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Touche' ​ However, sex isn't everything. Is the improvement in this area important to me? Yes. Does it cause deep seated anger and resentment when I don't get what I want? It did for years. I've buried that part of it. But I agree with your statement. It may come to that..
/r/askMRP14/12/18 10:36 PM
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Easy to say brother. And yes, you have to be ready to burn down the house. And someday it may come to that. But everything else is 100%. A lot of other factors at play. All things considered, I'd rather try to improve this one. But, it may come to that.
/r/askMRP14/12/18 10:25 PM
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Oh yeah? What's that?
/r/askMRP14/12/18 10:24 PM
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Right. Except, I've never been down on her. Tried on multiple occasions. It's on the "do not enter" list (so far) Cock ring would be looked at as a "vibe". I get what you are saying, it's been a process. I feel successful just getting a BJ twice a year and working in a couple of new positions. Also, to your point, I didn't make a big announcement about it. But kino'ing her through out the day, and getting her ready. But, nope.. shot down. Her radar was on ultra high frequency alert this morning …
/r/askMRP14/12/18 09:58 PM
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You in the back with the mullet..go
/r/askMRP27/10/18 04:21 PM
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I get the covert contract. But honestly, I’ve killed that. Where in my post do you see “I’ve done xyz for her and she won’t xz for me”?
/r/askMRP27/10/18 04:21 PM
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You hit this on the head. Dread works almost in reverse with her.. she just starts feeling sorry for herself, even though I have given her the path, I have to be careful with dread here
/r/askMRP27/10/18 04:19 PM
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It IS sad. But on the positive side, it brought me here, and I’ve grown because of it and other areas of my life are MUCH improved post pill
/r/askMRP27/10/18 04:18 PM
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Great feedback. And I agree, she knows I won’t do starfish, I have pulled out and left over that before. The point to this question is not how can I get her to suck my dick, but how can get control of my butthurt and anger over not getting it? And if I DO control it and reset, how does she get the message that it wasn’t acceptable? I’m at the point in this journey, that if I had to choose between pity BJ’s (negotiated etc) and keeping my self respect and staying in my frame.. I’ll choose the lat…
/r/askMRP27/10/18 04:17 PM
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Maybe. But there has been progress in other areas. No lingerie at first at all. Now she has a drawer full and wears it often. So I know she can change, for me? Not sure about that
/r/askMRP27/10/18 04:11 PM
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Great plan.. except when I try to finger her she squirms and closes her legs and tells me “it feels like I’m at the dr” I’ve gotten up and walked after that but it didn’t matter. I should mention there are some religious conservative issues at play here.
/r/askMRP27/10/18 04:10 PM
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Duly noted. I think I have provided a little TOO much comfort in the past.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 09:55 PM
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Right, I understand that for a lot of women it's a mate guarding technique. I will need to up my game here.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 09:54 PM
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6'5 220 BP 265 OHP 165 DL 300 visible abs, would not have a problem taking my shirt off and having a conversation with a beautiful woman. (that's always been my benchmark) We don't drink.. so no. Never had one bought for me. Had a couple of notes left on the car when she was around, etc. I never said she didn't give me one before we were married. ​ But, you might be right. There is always room for SMV improvement, and yes.. she probably knows I'm not going anywhere, but I think she is less sure …
/r/askMRP26/10/18 09:53 PM
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Han Solo
/r/askMRP18/03/18 04:59 PM
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I'm working my way there. Working on Day game, it's helping.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 05:42 PM
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You are right. Thanks for the course correction.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 05:41 PM
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That's a good point. I think that's where I came off the rails here. I kept thinking this was a race, and I had to "out SMV" her in order to execute dread levels correctly.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 05:40 PM
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I will agree with both of these statements.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 05:39 PM
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Same here. I 100% agree. If you are on gear, admit it and quit trying to convince everyone that it's your "workout routine" or some magic supplement. Side note: I have gear in hand, (Test C) and all meds for PCT and have been battling whether or not to run my first cycle. Some days I'll wake up and say "Fuck it, I'm doing it" then I start worrying about hairline, bloating, acne etc. We'll see. Odds are I'll pull the trigger in the next 90 days on a 12 week cycle. With diet and lifting on point, …
/r/askMRP25/10/17 05:38 PM
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Marriage is good. But most of us are here to improve ourselves, and our sex lives (I know, I know, that's not the main reason) Trying to create my slut, and yes, I do count myself lucky. But the thought that tortures me and keeps me up at night, is there are things I want her to do, that she would do with someone just not me right now. Seems like the dread is working to an extent, and yes, looks are subjective (everyone has their own preferences) but it's a bit of an uphill battle when you can't…
/r/askMRP25/10/17 05:35 PM
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No laziness here. There are parts of RP that I have struggled with. Lifting/diet is not one of them. My comment about her working out is to simply point out, she isn't hanging out at the gym with her friends on their phones. She's busting her ass. So am I. 3 day split twice a week in the gym, 60-90 minute sessions (depending on whether or not I am doing supersets that day) Dexa scans every 3 months to make sure things are headed the right direction. Fitness pal, calorie and macro counting. Food …
/r/askMRP24/10/17 10:33 PM
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Negative Ghost Rider. I am at a disadvantage. Since I can't post a picture to back up my claim, and since it's theoretically "not possible" to be over 40 and be an 8, I phrased the question in a way that set aside those preconceived notions, so I could get a thoughtful reply that was relevant. But yeah, trolling. Whatever :)
/r/askMRP24/10/17 10:13 PM
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Great response. Thanks
/r/askMRP24/10/17 09:56 PM
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Actually she does.. no shit. Unless you prefer redheads. Humor me, and assume that for the sake of the discussion that she's an 8. What answer would you give then?
/r/askMRP24/10/17 09:55 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/user/NickSanto534 This dude has one arm and no legs and is flipping tires over in his backyard. Get some crutches or wheelchair, and get to the gym. OH Press, Bench, Curls, Shoulder Press. Shit. I can think of 20 lifts you could do without your feet. Start there.
/r/askMRP26/09/17 10:27 PM
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It was close. Very close. About three different times, I about put the blinker on and flipped a U-Turn. Fake it till you make it, right? That's what bothered me the most about this, is that it bothered me. If I was fully in my own strong frame it wouldn't have bothered me at all. Baby steps.
/r/askMRP05/09/17 09:57 PM
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To be honest, I was pissed. I felt like I just wasted 20 years of my life, time, money, energy, passion etc. On a fruitless mission. In fact I was REALLY pissed. Just like the Matrix, you deny, deny, deny. Then you wake up one morning, and get to work. -Lift -Read -STFU Lather, rinse, repeat every damn day. It's funny, I actually dealt with the most shit tests when I started improving myself. Truly AWALT, in more ways than you can imagine. She will block you, try to embarrass you, humiliate you,…
/r/askMRP31/08/17 10:15 PM
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Right. Same question here. I read these accounts and think "Hell yeah, I would love that" but the reality hits. Trying to turn the ship from slightly above average sex life, with 3 times a year BJ's, and a wife that knows all your moves. (or lack thereof) how to you intro this stuff w/o coming across like a pervert? (which I am of course) Having said that, I'm committed to bringing out the slut in her. I have slowly pushed the edge each time and no complaints at all. (trust me, my wife is about …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/17 09:54 PM
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"Her only weapon is your fear of what she will do." This needs to be on a plaque somewhere. Truth. If you want to watch the show, push the envelope until Defcon 1 is reached, and nukes are launched. After she launches, she will pace back and forth like there is a room missing in the house, with nowhere to go. She's out of ammo. She nuked, the shock wave hit, and guess what? You are like that fucking arch in Hiroshima. Standing there. Life goes on.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/17 05:17 PM
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Great reply. Something clicked when I read that in the sidebar. Not being afraid of her emotions. It's pretty liberating when you realize, that you being afraid of her anger/emotions, is what keeps you "in check" in her mind. Once you cross the line, she's firing blanks. Kinda funny to watch actually.
/r/askMRP23/08/17 05:34 PM
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Interesting. Did you just bring up the "covert contract" portion of NNMG? Or was it a wider ranging discussion of RP in general?
/r/askMRP20/06/17 10:41 PM
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Point taken
/r/askMRP20/06/17 09:31 PM
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I felt myself cringe as I typed it.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 09:30 PM
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That actually made me laugh out loud. Yeah, sounds retarded. Point taken.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 09:30 PM
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I have listened. Said nothing. Just throwing out a question. I think I'll keep my dick (for now at least)
/r/askMRP20/06/17 09:29 PM
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I haven't. And my intention was not to tell her that I'm changing. She knows and sees it. But you are right, instead of baking the cake at 350 degrees for 45 minutes, I guess I was thinking crank it up to 500 for 10 minutes and hope it doesn't burn.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 09:28 PM
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Great post. This is the kind of day in day out small success that you can build on. I still catch myself "Deer'ing" and have to stop. Silly me, I thought that I had to explain every action to my wife and get down in the "emotional trenches" with her. This is a perfect example of not being an ass, but just OYS, calm, collected and move on. Strong work.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 05:08 PM
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I might be off here, but isn't just rolling over and not saying anything coming off as Butt hurt? As well as just not saying anything to her the next morning? I would have kissed her good night, told her to sleep well. Hopped out of bed and gone and done something in another room for a couple of hours. Then the next morning, I would have acted like everything was fine.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 06:37 PM
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This. I used to think my wife was that way as well. It's quite enlightening to see what happens when you DGAF. Try it. You'll like it. I always thought my wife ran things because she wanted to. Nope. I was a drunk captian (or cabin boy if you prefer) and wasn't taking the lead.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 06:39 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself. I would do the same thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 08:30 PM
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This is probably the most honest response I've seen. Am I awesome as Fuck? No. But I'm working on it. Finances are great (have been for years) abs are just starting to show (need another 45-60 days to really be ripped) Just about to pull even with my wife in SMV. It's gonna take an act of god to get 2 points above her. But I WILL do it.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 09:07 PM
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Same here. I'm done with that shit.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 06:51 PM
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All good points. Number 3 is 100%. I know this.
/r/askMRP10/12/16 06:44 AM
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Agreed. I think you can maintain 10% pretty much ongoing. Should see some abs, and nice muscle definition.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 09:37 PM
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haha.. I know what you mean. I did that last night at the gym. (we have a full gym in the house, far away from where she was at the time) in between each set I was using the punching bag like a baby. I'm over it. It's funny. Lifting cures what ails me now. Pissed at the wife? Lift. Bad day at work. Lift. Pissed that I can't lift as much as I want? Lift. I've taken a little heat from the Mrs over my gym habits, but I told her it's not changing. No more resistance.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 08:53 PM
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I do think it's a bit of a hangup. And she has been validated by her friends who have sex much less than we do, and probably don't give head either. So, she feels justified. But to your point about finding a compromise. Nope. Not going to talk about it again. As others have said, "she knows what I want" let the hamster run.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 08:48 PM
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Agreed. She actually does want to make me happy. But with limits (obviously) and yes, I will NOT be bringing it up. But like I said in the reply above, I actually didn't bring it up this time. She did. Which means (like you said) that she is aware it's an issue for me. To your other point about how bad I need it. I guess ultimately it's about validation. So, yeah. Work to do obviously.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 08:47 PM
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100% spot on. You are right. I'm working on lifting and SMV improvements almost to the point of OCD. And yes, that big covert contract is hanging there. Pissed. But working through it. I guess this would be the "anger phase"
/r/askMRP08/12/16 08:44 PM
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Yup, you are right. Dropped. Although, to be honest, I've only brought it up once after 20 years of marriage. SHE brought it up last night. But you are right, I'm constantly thinking about it. Yup. Need to forget about it.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 08:43 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/askMRP22/11/16 06:09 PM
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Good post. I think (for me at least) it was good to get a Dexa scan, to know where I started in terms of BF%. Not "broscience" but actual BF number. It was the best $50 I've spent. Oh, and Compound lifts FTW
/r/askMRP18/11/16 12:15 AM
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This is great advice. And frankly what I need to be doing as well. Gym is my happy place now.
/r/askMRP16/11/16 11:50 PM
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As I've unplugged, I've slowly started that. A&A is fun, and works pretty much every time. It's amazing how quickly it shuts shit down vs DEER'ing. (of which I was the worlds worst offender) I'm pretty much a two trick pony at this stage. STFU and A&A.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 10:10 PM
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That's good advice (on not being butthurt) and that's been one of my biggest challenges. I don't want starfish.. and I've told her as much. At any rate, it's so damn hard not to be butthurt, but I'm learning. Seems to be a fine line in not being butthurt and not being a indifferent asshole about it. Tightrope.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 10:08 PM
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If you would have asked me 6 months ago if she was submissive, I would have said "no way". She plans everything, takes care of everything around the house. And in general owning her shit. But you ask me today, and the answer is different. She was doing that because of the vacuum I left in my beta pussy wake. On your last comment, "let her know, build that sense of self up" how do I do that w/o putting her on a pedestal? How do you bump up your SMV w/o pushing hers up ahead of you with compliment…
/r/askMRP10/11/16 05:42 PM
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Very true.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 05:40 PM
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"They all say they hate muscles, unit you have them. You'll see" Yeah, stupid me just figuring this out now. I've never been overweight, but in times in my life where I have been in better shape, I find her rubbing my arms or abs during sex. But then verbally says "I hate muscles". Damn I'm stupid. Spending all these years paying attention to what she is saying, instead of what she is doing. That, and trying to negotiate passion. I feel like the biggest douchebag in the world. (yanking spine con…
/r/askMRP10/11/16 05:39 PM
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Good advice. Reading now. Thanks
/r/askMRP10/11/16 05:36 PM
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That's a negative.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 05:35 PM
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Oh yeah. 24 years of it. But that was my old blue pill self trying to get her self worth up, thinking that it would result in her being more confident. Which would result in better sex. Wow.. that was lame
/r/askMRP10/11/16 05:35 PM
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Good advice. STFU is the main weapon. It's hard for me, but I'm learning. And yes, busting my ass in the gym, hair and clothes are on point now as well. Trying to close the gap
/r/askMRP09/11/16 11:38 PM
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Working through some of them now. NMMNG really hit home with me. It's interesting/scary to read a book by someone you have never met, and have so many things that are just dead on to your situation. I have to be careful (as I'm sure others do here) in making too many changes too fast. #1 Because I'm sure I'll screw it up. #2 She needs to take in the new me a little at a time to see that it's the new reality and it's here to stay. I'm naturally an extrovert, and the "life of the party" kind of gu…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:58 PM
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Understood, and agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:54 PM
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No, I don't think I'm special. That's why I asked "has anyone here had a similar situation and was MRP the answer?" Just a question. I wasn't asking to have my hand held. I'm willing to do the work, I guess at the heart of it, you always want to see those success stories that line up with your own situation to have something to aim for, that's all.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:53 PM
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Yeah, you are probably right about the wife goggles. Hard to see things as they are after this long. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:51 PM
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Hard to say how many posts I've read. Thousands? 50% through the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 04:54 PM
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Got it. But by "do the work" you mean reading (not only sidebar) but threads and posts right? If you basically tell everyone to fuck off that posts on here, I would assume it would severely limit your reading material, and hamper your ability to "do the work" right? I didn't ask anyone to do my work for me, just simply intro'd my situation and asked for similar experiences and what pieces of the material had worked for them. My .02 would be, point someone in the right direction, or even critique…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 04:52 PM
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I get that everyone has to go through the "you are an asshole" spanking tunnel here when first post, but my grammar was fine, correct spelling, paragraphs, and even some punctuation here and there. I assumed that we are all here to learn, right? Let's make it productive. Thank you for the bullet point responses, that actually was helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 02:39 PM
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Thanks for helpful reply. At no point did I ask anyone to do the work for me, I was simply asking if anyone had a specific situation identical to mine, and what worked for them. Not every solution (Mrp included) is a one size fits all.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 02:34 PM
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I'm working on the sidebar. Good point, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 03:53 AM
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Yes, actually I have. Obviously have not read them all, and there is quite a bit to sort through. I'm not scared of reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 03:51 AM
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Is there a part that you didn't understand?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 03:49 AM
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