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| 6 | How quartz kitchen counters are silently killing men...Yeah unless someone steps in and hands them a new job and free training, i fuckin guarantee you they would not like their job to disappear | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/26 03:01 PM |
| 9 | How quartz kitchen counters are silently killing men...The ppl working it?? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/26 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?Patriarchy explains a lot of different things for feminists. Sometimes what they're referring to is gendered socialization. Sometimes gender roles. Sometimes institutional biases. They know about these things and would be correct if they used these words but they default to patriarchy | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/26 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?If this was an official debate, you would have to say those words. This is not that. It's clear what you're trying to say. With people like you, we HAVE to read between the lines because you're so disingenuous. What's fucked is I'M the one who explained that to you when he said bagpipes and i steelmanned your argument, told you why you might not strictly meet the definition, then explained why you're still doing it regardless. You ignored the last part and latched onto the definition like it was… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/26 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?Bitch that is what YOU ARE DOING jfc | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/26 02:49 AM |
| 11 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?What's the point in pointing out who set up the system then? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/26 12:12 PM |
| 19 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?"Every bit? Really? And are you sure that every woman you’ve spoken to about male issues is actively enforcing them?" I'm not in the mood to research for you tonight but you can Google mothers enforcing gender roles, for a start. At least several studies on that. Then you can branch out to relationships, sexual rejection, the things they say to men who reject them. Anecdotally, if you sufficiently piss off a woman she turns into a literal homophobe and will go to any length to emasculate a man. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/26 01:46 AM |
| 17 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?"I didn’t say you personally were blaming a group of people for men’s issues." You definitely, literally said i was blaming and burdening women. "You’d have more if you were less combative with women and more focused on the actual cause of all of our collective suffering" Point to where i was combative with women. I think I've been pretty cool- headed and reasonable this whole time 🤷♂️ you, however, crossed the line a few times. "Explain how it’s “victim blaming” for a woman to ask a man that q… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/26 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?I'll respond to this later. I have things to do and i don't remember how to format replies on here | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/26 10:31 PM |
| 26 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?Fallacies are very specific and you don't meet the literal definition in this case. You have to say "no true or real feminist believes that" But you're clearly being derailing, and any variation of "not all feminists believe that" i also group in with no true Scotsman. Hence arguable. I don't see the point except deflection. Worse than saying "not all men", since being male is an immutable characteristic and being a feminist is a choice. Your energy would be better spent addressing the feminists… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/26 10:29 PM |
| 30 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?He's accusing you of using a "no true scotsman" fallacy, which is arguably true | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/26 09:53 PM |
| 35 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?Lol I didn't actually blame any group of people for men's issues. I blamed feminists for misusing terms. And i posited that it comes from a scarcity mindset and women's in group bias. I think you should reflect on why you think im blaming you Most of the things you said i think most men would relate to actually. I was a feminist 15 years ago in the peak of the tumblr feminist era, and even then i asked the same questions. "Okay but why are you blaming me? I didn't set up this system". Except i n… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/26 09:42 PM |
| 26 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?I call out men for being misogynists and sometimes even when they criticize feminism poorly. Do you do the same to other feminists? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/26 09:19 PM |
| 31 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?Multiple different reasons. Sometimes used to brush off men's issues, "well yeah the patriarchy does that". Used to mean we do it to ourselves (victim blaming over roles that existed long before i was born). Used to kinda shuffle men into rank and file feminism at the promise that "destroying patriarchy" will benefit us too, while our issues are actually on the backburner, IF that. Meanwhile some feminist orgs and individuals literally work against us openly I actually think it's use in general … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/26 09:10 PM |
| 21 | Ever noticed how the patriarchy is the only system of oppression to backfire on the "oppressor"?I agree mostly. In practice you are exactly right. But in academia and literature not quite. I think most systems are criticized a little more honestly than we see on social media. If you read a lot of class warfare stuff you'll see that a lot of people realize even the rich are inherently dehumanized, deprived of community. The middle class is used as a tool in this endeavor. The same is true of poor whites in the south during slavery and after in jim crow. Used as a tool, pitted against an eve… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/26 06:04 PM |
| 12 | No, An Online "Rape Academy" Did Not Receive 62 Million Views, Let Alone 62 Million MembersThe statistics being misleading and giving people bigoted beliefs about an entire group of people (men) is more serious than the thousand men in the telegram actually. If you're concerned about hardcore porn that's a completely different conversation | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/26 12:24 PM |
| 4 | Do you think there is "good" radicalisation?Radicalization doesn't speak to how upset you are, it speaks to how radical your ideas are, and the process of getting there | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/08/23 01:34 PM |
| 4 | Article and sub comments gush over a poor female doctor who murdered her baby and committed suicide. Would male murderers of babies who commit suicide receive the same treatment - or is it that depressed women are considered weaker minded and unaccountable?Chris Benoit had the brain of an 80 year old with dementia 🤷♂️ could never minimize what he did but if people had the same sympathetic mindset, we could've had broader awareness of CTE a decade earlier. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/08/23 05:02 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on the phrase “not all men” and more specifically the general reaction to it?Not all men is much older and more ubiquitous than that. It's a blanket response to blanket generalizations. Feminism made it okay to generalize men but generalizing women is anathema Personally I first remember seeing it when "rape culture" became a buzzword online | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Should we make erections normal?That's another great irony of feminism yes 😅 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/22 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Should we make erections normal?I think we agree mostly. Consider my actual example- I think I'm more upset that the serious male issues are seldom on the forefront and even men themselves often (usually?) don't have the words or tools to describe anything more complicated than dating issues or erections. Talkin bout epistemic injustice ya know? I think I'm wrong to say we shouldn't focus on them- maybe moreso that we should be going out of our way to blast the big ones and give men the tools to UNDERSTAND the systemic injusti… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/22 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Should we make erections normal?I mean I agree with you mostly but did you consider my perspective? It's not fair that it's seen as inconsequential that men are shamed for that... I'm just saying we should be aware of how much focus we give to things that are easy to dismiss or deride, I guess? Like in practicality, a lot of people are still unmoved when they see the startling statistics on male abuse/ SA victims. " 70% of men who call the police for DV end up getting arrested" is really chilling to me, they're literally count… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/22 05:29 AM |
| 6 | feminism, oppression and male sufferingI feel the same way. I started off by becoming a feminist around 2011, for a few years learning a lot of tools and words i actually needed to describe my life experience and that of other men around me. But feminism is guilty of the epistemic injustice it attempts to fix. It tells men they can't "define what a woman is" while it spends decades defining men. Only took a few years to poke a bunch of holes in it. I grew up with intense, maybe even toxic (as far as self preservation goes) empathy fo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Should we make erections normal?Tbh I feel bad saying it but I always feel this way. I feel like society does such a good job at silencing male victims that you see a thousand times more "petty" posts like this or people standing up for men in regards to a shallow topic. Like recently I saw this comment that boiled down to "what issues do men have? Like we (women) get r*ped, assaulted, and kidnapped, y'all complain about the friend zone" Cue immature dude a comment below like "well if y'all wouldn't do x and y (goes on a tange… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | She doesn't consider misandry a real issue.Sure you be just like them, and all the people in the middle will suffer and see you exactly like them. This is equally disgusting | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/07/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I don't have to say anything...Hey admit you were wrong | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/07/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | I don't have to say anything...And you'll go on believing that despite being shown evidence it isn't true, because of the empathy gap | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/07/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I don't have to say anything..."One of those surveys is the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, for which the Centers for Disease Control invented a category of sexual violence called “being made to penetrate.” This definition includes victims who were forced to penetrate someone else with their own body parts, either by physical force or coercion, or when the victim was drunk or high or otherwise unable to consent. When those cases were taken into account, the rates of nonconsensual sexual contact basi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/07/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | I don't have to say anything...Edit: also, you don't even necessarily need a different study. Look at the CDCs own numbers of "forced to penetrate". If you don't care about that or think it's insignificant you're just an example of the empathy gap at play. I don't waste time on selectively empathetic people | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/07/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I don't have to say anything...And every dubious study claiming the opposite only goes off police data. You know, the people who are more likely to arrest a male abuse victim than his abuser | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/07/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I don't have to say anything...except it probably doesn't | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/07/22 03:20 PM |
| 0 | The comments speak for themselvesNot completely trying to downplay what you're saying but old men have told me to smile. I'm a large burly man. I think there was a time it was socially unacceptable to walk around showing any negative emotion, and socially acceptable to point out when someone made you uncomfortable. Honestly, it does drag me down when I see someone that looks upset or stressed. And I think it's amplified when it's a woman, probably due to the empathy gap. They've proven a woman's tears literally lower our testos… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 3 | To start a discussion about where bodily autonomy should start, what do you think about piercing infants' ears? I personally think it's wrong...I think this is spot on. It should be about instilling body autonomy as an idea and a show of solidarity however small between genders. It wouldn't even rise to the level of judgement, not like influencing people to Shame their friends for getting it done to their kids. Tbh, this applies (not equally) with circumcision too. Similar to what you said of piercings, a lot of people haven't been confronted with the history, complications, or even the physical reality of what circumcision is. You need… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/22 01:47 AM |
| 5 | A few interesting perspectives on when attacks on "harmful masculinity" are just an attack on masculinity.I've been saying this for years, patriarchy and its focus on power is incompatible with marxist ideas. I'm not a communist, more of a lifelong apologist who aligns more with social Democrat, but the fixation on arbitrary forms of power is for sure from a bourgeoisie perspective. Society is bottom heavy and more men are at the bottom, it's really simple. The driving force behind this wave of feminism is privileged white girls. So many of them are literally self proclaimed marxists but to them tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/22 02:57 PM |
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