| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 26 | [FR] Seduced and f-closed a nice girl with this stuff in Germany | Field Report | M4ncubus | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 09:29 PM |
| 10 | Read "Models" from Mark Manson and what happened afterwards | M4ncubus | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 01:16 AM | |
| 6 | Tall guy wants to kiss small Lady | M4ncubus | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 02:00 PM | |
| 5 | Same Night Lay Discretion vs Social Value | M4ncubus | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 02:30 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | What's your experience to girls reaction to erectile dysfunction?if it happens often and does really bother you and ruin your chances, well.. then try pills | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 01:07 AM |
| 7 | Thanx to seddit, today I picked-up an 8/10 girl in a bus, brought her to my place.yeah, and I especially loved all the details! | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Why a lot of women love assholes and douchebags.very nice argumentation, rattamahatta. You got her so badly right ;) | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Why a lot of women love assholes and douchebags.I totally agree, and the answer is: Go out and try try try in the real field | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 09:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Didn't feel like going out tonight. I did anyways and finally lost my V card.your first time was a same night lay? uhm.. hard to believe, sorry | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Tall guy wants to kiss small Ladyyes, tried that. Of course it's easy when(!) I'm seated and she's on my lap. But sometimes you know.. there are no (free) seats, see original post | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Tall guy wants to kiss small Ladywow, that's quite aggressive! Full 100% success rate with that move without talking at all?? Duuude! Hard to believe | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Tall guy wants to kiss small Ladysounds good. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Can't close, help!Ok then you "just" need to escalate. Check the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder carefully! | /r/seduction | 27/01/15 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Read "Models" from Mark Manson and what happened afterwardsI do, approach, and move a lot with my horniness. Even more would scare them off and will result in serious trouble for sure. What is "GoodLookingLoser" ? | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | 18 years old, never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl.Hello cherobics, how, where and when did you get the experiences you ever wanted long after 18? And would you be able to reproduce it now with 34 years of age (I'm also 34). | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Can't close, help!I think this is easy to fix but before I need to know, how you get that much women back to your place? From the point you meet them first time until they enter your room. What happened in between? | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Read "Models" from Mark Manson and what happened afterwardsWhen I said "I want to get laid with new women" I was just honest and clear in my intent. I invested a lot into myself all the years und was totally outcome independent for months in between (but ok, not ALWAYS .. sorry for that). I did go out many times and feel good with myself. I don't need external validation from women, really. I just would like to have a new one in my bed and see if it's becoming FWB or LTR then. When they finally slept with me in the past, I was in the power of choice (se… | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Read "Models" from Mark Manson and what happened afterwardsI think I got the book's message quite well. I did a lot for my self-improvement (most of it even before I read it) and be authentic and honest to girls and others all the time now. NoFap did not help, I just became a little more aggressive. I tried it 2 times for almost 3 weeks and nothing changed. | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Read "Models" from Mark Manson and what happened afterwardsGood Morning and thanks for all the answers so far. Do you generally think, RP is a better place for this question? If you do this physically, you'll take a woman home. I do it physically, but they just don't come with me (neither invite me to her place). So I decided to "make myself vulnerable" to a girl in the following way. We had already had sex a couple of times.. At this point, it would be no problem for me. But sex with "her" (a new one) did not occur yet. | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Happiness doesn't come in a package.Depends on your goals I would say. There are so many hobbies, things and "goals" for men where you just don't meet (attractive) women at all. Those men need to "chase" multiple women they want to meet/kiss/fuck (if they want all that of course). | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Pursuing a relationship with someone who has had sex with 23 different people in three years200?! That's a lot. Where did you meet them (always the same location?) and where do you live (center of a big city)? How much of them were really hot & how did you handle the logistics, your feelings, their feelings, ivy etc. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Can anyone explain WHY I am getting nervous?You're getting nervous because there's no abundance. Try to "date" or meet multiple women in a period of time and the pit in your stomach will disappear gradually. | /r/seduction | 19/12/14 01:19 PM |
| 1 | First date handbookNice tips! Short and compact. Thanks a lot. Great post. Especially point 2 (no food) and point 6 (multiple kiss TRY) are kind of new insights for me. Very handy! | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 08:36 AM |
| 2 | I act completely different when I like someoneLook her in the eyes. Face your fears! Concentrate on one of her eyes only and try to smile or better grin at all costs. When you get nervous, learn to accept and love that feeling and bring it to the boil. Don't you DARE breaking eye contact before she looks away shyly. You can look at her great ass, the amazing tits and that gorgeous body later on, when you two will get more intimate. Until then only eyeball her to the core! When the time is right, begin kino escalation. It will be absolutely … | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 02:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Day 24 - Someone please shoot meI know it sounds corny but don't let one cockblocking bitch ruin your game or your whole night. And .. a little AA in the beginning of the night is acceptable. Don't make yourself so much pressure and approach a few guys or HB5 first to warm up. Problem is, when you GET approached by a woman, your expectations might be too high and it happens not often enough to do "normal" game afterwards. It's always easier to approach yourself and be rejected and DGAF, because YOU DID IT and nothing else matt… | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Any experienced opinions on how to handle multiple women? Too good to be true - I have an open relationship and don't know how to use it!I'm definitely not a "seddit master" but I would suggest you to get out of your comfort zone, meet up with the girls and just don't talk about your marriage relationship, even if it's open. | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 11:03 AM |
| 2 | It's always POST-hookup etiquette that I don't seem to have a grasp of.I know what you mean. But don't give up and keep trying it with lots of different girls. You need to meet a girl who's a mixture of "rather hot" and "not so gorgeous" for you at first sight, so you don't care that much about her when you end up in bed for the first time. You will perform well then. | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 10:32 AM |
| 0 | It's always POST-hookup etiquette that I don't seem to have a grasp of.Great topic, great post, great comments. All you said about mental frame in those situations sounds brilliant, OP. Thanks a lot! I cannot add much .. probably only this: Avoid any personal or "private" talk with her if you wanna keep her as a fuckbuddy. And of course never let her verbally know that you think this way, because only a very few girls/women are cool with that and think similar. Most of them want to see an intention to go LTR from your side (post-banged!), even if they would drop yo… | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 10:07 AM |
| 0 | [FR] First date with HB9, ended in K-close and confidence boost.talking about yourself, huh? Give up, kid :) | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 06:27 PM |
| 1 | WSJ: How to Train Your Voice to Be More CharismaticGood post. It took me years to learn that in the field and at work but it's very useful for game and life in general for sure. | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 01:37 PM |
| 3 | They always lose interest all of a sudden... don't know what I'm doing wrongEyeball and kino more, talk less! This could help you as well (it helped me A LOT): DiCarlo Escalation Ladder | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 11:41 AM |
| -1 | [FR] First date with HB9, ended in K-close and confidence boost.Yeah whatever .. calm down please. All I was saying is that siegristrm wasn't THAT wrong. Let's just talk about your reportedly perfect HB10 in 2 years from now. See ya! :) | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 10:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First date with HB9, ended in K-close and confidence boost.I absolutely agree with that, siegristrm. You cannot predict what emotionally guided people (women) will do next up. There's no guarantee for nothing, no matter what they SAY about it anyway. | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 10:32 AM |
| -2 | [FR] First date with HB9, ended in K-close and confidence boost.Wow. Obviously my post provoked you. Chill out man. Glad to read such an extensive reply. Thanks a lot for this detailed insights. Being with an HB10(!?) must be really cool. About your insulting last part, my experiences of life (and women) and my age, I better not tell you :) Peace bro, don't feel offended! No need to get abusive towards each other. All the best! | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 08:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First date with HB9, ended in K-close and confidence boost.That might be a great mindset but I think you're living in a dream, that-freakin-guy. People are different, so please don't generalize and be realistic. How can you be 100% sure that your "plenty of gorgeous platonic girlfriends" don't bang other guys behind your back? And even if they do, so what? In principle, siegristrm is right when he says that good sex builds a more emotional connection than a good kiss, even if he's downvoted here for revealing this truth. There's nothing paranoid with th… | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Start from zero? or be direct with a woman you've used seduction on previously to F-close SNL?I know that kind of problem only too well. This helped me (maybe it will help you, too): DiCarlo Escalation Ladder | /r/seduction | 06/12/14 03:16 PM |
| 1 | There is no pointHey at least you have some kind of humor and can be self-ironic from what I read in your post. That's not nothing, man! :) Humor can be a huuuge game skill. Try to gain some confidence with it and keep trying. Never give up! | /r/seduction | 06/12/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Same Night Lay Discretion vs Social ValueWtf, do you really think SNL almost only works with drunken girls? (I don't like the verbal excuses from them before and afterwards) There are exceptions...those types of women are rare, and rarer still that they be single I can confirm. Met only 2 of them in my whole life! Of course they have "official" boyfriends :) I've tried on MILFs as well, but some of those "ladies" behave like her 15 year old daughters and flake and shit-test you to insantiy. Anyway, thanks for your extensive comment and… | /r/seduction | 06/12/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Same Night Lay Discretion vs Social ValueThanks! 2 points from there might work for me. I will try. | /r/seduction | 06/12/14 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Im a virgin and it's killing me. [M/17]First of all: You're not alone! We all were virgins someday. I will not tell you "relax, it will happen" etc. because that does not help you NOW and there's no guarantee. You will also not hear anything from me like "get out of your head, no overthinking" blahblah because it's easier said than done for a virgin. This might be a fine mindset to go out, sure, but you cannot hold that mindset and your frame all day long as a virgin. It's just not possible. I completely understand that and I can fee… | /r/seduction | 06/12/14 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever lost faith in it all?If she's willing to cheat, cheat also! If you don't want that, let her go. | /r/seduction | 06/12/14 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Same Night Lay Discretion vs Social ValueThat exactly is the problem. A discrete isolation is rather impossible when you did that much social interaction with everyone around. | /r/seduction | 05/12/14 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you fuck girls without any drama attached?Thanks a lot, man. That was some clearly good advice! I will try my very best. It's hard for me, because my Catholic education still spikes my guns & balls all too often. To be a nice guy with great LTRs was no problem so far, but being a bad guy just for one day is my major challenge .. and still my biggest dream. Sounds a little tough to be "discrete" and doing social DHV at the same time, but I will found out in the field. Many thanks again! | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 01:01 PM |
| -1 | Dancing - a criminally underrated skill for your gameI don't think dancing is underrated here. Some of us just don't like it and we cannot (and should not) "force" ourselves to like it. I've tried it a few times and for me it was boring as hell. And without fun it would not help my game. That's no excuse, it's just a statement. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you fuck girls without any drama attached?be the guy that they just want to fuck Could you be a little more specific about that? | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 02:45 PM |
| -3 | Seddit, is there anything wrong with girls that say they only have guy friends because girls cause too much drama?Interesting. Do you have any prejudices with nerds, jocks or heavy metal guys? How is it going with Sarah? | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 09:41 AM |
| 2 | How do you fuck girls without any drama attached?That's funny. As soon as the word "relationship" comes up in the conversation, it's already too late to avoid a drama :) | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 09:20 AM |
| 0 | Smart Kid SyndromeOuch! u got me. I'm kind of a smart kid as well :/ But thx anyway. Good post! As I wrote so often: We need to fucking DO something to get with quality women. They won't just break in our apartment :) | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 07:25 AM |
| 1 | How do you fuck girls without any drama attached?But she wants it .. so I do it! I understand OP's prob that they often want "more" and it's kind of annoying. Now looking forward to some good advice here as well. Great post, OP! Thanks. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 06:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Fucking doorsholy shit?! | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Turning hot girls downThat's very interesting. Catholic education could really be a reason for those strange feelings. I think I'm a victim as well. OP? | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Turning hot girls downI've also (over)thought A LOT about this (and still do) but in the end I would say it's ok and "good" to have standards, even if they are very high. Really great post btw! | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Private Seduction SubredditAnd who of "us" is allowed to post there then? And who is "elite" enough to decide that? I'm OK with beginners questions. No one should judge others by his own standards. Everybody here needs to filter a little bit to find useful information for himself. | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Turning hot girls downI can't imagine turning down a hot girl who wanted to fuck, but I'd love to get to that point. Yours is a mindset I cannot imagine at all This exactly! I absolutely feel the same way. Obviously character issues are also (or even more?) important and turn on for us than looks when it comes down to real sex. But jerking off on hot looking chicks with the most poorest personalities works so well :) In the end we're just searching for 8+ with great character ... very RARE ! | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 01:35 PM |
| -1 | The Qualification Manifesto: How to Flip the Script of Seduction using QualificationOk, you wrote "I'm going to show you how to fix ALL these problems..." and "I want you guys to go out and use this technique..." Uhmmm, wait, no I will not do it this way. What now? You tell me I'll never ever get laid again or meet and close quality women? Aha, the "Love Systems student"? And you are the "Tenmagnet"? Oh please anybody, release seddit from those narcissistic guys, please! | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 12:40 PM |
| -1 | What the fuck is going on with this sub!?Guys with little or no experience will not switch to /r/askseddit voluntarily because they would feel like less of a person to be "downgraded" this way. Those would not gain more confidence, if OP or the big grandmasters of seduction or the mods will treat them this way. It's a shame that some ppl and mods here on seedit think, they are kind of an elite and look down to others. The REAL elite (if exists .. and I doubt that) would operate outside and gives a shit about this sub. I've hesitated a … | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Kino is difficult because of sweaty hands. Advice?kino anyway and accept sweaty hands as part of yourself | /r/seduction | 28/11/14 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Why you will not progress in pickupGood point, good post. Thx, mindsoul. You just cannot "enjoy the process" all the time. We're humans, not machines. Soon ppl will write "just have fun" and "just be free from outcome" here again, but that doesn't help. | /r/seduction | 28/11/14 11:05 AM |
| 1 | [m26] Nothing I do workseyeball, smile and kino more .. say and talk less! | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Seduction techniques get rid of "The Chase"...I think there's nothing wrong with chasing women. It's better to do & learn approaching than staying in your comfort zone and just wait for the "good ones" to come from heaven. They will not. You actively need to search and find the right ones. | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else getting tired of all the "games"?too late :) The Mods closed this one. I'm sure you can find quality girls in this locations as well. No need to generalize here. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else getting tired of all the "games"?That's good for you but it doesn't work for everyone. So I still think that's a questionable advice to just "let them come". Interesting you removed that great post now .. Why? | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else getting tired of all the "games"?That's good for you and your lovely girlfriend but how can that help OP or us (this community). I don't think all bar/party girls are the same in general. And not all customer girls are perfect "to death". | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else getting tired of all the "games"?I cannot agree to this suggestion you can read so often here. If you don't approach girls, you have no girls. Especially the "good ones" will not approach you out of nowhere. I can feel your pain, OP! Great post. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 09:52 PM |
| 4 | [FR] From 0 experience to NC/KC/FC in a few daysGreat FR, nice and short :) Well done sosum! | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 01:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Seduced and f-closed a nice girl with this stuff in GermanyOh I'm afraid the speed was even higher at its peak (German Autobahn, you know) | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 01:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seduced and f-closed a nice girl with this stuff in GermanyThx Bro ;) Come on, you recently beat me at 8ball (and 9ball!) already. Gimme a chance you damn pool-pro! We'll see if our Greek friend will buddy up with us today. Otherwise I would be glad to run across "Mr Bill" for some cut-throat rounds. | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 01:33 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Seduced and f-closed a nice girl with this stuff in GermanyYes I do. What is your maximum, BustyMilfsX? The 5 meters from the couch to your front door where all the HB9s wait for the Pro-PUA inside? :) | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 08:26 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Seduced and f-closed a nice girl with this stuff in GermanyUpdate1: Three days later I met her again and we had a great outdoor F-Close at night with a beautiful castle in the background surrounded by lights (the castle, not we two). We will just see what happens next because LTR really is a complete different thing compared to the seduction process. It really needs some more dates and conversations with her to get the right feeling about this and I don't want to hurt this wonderful girl. Update2: We met again and the sex becomes even better / more roug… | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Why I hate clubsOk, everybody praises the "just have fun" way here, but seriously guys: Why are we all here? :) Some of us already had all this fun for years(!) but no girls. And yeah, being social and DGAF is really important and obviously a key to the ladies but in the end it is definitively not enough. So there always IS an intent to pick-up for a man reading this subreddit no matter how strong you try to hide it with "oh well, I just wanna have fun ya know". | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 09:24 PM |
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