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/r/askTRP18/12/16 05:17 AM
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Ok but what if I'm in a social setting where she happens to be there and confronts me about it? Do I just act straightforward and tell her I can't be around her cuz she makes me feel like shit and because she treats me like shit? Or do I act like nothing is wrong and go about my business?
/r/askTRP18/12/16 01:45 AM
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I have a plate who could maybe convince her I dunno. Apparently I have a nice dick and can fuck well so if she hypes me up right she could be down maybe.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:00 PM
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She didn't text me back at the time but we're actually friends again now. She broke up with the girl she was seeing and actually invited me to hang out with her and drink last Saturday but I told her I was too busy and to hit me up another time.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:30 PM
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Well I texted her saying if she still wants to talk to hit me up later today or tomorrow. We'll see what happens.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:44 PM
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Well I'd like to see if I can at least kiss and escalate. She knows how I feel about her and why I have been avoiding her.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:10 PM
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Does it have to be my house? It's worth noting that I live with my parents and it might not be as easy to escalate in that setting compared to picking her up with my car and taking her somewhere in private. Either way if I go this route i'll definitely try to isolate and see if I can escalate anywhere. If not i'll cut it as short as possible and have her be on her way.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 11:54 PM
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Honestly I might be better off just to keep ignoring her aren't I?
/r/askTRP03/08/16 11:22 PM
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yeah i just won't respond and keep doing what I'm doing. If she reaches out to me...maybe ill answer? But if she just wants to have her emotional tampon back then i'm just gonna dip out again. I live in a small town so realistically even if I keep ignoring her calls or texts i'll see her in person anyway and she may or may not try and confront me.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 06:12 PM
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It was because she wanted to make me her orbiter. She knows how I feel and why I can't prioritize her anymore. I didn't expect her to call me and then text me again days later trying to reassure me she isn't trying to just use me for something. She's clearly more invested than I am and she knows that I had feels for her.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 03:01 PM
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Yeah I hard nexted her because I found out she wanted me as an orbiter. I mean if given the opportunity id hook up with her if she changed her mind but I haven't contacted her in over a month now and I made it clear to her that I don't want to prioritize her in anyway. She knows the situation and how I feel so her deciding to call me took me by surprise.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:30 AM
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It's me figuring out the situation, seeing if I have an opportunity, and if so if I should just keep doing what I'm doing and go with the flow. Couldn't tell if I was being genuinely friend zoned or not by these girls.
/r/seduction24/07/16 05:02 AM
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So is this one of those things where I just wait for an opportunity to make a move? Two of the girls are already dating another person. One of the girls is dating a guy and one of the girls is dating another girl (she's bicurious I guess). I tried to make a move on the bicurious girl one time (around the time she started talking to the girl). I tried to go in for a kiss and she was being kinda passive about it and asked "what are you doing?" Didn't know what to feel about it so I backed off. Loo…
/r/seduction24/07/16 03:58 AM
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So is this one of those things where I just wait for an opportunity to make a move? Two of the girls are already dating another person. One of the girls is dating a guy and one of the girls is dating another girl (she's bicurious I guess). I tried to make a move on the bicurious girl one time (around the time she started talking to the girl). I tried to go in for a kiss and she was being kinda passive about it and asked "what are you doing?" Didn't know what to feel about it so I backed off. Loo…
/r/seduction24/07/16 03:55 AM
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They might have made the pact before the other two were dating but I'm not sure. I mean all these other girls were hooking up with other guys in the mean time even before I slept with the one girl. But, again, these other guys weren't really part of the "friend group". I was actually thinking I ended up being friend zoned with the other girls except the one I slept with because I was hanging out them pretty consistently.
/r/seduction24/07/16 03:17 AM
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Two of them are dating someone else though. And one of them said she 'doesn't see me in that way'. So I dunno if it's one of those things where I have to wait for an opportunity or what.
/r/seduction24/07/16 02:56 AM
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I can promise i'm not being a creep. If I was really being a creep they wouldn't go out of their way to wanna hit me up and hang out unless they are just using me. Based off of what other people are saying and my own opinion....it seems like for whatever reason they feel like me sleeping with them could ruin the friend group somehow and create drama.
/r/seduction23/07/16 11:22 PM
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The thing is two of the girls are already dating another person and they know I already did stuff with the one girl.
/r/seduction23/07/16 09:48 PM
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The thing is I believe her. The other friends have hinted they don't want to sleep with me for one reason or another. But the implication is that if they really went out of their way to make a pact like that....that they would have slept with me under different circumstances. I mean cuz if they didn't have any desire at all they wouldn't have to go out of their way to say it to each other.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 06:14 PM
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Even the one thats actually sleeping with me....? Shit she even said I was good in bed and liked my dick apparently. I don't see a reason to next her. I just think its weird that they went out of their way to make a pact. The only reason I can think is because they are afraid it would ruin a friendship or whatever but at the same time if I knew they did some stupid pact like that from the get go I honestly wouldn't have even wasted my time with them. I mean one of them I was friends with platoni…
/r/askTRP23/07/16 06:11 PM
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Also should I block her on Facebook? She likes tagging me in things.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 11:07 PM
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I'm hanging out with some friends at the movies today and she's gonna be there. If I do this and she confronts me what do I do or say?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 11:03 PM
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The issue is that she hangs out with some of my other friends. Would it not be smart for me to just be straight up and confront her? If I just try to throw her out of my life well...it's gonna be really hard because realistically I won't be able to avoid her forever. She'll just try to confront me about it. In which case i'd have to be straight up with her about it anyway.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 07:26 PM
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Can I still escalate things with her or you think that ship has already sailed? I think she's more attached to me than the other way around in a sense. I never hit her up to hang out and she's usually the one to hit me up first. I even tried to give her distance at one point and it just made her reach out to me more.
/r/seduction23/06/16 03:22 PM
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You know its funny. I haven't texted one of them for a few days (the one that says I'm her BFF) and she's asking me if I'm mad at her. I haven't responded yet but it seems they at least do genuinely care about me so I might as well keep them around and make the best of it.
/r/seduction16/05/16 08:30 PM
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Usually whenever they plan on drinking they buy the alcohol and i'm allowed to have some if I wanna get tipsy or whatever.
/r/seduction16/05/16 06:54 AM
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I dont usually buy the alcohol always. Only sometimes. If they do use me its probably not on purpose. I think they do care about me but its possible they wouldn't hang out with me as much if I didn't have a car. Its hard to say but I get paranoid about stuff like that sometimes.
/r/seduction16/05/16 05:58 AM
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Another concern is that some of my other friends are claiming that i'm being used because of this. That i'm being used for my car and because i'm over 21 and can buy alcohol. I'm not sure if this is really the case but I dunno if I can stay friends with them the way I currently am when I am starting to feel like i'm some kind of pet around them. Other people in this thread are saying I can still use them as wing women but i'm not sure how useful that would be in practice.
/r/seduction16/05/16 01:35 AM
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Well I did notice that the guys they hook up with aren't guys they really hang out with as consistently as me....
/r/seduction16/05/16 01:27 AM
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I thought ignoring girls isn't necessarily a bad strategy? I'm not saying forever just for like a week or something. They are the ones who usually hit me up first and I don't wanna seem like I'm too available all the time.
/r/seduction16/05/16 01:17 AM
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Ok well for now i'll hang out with them less often and if I see another potential opportunity ill try and make a move to see what happens.
/r/seduction15/05/16 11:09 PM
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This actually works though? I thought it was just a joke I wasn't supposed to take seriously.
/r/seduction10/05/16 08:46 AM
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So basically don't see or talk to her at all? Or communicate less?
/r/seduction09/01/16 08:09 AM
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That honestly sounds plausible for her....
/r/seduction09/01/16 06:33 AM
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If this was any other girl I'd agree but it's hard to cut contact with someone you've been speaking on and off with for 5 years. For most of us knowing each other we were just friends.
/r/seduction09/01/16 05:53 AM
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Honestly I was going to fly back at some point anyway. I have other close friends besides her that I want to see. I'm just trying to figure out if I should just cut contact with her because of her leading me on or not. So are you saying I should just not hang out with her at all?
/r/seduction09/01/16 04:42 AM
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Yeah i'm not expecting to hook up with her at this point. I'm down to just flirt with her friends and maybe possibly hook up with one of them if the vibes are right. I'm visiting a southern state from California and i'm pretty sure she's gonna play me up like I'm cool as fuck so i'll have some social proof going for me.
/r/seduction09/01/16 04:33 AM
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Honestly I did for a little bit. But my question is should I still hang out with her or should I just forget it? This is a girl i've kept contact with for awhile. I'm obviously willing to pursue other girls and thats what I've been doing this entire time. It's not like I HAVE to have this specific girl or anything like that.
/r/seduction09/01/16 04:14 AM
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H isn't exactly perfect either though. As a matter of fact S has literally told me to my face that she prefer him when i'm around because he tends to put on a front and not act like himself with her. But he acts genuine when I'm around. I also heard that he annoyed her the other night because he was hitting on some girl at a kickback. Later that night she actually ended up hitting me up to hang out but that day I was set on just ignoring her so.... If H was so much better than me then why even p…
/r/seduction03/12/14 04:29 PM
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It's worth mentioning that we shit test each other all the time. I remember one time she asked me "Why do you eat shit?" My response: "Probably because you spoon feed it to me every other minute of the day." She got a kick out of that one. I'll probably keep doing what I'm doing and act casual and not take anymore shit from her.
/r/seduction03/12/14 04:18 PM
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H is my male friend. He seems to be decently happy. He smiles here and there. why do you ask?
/r/seduction03/12/14 09:09 AM
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But my question is does she want MY dick? It's hard to say because she rejected my kiss attempt.
/r/seduction03/12/14 07:50 AM
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So I should...ask her what exactly? If she wants to fuck? Like literally ask that in those exact words? And yeah she's confusing as fuck.
/r/seduction03/12/14 07:38 AM
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Ok I just remembered....there was a moment where I was in her car. Just me and her. My friend was in my car during this time. She asked me if I could help her get laid AGAIN. And I put my arms around her shoulder and looked into her eyes and said, "I guess it depends on how badly you want to get laid." She looked at me...and I think I could have made a move cuz we had a good 3 to 4 seconds of eye contact and she finally says. "You don't wanna fuck me" I then said something along the lines of "we…
/r/seduction03/10/14 06:13 PM
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I dunno man it didn't seem like she was into me. I think she just enjoyed fucking with me figuratively and not literally. :P
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:50 PM
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You're right she didn't literally force me to wait on her. But every time I tried to leave she would do this stupid annoying whiny flirty thing and honestly I was fine just smoking weed and being faded with my other friend. I didn't have an issue with just kicking it and chilling. It was when she started going on about a subject that I was completely done with that annoyed me. If it wasn't for that I wouldn't have minded chilling with her for an hour. And I actually ended up leaving 10 minutes e…
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:42 PM
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I see what you mean but I also didn't wanna come across like I'm throwing a tantrum for not getting laid so thats part of why i didn't just leave her. I didn't have an issue with just hanging out with her but as the hour went on she kept talking about how awesome she is at sex and stuff and I actually ended up leaving 10 minutes earlier than I was supposed to because of it. Essentially the dialogue going like: Me: "Ok well we have 10 minutes left and i'm honestly really tired. Is it alright if I…
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:39 PM
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I knew the dude. He's a friend of mine. I wasn't there to pick him up she basically just didn't want me to leave her by herself while she waited for this dude (who she wasn't even sure would be a good lay by her own admission). Honestly it was a weird situation and it made me feel uncomfortable.
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:30 PM
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