everyone starts crying again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:37 PM
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Why don't they have sex with other men like the Romans if it's just biological? Because vast majority of men are not gay? We all have a sex drive to keep the species going by reproducing, thats why we are attracted to the opposite sex. The exception proves the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:49 AM
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Its evolutionary. They look for the best inherent genes, not the ones that try to make up for it. It makes total sense from a procreational view.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:34 PM
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Men dont seek attention and validation from women, they seek sexual access. Men are more thirsty due to biological hormone differences and they have to compete against other men to gain said access. Only 30% of men in history reproduced, its undeniable that they have to use whatever works to optimize their chances. Men act purely pragmatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:38 PM
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But you cant deny that looks are a huge factor. You might be a good looking lad and telling a short overweight baldy that he just has to learn to talk properly. Reminds of these meme, picture of Chris Hemsworth with the title "just say hi, works everytime".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:57 PM
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And yeah historically men in their teens were used for warfare so it makes sense that we still have that in our blood. thats not how genetics work lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:40 PM
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The halo effect is a cognitive bias where one positive trait of a person, brand, or product (like attractiveness or charisma) subconsciously influences viewers to assume other positive, unrelated traits (such as intelligence or kindness). It might just be an illusion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:29 PM
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ok fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:28 PM
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"Look at the body on that chick" The woman is reduced entirely to her physical form. There is no person attached to it in the speaker's framing, just a collection of parts being assessed like something on display. A "chick" is a female person right? Even if we would take it literal, it would be an animal chicken, not an object. Where is the actual objectification here other than you assuming it? Women complain that men tell women what they think or like, yet here we have women telling men, how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:20 PM
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is reducing a person to an object. how do you know they are seeing you as an object? You cant read their minds, you cant see their view of yourself, you can just assume it. But thats not evidence. Ive never seen actually evidence that men view women as "objects" ever. Men dont say that. Its just an interpretation by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:16 PM
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being seen as an object are not the same thing what does that even mean? What kind of object, like a toaster or more like a streetlamp? Is it supposed to be dehumanizing? What does dehumanizing mean in that context. Am I dehumanizing a person by sexualising them? Shouldnt we first clarify what we are even talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:11 PM
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Attractive men typically are more well versed therefore, it is not as creepy. the halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:58 PM
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I misread your post, I thought you said men seek women that will take care of them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:17 PM
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by the prospect of getting women to take care of himself? where is this even written, what has that to do with this post? Are you having a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:19 AM
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So you decide who is a loser or not? Where is your tolerance, they are not hurting anyone living their lives like this. That’s what the red pill does. Encourages men to stay as losers and just blame external factors for their lack of pussy its literally the opposite of what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:07 AM
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You dont have to reproduce, great message to society. Thats gonna work out great for the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:38 PM
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And women are so used to sitting on the recieving end, that they think its a good idea to ridicule that behaviour instead of appreciating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:21 PM
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You are controlled, we are all controlled by evolutionary wiring. Its naive to think that we as intellectual beings progressed beyond that. We just mask it. But once you see through it, you see the monkey in yourself and everyone, everwhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:18 PM
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They have to prioritize tho, because something that isnt easy to get requires effort. If you dont get women due to your looks, your paycheck or your lifestyle as a basement dweller, you gotta take action. It doesnt just happen naturally. Thats why there is no way around prioritizing it. Most men would probably befine with their way of life, if they had access to women. But for some men access to women correlates with big changes in their life, so they are forced to put in the effort if they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:12 PM
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It's called therapy and it's pretty great. What has any of this to do with therapy. Thats quite the leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:07 PM
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What being bombarded with incompatible matches who swipe right on anything tells the average women is that now she has to dig through piles of guys who don’t like her at all. Some men swipe that way because they realized being picky doesnt work for them. I dont think women even know how men swipe. Most men dont swipe that way. Now she’s left with half assed intro messages, disrespectfully sexual messages and lazy conversation. If a hot man swipes right on me, I’m aware it’s total bullshit. Oh no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:05 AM
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An average women might not have access to a top tier male model, true. But an average women will still have sexual access to men that are outsight of her league. Put an average women on a dating app, get her bombarded with thousands of likes. Let her be super picky, pick out the top 1% of her matches, ask them if she could come over to bang, gg. And then tell me that that wouldnt warp her own self assement of her dating markt value in the long run. When she will try to settle down, guess where s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:27 AM
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I havent even heard that phrase in a while. I remember it from the "fake it till you make it" mentality. "You are not the prize but just act like one and make women believe it." Its just a fake aura that attracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:09 AM
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Red pill isn't prescriptive its descriptive but they will never get it. Because their definition of red pill comes from fresh & Fit clips on youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:04 AM
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Yeah but as a dude you're going to have to accept then that the girl considering you for a LTR has hooked up with a higher SMV dude than you. That's the same dilemma that I'm in. I can accept it. Most dudes can't. Depends. Does she also hook up with you, or is she stringing you along for weeks, telling you she wants to wait because you are important to her, while she had one night stands with chad in the past? Because I would rather frame that as self respect than insecurity, to not acccept that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:53 PM
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Were I live we have public (forced) healthcare, and healthcare only pays for therapists which fullfill specific standards. You could pay for private ones but would have to pay from your own pocket. I guess those would grant faster access to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:48 PM
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they personally find it helpful would vary greatly person to person. Im sure you are also aware how difficult it is to find a therapist, so I think you have a responsibility to a certain degree to not take a therapy spot for something that might be a nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:18 PM
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I'm just curious because, if you are saying that therapy isn't necessarily what mentally stable men need to mature, grow, and develop as people, that's super different from therapy being an ineffective strategy for men dealing with mental illness. I absolutely agree, which is the reason why I think therapy definitely has its place. If you have severe depression, have a PD or something along the lines, you should seek mental support by a psychiatrist and a therapist. Im not talking about these ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:57 PM
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I am biased because I had several therapiest, and it was always structured as me taking the role of the talker, and the therapist as the listener. No guidances, no direction, no solutions, no homework, even when I asked for it. In germany, where I live, this seems to be very common and the go to therapy that gets prescribed after evaluation. I didnt even know anything else was considered common. So there seems to be some differences depending where you live. They just wanted me to pour out my he…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:04 PM
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There are hormonal reasons why that is the case. Little boys haven't gone through puberty, so you can't draw conclusions from that. Ive made a post here that clarifies that with data. That being said, yes no doubt that the cultural aspect has an impact too. But there are also clearly biological differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:17 AM
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Its a dumb example by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:11 AM
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Stop the gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:56 PM
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I think you misread. Men tend to use more task oriented and problem solving coping strategies. Women tend to use more emotion focused coping and support seeking. We are talking about coping strategies. These are emotional. How men and women tend to approach inner emotional conflicts. Not work related. Im very well aware women can be extremely competent, my mother is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:22 PM
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The same way I would explain a tall woman that in average men are taller than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:08 PM
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Well be glad you are not witnessing the space Im finding myself in. Those are toxic shitholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:02 PM
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As someone who doesn't do well in CBT because of the homework, the fact you didn't get any confuses me greatly and makes me think the practitioners you had were a bag of wank. Im not in an english speaking country, so I had to google CBT. I asked Chatgpt about my therapy in comparison to whats considered CBT: 2) In Germany (what you actually experienced) What’s officially common is: Verhaltenstherapie (CBT) tiefenpsychologisch fundierte Therapie psychoanalysis BUT in practice: 👉 Many therapists—…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:41 PM
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Well now you are making my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:28 PM
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Im not denying it wasnt a great argument but it counters the one solution fits all narrative. What I realized in this thread, that this topic is way to broad, and has way too many facets to just capsulate it in a small thread. I had certain comments in mind, from certain commenters about certain men, about certain therapies. And my opinions are shaped by the experiences I made in my therapies, same as the ones from all the peeps in the comment section that differ from mine. I think I do I have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:27 PM
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Knowing which emotions are running in your conscious and subconscious, processing them, untangling them, being able to observe them despite the pain, shame, etc. The goal is to align your mind towards complete self-knowledge and congruence, hence developing mental resilience and inner peace. So basic shit? I dont deny there are people out there who are not good at this, I think its a minority. And I also think that alot of people dont even have such deep rooted issue that they would need those t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:16 PM
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Well, does my complain have to be rational? The comments Im talking about are usually stemming from toxic feminist comment sections on social media and also anti menosphere sections, where women think that all of these men should just rather go to therapy instead of getting help from a coach. And you are right, would be nice to not feel anything in the first place that would motivate me to even make the thread, but Im not a robot, Im a human and I also enjoy debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:05 PM
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Ive made my experiences with several, and direction was never to be seen. I do think I have a point and I absolutely stand by it, but Im also not denying that my experiences are biased due to the experiences I had with those therapists. Then again, this thread is just full of anecdotals, so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:00 PM
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but others are mentalcels who genuinely need help from professionals We are definitely not dissagreeing on the correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:57 PM
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men in this sub are extremely emotional though. Extremely emotional is the guy running in a school with a shotgun. Not the one making a reddit thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:53 PM
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Ever been to therapy champ? yep, adressed it in this thread. The “just get on with it” attitude has a fucking body count. Im pretty sure I heard a stat, that half of the men that commited suicide had a therapy session the week earlier. Not saying that therapie doesnt help, but words can only do so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:48 PM
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I think not understanding concepts like "being in touch with your emotions" is the real problem here No I think you cant articulate it, so you just looking for a cop out, putting blame on me. You do realize this phrase got repeated so much over the years, that it these point it feels more like a meme. Yet, Ive never seen anyone ever clarifying it. Do you think men are emotionally disabled, that they dont know when they feel sad and when they feel anger? Like confused gorillas running around in d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:44 PM
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cope better with their situation cope better not getting laid? See thats the issue Im having, because I dont think, incels for example, need to cope, they are already coping. They need to get out and do the work. I also dont think alot of them have mental issues, they are just realizing the world is not fair, and they didnt got the best end of the stick. But instead of pushing through they sooth themself in a ressentment and self pity. Cant even blame them, its probably quite comfortable, atleas…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:27 PM
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Boy, if only I got a dollar every time a "therapist" responds to my complaining about dating issues with "Have you tried dating apps? Works for me". I don't even know what to tell them. I would crawl up the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:20 PM
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If you dont understand what they mean, it's a solid clue you really need to do that this is such a lazy and pathetic responds. This is a debate sub not tik tok. Source: i felt like it "Testosterone is linked to lower emotional expressiveness and higher suppression. There are slight differences in areas like the amygdala and prefrontal cortex activity during emotional processing. Women, on average, cry more frequently than men. Hormones contribute, especially prolactin and testosterone difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:18 PM
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The idea that you need therapy for any issue also seems to be some kind of trend Ive seen since social media. Apparently everyone needs help, but not all issues need proffessional one. There are so many people who are actually sick and really need proper guidance and support, and they have to wait several months because someone steps their toe on their bed every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:11 PM
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Considering enough women seem to be drawn to narcissists, criminals and general douchbags, I dont think that therapy is needed to get laid. Seems like you can be mentally quite disturbed, and still get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:08 PM
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I dont think so. Most will tell them that they are great the way they are and would tell them to love themself but that wouldnt get them laid. They wouldnt suggest to get in shape, work on their style, get a proper job and socialize. Most therapists dont know what its like for individuals like these, and they dont know why they are struggling. Depends on the therapists, but most of them are older, and most of them are women. So if 60yo grandma therapist tells you, you have value the way you are,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:06 PM
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Its been 10 years, but when I was in my early 20s, Ive been to three different ones. All of them, were 90% me talking, 10% them responing in generic ways. I asked them what to do, I ask them for homework, I was begging. Nothing. And next session, it seemed like the reset button was pressed. They label it as CBT but in practice it felt like client-centered (non-directive). One therapy literally went 9 months. It felt like running on a spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:59 PM
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work to actually be in touch with their emotions and empathy towards others. What does that even mean. Sounds like some cookie cutter gibberish. I would love you to give a proper scenarior so I could even understand what that means in practice. The issue I see here already, that you assume men are not in touch with their emotions and lack empathy because you as a women have a certain expectation from your view how that is supposed to look like. This is the reason why I cant stress enough that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:50 PM
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This is a copout, and not even entirely true. Believe it or not, there are men who prefer emotion focused coping, and there are women who prefer to drown themselves in work when going through things. Why there always has to be someone who points out exceptions to generalities. There are some women who are taller than men, but you would agree that in average men are taller than women, right. There are forms of therapy focused on goals and tasks. Like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I think it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:40 PM
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The particular quote I used gets sometime used as a meme, and sometimes as a condescending responds. But therapy for men gets pushed alot by women, especially in feminist social media and anti manosphere spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:32 PM
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Look at the dating app data. Look at how women swipe vs men. Women swipe 5% of men, men swipe 60% of women. Men might drool over ig models, but they are wayyy more tolerant when its about actual dating. Men know where they stand, because they dont even get access to sex if they are not percieved as attractive. While women do. Women are being extremely picky and not for their own good. Because if you are an average women, and your self assessment is above average, it will make their dating life h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:57 PM
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Nope. Never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:52 PM
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The problem is you are not explaining why you think our perception is wrong. Well I told you the reason why I think why alot of women are delusional. If you wanna know why I hold that position in the first place, then it just comes down to anecdotal experiences. I could be the delusional one. You could be perfectly right, with your assement of average. The thing is, we will never know. A delusional mind doesnt know its delusional, thats just the nature of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:48 PM
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"Now if you believe women are too dumb to perceive how people at the bus look like" look at the threat title. Thats literally the point. Its about a lack of capability to judge accurately. Thats the claim. I dont think it has anything to do with intelligence, but mostly with a combination of hypergamie and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:37 PM
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There are many podcasts that ask that question to a panel of women for years. Ive literally watched hundreds of women answering the same question. About half of them say 10. Alot of them then try to justify it with beeing confident, even tho from my perspective it comes of as insecure if anything. So who knows if they are actually believing that themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:33 PM
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To invalidate women's experiences? Not experience, but perception. Some men think they can fight a bear. Delusion is not gender specific. And for the same reason, I would try to talk sense into a man thats trying to fight a bear, I would try to talk sense into an obese women waiting for chad to knock on her door. Both result in negative outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:29 PM
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You can see average people anywhere. You could also step into a bus, and most people there are by randomness, above average. Your evaluation of whats considered average, shouldnt be linked to a specific location. That doesnt make sense. Why would there be more average people on the public transport then walking on the sideway?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:24 PM
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but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:20 PM
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But I dont know if you are capable of judging that accurately. Thats kinda the point of OP. Ugly men might be invisible to you. Average men might be visible, but you deem them as ugly. And the rest of the cake you consider average and above average. Now that would be considered delusional because mathematically it wouldnt even make sense. But you wouldnt know if you are delusional if you are in fact delusional. Thats why these discussions are a waste of time. There is no way to know if your perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:19 PM
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But that has nothing to do with the public transport doesnt it? I see beautiful women on public transport all the time. Is there some negative connotation Im missing with public transports?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:13 PM
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many probably believe themselves to be average, too. well if thats the case then half of them wouldnt rate themself a 10, once they get ask to rate themself out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:09 PM
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Instagram is the largest online dating platform and it’s not going anywhere, anytime soon. I absolutely agree, alot of people are not realizing this. I remember a street interviewer asking random couples if they met through a dating app. Alot of them said no and then explained that they hit each other up on instagram before the even met each other. That blew my mind, because I realized that this data doesnt show up on dating app surveys. Most dating happens online nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:07 PM
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How many of them ended up getting the ring tho of said men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:02 PM
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So a male model cant sit in public transport? How do locations, friends and coworkers tell us anything about wether they are average or not. You saying that, doesnt make it true, which is exactly the issue. We might talk past each other when we use the term average. I might be delusional, maybe you are, who knows. I still think there is objectivity to a certain degree, even in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:56 PM
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Its actually very simple. Most women are not into douchebags/assholes. Most douchebags, who get women have characteristics that correlate with things that women find attractive. Looks, masculinity, dominance, bad boy vibes, you name it. Due to that, these men have easy access to women. You dont tend to value things you have alot of. Some of them are assholes by nature, but alot of them are just treating women as interchangeable, because they have optionality, which results in behaviour that come…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:47 PM
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I had 25 dates on tinder when I was active. In only 2 dates of these 25, I bought a girl a coffee. Most dates were just walking and talking, some of them in a bar. I slept with almost half of them on the first date. If she is attracted to you then it doesnt matter, and if shes not, then buying her free shit is not gonna help it. Dont let women gaslight you. They make different rules for different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:28 PM
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This is a debate sub. Im not sure what Im supposed to debate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:19 PM
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We have dating app statistics. We can see from there that women swipe a very small amount of men. 80% of the likes of women go the top20% of men. These are superficial dating apps. Ugly guys dont score there, thats objective data. Now you can make the argument that in real life its upside down, and ugly men are also running through chicks. But what would that even mean? It would suggest that looks dont matter at all, you can be a model or you can look like an ugly trashcan, you will get laid as …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:11 PM
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Says your anecdotal experience? It means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:56 PM
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They might cheat because its so rare that they get a chance for sex that they take it. That doesnt mean they get laid all the time as you said. Most ugly men dont get alot of sex with alot of women. Im just arguing against that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:50 PM
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I consider myself red pill and I know why you think they way you do. The content that is suggested to you is cherry picked, and it creates a false narrative. Most women are not complaining, most men are still dating one way or the other. You will find the same amount of women that beg men to stop approaching them, as the ones that beg to be approached, just a small grp of people. Most men who check out of dating, werent dating in the first place. Remember, only 30-40% of men through history proc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:58 PM
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Most women dont really think about this stuff logically. They argue and advocate for the things that benefit them. They dont mind the hypocricy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:47 PM
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We are horny because that is supposed to drive us to procreate. Its literally the only reason these desires exist in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:45 PM
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This shit is straight depression. Ugly guys (whatever that subjective term is meant to mean) get laid. All the time. They have girlfriends and boyfriends. They get married. I dont think ugly men are running through chicks. They do however can score a relationship. Wether they are happy in those is another question. I know men who tend to be on the lower end of attractiveness and they usually end up with a dry bedroom. Its just what happens when your girlfriend/wife also deems you unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:42 PM
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No, I am explaining to you that no one thinks it’s all men. I disagree on that. Speak for yourself. I see alot of posts on social media, wether its from feminist influencer or women in those comment sections actually pointing out that men as a whole are the problem. And that every man who isnt fighting the patriarchy is not better than the ones doing crime. Ive even had these discussions with those individuals and I got framed as a part of the problem because I argued with statistics. Im just sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:32 PM
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Does it show one on me? Pretty sure Ive never choosen anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:55 PM
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Apart from Musk I dont even know who these guys are. Also what has Musk to do with the red pill anyways. When Im refering to the red pill, Im refering to what it originally was. I first heard the term about 15 years ago and thats the information I go off. Seems like red pill correlates with other stuff, doesnt make it the definition of the red pill. Same as incel, it is someone who literally cant get laid and thats where the definition ends. Certain political believes or opinions about women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:52 AM
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As opposed to the red pill that has them believing that their lack of success is due to external factors and that if these young men do exactly what they say including voting for right wing political parties it will make their lives better? Dude you took the wrong train. I think you have no idea what the red pill even is. You are throwing tons of shit in one basket. Red pill is not guidance, its literally just information. You seem really hung up on some influencers who promote certain lifestyle…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:47 PM
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Maybe, since you can identify blue pillers as regular people, people you dont even know, you might identify me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:34 PM
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so blue pill are regular people? I dont have any pill as a tag, what am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:12 PM
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And then women wonder why they got into an abusive relationship. WOW. This mentality is so dangerous. If you wanna predict future behaviour, look at past behaviour. "Well he is just abusing other people, wont happen to me". What a brain dead take, hope you dont teach that your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:52 PM
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Dude dont bother that guy has such a hate boner for the red pill that you cant argue with him in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:44 PM
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Can you actually talk about blue pill without mentioning red pill? Atleast try to back up the ideology you follow instead of just pointing fingers at others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:42 PM
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You seem just anti red pill and not actually blue pill. The mentality of blue people would gaslight ugly people that they are not ugly. That beauty is subjective, that real beauty comes from within. That women care more about a kind heart than a pretty shell. Oh and dont forget the roses on the first date. Its just toxic positivity and leads to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:40 PM
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If you wanna fuck a bunch of different women the rest of your life that has nothing to do with the red pill. Red pill is about exposing the truth, not a life guide. Its just information. I guess you would have to differentiate between the red pill and red pill influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:35 PM
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You gotta watch the matrix again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:32 PM
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So why do people in this sub choose blue pill as a tag
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:28 PM
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I dont wanna go into what a woman is, but at that time they were identifying as men. So no wasnt made by 2 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:27 PM
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How would it even solve anything. Lets assume therapy helps him to deal with negative feedback. The negative Feedback would still exist. He would still get rejected. It wouldnt change anything on the real life results he is experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:43 PM
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No one is talking about the men that volunteer, thats not what this is about. Men are forced to go to war, wether they volunteer or not, women are not forced by law to give birth. The end. Also to compare the risk of birthing a child to going to the front lines getting torn apart, is ridicoulus. Those figures are scaled per births: e.g., 18.6 deaths per 100,000 live births means roughly 0.0186 % of births are associated with maternal death. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK611990/?utm_sourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:18 AM
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Just seems very political biased. Nothing wrong with a bit of orange in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:03 PM
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Why are we comparing child birth to the draft. Now a days women have no duty to birth children, no ones forcing them and they are only doing it for their own fullfillement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:02 PM
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Nobody forces women to have children. And they actually dont, birth rates are going down. I cant believe you actually try to make a comparison here. Men getting drafted by law, while women are free to decide wether they have children or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:04 AM
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So are you saying women have a duty to have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:58 AM
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dude are you having a stroke in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:53 AM
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In my country ironically the conservatives are for including women in the draft and the left parties are either against it or want to get rid of it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:52 AM
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They're not getting drafted again any time soon. Maybe I have a different view on this since Im european. But seing what happened in ukraine, where men werent allowed to leave the country, got literally beaten up and put in a van to be forced into military service. While they are dying, women were allowed to flee, they set up tinder accounts in my country and keep living their lives. A chance that those men didnt get because they were born as men. It is really fucked up and its very recent. It d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:36 AM
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I have no idea why you are so hung up on this "accept into society" thing, Ive never even implied any of that. I literally said it doesnt matter for most man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:20 PM
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Yeah, and yet your whole point is about women being responsible for men's place in society no its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:17 PM
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I tell you something about men. They dont care if they are socially accepted. Most are happy if they get what they want, they dont need sugar blown up their ass by society. You think a guy who has unlimited access to women and money gives a shit about what the rest of society thinks of him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:46 PM
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Most men get into relationships because it gets them regular sex. The men who have easy access to casual sex usually stay single for longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:08 PM
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Im not sure if I can agree with that. If you tell a person thats lost and confused to jump from a skycraper as advice, you are partially responsible. And Im refering not the everyone, but to the women who do that, to the men that are seeking out guidance. Just to be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:04 PM
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Its life advice and life advice usually promises a fullfilling life. Huge part of a fullfilling life for vast majority of men is dating, wether thats casual, relationship, marriage and kids etc. . Taking that advice is counterproductive if the women that recommend it, are then avoiding those men. Men have to perform, not everyone is born as chad thundercock with a 7 digit bank account. What women are basically telling men is that they dont have to perform while then choosing the men who are. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:10 PM
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I tell men they can do those things, so I fit within the parameters of your post. They don’t have to be masculine, etc. because they are free to do whatever they want with their lives. I tell my man it’s okay to be vulnerable and open up; I don’t give a shit what other men do because I don’t care about them like I care about my man. They are also free to jump from a skyscraper, would you tell them that too? Probably not because you know it would be counter productive. What’s even more baffling t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:29 PM
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That has nothing to do with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:13 PM
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You are moving the goal posts. If there are just 2 women in this entire world who thirst over Andrew Tate it's plural. You made up the comparison with styles up in your head. It seems we are talking past each other. You also didn't address the Ted Bundy example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:23 PM
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what the numbers are when it comes to Harry Styles and other "effeminate" men. Why does that matter, its not a comparison, never was. they LIKE him. They're not ATTRACTED to him. Again, no women in sight to THIRST over him. I think its hilarous to me that its so hard to believe for you, that women dont share your subjective preference for a man. Ted Bundy, a literally serial rapist and murderer, one of the worst in us history got literally hundreds of love letters from women while on death row. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:03 PM
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on a side note I find it hilarious you'd think there genuinely are many women out there who thirst over fucking Andrew Tate Ever heard of Ted Bundy and jeffrey dahmer, they got love letters from women while in prison. You think Andrew Tate is sitting at home jerking off on pornhub longing for the touch of a women? https://www.newsweek.com/andrew-tate-popularity-women-revealed-1793001?utm_source=chatgpt.com Andrew Tate, the controversial former kickboxer and social media influencer, is more popul…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:52 PM
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You are delulu if you think Andrew Tate isnt sought after. Of course women are not gonna proclaim their lust for him since they get shamed or potentially even cancelled for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:34 PM
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The fact you'd think Harry Styles doesn't get pussy is absolutely hilarious. Never said that. Im well aware that he probably swims in puss. Comparing rich famous people to the average person is nonesense anyways. Most girls are not attracted to him because he dresses like a dragqueen but because he is rich and famous. But they leave that part out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:30 AM
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why is it any of my business to tell them what they should or shouldn’t do? Well Im not talking about women like you obviously if you dont throw out phrases like the ones I listed. I hear this shit especially in womens dating podcasts or from feminist influencer on social media. Not being attracted to someone does not mean you want them to not be included in society. They just end up lonely and bitter then. No sex, no relationship. Thats how you create incels. Thats exclusion by selling somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:11 AM
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But telling men they can or should do that, while then avoiding those men romantically just comes off as sabotage. Maybe these women dont have any evil intentions, they might think it just sounds good telling someone to be free like a beautiful butterfly. But its bad advice unless you dont care about your dating life. Just like women who do not conform to feminine norms also result in them having a more niche, smaller dating pool. Whatever niche you are filling as a women, you will still drown i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:23 AM
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Nope still not what Im refering to. That also reads like trauma dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:13 AM
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I dont wanna sound like a doomer but we are all literally in the process of dying right this moment. So as long as he is alone, I guess it tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:46 AM
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Like you said, men are mating strategists. That means they're aiming to get the benefit of relationships with the least amount effort possible. No thats not what it means. It means you do whatever works and adjust your behaviour accordingly. If women would suddenly, as a collective decide to only date men with black painted nails, alot of men would suddenly be very "open" about painting their nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:43 AM
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I wonder how much of it is literally just virtue signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:27 AM
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Men and women arent the same, not biologically. The reason why women get judged by men for promiscuity is instinctively. Homosapiens have existed for well over 200 thousand years. Wether you knew you were the father of your child was just assumed by the promiscuity of the woman you had intercourse. No birth control, no DNA testing. That stuff only has changed in very recent times. Therefor men were always biologically wired to be turned off, even repulsed by women who are promiscuous, they cant …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:09 PM
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You want a source on the claim that feminism endorses freedom for women? Feminism now a days is just an empty label. Feminists cant come to a nailed down definition themself. Alot of important words and terms just became buzzwords due to social media degeneracy. Well Im refering to the topics feminists mention. Like sexual freedom. Women want to be able to objective themself in porn but dont wanna be objectified by men. They want to be promiscous but not getting shamed for it. Thats just an unre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:49 PM
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You're conflating a bunch different claims without backing them up. you mean the same way you just didnt back up yours? Feminists believe women should have the ability to dress how they want, which can be either modest or not modest. They can. But they are not free of judgement, no one is. You can have a man painting his fingernails and he is gonna get judged too. Wether or not this is good or bad is irrelevant because you wont ever live in a society where we dont judge each other. If I do X, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:35 PM
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They are people who dont know the term or overread it. I honestly would state that you are in an open relationship and looking for something casual ideally long term. Short and simple. I only date on tinder and bumble but people just swipe very fast, and they dont bother clicking links or reading much. I dont know the Feeld app, but I wouldnt expect success there if you are hiding your face. I understand your reasoning, it just doesnt matter for the side you are trying to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:47 PM
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Are you stating that in your profiles? You are in an open relationship so you are looking for a guy that is looking for something casual first. You are also looking for someone who is younger, are you using an age restriction? In one app you are not showing your face, no suprise you gonna get ghosted since no one is gonna play lottery on a date especially if he has options. You are looking for something casual, potential for a longer time. You are a women. Your standards arent high according to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:07 PM
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Find me the feminist who says women shouldnt show themself off. You hardly gonna find them. For vast majority of feminist, feminism is about freedom and no accountability. I can and should be able to do whatever I want and not get judged for it. Which is a ridicoulus mindset and just unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:45 PM
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Well they dont seem to complain about it constantly. So I guess thats the difference. You cant have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:41 PM
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(I’m not, I already have my life partner) So you are in an open relationship and just looking for something casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:23 PM
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I dont doubt that. If people are supposed to rate themself, the number thats mentioned the most is 7. Which would be above average. It goes both ways obviously, women are just kinda reafirmed in their delusions because they dont understand mens dating strategies. I think it highly depends on context tho. Are we talking about dating apps, then yes average men are mostly invisible. Are we talking about casual sex or relationships, huge difference too. I think the average men sees women having infi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:45 PM
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The average 50th percentile man likely can’t have casual sex when he wants isnt that struggling? Especially compared to women who actually can have casual sex when they want. If 50% of men, can get regular sex only through a relationship, and might force themself into one just for the sake of it, I would consider that struggling. Give a man infinite options, he might choose the single life for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:34 PM
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So yeah, I think even the “average-looking guys” from my parts don’t suffer as much as the average-looking guys on this sub and the manosphere. People who post here are more likely to spend more time on the internet than socializing with real people. Due to that, also more likely to use dating apps to compensate for the lack of real life encounters, and apps are a complete shitshow, especially for men. As an average guy you gotta be social. Go out, meet new people and try your luck. If you dont …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:18 PM
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They never had a harder time getting what they want. But thats also due to their standards which have risen. They are so many desperate suckers out there, so many guys in the friend zone. Im not blaming women for not choosing these guys, but if women were absolutely desperate for a relationship, they could get one very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:11 PM
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how is that the my fault That’s my inherent value that you want me to be so proud of? I don’t understand what y’all want women to do You are adding things I never even implied. Women have it easier in dating, the reason for that is irrelevant. Its not about pointing finger, Im just saying what is. Most of it just comes down to evolutionary dating strategies, biological inherent preferences etc. which we dont have much control over anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:29 AM
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I never said, "I" and I never said "We". And if you would say "women care about mens issues" I also wouldnt assume that you as an individual would. You and I, as individuals, are not relevant to this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:07 PM
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It doesn't matter, I wasn't taking credit. Im giving descriptive claims to make a point. I could be the worst misogynistic man who ever lived and still make the same argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:10 PM
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What kind brain-dead responds is that. I didn't do any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:02 PM
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The only reason feminism exists, The reason women are allowed to vote etc. Is because there were always men who cared. If you want to see what it looks like if they don't, look to the middle east. Not all men will care, the same way not all women will care about men's issues. Yet I would make the case that there were and are more men who care for women than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:55 PM
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There is a reason the average man knows the term misogyny but never heard of misandry. You get completely bombarded with womens issues in mainstream media. And any rare occasion when its about men, its portrayed to be a problem men caused (its their own fault).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:53 AM
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I’ve never heard a woman say that men have it easy. The average women now a days thinks that the patriarchy opresses women, therefore men have it "easier". And they are quite obnoxious about it on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:48 AM
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I could also write a long comment about the pressure women face to always be sweet and kind, never take up space, always be there to care for others, how we're judged for everything we do or don't do The thing is, even if you dont. Even if you are overweight, unmannered person, with a lack of hygiene and a complete failure in life, men will still trying to date you. Women improve themself to get access to higher tier men, while men improve themself to just get the chance to even participate in d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:45 AM
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Social circle is key. Getting into in enviroment where you can prove yourself beyond looks and use your opportunities. Only because you cant get laid through dating apps, doesnt mean you cant get laid at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:52 PM
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But many women have zero problems hooking up with players while they are in a process of finding a long-term BF. same thing I noticed when I was active. The worst thing is when they actively date someone for a LTR but still hookup with you in the mean time until they are fully commited to their current date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:36 PM
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Fixing depression is not gonna get you laid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:09 PM
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Men still get shamed for being superficial while its still mainstream consent that women are these non superficial creatures that priorities personality over looks. So women can act like men but dont get blamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:32 PM
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My ex F+ got a boyfriend last year. I met him, seemed like a nice guy, too nice for her in my opinion. I expected she ends up with a very masculine dominat guy who puts her in her place because thats just what arrouses her. We got to the topic about men and emotiones, opening up to their partners, crying, showing insecurities. She said she thinks thats so sexy when a guy does that and her bf does it on regular. She seemed so happy about them being so emotional vulnerable to each other. I didnt b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:41 AM
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The whole therapy argument is also so narrow sighted. Most therapy is about the patient talking and self reflecting. When I was in my late teens and early tweenties I went to several. They just expect you to trauma dump and then feel better afterwards. It works for women alot better than for men. Men need solutions, you gotta tell them what to do and how to do it. They need a mission. Therapists ususally dont do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:32 AM
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Why would pleasure be linked to a date? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:50 PM
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"used" is the wrong wording considering hook up culture is mostly driven by women and a small minority of men. Why is it that when men have casual sex with women, they are "using" them, but when women have casual sex with men its "empowerment". You do realize there are lots and lots of women who just have fun having casual sex with no commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:49 PM
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Even if that would be true, it doesnt matter. Men drop their standards in a flip to get access to a women. Hence why you have average women with 3k likes on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:50 PM
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Thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:26 PM
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The topic is sexual Lust, not just attraction. Let me ask again. By your own logic, in real life, you would sexually lust over a guy who is physically hideous to you personally, because he checks all your desired personality traits. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:57 PM
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conversely he could be well below “conventionally attractive” and I’d feel lust. but physical attraction would also need to be present if it’s real life. Did you contradict yourself or am I reading wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:17 PM
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So if he posseses all those traits but is in your opionion physically hideous, you would still lust over him right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:03 PM
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You dont really make sense, or maybe you should rephrase your argument. Women do have the ability to have sex whenever they want. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:48 AM
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If women get tired of fucking attractive men, they can just... stop. Really not a problem. They will eventually, once they get closer to 30 and want a long commited relationship and then drop their standards. But that behaviour is outside mens control, well atleast 80% of men. Men who aren't photogenic enough to pull attractive women either aren't attractive or they lack the other attributes to compensate for ordinary looks. (humor, talent, creativity, charisma) We are talking about dating on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:58 PM
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I live in a big city. The only people that dont shower regularly are the ones sitting on the sidewalk begging for money. Just sounds to me you making stuff up for the sake of an argument. Even if, that person has to smell so bad you can literally smell them by just talking to them. If you think thats the issue why most men now a days have a hard time dating you are either completely delusional or dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:33 PM
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you have to be genetically equivalent to the women you pursue Doesnt work anymore tho. Especially on dating apps. Most average men will barely get any matches on these Apps. Women get flooded with attention and therefor usually lack a realistic self assesemt of their own attractives. Which then leads to them "dating" outside their league and getting played. Thats a huge issue right now in modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:20 PM
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Too be fair, an average or below average women will still pull way more than her male aquivalent. And is able to get sex with a finger snap, can pull guys that are out of her league as long its quick sex. Thats quite the advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:42 PM
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