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MRP9/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/14 02:18 PM
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MRP9/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 09:47 PM
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At 240 you're likely too high bf%. Time for a cut bro. Eat a shitload of protein, continue lifting, and toss in some hiit. Get rid of the fat and keep your lifts close to what they are now and you'll look shredded.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 12:55 PM
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Clue is awesome. I have to thank /u/strategos_autokrator as well for turning me on to it. If you want to see how far you can push your dominance in the bedroom, push it during her ovulation window. You might be surprised what she's up for.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 12:21 PM
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I remember a day where I used to try to solve every problem my wife brought to me. Some were so obvious…honey why don’t you try this? It will surely fix this thing you are complaining about. Even if you have a good solution, they don’t want it. They want you to empathize. They want you to say, “That sucks dear.” They don’t want their problems solved. That’s guy logic. The good news is that I’ve found I don’t even have to listen. I can sit there and think about changing up my workout, trying to s…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 01:05 PM
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I drink my protein shake (with BCAAs) pre-workout. http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/ask-the-macro-manager-pre-post-workout-shakes.html
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:22 PM
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She clearly doesn't think you will leave. Or she doesn't care.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:15 PM
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This shit. She's in the top percentile but your SMV is higher? If that's really the case you will have no problem finding another top percentile girl. One that has desire.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:00 PM
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Glad we have a new moderator, but more importantly when did AutoModerator get married?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 12:34 PM
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Take what you've learned and do some flirting in front of your wife. Dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 12:54 PM
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Nice job OP. I'm not turning down starfish yet (I think I'm getting close), but my god OI is such a powerful thing. I wish I knew about it years ago. Last night got a hard no when initiating. Immediate stop followed by watching the rest of the UK/ND game (great game) then going to sleep. Next thing I know I'm being woken up with a blowjob from a dripping wet wife who cums after less than a minute.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/15 03:48 PM
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Great post. My story is exactly how you described number 1 - down to marriage counseling and all. The only place I didn’t fail was that I always stayed in great shape, but I deferred too many decisions to her. And looking back one of her main gripes in marriage counseling was that she “has to do everything”. Back then I saw it as a way to strengthen our partnership. I don’t give a shit about this, so why not let the wife decide? This is what she claimed she wanted after all.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 01:01 PM
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He just starting lifting so he should be fine doing 5x5.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 01:13 PM
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Broscience. You'll need to go at least seven days in a row according to this: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12659241 Furthermore: Ejaculation results in changes in prolactin (increase) and dopamine (temporary decrease), but does not result in changes in Testosterone. Although prolactin and dopamine are both involved with testosterone, they do not appear to influence testosterone levels acutely. http://examine.com/faq/does-ejaculation-affect-testosterone-levels.html
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 01:24 PM
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As others have suggested, work up to it. Start with two. Then four. You get the idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 04:31 PM
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For noobs to lifting, this is all you need to do: http://stronglifts.com/ One you plateau move to an intermediate program like this one: http://www.muscleclass.com/layne-norton-phat-workout/ Or this one: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/shortcut-to-size.html
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 01:06 PM
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A lot of comments on getting you better in bed which are great. But I also have to wonder, are you gaming your wife? Is there anything you are doing to increase her desire for you outside of the bedroom? Do you do the 10 second kiss every day?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 12:59 PM
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I need to start tracking her cycle and adjust actions accordingly. More work, but from what others have shared a worthwhile endeavor.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 07:07 PM
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Start lifting and start doing HIIT. http://www.muscleandfitness.com/workouts/workout-tips/10-minute-treadmill-blast You'll look better > get more confident > women will respond to you further increasing confidence
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 07:20 PM
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I haven’t found one perfect guide yet. Here’s a bodybuilding.com article that tries to get at the issue: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/macro-math-3-keys-to-dialing-in-your-macro-ratios.html My macro goals are based on a culmination of everything I've read. Don't forget your micro goals too...
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 03:55 PM
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Sure - try examine.com - great site http://examine.com/faq/how-much-protein-do-i-need-every-day.html
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 02:28 PM
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Glad I could help you go down the right path. You are, probably, eating too many carbs if you’re hitting your calorie goals but not hitting your protein macro. My goal is 1 lb of protein and 0.5 of fat per pound of bodyweight. The rest is carbs (or sometimes alcohol). You do need carbs for energy but they should mostly come from whole grains, fruits, and vegetables. Avoid sugar and definitely avoid corn syrup! You can change the ratios in MyFitnessPal to reflect your goals. I also find it diffic…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 02:06 PM
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If you’re at your target weight: Eat at your TDEE, track with MyFitnessPal - http://iifym.com/tdee-calculator/ Get 1 g of protein per pound of body weight Work your ass off with heavy lifting and HIIT cardio Over time your body drop fat and add muscle, but it’s a process. If you’re okay with having your weight go up and down you can go on a cut (eat at a deficit) and then on a bulk (eat at a surplus). Repeat. I’m at a point in my life where I have no desire to see my weight go up and down anymor…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 01:26 PM
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I think every man should spend 2-3 hours watching videos on you tube about Kino. Any recommendations?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 09:47 PM
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I posted this a month ago after reading SGM. http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2ospmz/increasing_dominance_in_the_bedroom/ My advice: keep pushing the ball forward. A bit at a time. When she's ovulating or has been drinking take a big step forward. I've made significant progress over the past month to the point where I rarely get any resistance.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 01:58 PM
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By status are we talking something beyond the married flair?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/15 04:43 PM
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I'd like to keep trolls out. We're all here because blue pill advice has failed us. A middle of the road option could be to confine blue pill discussion to a weekly thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 02:00 PM
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Good questions. Strip to your underwear and stand in front of a full length mirror. (I am not joking. Do it). Do you see a man who could audition for the next Rocky movie? Or a man for whom "six pack" conjures up images of beer? The key here is not to audition for the next Rocky but to bring your SMV above that of your wife's. Part of that is definitely fitness but it is also how you present yourself. Beyond just getting rid of clothes that are unflattering, start dressing better. Dress like you…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 02:28 PM
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I wish there were books for women who just may want to be dominated (paging Christian Grey) I wish I knew about TRP back when my wife was reading those. Would have been an easy way to push the envelope.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 02:03 PM
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Complete shut down and nervous conversation for weeks afterward. I didn't even do anything radical - just a new level of intensity. Yep, this is exactly what I'm talking about. Glad to hear you've had success working through it. Seems like a process but one worth continuing forward on.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/14 03:59 PM
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Some good comments here. I used to have the opinion that different girls simply enjoyed different levels of dominance but I’m wondering if this isn’t just another case of AWALT. I’m fresh off reading Sex God Method and I’d recommend it for this sub. An example in the book and mentioned here is hair pulling. She’s always communicated that as a no go. Should that be something kept out of the repertoire entirely and instead just focus on other displays of dominance (say ass slapping) given her expl…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/14 02:07 PM
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Kids – unquestionably Wife – no and those statements are related. You shouldn’t view your wife as a replaceable plate, yes, but at the end of the day who do you trust to raise your children and provide for your family? In my case I believe my kids would be better off with me raising them.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/14 06:36 PM
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Financially - she will pay you child support if you have a 50/50 split and she makes more money. You could even go for alimony depending on what state you live in. Child support is largely factored by time and income. So the less time you have with them the more likely you are to be paying her. You can't afford not to see them. Time - make it as best you can. Take them the nights you don't work. Take them the nights you don't work late. You want as many overnights as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/14 05:51 PM
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Forget your wife. Focus on your kids. You said the kids live with her? Change that immediately. You want joint custody and the visitation to be split 50/50. Take more than half if she is willing to give it to you, but don't agree to less than half. The good news is that you can start fresh armed with all the information you have now as you also work on a better you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/14 12:21 PM
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A lot here. The whole always looking for the latest drug to change her life leads me to believe she has some real issues. And Anti-depressants will kill a sex drive. Or so I've read. Out of the box thinking, but could you get her on a non-drug path? Yoga, meditation, giving up caffeine...something other than a pill. To directly answer your question on how you'd know if you wife was a slut and would it bother me - I'd say 1) ask her if you really want to know (maybe you don't?) and 2) it would bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/14 06:12 PM
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I did some googling back when I first read that and I found that only 5% of your semen is sperm to begin with. So if that's the difference between a good sex life and not then you have bigger issues in your relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/14 05:43 PM
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Lawyer up and move on. I'm happy that you don't have kids and can make a clean break.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/14 01:28 PM
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Isn't that the point of the FO role though? Provide input but know that the captain has the final say. A few times she might take it personally but after that she will likely just roll with it. Unless you do it all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/14 07:18 PM
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Second the two choices method. That's my number one go to. In your case I'm wondering if you couldn't flip this? Instead of coming in with a hardline "we're going here", give her a chance to provide first officer feedback and then you make the final decision based off of what she says. But the key is you get the last and final say even if it's a "yes that sounds good I agree". And even though you're not picky you should overrule her on occasion and get what you truly want. Thoughts from the grou…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/14 12:46 PM
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So this comment was deleted. What was it?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/14 12:57 PM
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Congrats dude. You can maintain alpha status and still do nice things for your wife as long as they are on your terms and not because she begged or nagged for something.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/14 12:31 PM
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This isn't exactly red pill stuff, but it sounds like she's open to sex if you initiate. Would she also be open to any sort of sex games? Shit as simple as a sex dice where she rolls it and then has to do what the dice says could start her on the path of getting her to do more. And yeah, you should figure out how to get her to orgasm unless there is something wrong with her. Nothing wrong with bringing toys in or whatever to get her over the hump.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/14 12:29 PM
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Given your situation as you raise your SMV dread will work on her. She's completely dependent on you. You won't have to get a divorce, you only have to have her believe that it's something you would do if shit doesn't get better. But you are a ways off from that so for now just focus on passing the shit tests and making all of the decisions about your life and your money.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/14 02:40 PM
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Since a lot of good advice has already been posted I will just say good luck and "you can do it!". Would love to hear progress on how this journey goes as you're likely one of the longest married posters here so if it can work for you it can work for any of us.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/14 12:38 PM
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I completely agree with your point that he shouldn't start a joint account with her until she earns it. Better plan, don't ever start a joint account. Split your bills by % of income and the remaining money you both have is yours and you get to choose what you want to do with it. She cannot get to your account unless she is a signatory. She can divorce rape you for half of it but can't legally access it while you're marrired unless you let her. DON'T!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:48 PM
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Good stuff. One of the areas I've been working on is not doing things for my wife if she's not doing something that is at least of equal value. Your wife asking you to check on the kids is a perfect example of that. No reason for her to ask you and not check herself. If she was cooking dinner I see that as a valid request but not when she's just laying on the couch.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/14 01:46 PM
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Basically yeah, you're hoping someone else has the key to fixing your marriage. In my case I thought making my wife focus on it would help her change. But without giving her a reason to change, it wouldn't matter counseling or not. I can actually see it being helpful if the guy is too alpha and isn't meeting his beta quotient but that's likely the type of guy who wouldn't go to counseling in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/14 12:43 PM
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Looks like some of it is luck of the draw then. So how did your wife react to this?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/14 07:20 PM
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