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Been experiencing this for the first time the past month, and it’s amazing how true it is. I was developing a bit of oneitis with a girl I hooked up with and used to have a legitimate crush on before. Then I hooked up with another girl and the day after, set up a hangout with a friend I haven’t seen in awhile and whom I’ve hooked up with before + have had the longest sexual tension with. Oneitis was gone just like that, and my confidence has been sky high for the past few days since. Even just t…
/r/seduction01/10/19 12:13 AM
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Look into her eyes and don’t you dare break contact. Pick one eye and focus on it, if you have to. If you’re in the middle of conversation, keep it going, but slowly close the personal space gap between you two - leaning in more, standing closer to her, putting your arm around her if you’re side to side, etc. If she doesn’t recoil, that’s a green light, and by this point there’s a 99% chance that she’ll catch the tension from you looking deeply into her eyes and stop talking. You will, too. It’s…
/r/seduction28/09/19 04:29 PM
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I often had the thoughts ´does she miss me?´, ´will she take me back if I say the right things?´. I conditioned myself to bitchslap myself with a counter thought every time. ´No. She does not miss you. She is ecstatic to be rid of me. She is literally fucking her new guy right now, screaming with pleasure. SHE IS NEVER COMING BACK.´ This is exactly what every person needs to think at some point to get over somebody, whether it's a case of oneitis or a breakup like yours. Whenever my friends or y…
/r/seduction23/04/19 03:45 PM
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Every guy can absolutely build muscle mass. Of course your genetics play a part in giving you advantages or disadvantages in the rate of muscle built, and also the exact insertion points and shapes your musculature will take on, but the reason why a lot of skinnier people find it hard, or impossible, to put on size is very likely because they're not taking it seriously enough and are screwing up in one of the following: diet, effort, exercise technique, sleep. Fitness may not be hard to work tow…
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:03 AM
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Yeah I don’t think it’s exactly easy to mix those two things up. Of course you’re gonna have to make moves and meet girls to actually...yknow, meet girls. But you definitely do not have to give them your attention 24/7 and cling onto them like a leech to get into relationships/hookups. That’s the entire point of “inner game”, to get to a point where your self-esteem is high enough that you don’t feel the need to treat women like queens in order to get with them.
/r/seduction15/04/19 08:16 PM
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Thanks bud!
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:38 AM
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This post had perfect timing. I’ve been having very mixed thoughts about asking out a girl I’ve been talking to at work recently (I work in one of my school’s rec departments), but I don’t want to be hit with any “what-ifs” because of me not having the balls to show my interest. I’m gonna just ask her out for coffee next time I see her.
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:41 PM
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Yes! This is exactly what i meant to say. I guess it’s unconscious for me now since I forgot to mention it in my post, but it’s hard to focus on two separate objects haha. I also personally switch from one eye to the next after a certain period of time, and that works just as well. As long as you’re not trying to focus on both at the same time.
/r/seduction10/02/19 05:58 AM
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For sure. The problem is I haven’t had many chances to practice as this past semester has been extremely busy, and the few times I did go out or had opportunities were either before I made this meta realization of my etched fear, or let it get the best of me resulting in me not making moves. But like you relayed with your analogies, I know what works, I just need to execute more to get used to the feeling I suppose. I did push past it the last couple of times I went clubbing, and what helped was…
/r/seduction15/12/18 12:28 AM
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I used to be a huge nice guy and have since broken out of the mentality, but pulling the trigger is definitely something I need to take more initiative with. Ive had quite a few opportunities at clubs/raves I’ve let go to waste because I either didn’t make a move in time, or didn’t recognize that she wanted me to advance the physicality, resulting in her walking away. I even remember one coming up next to me and my group for like 10 seconds, then yelling at me in frustration before walking off. …
/r/seduction14/12/18 10:29 PM
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This is a very good point. I used to suffer from severe oneitis as the post describes, and at the same time had this dream woman you’ve mentioned in my head with a list of qualities and shared interests that I wanted. This led to me developing oneitis and becoming overly obsessed with any girl who checked off even one or two of these qualities and threw me any sort of attention, all the while ignoring her flaws and things that made her HUMAN and overinvesting in her validation. Of course, I neve…
/r/seduction23/10/18 07:09 PM
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Please tell me you threw in some sort of licking joke/innuendo at least once during the night. That’d be way too good of an opportunity to let go to waste.
/r/seduction18/10/18 06:00 PM
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See, that's actually a trick I use regularly now and it worked for every interaction I had with her except getting her number LOL. I think the whole "losing face" part that I worry about stems from the fact that I used to be pretty desperate back when I was in high school, to the point where the various rejections and spreading of word about those interactions has kind of made me...paranoid? about pursuing girls I meet in an event involving large numbers of people, in fear of being seen as "cree…
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:01 PM
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I appreciate your viewpoint. Worrying about others' perceptions of me is still something I'm working on atm.
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:42 PM
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She doesn't post very often, so I'd presume that starting off with a DM about one of her recent photos would be in the same vein?
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:36 PM
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