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1 Year in. Last post November 2017. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 115K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 16, 14, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 215 lbs. - BF%: 15 using navy method 36 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 365, Bench 250, OHP 175, BOR 205, and 1X5 DL 415 **SIDE BAR.** - Read just about everything. - Read every OYS post for the last 18 months. - Dread Level 5 with a touch of 8, will be staying here. FAILURES. Allowed for …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 05:26 PM
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TWELVTH OYS. 190 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 215 lbs. - BF%: 17 using navy method 37 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 325, Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 04:48 PM
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I think a little bit of both. Her attitude definitely played a role in me first searching out what was causing my world to crumble. I first stumbled on this thread in early February and began reading the OYS posts then. I identified with everything from the OYS responses to the sidebar material. I peeled apart the layers of myself and found a very co-dependent parasite of a person that would be mentally broken when his wife / life fell to pieces. The one and only time I had abundance in my life …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 08:23 PM
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I am feeling happier than I was for the last few years. Anger phase is down from boiling over to a simmer. Not sure if it ever goes away really. I guess I will find out. I enjoy myself better as I am no longer lying to myself about life. Truth hurts but its a better way to live for sure. When first going down this path I was in scenario 3 and my wife was repulsed by me. So I started with just plain STFU. Over the last 4 months I have transitioned to primarily respond with AA/AM. Some things that…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 06:41 PM
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You referred to this man as your "best friend." Does this meat sack still hold this spot? If so, please read this sentence again. "I don't believe a fucking word any of them said."
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 04:16 PM
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ELEVENTH OYS. 176 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 218 lbs. - BF%: 17 using navy method 37 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 305, B…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 01:14 PM
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Hadn't even thought of that. No not really. But I am also not repulsed by her appearance. She is a 6 right now and I am getting pretty close to an 8. And it really has been only the last 2 months or so that I haven't really been escalating. In that time I have dropped 5% body fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/17 01:57 PM
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You are right, about the starving man analogy. I guess because I have been starved or malnutrition-ed for so long, it's a feeling I get that it will go back to that. Feels like I have to be a squirrel gathering nuts for the winter. And if I am not actively seeking then I am going to starve again. I feel like I am lazy because I am not pushing for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 03:57 PM
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TENTH OYS. 169 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 216 lbs. - BF%: 17 using navy method 37.5 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 295, Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 02:10 PM
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NINTH OYS. 162 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 216 lbs. - BF%: 18 using navy method 37.5 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 280, Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 04:00 PM
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Good point!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 12:57 PM
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These were all 1rm. My 5x5 numbers are still not maxed with the exception of overhead press actually Wednesday I finally got 135 on that after 2weeks of failing.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 12:55 PM
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I know from your first 2 sentences you are trying to polish up a turd.
/r/askMRP05/10/17 08:44 PM
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It has been a strange revelation to me that women in general want to still act like children mentally, yet not be called out for it. The phrase "grow up" I am beginning to think really only applies to boys. We men need strong shoulders and thick skin to be successful in life.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 03:31 PM
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EIGHTH OYS. 155 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 215 lbs. - BF%: 19 using navy method 38 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 265, Ben…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 01:51 PM
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SEVENTH OYS. 148 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 216 lbs. - BF%: 19 using navy method 38 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 265, Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 03:34 PM
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Strange enough, over the worst parts of my marriage and my wife's sexual denials, I did have nightmares, cold sweats and panic attacks. What I went through over the last year changed my world in so many ways. I used to think that PTSD and panic attacks were only for weak willed, weak minded people. And in most cases were exaggerated acting antics. It is amazing to me now how I really sometimes had no control over my own emotions during those dark days.
/r/RPChristians21/09/17 10:52 PM
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I think so to, I am going to be building a safety rack because I am starting to feel tired on squats at 250 and don't want to drop to the ground with it. Once this is done I am going to run through some max lifts. Either way I want to keep on going. I was in the 1000 lb club at 20 but have not lifted in the last 16 years until this summer. I am really surprised at how fast it is coming back though. I naturally carry a lot of muscle on my frame so I am playing to that strength as much as I can.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 05:02 PM
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Tough to read through that without red flaring out my nostrils. Awful stuff to go through.
/r/askMRP19/09/17 08:09 PM
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SIXTH OYS. 141 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 216 lbs. - BF%: 19 using navy method 38 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 245, Benc…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/17 02:19 PM
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Absolutely, I have an 96 XR100 for the 13 year old, and a PW 80 for the 10 year old. They love to ride with me. Fortunately all my daughters like doing some of the same things I do, we can have bonding experiences that are just for me and them.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 03:26 PM
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If the boundary is crossed again, there will be separation. And the girls will be enlightened on the fact that the fastest way to lose a relationship with a man is to focus on a different man.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 03:25 PM
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Some times I feel like if she bolts, that alone would be an upgrade. Still no excuse for my 15 years of suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 03:23 PM
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No denying this. And for the better part of the last year I have been in observer mode. There is a ton of history with this issue not really enough space in OYS to detail everything out. And at the end of the day stay plan is the go plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 03:22 PM
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FIFTH OYS. 134 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 218 lbs. - BF%: 20 using navy method 38.5 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 235, Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 01:56 PM
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I learned a lot about myself that once again didn't really want to hear. I understand his point on the chapter about Woman aren't all liars 'cause feelz. But I did not agree, I won't tolerate outright lies anymore. Have heard to many of them. To me it felt very similiar to NMMNG but with a more feel centric message delivery instead of a clinical delivery. I felt that I related very much to the "Tolerateing Her Leads to Resenting Her" chapter though. I chalk this up to still in the anger stage. R…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 03:31 PM
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FOURTH OYS. 127 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 218 lbs. - BF%: 20% using navy method 38.5 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 225, …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 03:18 PM
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You are correct, I just started SL 5X5 and have been following the go slowly method suggested. The only lift that is even remotely difficult at this point is OHP at 125. I could likely add another 40 lbs to bench before failure. Probably close to 100 to the squat and DL as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 03:23 PM
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THRID OYS. 120 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 219 lbs. - BF%: 21% using navy method 39.5 waist 18 neck - SL 5X5: Squat 205, B…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 01:20 PM
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Thanks for the input. Added 3 goals for body/lifting . I started to OYS around the home thing nearly a year ago. That was basically the only thing I did right when I found out about my wife pulling away. So yes I am staying ahead of this portion of RP. Everything else I did wrong. . . Live and learn. I am going to be starting rock climbing at an indoor gym that opened up within the last 6 months. This will get me some hobbies out of the house, and require me to drop some weight as another benefi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 05:00 PM
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SECOND OYS. 113 days into swallowing the pill. I am here due to the following reasons. - Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. - Huge beta for most of my marriage. - Drunk Captain. - Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 220 lbs - BF%: 22% - SL 5X5: Squat 195, Bench 145, OHP 125, BOR 125, DL 225 SIDE BAR. - Guide for Beginners: Was Scenari…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 03:24 PM
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FIRST OYS. I am here due to the following reasons. Likely emotional affair my wife had and may still be in. Huge beta for most of my marriage. Drunk Captain. Dead Bedroom. I think 6 total times in 2016. I began swallowing the pill May 1st 2017. STATS. - Age: 36 - Married: 16 - Together: 20 - Income: 95K Me, 35K Wife - Children: 3 all girls 15, 13, 10 - Height: 5’11 - Weight: 220 lbs - BF%: 22% - SL 5X5: Squat 165, Bench 110, OHP 110, BOR 110, DL 185 I have been lifting for 4 weeks and starting l…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 05:02 PM
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