MCthaitea Archive

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10	I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me. I think you need to go outside and look at the real world around you, couples of at supermarket and movies, in order to understand that red pill is just meant to make you more insecure and profit off of those insecurities. They dont have your best interest in mind, you are a goldmine to them.	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/26 01:00 AM
1	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. Okay you’re ugly and your personality sucks FlaminhMetalSystems, happy now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:19 PM
1	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. You are twisting my words lol … where on earth did the words “boring” come from, you are projecting. The specific reason why a woman would wanna bang someone super hot and never speak with them after is because their personality not only sucks, but would make them actually unattractive if you got to know them more, not getting to know them protects you from seeing them as unattractive. Just because men don’t seemingly factor in personality to how they perceive physical attractiveness, it’s someh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:00 PM
1	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. No i am not saying that … look at this through an evolutionary lens which considers infant survival over thousands of generations Baby from a 1 night stand with a super hot guy? = struggling offspring but they are cuter so you feel more inclined to take care of them due to their attractiveness Baby from a guy you find attractive even if hes less conventional AND he is going to stand by you? = still a cute baby especially because it reminds you of someone you find comfort in, plus the partner wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 10:58 PM
2	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. Women like to fuck, they don’t wanna fuck with men whom they would have regrettable offspring with should it come to that.. is it rocket science?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 09:55 PM
1	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. You’re being stupid on purpose, i’m explaining why women get two options after you said “funny how that works” and all you have to say is “so then why do women fuck hot guys who make themselves available??” Because women are sexual beings, more selective in their mating strategy due to shouldering the reproductive burden, but still sexual and driven by what turns them on or makes them feel safe. Men who are considered desirable also get two options. You are bitter at thousands upon thousands of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 09:51 PM
2	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. Anyways, look on the bright side, you will never have to get pregnant/give birth and the endless complications that that comes with such as your asshole completely tearing open and your insides falling out of your birth canal when you go to pee. Additionally, your likelihood of reaching orgasm is so so much higher. That’s the trade-off. In lots of cultures, let’s say you are a young lady and someone rapes you, the only way to retain your honor is to marry your rapist and have his babies .. that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 06:54 PM
2	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. In general, yes females have more options, this is true for every species of animal. As pertaining to humans, I think the gap can really depend what culture you are living in, in the US i can’t deny there is a much much greater disparity between the sexes, but I’ve lived in numerous European countries as well as Canada.. the playing field and options that people have are definitely different and more level in some ways. Women definitely pedastalized in the US and men are much more desperate and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 06:33 PM
1	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. The same way a womans attraction to a man can really build on their interactions and his personality, it can also completely dwindle. If you are really hot, but I can already tell that I would never wan to date you, or possibly even have a conversation with you for longer than 20 minutes, but I think you are hot and happen to be horny, yes I will try to fuck you ASAP and then move on with my life as long as I don’t deem you dangerous or too much of a player (higher risk of STDs and them trying t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 11:16 AM
1	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. I think what these men don’t get is that many women who opt for a one night stand or super quick hookup with a guy, with minimally getting to know the guy.. is because the less they know the man, the more their attraction will be retained him. A woman can often tell very quickly if a guy is a potential boyfriend or if you would not even be friends with him .. If you fuck him fast, he cannot “ruin” your attraction to him with his personality so to speak, if you don’t know someone, they’re perfect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 10:49 AM
6	Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it. My initial instinct to answer your question is that being desired / opportunity to reproduce is a primal drive, which affects both sexes. That is not a solution though, you telling me you are hungry because you consistently have little food, is not solved by someone saying “being hungry when you don’t eat is natural”. But i would like to delve more into how it affects the masculine vs feminine self concept. I would actually argue that femininity is actually much more centered around being attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 03:17 AM
2	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. You are not only being obtuse, but giving me the exact same answer men would give me when I was 18-19 calling men aged 28+ for going after teenagers as predatory. No, i don’t think having a consensual one night stand, even if say they were lead on emotionally, isn’t more harmful than someone manipulating you over a longer period of time and wearing down your sense of self resulting in you foregoing your boundaries. Wake up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 11:49 AM
4	What are the signs that a man is genuinely desired and not just settled for as the "safe guy"? Yesss agreed, sorry I misunderstood where you were coming from!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 01:54 AM
2	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. Very interesting conclusion you’ve jumped to, because when I was 18-19 speaking out about the very same things, specifically because men would try to take advantage of my lack of wisdom and shaky confidence. My boyfriend is 3 years younger than me and is everything I could wish for, we are in our late 20s, doing well financially… there is not a single thing that would make me wanna go back to being 18-21, the only thing I’m jealous about is how little maintenance feet used to require before look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 01:45 AM
1	What are the signs that a man is genuinely desired and not just settled for as the "safe guy"? Again, i think this refers to a very specific portion of women. The tradeoff being cruel to her because she wants to relive feeling worthless unless she compromises herself … is highly unethical. Unfortunately we don’t live in a world that actively acknowledges this issue as what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/26 12:15 AM
3	What are the signs that a man is genuinely desired and not just settled for as the "safe guy"? This was so disgusting to read. Are there women like this? Yes.. but, it’s a very dangerous game to settle down with someone like this. ESPECIALLY the part about “lets you break all her boundaries” and doing thing sexually that she hates to please the guys .. that is a deeply insecure woman with a very high likelihood of a broken home, past abuse, dating trauma, and low self worth. When you partake in things with people that you know they dont want to do, but are willing to do because they despe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 11:58 PM
1	TRP’s irrational (and unproductive) hatred of single moms is fully driven by the Madonna-Whore complex First of all, it would likely be athropologists / researchers in humanities not sciences that discovewd hypergamy. Second.. i dont think that the description of “hypergamy” consitutes hating women? That’s a very neutral term that describes a social behavior. It’s not exactly a science. I didnt even say that i agree the TRP men hate single moms, i said that the OP never made a generalization about men as a whole, but rather what OP perceives as a demographic of TRP men. I’m just keeping you strai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 07:58 PM
1	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. As I stated, harassment and assault are not the same, we are in agreement (also this is not an opinion, it’s fact .. not sure why you had to clarify that you dont consider harassment and assault the same). I find it interesting that i mentioned online harassment such as deepfakes, and you didn’t acknowledge that as harassment, especially with what is going on with Grok right now. The thing is, with street harassment, the best is to not engage at all.. that doesn’t mean that the men are not perfo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 07:35 PM
2	TRP’s irrational (and unproductive) hatred of single moms is fully driven by the Madonna-Whore complex You do realize that this is not something Op invented, but was developed by Sigmund Freud. Name one single “man hating accusation” OP made. She never made a generalization about men in general, she’s singling out then specific demographic of redpill guys who hate single moms, unless I need glasses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 06:12 PM
1	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. What about communication techniques and advice regarding confidence/how you carry yourself? What is it that you feel like you were lacking the most before? And no, again, similarly as the term self-taught, i feel like your understanding of the terms doesn’t align with the dictionary or colloquially used definition. Rape is a type of sexual assault, but SA is an umbrella term for multiple different types of offences which is why in my first reply to you I brought up things such as sexual coercion…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 05:42 PM
1	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. That’s your only rebuttal? You still haven’t addressed anything that the OP said, your first comment is completely off point because he never mentions the word “rapist”, and now I’m the person who’s not arguing in good faith. Anyways it seems that you really dont wanna address the topic OP posted about outside of it concerning you potentially being called a rapist for being autistic, so let me ask you something different. What do you feel like was the most helpful thing you learned from TRP?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 04:45 PM
1	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. Okay so .. why are you mad at me then for trying to debate with you in a debate subreddit, and you are being neither helpful not are you talking about the subject that the post is about. You are just hijacking a random post to talk about stuff that, while it is related, is misconstruing information and you’re talking about very specific instances which don’t even go against what OP is arguing. I really think if your goal is to genuinely help people, it would be best to find an avenue where you c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 04:22 PM
1	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. The reason I said “you are ONLY talking about your experience” is because this is a DEBATE subreddit dumbass… “that’s not a response because such a thing could never exist” meanwhile, i literally gave you an example from a corporate setting. You act like it’s not possible to provide specialized support and guidance for teen boys that the government should be funding, instead of TRP which so much of it is a grift And YES! You reading a bunch and being austic about and learning how to mask, is ind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 03:55 PM
1	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. Wanna elaborate on that statement?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 03:09 PM
3	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. That’s not a controlled program with a proper rubric and checks and balances .. I’m sure there are some good principles that can be extrapolated, but the fact that you were able to self teach shows me that you are fairly high functioning, you were just socially awkward. There are autistic boys and men who are not as high functioning as you, and the rep pill won’t work for them. Additionally.. you are disregarding/not addressing all of my other points I’ve brought up, and making this whole post o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 03:08 PM
2	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. “An autistic dude” is not representative of all autistic men, I happen to know many, the only autistic men who’ve come across (to me at least) as creepy and threatening are the ones who I also know have a history of malice, just because a guy is autistic, doesnt automatically make him devoid of ability to understand morality. Definitely there are some that have made me somewhat uncomfortable/alert, but the moment I’d ask someone “hey what’s the deal with this guy” they’d let me know he’s autisti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 02:33 PM
2	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. Op never ONCE uses the word rapist lol you are jumping to conclusions and missing the point of the post Additionally, the majority of men are not autistic, and just because a man is autistic doesn’t mean that he cannot be malicious/behave in an unempathetic manner. Autism is a huge spectrum, from high functioning to non-verbal, to paint them with the same infantilizing brush is belittling. Albert Einstein was certain a genius, BUT doesn’t change that he divorced his first wife to marry his cousi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 01:59 PM
1	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. Sexual coercion is legally a form of sexual assault	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 01:27 PM
6	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. Sexual assault encompasses a larger spectrum of actions than simply rape, OP continuously talks about men making women uncomfortable too, not just assaulting them. A lot of these man are in fact rapists and pedophiles especially considering that girls start to experience unwanted attention from grown men usually in their tweens. Does that make it clearer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 01:26 PM
3	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. Unfortunately because generally speaking the attraction is not purely physical, it’s often an attraction to vulnerability and the inability to draw boundaries. The men who go for as young as possible, especially if it’s not just a 1 night stand but an actual relationship, generally speaking suffer from arrested development or peter pan syndrome at best, or have actively malicious intents at worst. When you have a mentally immature fully adult man, say 27 years old, dating someone about a decade …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 12:53 PM
2	Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to them So then why don’t you take it up with dangerous men, instead of blaming women for reacting to something that they cannot escape from? Women WISH they could just be quiet and avoid men, but the dangerous men go out of their way to interact with us in inappropriate ways. So why can’t the good men hold them accountable and be mad at them for tarnishing your reputation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 05:18 PM
1	Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to them Men are not dangerous because they were born male, they are dangerous based on socialization, which is why women are so vocal about it. The danger that dangerous men pose to us is inescapable, so if we dont talk about it, who will? I mean hell, if you are so much as a woman or child with a photo on twitter, a man will make a deepfake of you, that is inherently a violent action. Back to the socialization, it is why men in certain countries or communities are more dangerous than others, and I will…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 05:09 PM
1	Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to them It’s because every single woman since she was a child had to become hypervigilant based on the behavior of these criminals, with the addition that most men who are rapists don’t even see a day in Jail. The other reason is because when women do get raped, experience violent DV, stalking, sexual harassment.. the man who does it is typically enabled by a substantial portion of “the good men” who are passive about the issue. Almost every woman I’ve met has experienced this type of behaviour from men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 02:49 PM
2	“Patriarchy” is just a term women use to hide the fact that they were outcompeted. It’s because in matriarchal structures, it’s generally not a top down hierarchy, rather a structure that centers children and doesn’t necessitate subjugation	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 07:15 PM
2	I think I may be starting to doubt the 80/20 rule and I may be more attractive than I think. As I said, attraction is a spectrum and there are different niches for diff things, its just the markets for those niches vary in size. It’s like you didn’t read the rest of my text .. additionally.. if that is something you feel blindingly insecure about, ponder the thought that no one else will be able to love you if you cannot show love to yourself first, you will always sabotage and reject ppl with your internal narrative. Additionally, it will also be very hard for you to show love to other…	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/25 05:35 PM
–	What’s the common preference in modern dating for women , traditional roles or equal partnership? That makes sense, that being said to me that seems like something that can be a level conversation between two adults, instead of necessarily leadership.. the conversation being “what warrants protection?” .. that being said, some people do desire and almost require strict leadership, but personally i don’t see how it’s not paternalistic to have to “lead” someone to constantly not put themselves in dangerous situations, i guess if you’re a 35 year old dating a 19 year old, it makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 09:30 PM
1	Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than ever Sorry im confused, do you mean that nowadays it’s still quite normal but not as normal as before, or that its not normal now and was only a bit more normal then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 08:52 PM
–	What’s the common preference in modern dating for women , traditional roles or equal partnership? Can you explain what the argument/correlation is in regards to protection and leadership. For example, historically people domesticated dogs and had them as pets for the function of protecting their land.. that dog still needs to be lead? Im not saying men need to be lead, i just don’t think there is a necessary correlation.. same way that I can be protective over my friends, doesn’t mean i am leading them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 08:03 PM
–	There are more bad women than men these days What do you think about marriage and women’s lack of financial idependence over the last several milennia as overriding this genetic selection, aka, more men with dark triad traits have been able to reproduce, as they tend to be more cunning and hungry for resources, which is what parents would base arranged marriages off of? Female animals do select for genes, and women now that they have freedom of choice and financial liberty do too, but for the vast majority of modern history that hasn’t bee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 04:02 PM
–	There are more bad women than men these days Actually I do agree with you on that, I think men should have standards and also hold themselves to a higher standard as well, aka practicing high self esteem. Women rarely genuinely desire a man who pedastalizes them anyways (which supports the whole idea that being a simp doesn’t even really work), but definitely if you are a woman who doesn’t have pure intentions, it’s easy to take advantage of a guy who doesn’t respect himself. There are some men who derive pleasure from this, but that is/sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 08:33 AM
–	There are more bad women than men these days Anyways okay, let me ask you something .. what do you think is your proposed solution?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 07:56 AM
–	There are more bad women than men these days I still don’t think “men are more sexually attracted to women than the other way around” is a good framework even with what you are saying is true that men are by and large the purchasers of sex, but when you look at homosexuals, there are lots of men paying for male prostitutes and OF content, hell look at the success of grinder… the same is not true for lesbians. Men are more sexually charged as well as more impulsive sexually, additionally they more often have a on and off libido, whereas wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 07:49 AM
3	I think I may be starting to doubt the 80/20 rule and I may be more attractive than I think. If we are being honest, to me it feels like you have a hard time fully conceptualizing that while 20/80 is bs, attraction IS a spectrum, and how you present will always attract a different type of audience, especially personality wise. I think generally men who even if they are fat, but have muscle, will likely have more success because there is still an underlying indicator of strength, which many women find attractive.. but again, it depends, the women more likely to like that will be women wh…	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/25 07:14 AM
–	There are more bad women than men these days Do you have any stats, or are you just extrapolating deductions about behaviour on what makes sense to you? In your first point, you say that men are more sexually attracted than women.. which makes no sense. Yes men cast a much wider net for short term sex, but while women are less likely to just fuck anyone, doesn’t mean that they’re not attracted to the men they do find hot?? Additionally, women form emotional attachments more easily and there is an entire culture of negging directed towards …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 06:38 AM
1	Our culture promotes consent and mindfulness more than ever in history, yet people fuck less than ever What do you mean a bit more normalized? Within marriage it was legal/not acknowledged	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 05:35 AM
1	Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges. I mean, the tradeoff is that in Eastern Europe you have much less hookup culture and are expected to provide much more upfronted IF you choose to pursue a girl, it’s just that your self confidence to reject or not go after the woman you want is is higher specifically because that investment means that you’d like to pursue her for a relationship. The gender roles are more strict and generally girls why dont care as much about looks, care much more about masculinity and family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 03:59 AM
3	Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges. Well I do think that the class thing IS relevant, because it absolutely has shaped society / how we got here. There’s no way to talk about these types of societal patterns, without looking at the history of relationships throughout time. I will agree with you that women a lot of times don’t consider just how much more work men have to put in to be considered baseline attractive, especially in societies where it is expected that the man makes the first move.. essentially that a lot of women would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 01:08 PM
17	Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries? Yeah that’s not normal, they might have a personality disorder/mental problem at best, and are abusive at worst.. no adult should throw a tantrum like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 12:40 PM
20	Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries? I dont think she’s blaming the victim, i think when she said “this would annoy the shit out of me” i think she’s placing himself in his shoes, not the family or girlfriends. She’s trying to provide some kind of path forward to help him find partners that are compatible with him, because not all women act like this. To OP, personally I would screen for partners who also have had a rigorous academic background, or can empathize with more extreme working conditions such as maybe an EMT nurse.. pote…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 12:37 PM
2	If you are a “nice guy”, you cannot just choose to become an “asshole” Nice generally denotes a level of people pleasing / not being truthful for the sake of making others around you feel good. Nice also usually in my opinion denotes behaviours and phrases that are easy to learn/automate, whereas being good or kind can be a challenging thing to do, and does require backbone. I think intrinsically it’s difficult for women to trust “nice” guys because either they are naive and easily taken advantage of by anybody, or they are not truly speaking their mind. Additional…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 03:38 PM
1	Women are bad at commitment Look into the stats of how many men in USA are subscribed to OF, and how many are married	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 02:47 PM
2	What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences? Why do you think that is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 01:37 PM
2	Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges. Personally I just don’t understand why men of the lower caste direct their anger at women, who are hard wired to seek partners who could support them during pregnancy and child rearing (and give them offspring who would also be more likely to be helpful rather than cause problems and loss), instead of them men at the top of the hierarchy who are exploiting them and putting them into a position where not only are they not meeting the resource requirements to be a viable mate to women, but also ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 01:31 PM
2	Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything? I don’t think so, I actually think it should be no penile sexual contact before marriage, since the penis and ejaculate really are the bearer of the bad news here. If you can make a woman orgasm prior to marriage without using your penis, then than would ensure that even if you’re not the most compatible penis-in-vagina wise, she’s still able to get off, and you have a 90% chance of reaching orgasm yourself (the vast majority of women dont achieve orgasm PIV, and even today with all the sexual k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 02:47 AM
1	What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences? Can you give examples of systemic misandry and who is instituting it	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 01:44 AM
1	What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences? The disparity here is that… the women are physically non threatening. Even if a man is not giving you the vibe that hell kidnap you, subconsciously women realize that theres a threat of pregnancy with someone you haven’t chosen..	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 01:39 AM
1	What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences? Actually i think in some places heterosexual women, in particular black women, are the more likely to die from AIDS since at risk gay men take PrEP	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 01:37 AM
1	What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences? Except the vast majority of fathers, religious or not, give the same advice to their daughters, older brothers do too, and so will the mother. The funny part is when suddenly you turn 19, 20, 21.. and now the conversation turns to talking about marriage and babies, it thought all men cared about was sex and that they’re dangerous, how am i supposed to know which one is husband material lol..	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 01:12 AM
6	Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything? Can you share your source? Anyways something to consider here is that if a man doesnt invest in a woman, women usually perceive this as a lack of serious interest, and because the sexual burden almost exclusively falls on women, if they are trying to date, not just hook up, they’d at least want someone who’s willing to invest in them or willing to support them in case they do have to lets say get a plan b/have an abortion/take care of a pregnancy or treat an STD, which generally STDs can cause w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 08:33 PM
1	CMV: There is an attitude of arrogant entitlement among Western women, but it's mostly the fault of men. Thats true, I think that's rather obnoxious actually lol. I went on a date with a 32 year old dude to a french restaurant and he picked up the tab (I did too for the desert we had at another location later) and he said that it had been the cheapest date he'd gone on, and I was just like wow dude you're getting ripped off big time. I usually go by the rule of "if I'm not willing to spend money on you, you shouldn't be spending money on me". But this is why I'm wondering, if say women hit a point …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/19 01:54 PM
1	CMV: There is an attitude of arrogant entitlement among Western women, but it's mostly the fault of men. Well yes, which is why I specified that I had lived in LA, not just the US broadly, however, I do agree that LA culture is its own microcosm that I cannot extrapolate to a country the size of half a giant continent to, although I've visited other cities for very short periods of time, its not a large enough sample for me to conclude anything from them. I do think the overall extrovertedness is a factor, as well as the fact that its much more common to make smalltalk with strangers (i absolutely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/19 09:48 AM
2	CMV: There is an attitude of arrogant entitlement among Western women, but it's mostly the fault of men. Care to elaborate? Obviously this is from personal experience, so there will be some form of selection bias as based on the fact that I can't tell you how it is in more rural areas, or countries outside of the Balkans/Czechia/Slovakia, but I'm just stating some of the stuff I'm noticing. Like, men in the US literally throw themselves at me at any location or time of day, in Europe this rarely happens outside of nightclubs. I have a friend who here would be considered like a 4.5-5 that moving to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/19 07:52 AM
2	CMV: There is an attitude of arrogant entitlement among Western women, but it's mostly the fault of men. on whose side?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/19 07:10 PM
2	CMV: There is an attitude of arrogant entitlement among Western women, but it's mostly the fault of men. I think honestly not being too blue pilled will give you better results, like you want to be polite, but also i think in general everybody is more cold/rude/standoffish in Europe, so you can either give off an insincere/kissing ass vibe, or you'll be perceived as a doormat possibly. I think it really depends also what kind of a girl you're talking to. Theres many EE women who are really fed up with the conservative norms usually shoved down their throats by their elder relatives, and then theres…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/19 09:56 PM
33	CMV: There is an attitude of arrogant entitlement among Western women, but it's mostly the fault of men. As somebody from eastern Europe that has lived 4 years in LA, I can tell you that theres a huge difference in the dynamics between men and women in the different cultures. First I wanna note that in LA, despite the fact that its filled with models and whatnot, I am deemed as more attractive than I am in central/south-east europe (partially because theres just much more averagely attractive women here than in LA) but also, men just have higher standards, both for the women they go after but also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/19 01:21 PM