I'm going to be blunt. In the short exchange we've had I find you unpleasant. That statement is my opinion what confirms this as as a reality are ALL THE DOWNVOTES
You could be a narcissist. It could explain it. 1. Orbiting supplicatiors 2. Highly attractive (thus the followers) 3. Do you attract weak men? Would they rather be in contact with no physical component than cut ties and be alone? High likelihood
Well you could be the type that surrounds themselves with supplicating people. Not saying you are just saying that that is not a good argument for your character. If you are very attractive and live in a big city it wouldn't be as difficult as you say it is due to the volume and frequency of opportunity. Examine yourself.