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| 2 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Yeah: keep that zen brother and you’re in! | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:26 AM |
| 4 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Yes. I have had this happen before too. Make a connection that the woman doesn’t want to lose. Don’t give AF if she walks away, she might come back and shoot her own shot. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:05 AM |
| 2 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Like you said, a high quality conversation is the best, so focus on small wins that build or accumulate interpersonal time over the course of hours (eg bars), days (grocery store), or even longer. You’re not missing anything if you have a route to another interaction, there’s usually no need to rush things is my point. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 3 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.What are your other green lights? Some ppl don’t get touchy. Seems like eye contact should be a dead giveaway. If she’s laughing frequently at your comments it seems like a good time to ask. She could also be laughing at you bc you have no chance but you gotta shoot your shot! | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:54 PM |
| 3 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.And kudos to you fine sir, slaying women on the first go! Onward and upward! For mere mortals things can be more progressive. Chip away at the number a little bit, there’s some fun in the chase! | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:32 PM |
| 5 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Not always. It’s about having a high quality interaction I think. Rule of 8s is just an example. If your first interaction was a 2h conversation at a bar, you’re good to ask for digits. If you met her in the target line and chatted her up, you may want to wait until the parking lot to ask for her number before she gets away. There’s always exceptions. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:29 PM |
| 9 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Your new pink hair is super pretty and you are very thoughtful JennySparklezz, I would love to DM with you some time 🫠 | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 7 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Yes that stuff is gold. It makes us unique. To me the time to ask for a number is after you’ve completed a real human conversation where I spoke maybe 40% of the interaction and she spoke maybe the other 60%. That gives me an indication, depending on your body language and what you said, if the time is right to ask for digits. Helps to see eye to eye and I know complimenting eyes is a no no, agreed, but if you see just an extra sparkle or eyelid opening when you come by, these are little unspoke… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:19 PM |
| 27 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.To me that’s kind of hot too, bc there’s a bit of a chase involved. It shouldn’t get creepy though and no stalking, but if you know you will bump into this person again, it could be in the back of your mind to say “oh I see you changed your nails from last time I saw you” and maybe this time there’s no one in line and she’s bored. I wish there was a venue better than r/ for natural social interactions for people to practice these skills together. The descriptions are helpful but people need to p… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:10 PM |
| 101 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.I think it’s important to pick the right compliment at the right time. The checkout woman with beautifully sculpted and painted finger nails has a built-in compliment waiting for her so I often choose to say “wow I really like your nails, they’re so cool looking for this reason…” but I would have to carefully choose my time to place this compliment if I wanted to ask for her number. If she had 15 people behind me, not the best time to ask. I believe in the rule of 8’s. People trust eachother mos… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:01 PM |
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