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It's in the eyes. I can remember the first time I was hated in for 'existing in public while female' ; I was 14 , they were Ugly Old Men (probably 50-60). They were harassing me , and when I looked in their piggy little eyes, I saw sheer hatred and loathing. And they were complete strangers! Incels and red pillers may be able to hide their misogyny under a veneer of faked politeness and faked friendliness, but 'the eyes are windows to the soul', and I really wonder if they or anyone can do anyth…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 01:40 PM
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I've had to put two dogs down (old age both times) since marrying my second husband ; both dogs were mine from before we met. My second husband came to love them as if he'd been with them since puppyhood, and he cried harder than I did when the time came to euthanize them [they were basically his first dogs ; I've had plenty of previous experience in having to euthanize dogs :-( ]. If he had acted all "stoic" over losing these sweet dogs forever , I don't think I'd ever quite forgiven him . I kn…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 03:18 PM
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In march we split for a couple of weeks he went to live with his friend...i now need to figure out how i fully end it with him.. as he has nowhere to go if it ends and will refuse to leave the house until he has enough money to get somewhere... He can move back in with the earlier-mentioned friend, or some other friend if that friend also wisely wants no more to do with him. Your BF is DEAD, GONE , and the skinwalker walking around in his carcass is NOT the man with whom you had a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:42 PM
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Most of what they call "shit-tests" are just women who made the grievous error of judgement in expecting basic human decency from their "red pill" BF ; eg, asking him to hold their purse for one freakin' second because she needs to do something with her hands free (actual example of what one moron called a "shit test"). There's only one thing that comes close to what these smooth-brains call a "shit test", and nowhere near enough women actually do this : Some women will pick a fight with a man e…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:26 PM
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The eyes. I can still remember the eyes of the Ugly Old Men (50s-60s) who harassed me in public when I was 14-15, for existing in public as female ; the hatred in their eyes was unmistakable. The eyes are "windows to the soul", and those two soulless bastards could not disguise their hatred , however much friendliness or smiles they might have resorted to. MGTOWS/Incels/red pillers/tater tots are fooling themselves if they think they can disguise their attitudes by a show of surface politeness a…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/23 03:08 PM
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The closest thing to a "shit test" I'm aware of is, some women will (early in a relationship) deliberately pick a fight with the man, to see how he reacts to conflict. They want to know if he resorts to screaming or even worse , VIOLENCE. That's not a "shit test" ; that's just survival , and it's probably resorted to because of past bad relationships. The other crap seems like the product of the fertile RP imagination.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:05 AM
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I don't know why, but the phrase "drowning in pussy" makes my gorge rise, and they at least used to use it a lot.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 12:30 PM
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A-freakin'-men. I didn't want to be a mom ; I don't want to be a Cool Aunt.I have no interest in centering my life around children ; if I did, I would have reproduced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 01:27 PM
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That fits my experience too, and I graduated in 1983.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 12:24 PM
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Elsewhere, I saw a post from a woman who did not want children, but her BF 'changed his mind' and decided he wanted kids after all. And all the scenarios he shared with her to get her to want kids were the most awful crap imaginable : Him sabotaging her rules. Him giving the kids sugar cereals every time she tried to give them a healthy breakfast. Going to theme parks and him riding the rides with the kids, while she takes pictures from the ground. WTF-? It reminds me of Kevin Can Fuck Himself ;…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 12:49 PM
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Anyone else remember an awful case from the last years of Dubya/first years of Obama (c.2005-2012, somewhere in there IIRC)-? A dentist from either Florida or Atlanta, GA was off skiing in Colorado (Aspen-? Vail-?) with his family, when his toddler son got bumped into by a teenage girl. The POS dentist used the same excuse, after he hauled off and hit the teen as hard as he could, in the face. I had no doubt then and no doubt now that the POS would NOT have hit a teen boy ; he just thought he ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:16 PM
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The miniseries that came out a few years ago is way more faithful to the book than the classic Joan Crawford film.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:06 PM
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Also Mildred Pierce. The relationship between Mildred's daughter Vida and Mildred's second husband is one of the ickiest things I've ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:46 PM
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If I understand it correctly, PMS is when women's estrogen levels fall and their testosterone levels rise. IOW, when they're most like men in their emotional states. And someone really should explain to the world's men that angry, horny, and being jealous enough to beat, stalk, and murder their wives/GFs, are all emotional states.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:09 PM
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Anyone else remember this-? Back quite a few years ago (2005ish to 2008ish) a doctor was arrested and tried for doing this to multiple women patients, one of whom in the complaint said she remembered the doctor hissing in her ear right before she went under, I'm going to take all the fun bits too, and another who reported her vulva now looked "like a frilled lizard" because he took way more than he was expected to , which he then tried to pass off as the cancer being more widespread than was ori…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:56 PM
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Van Vogt the writer talks about these men : He calls them "Right Men" ; here's a link to Colin Wilson's extract on Vogt's theory http://amasci.com/weird/rightman.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:50 PM
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What's interesting to me is how long 'family annihilation' has been a thing. The first recorded case in the USA occurred just a few years after the end of the revolutionary war ! And then throughout the 19th, 20th, 21st centuries, cases continue to crop up.Most of the cases involve men killing their wives, then their children, and usually themselves, though a few like John List tried very hard to evade justice while continuing to live. In the book Erased, by Marilee Strong, she describes men who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:58 PM
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Even some posters on Kiwi Farms are expressing revulsion against the 'incels' posting crap like that, and expressing a wish that if they get their Ukrainian "waifu", she cuts off their dicks before they get it wet. Kiwi Farms. When they're disgusted, you know it's bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 08:28 PM
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"How dare my vaginathing get angry when I did something to it that it told me it didn't want ! Does it think it's a person, or something-?" She's under reacting IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:22 PM
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I truly believe he was intentionally trying to terrify her into fearing ever getting "over his limit" ; I sincerely hope she goes to a lawyer and files ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:32 PM
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He is blatantly telling her he feels entitled to beat her up if he thinks she's "pushed him to his limits". JFC. I don't think this is fixable ; no amount of "counseling" can repair a man who feels his sex gives him the prerogative to assault women on a whim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:59 PM
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I have family members who have proclaimed, in that triumphant tone of voice that says they think they're saying what's self-evidently right, that rape cases should never be prosecuted "unless there's DNA evidence". Too bad for the rape victims forced to bathe or forced to douche by their assailant, or the rapes where he wore a condom. Rapists getting smarter=all women's vaginas are public property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:31 PM
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Random disjointed thoughts: I do NOT trust the police. At ALL. Too many cases of them "responding" to a call and murdering people's pets, or the people themselves , if they're "off their meds" . The Keith Vidal murder is one of the most egregious of those cases, and of course the murderer walked. I was harassed in public in broad daylight by a POS in his policeman's uniform. Fucker followed me around in a store, making juuuuuust audible sex comments about me. I was 15, and I dressed like a 40 ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:28 PM
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I watched Cruella with low expectations, and was amazed at how good it was (excellent soundtrack, too). It also kinda works as an allegory for what happened to the fashion industry starting in the late 1970s, when women utterly refused to follow the trends the various "fashion houses" tried to impose, AND 'street fashion' began influencing high fashion. A total change from the days when women allegedly all dressed according to what the House of ____ told them to wear (roughly 1850s to 1950s, wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:16 PM
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Angry and horny are emotions, but they apparently "don't count".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:12 PM
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A disturbingly high percentage don't seem to grasp the concept of "fiction", and they don't know what paid acting is, either. Porn : Documentaries. Sit coms : Documentaries. Rom coms : Documentaries. And they all tell the absolute truth about what every woman wants or is actually like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:48 PM
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It's a little too perfect[ly awful]. He checks every box for a MALEvolent asshole who thinks of his GF as an appliance that he's entitled to "reboot" (the "teach her a lesson" comment ) when its not operating to his specifications as a bangmaid. I don't think it's a troll per se, but possibly a writer of what the Victorians call "edifying fiction" , meant to make the reader hate the main character and be warned against people with attitudes like this. And his contempt for the poor girl just drip…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:26 PM
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I vaguely remember a pre internet news article, that said men with high levels of testosterone were calm and laid back . Their high levels meant they felt good, so they were less likely to lash out than men with low levels of T, who are the ones more likely to engage in aggressive macho BS like bar room fights and road-raging. In those less PC days, the authors actually likened men with high levels of T to labrador retrievers, and men with low levels to chihuahuas!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:17 PM
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In Shere Hite's "Hite Report on Male Sexuality" (1981), multiple men admitted they'd deliberately broke off things with the one they actually loved, to marry someone they liked and who hit all the checkboxes. They were PROUD of this, and stated they'd done so because the woman they loved had "too much power" over them as a result. Man , that did a number on my younger self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:40 PM
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What was going through his head : "Now that I got you locked down, I don't have to do a damn thing you tell me to do or NOT do. BITCH!" He should have waited till he had her truly locked down with a kid or three. I'm sure he'll be more patient, with his next wife/victim. I honestly don't see how this could NOT be deliberate malice, not if she truly told him that was the ONE thing she wanted him to not do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:42 PM
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Maybe he truly was thinking of Conte crayons, not Crayola® crayons-? /graspingatstrawshere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:28 PM
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Projection. They only see women they find 'fuckable' , and are only 'nice' to those women ; ergo, women are only 'nice' to men they want to fuck, so niceness=flirting. If women deny this , they're "taunting" men. OP, I hope you can get out of there, STAT. :-( I know housing everywhere is hard to find and expensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:08 PM
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I seem to vaguely recall Germany (?) telling a woman her benefits would be ended if she did not accept a job in a brothel ; the job was strictly appointment-setting/receptionist, nothing more, but still...that would be a precedent . This was years ago, and IIRC they did back off after an outcry from people who know that "slippery slope" can be a reality, it's not automatically a fallacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 10:41 AM
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Take a look at this. A little closer: https://archive.ph/7MTCd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:36 PM
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One, two , three- Awwwwwww-! I hope he fulfills his dream of being a Broadway designer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:42 PM
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Washing or wiping their asses-gay. And I did not make that one up .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:55 AM
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Like those guys who proudly proclaim that having a daughter made them realize women are human, and expect us to think it's heartwarming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:19 PM
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Boiling sugar water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:48 PM
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So many times , I find myself wonder, What DO these posters mean by "love"-? They describe someone who's objectively awful, and then go on about how they "really love" that person. I just don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:24 PM
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Yeah, he was hoping she'd want to be at least a short-term "sugar baby". Ick !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:22 PM
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After the Uber dropped Nikki off at his house, she packed her belongings and left. "He began calling me when he got home, but I didn’t answer. He then texted me that I forgot my laptop. I went back and he brought out my laptop and begged me to come inside so we could talk. He said he felt horrible, that my outfit would have been just fine for the event, and that he wished he hadn’t said anything because we would have been having a great night otherwise." It was all just a dumb test : He thought …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:14 PM
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-ARM sawed off-??? Hmmmm.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:38 PM
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Why is that inanity so popular with dumbasses-? I am aware of a US DJ and a US politician losing their jobs because they thought that inanity was the height of wit, and used it in public (one on the airwaves, one at a rally or during an interview, can't recall now). But the US men committed public stupidity back in the 1970s ! To do this in 2021 suggests a special kind of tonedeaf stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 03:04 PM
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That's how I felt about George Clooney, from Day One. Never thought he was at all attractive, but the media raved about him, so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:40 PM
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I am so glad her mother gave her the advice to change the locks that very day, and that she took that advice. Otherwise, I suspect there's at least a chance her marriage would be being discussed on the various "crime" subreddits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:04 PM
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Look up Ronald Shanabarger for just how far a few are willing to go. Warning : Utterly awful crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:08 AM
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Of course no one should call the cops on someone just bird watching and doing things which aren't illegal, but how many times have men made you extremely uncomfortable while skirting the law? Like following you in public, asking invasive questions, making sexual innudendos? This is all technically legal if he doesn't threaten you or follow you into a private place. That happened to me when I was 15. It was in public and he was following me around the store, making just-barely-audible innuendoes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:55 PM
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Also, some of us had horrible childhoods, and when we got old(er) we are...not fond of our tormentors. It's a shame , but people from dysfunctional families are all too often judged harshly for not being "close to their families" or for going no contact with their parent(s). People from happy or at least okay families find it difficult if not impossible to relate, substituting a string of cliches-"But they're your parents!";"I'm sure they really love you/tried their best!";"I'd give anything to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 01:43 PM
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Unconditional love is a pernicious myth, and a Bad Thing. I am sick of seeing this idiotic notion touted as an unquestioned good on multiple subs. Anyone who believes s/he "should" love unconditionally is a doormat/walking disaster waiting to be used by the monsters that walk among us , and parents who believe they "should" love their children unconditionally are a menace to everyone around them : How many times have I read over the last few decades about parents who felt obligated to help their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 10:48 AM
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Why would an 18-26 year old look twice at this 40ish "self employed student" ? As for the size 12-16 thing, maybe he is going by pattern sizes : A size 12 in pattern sizes is roughly a 24" waist , and size 16 is listed as a 28" waist. Pattern sizes don't match to catalogue sizes, and haven't since the late 1970s. Maybe his mom or grandma sewed, so he knows pattern sizes instead of catalogue sizes-???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:36 PM
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It's the cover of issue #6 (1972) of DC's comic ,"Ghosts". Good cover art by Nick Cardy ; I honestly thought it was an EC cover at first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:53 PM
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cleaner “Old Dutch” I think Thomas Harris (in SotL) compared the smell to Ajax or Clorox (don't have book any more to check). Either way-!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:38 PM
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Women's bodies are NOT "designed for" childbirth ; why do so many STUPID men believe this-? Non human primate female bodies are, which is why there is not a single recorded case (in the wild or in a zoo) in which a chimpanzee, bonobo, gorilla, or orangutan female has died while giving birth or had any complications . The head size of a human infant plus the upright stance of the human female equals difficult labor, childbirth deaths, permanent complications...And that's with first world medicine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:04 PM
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For lurking LVM/ZVM nodding along as you read this psychopathic drivel : This works well as a PSA for women getting their CCW license. Just sayin' . (ETA For real though, please report this guy for making specific threats against specific people, and to its ISP, if that's acertainable .)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:37 PM
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Chemical-??? Hmmm... In all seriousness, this screed is disturbing enough that I agree with those saying it should be reported to the requisite authorities. Even if not arrest-worthy, this POS needs to be on a watchlist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:25 PM
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Afreakinmen !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:25 PM
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The phrase "You're responsible for your own orgasm" was meant by sex therapists to mean, People aren't mindreaders ; you have to know what you like sexually , and ask for it. But it's been weaponized by ZVM/LVM (especially on sites like TRP ) to mean, it's okay to use women's bodies as sex toys and not make any attempt at foreplay whatsoever, just shove it in and jackhammer away. I've been seeing that since 2010 if not earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:37 PM
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And that women orgasm from tampons, and are only pretending to need tampons (probably for orgasms) 'cause we can just expel all the blood at once on the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:34 PM
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Why Does he DO That ? I think it's available as a pdf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:39 PM
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I thought it was a POS when I read it a few years ago. I dumped it as soon as I was done reading it so I cannot cite specific piecs of BS, but I do recall saying to myself multiple times while reading it, That's not science...that's not proof...that's not evidence. It just seemed like just-so stories, even worse than Desmond Morris's The Naked Ape, which I could tell when reading it as a 12 year old was an ascientific POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:19 AM
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For years now, I have been seeing crap on manosphere sites cribbed from the utter trashfire that is Sex at Dawn , about how female bonobos vocalize during sex with higher-rank bonobos for status , ergo, female humans do the same thing , even though the same crappy book states that humans want privacy and quiet for sex because distant ancestors and predators, blah blah blah. Anyway, the various varieties of cretins on the manopshere have been proclaiming for years that "females" vocalize during s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:33 PM
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Tell me about it ! I have been reading true crime since the 1970s, and watching it since the late 1980s (I count Unsolved Mysteries as the first true crime tv show) and I consider that "father" to be the most depraved 'one-victim' murderer of them all. I can't find anything about the crime online, since search engines no longer look at phrases, but at each word separately, making them all but useless :-(. He committed his murder a few months before or a few months after Elizabeth Renee Otte comm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:38 PM
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Read The Shoddy Lands by C S Lewis, and tell me that it doesn't read like something an incel cranked out recently. Just awful. ETA There was a man who married his girlfriend, had a child with her, and murdered the child, because he was angry that a few years earlier, his then GF hadn't left a cruise vacation early when he contacted her to tell her his father had died. The child was conceived solely to be murdered , for "revenge" . His (the murderer's) first name was Theodore IIRC ; I'll see if I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:45 PM
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If you look at his twitter, he's whining about "toxic misandry" and all the angry messages he's received since posting this ! Bwahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:27 PM
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Hopefully she's dead. I believe there are worse things than death, and waking up in a hospital bed blind and brain damaged, possibly to the level of a toddler's functioning , is definitely worse. Lack of oxygen can do permanent damage to the brain and vision, possibly massive and irreversible. I hope she wakes up and leaves him. And gets a lifetime RO (and maybe a CCW license just in case, if applicable to where she lives).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:36 PM
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I yelled at her until she woke up. I said "what the fuck do you think you are doing?" She said she didn't mean to fall asleep and I said, "You almost burn my house down and you think "I didn't mean to" is an okay excuse?" I've read and reread and rereread his original post, and I am not seeing anything to suggest he dealt with the horrendous inferno in his kitchen. Did he even turn the stove off, or did he leave everything for his EX gf to do-? He just says he "started yelling". And this phrase …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:50 PM
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There is no "compromise" as he is just looking for an excuse to cheat on or divorce her, for someone in the age group he prefers (under 21).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:14 PM
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Typical. It's not just FDS they (redditors in general, not just MGTOWcels) misrepresent , it's subs like (eg) raisedbynarcissists and childfree. RBN is filled with accounts so upsetting they make me have to close the laptop and go somewhere else, but some dipshit got upvotes for saying the people on there are "just spoiled brats whose parents don't buy them enough things", so now multiple posters happily parrot that. Pure bullshit. And childfree is "filled with childhatters (I swear that's the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:51 PM
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And how many movies and tv shows have depicted "man children" as funny or as someone with whom to empathize, over the last few decades -? Is art reflecting life, or is 'life' imitating art , because art is giving them what seems to be an "out" or excuse for being the way so many of them are-?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:18 PM
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The creature also informed Linda McCarthy that "woman's happiness" comes from serving her man and his career, not in having a career or life in her own right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:35 PM
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Years ago, I read about a woman who was arlifted from Afghanistan to the USA for facial reconstructive surgery. Her ZVM had a DREAM she committed adultery , so he strung her up (she was less than 5'0" and weighed less than 100 lbs) , whipped her, and cut off her nose and ears. Then he put out her eyes. Poor lady seemed to think they could repair her eyes. :-( The doctors did a good job of repairing her injuries, though of course she was left completely blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:29 PM
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That she either doesn't understand this, or DOES understand but is pushing the awareness inward as a desire to play Cool Girl is more important to her than her very life, is deeply troubling. This one is going to prey on my mind for some time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:22 AM
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Attempted murder. If he had broken the right rib, it could easily have punctured her lung and killed her before the ambulance could arrive (assuming the turd would even have bothered to call an ambulance for "just some hole"). If it was her place at which the attempted murder took place, maybe he would have slipped out, locking the door behind him, and quietly fled to a different city/state. If he had killed her, he probably would be facing something like involuntary manslaughter charges, and he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:47 PM
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It's happened twice now : Brenda Spencer and Laurie Dann.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:44 PM
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September 2nd can't get here soon enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:21 PM
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Don't they understand that women 20-24 generally do NOT want Ugly Old Men-? Just because men prefer women that age does not create an obligation for the women to prefer them right back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:09 PM
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I've run across "beef" for "argument" in old books (c 1960s and earlier) , but I don't believe I have ever heard it used in RL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:47 PM
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I think it might be implying it wants more sophisticated , imported 'exotic' seasonings, rather than BASIC things like salt, pepper, garlic-????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:58 PM
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Whatever the stuff is that comes in a cardboard box with a spigot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:37 PM
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Anyone else old enough to remember Shere Hite-? In her book, The Hite Report on Male Sexuality, she mentioned that multiple men had told her-PROUDLY-that they had deliberately ended things with the woman they truly loved so they could marry a second-best/'good enough' woman, because the woman they truly loved had "too much power" over them. Man, that did a number on me, back when I read that back in the day (1978/age 12).It made me wonder, does this mean that any man who asked me to marry him wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:22 PM
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And her worthless brother, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:53 PM
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Are you objectively at least as successful if not more successful than your brother-? Some men just aren't happy unless they can convince themselves they're automatically smarter than half the human species, and when reality doesn't conform, they get PO'd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:36 PM
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Good grief! I've heard (back in the 1970s-1980s) the "testing our faith" by being planted by God and/or Satan thing, but I didn't know there were people out there who literally believed that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:01 PM
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I want details on Number 3, personally !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:42 PM
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In the USA, we had NAMBLA. They tried to latch on to the gay and lesbian alliance back in the 1970s, but lesbians especially sent them packing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:41 PM
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The CSAM he accessed was Daisy's Destruction. I have seen what are purported to be stills from it. If you recognize the name, so be it ; if you do not : DO NOT GOOGLE IT ! This thing is waaaay beyond the cretins who get caught sending pictures of their penis to what they think is a 14 year old, only to get arrested when they show up to "date" her. This thing is a genuine monster. Who knows what it was planning on doing, or may have already done, to children to whom the creature had physical acce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:13 PM
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This triggered a memory : Back in February of 2014 or 2015 IIRC, I saw a commercial for yogurt. It involved a young Asian woman (and her ethnicity is highly relevant) wearing a black leather catsuit so tight it makes a scuba suit look like a caftan, who wants to break into an after hours kwik e mart to steal yogurt. She winds up tangled in her own ropes (Has the ever in RL been a burglar who uses coils of rope while breaking in?), dangling upside down from the ceiling by one foot, her arms pinio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:27 PM
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I agree with you. I often think about that poor lady who lost her hands, her face, and her eyes to an enraged chimpanzee, and found herself in a senior living center at the age of 53*. Maybe she feels the same way; maybe she doesn't , but...If I were her, I would curse the doctors who were so eager to show off how they could save a "hopeless case" that it never occured to them to wonder if they should. To me, the absolute worst fate would be to be left physically incapable of suicide unaided. *W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:26 PM
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When I was in college, I did a term paper on strip search abuses , for which I got an A FWIW. One case involved a teenage girl who was arrested for eating a sandwich on a NYC subway train ; she was strip searched and subjected to a body cavity search by the arresting male 20something officer. Another case involved a police station where there was a hidden camera concealed inb the room where strip searches were conducted ; they videotaped women being strip searched by female officers, and played …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:17 PM
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A coupl'a' years ago, before TheRedPill was quarantined, a dumbfuck on it posted something that got reposted for mockery to TheBluePill: Seems he had decided to try OLD, and no sooner had he made a profile, but he started getting contacted from women in his area, an' they were all YOUNG, an' this proves men should "never" marry because there's so many desperate YOUNG women everywhere, an'- Yeah. He thought the bots were actual women users.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:49 PM
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Like what was done to Catherine the Great's reputation after death . :-(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:15 PM
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Have you noticed how much of the texts men send to women that get reposted to reddit are men ANGRY because they text a woman, and she doesn't respond within a minute or two-? They go from flirting to froth-lipped ragerants in minutes because she didn't respond immediately. It's like they can.NOT GRASP that women work/shower/sleep/shit/ any number of other things that might preclude them responding to a text. These men truly seem to think a woman they text only exists when he wants her to. It's w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:14 PM
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I read somewhere that one out of four [captured and convicted] serial killers did a stint as a security guard. This is because serial killers are drawn to becoming cops , but psychological testing would exclude them (back when psychological tests were still being administered to prospective police acadamy entrants... Apparently some places have done away with psychological testing because something something 'takes a thief to catch a thief' etc etc). So unable to become cops , they become securi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:36 PM
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IIRC, Princess Fiona was a human, but to be with Shrek, she had to take on "love's true form", and be transformed outwardly into an ogress. Then in a sequel, Shrek becomes human in appearance, and Fiona wants him to change back because the change in his outward appearance means he's "no longer the ogre I fell in love with" . (That's from memory, and I have zero desire to revisit these things.) I think the people who perpetrated these films thought they were going AGAINST looksism, but the actual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:02 PM
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What about John Norman's "Gor" crapfests-? They were how we olds knew to next a man, when they were on his shelf, back in the 1980s. Are they (finally, mercifully) losing popularity-????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:27 PM
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Tristyn Bailey :-( Not yet confirmed, but I'd bet my life Fucci was watching porn for years already. Every year since I've been online, I am seeing more and more accounts of men getting violent and even murderous, when women do not respond "correctly" to a catcall, a request for a phone number, a prom invitation, etc etc. I don't recall ever reading of such cases before I was online. Men murdering GFs or wives that had left them, yes, but not men attacking random strangers, sometimes in broad da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:53 AM
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I hate that book too. It seemed lacking to me when I read it, as if the "science" in it was on par with Desmond Morris' The Naked Ape. I realized that book was a piece of shit when I read it as a 7th Grader, back in 1977. But what sealed the deal for me on the book's worthlessness was the interview in the back, in which the author went on and on about European women being so much more open to being approached by men, and how they were "more in touch with their femininity" because they tied scarv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:22 PM
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I haven't spent too much time on RPW, but I have always read two things about them: One, many of the users on there are LARPing red pillers pretending to be women, and Two, those on there that are women do NOT want red pillers ; they want traditional marriages, maybe with a breadwinner husband, maybe they have a career too, but they're definitely NOT interested in a relationship with someone who wants to 'spin plates'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:19 PM
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I have little doubt the recent atrocious murder of Tristyn Bailey (age 13) will follow that pattern. The scumtrolls who posted jokes about her death were also posting the usual incel crap, which suggests they think her murderer (age 14) killed her because she refused to have sex with him. I wonder if we'll ever learn the murderer's porn habits-?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:01 PM
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That reminds me of an ancient (2012-2015) post courtesy of theredpill subreddit : Some dipshit on there was babbling about how his 80something grandpa was in a nursing home, an' he flirts with all the CNAs, an' they laugh at his dumb jokes and comments, an' that totally proves that ALL women like old men, an' he could totally bang any of these twentysomethings. God, they're dumb. The first time I was harassed in public by Ugly Old Men (a pod of three) for existing in public while female was when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:43 AM
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I am watching the case of the murder of Tristyn Bailey (age 13,Florida) by a 14 year old . No motive has been released, but some assholes pretending to be his buddies posted congratulations to him and blamed her , because she wouldn't have sex with him. So they at least THINK that's a possible/plausible motive. I am also curious if we hear anything about his porn usage. I would be VERY surprised if porn and its induced entitlement issues don't come up in court. At 14, he can be tried as an adult…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:42 PM
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I've never had an ex do this too me. I think I have my egg donor to thank : Whenever something bad happened/was done to me , she would pick apart the narrative until she'd established to her satisfaction that it was all my fault and I deserved it. I quit talking to her somewhere between age 8-9, never going to her for help or advice unless it absolutely was so above my pay grade as a child that I couldn't navigate alone. I don't think she ever even noticed. Anyway : Some people with less-than-ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:17 PM
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When I was 14/15 years old, I walked to a convenience store to buy a magazine, and a POS cop followed me around making off color remarks to me juuuuuust loud enough for me to hear . I still can't recall how I got home that day (broad daylight BTW). I never told anyone because 1) I knew my egg donor's belief in a "just world" meant that she'd prove to her satisfaction that I'd asked for it/deserved it , probably based on how I was dressed (I dressed like a 40 year old nun BTW) 2) I was afraid of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:59 PM
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Projection strikes again. They would never be cordial or speak to a woman they didn't want to fuck ; ergo, a woman talking to them WITHOUT sex as a motive is "leading them on"/"cockteasing"/God only knows what else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:28 PM
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Disgustingly flippant and utterly offensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:40 PM
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he way women enjoy sex seems SO tied to the way their clitoris is placed, and the closer your clit is to your vagina the more likely you are to be able to orgasm through PIV Apparently there are a few lucky women out there who have a bundle of nerves close to the surface of the skin on the cervix, so these women actually enjoy PIV and can reach orgasm through penetration. You know how these women were discovered to exist-? When overly "enthusiastic" LEEP procedures damaged or possibly scooped ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:25 PM
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I believe this is why we're seeing cases of men attacking and sometimes even killing women who are complete strangers to them, in broad daylight, around witnesses, when the women failed to respond "correctly" to a catcall or a request for a phone number. They think FEEL LIKE they're in a porn scenario, and the fuckthing failed to respond as it does in (stage, scripted, paid to be in) porn videos, so they lash out in a violent rage. I truly think these cases are a new kind of crime : Before wides…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:12 PM
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I own a vintage cookbook intended for children 12 and under. If he didn't want to learn from online stuff, he could have got a children's cookbook and learned from that Old School Style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:03 PM
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Judging from the crap they post, what they mostly want is sex with girls 14 or younger, not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:56 PM
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They're probably already assuring him that all hot 18-22 year olds have "daddy issues" and, like, totally think 50+ and 60+ guys are at their peak, hoping he'll be dumb enough to fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:18 PM
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Selfish. Brat. Immature. Irresponsible. These are words that a certain kind of person likes to chant as an incantation, thinking that anyone labelled with one of these Magic Words will instantly become compliant , in a frantic effort to disprove the accusation. How shocked and dumbfounded they are, when they run across a person whose only response to one of the Magic Words is a stony-faced, "So-?" / "And-?"/ "Your point-?" Their eyes widen, their mouths form an O , and they rarely have a comebac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:02 PM
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I've always been very turned off by men who come from a "very close" family. I've never not seen an extremely "close" non-toxic family - they often just use the word "close" to mean "toxic, and if you don't agree with everything then they won't like you". Afreakinmen. Close-knit family=emmeshed, in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:58 PM
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You can really see it while reading the HC/boxed set of The Complete Wimmen's Comix : The stuff from the 1970s is literally revolutionary, questioning the very basis of society and of capitalism itself (and sex and drugs, too :-D ). But then the stuff from the early 1980s on is all about....well, "having it all". Working long hours to get that promotion. Relationships. Babies. Reading that, watching the change, was a seriously depressing experience. From questioning everything about society to j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:16 PM
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I saw a MGTOW rant re posted to either 2x or blue pill, in which the poster was screeching how unjust it is that men have to pretend to think women are equals, when we'd rather "wear diapers than deal with our excretions". It thought we preferred kotex pads to going to the bathroom and expelling everything at once, like shit or piss. Big regret was that I just laughed at the repost and didn't find the original. I wonder if there were enough sane men with sisters/GFs/wives that laughed at him and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:39 PM
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When I was a teenager, I mentally scoffed at the notion that teenagers are most attractive : One look in the mirror and a few glances around the school hallways disproved that ! I thought women were most attractive 25-35 ; men maybe 28-38. I never thought men over 45 were attractive, and I just cringe thinking about my interactions with them from age 16-24: Because I thought they were old, I assumed THEY knew they were too old, and that any interest in me meant they were kindly grandfather types…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:19 PM
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God Grief. I just reread Ann Jones' Women Who Kill (2009 edition) and the notion that women are "just as violent as men"/men are victims of domestic abuse as often as women is from the 1970s. Seriously. Some social worker back then counted the number of blows or other violent acts in a single incident of violence, concluded that women "gave as good as they got" basically, and released this study out into the world, where others pointed out the flaw : No distinction made between violent attacks (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:11 PM
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Apparently Netflix did or is going to do an updated account of Foos's activities too. I'll pass on the 1993 and any updated stuff : Just reading about this stuff makes me feel unclean. Shudder...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:08 PM
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I wonder just how many Gerald Foos's there are out there, and notice that Gerald Foos was active long before spycams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:42 PM
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Why are they so FUCKING stupid-???Do they actually think men are allowed to punch other men without legal consequences, consequences generally determined by the DA/PA and NOT by the other man-??? WHY are they So. Fucking.STUPID-????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:29 PM
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I believe screens in general are worsening the [apparently inborn/maybe dating back to australopithecus for all we know] tendency of the human male brain to see women as objects : The clincial neurologists' findings suggest that the part of their brain devoted to interpersonal communication activates when dealing with men ; the part devoted to assessing objects when dealing with women. If it IS inborn, that would explain the philosophies, theologies, legal codes, etc, of the last 10K years at le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:53 AM
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Your first sentence is pure gold. A few years ago, there was a little bit of a furor when Germany (?) tried to take welfare benefits from an unemployed woman seeking employment, when she didn't take a job offer to work in a brothel. The job was not for a sex worker, but for a receptionist/appointment setter/clerical. Maybe it's my untreated depression and paranoia, BUT I can imagine, with enough shifting of the overton window, people being pressured someday to take sex work of some kind, as it's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:46 PM
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Yuck ! I guess he's going with the "honesty is the best policy" routine, because this damn' sure doesn't show him in the best light possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:41 PM
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I think that's why we seem to be experiencing a rise in men who attack and sometimes murder not just women with whom they've had ties (ex wives, ex GFs, classmates) but women who are total strangers, but who failed to "respond correctly" to a cat call or a request for a phone number. Violent lashing out when actual human beings don't act as endlessly compliant as the women in the choreographed, paid-to-act-in porn they watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:22 PM
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There's the guy in the UK who wrote up a paper (re posted here, back in 2020) about what he's seen working with pedophiles since the 1980s : He said that when he first started , most pedophiles were molestation victims. Nowadays, many were not molested ; they got into kiddie porn as adults because it was the only forbidden porn left, having exhausted all other types. And he said that the men most definitely saw the children in the porn as objects, to the point that he could sometimes make them s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:19 PM
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I remember from a similar time frame a study that concluded that after looking at porn , esp. more violent porn, male viewers rated women in tears as "sexier" than women smiling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:12 PM
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I have read about multiple cases where frantic parents in full panic were forced to take a polygraph to"eliminate them as suspects" before Officer Friendly will even put the goddamn donut down and look for their missing toddler. I am aware of Jordan Vs City of New London, CT Police Department. But this seems to be less about stupidity (though that, too) and more a practice based in sheer sadism and delight in tormenting the helpless. Torturing terrified parents is bad enough, but until quite rec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:20 AM
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After [too many] years of watching ID channel shows, my opinion of US police is permanently in the toilet. What's most striking is how many of them are willing to appear on screen and pretend polygraphs actually work/are infallible, and (and this over only the last few years) just how many ID channel shows seem to have been created as pro-polygraph propaganda (this even though SCOTUS banned their use in court as far back as 1983). I am convinced that somebody -maybe the FBI director, maybe the h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:57 AM
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Many years ago (late 1980s) I was taking a criminal justice administration class . Here's two things I remember from the textbook : The average American woman (at the time the book was published) is 38, 5' 4" & 138 lbs, but the "typical" rape victim is 19, 5' 2" & 110 lbs. The book went on to speculate as to why this was : Were rapists targeting women that slim because they couldn't fight back effectively, or was it just that they met societal beauty standards -? The book's answer was, a bit of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:50 AM
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Agreed that the manosphere is giving them motives and egging them on ; however, we now have reason to believe (thanks to clinical neurologists) that when men look at other men, the part of the brain dedicated to human interaction is what engages. When they look at women, it's the part of the brain dedicated to assessing objects. :-( I think porn is exacerbating this tendency of the male brain, to literally see objects when they look at women. And not just porn : I've lurked on the various variet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:25 AM
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I've always hated that "rule", because of the implication that men are entitled to "date" women who make the cut, regardless of whether she's interested in them or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:56 PM
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This is new. It really is : Men without criminal backgrounds suddenly assaulting and even murdering strange woman, often in public and in broad daylight. Even the serial predators of yesterdecade generally had long criminal backgrounds before they finally decide to put their fantasies in motion, and become murderers of random women, PLUS they generally planned their attacks and took steps to NOT get caught. These guys don't seem to understand that you can't just assault strange women in public, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:18 PM
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There was the 60something a few days ago who shot a young woman to death because she rejected him . Her boyfriend witnessed the attack and ran the old man down using his vehicle. I think it's porn. Before the late 1990s, when men murdered women it was usually a wife/GF/ex. You didn't read about random men with little or no criminal history killing women unknown to them for ignoring a cat call/ snapping back/refusing to give a telephone number. It's like watching online porn for years is doing so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:41 PM
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You can see the "tiny purse tucked in her vagina" quote in all its glory here. It's not worth buying the novel to find out , but...Is it possible the author meant , next to her vulva? A tiny purse in her underwear pressed against her vulva? Calling the vulva a vagina is so common it doesn't even register any more.They can't actually be dumb enough to think women insert purses (tiny or otherwise) internally....Can they-???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:32 PM
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If you do scan issues, and you also scan the letters to the editor, here's one that haunts my brain : It ran very early in MS's run , anywhere from the first year to maybe the 5th. It was from a young woman discussing all the health problems she suffered because her physician father, realizing from his "crystal ball" (she told her story as if it was a fairy tale in third person) that she was going to wind up 6' tall, put her on what almost certainly was lupron, to bring on early puberty and stun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:21 PM
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That did it for me, too. To me, it explains everything : The last 10k years of history , especially religion and the laws pertaining to women and their role in society , why we have serial killers , why we have TheRedPillMGTOWIncels , why hardcore porn...EVERYTHING. The unified field theory of misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:15 PM
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The freakazoid called Peter Andrew Nolan, who tried to copyright his name so he could sue (for gold) anyone who mentioned his name, and IIRC has restraining orders against him by both his ex wife, his daughter (son too, maybe), AND his own mother . His MRA's schtick got him rounded up and "exiled" from Germany ; I think he is still prohibited from setting foot in that country. He was a pretty big deal online for a few years, but he seems to have mercifully gone dark : https://peternolansuvafijic…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 12:51 PM
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We know there have been multiple women killed from being strangled during sex, "accidentally". So many men used that defense tactic the UK had to take measures against it (about 40% of the time that defense was used, it worked , either getting them a NG verdict or a reduced sentence; at least , that was the case back in 2018 or 2019 when I first read the 'We can't consent to this' website). What I want to know is, precisely how many women survived, but with TBIs and/or damage to their eyesight, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:23 PM
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I cannot help but notice that for online predators who get caught, the age of their intended victim is invariably 14. Not 13. Not 15. Fourteen. That's the age I see over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:31 PM
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When I was 6 or 7, the US military moved us away from state A (where I attended kindergarten) to state B (1st grade). This was way back in 1970-1971. The women (IOW, my 1st and 2nd grade teachers)in state B were, uh, different from the women in state A (who might best be described as "level headed"/"calm"). They would get in little groups and shriek an' scream an' giggle an' toss their arms up in the air over the stupidest little shit. I, a 7 year old, could only describe them as "acting like ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:42 PM
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When I was in high school, we used to make nasty comments about "old" Hollywood actors, and laugh at the idea that someone like Sean Connery could possibly be the "sexiest man alive", as the tabloids constantly assured us. When I was in college, we laughed at "old guys" who pestered us (the geezers were probably 28-34, being people that had graduated a few years earlier but NOT moved on with their lives : IOW, not 40 and 50somethings). I didn't know anyone who was in a relationship with anyone m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:50 PM
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It's so weird how "love" becomes a justification for anything. I'm beginning to question whether love is a myth created by patriarchy based on trauma bonding. Emily Hahn came to that conclusion back in 1959, in her book ,Love Conquers Nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:44 PM
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FWIW, I recently read Peter Vronsky's latest nonfiction study of serial killers,American Serial Killers: The Epidemic Years 1950-2000 (released Feb 2021). He said necrophilia is way more common among serial killers than people in law enforcement can realize, because the same people who happily recount torture and rape and murder become 'embarrassed' by being asked about their necrophiliac behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:44 PM
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The slug-victim and her abusive EX boyfriend are in the UK. I don't know why she didn't try to seek legal remedies against him ; maybe she thought her history of psychological problems and suicide attempts would count against her :-(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:02 PM
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In "Why Does he DO That?", Lundy Bancroft mentions that the "abusive and controlling" men of the time he was writing about prided themselves on being "good in bed", and apparently a high percentage of the wives agreed : At least the sex was good, even if the relationship wasn't. Now, the manosphere for at at least 20 years if not longer has been deliberately giving men terrible advice that makes sex as awful as possible for most women : It's called The "Sex-God Method", and regardless of what th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:57 PM
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Here's something I noticed from tv shows about hoarders : There's plenty of hostile hoarders of both sexes. But the male hoarders are invariably hostile ONLY to the female organizers and psychologists ; they treat the male haulers and psychologists with respect (female hoarders that are hostile are hostile to everyone, male and female alike). Here are these old(er) men , usually well into middle age if not outright old or elderly, who have failed at Adulting 101 (keeping your living area within …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:16 PM
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"Providers"-??? I've seen dipshits on purplepill and exredpill who call themselves PROTECTORS, as in, "feminism makes it harder to fill the role of protector for which we've been programmed by biology"-GAG!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:39 PM
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True, it will take a lot longer for all traces of his inanities to disappear , as some of his influence may even be subconsciously held. At least his crap isn't being taught as unimpeachable TRUTH now. It's hard to believe his unverifiable, untestable theories ever were, and may have been as late as the 1980s, in some locales.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:55 PM
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Reminds me of an awful case I read about back in the day (1990s-?) in which an Italian judge ruled a rape was actually "consensual sex" because the victim removed her jeans ; the fact that she was threatened with extreme violence if she did not (I think the assailant was literally carrying an axe !) did not make this rape in his eyes. She was supposed to choose being axed to death (or at least mutilation) over unwanted sexual intercourse for it to "really" be rape, I guess...TONS of protests ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:51 PM
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One of the best things I've seen in my lifetime (b.1965) is watching Freud's theories descend into historical artifacts used primarily for literary analysis (if used at all). It's awful, thinking of the decades (1920s-1960s) in which they were thought of as unimpeachable science, even used to help "craft" legislation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:45 PM
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Karon Pugh was bludgeoned to death with a hammer by her estranged husband. The judge, in his summing up, made the following comment : "There is no doubt you were provoked by your wife into losing your self control.It was the way in which she conducted her affair and led you to believe that the marriage was not over that led to your actions. The jury has come to the conclusion that the hammer blows to her face were or may have been excusable. Six years is the minimum sentence I can pass upon you.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:29 PM
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I've even seen "females" and "MEN" in all-caps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:56 PM
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All love is and should be conditional to some extent AFuckingmen, and I most definitely would include parental love, too . I've read of too many cases where parents have used "unconditional love" as an excuse to help their child commit crimes, evade the police or prosecution, flee the country, and (if all this fails) insult and berate the victim(s) outside the court room, and glare at them inside it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:25 PM
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I think he looks more like 1970s "Mod-hair Ken", right down to the turtleneck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:44 PM
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Joint accounts are not legally mandatory for married or cohabitating couples . Some couples have only a joint account, others have two separate accounts, others two separate and a shared joint. It's whatever the couple wants /is used to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:08 PM
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At least back in the 1990s, HR would happily agree with him : If a gay employee was going around touching women inappropriately or making obnoxious sexual comments about women, all the HR women (and they were ALL women) would do is trill, "But he's gaaaAAaaaYyy-!" like that made it okay. I think the problem (at least at workplaces) is the notion that sexual harassment is always about 'getting sex', rather than using sexualized harrassment as a way of making women feel powerless, or "less than". …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:53 PM
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I have spent too many decades (since the 1970s, to be exact) reading true crime books. And I have run across several serial killers who were active in the 1970s, who thought a bumper sticker that read,If you love something, set it free. If it doesn't come back, hunt it down and kill it, was the height of wit, so they put it on their car. I'm not saying this car's owner is a serial killer, but he has the same tacky , vulgar sense of humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:18 PM
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I sincerely hope she doesn't think the whole sordid vile mess is somehow "romantic" : "He did it all for MEEEE!" But-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:03 PM
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Actually, this case triggers a memory : That guy in GA (?) who broke up with his GF/fiancee, married another woman, asked her to get a big life insurance policy with him as beneficiary, then she accidentally drowns while they're scuba diving on their honeymoon. When he got back to the USA and learned she had made her father the beneficiary, her Grieving Husband got caught on camera vandalizing her tomb (there had been multiple vandalizations , which was why a hidden camera was there). I think he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:07 PM
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I assume this was to bring home just how much worse things were in the past-??? IOW, the point was not so much, this is how things SHOULD be, but rather , See how much worse your ancestors had it-?So stop complaining!-???? Still seems a very foolhardy if not foolish assignment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:52 PM
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Thomas Lane (37) of Alabama . Married Teresa, a Filipina, and then murdered her. When the cops came in with a warrant, they found an application for the same "bridal agency" from which he was set up with Teresa 8 years earlier. He had filled it out to request a "bride" of 14, which was the youngest age offered, and I wonder, had this agency also done children's adoptions, how young a "bride" would Lane have requested-? http://www.cncpunishment.com/forums/showthread.php?1145-Thomas-Robert-Lane-Al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:46 PM
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A friend of mine told me about what happened to a cousin of hers : She spent months if not years taking care of her abusive POS husband after he got in an accident and was left paralyzed from the waist down. He could no longer physically abuse her, but the verbal and emotional abuse ramped up. He died suddenly of a heart attack, and upon going through his papers, it was discovered that he had got the paperwork together to divorce her, solely to deprive her of survivor's benefits as his widow (hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:27 PM
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Maybe I've watched too much ID channel, but I can't help but wonder if he had insurance on her, to pay out in case of "accidental" death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:21 PM
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Remember 2018's Paul Guadalupe Gonzalez from LA-? He did this to multiple women (presumably from some manosphere motive) and wound up with an arrest record and sued over it. Hope it was worth it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:45 PM
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And some have, in an unguarded moment, agreed with the ecologists and climate scientists who have said that 500 million to 2 billion max, is all the humans the earth's ecosystem can support longterm. LVM think they're getting a government issued sexbot and a UBI, but- they're now completely and utterly expendable. Not needed for factory workers or as foot soldiers, and certainly not as "consumers".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:22 PM
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Hell, I've read about teachers being fired because they did a wet t shirt contest . Not even porn, but they still lost their jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:35 PM
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One thousand a year, divided by three : the kids are worth $333 apiece in this guy's eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:17 PM
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"But if he'd died , then the widow wouldn't be able to get any more money out of him; THAT'S why child support is as unfair as alimony!" Seriously. I saw that "argument" on theredpill, before it was quarantined. Be glad so many think they can just up and leave, with a 15K parting gift . The ones that don't think this is a likely outcome are the subject of Marilee Strong's Erased : Missing Women, Murdered Wives (2008)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:03 PM
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All those "helpful" posters "thoughtfully" explaining the correct way to strangle a person, slap them, or pull their hair. UGH. One poster said the guy pulled her hair so hard whole chunks came out , it continued to break off for weeks after , and she wound up cutting her hair off . :-(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:54 PM
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Yes. Convicted rapists who are willing to admit their guilt target women by how they're dressed : But it's not the scantily clad women who interest them (totally contradicting the victim-blaming mythology); it's the women who are wearing clothes too baggy, in muted colors, who look tentative and shy , not making eye contact. Bonus points if her hair is long and in a pony tail or braid. Of course, take anything a convicted rapist or serial killer says with a boulder of salt : "It wasn't MYYY faul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:06 PM
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As an old : Luke 'n' Laura, General Hospital (1979). I 'd like to think an audience would respond differently to a rape victim "falling in love" with and marrying her rapist now. To do him credit, the actor portraying Luke publicly expressed discomfort with the whole storyline even back then, which may be why GH's writers retconned it as a "seduction".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:24 PM
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ID channel crime recreation shows for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:41 PM
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I am aware of a man who lost his job to EverCrack (yeah, this was way back in the GW Bush adminstration). He worked in IT and last I heard was working at a grocery store as a checker/stocker. More time for EverQuest that way. Sounds like matters are getting worse or at least, more common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:26 PM
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Deaths, hell ; the traumatic brain injuries and lifelong damage to vision as a result of oxygen to the brain being cut off , is at least as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:30 PM
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Why can't they understand that if a person is reading, that person wants to read, not chat? Is it a dominance thing? Is reading so despised now that people can't believe that a person actually wants to read for pleasure? I have a book ; I'm trying to read, leave me TF alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:36 PM
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Very well said. "Unconditional love" is the most toxic notion . Love that is non transactional, affirming, without strings-? Sure. But literally "unconditional"-? That notion is a recipe for creating doormats or monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:33 PM
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Probably a reference to Simone de Beauvoir's comments on women staying home to raise their children: In an interview with Betty Friedan, Beauvoir said: "No, we don’t believe that any woman should have this choice. No woman should be authorised to stay at home to bring up her children. Society should be totally different. Women should not have that choice, precisely because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one. It is a way of forcing women in a certain direction." Not QUIT…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/21 12:01 PM
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I read that when vehicles first were made, the seats were non adjustable and were made for "the average person" : Who oddly enough was 5' 9", the height of the average man (man=person, naturally...). Anyway, most women and short(er) men had to resort to tying bricks to brakes and accelerator, putting pillows behind their backs, etc. They were in less control of their vehicles,and got in more accidents as a result. But now adjustable seats are standard, women pay less for their insurance because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:52 PM
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Long before Elliot Rodgers (c 1997-2014), the online news sites had a steady stream of articles about a teen boy murdering a classmate because she refused to go to the prom with him/broke up with him/etc etc , or about a man stabbing or shooting a woman for saying something back to him over his catcall/ignoring his catcall/refusing to give her phone number/etc etc. And always, and I mean ALWAYS, if there were comments on it, some creep would be in them suggesting hopefully that maybe this would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:25 PM
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It's from South Park. It's to show how 'with-it' and 'edgy' he is. /rollseyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:13 PM
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It's a South Park reference
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:12 PM
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South Park reference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:12 PM
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Correlation is not necessarily causation, BUT- Multiple true crime books have pointed out that the rise of serial killers dovetails neatly with the women's liberation movement and the entry of women into professions once closed to them, women surpassing men on university campuses, women in positions of authority as CEOs, congresspeople, etc, instead of only being employed in 'pink-collar' jobs, etc etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:07 PM
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A little OT maybe, but as an Old : Back in the 1970s, cops and other "Authority Figures" used to say that rape victims "had it coming" because they "walked around in tight jeans". Young people laughed at them back then : "Don't they know that tight jeans are practically chastity belts?" Got online in 1997. And then, just a few years later , I started reading about cops criticizing rape victims because they had worn A Dress, or A Skirt. Not a clubwear black leather micro mini skirt (not that ANY …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:18 PM
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It's fictional, but here's the bittersweet story of a woman-only space , for a while , at least: http://future-lives.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/When-It-Changed.pdf There's also the even older Herland, but I've never read that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:15 PM
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No one wants them now ; why do they think sexbots would make anyone want them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:41 PM
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When I was much younger (this would have been 1978-1982, somewhere in there) I read a letter in the Ann Landers column, from a woman who had both legs amputated above the knee as a result of a car accident. Her letter was a list of tips for people , on how to be more sensitive to the disabled. One of the tip's gist is seered into my memory ; words as close as I can recall : If you and your friends want to joke about all the things you can do sexually to a woman without legs, please wait until I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:03 PM
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When I was 10-12 years old, I read Shere Hite's The Hite Report on Male Sexuality, and in it, I read how multiple men told her they didn't marry the woman for whom they felt the most of what they called love, because she would have "too much power" over them. They married second or third best, and were proud of how rationally they'd behaved. This did a number on my younger self, making me wonder if any man who asked me to marry him would be "settling for" me, and pining for the GF he'd chosen no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:21 PM
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It's not even necessarily that the women he's allegedly "beating off with a stick" are after his money; some of these delusionals interpret literally anything as an indication of interest. We've all experienced old men thinking, if you're their waitress or cashier and you chuckle at their dumb stale joke, that means you want their body. But I have seen manosphereans interpret a woman kneeling down to tie a shoelace that's come undone as "flirting", adjusting a sweater, ditto : They think stuff l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:23 PM
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A coupl'a years ago (2014-2016), I got an e mail from one of my 'science' websites ; I was subscribed to every online "popular" science site I could find. The e mail was about a laboratory study by neurologists that showed when men look at/interact with other men, the part of the brain that is for interpersonal communication "lights up" When they look at women, it's the part of the brain that assesses objects that "lights up". That pretty much explains it all, doesn't it? Religion...history...th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:09 PM
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I watch and read a lot of true crime (probably too much!) ; have since the 1970s. Common scenarios: A. Woman moves to new town or new apartment building ; guy expresses interest ; she's not interested; he responds by kidnapping/raping/murdering her. B. Girl or woman out doing shopping/jogging/whatever ;complete stranger sees her , decides to kidnap/rape/kill her. C. Man and woman marry. He's abusive. She decides to have a baby with him (no comment necessary). After some time/more babies, EITHER …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:59 PM
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He is, if the OP's later comments are true. He told her the co worker is quote unquote "unbangable". So it's in mockery. Unless he's lying to the OP. Regardless, the gift shows terrible judgment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:19 PM
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Lots of banned subs are re forming over on saidit, if it comes to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:47 PM
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