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MetaMLMIKE39/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:48 PM
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Red Pill ExampleMLMIKE39/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 12:38 PM
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Blue Pill ExampleMLMIKE39/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 06:04 PM
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MLMIKE39/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 04:43 PM
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Red Pill TheoryMLMIKE39/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 01:53 PM
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One word. "Frame". You need to strengthen it
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:32 PM
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She knew she had you when she found out that she could control you with money. Need to strengthen your frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 03:27 PM
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This is just dumb. Men like cats also... and I've seen cats chase off dogs, bears, and even a gator.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 10:48 PM
-5

If Sheen is your role model then go right ahead.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:04 PM
-13

Paying a sex worker =losing.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 11:16 AM
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I don't give a fuck what the sentiment is on here. Anyone who pays a whore for sex is losing.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:51 PM
8

Whatever makes you feel better buddy.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:22 AM
1

Either way, this guy is a PUA and not RP IMO. Not sure why this is on here.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 03:30 PM
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"Who cares if it's easy fo men and hard for women?" This is NOT to be overlooked. Your argument for discounting this doesnt hold water. This IS a critical part of the reason why high count women ARE sluts.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:47 AM
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You sound like you might be suffering from a form of depression. Consider seeing a doctor about this. It can't hurt.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:09 PM
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I dont see how "men should get a vasectomy" is what you concluded from your exprience. Maybe YOU (alone) should get a vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 02:27 AM
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Good post, but I'd avoid H&M and Urban Outfitters if we're really talking about "good clothes".
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:12 PM
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Deepness of voice treads into this somewhat. Also the clarity, volume, and confidence with which you speak.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 02:56 AM
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So... according to the title, We're about to get "blown off"??? Are you doing the sucking?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:26 PM
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Good points but don't ever say "jelly" again unless you're taking about food.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:40 PM
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You assumethat i'm not married. I've been married for close to 13 years.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 12:04 AM
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All valid considerations listed above. ... but let's not kid ourselves, it is fear... of having your life fucked up should things not work out.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:23 PM
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That's only true for some people.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:59 PM
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"People want you to confront them"... This couldn't be further from the truth. People want you to be honest with them, not confrontational.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:16 PM
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I wish i knew then what i know now. The info was available then, but it wasn't on a forum and spelled out like it is here. You either learned from someone or via experience. I'll do a brain dump here in a day or two to share some thoughts, but the info learned here is invaluable.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 06:00 PM
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She is throwing it at you. Close.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 04:10 PM
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Citing your example... it depends. Either he's beta bucks or a man with game. If you watch them interact, you'll know what's up.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:41 PM
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The entire thing is full of good advice actually.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:26 PM
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Stop being intimidated by this girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:21 PM
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"Invaded by women"??? Really? Man some people hate women so much here it comes across as gay.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:19 PM
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Read down where a little thing called "integrity" is mentioned (under the "On women and family" section). http://www.returnofkings.com/50812/some-random-thoughts-on-how-to-be-a-well-tuned-man
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 12:57 AM
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Sometimes we have a tendency to turn everything off (mentally) when we get home, but that isn't always a good idea. Just as you have to be "on" at work, you may need to remember to be "on" at home... at least until you figure it out for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 02:03 PM
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You are correct, but I see truth in RP. And those truths and principles apply to everyday interactions with women AND men. It also provides a way to govern yourself in a way that helps to make you into the best possible version of yourself... at least that's what I get out of it. The knowledge of how women think is a bonus IMO, but it's not my primary takeaway from RP.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:48 PM
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I don't care what the mods say. It is what YOU make it. The sexual strategy component is only a part of it. If you're here just to try to figure out how to have more sex than that's all you're going to get out of it.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:32 PM
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So true. TRP is primarily about being the version of yourself that you deserve to be... the BEST version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 01:26 PM
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Sidenote: Clinton and the redhead in the last frame are the same person lol.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 01:22 PM
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How about you don't pay and just don't go on the day of the party?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 01:16 PM
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Justice, plenty of people are "insecure and lacking in confidence"... not just women. As you are naturally drawn to an attractive woman, many women look past a man's looks and are drawn to personality traits... and confidence. Could you describe which techniques you're referring to? RP involves dealing with women, but at it's core, it's truly more about helping you to be the best version of yourself. And bear in mind that you don't have to do everything that you about RP. Do what works for you.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 10:25 PM
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It IS more challenging once you're out of school, but if it's really important to you, you need to put forth some effort... based on your interests, join a community online that might meet in your area, join a gym, or join a local group. You'll have to put forth the effort though.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:26 PM
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It's not impossible, but proper frame reduces the chances that this happens to you.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 09:38 PM
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It's a good idea, but that dude is clearly an extrovert. If you are naturally introverted, this will not work (long-term) for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:50 PM
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"Most women, even a nice, moral woman, are constantly looking to upgrade. They’re always assessing a man’s value, financial or otherwise... " If she's a "nice, moral woman", she may think about it, but wouldn't actually go through with it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:41 PM
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Very proud of you slurm. Here's a nugget: One of the things that will do wonders for your development is honestly realizing your own FAULT whenever a situation doesn't work out the way you want. Whether it's on your job, in relationships... whatever situation. Know that whenever something goes wrong... ESPECIALLY in relationships... very rarely does 100% of the blame fall on ONE person. The blame may be 50/50, 60/40, or 70/30, but one way or another, you DO share in the responsibility when a rel…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:50 PM
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In my experience, go with the "David Deida" approach. I've tried the 2nd way and despite what they say, a lot (not all) women want that. They DO want you to be "the man". SIDENOTE: Be "The man" is my new personal motto... it's my way to simplify how to be red pill and in frame in any situation. You have to decide what "the man" looks like for you.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:31 PM
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In all honesty, model the behavior you want him to see. This means that, through your behavior, you need to show him how a man SHOULD be. He will eventually pick up on this. Good and bad, kids learn a lot from their parents. Then they start learning from their friends.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:29 PM
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I'm not sure where you live, but honestly man, look around. Almost EVERYONE is always on their phone... ESPECIALLY young people. Just put her on the spot and ask her to tell you about her addiction and take it from there. If, after she explains it, it still bugs you, tell her that she needs to cut back on it when she's with you.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:02 PM
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Just play it forward a little bit. The answer should be obvious. If you tip an attractive server higher than normal... and it gets her attention... and you "close"... then what? It sets a precedence (in her mind) that you're spendy. And maybe you are, but you don't want that to be one of the first things a woman thinks of when they've just met you (and are going to go out with you).
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 05:44 PM
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I don't know that there's fashion advice specifically for red pillers, but there are plenty of websites & Youtube channels that give advice for men on how to improve their fashion. Here's one to try: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u-3_MM4ri10&list=UU1KbedtKa3d5dleFR6OjQMg
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 01:45 PM
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If I were in your spot, I'd simply respond in a way that lets them know that I mean business. Just b/c they flirt with you doesn't mean that you have to respond accordingly. There's a gold-digger in my office here that used to do all that crap whenever she came to my desk. I'd give her extra dry looks and responses just so that she knew that her stupidity didn't fly this way.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 09:32 PM
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And I think you've missed the forest for the trees.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:37 PM
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You have to stop the thought process that leads to you feeling "outclassed". EVERYBODY has limitations/weaknesses/insecurities. You have to be comfortable with them, maximize your strengths, and know that everyone else has these same issues. Imagine Joe Pesci in Goodfellas or Casino. That lil' 5'2 dude was alpha no matter where he went and everyone else knew it. It didn't matter how much money other people had or how much bigger the other guys were, they had to deal WITH HIM. I know these are ju…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 03:18 PM
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Don't bring along your taller, better looking, suaver, more charming friend when you're going out with a hot girl. (I actually thought having him along would score me points for having a friend like that. What was I thinking??!?) If I were you, I'd start here. You need to work on improving your self-esteem. If you felt like you were "the man", it wouldn't matter who you brought along. She obviously picked up on your insecurity and it was over.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 02:36 PM
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I think you misinterpreted what I said. I don't force anything. She defaults to my wants. I agree on the life partner & protection points, but I disagree on the fulfillment. We are all responsible for our own happiness/fulfillment. My aim has never been, and will never be to make my wife happy/fulfilled. My aim is, and has always been, to provide the best life for us that I can.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:31 PM
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I have seen this in several places and I concur. If life is "all about the kids", the marriage will suffer.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 07:21 PM
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Good stuff. Much appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 05:46 PM
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On occasion, I've done this, I may just have to do it more. Other times, if I give her first option, it's usually met with a "whatever you want to do" type of response... which can drive me crazy.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 04:09 PM
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This is garbage. If it's one thing a man is supposed to do, it's take responsibility for his own actions. If you're a serial killer, it's b/c you have mental problems and/or made bad choices. Don't blame it on anyone else. Stop blaming all problems on women being crazy.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 01:51 PM
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You need to recognize that everyone's situation is NOT the same. Some people were either born with, given, or made advantages for themselves that make them appear "better" than you. Worry about changing/improving the things that you CAN control. Oh and wait for the passage of time. It may not be your "time to shine" now, but it will come if you work at it. Also, recognize that there are people that look at YOUR situation with envy. You're not at the bottom of totem pole like you may think.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:05 PM
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Self-esteem. Get some. You'll never improve your self-worth thinking like this.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 12:56 PM
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On this one, listen to the little voice inside. If you like the situation, go with it. If you don't, then don't. The relationship isn't your problem, it's hers.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 08:41 PM
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This guy may have peaked at 16. How does he top this? A foursome??? Surely no non-porn star has ever pulled this off. :-P
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:29 PM
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I was one of the handful of people that watched this show in it's only season. It was entertaining, but I knew it wouldn't last.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:24 PM
3

I must say, you just described 80-85% of me. This is exactly how I see myself and how I am. I wouldn't describe myself as "the most interesting man in the world", but life is a constant journey of self-improvement. I do see other good qualities in other people and am constantly trying to figure out how to successfully implement them into who I am. At the same time, I do find myself wondering if I admire/want these qualities simply b/c I don't have them... more of that "you want what you don't ha…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 12:45 PM
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I work with/have worked with several females that I would consider an "alpha female". Here's the thing... They're considered alpha as they relate to other females. An alpha female will always yield to, and follow an alpha male that they respect. If they truly see you as alpha and respect you, they will yield to you.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:29 PM
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This is good stuff. I can vouch for much of what is said here.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:38 PM
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Just play it forward... If you had sex with this woman and things go bad (meaning, she begins to negatively affect your career), would it have been worth it? The answer SHOULD be obvious.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:36 PM
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I found this article on ROK to be particularly enlightening: http://www.returnofkings.com/44532/the-true-nature-of-female-hypergamy
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 10:00 PM
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There is definitely something to Buddhism. One of the 4 principles is about suffering. Essentially, desire is a cause of suffering. If you can control it, it'll go a long way in helping you walk away, or next her, or manage shit tests. Harder said than done though.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:44 PM
2

This may be true, but likewise, don't women complain about boyfriends/husbands treating them like they're their mothers (expecting them to cook, clean, etc)?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:52 PM
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This is bogus. I have a cat and 2 dogs. I actually prefer the cat b/c it's lower maintenance. My cat loves to be around it's "pack". And in the big cat kingdom, tigers are solitary while lions are pack animals (like dogs). Go figure.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:57 PM
2

Yeah, you have to use advice from TRP when applicable. I don't know that you need to use it 100% of the time, especially if you're in a LTR. In my case, I'm married 10+ years. I could use RP principles to get what I want all the time, but I pick and choose my spots. I do this b/c I don't want to create a time bomb for myself where 10, 20 years down the road... my wife blows up in anger and built-up resentment b/c I "always had to have my way". Beware, it happens. When you see couples married 20+…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:56 PM
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Men and women CAN be friends as long as there is no physical attraction between the two. Otherwise, one of them will end up in the friend zone. That's the only way men and women become "friends"... men always want to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 12:54 PM
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Why wouldn't you? Just b/c she makes more money doesn't mean she has to "wear the pants" in the relationship, right?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:52 PM
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I didn't mention in my previous post, but I suspect you're one of her plates as well. The whole "sorry I was sick" just sounds like crap.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 09:44 PM
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Go with #1. She owes and she knows.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 09:16 PM
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