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| 4 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing Up | MRPFuckup | /r/askMRP | 21/07/16 09:14 PM |
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| 1 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing UpI left a comment upthread listing some of the things she has been strangely paranoid about, since you have alot of experience with this I'd be interested to know your take. Yes that link does describe me and my wife very well. I've never heard of this stuff before but I am a people pleaser and likely codependent as I suppose a result of being abandoned by my mother when I was 5. Reading the link further my wife has waif tendencies but also has strong Queen tendencies. She hides almost all emotio… | /r/askMRP | 22/07/16 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing UpThanks, this type of list seems like I very good idea, i appreciate the help. | /r/askMRP | 22/07/16 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing UpAt least you have some insight. Rarely but occasionally it happens. No. Forget Game. Forget sex. It's time for monk mode. Been doing that for the past 6 months (no initiation on my part) so continuing won't be hard. weak, codependent man I don't know much about codependency but I do gather that in my life I've usually been a "Nice Guy" and Captain-Save-A-Ho. I know that many of the books in the sidebar deal with these issues but if you have any extra suggestions on things to research or read I'd… | /r/askMRP | 22/07/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing UpAlso as far as the allergies go it isn't just peanut butter, it is a list about 15 items long with many of them being ingredients in most food items. So literally anything we give her we have to read the ingredients list and usually call the manufacturer too in order to even begin to determine if it is safe. | /r/askMRP | 22/07/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing UpThe paranoia bit...how serious are we taking about here? Nothing delusional that I can tell, mostly just situations taken to a ridiculous extreme. Some examples: Her mother passed away and her brother was executor of the trust. He made some decisions that both my wife and I didn't agree with but nothing I consider malicious. My wife became convinced though that he was funneling money from the trust into work on the house he was trying to sell by making up fake repairs and paying contractors to d… | /r/askMRP | 22/07/16 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing UpIn any case, it sounds like you have bigger problems than your wife not fucking you and you're glossing over them. I guess I glossed over them because I'm used to people coming in here with "MY WIFE IS BIPOLAR/CRAZY/DELUSIONAL!" complaints in order to deflect from the problems they have, so I've been trying to focus on my problems and where I can improve because I can't control her. | /r/askMRP | 22/07/16 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing UpI think you are enabling her alcoholism and the SAHM wife shit and home schooling is good cover. I don't drink and never have so I'm pretty clueless about this stuff, am I enabling her by sticking around even though she has these issues? Monk mode was suggested by many so thanks and I'll be doing that I don't think it would be wise for me to do that yet, and since she agreed to let it auto import into my mint account so I can see all the detailed charges I don't think she can hide anything. If I… | /r/askMRP | 22/07/16 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing UpI don't think I have a covert contract over this. I've tried to make changes before with the covert contract as the motivator and it has never worked, I always lacked the willpower and never saw real results. I actually feel good about myself and am enjoying the improvements for me this time. Ideally I don't want to turn into the guy I was, I think objectively the guy I was was almost as shitty as the guy I turned into, my goal is to be better than I've ever been. | /r/askMRP | 22/07/16 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Slow Learner Keeps Screwing UpThanks for the reply Paradox. I edited my original post but my wife has never displayed the behavior that she directs towards me and occasionally other people toward my daughter. For the most part she has been a good mother. Now I know this could change and I actually expect it to when my daughter gets older and starts asserting herself but for now I don't think there is a huge rush. Especially since none of my wifes issues are diagnosed and I don't have enough documentation to prove anything. A… | /r/askMRP | 22/07/16 01:25 PM |
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