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Ok. I disagree, and I’d like you to show evidence that this constitutes most people. And in good faith, I think we should set terms in regard to what defines “most”. /s I wasn’t really trying to get into a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:04 AM
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I disagree. If you’re a social person, and expose yourself to a verity activities, while keeping an open mind, you’d tend to have a varied group of friends and acquaintances. Add to that, the next level of social circle, where your friends SOs and siblings very in status, education, and career. It leads to a diversified friend group, and large pool of potential relationship partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:15 AM
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While I agree that men dating younger women shouldn’t be shamed. I think your reasons as to why, are largely inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:44 PM
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Really? What are your friendships like? Do you only associate with people of your academic, and professional level?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:36 PM
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That’s a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:39 PM
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Nah. I’m sure he eats plenty of Dorrittos, and steroids, lots of steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:23 AM
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Every woman I’ve been close to has said the exact same reason have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 04:29 PM
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Totally agree. I feel like you wise up in high school, grow out of the Disney mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:51 PM
0

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:11 PM
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Asshole!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:23 PM
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Haha that is pretty funny. I’m picturing a Chinese guy in a kilt, with a taller black guy standing next to him, chatting about how drafty it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:52 PM
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Eh, that’s just part of the deal. Hence not wasting time. For either party.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:51 PM
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TIL. Did they have the same level of standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:48 PM
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I’m guessing they weren’t in front of house positions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:16 PM
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Ethnic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:58 AM
1

ROFL. Funniest thing I’ve seen all day. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:11 AM
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Annoys how?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:02 AM
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They’re not wasting time / being honest with their intentions., and taking actually effective steps toward those goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:57 AM
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Sounds like he’s from the 90s. This mentality was pretty common when I was growing up among young men (middle school -high school age). At least where I grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:28 AM
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It is. But to someone who isn’t getting it, it tends to be a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:01 AM
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My dad said this exact thing to me when I turned 30. He’s 65, still dating women 20 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:36 AM
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It doesn’t have to be dress up, it totally work with an average outfit change too. Pick up 40 bucks worth of leggings and tops at target. What matters is that it’s a different style than she normally wears. Works with a wig too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:32 AM
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This^ it’s totally worked for me in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:30 AM
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Well shit man. I’m having the same issue at 30, your plight doesn’t inspire hope lol. Oh, and you’re name checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:24 AM
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It was pretty comprehensive. Birth control methods, what to do if you think you have an STI, common misperceptions / urban myths about sex, risks with anal sex / other alternative sexual activities. Basic symptoms of all STDs, except HPV, it was widely know back in 02. But I went to a private HS in LA. Oh, and abortion. But that was separate because Planed Parenthood actually did an Assembly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:16 AM
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We’re you a teen growing up in Hollywood too? You just described a third of my friends growing up. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:01 AM
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Yeesh. That’s pretty fucking lack luster.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:59 AM
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Were you a teen in LA too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:57 AM
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Then why do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:54 AM
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Doesn’t sound like a bad pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:24 AM
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To bad it’s describing “dual mating strategy”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:10 AM
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I’m sorry, I must have misunderstood. What do you mean by “hearty”? Because large amounts of chocolate, alcohol, and fried food won’t lead to maintaining a healthy, let alone “great” physique without amazing genetics. “Great” was the topic that was being discussed, not generally healthy, or sexually attractive but “great”. Everyone has there own definition of great, and fit. I don’t mean to spread the idea of an unattainable standard of what women want, quite the opposite in fact. What I’m outli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:50 PM
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Who’s crying? And congratulations BTW that’s not an easy feat, especially with kids. But you also just admitted that you have good genetics, and you’ve never been over weight. Are you also tall for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:47 PM
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I’m glad you’re happy with yourself, A lot of people aren’t. It comes down to an individual’s definition of “great bod” it seems. as far as BMI goes, of course women do, most women find visible abs very, if not most appealing and that comes down to body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:50 PM
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I totally agree. That’s what I personally strive to maintain since I got out of Basic. And yes minimal health requirements are a joke, but that’s what’s being sold to the greater population.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:44 PM
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True, but there’s a large gap between minimum health requirement, aesthetically pleasing, and top tier. I imagine “great bod”, Falls between the last two.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:51 AM
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Sorry, it was in reference that big tits are over rated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:54 AM
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Yup. And it’s not the most successful. The social media fad of women strength training (although very healthy, and never a bad thing) to get nice butts. Doesn’t really matter. Calisthenics like yoga and Pilates, far more successful at building a physique. And easier overall for women who don’t already have a good muscle mass, both activities shape women’s bodies more naturally. And good hydration, and skin care far more relevant. I mean yeah this was an early 2000’s fad but it’s the one with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:52 AM
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The overwhelming majority of men agree, that the most attractive characteristics of a woman are the pelvic girdle, and healthy looking skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:48 AM
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Actually, it’s more because women do it wrong. I live on the west side of LA. Arguably, one of the top concentrations of beautiful women. The ones who stay the best looking for the longest do things totally different than what social media would tell most young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:45 AM
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Not sure if you’re trolling, but I’ll bite. Your statement is pure ignorance. A “great bod” by most women’s understanding takes years of discipline. Not just working out, but real strength training. Not to mention a low body fat percentage, that’s achieved only though careful nutrition. It takes real sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:40 AM
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Define properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:13 AM
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Not true. Once you’ve leveled up enough, can attract the women you like with ease and confidence you’ll have the choice. I personally found a woman I truly enjoy. I actually gave it some real thought, as to weather I wanted to commit. You’ll have the opportunity to, and whatever you decide will be the right decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:05 AM
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I appreciate your points of view throughout this sub, but don’t blame Society. Everyone has to prove their worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:46 AM
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Yeah. That’s the problem, it’s not that she doesn’t love him, it that it’s not the way he wants to be loved. Now if she lusted after him at the beginning, and he got lazy and embarrassed his inner couch potato, then it’s on him. But if she never loved him in that way, then communication was the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:41 AM
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Been there. Worst time in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:29 AM
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Totally agree. It’s the only good way to build a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:21 AM
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R/murderedbywords
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:20 AM
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Sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:20 AM
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I love the Ban counter flair. Cracked me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:16 AM
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Weird how? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:06 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:04 AM
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Lol. Yeah, that’d probably do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:55 AM
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Beautifully said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:52 AM
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Damn, no male friends? That sucks. I know we as dudes fuck up the lines, but every dude in that position in your life seems unlucky. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:47 AM
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Well, unfortunately there’s a lot of guys that are. It’s the nature of the process. The angry men that find their way there feel they have been victimized, TRP acts like a support group by showing that they aren’t alone. It brings acceptance with a believable explanation of why you’re angry. Then TRP provides steps you can take to regain confidence and control. The first way it preaches, which is to improve yourself. I feel this is great for anyone, and is what should be common sense but ain’t. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:47 PM
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Thanks. My experiences are similar to yours, except for OLD, I’m not in to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:32 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:30 PM
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Thanks for the breakdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:51 PM
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How can you tell where you fall on the 1-10 scale? Honest question? I know I’m attractive, I can tell by the reactions of the people around me. But how can you tell weather you’re an 8 vs 9?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:08 PM
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Why does every new Gen. think it’s reinventing to wheel? I’m only 33, but I’ve had more success with the advice my farther has given me than anything else. Hell, the base principles of TRP are literally rooted and anchored in caveman era anthropology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:36 AM
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How was Judo? I’m looking to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:32 AM
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Damn straight!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:31 AM
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Word, more women should stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:31 AM
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What’s your definition of committing here? Are you thinking marriage? It’s not that uncommon for people to just want exclusivity before sex, and it’s not exactly a binding contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:29 AM
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It sounds like a standard delusion of grandeur to me. People in general want to be in a position where they are the buyer in a buyer’s market. To have other come to them and try and sell their wears, what ever they may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:27 AM
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I totally agree. On a side note, I checked outTBP. The only thing I noticed on that sub was shit talking TRP. I didn’t see any advice that I can remember. The whole thing just seemed like it was anti TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:04 PM
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That’s a great way to put it. Your comment made me realize, that this was me. I’m glad glad I got out of that mindset. I’m also glad I learned some of the base principles too. Even though TBF the best parts of TRP are common sense, I guess I was just more receptive to it coming from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:57 PM
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What doesn’t kill you...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:42 PM
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True all woman are different, and your mileage my very. There’s also a mental and emotional component, on top of the physical, and sometimes a woman you know for a while will need a totally different experience. But like I said, you just have to try. PS way to go with 20min girl, I’m sure it tried your patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:25 PM
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Can confirm. Selfish lovers know no gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:41 PM
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Lol. Do we have to be ugly to? I agree with your point though, it’s not hard to bring a woman to orgasm. You just have to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:39 PM
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Really? I’m a WK on this one? I try to fight that tendency, I really do. On this subject though, the truth is that women are physically inferior to men, and generally less experienced in an actual fight. So when guys make the comment that a woman should attack a man, it not really funny. It’s also really really stupid when they decide to test how far a man can be pushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:11 PM
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TIL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:05 PM
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Perfect! That’s great man, and good luck. I happy to see someone trying and not just complaining. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:52 PM
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I appreciated you post. Thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:53 AM
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I was wondering that myself. It’s taken people out of public places and redistributed them into private residences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:43 AM
1

Ahhh the old Mathew Principal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:41 AM
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That’s fucking awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:39 AM
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Are you taking steps that would put you in a position to compete with Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:38 AM
2

That’s a good goal. Are you taking steps to get a Gf/Wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:37 AM
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Yup, that’s what history would tell us. Well usually another civilization invaded just before hitting the bottom. Ain’t it grand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:35 AM
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I’m 99% certain that when dragon ball z was playing after school every day is when anime really broke through to Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:18 AM
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Never underestimate the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:13 AM
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What? There’s a pesto simulator now SMFH
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:11 AM
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Lol. Why wouldn’t it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:10 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:10 AM
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Toonami after school
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:09 AM
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Or do videos in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:09 AM
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I agree. I can see why the weird space tentacle shit was popular, it can’t happen anywhere else. I have to wonder at why there are so many cheating wives, you top tier women getting debased for the fat ugly guy. I think there is a lot of Jerry Springer “feel good”, because At least I’m not that bad mixed into the fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:05 AM
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I think you comment was spot on. And I fell it’s a regular practice for adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:55 AM
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Lol, I’m certainly not a super hero. To answer your question, it comes from a combination of life experience, and self confidence. I know that it’s a risky proposition, it can go all kinds of sideways. I’m just willing to take the risk, and TBF not really worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:10 AM
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Or helpful, and not scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:43 AM
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Who said you needed to confront somebody? If someone is running down the street screaming for help. Help them get away. Drive her to a police station, or loved ones home. You assuming that helping means fighting show a lack of critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:58 AM
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I like how you threw in a little of saint Durden in there. Well said, I appreciate this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:44 AM
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Sounds like it was broken. TBH
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:42 AM
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How would you go about fighting someone that was 4 inches taller, had 6 inches reach on you, and was above you 2 weight classes? Let throw in the fact that they probably have more fighting experience too. Seriously I’m asking. I know how’d I’d do it, but how would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:40 AM
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Smart move.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:38 AM
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Why? You could help someone in need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:37 AM
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I hate hearing about these, more so from the army. I know it’s stupid, but it’s a pride thing. He was a loser anyway. I’m happy a it didn’t totally turn you away from the possibility of finding someone, and that you’re in a great place with a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:35 AM
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This was perfect. Thank you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:28 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:27 AM
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I’m glad you got out. This shit is to prevalent in the military. I cringe to ask, but what branch? Can confirm, Ex Army
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:25 AM
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Oh for sure. I knew where you were coming from. But the more I lurk here the more I feel there are fools out there that take it literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:23 AM
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I see your point. But you also said there’s been 6, so either five are dead, or they eventually stopped putting up with his bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:20 AM
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Yeah, no. And we really shouldn’t perpetuate this kind of example. Yes young women make a lot of dumb decisions when it come to a “Chadly” dudes. But it’s not a thing, that being overwhelmingly handsome let’s you get away with Murder. Yes it most certainly helps, and yes people respond to you better, but not at an extreme level. I know that’s not what you’re going for in your comment, but it I feel it needs to be said. Sorry for the hyjack.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:15 AM
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As you mentioned before. What if it’s a scenario where she tried it and didn’t like it? And I feel like when the subject came up, it wasn’t a conversation, where he let the woman know this was something he wanted to experience and had done research on it/ bought the necessary supplies to start things light. I’m actually pretty sure he drunkenly tried to stick a dry thumb in her ass one day then was confused it didn’t magically turn into his favorite porn. Then threw a tantrum when she said no, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:12 AM
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I must not have expressed myself right. I was agreeing that women should have a high standard. But the comment you replied to didn’t target single moms. I’m glad you like you life, but maybe time down the aggression. Not everyone is attacking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 01:04 AM
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I’m 5’10” too. The reason we get the idea stuck in our head is because the internet is constantly saying guys should be 6’+. Mostly on forums like r/whereareallthegoodmen, where the guys are complaining about it lol. I laughed hard at your comment though, because my GF was just saying the same thing to me. “You’re not short! I’m 5’6”, we would look ridiculous if you were 6’2”. She had me dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:41 PM
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Those dudes were either low caliber, or failed to see the flags my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:30 PM
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Great post! Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:28 PM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:27 PM
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You men with drive and persistence?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:22 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:21 PM
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It popular because it can be enjoyable. Though I admit I’ve never been successful at it, I’ve known a lot of women that said hey liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:20 PM
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What’s with the anal thing? Why is this brought up so often? Is It like the ultimate RP test or something? It seems to just be ammo to show the stupid RP can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:17 PM
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To be fair, the definition of what constitutes “rape”, and that there seems to be more than one kind of rape now, would make most men over the age of say 25 question some of their past actions. But good one with the “good boy pats” that had me rolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:10 PM
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lol. That was great
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:00 PM
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It’s actually a PSA for both. And I’m sorry the term Captain save - a - hoe triggered you, but it doesn’t specifically refer to single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:00 PM
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What I take away from this is that this kind of advice is being taught to women but not men. And that the original post is saying that both genders should be following it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 11:47 AM
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That’s a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 11:45 AM
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It doesn’t have traditional “stopping power”, but those complaints are from people with no imagination. It’s a low recoil pistol that can cause an assault rifle cavitation wound. Which will stop any person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:23 PM
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Haha. The memes are great! And thanks for the explanation, it was definitely one of those Doi moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:41 AM
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I agree with you, and I’m glad you and your wife have made a great team... but an AR for home defense? I just can’t go with you there. It’s called a assault rifle for a reason. Now a 5.7 handgun, that’s what you want for what goes bump in the night. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:39 AM
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Muddin’? Or muddin?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:53 AM
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Male. 33. If she passes then yes, even pre op. I feel like you do, I’ve never seen them as not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:49 AM
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It’s not as good as you think. Before OLD was the Sex and the City movement. all of a sudden Sex was easier to get than ever, but relationships were out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:20 AM
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Glad it worked out for you. Sorry about the losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:19 AM
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What’s a volcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:11 AM
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I agree with your point, couples support each other. But, the stereotype goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:41 AM
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I think it’s because women are the primary care givers. What are the rates? If it’s for instance 1/5 infant deaths, and it’s 20/1 mothers to fathers as care givers. Then the rate would be higher no matter what. Including unfortunate accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:35 PM
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I think it’s because women are the primary care givers. What are the rates? If it’s for instance 1/5 infant deaths, and it’s 20/1 mothers to fathers as care givers. Then the rate would be higher no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:34 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:04 PM
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Ahhh, how could I miss such clear signs. Could you ever forgive me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:39 PM
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“Half-Chad” lol. I’m so using this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:04 PM
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Great post. I experienced all of the same. I wish I could share the feeling with friends so they can make changes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:00 PM
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It’s not just the weight loss, it’s the confidence that comes with the accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:58 PM
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I went through this same phase. You’re resentful now, you’ll be insulted when a or even a few women want more of your time and attention. Eventually you’ll loosen up, maybe you’ll get lucky and find someone you actually like. If you do she’ll make you Purple. Like me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:53 PM
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Isn’t that an alternative treatment for opioid addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:32 PM
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I’m shook at how so many fall for it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:19 PM
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Can confirm. My current I wasn’t attracted to my current SO at the same level as other options at the same place and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:46 PM
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I thought you were 3 lizards in a coat. I confess I imagine it’s a nice coat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:44 PM
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Nice. Same night my GF brought dinner over, because she couldn’t make it to Thanksgiving. It was a great evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:41 PM
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It’s a great place for the film industry. Especially TV. A lot of studios are there and the town is pretty much populated by TV folk lol. And good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:56 AM
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No, i went to high school in West Hollywood though. Gays aren’t anymore aggressive than any other man when it comes to hitting on someone. (On average) besides that, Gays are IME really good at knowing if a guy is straight or not, so they pick there targets accordingly. Why Burbank? What’s your Field? And good luck on your dream!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:11 PM
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Well, Venice is where people go to chill lol. As far as walking down the street goes I’m sure it’s less, LA is a car city. I don’t know about NYC I only have limited experience, but the same tropes seem to be true here as well. The thugs will touch strangers to get there attention, and the rich guys take rejection with a dash of confusion. Very “didn’t you see my Ferrari?” I hope the Wall-street guys are less tantrumee about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:37 PM
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I live and work on the west side. You’re definitely not wrong. NYC famously has some of the most aggressive people on the planet. LA has some of the most apathetic and superficial, in social settings the men have a way higher rate of rejection freak out IME. But as far as “Ghetto Trash” it’s the same, but with larger numbers and verity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:08 PM
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Thank you that was very informative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:00 PM
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It’s not always about success, sometimes it’s the illusion of it. Why do you think there’s a state lottery?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:33 PM
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Yeah, hooked up with a lot of “alt” girls when I was in my teens. They were way past what I had seen in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:23 PM
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Shame really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:15 PM
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I did this a lot. Practiced just starting conversations., and giving good compliments. Then eventually started getting numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:14 PM
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I live in LA. It’s different, and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:08 PM
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Can confirm. I racked up a high N count of meaningless sex partners when I was younger for a bunch of shitty shallow reasons. And have been rejected by a woman that I was truly interested in and respected. Hurts man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:33 PM
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I agree. My experience has been more binary. Either your attractive enough to be considered, or your not (and can’t play). After that it comes down to your social skills. I’ve certainly hooked up with women that I shouldn’t have in the past. I used to be just cute enough to play, but luckily my parents made sure I was well socialized.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:53 PM
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I’m kinda about them both tho. Like Thanos, at first your like fuck that guy. Then you kinda route for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:10 AM
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Thank for the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:51 AM
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He’s not arguing. He’s displaying a level of narcissism so large that he actually believes that he’s the only real/ sentient being in the universe. There was a bad horror movie were Steve Zahn did the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:43 AM
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Thanks. Those were great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:39 AM
1

Dark triad scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:31 AM
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Lean and mean. Always your best weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:28 AM
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Because everyone gets it. Equally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:25 PM
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I don’t know the actual procedures, or legalities. I was answering the question as if the mother gave up the child autonomously. I’d assume at that juncture the father wouldn’t contest. But if he did after the fact, the state would most likely turn the child over to his care, if he can prove he’s the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:14 PM
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Gotcha. I missed the leap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:09 PM
3

Huh? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:09 PM
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Slow clap 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:46 PM
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Then the child can be reclaimed by the father. As long as the child an be identified as his.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:44 PM
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Well done. You should be proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:34 PM
1

Wait wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:08 PM
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Thank you. I was looking for this comment, it’s way to far down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:56 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:40 PM
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It’d be better spent on making wards of the state more capable and productive citizens when they are released at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:39 PM
1

It’d be better spent on making wards of the state more capable and productive citizens when they are released at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:38 PM
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Most likely not. UBI would be received by everyone, so it would more likely lower the amount awarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:00 PM
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Because everyone gets it equally. Spend it how you like, weather you need it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:06 PM
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I believe that is his intention. But I’m not sure I’m remembering the pod cast I heard 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:05 PM
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Thanks for the tip on internet dueling. And you’re most welcome. I’m an Afghan Vet, and struggle with PTSD myself. I’m happy to hear you’re doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:02 AM
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Oh, oh no. I can’t wrap my head around that at all. Maybe desperation? shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:08 AM
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I’m surprised you’d even placate that nonsense. Nobody needs to present any form of resume in order to propose an argument or opinion. And I’m sorry for you PTSD. That shit is rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:02 AM
2

Getting married, and then she lets it all go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:51 AM
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My greatest fear
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:48 AM
1

I think he’s talking about maintenance costs. Both physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:45 AM
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I’m right there with you at 5’10”. That’s why I had to ask. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 07:43 PM
1

Wow. This is a fantastic summation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:59 AM
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A secret arsenal is on the light side. More like a meat shrine in the basement, and everyone starts keeping track of the neighborhood cats lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:49 AM
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Then why did you say it was the perfect height for a man? Or were you saying as an overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:44 AM
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Seems a little broad spectrum. Lol. But to each there own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:58 PM
1

I thought 5’10 was considered short these days? I know the stats make it just above average, I’m saying according yo social opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:43 PM
2

Cool list. What’s your criteria for public castration?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 11:28 PM
1

Lol. Thx for the check
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:33 AM
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Size 2 is skin and bone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 02:01 AM
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That doesn’t take away from the point that men find the image attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 01:55 AM
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Big Safety Harvard Edit: hazard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:08 AM
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This was what I got form dating strippers for half a decade. That and a few hilarious stories about the clients, that seriously shaped how I approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:08 AM
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Shithappenslol didn’t say anything like that. Are you actually reading the response?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:14 PM
1

That’s actually really practical advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:57 PM
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Seriously. Maybe we should stop talking about it, word might get out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:16 AM
1

Yeah, Probably because it’s shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:17 AM
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Lol I know you’re joking, but real talk that is how dudes did it in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:15 AM
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I agree. It’s not tough either. You just try lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:50 AM
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Very true. I didn’t accept the idea that I was attractive until I was 30. It took a lot of women telling me that I was hot over the years, and TRP. Before I believed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 05:24 PM
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Perfect answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:45 PM
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I agree. My experience when talking to the women throughout my life confirms this. Which is why I personally have always been attentive and communicative with my sexual partners. I was responding to your back and forth. It seemed like you were on one, not wrong. Just passionate to the point it didn’t seem like you were listening. But the OP is spot on in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 01:24 PM
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I’m in an LTR, and we have sex when ever we’re together. If we lived together, it would be every day. To answer your question, yes, when possible I like to have sex once or twice a day. But there are definitely times when I don’t. What I’m getting at, is there isn’t some constant fiend like thirst involved lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:01 PM
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Same here. TRP did great things helping me get it together. Then I got off the train
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:29 AM
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No, his argument is that porn reduces a man’s level of motivation. And it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:02 AM
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That’s unfortunate. I hope they find happiness and live full lives. Casual sex isn’t everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:48 AM
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Or you can maximize your chances of getting in the top group. Stop trying for the betterment of all men, and start using the “low bar” to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:16 AM
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I can’t speak for all women, and maybe I was lied to. But seriously, it’s been a common opinion among the women in my life that no condom feels better. And yeah first time I ever heard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:10 AM
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This has been my experience too. Women look at you like it’s magic when you take genuine interest. But I have to admit the bar being low has been good for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:48 AM
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That’s because she does have zero concept of it. And she will most likely never understand. What the OP is trying to do is spread insight, so take what valuable information you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:45 AM
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Really? You’re the first woman I’ve ever heard say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:26 AM
1

Rolf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:23 AM
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I agree. If you’re a quality man, and honest about yourself, get out there. Make some great moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:15 AM
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He didn’t take charge of the situation, and correct what wasn’t working. But I can relate to having bad encounters, and rather have done almost anything else at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:47 AM
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I was looking for a comment like this. I feel the exact same. And good on us!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:42 AM
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I’m not disagreeing with your point. Women are expected to perform. But the response you’re highlighting is disappointment in himself, and not a reflection on how he thinks she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:41 AM
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Well played. And great book
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:39 AM
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Ok, you seem dead set on your point. But there are men out there that are good at sex. You don’t seem receptive to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:36 AM
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Yeah, I guess most dude haven’t gotten this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:27 AM
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You gotta ask. It can be an awkward, risky conversation. But sometimes you just have to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:26 AM
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Well if you personally put that kind of effort in to your average sexual encounters then your definitely above average. But I agree with you point, dudes on the whole need to try harder. Also, great OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:44 AM
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I imagine that has to be a good percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:41 AM
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That’s a good question. I think it has to do with the constant possibility of assault. But I’m just throwing out a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 04:17 AM
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Perfect. Lol that strategy has worked for me for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 02:06 AM
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No. Those phrases are told to all unattractive children, and regularly apart of most child TV programing. Yes the prince is the most attractive male character, but it’s not highlighted. The other most notable male character in the same stories is the villain, who’s usually purposely ugly. But is most defined by his evil actions. Usually focused toward the princess. And since boys are thought, that their actions are more valued than their looks. We equate his actions to be why he’s the bad guy, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:55 AM
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Where did you first hear the phrase “beauty is on the inside” or “beauty is only skin deep”. The message is sent to young men through media, adults and other “fairy tale” tropes during childhood. Sometimes explicitly, where the nerd / friend gets the hot girl because he treats her nice. Or the fact that when at the same time a kids movie is telling young girls that the princess was the fairest of them all, they never mention anything about the way the hero looks. They talk about his deeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:36 PM
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I’d say it’s highly likely. If you train boys to be more goal driven, then they will make everything they want into goals. Which means they’ll approach things the same way, with research and efficiency. Leading to PUA. This IMO will further objectify women. But the boys will be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:25 PM
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Yeah, you’re right. And thanks for the spelling correction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:19 PM
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True, but that’s also an over analyzation. Your not taking into account that a woman’s number one survival mechanism is plausible deny ability. And if a woman does want a particular man to approach, they will subtly invite them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:04 PM
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Lol. It’s a shame that needs clarification, but hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:01 PM
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Thank you. I didn’t express it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:22 AM
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Wanting to protect and provide for his mate and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:02 AM
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That’s fair. To be more specific, work, school, gym, or any place you can have social interaction. But yes, his point vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:54 AM
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This one. Be places, be awesome, women express their interest (subtly) then pick which one you want to talk to. Be yourself, be respectful, have an actual conversation. If things go well, ask for a date. If things continue to go well, have sex. If the sex is good then you’ll probably be able to continue seeing that person. It’s not tough. People make it out to be way harder than it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:46 AM
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100% this. If you’re doing well for yourself, there isn’t any extra effort. She want to be around you and you decide if you want her to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:17 AM
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All great answers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 11:51 PM
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Not attracted, not in the mood, focused on something else at the moment, hungry. The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 11:50 PM
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Yup, the reason “nice guys” loose is because their intentions are false to begin with. At least PUAs are up front about it. (At least when it comes to flirting)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 11:48 PM
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You’re missing the point of why a picnic is such an awesome date. Or dating in general. A large part of dating is showing that you are capable of organizing an outing or event. No, it doesn’t mean spending money, but all the parts add to the whole. Saying” meet me at the beach, bring your own snacks” is simply subpar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 10:17 PM
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Answer for the title: Mutual respect, open communication, and maintaining your personal boundaries (more form yourself than your SO) To answer the actual question posed in the body of your post. It’s difficult, but out performing the competition is part of being born male. We all have to work hard for what we get, and hopefully find some peace in the way we did it. Also, social skills go a very long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 08:49 PM
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I’m sorry for your experience. That’s the realist case of an abusive spouse I’ve ever heard. And I worked for a security company that did work on helping women get out of those kinds of situations. I’m glad your getting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 08:36 PM
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Always always always trust your gut. Even if it seems unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 08:32 PM
2

Eww. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 08:29 PM
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I laughed way to hard at that. Reminds me of the creepy trucker from the movie Dodge Ball, with his finger in his belly button.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 08:11 PM
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I totally agree. It just needs to get through an adjustment period.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 07:58 PM
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Don’t let that get in your head. Physical attributes play a roll, just like you have your own preferences. It isn’t just dumb luck, act decently and you will be more respected than not. The problem is it takes time, and most people no longer have the patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 06:37 PM
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