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It's almost as if there's already a name for this, and people who willingly engage in it tend to be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:10 PM
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It don't tho. There's enough programs around the country to address alcoholism and drug addiction. The social stigma surrounding each is lessening every day. The problems been solved. Some people wanna drink and get high and fuck and there's nothing wrong with any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 09:47 PM
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Let people do what they want, including drstroy themselves. Its none of your fucking business and this backhanded attempt to "question" it reeks of u justified indignation. No one's sorry that you're not apart of a culture you so desperately long to be. You don't get to ruin everyone else's fun just cuz you're salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 09:42 PM
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Anyone can Google "shit that agrees with me" and start quote mining the abstracts of papers. I'm 31 now, and I can tell you that I, and the people are know, are vastly different from who were were at 18, or whatever other arbitrary milestone you'd like to set. For me, who I'm attracted to and why is like rolling a D20 on any given day and matching the number up to a chart. Today I rolled a 7 so it's tomboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 08:12 PM
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The shit incels think and say, out loud. I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 07:49 PM
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Most people have just gotten over older courting traditions. Things like asking the father's permission to date his daughter aren't just antiquated, they're arbitrary. They serve no practical purpose and end up being a waste of time. We are coming up in a time in which the people who most often get what they want out of life are proactive instead of reactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 05:08 PM
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In the simplest terms, it's forcing men into a box. This box has very specific things in it that define what being a man is, and anything outside of the box, if touched even once, will make you less of a man, "cucked", "beta", "numale", "soy". It has become kind of meme, with people espousing things like a man ordering water with lemon is and indication that he's gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 07:32 PM
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I a man. I don't really care if people respect me for what I do or don't do. I do things, ultimately, because I want to do them. No one deserves respect by virtue of being a man or woman. If the only way you feel you can accomplish something is by "vanquishing your enemies", you are frankly, fucked in the head. It is a pure power fantasy. It is the feeling nerds get when they watch Sword Art Online and see Kirito pull hacking skills from his ass in the split second and realize he can exclusively…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:01 PM
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The "typical" woman is a myth; a stereotype dreamt up by impotent and angry men mad that the world doesn't cater to them and their desires who are only capable of blaming everyone and everything else. The "typical" woman must be a vapid, shallow, idiot who doesn't know what's good for her because if they were anything more, then that means their rejection might actually carry some weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:31 PM
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What I find the women I date want are interesting men, not strictly moral good two-shoes and not edgy for the sake of it dudes. They want men who are more than one-dimensional stereotypes ripped out of a bad teen romance film. They want men who do more than wait for an opportunity to be nice, and instead just are, all the time, and don't expect praise for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:48 PM
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Folks who would strip others of their autonomy just because they're salty over not getting any don't deserve t get any in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:12 PM
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Or it's far simpler than people would like to admit. Guys grow up expecting that if they behave in the certain fashion towards women, those women will definitely, without question, reward them with sex/intimacy/love/sandwiches. Those guys get mad when their expectations aren't mean, and their biases are not confirmed. Women aren't NPCs in an MMO. You don't just check of some objectives on the quest and turn it in for a reward. Learn to deal with rejection like an adult, instead of a spoiled brat…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 05:48 PM
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It's as if everyone wants to be desired by people they desire, and everyone has known this since the dawn of sexual attraction. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:53 PM
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OK. Great. I'm glad you got something you need out of it, but that doesn't change what it is. In their quest to "empower" woman in the world of dating so much, they've found their means: shitting on men. AS far as FDS is concerned, a man must offer something to you; serve you to be of any real value. It's just as objectifying as looking at women as nothing more than holes to slot a penis into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 04:45 PM
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Very yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 04:02 PM
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There is a big burden of performance on men when it comes to sex (like in all areas of life really). They are expected to know what they're doing in the bedroom, give the woman an amazing time and be excellent lovers. According to who and/or what? Most people are awkward in bed with one another the first few times. But what about women? Depends on the standards of the men they have sex with. I prefer more experienced women who at least aren't looking at my dick like they've just seen an alien, u…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:28 PM
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"If you don't have manners then you are not worth talking anyway" And there it is. If a man is being rejected by a woman in a degrading, condescending manner then that woman isn't worth talking to, right? So why is the man hung up on those women that rejected him? Why is he allowing those rejections to hold any sway over his thoughts and actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:02 PM
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No one has to enjoy getting rejected, but if they what success in the realm of dating, they do need to learn to get over it. If rejection has destroyed your confidence, you need to do something in order to restore it. Expecting women to resolve your anxieties around being rejected is not one of those things. No one owes anyone politeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:54 PM
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As a man, I'm gonna say your reasoning is bullshit. He hasn't "failed". He's been rejected, and rejection happens to most people more times than it doesn't. He simply views rejection as failure, and doesn't know how to get over it. What these men expect is for the women they try to approach to resolve their anxieties concerning rejection for them, and that shit comes off as needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:08 PM
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Ok Jordan Peterson. We get it. You're irrelevant now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:47 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:25 PM
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Rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:54 AM
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I dunno. I'm not exactly concerned with it. Big enough that my last girlfriend claimed she was afraid of it, and another girl we hooked up with said she needed to take it slow. Here's the thing though: I ain't swimming in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:39 AM
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Well, that's entirely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:36 AM
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Do men genuinely enjoy Relationships or it just a way for them to get laid ? Depends on the man. This is the problem with treating an entire sex as some kind of hive mind or looking for an average between all members of one gender. I've been in a committed relationship just for the sex, I've been with people who were in relationships with me just for the sex. I've been in relationships where sex was secondary to our commitment to one another. It's all a crap shoot. Learn to communicate with your…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:54 PM
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I think it's an unfair assessment of either sex to boil them down to base urges. Call it bluepilled or whatever. I don't give a fuck. Just apply some nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:38 PM
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I specifically said it ends in them getting used by someone they have feelings for. Something you can't possibly know happens enough to claim it as fact. And even then, is using men for sex necessarily exercising the best judgment? No. Neither is driving over the speed limit. Both can still be tons of fun and feel empowering. the average man doesn't have as many options as the average women. Ok. Does that stop men from trying? You're focused on the results, not the behavior. Any man could do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:32 PM
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Did it ever occur to you that women who engage in the kind of casual and rapid sex you're talking about might be using those men, and that's what they find empowering about it? How are men excluded from exercising the same sexual freedom?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:14 PM
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women typically do not know what is good for them That's how. The idea that women "typically" have no ability to exercise even the smallest amount of self control and are purely instinctual animals; that they will always give into hypergamy no matter the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:04 PM
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I don't like accepting something as fact just because other people do, especially when that something rests on very, very shaky backing. General consensus is not proof of anything, and hypergamy is more often than not use to do what you did: dehumanize and degrade women. I'll stay in whatever sub I please unless the mods ban me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:52 PM
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Right. That old talking point. I'm not even going to entertain this nonsense. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:41 PM
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And you're basing this on....what exactly? Other than plain bigotry, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:40 PM
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You're missing a key component: That the NiceGuy typically can't handle rejection, and flies into fits of rage over it. That's where the idea that they are entitled comes in. It doesn't matter if they can spot fuck boys or not (especially since they tend to think every man other than them is one), it's that they think they know what's better for women than women know for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:28 PM
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Is it really super, duper important that you get a second date with someone who is adamant you pay for their share of it? I don’t think so. That’s the point. Learn to stand in principle, even if it means you have to make sacrifices elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:05 AM
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Ok. So you don’t go on a second date. You don’t have to conform to gender roles. No one is forcing you to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:14 AM
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Do they think this all evolved in a vaccuum with no economic influences? I can't say whether they think that or not. I can say most of them believe those economic influences are irrelevant, because they view the rise of second and especially third wave feminism as moral issues. That's why often resort to using terms like "degeneracy" to describe the products of those movements. TBH I never hear men outside of PPD say this. And I think it’s because of the overrepresentation of traditionalists and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:35 AM
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All of it. All of those structures I've mentioned so far specifically and exclusively benefit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:02 AM
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Is it though? Do you not think there isn't some encouragement by women to support these structures, knowing that they benefit from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:56 AM
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It's never been relevant in more recent times, but the Vietnam war started only 65 years ago. That's not exactly ancient history, and to my knowledge, the last major war fought by a Western nation that used a draft. In the U.S., at least, women still make up the minority of all armed forces, and recruitment efforts for military service rarely target young women. The lack of women in the military, and their exclusion from drafts of the past, come from both sides of the equation. One one hand, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:44 AM
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Do y’all think women stopped liking men once they got the right to vote. No. Some men do believe that feminism encouraged more women to become independent from men (it did) and in extreme cases, even outright hate them. Men who blame feminism often attribute to it women's increasing standards for partners, promiscuity, and attitudes that are anything other than submissive. I don't think they're right for this, but this is generally what they say when they assign blame to feminism. Also what is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:56 PM
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Do you think women are boring? Not all of them. Some people are boring, some people are not. Depends on how interesting you are yourself, really. Do you have any female friends? Plenty. They like sex and validation. They link sex with women and validation from women. Approaching , getting to know and flirting with women is like a chore to them. It's often presented as a chore for a man. Men are expected to bear the risk of rejection and potential humiliation. From what we seen in screenshots of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:49 PM
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The pervasive (and stupid) belief that any woman can have sex whenever she wants because vagina. Sexless men who are angry about being sexless often back their anger by claiming no woman could ever relate to or understand what they're going through. The need to demonize women as terrible and evil for keeping sex away from these men is another important part of the puzzle, because these men need to portray themselves as victims or else they're just salty that they can't get their dicks wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:15 PM
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We’re talking specifically about physical, sexual attraction. If it has anything at all to do with anything besides that initial, raw, “I wanna bang that” feeling you get when looking at a person, it’s a moot point here. People stop caring about how emotional compatible they are with another person when that person looks like Henry Cavill or Emily Ratajkowski. You may find your partner attractive, but if you find someone else MORE attractive then your partner, in that context, is functionally un…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:06 AM
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If you find someone more attractive than your partner then do you find your partner attractive at all, practically speaking? No. If you're rather bang someone other than your partner, it doesn't matter how attractive you think your partner is. They might as well be a flat 0 in your eyes. I didn't think that needed spelling out, but then you came along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:09 PM
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The people, real or imagined, that some men surround themselves with value sex above things like hobbies, careers, and volunteering. Incels, of course, are the most extreme example. Having a good career, or being really good at something is all "bluepilled normie bullshit" to them. If it isn't helping a man get sex immediately, on their terms, it's nonsense. Plain old insecurity. It's normal to feel like you aren't normal when it seems like everyone else around you is having sex. You begin to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:22 PM
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Not at all. I don't believe most S/O's find one another attractive. If they did, they wouldn't be drooling over whatever hot, new celebrity just hit the scene on their social media feeds. Do you really think your partner finds you attractive when they can't stop thinking about how nice it would be to climb in bed with someone like Emily Ratajowski or Henvry Cavill? Please. Stop fooling yourself. Everyone is hypergamous and if they have a shot at anything better, they'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:08 PM
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Everyone settles. This is not news. I don't care who you are, or how righteous and pure of a person you claim to be, or if you climb to the tops of the mountains to profess your love for your S/O to the world. When see a Jason Momoa, a Henry Cavill, a Scarlett Johansson or a Jessica Alba, you're ALWAYS going to thirst over them more. You're ALWAYS going to fantasize about what it'd be like to spend a night with someone who looks like that; who stimulates you on sight and ticks all the right boxe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:50 AM
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TRP has been pushing the idea that men are morally and intellectually superior since the dawn of civilization; that woman are akin to children, in need of guidance and direction lest their own inherent "degeneracy" (or whatever) destroy everything all the manly men worked so hard to build with their pee pees. It's just a lot of us projecting our insecurities onto women, and then expecting women to resolve those insecurities for us by behaving in a fashion which ensures men get everything they wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:29 PM
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Maybe someone can clarify something for me: What counts as objectively plain/unattractive? The problem with this entire argument is that it assumes that there is one, well-defined, and immutable metric by which we all rank attractiveness. What is it, and how do we know it works?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:40 PM
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Can you explain why they don't beyond "exhibits behavior I do not personally approve of"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:48 PM
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. it’s not even about the number, it’s about the fact that in many cases women undergo irreversible emotional damage According to who and/or what? [CITATION NEEDED] hombre. No one is playing Captain Save A Hoe. You are just wrong. Learn to live with your wrongness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:59 PM
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People undgo emotional damage for various reasons. Nothing you're saying is "obvious" because you're just making massive generalizations with no justification. No one is out here trying to save a hoe. You're just wrong, and you need to learn to live with that fact. (lol, God. ok clown) Now, are we done?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:48 PM
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I’m simply telling you from a logical POV There's nothing logical about it. It's your personal preference, at best. You're taking your personal experience, and projecting it onto all women. All you've done is confirmed my biases for me. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:38 PM
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Aaaaaaaand there it is. Women, and their genitals, are not vehicles with mileage. Grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:26 PM
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lol no. That's not how that works. If you're hung up on how "easy" a woman seems or how many sexual partners she's had, that's entirely on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:22 PM
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It's probably because of my personal experience, but yes. These relationships tend to only happen because of a one-sided fetish or kink, and the girls who end up in them are often neglected, abused, and treated as little more than sex slaves by the men they're with. The man exists to control and fuck the girl and the girl exists to be controlled and be fucked, essentially, and there's never any change or break in that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 04:18 PM
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what you are doing is virtue signaling. You keep saying this, and all I'm saying is, I'm not. as I'm separating girls I have relationships, with girls I am friends with But, that's not what you said. You specifically said you sort them into the friend zone and the fuck zone. Does the concept of friends with benefits escape you? Can you not fuck someone you're not in a relationship with? That's what I mean when I say such a position is an immature one. It doesn't allow for any flexibility or nuan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:28 PM
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The fuck zone and the friend zone, and never the two zones shall meet. And I'm just saying I find that sad and immature. I wouldn't call that position virtue signaling by any means, but go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:10 PM
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someone claiming they’re for so much more, but listing nothing and only saying how bad the “other” people are? I didn't claim anyone else was virtue signaling, but ok. I just find it weird how it isn't obvious that women are just as good for stuff as men are, generally speaking. Like, imagine a world in which women can be your completely platonic friends and associates, and not every one of them gets reduce to a walking, talking vagina in your mind. Think about how they might be fun to just hang…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:56 PM
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Well, I'm not exactly saying they're trolls. I am saying that they've got insecurities about themselves, and they project those insecurities onto others, which causes them to view women as such. I don't think I'm different from most men, I think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:00 PM
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I can't tell you how women think, by virtue of not being a woman, but I can tell you to not take everything you read on the internet so goddamned seriously. I'm thinking a lot of guys are projecting their own feelings and insecurities onto others. This will probably sounds like "SJW virtue signaling bluepill propaganda" or whatever, but I'm a completely straight, cisgender man and I don't believe a woman's value to me is based on whether or not she'll sleep with me. I think dudes who believe thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:37 PM
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If a woman's sexual history is enough to make you want to "Columbine a school", you need either therapy, jail, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:44 PM
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Who determined those faces were attractive to begin with? By what metric? Can this be repeated and independently verified? Was there a control group? What was the sample size? Most importantly, why do you give a fuck about the opinions of babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 01:32 PM
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No, it isn't. And trying to convince me otherwise will be a waste of everyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 01:19 PM
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The simple fact of the matter is what we view as conventionally attractive is often a collection of social pressures and expectations set by our peers. Look across the wider world, and you'll find that what counts as attractive can differ wildly between populations. It is up to each individual to break these standards down in their own minds and learn what they, personally find attractive in other human beings, instead of trying to the "hawt" one in order to impress others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:26 PM
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People are obviously more attracted to other people who are doing productive things. The goal of self improvement is what is important. It should be obvious, but self improvement is for the self. It is to build confidence in one’s own abilities to set goals and achieve them via their own effort. Those who run around doing all these things in hopes it will impress others just reek of desperation. Their goals are wrong and their efforts seem fake to other people. They come off as manipulative pick…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:27 PM
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Well, I DO understand why. It’s because doing all of those things doesn’t entitle you to any girl’s time or attention, and doing those things just so you can get girl’s time and attention is cringy AF. The goal of self improvement is to inspire self confidence, not to make other people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 02:07 PM
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Average men need to up their game to make their profiles more appealing, message better, etc., so that the average woman don't feel the need to be 1/100 right swipe picky. I agree 100%. It's why I haven't started a new dating profile until I'm sure it's well crafted and I understand the mystic art of taking a good selfie. Problem is, the average guy will simply make their own lack of quality a woman's problem. Her standards are too high, she's too picky, she only wants "Chad", etc. This also thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:42 AM
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I the context of a dating app, men do have countless options in front of them. The issue is again, that they'll swipe right on anything they find conventionally and physically attractive without taking into account anything else. So it's a combination of things that harms them. First, they are basing their standards for who is and isn't attractive largely around what other people think, because they're mostly trying to impress others by landing the "hot" one. Second, their refusal to be pickier …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:34 AM
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Thing is, most men just don't care. They are special and when a girl turns them down, it's not because she's simply indifferent and jaded by the thousands of requests she gets a day. No. She must be specifically out to hurt them. The rejection has to be personal or else the man's ego might be damaged. I'm a guy and I gotta say, if we were as picky with our women (instead of swiping right on every conventionally "cute" or "hawt" face we see because we wanna impress our bros) as they are with us, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:23 AM
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The inclination comes from purely physical attraction and what I think they are like in my head. When I actually meet and talk to them in person, they obviously aren't going to live up to my lofty idea of who they are. It's kinda like meeting a celebrity in person. You realize that who they are on a screen or stage is just an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:38 PM
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I think it was just cuz I was young and desperate. Looking at her now, she's not attractive to me at all. I was willing to spend time with her just because she was a girl who was nice to me, and would occasionally flirt. The women I'm inclined to orbit, or whatever, I realize probably aren't the kind of women I actually wanna be with in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:31 PM
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Commiseration. Incels and MGTOW don't really care about solving their own problems and resolving their own pain, so much as they care about inflicting pain one those they think have wronged them. They are miserable, so they need the world to be miserable with them for validation's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 06:54 PM
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To expand upon what someone already said, when some people say they want respect, what they mean is they want the bare minimum you'd afford a stranger. They'd rather not be bombarded with overly personal or sexual questions and information immediately, they'd like to have their physical boundaries respected, etc. Some people mean that they feel they are more deserving than that; that others are to address them in a specific fashion, following commands or orders, and/or have a subservient attitud…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 06:47 PM
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It's probably a combination of both. The obvious, biological imperative being that tall men are perceived as stronger, and more capable of protecting their mates and offspring. This mimics the same obvious behavior we see in many species of animal. The largest male gets the most mates. Socially, this has to with status. A lot of people like showing their partners off to others, or at the very least, not feeling like they have to justify or be embarrassed about their choice. Again, we see this be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 03:42 PM
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Oh boi, oh boi, am I sure glad I ran into the ONE person on reddit who can read minds. Tell me, what am I thinking about right now? How stupid you are, ya say? Gosh! How did ya know?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 01:03 PM
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This is just laughably bad. We live in a world where men ARE hot dogs and women collectively have made it clear they don't want hot dogs. They will settle for a hot dog if it's all they've been offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:36 PM
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Yeah it's just hard to belittle that bigotry when that act is viewed as bigotry itself. There's a very, "How dare you question the preferences of non-cis, non-straight people?", vibe that's been going on since at least last year. Like, it's sacrilege to even point this trend out, and the attitude is that straight, cis men should just shut up and take it cuz "men are trash" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:59 PM
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Eh. I take a different approach. As a straight guy, the dynamic seems to be that being straight, and especially male, is just not sexy. Everyone wants to be in an open, polyamorous relationship with their non-binary, kinky, and queer "partners" now. All girls are cute and unique and beautiful and special, and dudes that don't lean towards some femme trend are gross and "toxic". I see and hear bi girls and guys both say that they are happily attracted to women, and begrudgingly attracted to men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:47 PM
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But those things definitely come second to relationships. Doubt. Women set the terms by which men can even enter into relationships to begin with. Men have zero control in these spaces. And honestly, why should I, a straight man care what women want? Is that a serious question?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:50 PM
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No. It's a deflection. "wHaT aBoUt MeN?" Exactly. What about them? How are men relevant here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:46 PM
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It's pretty simple. A lot of men are angry because no matter what we look like, or how we act, we are repulsive to women and all we hear time and time again are lies dressed up as advice. It doesn't how much effort we put into not being that way, something about us just turns women off and no one can really explain what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:58 PM
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Go and subject yourself to a couple weeks to months worth of rejection until you are desensitized and numb, or breakdown and get stuck in a cycle of wondering why you're so repulsive despite your best efforts not to be. I mean, realistically, these are the outcomes. The idea of throwing shit at the wall and hoping something will eventually stick is just stupid. Everyone has an overall chance of finding a date, male or female, and that chance is largely determined by things about themselves they …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:03 PM
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... or 10,000 thirsty men commenting illicit shit on some thots pouty faced tits out bikini pic... No one cares. This is the third case of chronic whataboutism in this thread. The problem lies in people not admitting that only the hotties are worth the time and effort. People CANNOT be satisfied by someone "equally attractive" as they are. And there's that implication that attractiveness is objective again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:31 PM
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Generalizations and assumptions are often baseless. I can take 30 seconds on just about any social media and see another post or comment of a thousand women gushing over something Henry Cavill said or did in a single season of a Netflix show.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:30 PM
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Uhhh "the fuck what" is that some most people are shitty, some most people are shallow, some most people are incapable of love or anything but selfishness, that's the way the world is and bitching about it does nothing. The idea of looksmatching, "leagues", etc is disgusting and flies in the face of the blue pill idea that all that matters is personality. So are we finally admitting that attractiveness is so objective you can actually rank people on scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:54 PM
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Sex, specifically how much of it you have and with whom, determines a good portion of your overall social value. Simply put, no sex = no clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:44 PM
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I mean... you know how many men have "midlife crises" (aka are total fucking dbags) and leave their wife to fuck some almost-child because they suddenly had the chance? Again with the whataboutism. Again I ask: SO THE FUCK WHAT? This isn't about my personal lifestyle choices either. The facts are the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:29 PM
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Sure. If you say so. Thank you for brilliant contribution. Men and women are unhappy together for different reasons. Most women chose who they'll date. Most men do not. Women still hold more power when it comes to dating and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:20 PM
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Men cheat too, yanno. Yes. And? I don't excuse those men so this isn't really a counter argument. You're just engaging in plain whataboutism. The point still stands. Women do not actually desire most men. They simply settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:13 PM
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I'm not angry that I'm not Chad. I'm angry that all women seem to actually want is Chad; that even if a woman climbs to the top of Everest and proclaims her undying love for me, that can all be washed away as soon as she has a chance at anything better. Like, I'm sorry I wasn't born with an immaculate jawline, or the natural ability to cultivate an 8 pack inside of a week, or a bassy, deep voice that makes your nethers quake. There's nothing I can do about it. So stop telling me what I want or h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:54 PM
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It's not shocking or any of those words you've used to describe it. It just sucks. Believe it or not, men want to be desired by women just as much as women want to be desired by men. It is discouraging to some of us when most girls are drooling over the Henry Cavill's and Idris Elba's of the world. To some of us, they appear to be the rule, not the exception to it and we know we're never going to live up to that standard, and thus never truly be desired, only settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:26 PM
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