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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	think I've been finally blocked by a person I liked, as their reply to me asking for support Having to interact frequently with toxic relatives makes it even worse than if I were completely alone I'm sorry to hear that. Yes, being surrounded by shitty people is worse than being alone. Which is why it's not good to switch one bad person with another. I may have an idea on how to have interractions with less shitty people (see below) Well I can't really block them (although I've previously thought of that many times) since they already beat me to it haha... (not intending to try to contac…	/r/MenSupportMen	19/08/24 09:39 PM
3	think I've been finally blocked by a person I liked, as their reply to me asking for support You deserve better than having this person in your life. It doesn't matter how shitty you feel you are, you still deserve better than that. Everyone does. That is not a friend. That is a manipulative person taking advantage of you for their own benefit. Being alone and lonely is still better than having this person in your life because they are actively taking all they can from you. You don't need them to listen. You need a therapist. Someone who actually cares about you getting better and not j…	/r/MenSupportMen	19/08/24 06:56 PM
8	Hey guy. I know some have it worse out there but You ran, which is better than fighting him. If you fought him, you would had a chance to get hurt, maybe in addition to getting raped. Because if you lost, it would have happened. The goal of a fight is to get away unharmed. AFAIK, you did. You won. Forget the idea that as a man, your job was to fight. It's not. Beating the asshole would still only be vigilante justice and would have changed nothing. It would not prevent him from trying again. Your feeling of being weak is not rational nor true,…	/r/MenSupportMen	27/07/24 05:05 AM
–	Weekly check-in I'm sorry to hear all that you go through. There's at least one person wishing you luck tonight and that you can get your surgery as scheduled. I hope your appointment went well. I don't know where you live but if it's a city, there's almost certainly support groups, where you could go to talk and have others listen. Look in churches (you don't have to believe in God, at worst, just play along), non-lucrative organisations, hospitals or online, you should be able to find groups to join. It helpe…	/r/MenSupportMen	18/10/23 06:18 AM
7	I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriend I'm the type of guy who needs 45-75 minutes of sex to get an orgasm or 5-10 minutes using masturbation and 2-5 using porn. So some of my experiences may apply to you. I'll start with the easiest to understand and probably the hardest to apply. Stop using porn. Masturbate as much as you want or need but only using your imagination. If you can think about your GF during that time, it's even better. The human brain isn't really made to have an unlimited amount of potential partners. Porn overstimul…	/r/MenSupportMen	30/09/23 10:26 PM

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